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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Haley and Max in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
With these two together, anything can happen.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
It's number one for fun.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Yeah, good morning, and I feel that fun coming through
your speakers. Three past six and Max Perfume get up.
Speaker 4 (00:14):
Real close to the speakers. I feel that the fun,
so much fun. We can do an as Mr.
Speaker 5 (00:22):
Yeah, don't you know I hate whispering.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
I'm doing this fear of whispering.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Don't stop.
Speaker 5 (00:28):
I'm leaving the.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Studio, don't don't.
Speaker 5 (00:33):
The worst is when you have like a banana and
it's you hear the like.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
That him in this.
Speaker 6 (00:44):
Hailey really has a great fear of this wet it.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
I hate and quiet talkers, people who talk really quietly.
Speaker 5 (00:52):
We had it yesterday. I went speed dating last night.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Why did you do that? You have a husband kids?
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Well, he was there, and so was one of my children.
My oldest son was there.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
Did you all find love?
Speaker 3 (01:02):
So?
Speaker 5 (01:02):
What it was we walked into this massive room.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
We got coffee, there was a little coffee there before,
and he walked in this huge room like a big stadium,
and there's like seventy five little tables all set up
and you have fifteen minutes with.
Speaker 5 (01:16):
Each partner and then you move along.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
It was parent teacher interviews, right, and so it was
literally like speed dating and like to the point that
you'll be with one teacher that you've kind of wrapped up.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Before the fifteen minutes, and then you're just like talking about,
like doing small talk for a bit, waiting for the bell.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Like waiting like hurry up, and then there's other teachers
to be like, please don't ring the bell yet, I want.
Speaker 5 (01:36):
To keep talking to you.
Speaker 4 (01:37):
Yeah, okay, did your son.
Speaker 5 (01:41):
Was being quiet talking? He was being really because he's
my oldest son. He was a bit Yeah, he was
a bit shy and he was just like quite talking.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I'm like, talk louder, and everyone was looking around me.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Hey, yesterday we started talking about weight loss drugs and
a Zempka monjaro and things like that, and the phones
went wild and blew up this huge debate. Today we're
going to get some cracking success stories seven forty here
the people that have changed their lives on these things.
Speaker 6 (02:08):
Yeah, we're going to talk about this, we think all
week now. So today's going to be success. Tomorrow might
be things that were less successful. But if you are
one of those people that has had a success story
place of course anytime, So anyone three reach out to us.
Speaker 4 (02:20):
We would love to hear from you.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Yeah, baby, dead or alive. It's our favorite game. We
play every morning.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
We go through cycles until we get bored of it.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
They don't mean leaves our body.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
We like it.
Speaker 4 (02:32):
We like it for now and.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
We always have an amazing listener that we play for.
Speaker 6 (02:38):
Yeah, we've both got to listen to each I'm playing
for Nick in Gola. Nick's a truck driver.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Nick.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
What have you been driving around this morning?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Mate?
Speaker 7 (02:45):
I just did a load of flowers, actually had the
colts a lot of flowers to excellent.
Speaker 5 (02:50):
Do you ever just take some home to your wife?
Speaker 8 (02:53):
I took her mind from Mother's Day last week.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
Yes, yeah, beautiful.
Speaker 6 (02:56):
Not out the back of your own truck, though, because
you wouldn't do that to Carles.
Speaker 9 (02:59):
Well, I are yeah, and they let you.
Speaker 5 (03:02):
That's really nice.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Good.
Speaker 5 (03:04):
Oh, you're a good guy.
Speaker 6 (03:06):
They keep Australia moving. I'm playing for Nick. Who have
you got?
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Fish? Fish?
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Why are you called fish?
Speaker 4 (03:16):
I love it?
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Fish?
Speaker 4 (03:17):
And what are you doing up early? Fish?
Speaker 1 (03:19):
I just started work?
Speaker 10 (03:20):
What's I'm a groundskeeper at a school.
Speaker 5 (03:23):
Good on you.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
You'd be happy if you get seasons finished.
Speaker 9 (03:26):
No, no, no, it's football, so you.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Can't win, mate. Do you know what you can win?
One hundred dollars ours for HD?
Speaker 6 (03:32):
Yes, all right, you're playing for Fish. I'm playing for Nick.
Each going to get three, will work out the mats
as we go, alive, all right.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Good, all right, we'll start with Haley Margaret Thatcher.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Good one, Margaret Thatcher. It was very very sad when
she passed away.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Well done, thank you, I thought, did you guess that?
Speaker 8 (03:57):
No?
Speaker 2 (03:57):
I know she's got long gone man?
Speaker 4 (04:00):
You did, Nick?
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Naughty.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
I don't know who that is. He's an actor.
Speaker 6 (04:06):
I have no idea who that is. I'm sorry, Nick
from Gaula who I'm playing for? So I'm going to
say that he's alive.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
One of your favorites, Rick Morianus.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Here was Rick Morianas, also an actor.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
He was on like Honey, I Shrunk the Kids and
Stuff Dad that movie.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Oh I love that movie too.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
Okay, So he was in number one and number two
and then he kind.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
Of disappeared and they haven't rebooted it.
Speaker 5 (04:35):
No, I think he's passed away. That was sad when
he died.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
He's alive.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
What are you doing now?
Speaker 4 (04:43):
Having the funniest last name that I've heard this morning.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Max, Patrick Swayzey.
Speaker 5 (04:52):
That's an easy question.
Speaker 4 (04:54):
You need to get this to stay alive or else
one hundred dollars.
Speaker 5 (04:57):
I love Patrick was so hot.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
The day Martin Sheen.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
I like Martin she Oh good, we had white hair
for a long time.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
Has you got the sheen of someone who's alive or dead?
Speaker 2 (05:15):
She I don't know, she I don't know.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
That's what I thought you said.
Speaker 5 (05:20):
He is definitely alive.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Still I get this. I win. Come on all right, Max,
Judy Dench, I do den I.
Speaker 6 (05:32):
Love Dame Judy Dench loved still alive. Yes, James Bond
and you, Nikki and Goli. You got one hundred age
days about.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Your How good?
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Let's go, Max, cheers, how good?
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Hungry jacks for you? What I mean?
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Fish?
Speaker 6 (05:55):
Sorry, fish, hopefully all that lorn is you know, nice
and neat this morning for.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Graduating.
Speaker 5 (06:03):
Can you call us every day?
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Fish?
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Thank you?
Speaker 1 (06:10):
Everyone, hand matches, yes, basket fall.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Neither of us love the wall. We don't like the
wall at all.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
We don't.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
But every day we go to our wall and we
pick an envelope, and inside that envelope is a deeply
personal question. Yesterday was Max's turn.
Speaker 6 (06:32):
When was the last time you wanted the world to
swallow you up whole? I love this, So it's really
in the embarrassing stories line, and I have one that
you are going to deeply love.
Speaker 5 (06:42):
Its going to be good.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
I know you love it. When I'm uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
I love vulnerable Max.
Speaker 4 (06:46):
Uncomfortable Max, You're about to get him.
Speaker 6 (06:49):
So we were at the football a couple of weeks
ago and I reckon it might have been gathering around.
It was the Port Adelaide Hawthorne game. It was on
the Sunday night, was the last game of the round.
My brother was over. We had a big row of seat.
We were right at the back of the southern stand,
near the top of the River Bank stand, and it's
quite steep up there, and when you get right up
the back, they tend to be some more spare seats.
(07:10):
So we're sitting there and I have a whole empty.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
Row next to him.
Speaker 6 (07:14):
He probably eight seats, so the people in the row
behind us were using that little gap to walk in
and then step over a seat to get up to
their seats behind him, instead of having to make the
people get up and down.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
All the time.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
So there's a bloke that walked in. He would have
been I'm.
Speaker 6 (07:27):
Guessing maybe about sixty to seventy years old.
Speaker 4 (07:30):
He walked up with four beers in his hand, he
had the tray.
Speaker 6 (07:34):
He was holding the tray and he walks down the
line and I see him coming.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
I don't want a man to spill its.
Speaker 6 (07:40):
Beers, so I'm helping him with the beers, handing them
over the back. And then I see him judging whether
or not he can make the step up to go
over the seat behind him, to step up into where
he is sitting.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
I don't know if he's got it. I said, can
I give you a hand, mate? And he looks at me.
He hands the.
Speaker 6 (07:55):
Tray with the beers over to the person that was
sitting behind him, and then he holds up his other hand,
but he doesn't have a hand.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Oh what do you mean?
Speaker 6 (08:07):
He has had his hand amputated from about halfway down
his forea. And he looked at me like dead serious,
and I was.
Speaker 4 (08:18):
Just like, oh my god. But then, oh, thank the Lord,
he smiled at me.
Speaker 6 (08:26):
He's clearly gotten people on this many many times before,
because he could see my face drop, because I just
asked to give him a hand and he doesn't have
that hand one and he goes, nah, it's all good, mate,
and he laughed, and I was like, oh, thank the Lord.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
But at least he can make fun of it.
Speaker 5 (08:48):
He would do that on purpose.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Probably, Yeah, I'll go get the beers. I want people
to feel really uncomfortable when they asked for a hand.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Yeah, can I give you a hand getting up there?
Speaker 1 (08:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (08:58):
I can, and then we hide.
Speaker 5 (09:09):
He's okay.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
Big day in America today. Ditty's trial has just kicked
off in New York City.
Speaker 5 (09:18):
Man, I would actually love to be part of that
and watching wall.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
Yeah. He's currently on trial for two counts of transportation
to engage in prostitution, two counts of sex trafficking, and
one count of racketeering. On the first day in court,
the jury heard stories of male prostitutes urinating in Diddy's
formal partner's mouth during a free cough party.
Speaker 5 (09:41):
This is so yuck.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Diddy's team is arguing that he's a swinger and that
all these acts were consensual. Obviously, you're in court for
a reason because people are saying otherwise. He was spotted
allegedly reading the Bible during the first day in court, Like,
that's going to get your brownie con, isn't it.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
It's going to have everything.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
And this would definitely be a Netflix documentary in the
coming months. They'll be filming there, so this will be something.
Speaker 5 (10:08):
He's just it's not even that. If you've seen his documentary,
it's not even just about that.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
It's about all the all the people that die around him.
That's just very bizarre. Young healthy people dying of allegedly
heart attacks.
Speaker 4 (10:21):
Allegedly, well they're dead.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
Allegedly they're dead, it's not allegedly.
Speaker 4 (10:25):
I don't know how legal system works, so I'm just
going to say allegedly.
Speaker 5 (10:28):
Just pepper around allegedly everywhere we say okay.
Speaker 4 (10:30):
It's been reported it's been reported that.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
Lizzo has revealed she's hid part of her body for
a whole year. Lisso when I saw this, I was like, no,
you need to be confident girl.
Speaker 5 (10:45):
She's been hiding her toenail.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
She's lost a toenail, and she decided, yeah, need good
quarterback defensive lineman. She she's embarrassed having no tone out,
which I totally get. You'd be wearing full shoes for
a year I've a listened to this.
Speaker 11 (11:05):
I knew that I had a celebrity foot reading and
it was quite high. And then my toenel fell off
and I was not able to wear open toss shoes
for a year. And it was like a turtle shell.
There was like another toenall growing underneath.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
Oh, like a shark, like double teeth, double toenails.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Did she say celebrity foot rating?
Speaker 2 (11:25):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (11:26):
Is there one you'd like to look up? Your celebrity
foot rating, Hayley, I do.
Speaker 5 (11:30):
Get some comments on my Instagram about my feet.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
Yep, it's nice and weird. It's nice and weird.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
It's so weird. Okay, we've got some more Tina Arena news.
Speaker 4 (11:41):
You lost a bit of a stir yesterday with your
Tina Arena news.
Speaker 5 (11:43):
Well, a video guy put up a video.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
Of what we were talking about yesterday. Tina Arena people.
Speaker 6 (11:50):
Needed to leave her concerts to go to the bathroom
shoes calling them out, and you're suggesting that they need
to go because.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
They're they're older. And then I called her Tenor Arena
like Tenor Lady, and a lot of people were being
mean and now.
Speaker 5 (12:03):
I feel terrible.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Steve comments on it.
Speaker 6 (12:06):
I've just got Steve said so funny not Oh yeah,
I googled him last night. And then NASAs replied and said, agree,
she thought she was funny, but that was stupid.
Speaker 5 (12:15):
I didn't think I'm funny.
Speaker 6 (12:16):
Body el came to your rescue. Was pretty funny, laughing face.
And then NASA's replied again, I don't think that was funny,
making fun of Tina.
Speaker 5 (12:24):
I know I'm not a sister. If I'm doing that,
I do feel bad.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
There is another story of a brawl has broken out
at her Melbourne gig. A woman in the audience was
said to have begun swinging and punching strangers in the audience.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
Arena.
Speaker 4 (12:42):
Gig.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
My god, I haven't listened to this. I would really
really appreciated. I would appreciate, appreciate.
Speaker 4 (13:00):
I'm sorry Steve and NASA.
Speaker 6 (13:01):
So we're defending you on Facebook, but Tina's saying appreciation.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
All right, hey you get more hot Team mix two
three dot Comedy. We know you'd appreciate a thousand dollars.
We've had great debate forming another one.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
Yeah. We're just reading an article today an advertiser, and
they're saying that hundreds of parents head overseas every year
to undergo the controversial practice of gender selections. Yeah, it's
currently not legal in Australia.
Speaker 4 (13:29):
I can't do it here.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
But so the people are going overseas to say, yeah,
I want a boy or I want a girl.
Speaker 6 (13:35):
Yeah, it's an IVF thing and you can go over
and like in the States, for example, there's a couple
of people who do it and it is legal and
you can choose and they can say boy coming up and.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
It costs forty five thousand dollars in your obn. I
find this so bizarre. I know in Australia there are
exceptions when your child might be at a high risk
if it was of a disability or something, if it
was of a certain gene. There are little exceptions like that.
But and that's fair enough, but do you know how
(14:09):
hard it is to get pregnant in the first place.
Getting pregnant is hard, and then having to go, oh yeah,
I just want to go and have a boy. I
just find that so dangerous on so many levels. Not
dangerous for the person, like as in like health wise,
but dangerous and like the imbalance of genders nature. Yeah,
and I always think, like the irony of things if
(14:31):
you go overseas and you're like, yeah, I really want
a boy, right, and then that boy grows up to
be transgender and wants to be a girl. Well, sure,
like there's all statistically that's a very low yeah, but
there are those things happening. If you like, do you
find it weird?
Speaker 6 (14:45):
I agree with you that nature exists for a reason. Yeah,
and we've got this far as a human society. But
it would be nice to be able to choose. It's
nice to be able to choose things. We have scientific
advancements all the time and things that weren't possible ten
years ago. Like, oh, actually, now that I can choose that,
maybe I wouldn't mind choosing to have a boy.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
But also for the other kids going oh, yes, mum
wanted to have a girl and you're a boy like
the other kids in the family.
Speaker 5 (15:11):
I just find it's so weird people have that. Now,
just have a baby and be happy with having a child.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
People, a healthy child.
Speaker 6 (15:17):
You do, you do have the child, and you are
happy with it, even if it's not the gender you want.
Everyone's always like, yeah, of course I love my baby,
But what if you could choose? This is the whole
point of scientific advancement.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
But if you could choose, Okay, if you could choose,
I would say that most of my friends would choose
to have a girl. Right, so if because they just
do girls, I'm not this is a massive generalization.
Speaker 4 (15:37):
You hate men, I don't.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
I love born boys. I wanted boys. So, but most
of my friends are like, I hope it's a girl.
I hope it's a girl. And people always say to me,
or if you have a third you hope it's a girl.
I'm like, no, I just hope I have a healthy baby.
Speaker 5 (15:48):
I don't really care.
Speaker 4 (15:49):
I'd like to have at least one boy. Wouldn't we
have children?
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Yeah, but I think you would change as soon as
you become a dad.
Speaker 6 (15:55):
I get out would change. I'm not doubting that. Like,
if we got pregnant and it was again.
Speaker 4 (16:00):
Girl, you would love it, love, It'd be awesome.
Speaker 6 (16:02):
Yeah, but right now, without any plans to be pregnant
next week, if you told me to pick a gender,
I'd say, maybe I prefer a boy.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
So, but this is where the fights would come with parents,
because I reckon most women would go girl, most guys
want a boy. And then there's the fight of like, well,
what do we choose anyway? Why don't we just let
nature happen? I think you see what happens happened.
Speaker 6 (16:23):
I think even it costs so much money you have
to go over there's not that many people that are
going to do it.
Speaker 4 (16:27):
It's not going to affect the imbalance of earth.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Why is it so important forty five thousand dollars to
have a boy or a girl?
Speaker 6 (16:35):
Like?
Speaker 2 (16:35):
Will you be that disappointed? Do you know the worst
part about this article? They're just saying a Melbourne IVF
medical director has said the amount of patients who conceive
naturally but terminated a pregnancy based on the sex of
their baby.
Speaker 4 (16:49):
People do that.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
That is disgusting. Can you imagine the people that just
like are trying to get pregnant, they hear those stories.
Speaker 4 (16:57):
With those feel unlucky.
Speaker 2 (16:58):
That's so good.
Speaker 1 (16:59):
I'm great.
Speaker 5 (17:00):
Oh, I'm so ungrateful.
Speaker 6 (17:01):
If you're out there later and this is striking a
chord with you, please thirty one O two three. If
you are as passionate about this as Haley and I.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
Ah, I guess like you've had like, say, five boys,
and you really want a girl then, But I still
wouldn't I wouldn't I'd still let nature decide.
Speaker 3 (17:18):
Thirty one O two three Would you choose if you
could choose? Or would you just let nature run its course?
Speaker 2 (17:25):
Right now, we're talking about the hundreds of parents who
are heading overseas every year to undergo the controversial practice
of gender selection. It's currently banned in Australia on ethical grounds,
and I think that's excellent and I don't want them
to change the rules. I find it's so bizarre that
people would mess with nature like that.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
Do you think it's unnatural? I'm thinking.
Speaker 6 (17:43):
I mean, if you can afford to go over there,
there's not that many people that are doing it. It's
not really going to mess with the world. If you
want to have a boy or a girl, you get
to choose.
Speaker 5 (17:50):
Who cares if it's a boy or girl?
Speaker 1 (17:51):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (17:53):
But why?
Speaker 6 (17:54):
I just want to healthy on facebooks written and said
what's wrong with it? If we get to choose in
this modern world?
Speaker 4 (17:58):
Why not? There are more important things to worry about.
You being too sensitive?
Speaker 2 (18:01):
I think there's more important things to worry about than that,
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (18:05):
Iry you're allowed to worry about something.
Speaker 5 (18:07):
You're not allowed to do any most important.
Speaker 6 (18:10):
We've got people calling in on thirty and one, two
three to join us on this debate. Allison in Dover Gardens,
you've got a mate overseas in Canada that did this.
Speaker 4 (18:18):
What happened?
Speaker 9 (18:19):
Yeah, So she had two boys to start with naturally
and then decided she really wanted a girl, so she
went over to the US and had the procedure, and
because of a medical condition, she only got one viable
egg and it ended up being a male.
Speaker 4 (18:38):
Also, it didn't work.
Speaker 9 (18:40):
Well, it's not that it didn't work, it's just she
didn't get enough eggs to be able to choose.
Speaker 4 (18:44):
I guess.
Speaker 9 (18:46):
So she had one viable egg, which was a male,
so they decided not to use it. It's still frozen,
I believe.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
Wow.
Speaker 9 (18:53):
And then they tried naturally for a third because they thought, well,
maybe if we just try again, we'll get a female,
and ended up having a male baby a few months
or like a year later.
Speaker 4 (19:07):
Just got strong male swimmers in those genes.
Speaker 2 (19:09):
Yeah. I would hate to know growing up that my
mum and dad were disappointing with who I was.
Speaker 6 (19:13):
It's not disappointed, it is like, if you can it's
the third one along, but.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
Forty five thousand dollars there's a lot of investment to
pick a gender.
Speaker 9 (19:22):
They're very happy with their three boys from what I know,
but I think it would have been nice if they
think it would have been nice to have a girl.
Speaker 2 (19:29):
I remember, there's there's a there's a thing that you
can do to increase your chances of it being a
boy as to.
Speaker 5 (19:35):
When you conceive.
Speaker 2 (19:37):
So when you're ovulating, it's like, I can't remember that
if it's like earlier or later. But if you do
at the beginning of ovulation, there's more chance that it's
one or.
Speaker 4 (19:44):
The other the time that you getting.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
So people try that because they want to have a.
Speaker 4 (19:48):
I think that they're all sorts of wives tales. I
don't know.
Speaker 5 (19:50):
They say the sporting of the man.
Speaker 2 (19:52):
Then they have all boys.
Speaker 4 (19:55):
I can't remember boys.
Speaker 6 (19:57):
Then you know, thank you Allison, appreciate that. That's interesting.
Be give so brainer in Burton. What do you reckon?
Speaker 1 (20:04):
Hi?
Speaker 12 (20:05):
I think you get what you get. Really, I don't
think you should be choosing.
Speaker 4 (20:12):
Okay, yeah, why do you think that's?
Speaker 6 (20:14):
Well?
Speaker 12 (20:15):
My partner Chris and I have been trying for the
past five years to get pregnant and I have still
been un sexfolk successful.
Speaker 10 (20:26):
Yeah, we've gone.
Speaker 12 (20:27):
Through you know, IVF and everything, and just because we're
a little bit older, we've pretty much been told that
we will not have any chances of ever getting pregnant.
We still try naturally. But so when I hear stories
like this where people already have babies, but then they
are now trying to choose this gender of their baby,
(20:50):
it just makes me really frustrated, because how lucky are
you that you've got them where I don't have so
many people like me who have and try and try
with no success.
Speaker 2 (21:03):
Yeah, that's You're you and the millions of other people
going through exactly what you're going through. Is exactly what
I thought this morning when I read this story.
Speaker 6 (21:11):
Yeah, it's heartbreaking for Sabrina. She's in a different situation
to other people.
Speaker 1 (21:15):
Though.
Speaker 4 (21:15):
We had Jonathan right in who couldn't join us on
the line.
Speaker 6 (21:17):
He said he already has two girls and he would
love his final child.
Speaker 4 (21:22):
They're only gonna have three. He would love it to
be a boy.
Speaker 6 (21:24):
So if he's given the option to have a boy,
you're robbing him that chance.
Speaker 5 (21:29):
I just think you're messing with nature. Just let it run.
Speaker 4 (21:32):
Its course.
Speaker 6 (21:32):
I don't think we're going to answer everyone's questions today.
We're just going to arguing.
Speaker 1 (21:37):
We don't like.
Speaker 5 (21:37):
Arguing to we we love each other.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
We are talking about something that I think a lot
of people are talking about.
Speaker 6 (21:44):
A fat chat drug, the fat shot drug, the fat
shot again.
Speaker 1 (21:48):
Donald, it's a fat chat drug.
Speaker 6 (21:51):
Fat shot drug, fair chat drug, also known as ZMPEA or.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
There's a lot of different drugs coming out doing the
same thing. But we're talking about this because we got
an email from Kelly, one of our beautiful listeners, saying
she she's tried everything. She's in her early forties, she's
done it all and nothing's working. She wants to go
on a ZMPi, but also really nervous because you hear
a lot of bad stuff and we want to know
the good stuff though, so we want to we're laying
(22:18):
it on the line this week and we're trying to
help out Kelly, but also a lot of other people
who are maybe on the fence too.
Speaker 6 (22:23):
Yeah, and we're not doctors, so we want to hear
your personal stories on thirty one O two three because,
as Kelly says, I've tried all the diets.
Speaker 4 (22:30):
Yeah, tried exercise. I've done the crying.
Speaker 2 (22:33):
We're not doctors. I am friends with an anethesist. I
can never say her job, but she made a really
good point. When she's aneth the sizing people, when she's
putting people under, it's actually dangerous if you're a lot
bigger so and it's a really tricky thing. That's why
doctors are probably encouraging you to lose weight for reasons
like that.
Speaker 6 (22:52):
This was the argument that my wife Eliza made, is
that you get to a point where if you're if
you're a skinny woman who just wants to love a
skinny man, anyone who just wants to lose like an
extra twequilos, it.
Speaker 4 (23:03):
Shouldn't be for you risk reward.
Speaker 6 (23:05):
Yeah, if you're one hundred and eighty kilos, you're at
risk of a lot of things. Diabetes, yeah, hood under
Maybe this is the risk that you need to take. Yeah,
we've had a whole bunch of people calling in and
we would love you to call in again. Today's success stories.
Please yes, thirday one, O two three.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
Elena in Woodville, What is your what is your stance
on this?
Speaker 6 (23:26):
Just?
Speaker 7 (23:26):
How are you? I just want to put a pot
of positive skill on this. I know these reservations about
taking the drug, and you hear lots of her in
the stories, but can I just share that my son
who's thirty nine, we lost my son in law and
through depression that he put on a lot of way,
he got up to one hundred kilos. So he went
(23:47):
to the doctors about ten weeks ago. We knew he
wasn't in a good place, but not as bad as
we were told, and he was virtually told you don't
change your lifestyle and do something about it, you're not
going to be around. As a result, Adam was put
on the zen pic straight away. There was no question asked.
We're on a massive diet, no carbs, no slits, no sugars.
(24:09):
He was borderline diabetic, tancred of tigers a whole lot.
Can I say that in ten weeks Adam has lost
twenty kiloads. His cholesterol has gone from fourteen to three.
He's tried good to go on from forty two to four.
Speaker 5 (24:28):
Wow, he's a new nion So okay.
Speaker 2 (24:31):
So it's helped him not just lose weight for confidence,
but with all these other medical conditions.
Speaker 7 (24:35):
It was more than medical reasons that he was mate,
changed his lifestyle, or he was not going to be
around within the next year.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
That was less positive. Okay, thank you, thank you for
sharing that.
Speaker 6 (24:49):
You for sharing that is a positive outcome, and that is,
as we said, one of the situations where it does
sound like this might be the perfect thing to do
in our non medical Yeah, but even though.
Speaker 2 (24:59):
We don't I don't know the effects that might happen
in ten years or whatever. But maybe, like you said,
the risk, it's worth it.
Speaker 6 (25:04):
Hey, if you've got a high cholesterol and you're gonna
get hard disease, you might not be here in ten years.
Speaker 5 (25:08):
Yeah, so true.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
Okay, we are opening the phone lines thirteen one or
two three. We'd love to hear the success stories if
you've been on something or you know someone who's been
on a ZENPI or something similar.
Speaker 6 (25:18):
Yeah, if you get if you've got something negative, that's fine,
save that. We'll talk about that tomorrow. Today's success stories.
And we've got some Disney on ice passes as well
for our favorite calls.
Speaker 1 (25:27):
We're talking about this fat Hut drug.
Speaker 4 (25:30):
Mb A fat shut drug.
Speaker 5 (25:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (25:33):
This is because Kelly emailed us and said that she's
tried absolutely everything, nothing is helping her lose weight, and
she wants to do it, but she also is hearing
some really negative stories.
Speaker 5 (25:42):
What does she do?
Speaker 6 (25:43):
She said, can you guys help? Can your listeners help?
You won't help her out? Is this something that I
should be going on? And today we have decided we're
doing the positive, the success stories people who've been on
one of these weight loss drugs.
Speaker 4 (25:55):
And tick for me.
Speaker 2 (25:57):
Tomorrow we'll hear the other side of it as well,
so make sure you listen to both sides, please.
Speaker 6 (26:01):
Natalie in paral LOUI, Natalie, you've been on one of these?
Speaker 4 (26:05):
What happened for you?
Speaker 13 (26:08):
Hello? I took wasn't Ozmkick or the other one. It's
called six Tender, which is a weight loss drug, and
I lost close to thirty k loo And I was
on a maintenance doset for about a year and then
(26:31):
I just weaned myself off of it.
Speaker 5 (26:34):
And you haven't put on any weight since.
Speaker 13 (26:36):
I've actually lost more.
Speaker 2 (26:37):
Well, so had you tried everything else before you went
to this?
Speaker 13 (26:42):
Yeah? So, I mean post having my kids, I've got
two boys, it was just a lot harder to lose weight,
and I just it wasn't coming off as quickly as
I wanted it to. Then my sort of cholesterol star
to you know, play a part in it. So then
(27:03):
my doctor offered me the sex ender.
Speaker 6 (27:06):
Right, So, Nadalie, my thing with this and the apprehension
I would suggest for so many people is like, it
just seems like a quick fix. I've done it, How
do you keep it off? So did you change your
habits while you were losing the weight? Did you then
become health? You eat healthy? Did you encourage you to
do that more?
Speaker 2 (27:26):
Yes?
Speaker 13 (27:26):
Correct, So it's just and I suppose I don't know
because obviously it does sort of suppress your appetite, So
I don't know.
Speaker 10 (27:35):
Overn taking the period.
Speaker 13 (27:38):
And it sort of I don't know, shrinks your stomach
or whatever. But even now I can't eat big meal
and you know, not drinking a lot of Like I'm
not interested in soft drink. I'm not interested in any of.
Speaker 4 (27:52):
That stuff anymore.
Speaker 2 (27:53):
Yeah, take soft drink out of your diet. It's the
first thing you need to do.
Speaker 6 (27:56):
Well done. That's a great success story. I'm happy for you, Natalie,
thank you for sharing.
Speaker 2 (28:01):
Let's go to Bernadette and Glenn Elg. We're talking success
stories with a zempic. What's your story.
Speaker 10 (28:08):
Yeah, Look, I've struggled with my weight pretty much all
my life. I could probably, you know, tick off the
same list that Kelly had. I've had two different kinds
of surgery with various rates of success, and it wasn't
until I got onto the medication did my life really change.
And it's around what we call the food noise that
comes with before you take the medication, so it reduces
(28:33):
your appetite. It does a lot of things, but the
appetite suppression, and it's more than just about feeling full.
It's it's the appetite that's behind that that that that shifts,
and it's kind of like an obsession. I suppose.
Speaker 2 (28:50):
Are you saying that that tablets or the injections whatever
have helped more than like surgery.
Speaker 5 (28:56):
Did you have the gas?
Speaker 7 (28:57):
Absolutely?
Speaker 14 (29:00):
I had.
Speaker 10 (29:00):
I had the Yeah, I had the bypass and I
had a stomach band. I did lose a lot of
weight on that, but it was just basically not eating
and it's kind of yeah, yeah, absolutely, My story is
rather complex, but in a nutshell, the medication is the
missing link. And you know, weight loss isn't just about
(29:22):
taking medication or diet or exercise or counseling. It's a
combination of everything, and I've done everything. The medication was
the last bastion and that's that's like I can't And
it's subjective. It's really a personal thing. People have a
lot of opinion around this stuff. Unless you've walked in
my shoes, you don't have a right to have an
(29:43):
opinion on it.
Speaker 4 (29:44):
Yeah, I should go and see your doctor.
Speaker 2 (29:46):
Yeah, thank you for sharing that.
Speaker 4 (29:50):
Yeah, sum up everything.
Speaker 2 (29:52):
Yeah, that's awesome. Thank you. Should we go to Millie
quickly in pain? Them my talking success stories? What's your story?
Speaker 8 (30:00):
So my story is just that I didn't really have
like the time or anything to exercise or change my
diet or anything. So I spoke to my GP about it.
I was just desperate to go from a size twelve
to a size eight. And it looks like a quick
fix and it has been oh, oh you did, and
you're on a zmpit Yeah exactly. Yeah, my GP was
happy for me to do it. I didn't haven't really
(30:21):
tried anything else. I'm just didn't really want to.
Speaker 2 (30:24):
Is it interesting though, because as a size twelve that
is not big at all. That's just that's an average
size probably under average size for Australians. For the doctor
did not recommend to do exercise.
Speaker 8 (30:36):
First, Well, they said it like but I'm I'm fairly
active anyway, but like I've got a busy life and
all my friends were skinnier than me. And I just
asked and he just said, yeah, okay, wow.
Speaker 3 (30:47):
Wow.
Speaker 8 (30:47):
It's like I when I wanted bigger lips, I just
went and got fillers. Like there's just options these days,
so may as well just take what's available.
Speaker 6 (30:54):
I mean, I can see why you would do it,
but really you've got to You've got to, like, don't
you feel like you've cheated. It's not you've got not
got there the healthy way, like Bernadette where she had
this as a supplement to then changing her diet and
then doing more exercise.
Speaker 8 (31:07):
Well, so what my GP said it was okay, and
so I did it. I just I took what was available.
Speaker 2 (31:13):
I don't as it's size twelve, you don't really have
you're not at a high risk for like you know,
heart attacks or anything like that. Because a size twelve
is a normal size. Does it not concern you that
maybe the you know, the side effects and what we're
having now in ten years might not be great for you.
Speaker 8 (31:30):
Oh, I haven't really thought about that, but I mean,
the thing is like I was the biggest out of
all my friends at a size twelve, and I just
wanted to be as hot as my friends. So I
feel like being the biggest of all your friends is
pretty crap for your mental health.
Speaker 7 (31:42):
And now it's not.
Speaker 2 (31:43):
Can I say as well, size doesn't mean hotness, you can.
I think that might be just in your head. Really
doesn't how big you are, You can be just as
beautiful as everybody else.
Speaker 8 (31:53):
I didn't feel it, though, and I feel it now,
like I feel a lot better now. I feel like
I sit in I feel like I oh, yeah, I
don't know. I just I feel like I belong with
my friends now because we're all the same size.
Speaker 4 (32:03):
We asked for positive stories. Yeah, it's a positive story
in Millie's eyes.
Speaker 2 (32:07):
Interesting. I can't believe I was twelve. People are on
a Zmpi's wow.
Speaker 6 (32:11):
Starting to push the limits of what we would think
is who needs to be Hey, she was.
Speaker 4 (32:16):
Allowed to Okay, there for it.
Speaker 5 (32:18):
They're positive stories. Tomorrow we're going to be the opposite.
Speaker 2 (32:20):
We want negative, we want the disaster stories because we
want to get both sides.
Speaker 3 (32:25):
Your weight loss drug horror story seven forty tomorrow on
Mix ten.
Speaker 6 (32:30):
Questions, sixty seconds, a thousand dollars, ok, Alien mass money minute. Oh,
we're so excited to give this money away today. We
have to do it at least once a week. We
got so close yesterday. We're just one off.
Speaker 4 (32:43):
We want to do it.
Speaker 2 (32:44):
We get bored saying this every day. Just win, win,
so we don't have to say it all the time.
Speaker 6 (32:48):
You idiot. Well, there's some good pressure to put on
our caller today. Who's playing the money minute? Sarah Fally
Morning Sarah.
Speaker 7 (32:58):
Good morning guys.
Speaker 15 (32:59):
How's it going?
Speaker 8 (33:00):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (33:00):
Good, so good?
Speaker 5 (33:01):
Sarah.
Speaker 4 (33:01):
You are not an idiot? No, you absolutely not. Do
you play along with this every day? Sarah?
Speaker 7 (33:05):
Look, I try to, but I'll be honest.
Speaker 16 (33:07):
I'm I'm confident, but I'm sometimes I get one or
two lots.
Speaker 5 (33:11):
That's a right to day Today day. I'm going to
give you the rules.
Speaker 2 (33:14):
We must accept your first answer and if your pass
will come back to you.
Speaker 4 (33:18):
At the end.
Speaker 6 (33:19):
Okay, all right, Sarah, I'll read for you because Hayley's
losing it over there. Okay, your money minute, Sarah starts now,
how many fifty cent pieces in five dollars? What astrological
season are we're currently in? I PA and XPA are both.
Speaker 2 (33:42):
Types of what?
Speaker 8 (33:44):
Ha?
Speaker 4 (33:44):
What suburb is Hallett Cove Pavilion in oh Hal?
Speaker 6 (33:50):
Who is Miley Sarah's famous dad?
Speaker 13 (33:54):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (33:55):
What show is Poe Ling? Yao? A judge?
Speaker 8 (33:57):
On?
Speaker 6 (34:00):
What decades did Baywatch premiere in.
Speaker 15 (34:06):
Two thousand?
Speaker 4 (34:07):
Is an emu a mammal or a bird?
Speaker 3 (34:09):
A bird?
Speaker 4 (34:10):
What country is barley?
Speaker 5 (34:11):
In?
Speaker 4 (34:14):
What color are sunflowers predominantly?
Speaker 6 (34:17):
How many fifty cent pieces in five dollars?
Speaker 4 (34:22):
What astrological season are we currently in?
Speaker 6 (34:27):
People Autumn?
Speaker 4 (34:28):
I p A and XBO are both types of what bank? Great?
It's locked in. You're right over there, Hayley.
Speaker 1 (34:38):
You know I don't know.
Speaker 4 (34:39):
Why do you want me to do it?
Speaker 17 (34:41):
Dumb?
Speaker 2 (34:42):
You never do not say that about yourself.
Speaker 4 (34:45):
You are not at all.
Speaker 5 (34:46):
It's okay.
Speaker 6 (34:52):
Can I say, though, Sarah before we go through the answers?
If I asked you again, what suburb is Hallett Cove
Pavilion in?
Speaker 4 (34:58):
What answer would you give me?
Speaker 5 (35:00):
Harlette Cove?
Speaker 6 (35:01):
I just wanted to double check. I thought you might
have said that instead of past. I just wanted to
double check.
Speaker 5 (35:07):
Okay, there's one. There's a ding for you. Who is
Miley Cyrus's famous dad?
Speaker 2 (35:13):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (35:17):
What is?
Speaker 4 (35:19):
She's gone? Sometimes she goes.
Speaker 6 (35:21):
I'll take over pose a judge on Master Chef.
Speaker 4 (35:24):
You got that one right. And Eve you is a bird?
You got that one right.
Speaker 6 (35:29):
Barley is a country in Bali is in Indonesia, the
country yellow sunflowers.
Speaker 4 (35:36):
You nailed that. We're giving you six six Sarah sixty barks.
Speaker 5 (35:40):
I'll take it better than six is great, do you know? Okay,
so how many fifty cent pieces.
Speaker 2 (35:46):
In five dollars?
Speaker 5 (35:47):
Think about that? Now we've got a bit more time.
Speaker 4 (35:49):
Ten of them.
Speaker 2 (35:49):
It's ten.
Speaker 5 (35:50):
Yes, what astronomical season are we in?
Speaker 2 (35:54):
You said autumn?
Speaker 4 (35:55):
Which is a season?
Speaker 5 (35:57):
It is a season?
Speaker 2 (35:58):
But and it's Taurus as the answer, and that I
wouldn't have got that.
Speaker 13 (36:01):
Yeah, I don't know anything about Sarah.
Speaker 6 (36:06):
Who does. It's not for us in the studio, that's
for sure.
Speaker 5 (36:09):
For me, IPA and XPA are both types.
Speaker 6 (36:12):
Of beer, and they came out in the eighties, not
the two thousands.
Speaker 2 (36:19):
I wasn't born then.
Speaker 9 (36:20):
I don't drink beer, and I don't know the other one.
Speaker 7 (36:23):
I'm just not good at math.
Speaker 6 (36:23):
This was not quiz for you, six out of ten
sixty bucks, Sarah, It's not that bad.
Speaker 4 (36:28):
Enjoy that today, all right.
Speaker 2 (36:30):
I was third wheeling on as I normally do, on
a conversation between my best friend Lauren, my other adel lady,
and her ex who happens to be Burgo in the studio.
Speaker 4 (36:41):
Your friend and also my friend. Yeah, it's not as
good a friend.
Speaker 5 (36:45):
I'll always use Lauren.
Speaker 4 (36:46):
Over you.
Speaker 5 (36:48):
Anyway.
Speaker 2 (36:49):
The conversation was unfolding over the engagement ring because they
were engaged in twenty twenty and it never happened because
of COVID, and then they broke up. They're still great mates.
They parent together, beautiful, great coper actually the best relationship ever.
It's basically like they're together.
Speaker 4 (37:03):
They're weirdly, it's a whole different thing.
Speaker 5 (37:05):
That's a whole different thing.
Speaker 2 (37:06):
But the conversation was unraveling about whether or not Lauren
should give back the engagement ring to Burjo.
Speaker 1 (37:12):
No, not give back, pay for it.
Speaker 2 (37:14):
Oh, that's even worse.
Speaker 4 (37:16):
So she's still wearing an engagement ring.
Speaker 3 (37:18):
Yeah, she was wearing it the other day and I said,
remember when we went through all the legal stuff with
the breakup. You were supposed to give me the money
that I spent on adding diamonds to an existing family
diamond and getting at reset.
Speaker 5 (37:29):
That's expensive's yucky.
Speaker 4 (37:31):
But you didn't get married.
Speaker 2 (37:32):
Yeah, but it's it.
Speaker 5 (37:33):
Was a mutual decision to break up. You can't ask
for it back.
Speaker 3 (37:36):
An engagement ring is a promise of getting married. The
wedding never happened.
Speaker 5 (37:40):
It was her grandma's diamonds.
Speaker 1 (37:42):
She can keep the main ring.
Speaker 4 (37:43):
Diamond doesn't matter.
Speaker 5 (37:44):
I don't pay for it back.
Speaker 4 (37:45):
That's yuk, Lauren.
Speaker 1 (37:46):
It's a conditional gift, Lauren.
Speaker 4 (37:49):
Let's have the arguments. Extend the argument.
Speaker 2 (37:51):
Come on, get on the radio, guys.
Speaker 10 (37:55):
Put me in this ring of fire.
Speaker 4 (37:58):
Morning Laws.
Speaker 6 (37:59):
And what is the argument from your side of the
fence there is?
Speaker 1 (38:03):
I say no way, I'm giving that ring back, you peasant.
Speaker 3 (38:09):
I say it one more time. Why don't you people
listen when I talk. I want the ring back, Okay,
I added two diamonds to the ring and got it reset.
Speaker 4 (38:17):
Pay me for that, mate. Nobody cares.
Speaker 7 (38:20):
We're not giving you the diamonds back.
Speaker 2 (38:23):
Thank you. I'm going to pay you for a ring
that you gave her that you wanted to give.
Speaker 6 (38:28):
Her when you get engaged, it is so that you
get married. They never got married.
Speaker 1 (38:34):
Break up.
Speaker 6 (38:34):
That is the only it's like pretty much the only
conditional gift that exists in the world.
Speaker 8 (38:38):
But it was a.
Speaker 2 (38:39):
Mutual decision to break up.
Speaker 1 (38:40):
No, it wasn't.
Speaker 2 (38:41):
Yes, it was your fault.
Speaker 5 (38:42):
They broke up.
Speaker 4 (38:45):
It's all coming out now, he said it was my fault.
Speaker 1 (38:50):
They broke up. No, it wasn't. I never wanted it.
Speaker 3 (38:53):
I was heartbroken for two and a half years and
cried myself to sleep every time.
Speaker 1 (38:57):
That's ridiculous.
Speaker 4 (38:59):
I am a cat, is Lauren.
Speaker 6 (39:03):
Can you see the Can you see Burgo's point of
view here that it was a conditional gift.
Speaker 4 (39:08):
It was like a we're gonna get married.
Speaker 6 (39:10):
This has cost me a lot of money, and then
we decided let's not get married.
Speaker 12 (39:14):
It's you didn't even no, because it was just adding on,
like he was lucky that he got the big diamond
to give me from my family.
Speaker 6 (39:22):
Exactly, still a lot of money to get new diamonds
on the ring, new diamonds.
Speaker 7 (39:27):
I didn't want extra diamonds.
Speaker 2 (39:29):
You guys know me.
Speaker 10 (39:29):
I don't like anything bling.
Speaker 14 (39:31):
I'm very plain.
Speaker 7 (39:32):
I like small things.
Speaker 3 (39:33):
No, it was multiple thousands of dollars in fact, a
holiday worth of money. So and in the legal proceedings
after the breakup, you did agree that you would give
that cash and you never have.
Speaker 7 (39:45):
Well, I didn't mean it.
Speaker 2 (39:46):
I was just.
Speaker 5 (39:49):
I doesn't mean all the time.
Speaker 4 (39:50):
I just didn't mean that.
Speaker 2 (39:51):
And can I say, burgo that ring and all the
money is going to your shared daughter in the end.
Speaker 4 (39:57):
Anyway, she's wearing the engagement ring.
Speaker 5 (39:59):
Yeah, but it go down to well, put it away till.
Speaker 1 (40:01):
Then she's benefiting from aunt.
Speaker 5 (40:03):
How is she benefiting from it.
Speaker 1 (40:05):
From wearing a ginormous wedding engagement ring on her finger?
Speaker 8 (40:08):
You should like it.
Speaker 12 (40:09):
It's fighting off potential suitors.
Speaker 2 (40:11):
Yeah, it's so true. She doesn't wear on their engaging.
Speaker 16 (40:16):
All the men coming at me.
Speaker 8 (40:17):
I'm just fighting them off with the giants.
Speaker 5 (40:22):
I think we've decided this. Were putting it out to people.
Speaker 4 (40:24):
Yeah, because we haven't decided this. Because two of us
very vehemently disagree with.
Speaker 6 (40:28):
Two of you Thurday one two three. Should the engagement
ring be given back after a breakoup, not wedding rings
once you get married, that's fine, it's cerious if you
guys get divorced, that's fine.
Speaker 3 (40:40):
Yeah, the engagement ring with the engagement being called off,
it's a conditional gift.
Speaker 6 (40:44):
Yeah, you give that back whatever. Hailey disagrees. I agree
with Ryan Burgess.
Speaker 4 (40:49):
What side are you on?
Speaker 5 (40:50):
Who do you think is side I'm on?
Speaker 1 (40:51):
I'm always on the Adelaide. Shut up.
Speaker 4 (40:53):
I remember how we're talking to microphones?
Speaker 6 (40:56):
You insula Pieter, work up because that attitude.
Speaker 2 (41:00):
Bur Joe, God, stop yelling at me.
Speaker 4 (41:04):
Who are you talking to at the moment?
Speaker 6 (41:06):
Joe, Well, I'm talking to Adelaide call us two three?
Speaker 4 (41:11):
Thanks love.
Speaker 5 (41:13):
Love of yelling in the studio, hasn't this literally about it?
Speaker 10 (41:16):
Saying thing?
Speaker 6 (41:16):
We've been arguing a lot today and today right now
we are arguing about whether or not you should pay
for the engagement ring if you don't follow through.
Speaker 4 (41:24):
And have the wedding at the end of it.
Speaker 2 (41:26):
This is because I was third wheeling in a car
yesterday with my best friend Laura and my other lady
and her ex Burjoe, who's also in our studio, both
my friends. They were talking about the fact that he
wants the money for the engagement ring because they broke
up a few years ago and.
Speaker 6 (41:40):
It's all amicable and they co parent and you're still together,
and it was a part of the agreement, give me
the money for the engagement ring. Really going to their
child hasn't occurred. Thirty one or two three? What do
you think if you've been in this position before, Shannon
in ural, but you have been in this position before
what happened?
Speaker 15 (41:56):
Good morning guys.
Speaker 14 (41:57):
Yes, I have been in a position. I was with
my partner for a few years. We got you know, engaged,
ready to get married. A few months before the wedding,
I found out he cheated on me. So, you know,
I was like, I'm not going to return the ring.
I'm going to achieve that that's kind of like a
thing for myself. And didn't know what to do with it,
you know, it was just a constant reminder and I
(42:18):
ended up selling it and it helped me pay for
my trip abroad for twelve months.
Speaker 4 (42:22):
Love that ye see. That seems fair to me because
he was a bad guy.
Speaker 6 (42:26):
Yes, But Shannon, if you if you broke up and
it was all, you know, all friendly and whatnot, would
you have some reservations about selling the ring because you're
still friends with this person and you've got to kip
with this person.
Speaker 15 (42:37):
No, I do you know what, I didn't have any children.
Maybe if I did have a child, it might be different,
but the way that it ended, we probably couldn't have
kept the friendship. So it was kind of like a
present for myself, a wedding that I probably deserved.
Speaker 2 (42:48):
Andy, he cheated because your life is so much better now,
isn't it.
Speaker 14 (42:52):
It's so much better.
Speaker 2 (42:53):
Yeah, marry him.
Speaker 4 (42:55):
Thank you.
Speaker 6 (42:56):
I can see it from Shannon's point of view, absolutely
swinging to the other, different, different situation, greg in sauls Free.
Speaker 4 (43:05):
What do you think, Greg, I'm with you.
Speaker 6 (43:08):
It's give me back the money. You know, boys, boys,
you know, go spend it, go buy some beers.
Speaker 7 (43:17):
Listening to Shannon, if you you know, it's not like
you did.
Speaker 6 (43:21):
But if you were like Shannon and cheat it, then yeah,
good Luckily they should be able to keep the ring.
Speaker 2 (43:25):
It's a mutual decision, Greg, they both decided.
Speaker 1 (43:28):
No, I didn't. How many times I have to tell.
Speaker 4 (43:31):
You he didn't want to break up.
Speaker 6 (43:33):
But even if it's mutual, give them, give them money back.
Speaker 2 (43:37):
Do you want to get into the nitty gritty of this, Burjo, No, Yeah,
you be careful.
Speaker 4 (43:43):
Thank you, Greg, Thank you, Greg, Like your repeated Greg.
Speaker 2 (43:48):
In Mombury, North, What do you think if you break
up with someone before the wedding, do you give the
engagement ring back?
Speaker 16 (43:53):
Absolutely not. I've been in this position and I look
back at it now and know you read flags you
gave me the ring? Is it's mine? He gave it
to me. I broke up with him and I thought, well,
you know what you put me through a word of pain,
so I sold the ring. I went to Europe with it.
Speaker 4 (44:09):
But Jessica, that's because you didn't like the bloke.
Speaker 16 (44:12):
But it's I was in love with the blow.
Speaker 2 (44:16):
It's a present. If you gave me a present for
my birthday, then we stopped being friends. Am I going
to give that back? No?
Speaker 10 (44:22):
Not at all.
Speaker 9 (44:22):
No.
Speaker 16 (44:23):
I feel like Lauren is created she should give it
to her daughter.
Speaker 7 (44:27):
Yes, they share a daughter.
Speaker 4 (44:28):
They do share a daughter.
Speaker 6 (44:30):
And imagine if Ryan had the money back over here,
if Burgo had the money back, and then he could
buy the daughter nice things all the time instead of
waiting until they died to give her inheritance from the ring.
Speaker 16 (44:40):
And it doesn't have to be when she dies, it
give you when she gets to eighteen, or someone wants
to propose to her.
Speaker 2 (44:46):
Yes, because it's got her Nana's diamond, and yes.
Speaker 4 (44:50):
Lauren's wearing it right now.
Speaker 2 (44:52):
Around decided it. We've all decided that Lauren keeps the
ring and the money and you both just continue on
with your lovely life lives together as friends.
Speaker 4 (45:02):
Yeah right.
Speaker 6 (45:04):
I mean, it's it's a you thing here. I disagree
with Haley, but I'm not involved.
Speaker 3 (45:08):
I mean, if I get the money, we're just going
on a Witch Sundays holiday together with it.
Speaker 5 (45:11):
Yeah, so true.
Speaker 6 (45:13):
That's much nicer than one person in the couple wearing
a ring.
Speaker 2 (45:18):
Daily hand matches all of.
Speaker 6 (45:28):
Truth time.
Speaker 4 (45:29):
Hailey's in the hot seat today.
Speaker 6 (45:30):
She lost the coin toss, so she's had to walk
over to our wall of truth pluck an envelope off
of it with an uncomfortable question that she has no
choice but to answer for my entertainment and for your entertainment.
Speaker 5 (45:42):
I don't know how entertaining this is going to be.
I don't really want to say.
Speaker 2 (45:45):
This is going to make me sound like a bad
personation was.
Speaker 5 (45:49):
What do you pretend to like but don't?
Speaker 6 (45:54):
Which is great because everyone has this great view of
you being so nice to everyone.
Speaker 2 (45:58):
I'm full of empathy and I am very authentic, but
you also dislike self deprecating and.
Speaker 4 (46:06):
Real secretly you dislike it.
Speaker 5 (46:08):
There's some things that I don't like that I have
to pretend that.
Speaker 4 (46:10):
I like, what what what?
Speaker 2 (46:12):
This is gonna this sounds bad, It's gonna go and
get some sisterhood. And I know that, but I feel
like there's probably some people out there that would feel
the same, and they just smile and green and bear it.
Something that I pretend to like but don't like at
all and find I find it very annoying. Gender revealed PI.
(46:33):
I feel so bad saying that, but there's so who cares.
Speaker 5 (46:37):
Like people put so much emphasis on this.
Speaker 2 (46:39):
I'm having a gender rebel pade and invite everybody over
to their house and they do this big burnout and
it's like blue or pink smoke, or they pop a
balloon or whatever, and they pretend that like this. Cameras
aren't rolling just and they try to look pretty forward
and everything, but nobody else cares about if it's a
boy girl, We just want you to have a healthy baby.
It's the only people that care, are you the mom
(47:02):
and dad and the grandparents? Do you agree?
Speaker 6 (47:05):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (47:05):
Yeah, thank you let the hate flow through.
Speaker 6 (47:08):
I feel like Palpatine in Star Wars when Ana concerning bad,
I'm like, oh, yeah, Hayley.
Speaker 5 (47:16):
Go to the dark side.
Speaker 6 (47:17):
Yeah, I don't care about the inside of your cake
being pink.
Speaker 2 (47:20):
I don't care.
Speaker 4 (47:21):
It's good for you. I'm really happy for you. Awesome.
Speaker 2 (47:24):
I just don't. I just want a healthy baby. And
also there's so much emphasis on whether it's a boy
or a girl in pink and blue. What if they
want to be a they what if they want to
be a.
Speaker 4 (47:33):
Baby hasn't been born yet?
Speaker 2 (47:34):
But what if they want to identify as a cat?
Speaker 4 (47:37):
What color cake is a cat? Then black black cake?
We're having a fairy.
Speaker 5 (47:44):
I know that's so bad.
Speaker 2 (47:46):
I feel like I'm past all my friend's age of
having babies. Now everyone's had their babies.
Speaker 6 (47:50):
I know this is I can say it your wall
of truth, but can I low another one in there?
Speaker 4 (47:54):
Same sort of vein? Yeah, I like you. If you're
having it, I'm going to come and have a beer
with you.
Speaker 6 (48:02):
But I don't care for your for your child's first birthday.
Speaker 2 (48:08):
Your child, Yeah, it's it's not about the child though,
It's about the adults.
Speaker 4 (48:12):
And it's a great excuse for us to get together
and beer.
Speaker 5 (48:16):
Yeah, so you're not going there for the child.
Speaker 6 (48:18):
Don't pretend you do. You go though, child, you're doing
it to have an afternoon together.
Speaker 5 (48:22):
But when you go there.
Speaker 2 (48:23):
Do you go, Oh, you're so chilled, Happy birthday child.
Speaker 6 (48:27):
You can't understand me. You sort of from a little
toy and the way you go, you're.
Speaker 2 (48:31):
Just trying to find the bar. We've got a caller,
Gary and hall Att Cove Morning.
Speaker 1 (48:36):
Gary.
Speaker 5 (48:36):
Are you gonna slam me what I said?
Speaker 6 (48:38):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (48:39):
We're so good, Gary? What side of the fence you on?
What have you called?
Speaker 9 (48:42):
I'm a bit concerned about what's going on here about gender.
Speaker 10 (48:45):
Reveals, what happened with Port Adelaide and the Crows and
that stupid cake.
Speaker 4 (48:52):
That's true. We did Papa balloon.
Speaker 2 (48:53):
Oh my god, we did not want gender reveal, Like
everybody you're it wasn't my idea. I never thought, Oh,
you're so right.
Speaker 4 (49:02):
I hate myself, look after your own backyard.
Speaker 2 (49:08):
Unbelievable, Gary, you're right. A few weeks ago, when I
was picking between Port and Crows, I popped a balloon
and revealed what I liked. Oh I hate myself. I
am that person.
Speaker 6 (49:18):
Change your opinion now that you look back and go,
that actually was a little bit fun. No, it was.
Speaker 2 (49:22):
It was fun for us, but in hindsight, nobody cared.
Nobody else cares about that, did they? Did they watch
the video?
Speaker 17 (49:30):
Maybe not a couple of hundred? I mean, yeah, Gary,
You're just sorry. You're so right in fanness. Gary Hailey's
not really supporting the team.
Speaker 5 (49:42):
It is a terrible football nothing coming out of that balloon.
Speaker 4 (49:46):
We've learned a lot about each other. The truth was
being honest.
Speaker 3 (49:50):
I hate gender reveals, but based on your nail color today,
what are you having?
Speaker 2 (49:53):
A boy?
Speaker 4 (49:55):
Healthy boy?
Speaker 3 (49:56):
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