FULL SHOW #71: THE WALL OF TRUTH - ADELAIDE TAKES OVER

FULL SHOW #71:

ADELAIDE IS TAKING OVER THE WALL OF TRUTH, ASKING THE HEAVY-HITTING QUESTIONS...

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Speaker 1 (00:10):
I heard podcasts here more mix one or two point
three podcasts, playlists and listen live on the free iHeart app.

Speaker 2 (00:17):
Haley and Max in the Morning.

Speaker 3 (00:18):
With these two together, anything can happen.

Speaker 4 (00:22):
This is Hailey and Max in the Morning, Adelaide's number
one for fun. Good morning Alaine as Man said, three
degrees right now.

Speaker 2 (00:40):
Alien Max in the morning, Good morning Adelaide.

Speaker 3 (00:42):
You know what sucks with that have been at so
cold and wet?

Speaker 5 (00:45):
Is going to sport now on the weekends like soccer
sports inside?

Speaker 3 (00:50):
Doesn't playing give play bas soccer?

Speaker 5 (00:53):
Yeah, at the monastery on the weekend and it was
raining side by the monastery.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
Then the monastery at bottom of the hill at the
toll gate.

Speaker 1 (01:00):
They play in the church.

Speaker 5 (01:01):
No, they play outside on the oval, but next to
the church.

Speaker 3 (01:05):
Driven past that place and gone, I want to know
what's in there. I've actually been to check there before,
don't you really? My mom's been chased by snake at
that monastery.

Speaker 1 (01:12):
Haven't We got very different stories about the same place.

Speaker 3 (01:15):
She was doing a meditation camp. This is like years
ago camp retreats.

Speaker 1 (01:21):
She's back.

Speaker 5 (01:22):
Mom and dad used to go on these meditation retreats
and they would do all their meditation whatever, and then
they went for a little warp. I was telling me
this on the weekend. She was wearing sandals. This is
at the monastery at the bottom of the freeway and
she's walking through. Had a snake chaser and went for
her twice and the third time they said, if you
if they if they had.

Speaker 3 (01:41):
Gone for a third time, she definitely would have got
bit my snake. Wow, how's that for a meditation camp.
And then she's getting roses in the garden, getting chased.

Speaker 1 (01:50):
On religious grounds and now we play soccer there, and.

Speaker 3 (01:54):
Now we play soccer there. Nice, I mean nice.

Speaker 5 (01:56):
But yes, as I was saying raining sideways, we've all
got our umbrellas, I've got my hood on. It's so cold.

Speaker 3 (02:02):
I just want to get the perfect spot with my
car instead.

Speaker 1 (02:06):
Where you can park the car.

Speaker 3 (02:07):
Yeah, but there was none for Haley couldn't do it.
And also after gets annoyed if he sees me in
the car, it is so cold. Yeah, you're actually like
in a full udie right now.

Speaker 2 (02:16):
Do you like it?

Speaker 1 (02:17):
Yeah? I need to pull this out in the real
cold days. Yeah's my little real fluffy uniglum.

Speaker 3 (02:23):
Yeah, you look like I just want to give you
a little hug. Eskimo, Yeah, eskimo Joe three degrees.

Speaker 1 (02:27):
This morning we had for the first time the blanket
on top of the quilt and then an uddie on
top of the blank.

Speaker 5 (02:36):
I wasn't there yet last night, but I was almost.

Speaker 1 (02:38):
With the dressing gown on top of the blank I'm
a hot sleeper, but I woke up this morning and
I was like, oh, I'm cold, and I know my
wife Eliza is going to be freezing. So I put
the dog on the bed on top of her so
she should be roasting.

Speaker 3 (02:50):
It is nice in a cold room. No, being a
little snugly and warm, is it?

Speaker 2 (02:54):
It will warm?

Speaker 1 (02:54):
Be out today with some money.

Speaker 2 (02:56):
Yeah, eight o'clock this morning. This is what happened on
Friday with a ley.

Speaker 5 (03:00):
This secret line travels from Adelaide to what suburb be fed?

Speaker 1 (03:05):
Yeah, yeah, you're down a girl screaming, Oh my goodness.

Speaker 5 (03:17):
Thank you for much.

Speaker 1 (03:18):
I've got a shake. You're just taking away her achievement.
Listen to a screaming light that was hard.

Speaker 3 (03:25):
She won dollars timeslight That sounded really bitchy on me. Alrighty,
it's our favorite game.

Speaker 5 (03:37):
Dead or Alive? Are they dead or are they still alive?
It's a tough game to play.

Speaker 1 (03:43):
Really warms us up on Monday morning. Go head to
head with each other, win some pride, yeah, and get
to sort of rub our boots in the other one's face.

Speaker 3 (03:52):
It's the most even I think we are ever are
in a competition, isn't it are?

Speaker 1 (03:55):
Because we've both killed off a lot of people. Give
the few people alive who.

Speaker 3 (03:59):
Have been long gone surprise, surprise, exactly right.

Speaker 1 (04:02):
We go ahead to head with each other with a
coupless elebs who's dead? Who's alive?

Speaker 4 (04:06):
Tracy from Antweld Park's calling along. Sorry, Trace, we're not
playing with people today.

Speaker 5 (04:10):
Oh that's me, and Tracy can call us any time
he does. We love Trace, by Tracy, just not today, all.

Speaker 4 (04:15):
Right, Okay, Hayley. Doris Roberts, who was that? Everybody loves
Raymond Mom.

Speaker 3 (04:22):
I love her. She was great.

Speaker 5 (04:26):
I have a feeling that Doris Jane, Yeah, yeah, she died.

Speaker 3 (04:32):
She was great.

Speaker 1 (04:34):
Good voice.

Speaker 3 (04:34):
I wish I could remember it, because it'd be a
horrible accent.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
To do in the radio.

Speaker 5 (04:37):
Not as good as the Seine Felt parents, though they
were better. George's parents were better than the ones and
Everyone Loves ray Man.

Speaker 1 (04:42):
Oh yeah, they were practice, they said the standard.

Speaker 4 (04:45):
Max Peter Boyle, who was the dad on Everybody Loves Raymond.

Speaker 1 (04:50):
Oh, do you think the heartbreak of losing Doris would
have sent into an early grave?

Speaker 3 (04:57):
Got that show was filmed a while ago. It makes
me sad that they're all dying off.

Speaker 1 (05:00):
Well, there you go.

Speaker 3 (05:01):
I'll say he's a life then, just for the sake
of the story.

Speaker 2 (05:04):
She did.

Speaker 4 (05:07):
Haley Piece the third President of the USA, Richard Nixon.

Speaker 1 (05:13):
His big nose, his big schnozz.

Speaker 3 (05:15):
Yeah, Dicky Nicks one.

Speaker 1 (05:18):
Of the great noses.

Speaker 3 (05:20):
He'd be very old if he was still.

Speaker 1 (05:22):
Alive, sort of most people.

Speaker 3 (05:24):
Yeah, I want to say he also did.

Speaker 1 (05:28):
Well died god, yes, yeah, you're on fire.

Speaker 2 (05:34):
Max.

Speaker 3 (05:34):
Do you reckon?

Speaker 1 (05:35):
Anyone said, Oh my god, yes. Richard Nixon's death was mentioned.

Speaker 3 (05:41):
Kirsty Oh good one, look he's talking.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
To Ali is alive? Is dead? Guys?

Speaker 5 (05:52):
Urselli did not die too well my life, Cursty Alli
is not dead.

Speaker 1 (05:57):
Music Kursti died. Oh she died on the fifth of
December twenty twenty two.

Speaker 3 (06:06):
Oh my god, the hell? What did she die from?
Kirsty Alli died from colon cancer.

Speaker 5 (06:13):
Oh that is so sad. I loved Kirsty Alli. She
was like the original Stifler's mum.

Speaker 1 (06:20):
She's seventy one.

Speaker 3 (06:22):
Oh that's really young as well.

Speaker 5 (06:23):
Oh my god, who would have thought Kursty Ellie had
died neither of us.

Speaker 3 (06:27):
It Takes Two was a great movie.

Speaker 2 (06:29):
Oh yeah, so now cheers.

Speaker 1 (06:31):
Now the sequel would be it just Takes one.

Speaker 5 (06:35):
We've been talking about a zen pick the positives, the negatives.
This all started because a girl had emailed us.

Speaker 1 (06:39):
We just wanted to help. So we've heard positives, we've
heard negatives.

Speaker 5 (06:42):
And someone that's been very quiet in the studio during
this is the third person in the studio, the guy
that pushes all of our buttons.

Speaker 3 (06:48):
You hear him say good morning every day.

Speaker 1 (06:49):
Burgo.

Speaker 3 (06:50):
Now, Bird wants to say a.

Speaker 5 (06:52):
Few things because this is something that's quite close to you,
and you have been considering a z M.

Speaker 3 (06:56):
Pick yourself, you.

Speaker 4 (06:57):
Know, as someone who's bigger and has, like Oprah, fluctuated
with weighe up and down over the years. Every day
I've gone to look at available doctor's appointments, and then
I'll chicken out because I've been too scared. So actually
Hearing these stories of the positives and the negatives have
been really good to help me sort of make my decision.
I've done it without drugs before, I've considered do I
need surgery.

Speaker 2 (07:18):
But I go through every.

Speaker 4 (07:19):
Day knowing that I'm bigger and being very conscious of
being a fat person.

Speaker 2 (07:24):
I have to worry about is a chair going to
hold me?

Speaker 3 (07:26):
I've seen that as well. I'm swear of a week ago.

Speaker 5 (07:28):
I see you stand back and you go, do you reckon?
That chair is going to hold me? You're not going
to break a chair, Birch, No.

Speaker 2 (07:34):
I would.

Speaker 1 (07:34):
Doesn't that irritate you that you even feel like you
have to have that thought? And I asked this because you,
as you said before, you have yo yoed, and previously
you have had a moment where you're like stuff that
I'm losing and you lost like thirty five kilos or whatever.

Speaker 3 (07:46):
Yeah, you can do it.

Speaker 1 (07:47):
You know you can do it. Doesn't it annoy you
to have to be in that position?

Speaker 2 (07:50):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (07:50):
I mean it's just like, it's just the reality of
what it is. And if I really wanted to make
a change, I know the right things to do. You know,
I'm not one of those people that's like I've tried everything,
because I'm not trying anything at the moment.

Speaker 2 (07:59):
I am just now.

Speaker 5 (08:00):
We see that I've known you for so many years,
and I know that we might be lulled into a
little bit to go. You're making a joke about it.
We can joke along without actual hurts.

Speaker 2 (08:09):
I'll say it, but I don't want you to piel on.

Speaker 5 (08:11):
You love Sophie more than anything on this earth, best
at in the word.

Speaker 3 (08:14):
Does it ever occur to you that you want to
be fit for run around with my kid?

Speaker 2 (08:18):
I can't play with my kid. How I want to
play with my kid?

Speaker 3 (08:21):
So what's holding you back doing it again?

Speaker 2 (08:22):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (08:23):
No one can joke, no one can tell you anything.
You need it to pick for yourself. And you go,
I've had enough of this and I'm going to do it.

Speaker 5 (08:29):
Once you start on that health kick, it's addictive as well.

Speaker 2 (08:32):
Yeah, when I was on it last time, I waited
every day.

Speaker 1 (08:35):
We want to support anyway that we can. We've had
people calling in with support. The three of us can
hold each other accountable for things.

Speaker 5 (08:41):
One of the things that you revealed to us at
the office the other day was something that you do
in private that if you talk about it now, maybe
you won't do it again, because it's not a good thing.

Speaker 4 (08:50):
When I will make pancakes for my daughter on a
Sunday morning, say I'll do the shaken day the don't
want to make them, and I'll put the mixture in
the pan, let it fry away, and I'll have a
couple of chugs of the raw picture.

Speaker 3 (09:06):
He has a glass of pancakes.

Speaker 2 (09:08):
I don't have a glass. I just drink it out
of the.

Speaker 1 (09:10):
Would if you could. Isn't it better as it made
pancakes liquid form.

Speaker 4 (09:14):
So delicious And what you'll find is that you're not
cooking it in the butter or the oil, and you're
not putting syrup on it, so.

Speaker 2 (09:19):
It's actually probably better. But I knew you guys would
knock it. I knew Max and knock it.

Speaker 4 (09:25):
So what I've prepared is a couple of glasses of pancake.

Speaker 3 (09:28):
Batter, pancake batter juice.

Speaker 2 (09:32):
Bella has walked in with the pancake batter for you
guys to try.

Speaker 3 (09:35):
Ohs think like in dense milk.

Speaker 1 (09:37):
I'm happy to get this ago. I love pancakes. Can
we use this as like some sort of line in
the sand, last Hurrah.

Speaker 3 (09:43):
At the very least, we cut out raw pancake.

Speaker 5 (09:46):
Butter right now and then say this is the last
time we will ever drink pancake batter from a glass.

Speaker 2 (09:52):
Here, have a sweet and let me know what you think.
It's really good.

Speaker 1 (09:55):
It's so good, is like good. He's gonna make for
a second shockingly mad Max.

Speaker 3 (10:04):
Let's just some mad Max, as I said, sad Max.

Speaker 1 (10:08):
Yeah, this is the mad music that we usually have
because I'm usually mad about something after weekend.

Speaker 3 (10:13):
Of footage, because it's never perfect in.

Speaker 1 (10:14):
This beautiful game that we love so much. Just a
bit sad today on my Monday for Port Adelaide because
at the moment we are being torn apart by ourselves.
Staying on mate, we are playing very poor football at
the moment. They lost by seventy six points on the

(10:35):
weekend to July, which is a.

Speaker 3 (10:36):
Joke a lot. You're not in the same league here.

Speaker 1 (10:40):
Is well, it's funny you say that I will get
to not being in the same league having some injuries.
We had some injuries. There are some injuries boys going
into the game, and then three dudes got injured in
the first half, which sucks like you've only got two
of the bit. No, you can't do anything about that.
But Geelong also had some injuries. So we lose Jason hornon,
Francis hamstring, Josh Sinn hurt his hip, Luckie Jones was

(11:01):
doing a great job on Jeremy Cameron and then he
did his hamstring and then Jeremy Cameron kicked seven goals.

Speaker 3 (11:07):
Crap. But the Cats had some blokes through hamstrings too.

Speaker 1 (11:11):
Patrick Dangerfield injured himself, so Ken said after the game,
Ken Hickley said, look, we're not terrible. We've just had
some terrible losses, which I would mostly agree with, basically
saying you're terrible but bad. Yeah, terrible teams have terrible losses.
So Cane corn so who has an opinion on everything,
of course, but this one I think he's probably right on.
He on one of his thirty eight thousand football shows

(11:34):
that he's on, said, I reckon on the AFL dot
com show, some of Port Adelaide's football at the moment
is not AFL standard. And then they showed this vision
and I was like, oh, yeah, I watched all of
this and I just thought it was normal. But it's not.
When we looked at all the vision, the kicking, the handballing,
they were dropping marks. They were like, I want to

(11:54):
run into three different Geelong players. But decision making atrocious.
Some of the turnovers are what we do in C
grade football and we aren't very good at football.

Speaker 5 (12:05):
But why have they got the wrong players? What's happening
the coach?

Speaker 1 (12:09):
Well, no, see, this is the thing people are going
to say, Oh, it's a Ken Hinckley problem. They should
have made the change to Josh Kara.

Speaker 3 (12:15):
It's not his problem.

Speaker 1 (12:16):
It's not a Ken problem. Would have been one of
the best teams in the competition, aside from winning a
Grand Final for the last decade. Sorry all of the
people that hate Ken Hinckley out there. Josh cars essentially
been coaching the team for the last two years. He's like,
it's taking over.

Speaker 5 (12:29):
This is not just because you're losing that you're having
a goal at them?

Speaker 2 (12:32):
Is it?

Speaker 5 (12:33):
You actually think there is a reason why they're losing.
They're not just what's the Yeah, they're not playing they're
terrible footballers.

Speaker 3 (12:40):
Is that what you're saying.

Speaker 1 (12:41):
I'm saying is that the headline? Well, my issue is
I'm spiraling into this pit of despair. At the moment,
I'm not saying all of my football team are bad.
Football is don't you put word in my mouth? The
word one word. Don't you put one word in my mouth.
But the issue is we're fifteenth on the ladder at
the moment. We don't own our first round pick at
the end of this year, so at the moment, that's
pick four and we're giving it the Gold Coast. So
we didn't even get to rebuild through the draft. We've

(13:02):
got Zach Butters, who's like the best player in the
competition almost, who's considering leaving, and we're not giving him
a lot of reasons this day. Miles Bergmann could be
one of the better players in the competition. One day,
same boat, he might also leave.

Speaker 3 (13:15):
Why do they want to leave because they get a home.
We don't want you if you don't want to be there.

Speaker 1 (13:20):
Can I just say right now, hey, I did not
agree with Hailey Peers and Zach Butters. If you're listening,
I do want you here forever I want.

Speaker 5 (13:28):
It's like a relationship. If one person wants to leave
the relationship get out.

Speaker 1 (13:33):
No want to be an abusive relationships, I really do.
I want him to abuse me. My last point is
the only good news that I have from the weekend
in Port Adelaide is if you follow along with our tips.
We didn't tip Port.

Speaker 3 (13:45):
Yes, I noticed that.

Speaker 5 (13:47):
I noticed that, and I remember I got angry at you,
and I was like, no, he did good.

Speaker 3 (13:49):
He'll be happy that they lost.

Speaker 6 (13:51):
Please, boys, I'm running out of Hope's tea.

Speaker 5 (14:04):
The theme today is the world bringing female stars down.

Speaker 3 (14:10):
I'm not okay the worst.

Speaker 5 (14:14):
Rihanna's new single, well it's bombed because that's sad. Friend
of Mine dropped on Friday. It's the lead single for
the new Smurfs movie. You gotta remember it's a Smurfs movie.
It's not like it's re read bad Girl, re read
back in the day, bring out hot here have listened
to the song just.

Speaker 1 (14:43):
Just run herself through six hundred auto Gym.

Speaker 5 (14:48):
He debuted at one hundred and ninety one on the
US Spotify chart and has since fallen out. Fans are
basically saying that it's annoying. Its instrumental. The same line
is being repeated over over again.

Speaker 3 (14:59):
She just says friend of Mine six hundred fine.

Speaker 5 (15:01):
A lot, It's okay reread it's the Smurf's movie.

Speaker 3 (15:04):
The kids will like it. That's all that matters.

Speaker 5 (15:06):
Another girl that the world is bringing down is Katie Perry.

Speaker 1 (15:11):
I can say a bit of this has been self inflicted,
this downfall.

Speaker 5 (15:15):
No, I just think the world loves to push people
up and then bring them down as fast as they
push them up.

Speaker 3 (15:21):
Katie Perry's going to be in Australia next month. She's
coming to Adelaide. We're so excited, aren't we, Max.

Speaker 1 (15:26):
We love KP.

Speaker 3 (15:27):
So she's entertaining. If nothing else, it's just.

Speaker 5 (15:29):
Because she's another blow because the Veguus residency that she's
been there for a couple of years, they're really not happy.
They've said they've lost so much money from hosting her
and called a complete failure.

Speaker 3 (15:41):
She's been there for a couple of years.

Speaker 5 (15:42):
Apparently she was getting paid seven hundred and fifty thousand
dollars to nine hundred thousand dollars per show.

Speaker 3 (15:48):
No wonder they're not making any money. Well no, because
people weren't going to see it.

Speaker 5 (15:52):
Well, yeah, they didn't get their numbers, but we will
have our numbers and will be very excited when she
comes to Adelaide and all these people that say they
hate her now and she's a loser or whatever. If
they see her walking down Rondell Mall, they would be
the first people to.

Speaker 3 (16:03):
Go and get a photo with her.

Speaker 2 (16:04):
I don't think we hate it.

Speaker 1 (16:05):
I just think she's lost a bit of her Katy
Perry Aura. She had this fantastic pop star Aura, and
now she's like dressing in all these plastic robot things
and doing weird dancers and space release Fireworks again, give
me another bang it true?

Speaker 3 (16:21):
Okay, I do love fireworks. Great song. Let's move to
another legend.

Speaker 5 (16:25):
Imagine getting a d M from Harry Styles.

Speaker 3 (16:29):
So this is such a cool story.

Speaker 5 (16:31):
One young couple received the shock of their life when
Harry Styles slid into their dms.

Speaker 3 (16:37):
Over the weekend.

Speaker 5 (16:38):
So basically, they bumped into him while they were holidaying
in Rome in March.

Speaker 3 (16:41):
Obviously they're going selfie with him.

Speaker 5 (16:43):
Let's get a photo Harry then get a photo on
his camera as well. He tracked them down on Instagram
and sent them a message going as promised, hope you
guys had a great trip, and send them the photo
that he took on his.

Speaker 1 (16:54):
Phone, and he signed off with h That's how you
know he's a megasty.

Speaker 3 (16:58):
I'm going to start doing that.

Speaker 1 (16:59):
H H m H A M H and m.

Speaker 4 (17:04):
They the following content emotionally challenging and we would like
to offer a trigger warning.

Speaker 1 (17:13):
Yeah, we're going to talk about Adam Selwood on the weekend.
You would have seen his one of the four Sellward brothers,
massive family in the Australian football world. They all played
at the highest level. A couple of months ago, three
months ago, Troy Selwood was found dead. He had committed suicide.

(17:33):
And then on the weekend, we woke up on Saturday,
people going about their day and the news came out
that Adam, who is Troy's twin brother, had also committed suicide.
He died at the age of forty one.

Speaker 5 (17:47):
Bought a tragic, awful story and for their families because
it it hit the news within a couple of hours
and it was everywhere. And obviously they have partners and kids,
parents still alive. Having to deal with something like that
is so sad.

Speaker 3 (18:04):
And to go through it twice in three months.

Speaker 1 (18:05):
So as I said, Troy three months ago and then
Adam on the weekend. Adam actually spoke in between those
two times about Troy and having a twin brother commit suicide.

Speaker 5 (18:18):
I'm so lucky, you know, to be a twin and
to have a twin brother who I was able to
share on this earth for forty years. So he's spent
the last three months, remember his brother only passed away
three months ago, greeving. He's spent grieving but also trying
to raise awareness for mental health. He was about to
run a marathon next week. Do you think that obviously

(18:40):
I don't. I don't have any siblings anymore. But do
you think as a brother that connection with a twin
is just on a whole different level that you feel
like they're actually part of you. And so when his
brother Troy died, part of him died, how do you
keep on living?

Speaker 1 (18:58):
Twins are fascinating in that aspect. I mean, even if
you don't look at it in such a negative flight,
like they are so interconnected, but it has to be
like I don't my brother's not a twenty three years
younger than me, But but you feel hit as hard
as anybody in my life. Yeah, George had been in
this position, like as hard as my wife dying. Yeah,

(19:20):
well found the equal playing together.

Speaker 3 (19:22):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (19:23):
Do you think that with men there's a lot of
focus on women with everything with Me Too, my movement,
and just everything with women protecting women. Do you think
there's not enough around for the mental health of men.

Speaker 1 (19:37):
I think it's improving, but there is not enough. I
think it's like it's just so my footy club, for example,
Prince Alfred Old Collegians, we have someone coming to speak
to us I know in the not too distant future
who is an expert in men's mental health, and she's
going to come and speak to a bunch of amateur.

Speaker 3 (19:52):
Footballers about it, which is fantastic.

Speaker 1 (19:54):
I know that all of the AFL teams and all
the clubs have this sort of thing, but it's just
it's the the people in the crowd as much as anything.
Like I am not against some sort of AFL round
where it is just mentioned more often.

Speaker 5 (20:10):
Yeah, but I still don't think I think that's great.
It's something, but I feel like it's not enough. And
to be honest, I feel like it goes down to
the core of that women talk to each other. We
will tell each other when we're sad. Guys suffer in silence.
You don't talk enough. And this is a big generalization.
A lot of people do obviously, but guy, what is it?
They just do you feel?

Speaker 1 (20:31):
Is it? May we just feel like we can deal
with it ourselves and you can't. Well sometimes you can't, obviously, Yeah,
sometimes we can.

Speaker 5 (20:38):
But but maybe it needs to be more normalized for
men to talk. And if you ask a mate are
you okay? And you still they say they're fine, but
you have a gut feeling they're not.

Speaker 3 (20:49):
Don't just let that be.

Speaker 1 (20:50):
No, absolutely not. You know why, I will say football clubs,
any clubs, like any groups of mates and friends do
this really well. Like it's a perfect example. On the weekend,
So there's four celled brothers. As I mentioned Scott he
is an assistant coach at Collingwood and Collingwood.

Speaker 3 (21:07):
Were playing a game on Satdy during the day.

Speaker 1 (21:10):
This news came out after all the players had given
up all of their phones, and the Collingwood coach and
a few of the higher ups sort of had the option,
what do we do with this news because all of
the players know, and Scott's not with us today like
he has already flown back to Perth. They decided to
keep it to themselves. The players played the game. They

(21:30):
then told them straight after the game Craig McCrae's the
coach of Collingwood. He was very emotional postgame. Obviously, I
just want to said, I love to so feeling. Thanks
question to have someone like that as the figurehead, Yeah, right,

(21:50):
and you have a whole bunch of men, manly men,
like there's forty five dudes that have just been running
into each other for to have someone like that as
a figurehead, Like, if that's not going to encourage you
to at least in your own mind, even if you're
not speaking in your own mind, to be like, Okay,
this is a space that is safe. I would encourage
anyone out there, whether you can only do it with

(22:10):
one friend or just be involved in like a football club.
Is so good for that.

Speaker 5 (22:14):
Yes, it's the perfect opportunity that they felt for all
the teams to get to spread that awareness. Because also
when someone takes their life, it's not it's very laid
with emotions. Yes, yes, there's anger and there's sadness, and
there's why I could like, is it my fault?

Speaker 3 (22:31):
It's all those things.

Speaker 1 (22:32):
One of my friends, her father committed suicide, and her
first initial reaction to it was anger. She was like, this,
it's a selfish way. Why did you do that to me?
And the family that it was their first reaction in
the tempered with time. But I can understand wholeheartedly why
that would be something that you like. I'm as close
to you as anyone.

Speaker 3 (22:53):
How could you do this to me?

Speaker 1 (22:54):
How could you do this?

Speaker 5 (22:55):
On the other side, I will say, knowing people who
have done, who have taken their life, they don't look
at it as they're selfish. They are the most selfless
people because they are They think they are actually a
burden on your being here. They think I'm doing your
They actually believe I'm doing your favor if I'm not here,
and the pain is just too much. It's so layered,

(23:16):
and I'm We're so sorry. If anyone has ever been
through something like this before. If anything, today's today to
say to a mate, someone that you love and a woman,
but especially men today, ask them if they are okay
and if.

Speaker 1 (23:29):
You like me hate being told what today? And I've
heard this million times and you instantly switch off when
someone says, hey, feel free to subject say something to
a mate, Just put it in a little corner of
your mind somewhere. Yeah, we mean it. It's real, Like
say find some person that you're comfortable with, have a
little half a chat.

Speaker 2 (23:46):
Help is always available.

Speaker 4 (23:47):
There's always someone who is going to listen, and you
can always call Lifeline as well. On thirteen eleven fourteen,
Adelai takes over, Oh.

Speaker 1 (24:02):
Please don't fade down, Savage Guard and bring it back
all right, Well of true.

Speaker 3 (24:06):
Savage, all of truth.

Speaker 1 (24:09):
If you've been listening along, we have in our studio
a wall of truth filled with envelopes that have got
some deeply personal questions. Every day we flip a coin,
one of us has to answer these questions. We get
some some kidbits, some stories, some things we don't really
want to share on the radio.

Speaker 5 (24:24):
These are things that our producers have put in them
so they know us, so they kind of know the
stories they want from us. But what makes us nervous
is we're putting it over to our beautiful listeners.

Speaker 1 (24:35):
Yeah, you go ask the question. Yeah, so all this
week we're going to put it in your hands so
you can jump online. I think we've got it up
on Facebook, probably on Instagram. You know what, give us
ring third, one, O, two three. We don't really care. However,
you get in touch with us. Yeah, we would like
your questions to put in our envelopes to do the
Wall of Truth.

Speaker 3 (24:53):
We put it on.

Speaker 5 (24:54):
Facebook on the weekend. Just a couple of little doozies
in there. One of them what made you get radio?

Speaker 3 (25:00):
Good question, not bad story.

Speaker 1 (25:02):
We'll go on forever, though we could get spicier than that,
Uh huh.

Speaker 5 (25:05):
One of them is I always wonder how you both
managed to juggle too job family time and you know,
work commitments and things like that.

Speaker 3 (25:11):
That's just like that'll make me cry my family, So
it's all good. And the third one is have you
ever pictured each other naked.

Speaker 1 (25:18):
All the time? Dailey?

Speaker 3 (25:20):
Right now, I'm doing it the first thing we do
when we get into work.

Speaker 1 (25:22):
Dynamite ariolas.

Speaker 5 (25:27):
I actually don't at all, really tiny little lariolas anyway,
change my opinion right there? All right, So we want
you to ask us the questions and we will answer
them for you. Our next wall of truth is.

Speaker 1 (25:41):
At what time Max eight twenty today are because you're
thinking of areolas now? I know that you've got tiny
little raisins under there. Yeah, we want you to join us.
Please jump online, give us ring thirty one oh two
to three Mix Adelaide on Facebook. We want your questions
for the Wall of truth, make us uncomfortable all week
for your entertainment eight.

Speaker 4 (26:01):
Twenty and do you know what we can do better
than that? Who cares about how you juggle things? Or
why are you going into radio? No one cares about that?
Make them juicy thirteen one oh two.

Speaker 5 (26:09):
All right, I want to use this opportunity to praise
the grandees of Adelaide because on the weekend, I don't
know if you realized how.

Speaker 3 (26:18):
Busy the roads were. State chaps.

Speaker 5 (26:21):
I just my voysters broke state champs, hitting basketball.

Speaker 3 (26:27):
I was all over it.

Speaker 5 (26:28):
I have I am from a basketball family and normally
we have like four games on the weekend, but this
was like seven games, non stop.

Speaker 3 (26:35):
Basketball of basketball as well as soccer.

Speaker 5 (26:38):
The other son played soccer, so we were being pulled
all over the state non stop.

Speaker 3 (26:43):
I was sleeping in my car in Port Adelaide.

Speaker 5 (26:44):
I had a little nap, twenty five minute nap because
it wasn't enough time to drive from time to place
to play.

Speaker 1 (26:49):
So we went.

Speaker 3 (26:50):
Yeah, it was great. We went to Morphot, Avere, Morfoot, what.

Speaker 5 (26:55):
Is it more for vale Wayville, Spring Bank, Poort Adelaide.
People were going all over the shop right to support
their kids. And it started off on Saturday morning as well,
in the rain in soccer at the monastery. My mom
and dad are seventy four years old, and you know
how close I am to them. Yeah, and bublical Cord
is still attached. And Rosa came to every game. Six

(27:21):
basketball games that they came to and a soccer game.

Speaker 1 (27:23):
Don't they have anything better to do with the.

Speaker 5 (27:27):
In between that dad was hiking with his hiking group,
So yes he did, but he made sure he came.

Speaker 3 (27:32):
They were there in the rain. They drove all the way.

Speaker 5 (27:35):
Down to Port Adelaide at like eleven in the morning
and then all the way back at three in the afternoon.

Speaker 1 (27:39):
They have a serious illness that they're not telling you
about that, and they're just trying to spend the last time.

Speaker 3 (27:44):
You know how morbid I am. That's the worst thing
you can say to someone like me.

Speaker 1 (27:48):
Do your children appreciate it? They appreciate it?

Speaker 5 (27:52):
Well, apparently Austin was writing them. That's my oldest son
was writing the messages yesterday saying thank you so much
for coming. Like they do appreciate it, but I don't
think they realize how lucky they are to have their
grandparents at every single game. This is not just this weekend,
this is every weekend. They are there Wednesday night, Friday night, Saturday,
all day like it's full on.

Speaker 1 (28:13):
My dad came and watched me play football on the weekend. Ah,
I understand how this feels really nice. I mean, your
kids are thirteen and I'm thirty three.

Speaker 3 (28:22):
But was it nice having your dad there?

Speaker 1 (28:23):
It's always nice. And he sits near the bench, So
I walk off the ground and I give him a
little high five. Heyes, how are you playing well? Playing poorly?
Do this? Don't do that.

Speaker 5 (28:30):
See it's these kind of parents that like they don't
have to do that, and it just makes me go,
you are so amazing. And that's just one thing that
they do to support the kids. They do so much
for me. They're the reason I'm semi sane. So I'd
love to know on thirteen one oh two three, can
we just use this opportunity to praise some amazing people

(28:51):
at Adelaide? Your your your parents, So the grandparents of Adelaide?

Speaker 3 (28:54):
What do they do for you?

Speaker 1 (28:55):
Do you want to know how many games in sport
they went to?

Speaker 3 (28:57):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (28:58):
Yeah I do, So what'd you set what We're seven?
All up? You've set seven over two days? Yeah, can
you beat that?

Speaker 3 (29:05):
Can you beat it?

Speaker 1 (29:06):
Can anyone beat that? Support grandparents' parents out there? Thirty
one O two three. Hey, if you give us a ring,
we do have some Hungry Jack's vouchers to give you
as well, one hundred dollars Hungry jacksvoucher if you can
beat Hayley.

Speaker 5 (29:17):
I will say there was a moment when I was
sitting next to Dad and I was like, can you
shut up because you're going to get kicked out so
aggressive and yelly, and I'm like it's being filmed and
everyone's going to hear this on the video.

Speaker 1 (29:31):
Oh it's because winning is everything and don't let anyone
tell you otherwise. Kids.

Speaker 3 (29:36):
Yeah, all right, thirty one oh G three.

Speaker 5 (29:39):
We want to praise the grandparents of Adelaide. We are
praising the grandparents of Adelaide at the moment after I
just had a massive weekend, as so many parents in
Adelaide did with state champs. On the weekend for basketball,
we were pulled from morphot Vale to Port Adelaide, to
spring Bank to Wayville, just non stop games, right, and

(30:00):
the most beautiful thing about it is that my parents
were there the whole time. They came together. They do
everything together. They're like Sidefeld parents, everything together, seven games
of sport on the weekend, and.

Speaker 3 (30:11):
I was like, you guys are so amazing.

Speaker 5 (30:13):
I hope my kids realize how lucky they are to
have grandparents like you. So we want to use this
opportunity to thank other grandparents.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
As fat boys, Slim says, we want to praise you
thirty and one or two three mile in Salisbury Heights.
Who would you like to praise this morning?

Speaker 7 (30:27):
Hi, I would like to praise my mother in law Vestner. Okay, yeah,
she does so much for like everybody. She she has
like basically raised like she raises her drank his wife,
their parents work. My husband and she's work three jobs
and both have we have two daughters. And she has
three daughters and she'll take them to school every day,

(30:50):
pick them up. She does our washing. She basically looks
after it. We need to go out. She cooks thinner
for us because we be there because we're staving for
am all gives at the moment she is yes, she
is yes, sure was or come home and I.

Speaker 3 (31:08):
Are you done?

Speaker 1 (31:09):
Do you do anything.

Speaker 7 (31:12):
He's like a mom or husband and everyone in one person.
She's been doing this for their first grand baby, who
is sixteen.

Speaker 1 (31:20):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (31:21):
Do you know what, We wouldn't be able to do
our lives if we didn't have our parents.

Speaker 3 (31:24):
Will we mail?

Speaker 8 (31:25):
No? Yeah?

Speaker 7 (31:27):
Yeah, you have to, like you have to have to
go out again, you know when you're a little too,
if your kids can go out and yeah, yeah I
can't just because old to days about.

Speaker 3 (31:36):
It sounds amazing. We love her?

Speaker 1 (31:39):
Does thank you? Perfect call? A perfect amount of praise, Terra?
I'm sorry if I got that wrong, Karra in Meadows,
Who do you praise?

Speaker 9 (31:48):
I would like to praise my mum and dad who
come out and watch me play netball at three.

Speaker 10 (31:57):
I just want to come back.

Speaker 9 (31:58):
And you Yeah, good old Clarendon Netball Club and my
mom and dad watch my step kids. They were out
every week for footy and netball and when I retired
from network, they were devastated.

Speaker 7 (32:15):
So the first call.

Speaker 10 (32:16):
I made when I was deciding to do a comeback
was of course the mom.

Speaker 8 (32:20):
And dad were there.

Speaker 10 (32:22):
They were there the first week with my friend shouses
mom and stepdad as well.

Speaker 3 (32:26):
They are the.

Speaker 1 (32:27):
Best, Sarah, what are they like as supporters. Even now
that you're fifty three and you're no longer thirteen years old.
What are they like on the sidelines watching Haley.

Speaker 7 (32:36):
My dad could be banned with your dad and my husband.

Speaker 9 (32:40):
They are full on supporters. So we lu.

Speaker 5 (32:44):
And in that moment you can't tell them off either.
They just go wild.

Speaker 3 (32:48):
Yeah, exactly, mate, they live their whole life.

Speaker 1 (32:52):
They'd be seventy something, very loud to be abusive. Time. Yeah,
thank you so much. I love you call, and I
love the image of your parents watching you. At fifty three.
Plague netwill come back. So you've got one hundred dollars
hungry jacks about all right?

Speaker 9 (33:06):
Awesome, thanks so much, have a good job.

Speaker 3 (33:08):
Takes care.

Speaker 1 (33:10):
We have one more caller who has called in to
talk about being a supportive grandparent. You could hear him
clearing his that's what dads, it's what your dad does.
Because this is WADEO, your dad on the line. Morning Wayne,
Good morning everybody.

Speaker 4 (33:26):
Dad.

Speaker 5 (33:27):
I know I said to you so many times yesterday
how nice it was that you both come to all
of their sports, but I don't think you realize how
much it actually means to us.

Speaker 8 (33:37):
Well, thank you, well, We don't do it for the fact.
We do it just to be out there and be
involved with the family, and it's also our way of
catching up with all of you as well. But I
just love supporting it, supporting the boys and you and James.
And James does a fantastic job as well.

Speaker 3 (33:56):
That's my husband, James, Jimmy.

Speaker 8 (33:59):
Those kids out there in all sports, so most of them,
every one of them love it, may put their heart
into it.

Speaker 3 (34:05):
Dad, can I just tell Max what you do?

Speaker 5 (34:08):
So we we go through the roller coasters of emotions
with my dad, and I will say. My mom's there
all the time too, but she gets nervous to talk
for the radio, so that's why we don't have her on.
But Dad, Austin, my oldest son will get a goal
and what did you do?

Speaker 8 (34:21):
Screaming and carrying on.

Speaker 5 (34:23):
My boy tears and then and then when there's something
bad happens on the court, Dad, mouth's off.

Speaker 1 (34:32):
Good do you let the red Oh?

Speaker 8 (34:34):
No? Not? Look you know upset. I get really upset
when there's aggression out there, particularly with basketball, and get
someone get smashed and the reps do to pick it up.
But I don't really have to go.

Speaker 2 (34:48):
Up the root.

Speaker 3 (34:49):
But you see the aggression and you get aggressive, yes, yes.

Speaker 8 (34:52):
No, no, no, just just loud.

Speaker 3 (34:54):
It's like you've done that twice now, yeah.

Speaker 8 (34:57):
Well that's right these kids. But then I spoke to
his mum afterwards and she said, I know he was
just putting it on.

Speaker 1 (35:06):
Over there, sitting in the Grandstown going I'll be waiting
for you in the car part twenty four.

Speaker 3 (35:11):
It's so true.

Speaker 5 (35:12):
Dad is seventy four but actually feels like he's twenty
seven and the body of a twenty seven year old.

Speaker 1 (35:17):
And I want, I want to say, and I'm.

Speaker 8 (35:20):
Not one of those awful parents that know they have
signed up saying don't be one of these parents, not
like that at all, but really enthusiastic, particularly when when
something goes well for the kids. And yesterday's game at
the end it was just the most It was like
a Grand Final, and those kids put everything they had
into it. So I love to support them. And if
I was doing the same too, rightly getting the mouth

(35:42):
off a bit there.

Speaker 5 (35:43):
And mom says like one thing, and Dad's like, keep quiet, Wayne,
thank you so much for supporting Hailey's kids.

Speaker 1 (35:51):
I would love to give you a hundred dollars hungry
Jack's boutcher, but I already gave it away. Sorry, So
it's not a freaking ten questions, sixty seconds, thousand dollars
alien Max's money, all.

Speaker 5 (36:09):
Right, Michael, and Nailsworth is about to retire that feeling, Michael,
when you're about to go into your boss and say up, Pures,
I'm out of here.

Speaker 1 (36:16):
Stick it up one a grand this morning for radio,
and I don't ever want to be in front of
you again. That's what you go to look forward to, Michael.
Or you're feeling confident, Yeah, yes, I am.

Speaker 5 (36:27):
Oh you sound confident, mate. Do you play this like
most mornings in a car.

Speaker 2 (36:32):
In my head with my kids?

Speaker 1 (36:33):
But yeah, yeah, so we've got this. Okay, okay, you
sound smart. This is good. I love the confiden I'm.

Speaker 3 (36:39):
Gonna give you the rules, all right, Michael.

Speaker 5 (36:40):
You probably know this, but I tell you anyway, if
you pass, we'll come back to it at the end
and we must accept your first answer.

Speaker 1 (36:47):
Okay, cool, all right, he knows that he is confident. Hey,
let's not beat around the bush anymore. Let's start the
rest of your life right now, Michael. By winning a
one thousand topers money minute? Okay, ten question, sixty seconds?
Your time starts now. Who did Port Adelaide lose to
on Saturday afternoon?

Speaker 2 (37:04):
Along?

Speaker 3 (37:04):
Which Holy figure did ol Bow meet on the weekend?

Speaker 2 (37:07):
The Pope?

Speaker 3 (37:08):
Which country won Eurovision on the weekend?

Speaker 1 (37:11):
Pa?

Speaker 3 (37:12):
What colored lights usually flash on a police car?

Speaker 2 (37:16):
Red? And blue?

Speaker 1 (37:18):
What country is Guinness from Island? How many wheels on
a regular car? Which artist has the album's Fever and
Light Years.

Speaker 2 (37:29):
Path?

Speaker 1 (37:30):
Where on your body would you usually wear.

Speaker 3 (37:32):
Havanas, I'll take it.

Speaker 1 (37:37):
What suburb is the current Women's and Children's hospital in.

Speaker 2 (37:41):
Adelaide?

Speaker 1 (37:42):
How many minutes in an hour?

Speaker 6 (37:44):
In?

Speaker 1 (37:44):
Half an hour?

Speaker 2 (37:45):
Bertie?

Speaker 1 (37:46):
What country won Eurovision on the weekends? Give me a
country you're you're fan England? Which artist has albums Fever
and Light Years? Which is an Australian artist Fever and
Light Years? Famous Australian songstress? Come on, Asian? My favorite

(38:08):
songstress is Yeah?

Speaker 3 (38:10):
Okay, he couldn't get.

Speaker 1 (38:12):
Them all were close, Michael, Yeah.

Speaker 3 (38:14):
You were pretty good. Who did Port Adelaide loose on
the weekend? Geelong?

Speaker 1 (38:19):
Yep?

Speaker 3 (38:19):
Holy Figure? Did Elbow meet on the weekend? The Pope?

Speaker 5 (38:23):
Blue and red are the colors that police car flashes
on their lights.

Speaker 3 (38:27):
Guinness is from Ireland. A car has four.

Speaker 1 (38:30):
Wheels as a top one that was good that.

Speaker 5 (38:34):
Max said, Havana's it's heavy honors a cave shop. You said,
feet yes, suburb that the Women's and Children's Hospital in
is in is North Adelaide. Thirty minutes and half an hour.
Then we get to the tricky ones, the ones you passed.
Which country won Eurovision on the weekend?

Speaker 3 (38:55):
It was Austria.

Speaker 1 (38:58):
Is that you little Austrian accent?

Speaker 3 (38:59):
Austria Austria sound Scottish?

Speaker 5 (39:02):
And which artist has the album's Fever and light Years?

Speaker 3 (39:06):
We said, which female artist?

Speaker 1 (39:07):
You said, guys, I did try to tip you into
it with the songstress, famous Australian songstress.

Speaker 3 (39:14):
We did get guy out in yet It's all right,
you got nervous, but it was Kylie Minogue.

Speaker 1 (39:17):
Kylie oh damn okay? Hey Michael eighty bucks.

Speaker 3 (39:21):
Yeah that's good, a baking great?

Speaker 1 (39:23):
You can you can kind of half retire on that
telling me you're taking a week of unpaid leave with
your eighty Bardala takes over. It's a wall of truth.

(39:43):
Neither of us really like doing it, but it does
end up being mildly interesting every single day. We usually
have here in this studio a whole bunch of envelopes
on the wall with some tricky questions. We flip a coin.
Hailey or I have to answer one of these tough
questions every day, delving deep into our lives, past story.
Since we don't want to share this week, it's open

(40:04):
to you, Adelaide. You can get in touch on Facebook,
on our Instagram, head to any of the mixed one
O two three socials you know, give us a rink
thirty one O two three, We'll take it. We want
your questions that you want to ask us. You get
to choose who you want to ask it to.

Speaker 5 (40:19):
I get really like legit sweaty palms in this segment
because I don't know what you're going to say. We've
got Chloe and Highbury on the phone.

Speaker 3 (40:25):
Hello Chloe, Hi, how are you going with?

Speaker 1 (40:30):
Hello? Who do you want to ask a question of?

Speaker 3 (40:32):
First of all my questions for Hailey, brilliant Chloe.

Speaker 1 (40:36):
I knew I liked you, Okay, Haley with your question
in the world of truth, So.

Speaker 11 (40:42):
Obviously you know we listen to you every morning. Lots
of folly on Instagram as well. You do seem like
you have this.

Speaker 7 (40:49):
Like pretty good life, pretty cool life.

Speaker 2 (40:53):
Perfect.

Speaker 11 (40:53):
Yeah, yeah, I want to know what's the one thing
that you don't like about yourself?

Speaker 3 (41:02):
Oh ah, is there anything?

Speaker 5 (41:04):
There's a lot of things. What do I not like
about myself? All right, I'll tell you what I don't
like about myself? Am I telling you now?

Speaker 2 (41:14):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (41:16):
Coloe's got I had called from a phone box.

Speaker 10 (41:19):
I have Chloe.

Speaker 5 (41:20):
This is what I changed about myself as well. Sorry,
just hang on the line.

Speaker 1 (41:24):
Forty seconds left.

Speaker 5 (41:26):
I have a morbid brain. And okay, So until I
was about twenty three years old. I moved away from
home at twenty three, and I was before then so carefree.
I was like the best version of Hailey. I did
not think about death at all. I didn't worry about anything.
I was just so carefree and happy. I'd never experienced

(41:47):
any touring room in my life at all. And then
I moved away to Queensland, and I remember my first
year of living away. My dad calls me and says
that his brother, so my uncle, had been killed in
a car accident. And that moment for me was so
pivotal that it completely changed It's almost like it changed
my chemical makeup that.

Speaker 1 (42:07):
I will for innocence.

Speaker 5 (42:08):
Yeah, I walked through this door, I shut the door,
and I was never the same again. And I wish
I could go back to that point and be the
old Haley. But from then on, my brain has been
so riddled with anxiety about bad.

Speaker 3 (42:22):
Things happening to my family.

Speaker 5 (42:24):
This is the reason I'm on zoloft, not because I'm
anxious or depressed, but because Zoloft is an antidepressant depressant.

Speaker 3 (42:32):
Because yeah, because I worry.

Speaker 5 (42:34):
It's a full thing that I just have to calm
my brain from worrying so much. And because I am
a really creative person. Like my brain is like one
hundred percent creative.

Speaker 1 (42:45):
And it goes in million miles an hour.

Speaker 5 (42:47):
I see things, I hear things, I smell things that
are actually like I come up with scenarios on my
head that haven't happened. I'll give you one example is
when the boys were little, I reckon They'll probably like
one in four and my husband was off surfing and
I used to panic the drive down, the drive back
and in the water. I would panic that he would die,

(43:08):
and then the car accident and so I would be
at home.

Speaker 3 (43:11):
And I remember this one moment, I was home with
the boys.

Speaker 5 (43:13):
It was a Saturday morning, and I saw these two
men walking towards where he used to have a front
door with like the window panels. And I could see
these two men coming towards the front door, and I
was like in my head, thinking, this is my worst nightmare.
These are these are the policemen, and they're coming to
tell me that Jimmy's being found.

Speaker 3 (43:33):
Yep, I was. I was waiting for it.

Speaker 5 (43:34):
And so as I'm walking towards the door, my whole body,
I feel my whole body go into the into the shock.

Speaker 3 (43:41):
And I fell to the floor.

Speaker 1 (43:42):
He had no reason to think.

Speaker 3 (43:43):
No reason other than just seeing two men come to
the door, open the door. It was it was Mormons
on a Saturday morning. Like it was literally Mormons. But
thank god.

Speaker 5 (43:55):
I was like, I'm so happy that it's you and
not cops, but that I.

Speaker 1 (44:00):
Will accept happy to hear about sign me up.

Speaker 5 (44:04):
But I that's that's my brain. I've been I've seeked,
I've seen a psychologist about it. I've tried to be
hypnotized for it. I'm definitely heaps better than what.

Speaker 3 (44:13):
I was, But I worry.

Speaker 5 (44:15):
That's why I have life three sixty and I follow
my kids everywhere. I follow my husband, my parents, people
that I care about because the bigger the love, the
bigger the loss, and I'm so scared of.

Speaker 3 (44:25):
Losing people that I love. There you go.

Speaker 5 (44:28):
So if I could change anything about myself, it's that
I wish I could change that part of my brain
that worries, and I wish I could be pre Hailey
twenty three years old.

Speaker 3 (44:39):
So thanks, Chloe' hung up? Who money run out?

Speaker 1 (44:43):
Someone else wanted to use the phone. Have you ever
been first on scene for something? Call us thirty one
O two three. I'm desperate to hear the stories I
my wife and I We were first on scene for
a car fire recently, so obviously working in a newsroom
at Channel ten, we see a lot of these things
from people who are first on scene, and the vision's

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always incredible, Like whether it's a dramatic story or you're
just the first person that happens to be at someone's
amazing life event, it just sticks with you. So we
are driving home from a couple weeks ago, driving home
from Goolwa and the road between. If you've ever done
that drive from the South coast from about gool with

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Victor Harbor. I think they all link up and you
can go across like inmand Valley, and then you end
up over on Victor Harbor Road, and then you end
up on South Road, that little windy bit. We've come
around a corner at one point driving home on a
Sunday morning, and there's a car that starts like flashing
its lights at us the other way, and I'm just like, oh,
speed camera. I've seen a speed camera on this road before.

(45:46):
I drive around the corner and there's another car that stopped.
It is on the side of the road and they
are vigorously flashing their lights. I got something bad is happening.
We slow right down, turn the next corner and there's
a couple of cars waiting. I can see just on
my side of the road, I can see a couple
of cars about three hundred meters up the road on
the other side that have pulled over the side because

(46:07):
in the middle there's a little Niss and Tina Wow
that is pulled over to the side of the road
and is full on fire.

Speaker 3 (46:17):
You just showed me the visual vision.

Speaker 5 (46:18):
Now is that your Did you film that on an iPhone?

Speaker 2 (46:21):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (46:22):
It always baffles me when you are first on the
scene that someone's first thought is all better film this.

Speaker 1 (46:26):
No, So my first thought was to be honest, I
won't save their lives.

Speaker 3 (46:29):
They could just still be stuck in the car. But
I'll just get my phone out. Let me take you
through my chain of thought. My first thought was I
should film this for work.

Speaker 1 (46:35):
My second thought, which came really quickly, which which came
really quickly afterwards, was I should check you for the
alive I filmed. So I jumped out of the car
and there was another bloke that had just run up
the road and he's like, yeah, those two people sitting
on the side there, they're the ones out of the car.
The car carcked it. They didn't crash, the car's carked it.
They've jumped out. The smoke started, so they're all fifty

(46:57):
meters away. Everyone's fine. I like, see that the old
couple that's got out. They give me a thumbs up.
And then I'm like, I'm gonna film this because it's
incredible vision.

Speaker 3 (47:06):
And then I'm just gonna go on the other side
of the lane and drive home.

Speaker 1 (47:08):
And that's exactly what I did. What am I going
to do so they've called the fire. They've called the
fireber gad there on their way from Mount Compass or
wherever the nearest fire station is. But yeah, we me
and another car and two others on the other side
of the road, first on scene for this. The people
are all right, thankfully. I didn't have to do anything, yeah,
to save any lives. But what would you do?

Speaker 5 (47:30):
Because there was always someone first on seeing. In fact,
I remember someone that went to my old high school
and I don't she's a fashion designer now. Anyway, she
was apparently in the tunnels when Diana had her crash.
She was one of the first people. Yeah, no, Diana,
one of the school moms. What happened to her? Diana?

Speaker 1 (47:53):
Other people have been named Diana and driven through tunnels before.

Speaker 3 (47:56):
When I say Diana is Diana?

Speaker 1 (47:59):
Yeah? Wait, so she was part of Diana's She was no, no.

Speaker 5 (48:03):
No, she wasn't with Diana. She was just happened to
be in the tunnel when that all happened. So she was,
like you, one of the first people on the scene.
Can you imagine, yes, and think Diana pulled out of
a car, but not knowing it's her either, because you
wouldn't have known it was Diana in the car.

Speaker 1 (48:16):
I would love to hear your stories thirteen one oh
two three. And they can be those like dramatic ones
where it's a carcash, but it can also be Were
you the first person out there when South Australia won
the Sheffield Shield? You were the first person to get
to Jason Sanger and hung him and hugged him after
he won the hit the winning runs for us? Yeah,
like first on that sete.

Speaker 5 (48:35):
Okay, they are the scenes. We want to talk about
the good and the bad, mainly the good. We don't
really really want to hear the sad stories today thirteen
one oh two three.

Speaker 1 (48:43):
We would love to hear from you on thirteen one
oh two three. What were your first on scene for
My wife and I were driving home from Gula and
we were on one of those windy roads as you
go through like Inman Valley. Down there turned the corner,
people were flashing their lights at us. Turn another corner.
There is a car on fire, like full on fire,
going up the tree on fire. Everyone was fine. We

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were some of the first people there and checked on
everyone and then filmed it because.

Speaker 3 (49:09):
Everyone would have had different angles. Did it end up
on the news.

Speaker 1 (49:12):
Your foot did I said it straight to achieve of stuff?

Speaker 3 (49:14):
Did they credit you?

Speaker 1 (49:16):
I didn't. Yeah, put me in a little corner, put
a bubble up the top for me. So I want
to know from you, Adelaide, what were your first on scene?

Speaker 3 (49:22):
Four thirty one, two three. All right, Emily and port Wolanga.
What happened?

Speaker 11 (49:27):
Good morning team? Yeah, Valentine's this day this year, my
partner and I were heading out for Valentine's Day dinner,
heading north down Main south Broad is a dinger and
my partner says to me, honey, that car's on fire.
And I said, no, it's not so very ridiculous, and
he goes, no, it actually is. And I couldn't see
the driver and yeah. As I turned and look, she

(49:49):
was sitting crouched down plugging the fence line, just watching
this car smoke. Oh no floor across two lanes through
my carne to reverse and a reverse buck up south road.
Got out of the car and I said to my
partner called tripool zero and he goes, I'm on the
phone to the one three one to four number, partner,

(50:12):
So I dial people with her as I played cross
the road running across the four lane. I didn't even
care about the car. I just cared about this poor girl.
After she was okay, and she just said no, And
I said what happened? And she said, on my car,
my parents' car just started to smoke. And I said, oh, like,
was there any bang or smash or anything. She goes, no,

(50:33):
she just started to smoke, and then she cried the
second she saw the flame. Then she goes, my parents
have had this car for thirty three years and just
bent to the ground. So, yeah, it was a Valentine's
Day to remember for this poor young girl.

Speaker 1 (50:51):
Thank god you stopped. Yeah, you would then to help
her out. Emily, I just flagged down.

Speaker 11 (50:56):
There was a car accident further up south road, and yeah,
I just flagged down the ambulance that was driving past,
and yeah, they treated there for shock and things like that.

Speaker 5 (51:07):
You're actually reminding me of this is a sign right now,
because I've been getting alerts on my I've got Evolvo
like alerts to my car saying you need to take
you all, you need to do that, and I just
haven't had time.

Speaker 3 (51:17):
I'm thinking this is maybe a sign that I should
do that.

Speaker 1 (51:19):
I would do ye reason. Please do Okay, thank you, Emily.

Speaker 3 (51:23):
There's a reason those alerts are on your car. I
just go ignore, ignore, no, do it for a reason.

Speaker 1 (51:29):
Gay in Mount Barker, Kay, what happened? Hi?

Speaker 10 (51:34):
Guys. This is a couple of years ago and my
daughter was having her wedding dress taken in just at
a house near Whitmore Square, and she asked me to
go and move her or check on her car, or
move the car, just because we were there for a
little bit too long. I'm trying to find her car.
And as I went around the corner, a lady ran
up to me and said she'd been stabbed.

Speaker 1 (51:55):
Oh my god, I know that.

Speaker 10 (51:57):
Was my thought too. Hey, And she'd been stabbed in
the leg and she was sort of holding her leg
and one of her friends ran over to us. So
she sat down and I said, okay, I'll call an
ambulance and got onto Triple zero and she said, well,
that's the guy that did it, and he was walking away.

Speaker 8 (52:18):
And so.

Speaker 10 (52:20):
Well he was there, yeah, And so I rang Triple
zero and I said, look, I need an ambulance and
I think we need police, but there's been a stabbing
and I'm going to follow I'll follow the guy. And
they're going, well, don't get too close.

Speaker 1 (52:35):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (52:37):
So and they said which directions he heading in I'll
come from man Mount Barker and I said, I've got
no idea, but he's heading towards the city and the
park is on the left, and so they worked out
where that was. And so all of this time, my
daughter's ringing saying where are you and trying and I'm
not picking up.

Speaker 1 (53:00):
I'm James Bond out here.

Speaker 10 (53:04):
And so I kept following him and the police are saying,
don't hang up, and I'm not going to up. Where
is he now? And I said, I said, look, I'm
about thirty meters behind him and he's walking towards the
city and he's about to turn left, and exactly where
is he now? And I said, well, he's approaching sort
of two apartment blocks. Like I've got no idea. Well,

(53:27):
it was like a scene out of a movie in America.
There was a police current because he was about to
cross this lane. And I gave it full description of
what he was wearing, what he looked like. Because I'm
following the guy. I couldn't see his face. I wasn't
going to run round to the front and anyway they
it was just like a scene out of a cop
show in America.

Speaker 3 (53:46):
Happened to the end of the movie.

Speaker 10 (53:48):
They did a car in front of him, a car
behind him, two cars onto the onto the grass in
Whitmore Square, two ambulances for her. And I was like, yeah, okay,
and then they said, well, thank you.

Speaker 11 (54:08):
Can we have your n.

Speaker 7 (54:11):
It's sure.

Speaker 3 (54:11):
Now you're part of the swat team.

Speaker 1 (54:13):
Yeah. Now whenever there's a problem. Grant Stephens calls gay director,
what do you think we should know? Gay man Barker,
Oh my god, what a story. Brilliant, Thank you.

Speaker 5 (54:22):
Gay, gayly moly stabbed and then hunted.

Speaker 1 (54:27):
Well done, Gay. Yeah, if you wanted to do that
the whole time we're talking to didn't you take goodbye?
It's time.

Speaker 3 (54:34):
It's time to go. Have a great day. Everybody. We
love you all you see