FULL SHOW #72: HAYLEY CAUGHT HER SON DOING SOMETHING ILLEGAL

FULL SHOW #72:

HAYLEY CAUGHT HER SON DOING SOMETHING ILLEGAL 

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Speaker 1 (00:10):
I heard podcasts here more mixed one or two point
three podcasts, playlists and listen live on the Free iHeart app.

Speaker 2 (00:17):
Haley and Max in the Morning.

Speaker 3 (00:18):
With these two together, anything can happen.

Speaker 4 (00:24):
This is Hailey and Max in the Morning. Get it
hate that number one.

Speaker 3 (00:29):
It's good fun, so much fun.

Speaker 4 (00:32):
It's fine face because I get it.

Speaker 3 (00:36):
Hate that. I know what to find it.

Speaker 4 (00:40):
We get any I'm ready or not?

Speaker 5 (00:43):
Good morning, I Hailey Pierce and Max birth five degrees
right down my goal.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
It is so cold. You know what I did this morning.
It's actually a good tip for everybody. I got my
hair dryer before I left and just put it down
my back and just like front, I was fully bressed
and I was like, oh, yeah, that is so good.
Sometimes put down my pants.

Speaker 1 (01:02):
Well, you could do the dryer like the thy clothes
in a dryer for five minutes.

Speaker 3 (01:07):
We don't have a dryer, and it's a big argument
at my house. Really, Jimmy's never wanted to dry because
he prefers them to dry naturally.

Speaker 1 (01:14):
I've always been that person in the middle of winter,
I'm sorry, I don't want my clothes hanging on.

Speaker 4 (01:18):
The line for six days to dry.

Speaker 3 (01:20):
Thank you. We're just literally this has been twenty years
of this argument. And on the weekend I was talking
to this mum at basketball and she was I could
hear her talking to Jimmy about it, and I reckon,
he's listened to her, and now he's like, came home
going maybe we should get a dryer.

Speaker 4 (01:33):
You should get a dry Jimmy.

Speaker 3 (01:34):
I'd saying this forever.

Speaker 1 (01:35):
You don't have to use it all the time. We
only use it for four five months a year.

Speaker 3 (01:39):
He knows me, and he knows that I'll put everything
in the dryer just because I can't be bothered hanging
it out.

Speaker 4 (01:44):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you would do that.

Speaker 3 (01:47):
I will do everything shrink. All the things that you're
not supposed to put the drive shrink.

Speaker 1 (01:51):
And the amount of socks that you lose now just
by having the washing and then transporting out to the
washing line.

Speaker 4 (01:56):
We're double yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:56):
Yeah, yeah, I'll put things like you know when they
have buttons that you're not supposed to put in the drive,
but you listen to it, it'll.

Speaker 4 (02:01):
Be like, yeah, because all the buttons it'd be loose.

Speaker 1 (02:05):
Change in their phone. You put a phone in the drive. Sure,
all that stuff. Yeah, something to worry about.

Speaker 3 (02:11):
But ooh, the clothes be warm, so warm anyway.

Speaker 5 (02:16):
Items like the Italian dad that has the air concept
on twenty six degrees when it's hot.

Speaker 1 (02:20):
Eh and then yeah he soon you reach your hand
for the thermostat.

Speaker 4 (02:24):
Stop, didn't touch my thermostat.

Speaker 3 (02:28):
He is very domestic though, and he does all of
our washing like he's up at like midnight hanging things out.
He's so good.

Speaker 1 (02:35):
It changes with I reckon the older you get though,
like he's he's in prime dad, don't touch a thermostat
where I reckon the older that he gets. Because my
dad was the same, like very practical, very Why would
we use the power that the dryer has when.

Speaker 4 (02:50):
We could just hang out on the line.

Speaker 1 (02:51):
Yeah. Now you walk into you walk into their house
and it is thirty nine degrees really hot on the
coldest day we've had all year. For dinner, I had
to take off like a jumper instantly. I'm sitting there
fanning myself at the table.

Speaker 3 (03:11):
I love that. I love a hot hand because it's
just like, you know what, this is fun, this is
what you work for.

Speaker 1 (03:16):
You work to retire and be able to afford your
electricity bills. It's bright and early, and we like to
get each other up and about.

Speaker 4 (03:27):
For the day by a bit of friendly, friendly competition.

Speaker 3 (03:31):
Yeah, we hope you play along as well, because it's
quite fun working out of people a dare alive yesterday
who knew that Kirsty Ally had died. Feel like we
should like have another service memorial, Yeah, like at Centennial Park, Yeah,
or the big cathedral, Like have some big memori of
all the people that we didn't know had died.

Speaker 1 (03:51):
We'll sprinkle some just light dust and pretend it was
what she would have wanted.

Speaker 4 (03:56):
She would have loved that, she would love to Centennial Park.

Speaker 3 (03:59):
She was a great person.

Speaker 4 (04:00):
So this is how it goes.

Speaker 1 (04:02):
We get given we're head to head Haley and I.
We get given some famous celebrity names. Some alives I'm dead.
We have to ascertain which one are they?

Speaker 3 (04:11):
Yeah, and it's quite tricky. All right, are we ready
to do this? Vergoe with the names?

Speaker 2 (04:17):
All right? Max, kicking off with you today? Thank you?
Tom Jones, Oh, Tom.

Speaker 1 (04:23):
Sir, Tom Jones, I spoke, I interviewed Tom Jones.

Speaker 2 (04:27):
Yeah, forgot.

Speaker 1 (04:28):
Yes, unless Tom Jones has died in the last twelve months,
I'm pretty sure he's alive.

Speaker 4 (04:34):
My guy, So Tom, he was really lovely. I would
have said dead. I asked him a question.

Speaker 1 (04:41):
I was like, you know you're a sir when you
book plane tickets, do you tick the little box that
says sir instead of mister? And he goes, I don't
book plane tickets.

Speaker 2 (04:50):
Max, of course, all right, Haley Coolio.

Speaker 3 (04:58):
Oh Gangster's Paradise.

Speaker 4 (05:01):
I have a Coolio story as well, No Coolier.

Speaker 1 (05:06):
I went one of the falls vestivals I went to
in like twin eleven, Coolio came and played, and everyone
else plays like a forty five minute set because they got.

Speaker 4 (05:12):
A bunch of songs. Julio has one song.

Speaker 1 (05:14):
So he played fifteen minutes and involved paying Gangs's Paradise twice.

Speaker 3 (05:19):
Okay, so he was alive in twenty eleven.

Speaker 4 (05:21):
I know that he was alive. Then yeah, I feel like.

Speaker 3 (05:24):
He may have had a tragic passing.

Speaker 1 (05:28):
Gone to the big Gangster's paradise in the sky.

Speaker 2 (05:31):
Yeah he's dead all overdose. In twenty twenty.

Speaker 4 (05:33):
Two, No Coolio not did he not?

Speaker 2 (05:38):
Good?

Speaker 4 (05:38):
One good? That's very good. You should be on the radio.

Speaker 5 (05:41):
Birch Gordon Brown, who was a British Prime Minister until
twenty ten.

Speaker 4 (05:53):
British politics.

Speaker 3 (05:55):
He should be all over this, mister know it all?

Speaker 4 (05:57):
What is that?

Speaker 2 (05:57):
What does that mean?

Speaker 3 (05:58):
You know everything?

Speaker 1 (06:00):
I don't know a whole lot about the twenty ten
British Parliament. I'm going to say that Gordon Brown is dead.
How would you bring him up if he was alive?
Where have you pulled that from?

Speaker 2 (06:11):
Just run it out of people, Man Haley, James L.

Speaker 4 (06:15):
Jones, James L. Jones, Darth Vader.

Speaker 3 (06:20):
Yeah he died.

Speaker 4 (06:24):
Yeah, what did I don't know when he took the
mask off?

Speaker 3 (06:28):
James L. Jones, the one that was in the Green Mile?

Speaker 4 (06:33):
Is he? Are we talking about different people?

Speaker 2 (06:35):
We'll let you figure that out after. You don't know
he's he's the voice.

Speaker 4 (06:39):
What does he look like?

Speaker 2 (06:41):
An old guy? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (06:43):
The liking. Okay, that's all you had to say, Mafussa.

Speaker 4 (06:45):
I'm sorry I would have known. Yeah, he died.

Speaker 3 (06:48):
He was also in you know.

Speaker 4 (06:50):
Okay, that's it. Coming to America, it's my turn. I
need this to stay a large or was all right?

Speaker 2 (06:56):
Bobby Christina Brown?

Speaker 4 (06:58):
The hell's Bobby Brown?

Speaker 6 (06:59):
Good?

Speaker 3 (07:00):
I know this one.

Speaker 2 (07:01):
Whitney Houston's daughter, Ah.

Speaker 4 (07:04):
Whitney's gone. Bobby's alive still.

Speaker 3 (07:08):
Bobby died.

Speaker 4 (07:11):
Bobby died.

Speaker 3 (07:12):
Yeah, that I've won like by far.

Speaker 4 (07:17):
Yeah, we get that.

Speaker 3 (07:18):
So why haven't I've got a whistle saying congratulations, you've won.
Thank you?

Speaker 4 (07:25):
Yeah, good for you. A lot of things, don't you
guessed all of yours?

Speaker 7 (07:31):
No?

Speaker 3 (07:31):
I did not. I know who they are. I didn't
guess anything. Just let me have my winning moment, mate,
that's why he is.

Speaker 7 (07:41):
Dead.

Speaker 4 (07:43):
Yeah. Adelaide takes over special edition of the Wall of
Truth this week.

Speaker 1 (07:59):
Adelaide that you get to decide what we answer.

Speaker 4 (08:02):
It's heavy hitting questions from you.

Speaker 1 (08:04):
You can get us on Facebook, you can get us
on Instagram, you can call us the only one or
two anytime.

Speaker 3 (08:09):
We lot Chloe in Highbury on the phone.

Speaker 4 (08:11):
Who do you want to ask a question of? First
of all my questions for Hailey? Damn okay Hailey with
your question in the Wall of Truth.

Speaker 8 (08:19):
So obviously you know we listened to you every morning.
Lots of folly on Instagram as well.

Speaker 9 (08:23):
You do seem like you have this pretty cool life.

Speaker 4 (08:26):
Perfect.

Speaker 8 (08:27):
I want to know what's the one thing that you
don't like about yourself?

Speaker 10 (08:32):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (08:32):
Ah, is there anything?

Speaker 3 (08:34):
There's a lot of things all right, I'll tell you
what I don't like about myself. I moved away from
home at twenty three, and I was before then so carefree.
I was like the best version of Hailey. I did
not think about death at all. I didn't worry about anything.
I was just so carefree and happy. I'd never experienced
any chum room in my life at all. And then
I moved away to Queensland and I remember my first

(08:56):
year of living away. My dad calls me and says
my uncle would have been killed in a car accident.
And that moment for me was so pivotal that it
completely changed. It's almost like it changed by chemical makeup
for innocence. Yeah, yeah, I walked through this door. I
shut the door, and I was never the same again.
And I wish I could go back to that point
and be the old Hayley. But from then on, my

(09:17):
brain has been so riddled with anxiety about bad things
happening to my family. This is the reason I'm on zoloft.

Speaker 4 (09:26):
What's soft.

Speaker 3 (09:27):
Zoloft is an antidepressant, because, yeah, because I worry, and
because I am a really creative person, Like my brain
is like one hundred percent creative.

Speaker 4 (09:37):
And it goes in million miles an hour.

Speaker 3 (09:39):
I see things, I hear things, I smell things that
are actually like. I come up with scenarios on my
head that haven't happened. I'll give you one example is
when the boys were little, I reckon they'll probably like
one in four and my husband was off surfing, and
I used to panic the drive down, the drive back
and in the water. I would panic that he would
die like sharks, sharks, and then the car accident, and

(10:01):
so I would be at home and I remember this
one moment I was home with the boys. It was
a Saturday morning, and I saw these two men walking
to wards where he used to have a front door
with like the window panels. And I could see these
two men coming towards the front door, and I was
like in my head, thinking, this is my worst nightmare.
These are the policemen, and they're coming to tell me
that Jimmy's being found. Yep. And so as I'm walking

(10:24):
towards the door, my whole body, I feel my whole
body go into the shop and I fell to the floor.

Speaker 4 (10:30):
He had no reason to think this.

Speaker 3 (10:31):
No reason other than just seeing two men come to
the door open the door. It was it was Mormons
on a Saturday morning, Like it was literally Mormons selling
the bike. But thank god. I was like, I'm so
happy that it's you and not cops, but that I
will accept happy to hear it, sign me up. But

(10:52):
that's my brain. I've seen a psychologist about it. I've
tried to be hypnotized for it. I'm definitely heaps better
than what I was, but I worried. It's why I
have life three sixty and I follow my kids everywhere.
I follow my husband, my parents, people that I care
about because the bigger the love, the bigger the loss,
and I I'm so scared of losing people. But I
love there you go. So if I could change anything

(11:13):
about myself, it's that I wish I could change that
part of my brain that worries, and I wish I
could be pre Hailey twenty three years old. This is
alien music. I don't want alien music. I want ghost music.
They're all the same, mate, No, they're not ghost I
don't really believe in aliens like whatever, I believe in
ghosts though.

Speaker 4 (11:33):
No, that's the wrong thing to know. You should believe
that there is other life. In the university. You should believe.

Speaker 3 (11:38):
I believe there's other life out there somewhere, but this
is the wrong music. Can you caull that?

Speaker 4 (11:42):
I don't like it?

Speaker 3 (11:43):
All right? Adelaide Arcade. You've been to Adelaide Arcade many
times in your life.

Speaker 4 (11:48):
Of course, just off front and walk.

Speaker 3 (11:53):
Because it's also wrong. Turn it all off.

Speaker 2 (11:56):
It's called ghost by Ella Henderson.

Speaker 3 (11:59):
I'm being serious here now, I'm talking about Adelaide Arcade
is one of the most haunted places in South Australia
in a good way. They have a friendly ghost. I
was there filming on Friday and I was with one
of the guys that's worked there for like twenty five years,
and I was saying to him, is this place haunted?
He's like, haven't you heard? Haven't you heard all the

(12:22):
stories of one hundred and forty years because they're celebrating
one hundred and forty years now of this beautiful old building,
like it's stunning. There was once a caretaker at the
Adelaide Arcade, little caretaker. His name was Francis Clooney.

Speaker 4 (12:36):
Francis George's brother, George's dad. It was eighteen eighty seven.

Speaker 3 (12:41):
It was a long time ago, eighteen eighty seven. He
lived in Adelaide Arcade with his family. He died in
Adelaide Arcade. He died, died doing what he loved. Died
at an awful death too. He fell into like this
big hole electricity generator.

Speaker 4 (12:59):
Yeah, I've just got the story wrong.

Speaker 9 (13:01):
Thing.

Speaker 3 (13:03):
Yeah, he didn't die there, somebody else.

Speaker 4 (13:10):
Could start. This is your story. You've got to own it.
I'm it.

Speaker 3 (13:17):
Wait, Okay, somebody else died there that also lives there, right,
But Francis has been seen multiple times for the last
one hundred and forty years, And can I say apparently
he Francis died there and he didn't like.

Speaker 1 (13:34):
No, read the sheet, you know, I'll read it for
Adelaide because I've got it here. The story goes there
was an electrician. Electrician went off site something went wrong
with the generator at Adelaide Arcade, and Francis himself went
to inspect. Apparently he fell into the generator, and when
the electrician actually returned to Adelaide Arcade he found bits

(13:56):
of Francis. It was a gruesome death. So Francis George's
dad did die.

Speaker 3 (14:01):
And can we start the music again? Can we start
something again?

Speaker 4 (14:06):
And getting in who it is? Because someone's called wants
to talk about it.

Speaker 3 (14:09):
Okay, Cass in South Australia. You're interrupting my story, Cass,
what do you want to say?

Speaker 4 (14:24):
Chass? Are you related to one of the ghosts?

Speaker 6 (14:27):
I am, well, not the ghost what happened. I'm actually
related to the person who murdered the ghost.

Speaker 11 (14:38):
Yes, tell me what.

Speaker 6 (14:41):
Well, actually, I need to go and do this to
it to see what they say, because I've also read
a book by a previous owner of a bookshop in
Adelanta Arcade who wrote a book about my great uncle.
I believe it's my great uncle. Okay, So Thomas Horton
shot Florence Horton in the back in Rundell Mall and

(15:03):
she ran into the arcade. She ran into the cobblers
in the arcade which is now Coco and that's where
she died.

Speaker 3 (15:10):
Oh my god.

Speaker 4 (15:12):
The ghost of.

Speaker 6 (15:14):
The story goes that she cheated on him and that
is why he shot her. However, he was not quite right.

Speaker 4 (15:22):
In the head.

Speaker 12 (15:23):
Let's just say he had had an.

Speaker 10 (15:24):
Incidents when he was younger, and he wasn't great, and
he used to be a juggler.

Speaker 6 (15:37):
No, no, no, So she wasn't the juggler.

Speaker 3 (15:39):
He was the one that was murdered.

Speaker 4 (15:44):
You sent very well for this breakout.

Speaker 6 (15:47):
Florence is murdered by Thomas.

Speaker 1 (15:49):
Yes, and Florence is the one that is now hanging
out at Cocoa Black in Adelaide Arcade.

Speaker 4 (15:53):
Ghost right, have you been there.

Speaker 1 (15:56):
And shopped and maybe felt felt the presence of someone
you were related to?

Speaker 6 (16:01):
No, my sister even worked in the Atlata Kade.

Speaker 3 (16:04):
I don't feel the ghost at Cocoa Black. I feel
it more when you go upstairs. You know when you job,
says so eerie Cass. Thank you so much for calling.
We see as you can see Max, who doesn't believe
in ghosts, It's true.

Speaker 1 (16:18):
Do you remember when I just asked if she'd been
there in shop and felt the ghost and she said no,
I've not.

Speaker 3 (16:22):
Many people have. Other people have reported that they have
actually had a tour by Francis the ghost. It's true.
Ghosts are real. I've got another story. Have we got
time for another story? I'm going to come back tomorrow
with another story that is insane about my uncle's pub
in Gaula, which is now been a deserted top part

(16:44):
of the pub.

Speaker 13 (16:45):
Because there's coach.

Speaker 3 (16:58):
All right, we're gonna start with the bad and then
we're going to get to the goods. So let's go
to the courtroom. Please, oh joy.

Speaker 4 (17:08):
All adjourned.

Speaker 1 (17:09):
That was funny because you started doing like a train
conductor all aboard.

Speaker 4 (17:14):
And then you want to adjourn the course.

Speaker 3 (17:16):
It's a court on a train. The Diddy trial has
begun for another week.

Speaker 4 (17:22):
Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (17:23):
More and more stuff keeps coming out of this trial
and it's not funny. Today the jury has been shown
graphic photos of Cassie Venturro's injuries that she sustained at
the free Cough as well as those from in the
hotel room.

Speaker 1 (17:36):
The frea cough that we keep talking about is what
these parties were referred to, where he would just come
and have, yeah, the wildest usually sex fueled party.

Speaker 3 (17:44):
With lots of people and yeah, and lots of baby oil.

Speaker 5 (17:48):
Yep.

Speaker 3 (17:49):
And so I'm just reading what has been this sounds
weirdyn talk about this, but baby oil, loube, cash, drugs
were all found at the hotel room. This is when
you would have seen that video of her being thrown
down the hotel room. That's just an awful video, awful
vision to see. That's been shown in court at the moment. Also,
her former best friend Carrie Morgan has also testified, and

(18:09):
Carrie alleges that Diddy snuck into her room and assaulted her.
He is not a good person. We've said this every
single day.

Speaker 2 (18:17):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (18:17):
It finished with the last line of it was the
best line that the best friends said that Diddy has
reached out and said, we want to pay you thirty
grand hush money, hush money case.

Speaker 3 (18:27):
Yeah, there you go. You're in jail for life, did
he allegedly? Okay, let's move on to a better story.
I love this guy Sebastian.

Speaker 4 (18:35):
We're out of the.

Speaker 3 (18:36):
Train, out of the jury. Guy Sebastian. We love him
at least's own guy Sebastian.

Speaker 4 (18:42):
We love him performed last year.

Speaker 3 (18:45):
Yes, we're talking to him later in the week. Actually.
He has shared a clip of his eleven year old
son Archie, belting out his own song. And Archie wrote
the song himself, which is a basketball player who proves
he's a champion on the course. That's what it is.
Side upon the se means he's great.

Speaker 4 (19:18):
I think he's good.

Speaker 3 (19:19):
I think he's great.

Speaker 4 (19:20):
He's pretty good. A little bit, I don't think so.
At all. That's raw.

Speaker 3 (19:24):
That was great.

Speaker 4 (19:24):
Then, yeah, I think he's pretty good.

Speaker 3 (19:26):
He is a star in the making.

Speaker 1 (19:28):
And you hear a guy in the background just with
like THET boy.

Speaker 3 (19:35):
He would be a cool dad boy. All right, let's
go to Gwyneth Paltrow. This is the candle that everybody
is talking about for a while. It's on the I
hate the word.

Speaker 1 (19:46):
I know, it's anatomically correct.

Speaker 3 (19:49):
This smells like my vagina. That is the name of
her candle. And when we say that, the candle doesn't
smell like that. It smells like all the beautiful things
like cedar and rose and beautiful geranium geraniums. Okay, so
that's what Yes, that's what she says. Okay. So it
started off retailing for one hundred and sixteen dollars on Goop,

(20:11):
that's her website. Now it's been resold for one thousand dollars.

Speaker 4 (20:16):
Everyone wants to smell what Gwen's got going on down there.

Speaker 3 (20:19):
She's it's not about that, it's about roses. Anyway, she
said it started off as a joke at.

Speaker 14 (20:24):
That product is so fascinating because we were messing around
with different scents one day and I smelled something and
I was like, oh, that smells like you know. I
was joking, and then he was like, oh, we should
make that a candle and put it on the site.
We are beautiful and we are awesome, and go for yourself.

Speaker 3 (20:45):
Excuse me, right? I love Gwyneth.

Speaker 4 (20:48):
We Likeneth again?

Speaker 15 (20:49):
I know?

Speaker 4 (20:50):
Do we not?

Speaker 16 (20:51):
Like?

Speaker 4 (20:52):
You've done some weird stuff?

Speaker 1 (20:53):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (20:54):
I love her for it. She's weird, but I like her.

Speaker 4 (20:56):
Okay, what do you don't like about it?

Speaker 3 (20:58):
Tell me problem, Tell me the one number one thing
you don't like about Gwyneth.

Speaker 1 (21:01):
Imagine if a bloke released the candle that said this
smells like my willie, no one would buy it.

Speaker 3 (21:07):
That's disgusting. But also imagine if someone less attractive than
Where's in a candle like that too, also, nobody would
buy it. It's just weird, isn't it.

Speaker 4 (21:17):
You're feeling very uncomfortable.

Speaker 2 (21:19):
Weird.

Speaker 3 (21:19):
Let's move on.

Speaker 1 (21:21):
You've got a close relationship with your sons. Would you reckon, Haley?
What do you reckon?

Speaker 4 (21:25):
Yeah? I think it's pretty close.

Speaker 3 (21:27):
I'd say I'm quite obsessed with my children.

Speaker 1 (21:29):
If that doesn't mean that their relationship they feel the
same way about you.

Speaker 3 (21:33):
No, it's both sided. I have a beautiful relationship with
my boys.

Speaker 4 (21:36):
Could you be closer if I gave you something else
to bond over?

Speaker 3 (21:40):
Yes, because do you know what, as the only woman
in the house, I do find I have to try
harder because they're all into basketball and all into gaming
and stuff like that that I'm like not naturally into.

Speaker 1 (21:51):
Well, here's some research I can throw at you to
assist with on the gaming, because there is some research
being done somewhere in the Central Queensland Universities come out
and said that mums should play video games with their sons.

Speaker 3 (22:05):
Oh yeah, interesting you say that.

Speaker 4 (22:10):
Because usually that's the start of the center.

Speaker 3 (22:13):
No, I was just saying that's an interesting fact. I'm
gonna add to it. So my kids, I don't love gaming.
I didn't grow up gaming.

Speaker 4 (22:21):
I don't.

Speaker 3 (22:21):
I hate it. I hate them on their iPads too much.
I get because I'm not into it, and I also
don't it rocks their brain. Like literally, they get off
their stuff and they are in the worst moods. But
I will say this, I have on occasions gone, well
do you know what you're on it? After I've yelled
at them, I've gone what are you doing?

Speaker 1 (22:38):
Now?

Speaker 3 (22:39):
I'm on Minecraft, and I'm like, all right, show me
what you're doing, and then I'll have a little go
with them.

Speaker 4 (22:42):
Mind some Diamonds or like.

Speaker 3 (22:44):
I'll play Block Blust on my phone and then I'll
get my thirteen year Road to download on his phone,
and then we have competitions with each other because it
is something that they love. And I'm like, if I
don't join in, I'm just missing out on this connection
with them.

Speaker 1 (22:56):
Yes, so a little bit of screen time can actually
but be beneficial according to this latest research.

Speaker 4 (23:01):
And then there's a good way to bond with your children.

Speaker 3 (23:03):
And we play Mario Kart as a family.

Speaker 4 (23:05):
It's a good one.

Speaker 3 (23:06):
So Jimmy's always grown. I feel like you're probably the
same as you grow up doing Mario Karr like like
he has. He still has races with his brothers. He's
always he's very good at it. And the two boys,
my boys are ten and thirteen. I will join in.
There were four of us will be playing, and it's
quite patronizing because the two boys every time I do
something good, go mom, you got this, Mom you coming

(23:27):
last month, Go you got this. I'm like, I'm actually
quite good at this.

Speaker 4 (23:30):
No, but doesn't sound like you are.

Speaker 3 (23:32):
I can be good at things when I try.

Speaker 4 (23:34):
Oh, you absolutely can.

Speaker 3 (23:35):
I'm good at a lot of things.

Speaker 4 (23:36):
Maybe not Mario Karr, I'm okay.

Speaker 3 (23:38):
I'm Princess Peach always, of course, are you Bowser?

Speaker 4 (23:41):
No, he's too big and slow.

Speaker 3 (23:42):
Oh no, like Bowser.

Speaker 4 (23:43):
No, Todd's Good's good?

Speaker 3 (23:45):
Oh yeah, Jimmy's always Yoshi, Yeah.

Speaker 4 (23:47):
They're good.

Speaker 7 (23:47):
No.

Speaker 4 (23:48):
I see.

Speaker 1 (23:49):
My experience with this is my parents neither of them
at all into any of the video games. But there
was one period, I'm going to say maybe two years
when we were younger.

Speaker 4 (23:59):
We had a PlayStation one.

Speaker 1 (24:01):
The game was Grand Turismo two, which is a racing game. Yeah, yeah,
and Dad some how managed to get into it with
us and me. Dad and George, my brother had a
like the career mode, the one player mode, the single
player mode together and we'd come home, like on the

(24:21):
weekend from a game of footy or something, and he
would be sitting on the couch by himself knocking off
races for us, and it go to a point where
we would do there's endurance races in this, so not
races that go for like ten minutes.

Speaker 4 (24:35):
They would have time.

Speaker 1 (24:36):
They would have one I reckon the longest one would
have gone for like three or four hours, and Dad
would kick it off and then he'd pause it.

Speaker 4 (24:44):
One of us would take over and have another stint
in the car.

Speaker 3 (24:47):
Dude, does he still play with you?

Speaker 4 (24:49):
No?

Speaker 1 (24:49):
No, God no, But I reckon he would if if
I pulled that game out again, I reckon he would
it all closer together.

Speaker 3 (24:55):
We should actually do this where you get all the
old gamers, like the parents. I'm not talking kids, I'm
talking parents that used to game like old school games
like Grandarismo, Mario kar and then we just have a
big game off.

Speaker 4 (25:07):
We could have a big game off.

Speaker 3 (25:08):
So I'd love to see Jimmy versus you, because you're
both very competitive and quite similar.

Speaker 4 (25:13):
I'd rinse your husband.

Speaker 3 (25:15):
He's listening. Hi, Jimmy, Love you, Jimmy.

Speaker 1 (25:24):
Reach out to us anytime on the Social thirty one
O two three Mixed Breakfast. We would love to hear
from you, and we want to help you out. Should
I stay or should I go? We do it every week.
Relationship dramas could be with your significant other, could be
someone in the office, a friend.

Speaker 4 (25:39):
We want to help.

Speaker 1 (25:40):
We'll try and help, but then Adelaide will come on
board and they will solve your problems for you. Karina
in Fulham has done just that, she joins us. Now, Karna,
how can we help you?

Speaker 9 (25:50):
Good morning guys. I just feel like I need a
bit of advice because I'm sort of torn at the moment.
So basically, my partner and I, Peter, we've been together
for five years and we've got two kids, one's almost
five and one three, and so the pregnancies were like
pretty much back to back, so I haven't had a

(26:11):
breaking your mother, yeah, and you know, it's just been
NonStop with the kids, being a mum for the first time.
But I'm kind of getting to the point now where
the kids are old enough and I feel like I
want to go back to work because yeah, I just
feel like I want to, you know, apply myself somewhere

(26:32):
outside of being a mum again. And it's, you know,
it's just a hr job that's my background till it's
not anything I'm massively passionate about. But yeah, I really
want to go back. But the thing about it is
my partner, he's sort of pushing me to not go

(26:53):
back to work. I suppose like we're sort of okay
for money and he knows, I don't, you know, love it.
It's not my passion. And he's saying, you know, you
don't need to just be a stay at home mum.
So he's kind of pushing me to stay home and
because that's what he's you do as well. His mum
was a stay at home single mom, so he's yeah,
he's like pushing that for me. But I'm torn because

(27:15):
I want to go back to work.

Speaker 3 (27:17):
So we didn't.

Speaker 9 (27:18):
Yeah, I don't really know.

Speaker 3 (27:19):
Yeah, I get it. You are in a partnership and
so you have to make decisions together, but this is
a you decision here of Like, I get it. Being
a mum is full on. It is the hardest job
and the most.

Speaker 4 (27:30):
Rewarding job in the world.

Speaker 3 (27:31):
But when you have been at home, it is isolating,
isn't it. And you do want to do something for
yourself and it might not necessarily be about money, it's
just about your mental health right.

Speaker 9 (27:41):
Yet totally and on top of it as well, I'm
like seeing my friends less and I just feel like
getting back into work or making new friends again and
see old friends, and.

Speaker 3 (27:51):
You preach I get it.

Speaker 1 (27:54):
I'll put the other side of it on if I
was in a position where I knew that my wife,
my partner, your husband in this case, was making enough
money that I didn't have to work.

Speaker 4 (28:05):
Isn't not working like a good thing?

Speaker 9 (28:07):
Oh yeah, maybe when you don't have two kids on
be hive. Yeah, so I'm just torn. I want to
do the right thing for my family but also for me.
So I'm just I'm stuck in the middle.

Speaker 16 (28:19):
Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (28:19):
You need to be honest with him about how you
feel because because otherwise you can This is when you can.

Speaker 4 (28:24):
Lose your mind. Resentments.

Speaker 3 (28:26):
Yeah, you don't want to get to that point, and
you need to say you don't.

Speaker 4 (28:29):
You don't work.

Speaker 3 (28:30):
Well, if you work for money, great, but if you're
doing something for you because you want have career aspirations
or you just want to go back to work, he
needs to understand that and respect that as well. Yeah.

Speaker 9 (28:41):
Yeah, I think we just need to keep talking about it.
It's a tough convo, but we'll probably just have to
bring it up again. And I think it's quite on
my ground.

Speaker 4 (28:47):
Well, this is what we can do to help. This
is what we can do to help.

Speaker 1 (28:49):
You've reached out to us, so people have adelaide thirteen
one oh two three. Karina wants to go back to work.
Husband doesn't want her to go back. He's very old school. Yeah,
he's old school. What should she do? Please help us out?
Thirteen one oh two three. We're going to fix this
for you, Karina.

Speaker 9 (29:06):
Okay, thank you guys.

Speaker 2 (29:08):
Okay, good morning. And we are in the middle of
should I stay or should I go?

Speaker 4 (29:12):
We're trying to help out Karina in Fulham.

Speaker 1 (29:14):
She has a couple of kids with her husband, her partner.
He's a five and three. Karina is now at a
point where she's like, sort of wouldn't mind going back
to work, even just a couple of days a week,
get that out of the house.

Speaker 4 (29:25):
That I want to be a start at home mum.

Speaker 1 (29:26):
And he's easy going to work, yes, but Dad Karma's
husbands not so sure.

Speaker 4 (29:32):
He's like, you're such a great stay at home mum.
We make enough money.

Speaker 1 (29:35):
It's fine if you'd be a stay at home mom
and just look after the kids all the time.

Speaker 3 (29:37):
Yeah, but she wants to go with her heart, and
I think that's what she should do for her own
mental health. But we want to know what you think, Adelais,
because it's not up to us.

Speaker 1 (29:44):
Yeah, of course thirty one oh two three Alex in
Narracourt has done exactly that.

Speaker 4 (29:48):
Alex, have you been in a similar position to this?

Speaker 3 (29:52):
See I have what happens.

Speaker 16 (29:55):
Well, after my daughter was born, I couldn't go back
to work because I had to wait the extra those
few weeks before I went back to work. And then
when I got the clearance back from my doctor, the
doctor said, yeah, we'll find everything else is all good
to go. I learned to put in a report to
my work and my employer. I said, yeah, I want

(30:16):
to come back to work. She said, yep, Norri's go
me the green light.

Speaker 14 (30:19):
And then when it.

Speaker 16 (30:20):
Came down to me telling my my ex partner which
is now my ex partner, he goes, well, no, you
need to stay home. You need to look after our
daughter because, like you know, money is not everything. And
I was just saying, I said, well, I'm sorry, but
I'm going back to work whether or not you like it.
So I did end up going back to work, it
was only for those three those five days because I

(30:44):
know I didn't want to like sort of push my
body and like he's like, oh, no worries, and I
wouldn't do.

Speaker 17 (30:52):
Whatever you want.

Speaker 16 (30:53):
And he just wasn't too happy about it. But then
when I actually did explain to him, I said, look,
it was only for five days. And then he said, yep, fine, whatever,
you know, stay home. And it was like it was
sort of like it wasn't nut or was not neglecting
my daughter.

Speaker 8 (31:13):
It was fact that.

Speaker 4 (31:16):
What you needed to get back into work. That makes
perfect sense.

Speaker 1 (31:19):
I think that's going to be a sentiment that we
hear a lot from our callers, and please keep them coming.
Thirteen one oh two three. We are desperate to hear
from you. Karina needs help.

Speaker 3 (31:30):
All right, Well you got a message from Karina. She's
given us a call today saying that her husband, Pete
doesn't want her to go back to work. They've got
two kids. She's ready to go back and join that
work life again.

Speaker 1 (31:46):
The kids are five and three, so we're talking school
and kindergarten age.

Speaker 3 (31:49):
And I just that whole situation makes my tummy turn
because as a woman who I really have always wanted
to be a mum, but I've always loved my career,
and I think you can have both. And yes, it
is a full on juggling act.

Speaker 1 (32:03):
My first instinct there is absolutely it'd be nice to
be a stay at home dad and.

Speaker 3 (32:08):
You'd like to do that. Yeah, Well, if that's what
you like, then that's great. There's nothing wrong with being
at stay home mum. But if you have that urge
in side you just need a bit of an adult
connection or you want a career, there's nothing wrong with that.
And that's you don't want to resent your partner if
they say stay home and you go, okay, I'm just
gonna be a stay at home mum and I don't
want to be.

Speaker 4 (32:27):
You're all helping out.

Speaker 1 (32:28):
In thirty one or two three, before we get to
the calls we have to say financially, she said, we're fine,
I don't need to go back to work.

Speaker 4 (32:34):
But for me, yeah, exactly. So you've got the information.

Speaker 1 (32:38):
My mother sent me a text message saying if that
woman wants to go to work, she should. It's so
important to have your own independence in a marriage.

Speaker 3 (32:45):
One hundred percent. You do not want to be lose
your mind if you want to be out there in
the workforce.

Speaker 1 (32:49):
Again for texting in Lauren in Salisbury has called in Lauren,
You've been in a similar situation before.

Speaker 4 (32:56):
What do you reckon I have.

Speaker 18 (32:58):
So I have two boys back to back eighteen months apart,
and I have just gone back to work after my
second child, and I'm all for it. If she feels
that connection and she wants to be around adults, go
back to work and feel fulfilled, then one hundred percent
she should go for it. I think it's about communication, though,

(33:18):
so your husband and you are a team, and she
needs to really sort of say this is how I
feel and put her foot down and say this is
why I want to go back to work, and this
is why I am going.

Speaker 3 (33:29):
Back to work. The hard thing is as women, we
have to be the ones that actually have the babies, right.
But we've worked all of our twenties to get to
that point in our career where we feel like excited
about what we're doing. Why should we have to give
that up? We don't want to give back.

Speaker 18 (33:42):
I love my job and I'm so happy to be back,
but I get to spend my time with my babies
and I know that they still love me whether they're
in childcare or at home with me twenty four to seven.

Speaker 3 (33:53):
You're just got to get that balance right, and it
is tricky. Thank you, Lauren. Let's go to Kayla in Paraka,
what do you think on this topic?

Speaker 19 (34:00):
I think absolutely. I am currently on my second week
from returning from matlive up for my first boy and
pregnant as well halfway through, so I absolutely think even
if it's for a short amount of time, go back
to work.

Speaker 12 (34:16):
It gives you a chance to have a break. I
think only like, I'm sure there's dads out there that
actually know what it's like, but it's nine times out
of ten mum definitely get it as to how hard
it is and how mentally passing it is.

Speaker 19 (34:31):
So to even just go to work to have a
break and be able to eat.

Speaker 12 (34:35):
Your lunch in peace.

Speaker 20 (34:36):
Yeah, and you know, go to the toilet without someone
watching you.

Speaker 1 (34:41):
It's so freeing to hear the phrase from Taylor go
to work to have a break.

Speaker 4 (34:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (34:48):
Yeah, you don't realize that until you have kids.

Speaker 10 (34:50):
Yeah you don't.

Speaker 12 (34:51):
You don't.

Speaker 20 (34:52):
And at the end of the day, like I think,
with my experience, I even though I haven't been back
for long, I wanted so badly just to spend the
time within on the weekends and I felt like when
I was home during the week and with them.

Speaker 12 (35:04):
All day, like I'd be like Okay, Saturday would roll
around and be like, I'm having a chill day at home,
But I've been having a chill day at home during
the week. So I think your time is spent more
proactively with them when you are with them. So even
if it's part time, going back to where I'm all
for it.

Speaker 3 (35:21):
Yeah, all for it. So you don't want a husband
or a partner that says, don't go and live your dreams,
stay home.

Speaker 1 (35:29):
No, Well, we have had a text coming in controlling Grace,
who we can't get on the line, but she's texted
us saying everyone's judging Karina's husband. Does anyone tried to
understand his point of view? I stayed at home. My
husband was just trying to do what he thought was
best for me by working hard and giving me the
opportunity to stay.

Speaker 3 (35:47):
At home, which is nice. But you know what's best
for you.

Speaker 4 (35:50):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 3 (35:52):
You know in your heart and you don't want to
resent someone. Okay, we're going to still take your callse I.

Speaker 4 (35:56):
Just love doing nothing nothing if you've got kids at home.

Speaker 3 (35:59):
But then that's good. She doesn't want to do nothing, Yeah,
she wants to go.

Speaker 4 (36:02):
Back to work soon. In BELvue hearts. What do you reckon?

Speaker 11 (36:06):
I'm that fail all really, But I think Karena should
do what she wants to do now I'm not training
what I said before. I think that she is looking
for something else to do in her life. But I
don't think HR is what she wants to do, So
I think she should do something different. Maybe start off
volunteering a time, maybe joining some groups because she doesn't

(36:28):
need the money, it sounds like, but that way we'll
get her out, she can meet other people, and she
might do what way her life's going to go and
what direction she might want to go back studying. A
lot of people go back studying when they get older.

Speaker 1 (36:38):
Now.

Speaker 4 (36:39):
It's mostly just about doing something, though, isn't it. So
that's what.

Speaker 11 (36:43):
I like doing, sporting, joining anything. But I think the husband,
I don't think it's bad. He's probably just he probably
knows she gets stressed with the job, going back to
the HR job. Anyway you get stressed for a job
like that. Maybe he's just trying to help her a
little bit in that way so that she doesn't have
to feel like she has to go and bring I think.

Speaker 3 (37:03):
He just wants a clean house and a dinner cook
for him every night.

Speaker 4 (37:06):
I think that you could take that point of view.

Speaker 1 (37:09):
You could also take the point of view he thinks
he's doing the right thing by giving her the opportunity
to not work.

Speaker 4 (37:14):
That would be what that he is thinking.

Speaker 3 (37:18):
Yeah, as opposed to stay home. I want to come
home to a clean house. I want a beautiful, hot
dinner for ready for Marie.

Speaker 2 (37:25):
We can't take her right now. We've got to come
back to Marie.

Speaker 4 (37:28):
Oh what she the one in handon Yeah.

Speaker 3 (37:32):
Oh, we've got the the mother of Pete on the phone,
Pete's mother.

Speaker 2 (37:38):
Yeah, so her mother in law.

Speaker 1 (37:39):
Yeah, we've been trying to help out Karna in Fulham
this morning.

Speaker 4 (37:48):
You can reach us any time and we will try.

Speaker 1 (37:51):
Adelaide will definitely help you out with some relationship dramas.

Speaker 4 (37:55):
Her relationship drama involves her husbands.

Speaker 3 (37:58):
Yes, her husband saying, I don't want you to go
back to work. You've got two kids. I want you
to stay home and be a stay at home mum.
And she really wants to go.

Speaker 1 (38:05):
Back and you have had I mean most people are
saying let her go to work, let her go back
to work. We had a text to call in saying
I'm text in saying I can understand from the husband's
point of view, he's just trying to give her a
nice life. We have someone on the line right now
in handon. It is Marie, who is Karina's mother in law.
Good morning, Marie, Good morning guys.

Speaker 3 (38:26):
How are you Marie? You've heard all this unraveling on
the radio as the mum of Pete.

Speaker 4 (38:32):
How are you feeling?

Speaker 7 (38:33):
Look, it could be taken either way, because some could
think it's controlling, but some could also think it's lovely
because he's trying to help his wife stay at home longer.
I know myself I was a stay at home mum
and he did. He loves having me around. We went
out all the time, but he probably doesn't know this.
It was very isolating. I lost a lot of friends

(38:56):
because I was never socializing. The social life of working
I missed out on and if I could have my
time over, I probably would have gone back to work,
even in a part time capacity.

Speaker 3 (39:07):
Yeah, just you right, just for a little one.

Speaker 7 (39:10):
Hundred percent, it was a little bit life changing and
looking like I don't regret the time with Pete and
my kids, but to my beautiful daughter in law, I
will ring my son and have a good old chatter him.
But I encourage to go out there and do what
she wants to do because you can be a parent
and have a life too.

Speaker 3 (39:29):
Are you saying, because I kind of agree with this,
do you feel like you would have been maybe better
if you had a little bit of that as well,
like a little bit of work better mum?

Speaker 7 (39:38):
One hundred percent. I was a good mom. I don't
question myself there, but I would have been a happier mom.
And one hundred percent you need adult interaction and you
need your own life on top of your mum life.

Speaker 1 (39:53):
So Marie, you just said you're gonna this is something
you would talk to your son about and say, hey,
personal experience.

Speaker 4 (40:00):
Maybe not the best decision one.

Speaker 7 (40:02):
Hundred percent, only because I don't because he had such
a good child God in his eyes. I don't think
he realized the impact it had on me.

Speaker 3 (40:08):
He probably thought that's what you wanted, yes.

Speaker 7 (40:11):
And he might explain it and tell him how I
actually felt as an adult, he will probably see it
in a different light.

Speaker 3 (40:17):
Now you have just waited in a perfect way. Marie.
That's like, that's really lovely and also great for other
people to hear that too, other mums age.

Speaker 7 (40:28):
Yeah, so many parents support their kid even if they
think the decision's wrong.

Speaker 6 (40:33):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (40:34):
I'm all about making the right decision for everyone.

Speaker 1 (40:37):
Yes, well you like Yes, you like your daughter in law,
don't you, Marie.

Speaker 7 (40:41):
I don't want another one, that's for sure. She's amazing.

Speaker 3 (40:44):
Yes, that's so nice. Well, thank you, Thank you so
much for calling.

Speaker 7 (40:48):
No problems.

Speaker 6 (40:49):
Have a good day guy.

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You did well, you did very well. Do you want
me to go through the answers?

Speaker 4 (43:17):
Yes, yep?

Speaker 3 (43:18):
Okay? Leader elite singer of Coldplay, Chris Martin Yes. Ford
Falcon made in Australia. Fran Dresher played the nanny dominoes
Sel Pizza in E Scooter Sounds for Electronic. You're going
too fast for me. You're stressing me out. Stop with
the dings.

Speaker 4 (43:35):
There's just a lot of ticks. Mate.

Speaker 3 (43:36):
The suburb Colt Central is in is Corrolta Park, Hang on,
thank you. Pompei is located in Italy. Carlo z and
Patty is a fashion designer.

Speaker 4 (43:49):
Nail done.

Speaker 3 (43:50):
Okay, let's go to this one. You didn't know there
was a smurf that movie coming out?

Speaker 1 (43:54):
No, no, no, let's go to this one. Which app would
you watch reels on? You said Facebook? We have Instagram
written on our sheet, but you can watch reels on face.

Speaker 3 (44:03):
You're right, because they shared to Facebook.

Speaker 4 (44:05):
So that's nine, which brings us to Smurfet.

Speaker 3 (44:09):
To Smurfet okay, which singer is voicing Smurfet in the
New Smurf's movie.

Speaker 4 (44:16):
You said Ariana Grande and she is a movie star.

Speaker 6 (44:19):
Yeah, and then I heard you say.

Speaker 1 (44:21):
Barbatofa, which is lucky that you got it wrong because
Hailey's not allowed to give away the answers, and you
got nine out of ten, Allison.

Speaker 3 (44:29):
So I tried. I tried to get it over the line. Allison.

Speaker 1 (44:33):
You can give away the answers when they're on like three,
but not when it is worth a thousand dollars.

Speaker 3 (44:38):
Well done, You've got ninety bucks.

Speaker 15 (44:41):
Awesome, Thank you very much.

Speaker 3 (44:42):
There's your petrol from where you live to the city.

Speaker 4 (44:46):
Thank you, Alison.

Speaker 1 (44:47):
The answer was, of course, Rihanna, who is in the
New Smurf's movie. Nine out of ten. We're gonna get
this ten tomorrow. I'm sure of it.

Speaker 4 (45:03):
Ad Away takes over.

Speaker 3 (45:06):
All right, Adelaide have put the questions in the so
called envelopes where they you can call us anytime, get
us on Facebook, Instagram, DM ask a question that you
want us to answer on the radio.

Speaker 4 (45:18):
Yeah, you can choose that, Awennis.

Speaker 3 (45:20):
Just between us yesterday I had a question what would
I like to change about myself? And I don't I
know I'm an oversharer. I'll tell you whatever you ask me.
The other person in the studio isn't so much an oversharer. Yeah,
do you get more nervous with this segment, don't you?

Speaker 9 (45:33):
No?

Speaker 4 (45:33):
I don't love all of truth. Anyway.

Speaker 1 (45:34):
We've got Tracy from Hackam on the line, hopefully with
a question for you.

Speaker 4 (45:37):
Morning Tracy, What have you gone? Who have you got
it for?

Speaker 17 (45:40):
Good morning guys. I have a question for you Max,
just off the back of Hayley's chat yesterday. I want
to know, like, how do you stay so calm and
not stressed, Like even though like your footy team is
stailing at the moment, You're just so calm. You're just
there's nothing, you don't get anything away, And I just

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want to know what's going on in that head of yours.

Speaker 3 (46:03):
Great question, Tracy, Thank you for that, Tracy.

Speaker 4 (46:07):
We love the Wall of Truth.

Speaker 1 (46:10):
Well, I would my answer to that would be my
superpower would be compartmentalizing things.

Speaker 4 (46:18):
I'm just really good at putting things in a box.

Speaker 1 (46:21):
And I will preface that by saying it's a lot
easier for me. I will admit to put things in
a box because I've had a fantastic upbringing. Like I
love my family still, I've got friends that I've had
for thirty years. I'm married to a woman I've known
her entire life. Like, such a stable upbringing means that
it's easy for me to have a support base. I

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what I mean by putting things in a box is like,
if something bad comes across my life, I will if
I can't do anything about it, I'll try and put
it away.

Speaker 4 (46:58):
In a box.

Speaker 1 (46:59):
It's like, well, you know what, that sucks, but there's
nothing I can do about it. So like my old
man's got old man's got bow cancer he said, bawt
cancer for like five or six years now, and it's
just you know, you have surgeries and you have chemo
and all this sort of gear, and something I can
do about it, apart from being good son and hang
out and support him.

Speaker 3 (47:18):
So yeah, but you can say that, yeah, we're so
different and I wish I was more like you. But
like with something like that, a lot of people, you know,
consumes you. You worry and all that kind of stuff.
How do you just switch off your worry.

Speaker 4 (47:32):
Well, that's the thing.

Speaker 1 (47:33):
So, like I say this to Eliza all the time,
my wife, just when she owns a small business and
she stresses about things, and when my head hits the pillow,
I'm really good at going to sleep because when I'm
in bed, I know there's nothing that I can do anymore.
But there's no point worrying about Dad's unwell or Eliza's
worrying about things that are going into the business.

Speaker 2 (47:52):
Can I just jump in real? Please?

Speaker 4 (47:53):
Please, please you.

Speaker 5 (47:54):
I've noticed about you and just saying this out of
love and a mate. You say that you can put
it in a box. Yeah, but I actually you block
it out, which I think goes deeper than putting it
in a box. You actually block things out, And I
wonder what that's.

Speaker 2 (48:08):
From and if that's some sort of trauma response or ah.

Speaker 1 (48:11):
I don't think so like that is like such a
Hollywood thing and I like it.

Speaker 2 (48:16):
No, it's real.

Speaker 4 (48:16):
Yeah, but I don't. I don't. As I said, I've
had a really good up.

Speaker 3 (48:20):
Here, but I have two Max. I've had the most
beautiful upbringing anyone could ever ask. But I feel so
lucky every day with the opportunities that I had and
the love and support I've had around me. But I'm
the opposite of you. I don't think it has anything
to do with the upbringing. I think it's got more
to do with, like.

Speaker 1 (48:36):
You know what a coaching mechanism, because oh, it is
a coping mechanism. That's everyone deals with things in different ways.
But it's because I'm so analytical and logical that I
know when I'm in bed at night, for example, and
I lay down and I've finished reading my book or whatever,
there's nothing that I nothing that worrying about dad's health,
or nothing that worrying about what's going on at work
the next Nothing good can come from that while I'm

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laying in mind.

Speaker 3 (48:58):
And I agree that is a logical way of thinking.

Speaker 1 (49:00):
Because I am so logical and analytical. It's like that
is a box that I don't need to touch right now.

Speaker 3 (49:05):
Can I ask something? You work with someone who feels everything?

Speaker 4 (49:09):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (49:10):
Do you feel stuff? Do you feel sad? And of course,
and I know you, I know you love your family.
I know that, like you are a really beautiful soul.
But do you feel that real like the highs and
the lows? Or are you more just flat m that's.

Speaker 4 (49:31):
An interesting way to put it.

Speaker 1 (49:33):
I would suggest that like you, for example, compared to me,
you're Your highs you can hear on the radio are
way higher than my highs, but your lows are way
lower than up.

Speaker 4 (49:42):
So I guess I'm more of a plateau on a plateau.

Speaker 3 (49:45):
See, and I take medication to be more like you.
I wish I didn't feel as much, and.

Speaker 4 (49:50):
I don't think that I'm better than anyone.

Speaker 1 (49:52):
Because of this. This isn't me saying this is how
I should all be. This is just how I deal
with things.

Speaker 3 (49:56):
No, but I at the same time, you also to
be emotional.

Speaker 1 (50:00):
I know you do want to feel things, and sometimes
I know that I'm not emotional to it.

Speaker 4 (50:04):
Yeah, sometimes I know that.

Speaker 1 (50:05):
Like my mother, for example, would love me to write
her heart for cards every time it's Mother's Day or whatever,
but it's just never what I've found.

Speaker 2 (50:13):
Can you not do that for her? At some point?

Speaker 5 (50:14):
I know that it's not really your thing, but it's
her thing. And a love language is all about meeting
someone else.

Speaker 1 (50:19):
But the card that I'll write will be shorter than
something that she might want.

Speaker 4 (50:24):
But you know me as people in here that you
know that.

Speaker 2 (50:28):
You and I.

Speaker 1 (50:28):
For example, per Jo, you know when I reach over
and do him a little thing with you after something hard,
our little finger, you know, interlocking thing that we do
like that is me.

Speaker 4 (50:38):
That means something between you and me. Yeah, and I
have to come over.

Speaker 1 (50:41):
And give you a big hargain of kiss. But it's
if you don't know me. I can understand how that
would be.

Speaker 3 (50:46):
Like you just show it differently. Yeah, Okay, you say
he's pretty cold. That is a thing. And sometimes people
will say what's Max, Like is he a bit cold?
And I was like, I always protect you because I'm like, no,
he might come across like that, but he's actually not.
Because when I and I'll tell you Adelaide, when I'm
talking about something that might be a bit stressful, we

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even off air, you'll come over and in your hut,
no one sees that. No one sees that you actually
are a really lovely, warm person. But you do have
a cold exterior than probably what I would have.

Speaker 1 (51:17):
Yep, i'll agree with that. There you go, I'll agree
with that. I mean, it's not cold. I'm not trying
to be cold.

Speaker 3 (51:24):
I know you're not trying, but but just so people know,
there is a real warmth underneath that. It's just this
a shell around you.

Speaker 1 (51:33):
Dad knows that, My dad knows that I am his
biggest supporter as he goes through health issues.

Speaker 21 (51:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (51:38):
Just we shall in different ways to each other, all right, that.

Speaker 2 (51:41):
Is the wall of truth.

Speaker 3 (51:44):
Great chat, great question, and I know I know that
was a big deal for you to even talk about
that kind of stuff. Feelings is something that you don't
really don't really share much on the radio.

Speaker 1 (51:52):
It's good to share feelings. I just mine are just
not as high or as low, just more in the middle.

Speaker 2 (51:58):
Flat standing by for Max Burford's self help book Can't.

Speaker 4 (52:00):
Wait in the Middle.

Speaker 3 (52:04):
Yesterday on our show, I spoke about how I have
life three sixty. I go on it probably seven times
a day.

Speaker 1 (52:11):
Why through sixty is an app you can It's like
find my iPhone.

Speaker 3 (52:14):
It's a tracking app. It's actually excellent. You can see
how fast whoever it is you're tracking is driving or
walking or writing. You can see exactly where they are,
how long they've been there. Twenty four seven, twenty four seven.
It is amazing. I track my thirteen year old, my husband,
and my mum and dad, and I'm always on there
checking where they are, just to make sure they're safe.
Mine's purely to see if he hasn't answered his phone,

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where are you, Oh, he's just at the pool, or
is this doing the shopping or whatever, And mainly for
my thirteen year old to track him where he is
because he's out riding now with his mates and things
like that. But it got people thinking yesterday, going, well,
why do you do it? What are you trying to find?
You trying to catch someone out. I'm like, no, but
I have caught out my thirteen year old. Where my
heart sunk a bit where a few weeks ago, I

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was on there, I knew that he was with his
mate and I was zooming in you zoom in with
your two fingers like you do when you're zooming on
a photo. And I'm getting closer and closer. I'm like,
he's at Brighton right, Where is he at the end
of bright and Jetty Nice? Oh my god, he's Jenni jumping. A.
I've never let him go to the beach without me ever,
and B he's Jenny jumping. That's dangerous.

Speaker 1 (53:19):
Yeah, obviously we would suggest to everyone listening, don't do that,
don't do that, But also it's pretty fun.

Speaker 3 (53:25):
I mean, I know it's fun to do that, but
there's also a lot of sharks that are really close
to beaches at.

Speaker 4 (53:29):
The moment, and sometimes it's shallow.

Speaker 3 (53:30):
So my heart was like, oh my god, he's Jerney jumping.
But I knew it because of Life three sixty. He
couldn't lie about it.

Speaker 4 (53:37):
I've been fishing.

Speaker 3 (53:38):
No, he doesn't fish, he doesn't go any fishing rods.

Speaker 4 (53:40):
I know what he's doing. He's Jenny jumping when you
approached him.

Speaker 3 (53:43):
I'm safe, mom, we're the only ones doing I'm like,
there's a reason why you're the only ones doing it
because it's illegal and there's.

Speaker 4 (53:48):
Sharks makes it even worse.

Speaker 3 (53:50):
Yes, but that's one little story. I mean, that's nothing
story that I know why people don't like going on
tracking apps because of the whole like ooh you can
see where I am if I'm cheating on you, things
like that.

Speaker 1 (54:02):
Well that is the thinking, the worst of the worst
last and I don't track each other at all.

Speaker 4 (54:06):
I don't know my wife is all the time.

Speaker 3 (54:08):
Don't you want don't you want to do it for
a safety reason? Have you ever thought about getting Life three.

Speaker 1 (54:12):
Sixty the only honestly, we drive from home to work
and then back home again.

Speaker 3 (54:18):
I could actually tell you exactly where you go.

Speaker 4 (54:20):
I would know your route.

Speaker 3 (54:21):
You would know each other's route very very well.

Speaker 1 (54:23):
Yeah, so if something goes wrong and she can't reach
her phone and something's gone really wrong and it's not
going to matter.

Speaker 4 (54:29):
But but what.

Speaker 3 (54:30):
If she's off driving off into like into the regional
areas with byself or with their mum or whatever, and
you're like, oh my god.

Speaker 4 (54:36):
Because people never felt a need.

Speaker 3 (54:38):
So actually I have a story on this people. My
dad found that his daughter had a car accident because
he was following her on Life three sixty down the coast,
zoomed in and she was in a hospital that was
nearby the road, and he's like, oh my god, call
the hospital, said it's my daughter. Then she goes, yes,
she's okay, but she's just had an accident.

Speaker 1 (54:55):
I can absolutely see why people do that, especially in families,
but it's just never something that I've come across and decided.

Speaker 4 (55:01):
I want this.

Speaker 3 (55:01):
I will say, Oh, so I shouldn't ask you if
you could be on my tracking app? So you don't
want you don't want me to track you?

Speaker 4 (55:07):
Hayley done.

Speaker 1 (55:09):
I will say I do have Two of my friends
have on whatever the Apple iPhone version of it is.
They have sent me their location previously so I can
see where they are at all times. And one of
them gave his wife gave birth to a baby a
few months ago, and he was in contact with us,
in contact with us, and then stop being in contact
with us instantly. I yun checked the app, saw that

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he was at the hospital, was like, you're having a
baby right now. We know you're having a baby right now.

Speaker 4 (55:35):
See, I didn't need to notice.

Speaker 14 (55:37):
Guy.

Speaker 1 (55:38):
Yeah, yeah, you did give us a ring. What did
you catch on the tracking app?

Speaker 2 (55:42):
Good?

Speaker 4 (55:42):
Bad or otherwise?

Speaker 3 (55:44):
What did you find on Life three sixty That is
the tracking app I used to track my family. I
do it as a safety thing purely, just because I
just like I said yesterday, I'm morbid and I want
to make sure that everyone I love is safe.

Speaker 4 (55:56):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (55:56):
Haley saw her son stand at the end of Brighton
Jenny and deciphered he was Jeddie jumping and he was
told not to Jeddi jump.

Speaker 3 (56:03):
And I've never I've never, He's never been to the
beach by himself with the mate.

Speaker 1 (56:06):
What did you find on tracking AP thirty one O
two three, Alex in pain has called in. You're also
tracking a teenager, a fourteen year old. What did you
catch her doing?

Speaker 4 (56:15):
Alex?

Speaker 22 (56:17):
Well, I caught her catching the bus and I thought,
that's weird, where's she going? So I followed the bus
all the way and watched her get off the bus incognito,
and then following her to a park where she met
up with a boy that she wasn't supposed to be
meeting up with. Oh my god, boy, Well, I didn't

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know the boy, but she's just supposed to ask me,
you know, if she's going to go see a boy.
She exactly, and then I just waited for them to
get onto the swing hold hands and walked up and
introduced myself.

Speaker 3 (56:54):
Oh you were, Oh my god, that amazing.

Speaker 1 (57:00):
Please describe the look on your daughter's face, your fourteen
year old daughter's face when she saw you walking up
to her on the swing set holding her boy's hand.

Speaker 17 (57:09):
Absolute horror.

Speaker 22 (57:12):
You know, it looks could kill The side eye that
I got would have done it.

Speaker 3 (57:16):
The only thing worse than mum rocking up is dad
rocking up. That is so much worse than mom.

Speaker 2 (57:23):
Wow.

Speaker 3 (57:25):
So now she turns off her last three she turns
off the phone exactly.

Speaker 22 (57:30):
That's exactly what she does. So that's my word of
warning to you, Hailey is don't don't touch them out
on little things like Jeddie jumping, because then when they're
really up to no good, they'll turn their phone off.

Speaker 3 (57:42):
Alex, I hate to break it to your holding hands
is it's not no good yet, it's so much worse
than that.

Speaker 4 (57:48):
She might get up the worse later.

Speaker 1 (57:50):
Nicole in Modbury, your best friend caught something on one
of the tracking app to tell us about it.

Speaker 15 (57:57):
Yeah, so she broke up with this guy about twelve
months ago, didn't realize that she still was tracking him
on snap snapchat, and thought, let's to see what he's
up to, you know, a little bit of stalking, and
he was right up her best friend's driveway.

Speaker 3 (58:11):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (58:14):
Yeah, oh my god, Nicole, did anyone confront anyone.

Speaker 15 (58:23):
Not yet, but I think it might happen. But yeah,
Like she's she's a pretty strong little lady. So she's like, well,
good luck for them, but unfortunately she's got to go
through the breakup of a best friends now.

Speaker 3 (58:37):
Yeah, yeah, wow, don't do that to each other, No, Nicole,
thank you for sharing that. Bethany and Broadview, what happened?
What did you find on last three? Succeed?

Speaker 8 (58:47):
So my partner at the time worked away in the
minds in I think it was Carrafa, and he went
out on a little boy's night, which he would do often,
and there's like little.

Speaker 21 (58:58):
Like topless bars and clubs and stuff there, and yeah,
and uh, I didn't hear from him that whole night
until the next afternoon, and he was sitting at someone's
house or in someone's house the whole time, from like
two am onwards.

Speaker 8 (59:17):
And then when I confronted him about it, when you
finally got a hold of me, well cold me in
the afternoon, I.

Speaker 15 (59:23):
Said, well, where were you?

Speaker 8 (59:24):
Where's this place? He went at home? He's like, oh no,
that's just a glitch that I was at home.

Speaker 3 (59:28):
And then he turned oh no, there's no glitches, guys,
that's excuse. Oh what happened?

Speaker 11 (59:34):
Then?

Speaker 3 (59:35):
Did you break up with him?

Speaker 8 (59:36):
So it actually happened a second time without the location thing,
but just a big like twenty four hour ghosting and
then I broke up with him.

Speaker 4 (59:43):
Yeah, good, only for the best perth Andy.

Speaker 3 (59:46):
I think also if someone says, no, I don't want
you to track me. That's also red flags for me.

Speaker 1 (59:50):
Yeah right, I'm not doing anything. I'm just here working
and at footay training. But at the same time, I mean,
who are these people? Then got realize that you're being tracked? Yeah,
at least.

Speaker 3 (01:00:05):
Leave your phone in your car or somewhere else at work.

Speaker 4 (01:00:08):
Can I have an affair? Be smart about Tom? You idiot.