FULL SHOW #99: HAYLEY SPREADS AWARENESS ABOUT A VERY SERIOUS DISEASE - ADDICTION

FULL SHOW #99:

HAYLEY SPREADS AWARENESS ABOUT A VERY SERIOUS DISEASE - ADDICTION.

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Speaker 1 (00:10):
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Speaker 2 (00:17):
Haley and Max in the Morning.

Speaker 3 (00:18):
With these two together, anything can happen.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
This is Hailey and.

Speaker 4 (00:24):
Max in the Morning, Adelaide's number one.

Speaker 2 (00:31):
For fun Morning Adelaide. Happy Monday, had you Piers and
Max perfect?

Speaker 5 (00:38):
Oh thank god, the weekend is over. I couldn't wait
to be back at work.

Speaker 3 (00:43):
We're here.

Speaker 6 (00:43):
Hey, I've got some dire news for all of us,
especially in your if you're part of a group chat,
like the three of us are in a group chat.

Speaker 5 (00:51):
Chat cocktail party, tail party.

Speaker 6 (00:53):
So I found out on the weekend on Instagram, you get.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
Notified if someone screenshots.

Speaker 5 (01:01):
Your messages in Instagram group chat. Yes, And how did
you find that out?

Speaker 1 (01:06):
THO?

Speaker 6 (01:07):
No, okay, So, last I was writing to somebody it
was actually another radio station about something that I was doing. Right,
I took a screenshot to send to our boss, and
it said Haley took.

Speaker 3 (01:17):
A screenshot, and I'm like, oh my god.

Speaker 6 (01:19):
And then on the weekend I was writing back to
a lot of messages and I would write back and
all of a sudden, I get a notification.

Speaker 3 (01:25):
Person X has screenshot of this message. I'm like, I
hate this.

Speaker 5 (01:29):
It's like Snapchat. I don't realize it was like snap.

Speaker 6 (01:32):
That's a new feature, because I don't know if you
do what we do, screenshot stuff and then I.

Speaker 3 (01:38):
Send it to my friends, You're.

Speaker 5 (01:39):
Not gonna believe what I just said about Haley. I'm
send it to Haley.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
Isn't that Christy gonna be really careful?

Speaker 2 (01:46):
Okay, So it's always screenshot on you.

Speaker 1 (01:49):
It's always been the thing on Snapchat, I know, but
not Instagram.

Speaker 5 (01:53):
Yeah, good, that's a great PSA.

Speaker 3 (01:56):
It is good as I.

Speaker 6 (01:58):
Don't do it like you know, when you take a
screenshot of someone's Instagram post.

Speaker 5 (02:03):
Yeah, that's okay, that won't get back to them. But
some of the things that get.

Speaker 2 (02:08):
In the group you're a big screenshot.

Speaker 3 (02:10):
I love a screenshot.

Speaker 1 (02:12):
If I get a screenshot to some of the videos
that I send you like, well, Hayley's about to get
me sacked, because, as we know, our algorithms are in
some strange areas at the moment, we need.

Speaker 6 (02:24):
To actually delete our group chat. We need to permanently
delete it, all three of us.

Speaker 1 (02:28):
If we don't start again, if we keep the group
chat as is, and then one of these one day
someone here wants to is like, we've got to get
rid of him.

Speaker 5 (02:37):
We need a way to get rid of him. Ye,
all you have to do.

Speaker 6 (02:40):
Even I said last night and said night night, and
the video that I packed you noticed I didn't to it.

Speaker 5 (02:48):
I didn't, I didn't. What do I do with that video?
What do I mean to do with that information that
you're sending? Can please do it?

Speaker 3 (02:55):
Like we get together right now and do it together?

Speaker 5 (02:58):
Yeah, let's do it.

Speaker 6 (02:59):
I'm like you would you ruin it for everybody?

Speaker 3 (03:03):
Delete it?

Speaker 1 (03:05):
Last night saying, oh, wouldn't the wouldn't the Virgion Max
show be good?

Speaker 2 (03:11):
I'm got a total file of how to bring you down?
All right? Hey, it feels like she's been here forever.
Katy Perry back again at the Entertainment Center tonight, which
means we are back again at eight twenty with Katy
Perry tickets and a Katy Perry fairy weigle over North Plimpton.

Speaker 5 (03:26):
Last show tonight, Katie, last chance to see it?

Speaker 3 (03:30):
Yeah, boy, I'm still trying to delete our shot Hayley Pierson,
that's coming.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
Up, Katie Perry Ferry eight twenty one thousand bucks today o'clock,
it's all happening. Shall we kick it off with Katie
now mixed one of two point three.

Speaker 5 (03:44):
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Speaker 2 (03:50):
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Speaker 3 (04:05):
Okay, are you ready? I am playing for ral In
in tennis and Hi year, Hi, Why are you up
so early?

Speaker 7 (04:14):
Oh?

Speaker 8 (04:14):
Go to the gym and then school pickup and work.

Speaker 6 (04:17):
And begin trying to fit everything in school. Holidays are
so close I can smell them.

Speaker 5 (04:22):
Oh me too, Yeah, you're almost carrow.

Speaker 1 (04:26):
I've got Annette in Torrenceville morning and why are you
good morning?

Speaker 3 (04:30):
Good morning?

Speaker 9 (04:32):
I go from my morning walk always at six fifteen.
It's about six forty five and it is so cold
out there, even who just said it.

Speaker 5 (04:40):
Was six degrees yeah, six degrees.

Speaker 10 (04:42):
So I got to be honest.

Speaker 11 (04:43):
I have an excuse not to go out.

Speaker 5 (04:45):
Yep.

Speaker 1 (04:46):
I just walked around the living room. If I was
you anette head to head today one note wonder we
get played a little bit of a song and we
both have to buzz in first person a guest title,
and artist correctly wins.

Speaker 3 (04:58):
Oh, I've got to say this.

Speaker 6 (04:59):
I'm feeling really like my brain is not even here Monday.
I've got nothing in Fullerton. It's not here, So just
ify I I've got absolutely nothing.

Speaker 1 (05:08):
Yes out this morning I allow went off and I
was like, very easy to go back to sleep.

Speaker 2 (05:13):
To work, all right, Tayland artist, she can steal first
song coming jumping.

Speaker 5 (05:24):
That was good.

Speaker 3 (05:25):
See now you're alive.

Speaker 2 (05:26):
Al right.

Speaker 1 (05:27):
It does getting one right, I know, I know you
need to get.

Speaker 5 (05:32):
One right, Okay, hy oh my god theme.

Speaker 3 (05:36):
Song from Dawson's Creek. I mean OC California.

Speaker 6 (05:44):
Bye, Oh my god, California, California.

Speaker 3 (05:53):
Yeah, oh my god.

Speaker 5 (05:56):
Good bye.

Speaker 2 (05:57):
Do you want to steal it?

Speaker 3 (05:58):
Maxt Oh my god, I know this song.

Speaker 5 (06:07):
She can't read, I can't can't even mouth to help me.
Give me hints.

Speaker 1 (06:13):
Now that's it, buzz Phantom Planet, all of the discography.

Speaker 5 (06:22):
Next, I know what.

Speaker 1 (06:33):
Max, I don't know if it's by this person, but
is it? I'm still standing and is it by Elton? No,
damn it, keep going. I'm the point, the point, all right,
we all we roll, we move.

Speaker 5 (06:53):
Good job, come on, Max.

Speaker 3 (06:56):
Max, I can't even hear that. You were talking over.

Speaker 11 (06:59):
The top and next my fingers.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
That is the Veronicas for Ever with a four great
song and love play that.

Speaker 2 (07:16):
As well, by the way, Yeah excellent.

Speaker 3 (07:19):
Oh that was a really fast game. Uneventful.

Speaker 5 (07:23):
We've done it.

Speaker 7 (07:23):
And yeah, yeah, thank you so much, Matt my pleasure.

Speaker 11 (07:31):
Yeah, thank you.

Speaker 5 (07:32):
I have sorry, sorry Cary was talking there.

Speaker 1 (07:40):
We've done it. We'll go again tomorrow. I feel a
little bit better about Monday now.

Speaker 5 (07:44):
Yeah, no you do.

Speaker 3 (07:44):
You go to pep in your step.

Speaker 5 (07:46):
I would like to hear Forever by the Ronicas at
some point.

Speaker 3 (07:48):
Yeah, such a good song.

Speaker 2 (07:50):
Max. You may have done quite well in that game,
but turns out you didn't do very well in the
footy tips and George from Crofton Park, who has stepped
in for you after you quit, might have done better.

Speaker 1 (07:59):
Again, I did pretty well, but George tipped all the
favorites and got him all right, Yeah.

Speaker 3 (08:02):
He just let George have the win.

Speaker 5 (08:05):
I'm happy for George.

Speaker 1 (08:06):
Your reason we got him on I've put them right.
Don't know what I quit footy tips. So George is
again this week.

Speaker 5 (08:11):
Great whatever he's mad, he's max, he is.

Speaker 1 (08:19):
Well.

Speaker 5 (08:19):
We can talk about footae tips.

Speaker 1 (08:20):
First of all, last week we had I quit because
I did the sick of being mediocre. Yeah, and I
was just in the middle. I'm just in the middle,
not last, not first. Can't do anything about it. Trying
to help, you'll not getting any closer to the top.

Speaker 5 (08:32):
So I quit. George from Krohlz to Part called in.

Speaker 1 (08:34):
He's regular at the show and said, you know what,
I get it, I appreciate it.

Speaker 5 (08:38):
I'll do it this week. I'm fourth in my work
tipping competition. George perfect. He rolled in got seven out
of seven on the weekend.

Speaker 3 (08:44):
So good Georgie forty.

Speaker 5 (08:46):
We love it.

Speaker 1 (08:47):
It was all of the favorites. But you've got to
tip him to get it right, and he's done exactly.

Speaker 7 (08:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (08:51):
So my thirteen year old again.

Speaker 5 (08:54):
Grats to your Well.

Speaker 1 (08:55):
I got six because I tried to pick an upset
because I want to catch up and I'm just getting
further and further by.

Speaker 5 (09:00):
But that's not what I'm angry about.

Speaker 1 (09:02):
Because I've quit tipping as I've said, so, I don't
really care what happens in tips for the rest of
the year.

Speaker 5 (09:07):
What we're mad about this.

Speaker 1 (09:08):
Week is someone on the footy field setting an absolutely atrocious,
atrocious example for anyone young watching and looking to play footy.
Tom Lynch yesterday for Richmond. He's a big, tall, angry man.
He's won a premiership with them, is when he's not injured,
one of the better forwards in the AFL.

Speaker 5 (09:30):
They were getting absolutely destroyed by.

Speaker 1 (09:32):
The Crows and Tom was getting destroyed by his opponent,
Jordan Butts, one of the funniest last names in the APA.

Speaker 3 (09:40):
Yeah, my favorite Crows player.

Speaker 1 (09:42):
To the point where Tom thought he'd earned a free kick,
he hadn't and he decided to turn around and throw
a haymaker at Jordan's head.

Speaker 5 (09:52):
Leitch is just thrown on. This has been building, guys,
and he just threw on Tom.

Speaker 7 (10:00):
Tom.

Speaker 5 (10:00):
You're recorded to striking Hayley. You've seen the vision.

Speaker 1 (10:03):
Yeah, He's being sort of held from behind and he
just turns around with a big Barry Hall style is.

Speaker 6 (10:10):
Lost in the moment. It's like a real brother thing,
like what you do when you're ten years.

Speaker 3 (10:13):
Old and you hit your brother on the head.

Speaker 5 (10:15):
You see the mist. Yeah, the red miss comes down.
He saw the red mist the issues.

Speaker 1 (10:18):
You can't do that where you're an AFL play had
a million dollars year to play footy. Tom Lych in
the first half yesterday when he did throw this punch,
let me go through his stats for you. Zero goals,
zero behinds, zero kicks, zero handble, zero marks, zero tackles,
zero freeze four five freeze against.

Speaker 3 (10:35):
Oh my god, I'd be better than him.

Speaker 1 (10:36):
He had one of the worst first halfs I've ever seen.
Jordan Butts absolutely destroyed him. He lost his mind and
threw a punch and then said postgame. Look, I didn't
want to cause him any harm, obviously great.

Speaker 5 (10:50):
I was more frustrated with how he was defending me.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
Clearly his defensive technique was within the rules because there
were no free kicks in order to me, so I.

Speaker 5 (10:57):
Went outside the rules. That's not how it works.

Speaker 3 (11:02):
Oh my god. What happens is he banns now for
a few games.

Speaker 1 (11:05):
You'll find out today and I would suggest that he
will find out that he's going to the tribunal tomorrow
and they will say, Tom, you're going to miss maybe a.

Speaker 5 (11:13):
Month of footage.

Speaker 6 (11:13):
Okay, this is where we've actually had this conversation last
week that you do the same as my child does,
my thirteen year old when you make when you're losing
in a sport, or you're hating yourself or you're down,
rather than hitting the opponent, you should clap.

Speaker 3 (11:26):
Your hands really hard and swear, say the F bomb
and that's done.

Speaker 5 (11:31):
Drop a little swear. Move on.

Speaker 3 (11:32):
We should teach him that. We should get him on
the show and teach him a little.

Speaker 5 (11:35):
Move I reckon. Tom would love to hear some tips
from you.

Speaker 3 (11:39):
Yeah, yeah, I'll.

Speaker 1 (11:40):
Try and chase that now by the end of the show, don't.
I don't love our chances.

Speaker 2 (11:44):
All right, the Hot tea celebrity guys coming up next
with Haley And there's one TV show tearing your whole
family apart.

Speaker 6 (11:50):
Ah, we'd love it. We binged on a squid game
all weekend. Yes, I'm a bad mum because yes, both
our kids.

Speaker 5 (11:58):
Watched it and it was your ten year old watches.

Speaker 3 (12:01):
And fantastic until the very end. It's so disappointing. I'm
so angry.

Speaker 5 (12:07):
Right, he's.

Speaker 3 (12:19):
Fast and the furious number eleven what we all wanted it.

Speaker 5 (12:24):
We were all asking for it. I haven't been able
to resolve the plot in the first hand.

Speaker 6 (12:28):
God, that is insane. So n Diesel has had three
conditions for him to come back and do the final movie.
This is apparently going to be the last one. They're promising, right,
he said, under three conditions.

Speaker 3 (12:39):
The first is to bring the franchise back to l A.

Speaker 6 (12:42):
The second is for the show to the movie to
return to the car culture and street racing that all started.

Speaker 5 (12:48):
Good. I'm sick of all this FBI undercover.

Speaker 3 (12:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (12:52):
And the third was reuniting Dom and Brian O'Connor. So
you can't do that because Paul Walker plays Brian.

Speaker 3 (12:59):
Plays Brian and he passed away dead for decades.

Speaker 6 (13:02):
Yeah, that was the saddest moment in a car accident too,
leaving his little girl behind.

Speaker 3 (13:07):
So apparently the power of AI they can bring him back.

Speaker 5 (13:10):
I say, no, I hate it so much.

Speaker 6 (13:12):
Did they do it in Star Wars Yes, Princess Lea, Yes,
And they had.

Speaker 1 (13:16):
A perfect moment to kill her off and she was
outside the spaceship sorry if you haven't seen the new
Star Wars yet. And it's just like he let her
die and then they for some reason forced, used the
force to bring her back and brought her back to
live and then killed her in the didn't have to idiots,
She's dead at real life.

Speaker 6 (13:30):
It's so much effort to make AI characters do a leap.
I'm doing this just for you because I know how much.

Speaker 3 (13:35):
You love her.

Speaker 5 (13:36):
We loved Pepe.

Speaker 3 (13:37):
She has split the G. Now I'm going to get
you to explain what splitting the G is.

Speaker 1 (13:43):
If you've ever been in a pub and you've ordered
or seen someone order a Guinness, they come in special
Guinness glasses that have the word Guinness on the side
of it, and splitting the G clever marketing if nothing else.

Speaker 5 (13:55):
What you do is when you first get your new.

Speaker 1 (13:57):
Pint, glug glug, glug, your first sip, you put it
back down on the table and you try and leave
it so that the bottom of the foam and the
top of the beer is right between gap in the
G where the G starts and where the G ends.

Speaker 3 (14:11):
Okay, do you have a listen. This is du A
Leafer splitting the G.

Speaker 5 (14:22):
Nailed it.

Speaker 6 (14:23):
She's just celebrating five sold out stadium jos in Dublin,
and she's.

Speaker 5 (14:27):
Just not back half a Guinness split the g perfect?

Speaker 3 (14:31):
Of course, does she get any more perfect?

Speaker 5 (14:33):
This girl?

Speaker 6 (14:34):
Okay, Squid Game. If you are into this show, season
three came out. If you're like me and my family,
we are obsessed.

Speaker 3 (14:44):
To the point.

Speaker 6 (14:44):
Friday night, we had to wait for my husband to
get back from swimming, and then we had to go to.

Speaker 3 (14:49):
Basketball, and I got back. I was tired.

Speaker 6 (14:51):
They were all meant to wait for me, but they didn't.
They started watching the first three episodes. So then I
got up Saturday morning and I was watching the three.
I caught up, and then we watched together four and five,
and then they sneakily watched the final episode without me
because I.

Speaker 5 (15:06):
Go to bed. I finished again.

Speaker 3 (15:08):
You gotta finish together. But we washed it literally all weekend.

Speaker 5 (15:12):
What do you think?

Speaker 6 (15:14):
It's a really interesting Okay, so the first two episodes
take a little bit to get into. Then you're in
the thick of it, and you love these characters and
people that you love dearly, and you feel emotionally connected
to die because that's what's squad game. What happens in
squid Game. I'm really disappointed in the very end of
the show. I'm not going to give it away, but
there is an Australian actor actor that.

Speaker 3 (15:34):
Comes up at the very end. No you go no,
I don't want that.

Speaker 6 (15:39):
Yeah, and it's a woman and it's alluding list of
another one and you'll get it right. It's alluding to
the fact that there's going to be another series, but
it's not going to be set where it is set.

Speaker 3 (15:50):
And I like reading the subtitles.

Speaker 5 (15:52):
I like that. Who's your favorite character in squid Game?

Speaker 1 (15:55):
The baby's giving away spoiler?

Speaker 3 (16:00):
Yeah, well you just asked me the question.

Speaker 6 (16:01):
Yes, she has the baby, She has the baby, Does
the baby live? Does the baby die?

Speaker 5 (16:05):
This is what this is. This is what sounds like.
You're giving it about three out of five.

Speaker 3 (16:11):
No, I'm going to give it more of four and
a half out of five. I loved it.

Speaker 1 (16:14):
I love you a positive review from you because that
sound positive.

Speaker 3 (16:19):
Because I get so involved it.

Speaker 6 (16:20):
Just because I hate that something happens, it doesn't mean
I don't like the show. I still love the show.
Watch it okay. On on the weekend, A big article
was published in the Advertiser on Saturday and it was
about my brother Ryan, who had lost his battle with

(16:40):
addiction thirteen years ago.

Speaker 3 (16:45):
I felt really anxious all last.

Speaker 6 (16:48):
Week, even knowing what was in the art, exactly what
was in it, I had did the interview. I think
it's because it's out and its public and it's out there,
and I just felt sick. And it's also I always
say this, I can talk about it sometimes like it's
someone else's life, and then other times it knocks the
wind out of your sales and you feel anyone who's

(17:10):
experienced grief gets this, this this big like bang wave
of like, oh my god, that's actually happened, and.

Speaker 5 (17:16):
It's real overwhelming at times.

Speaker 3 (17:18):
Yes, and also because.

Speaker 6 (17:21):
Reading it is very like, obviously this is my story
about my brother, but for my mum and dad that
have lost his son, that's who like, yeah, that's what
gets me. And hearing mum on the phone on Friday
so sad, so happy that I've done this article, but
so sad.

Speaker 3 (17:39):
Because it's just a reminder of what she's lost, and
same with my dad.

Speaker 6 (17:44):
But I just want to say, after I shared this
article and every time I talk about this, and it's
because it's a promise that I made to my brother
before he died, I am just so overwhelmed with the
response of people on my Instagram messaging me through different
ways and just being so real and honest and open

(18:08):
with me. And there was a couple of moments over
the weekend, max So that a couple of screenshots that
I took because I just wanted to share them with
my parents. One of them was from and I'm obviously
not going to mention names or anything, but one of
them was a woman that reached out saying, I saw
my Instagram post saying that the article was out. She
hasn't bought the paper in years, went and bought the paper,

(18:29):
read the article.

Speaker 3 (18:29):
And said, you've just inspired me.

Speaker 6 (18:32):
You've got no idea that, like, I am an alcoholic
and you've just it's like a wake up call.

Speaker 5 (18:37):
There was that, and then there was reading that one.
What's that like?

Speaker 1 (18:41):
I just like when someone says you're making a tangible
difference to my life.

Speaker 6 (18:44):
That's I took a screenshot of it and I sent
it to Mum and dad and I said, look, he's
saving people.

Speaker 3 (18:50):
This is my brother.

Speaker 6 (18:51):
This is why, like, you've got no idea how much
that means to me.

Speaker 3 (18:55):
This is why I talk about it.

Speaker 6 (18:57):
If I could save one person, or make one person
who's a family member of an addict feel normal.

Speaker 3 (19:02):
That's why I do it. Another one that really got me.

Speaker 6 (19:08):
This person commented on my post saying it was Hailey
sharing the story of her brother that helped me reach
sobriety two and a half years now and never again
will I return to that life. And I went back
through our Instagram messages and he had reached out in
twenty eighteen when I spoke about it on my Instagram page,
and he was like, You've just like this is a
full wake up call. And he's checked in with me

(19:28):
every couple of years, Like I was eleven months sober,
now it's two and a half years sober, and I'm
just like, that is my brother saving someone's life, Isn't
it like that? That is why I talk about it.
And sometimes I think this is going to sound really
woo woo. I know this is going to sound weird.

Speaker 3 (19:44):
But when my brother was little Max, he said to
my dad and my mum, I'm on this earth to
teach you all the lessons you need to know. Weird
from a child, right Yeah?

Speaker 6 (19:56):
And then I go, Okay, So maybe that's why I
am doing the job. I'm doing that I have a
platform to teach other people the lessons that they need
to know and to help other people. So I think
everything happens for a reason, and so I'm really greatful
that I ended up in this position, in this job
that I can help potentially help people.

Speaker 3 (20:15):
That's like that. That means everything to me. So I
do want to.

Speaker 6 (20:19):
I am glad that it's out there, even though I
was feeling really wobbly about it. But I do want
to At eight forty this morning, there's a lot of
people that have reached out that do have something to say,
and I do want to continue this conversation today so
that you can jump on our show and tell me
and Max about your experience and hopefully your story can

(20:41):
help other people too.

Speaker 2 (20:43):
Right now, though we are doing this, what daily hand matches.

Speaker 7 (20:47):
Yes, this gives all.

Speaker 1 (20:54):
Three all of truth that I am coming at, Hailey.
You are going to have to answer a very difficult question,
a tricky one, so we can get to learn a
little bit more about you and the way you operate.
This one is to do with your family, because you
come across as.

Speaker 3 (21:11):
Such a oh my god, she's so good, she's such.

Speaker 5 (21:14):
A good mum. Do I.

Speaker 1 (21:18):
But you can't be you can't be perfect I want
to know, Hailey Pearson, what is the worst advice.

Speaker 5 (21:26):
You have given to one of your children.

Speaker 3 (21:30):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (21:31):
Man, all, my advice is excellent exactly. I thought you
might say that.

Speaker 3 (21:34):
It's always led with love kindness.

Speaker 5 (21:36):
If you have to think about it just a little bit.

Speaker 6 (21:40):
Something happened last week that I can probably. It wasn't
to my it wasn't directly to my kid. It was
to my kid's best friend.

Speaker 2 (21:48):
Perfect.

Speaker 3 (21:48):
So my ten year old.

Speaker 6 (21:51):
Gets teased by girls at school, and I think it's
because the girls like him, but it's they will say
mean things like you look like Donald Trump because you're orange,
or you your.

Speaker 3 (22:00):
Hair's too short.

Speaker 5 (22:01):
It's very tan.

Speaker 3 (22:02):
He's very tanned.

Speaker 6 (22:03):
But my husband's half Indian, so it's not like it's
like he doesn't go and just go in the selarium.

Speaker 5 (22:08):
He's he's got tan skin. The girls of you can't
say that, not twenty twenty five girls, No.

Speaker 3 (22:13):
Exactly, thank you, thank you.

Speaker 6 (22:15):
So they say that, they say he's got he gets
his haircut, and then they tease him because they say
he's baled and all this kind of stuff.

Speaker 3 (22:22):
They're just girls being girls, being mean to him, right.

Speaker 6 (22:25):
So he was really upset last week about going to
school because he had a haircut and he was worried
what people are going to say.

Speaker 3 (22:30):
And I was picking him and his best mate up in.

Speaker 6 (22:31):
The car and we're in the car and the way
home and I said, did anyone tease you?

Speaker 3 (22:35):
And he said yes, Mom, they all said it. They
said it again. They said that.

Speaker 5 (22:38):
I'm bored names.

Speaker 6 (22:40):
I'm not going a name name all their names because
I can't remember any of the mother one.

Speaker 5 (22:43):
They would give out their addresses on the radio.

Speaker 6 (22:48):
So I said to his best friend, Hey, were you
the like were you there when they were teasing him?

Speaker 3 (22:54):
And he's like no. I was like, if you are there,
do you reckon? You could stick up for him?

Speaker 5 (22:59):
Fly the flag from my son.

Speaker 6 (23:01):
And his best mate's like yeah, of course, like they
love each other so much.

Speaker 3 (23:05):
Of course what he got me to say, and I
was like, well, I said, well you should say to them.

Speaker 6 (23:12):
Whatever you're saying to Alfie is going to happen to you.

Speaker 3 (23:15):
You're going to be orange, You're going.

Speaker 1 (23:17):
To go bald.

Speaker 5 (23:18):
All this kind of stuff was your advice.

Speaker 3 (23:19):
That was my advice. And I drove home.

Speaker 5 (23:21):
Where did you pull that from?

Speaker 2 (23:22):
Well?

Speaker 1 (23:24):
I mean, is that a lived experience that's worked for you.

Speaker 2 (23:27):
No.

Speaker 6 (23:28):
I if I was to give this advice to somebody else,
I would say, just ignore them your advice.

Speaker 3 (23:32):
But I'm angry at these girls.

Speaker 1 (23:33):
Your advice when it came to bullying your son was
to say takes one to know one.

Speaker 3 (23:36):
Well, you're ugly.

Speaker 5 (23:38):
I know you are, but what am I was pretty
much the advice.

Speaker 3 (23:41):
I know it's I know it's not right, is it.
It's like I shouldn't have said that doesn't help, but
it annoys me.

Speaker 6 (23:48):
Saying that you can't just walk away and not say anything,
like I know that's the most powerful thing, but when
it's your own kid, you just want to go, well,
you're gross.

Speaker 1 (23:58):
And did it get did the did the advice get
put into action?

Speaker 6 (24:02):
Well, I have given this advice, and I'm waiting for
it to happen. But then I'm also then waiting for
the email from the mum to go your son said
this to me to.

Speaker 3 (24:11):
My daughter, dah da da dah. So I haven't got
that yet, but I know that it's not great advice.
It's like my dad tells my kids if someone punches them,
to punch them back. I'm like, Dad, you can't say
that don't tell them that.

Speaker 5 (24:23):
What would you tell them to do?

Speaker 2 (24:25):
Well?

Speaker 6 (24:26):
In that instance, you go and tell a teacher and
you walk away. You don't punch them physically back.

Speaker 5 (24:31):
Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 6 (24:32):
It's such a hard thing when it comes to your kid,
because you're so emotionally attached, you can't help but say
the wrong thing.

Speaker 3 (24:38):
Sometimes.

Speaker 1 (24:38):
I would love to hear from other people on this
actually worst advice that you have given to your child
or that you heard from your parents. Yes, certain one
and two three, Please give us a ring? May Kaylee
feel a little bit better? I mean, you can't win
the more once wing one.

Speaker 3 (24:53):
Miss bad advice you gave your kids?

Speaker 5 (24:57):
Yeah, I've just put Hailey through the wall of truth.
What was the worst advice you gave your kid?

Speaker 1 (25:00):
And you've given him a little bit of a bullying
response lately.

Speaker 6 (25:04):
Yeah, just to the girls in his class that tease
him for being too tanned and for being bored.

Speaker 3 (25:09):
When he shaves his head like he has a fade, it.

Speaker 5 (25:12):
Goes really sure, it's not bored, he's got it.

Speaker 6 (25:14):
On purpose, but it's yeah, but like a soccer player,
they all do it and he gets really sad. And
I said to him and his best friend. Whenever they
do this, you say back to them, well, you are
what you tell me.

Speaker 3 (25:24):
So you are bald and you are orange, and you
do look like Donald Trump.

Speaker 5 (25:27):
Yeah, probably not.

Speaker 3 (25:28):
The best advice I should say, especially to girls.

Speaker 1 (25:31):
It's pretty average, to be honest, But that's okay. Let's
make Haylee feel a little bit better. Thirteen one O
two three. Give us a ring with your worst advice
you ever gave to your kid, Sharon and Edwardstown's done
just that, Sharon, what did you tell your daughter?

Speaker 9 (25:44):
Oh my god, Haley, you're not alone. My daughter was
struggling at his school. When she was at school with
her maths. Now she's really clap but she can work
it all later on her head, but she just has
trouble putting it on paper. Well, the teacher was giving
her a bit of a hard time. Teacher's like, you know,
like you need to and you know know how to

(26:05):
do all of your maths and put it all on paper.
And she's like, no, miss I don't have to. Because
I said to my daughter, you can be anything you
want when your school. You don't need a mass degree
to be successful.

Speaker 1 (26:16):
Okay, So you said to her Essentially, Mass isn't as
important as as you just said to get through this exactly.

Speaker 9 (26:22):
You know, like you don't really need basic basic maths
and you can work it out, you know. And I'm like,
we're talking algebra and things like that here. And my
daughter's like, you don't need a mass degree to you know,
to be successful in our life. I can be anything
I want to do. Mom said so, and he teaches up, well,
what do you want to be when you need school?
When my daughter says prostitute?

Speaker 12 (26:42):
What I oh my daughter was fourteen said this. I
never you're a prostitute.

Speaker 9 (26:56):
You know you're going to have to learn how to
work out all your money.

Speaker 8 (26:58):
And it's like, don't you miss.

Speaker 9 (27:00):
What pitched the four.

Speaker 3 (27:03):
I'm like, oh my god, croud my moment right there.

Speaker 12 (27:06):
Sharon, one moment they're not having had eyes.

Speaker 8 (27:12):
I taught my daughter.

Speaker 12 (27:12):
How to be in this refined little smarter.

Speaker 6 (27:15):
Do you know what you've got to You've got a
comedic daughter.

Speaker 3 (27:18):
She's got a sense of humor.

Speaker 5 (27:19):
I like that you guys.

Speaker 9 (27:20):
Haven't send him And it was really good and I'm
proud that she actually did.

Speaker 1 (27:25):
For Yeah, the teacher saying, well, if you're going to
be a prostitute, You're gonna need to know how to
count your cash.

Speaker 5 (27:35):
Sharon, give us her ring thirty one oh two three
if you want a Sunday body pretty in pink bundle.

Speaker 1 (27:42):
So we're talking all the fancy shower foams, the moisturizers.

Speaker 3 (27:45):
I love this.

Speaker 5 (27:46):
Homegran that's watermelon's all that sort of stuff.

Speaker 1 (27:49):
But you need a little story, and your story has
to be the worst advice you ever gave a child,
or you as a child heard from your parents.

Speaker 6 (27:57):
Yeah, Max is saying that my advice to my tenure
old was not great. After he's been teased by the
girls at school about being orange looking like Donald Trump
his hand, And I said to say back to the girls,
well you are what you tell me. And then you
say you're baled and you're also orange, it's.

Speaker 1 (28:13):
Not like you're also tanned. Is not a good insult.

Speaker 3 (28:16):
It's not an insult. That's what I'm saying to him,
Like that's a good thing, your beautiful skin. The girls
just like him anyway.

Speaker 5 (28:23):
But what am I?

Speaker 3 (28:25):
But can I just say, when you are emotionally attached
to your child, you do say things because you want
to protect them at all costs.

Speaker 5 (28:31):
Yeah, Bojo, I did the same thing.

Speaker 2 (28:33):
I've got a four year old daughter. She's at ELC
and I'll change the other kid's name for protection. But
you know, she comes up to me and she goes,
Charlie punched me in the belly, and I'm like, punching
the belly is a thing? He ever does that again?
You push him over? But then I found out that
she did push him over and that's why he punched
her in the belly.

Speaker 5 (28:53):
She started it.

Speaker 3 (28:54):
I love that little girl.

Speaker 1 (28:56):
Give us your story is Thurday one and two three, Emma,
and Elizabeth Grove has done just that. Emma, your daughter
was getting bullied. Give us the advice that you gave back.

Speaker 13 (29:05):
Yeah, So what.

Speaker 4 (29:06):
Had happened was I actually got tub from what I
told her. So I told her at school she was
getting bullied by someone, and I said to her, We'll
make sure that you tell him that if he doesn't
stop what he's doing, then I'll come down and sort
it out, meaning I would come down and sort it
out with the school, like with the teachers and you know,
get them involved and all that sort of. No, no, no,

(29:28):
she said, if you don't stop what you're doing, my
mum will come and sort.

Speaker 5 (29:31):
You out, and she said it to the bully. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (29:34):
And so like the next day I had the school
ringing me saying their parents of the child was there,
saying that I threatened the child and probably shouldn't be
doing that. And I was like, oh, I just I
didn't even know where this came from. And I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

Speaker 9 (29:48):
And I was like, can you tell me the situation?

Speaker 4 (29:50):
And then I my daughter was in the backseat, She's like, well,
I said.

Speaker 14 (29:53):
This, and I was like, oh my god.

Speaker 3 (29:56):
But also you're in the right, the bully's in the wrong.

Speaker 2 (30:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (30:00):
I get kind of like, well, I would be down
there sorting it, and yeah, yeah.

Speaker 3 (30:06):
Ever id of feel like that when your kids be tease?

Speaker 1 (30:09):
Emma, do you think if you ever put one on
one with the kid in a ring, would you come
out on top?

Speaker 5 (30:14):
I take the parent out first.

Speaker 3 (30:17):
Not that you've ever thought about that, right.

Speaker 4 (30:19):
Yeah, in the car park or something.

Speaker 1 (30:22):
Up next, we've had a call from a kid who's
calling in with some bad advice from their parents.

Speaker 3 (30:30):
Excellent.

Speaker 1 (30:30):
I'm living this right now, right, and it's nearly cost
me a couple of teeth.

Speaker 3 (30:36):
Excellent.

Speaker 5 (30:37):
This story so good.

Speaker 2 (30:37):
Here it next with Haley Max.

Speaker 1 (30:40):
Right now we're talking worst advice that you've ever given
your child, because I put Haley in the Wall of
truth and said, what's the worst advice.

Speaker 5 (30:46):
You ever gave one of your kids?

Speaker 3 (30:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (30:49):
Ten year old sometimes gets teased by the girls at school.
I tell them him because it's because they like him.
But they'll say things like your orange or your ball
when it gets hair cut and it gets really sad.
And I said to his best friend, Hey, when you
hear this, do rek and you could stand up for him.

Speaker 5 (31:04):
He's like, yeah, sure, what do you say, go to
war for it?

Speaker 6 (31:08):
Yeah, because at the moment they don't say anything, they
just walk off, which is the right thing to do.

Speaker 3 (31:12):
But I said, no, don't walk off. Say to them, well,
whatever you're saying to me is going to happen to you.
You're gonna go bored and you're gonna be orange.

Speaker 5 (31:17):
It's bad advice on multiple levels.

Speaker 3 (31:19):
But it just annoys me. Stop just be nice, but
tease my.

Speaker 5 (31:22):
Kid takes one to know one. I know you are,
but what am I so true?

Speaker 3 (31:26):
Well, you, mum's ugly.

Speaker 5 (31:27):
We've been asking you for the worst advice that you
gave you kids.

Speaker 1 (31:29):
But we've had a kid that call in on thirteen
one two thread.

Speaker 5 (31:33):
It is a friend of the show with some bad advice.
It's our boy, Gazeppe child, Joseeppe. What's your story?

Speaker 3 (31:39):
Okay?

Speaker 11 (31:39):
I went to my first day of film match ever.
Right there was the fruit chalk mascot. I went to
go get those chocolates, right, and then there was this
big scary monster who what she annoyed?

Speaker 9 (31:54):
Cheese?

Speaker 3 (31:56):
Oh my god? A fan?

Speaker 11 (31:58):
Yeah. Then when I collected my from chocolate, she started
calling me and we weren't starting from B, F and C.

Speaker 5 (32:08):
Oh my goodness, what who is this person?

Speaker 11 (32:12):
A monster?

Speaker 5 (32:13):
Yeah? Okay, what does she support?

Speaker 3 (32:15):
And what did you do about it? What advice did
your mom give you?

Speaker 11 (32:18):
I went to my mom right, and then I told
her everything. She told me to go give her my
dentist car. I went down there, gave her my dentist
card and said you need this.

Speaker 5 (32:32):
And then what happened?

Speaker 11 (32:33):
And then she started calling her mom every word starting
from B, C, N S. And then and then my
dad got involved, throwing the whole fruit chops packet out
of her head. And then and then that monster went
to go and chose this acurity guard on him. So
he ran as false as you, Saint Paul. I never
seen him on that foss and then he went straight

(32:54):
out of the stadium, though he doesn't get banned for life.

Speaker 1 (33:00):
Right, So mom's advice to go and give the toothless
Port supporter a dentist's car.

Speaker 7 (33:06):
There.

Speaker 3 (33:07):
It was funny.

Speaker 1 (33:07):
It's funny. It maybe maybe not the best advice you reckon, Josette.

Speaker 11 (33:11):
I mean, it wasn't up, but it was.

Speaker 5 (33:14):
Very fun Yeah.

Speaker 6 (33:16):
Are you the kid from that ad back in the
day that goes and my leg went this way and
my head went that way.

Speaker 5 (33:22):
Has no idea what I'm talking about? The future community ad? Yeah,
look it up, Josette. We always love to hear from that.

Speaker 1 (33:27):
That's good advice for all the parents out there looking
at some toothless angry Port fans.

Speaker 5 (33:32):
Okay, thank you, it's.

Speaker 3 (33:33):
All right, love you just set let me care.

Speaker 2 (33:35):
All right, Hey, coming up after eight o'clock, thousand dollars
with the money minutes.

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I'll be honest. This morning we did put up the
clues on our Instagram, so you get a little bit
of a chance, a couple of minutes to jump on
mix Adelaide's Socials. You'll see the first three questions, the
first three answers. We gave away grand to Desiree and
Darren Park on Friday.

Speaker 5 (33:54):
Let's do it on a Monday.

Speaker 3 (33:55):
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retiree somewhere in Adelaide.

Speaker 5 (34:00):
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Speaker 2 (34:02):
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Speaker 3 (34:03):
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Speaker 7 (34:05):
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Yeah that guy, Oh my life.

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Okay, Alien Max's money minute.

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it may be missus Carly in Mowana because she's busy
playing the money Minute.

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You have ten questions sixty seconds. We have to accept
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Speaker 1 (35:15):
What do you use to unlock a door? What is
cold Rock best known for selling? All?

Speaker 5 (35:22):
Lah is hello?

Speaker 1 (35:23):
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pop star? Which color is Ariel's hair In Disney's Little Mermaid,
Oh Lou who was known as Jenny from the Block
In two thousand and two, j Lou the Fresh Food

(35:43):
People as a slogan from which supermarket foodland?

Speaker 5 (35:47):
What country are Koala's native to Australia? Name a vehicle
that has a steering wheel? How many zeros?

Speaker 1 (35:56):
In one thousand three, Daisy Dove is the daughter of
which popstar?

Speaker 5 (36:04):
Pop star with a daughter named Daisy.

Speaker 10 (36:07):
As popped Katy Perry locked away?

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Carl, good, You're really good, Carli Okay, no, really not.

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I don't think your hair was blue.

Speaker 10 (36:20):
I really got stuck on that.

Speaker 3 (36:22):
Let's let's just see how you went. What do you
use to unlock a door key? Yes?

Speaker 6 (36:27):
Cold Rock, best known for selling ice cream color is
hello in Spanish. Jennifer Lopez, also known as Jenny from
the Block koalas a native to Australia.

Speaker 3 (36:39):
Yes. Name of vehicle with a steering where you said car? Yes?

Speaker 6 (36:43):
How many zeros in one thousand three? Yes, let's go
to the fresh No, I'm about to get to that.
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Worst of the freshman people.

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Speaker 12 (37:12):
Okay?

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Ariel's hair, Yeah, it's not it's not blue? No, what
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Speaker 10 (37:25):
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of Tanzania.

Speaker 10 (37:37):
I might buy a giraffe when I'm over there.

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Speaker 15 (37:49):
Looked it out in my mind.

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Thank you, so Carly, see you later.

Speaker 1 (37:54):
Oh my god, can I just just a little laugh
that we had in the studio.

Speaker 5 (37:57):
He one little laugh that we had. And it's.

Speaker 1 (38:01):
Question number eight, what country a koala is native to?
And the answer we know the answer is Australia. The
answer that's written down here is Koala.

Speaker 3 (38:15):
We love, we love.

Speaker 7 (38:19):
That's good, Katy Perry Fairy.

Speaker 6 (38:31):
Any plans this evening gone, Kay Perry, Maybe do see
her last show in Adelaide.

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Yeah, now is your chance to do so.

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I mean, if you're listening to this going, yeah, I'd
love to, but you're not already at the location.

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You've missed out. Sorry.

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we're keeping it away.

Speaker 6 (38:47):
It should be such a downer. I mean, you could
say you could get there right now, give people some hope.

Speaker 3 (38:52):
There's no hope.

Speaker 5 (38:53):
It's about to run.

Speaker 3 (38:55):
So, Kay Ferry Fairy is in a new location right now.

Speaker 5 (38:57):
So weigle over in North Priton, the massive one. I reckon.

Speaker 1 (39:00):
They play baseball there, they play footy there and maybe
even soccer.

Speaker 3 (39:03):
Yeah, okay, So the deal is.

Speaker 6 (39:05):
Our little fairy is going to run as fast as
he can with his little tiny little legs, running running
up and downhills, and you've got to catch him, grab
his wig, and you get tickets to the last show.

Speaker 1 (39:15):
And this is the last time we're doing this, so
we're going out with a bang. Katie Perry Fairy. Have
you got a whole bunch of people around there with you? Oh?

Speaker 2 (39:22):
I got so many people.

Speaker 5 (39:23):
We've got school kids, moms, dads, whoever. Everyone is suffer
dead for these last Katy Fairy tickets.

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Okay, can you've been practicing all weekend? Could you pull
a hammy last week? Can you run really fast today?

Speaker 5 (39:35):
Like extra?

Speaker 10 (39:37):
I'm still a.

Speaker 2 (39:37):
Little bit sore, but you know it's the last day,
so I'm going to give everything.

Speaker 5 (39:40):
It all, Katie Ferry Fairy.

Speaker 1 (39:42):
When you look in front of you, I was saying before,
they play so many different sports there, Like you've got
a lot of room to run, don't you. Yeah, there's
there's there's a lot of different sporting fields around.

Speaker 5 (39:53):
I think we might be in the baseball section, but
I don't got no sports, so maybe soccer actual soccer goals.

Speaker 3 (39:58):
I love you all, right, are you ready?

Speaker 5 (40:00):
We're going to count you down?

Speaker 3 (40:02):
Ready?

Speaker 5 (40:02):
Okay, yep?

Speaker 6 (40:03):
Three?

Speaker 5 (40:04):
So what we're off? And I and pretending like I
am some thought, Oh my god, I'm actually this morning
and people go, mate, go go go. Someone just tumbled,
someone just tumbled pass away.

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Hello, hi there hell ye all right, this this is
what Luky? How old are you?

Speaker 5 (40:31):
I am forty five?

Speaker 3 (40:35):
Yes?

Speaker 5 (40:35):
Right? What are you holding? Luke? I am holding the
Katy Perry fairies?

Speaker 12 (40:40):
Wi?

Speaker 3 (40:41):
Yeah you are?

Speaker 5 (40:42):
That means that you're heading along the candy berries and
my friends. That's fantastic.

Speaker 3 (40:47):
Are you going to take one of your mates or
are you going to take a child with you? A?

Speaker 2 (40:51):
Well, I think I've got a few line up that
may come with me.

Speaker 5 (40:58):
You probably probably probably my niece. Yeah, that's nice. Running
for the niece.

Speaker 1 (41:08):
Cool what we wanted because to be honest, Luke, when
you said I'm a forty five year old man and
I'm thinking about taking one of my mates, like Dazzer
from the footage, cub I would have been like, that
is you are?

Speaker 5 (41:17):
You are very unfamiliar territory.

Speaker 3 (41:21):
Well done, enjoy the show.

Speaker 6 (41:23):
Last year, she hasn't been seen all weekend as far
as I know, which means she'll be rested and ready
to raw tonight.

Speaker 5 (41:28):
Well done, Luke, all right, ham your hammy's all good.
Oh the hammies are fantastic.

Speaker 2 (41:35):
It's the work uniform that's taken a bashing at the moment.

Speaker 5 (41:40):
You know what, who cares take the day off?

Speaker 11 (41:42):
So you know why it's worth it?

Speaker 1 (41:43):
Absolutely and joy Katy Perry tonight you're a firework, Luke.

Speaker 5 (41:46):
If you ask me, thank you very much.

Speaker 2 (41:50):
Did you take a tumble?

Speaker 1 (41:51):
Luke?

Speaker 2 (41:51):
Did you fall? I? Yes, in your work uniform you've
got grass stones or what I've.

Speaker 9 (41:57):
Got grass stones?

Speaker 5 (41:58):
Mudstones? But you know what's will in the day's work,
my friend, I've been childcare. I work in childcare. You'd
be money, you'd be money before ten.

Speaker 1 (42:05):
Anyway, Well done, good I take guys, alright, thank you?

Speaker 2 (42:12):
If you can put the fairy back on for.

Speaker 5 (42:14):
Us, yeah, sure it'd be nice. Actually yeah, just one
final sign of life.

Speaker 6 (42:18):
To make sure he's all right, because we love our
little fairy Katie Perry fairy.

Speaker 1 (42:23):
Hello, Yeah you're right mate, that was your last one.
You okay, I'm all right, you know I'm a little
bit puff this time.

Speaker 5 (42:31):
But it's Monday, mate, great.

Speaker 6 (42:33):
Are you going to the show tonight, Katy Perry Fairy?

Speaker 5 (42:36):
I am.

Speaker 1 (42:37):
I am ready to have a little bit of recovery
and then dance my little fairy wings off because they
are almost broken.

Speaker 2 (42:45):
And you'll be dressed as the Katy Perry Fairy. Right,
So look out for the fairy outlab and help him
get on stage with.

Speaker 1 (42:54):
Katy Perry Fair. Put your buddy on the line for us.
We appreciate it.

Speaker 5 (42:58):
Love your little fairy. All right.

Speaker 3 (43:01):
Family meeting, Family meeting.

Speaker 6 (43:05):
I just wanted to acknowledge something that happened on the
weekend and say thank you to all the people that
reach out to me.

Speaker 3 (43:12):
On the weekend. I shared a story.

Speaker 6 (43:15):
It was Well Addiction Day last week and I shared
a story of my brother Ryan, who passed away thirteen
years ago from alcohol addiction. And the article came out
on the weekend and it hit me like a ton
of bricks. I think it's funny. I spoke about it
with you on Friday and I was actually really strong.

Speaker 5 (43:34):
Yeah, you were great. Yeah.

Speaker 6 (43:35):
Sometimes I can talk about it like it's not my life,
and then other times it knocks all the wind out
of your sails and like you almost lose a breath
because you're like, oh, this is real. And I think
seeing his photo and things like that is hard.

Speaker 3 (43:49):
But I know this sounds.

Speaker 6 (43:53):
Stupid and weird and woo woo, but I feel like
things happen for a reason. And my brother, when he
was little said to my mum and dad randomly, he
was like six years old, said I'm on this earth
to teach you all the lessons that you need to know.

Speaker 3 (44:07):
A weird thing from a six year old. He passes
away from addiction.

Speaker 6 (44:11):
I end up having this job which has a platform
to help people, and I'm sharing his story and in
that we are teaching you the lessons that you need
to know.

Speaker 3 (44:21):
And hopefully some people.

Speaker 6 (44:24):
Lives are being saved because of Ryan's story and Max.
I can't tell you the amount of messages I go
on the weekend from people that just opened up to
me about their struggles. One lady wrote to me saying,
I saw your Instagram story.

Speaker 3 (44:39):
I don't really buy the paper. I went and bought
the paper.

Speaker 6 (44:43):
I am an alcoholic, and she goes, I you've just
your story has just inspired me and I'm going to
go to the doctor. But I take screenshots of that
and I send it to my mum and dad and
I go, this is Ryan's work. He is saving people
because of this, and this is the only reason I
talk about it. And trust me, I feel really weird
talking about I feel yuck inside all the fields. I've

(45:05):
got cold sweats right now because it's a real thing
that I'm talking about. But I know how important it is.
And can I just share one thing as well, please?
Someone wrote to me this morning and this is why.
This is why I do what I do. A couple
of years ago, this guy wrote to me. I had
spoken about it. I think it was on my Instagram page,
and he wrote to me saying, I am an alcoholic

(45:28):
and I didn't know about Crosus the liver, and I
didn't know that young people can die because Ryan was
thirty four. Yeah, this is in twenty eighteen.

Speaker 3 (45:36):
He then went to the doctor.

Speaker 6 (45:40):
He's been on, I guess a journey to become sober.
He wrote to me a couple of years ago, on
twenty twenty three, saying I have now eleven months sober.
Yesterday he wrote to me, your article, Hayley is the
reason I am alive and I'm now two and a
half years sober.

Speaker 3 (45:55):
Yeah, and he just sent.

Speaker 6 (45:57):
Me this really powerful photo of his beautiful girls and said,
these three beautiful girls still have their dad because of you.
It's not because of me, it's because of Ryan. Unfortunately
he lost his battle with this, but his story is
helping other people. And that's why it's so important for
me to talk about this and to normalize this disease,

(46:17):
because it's disgusting disease. So I'm really glad that I
spoke about it, and I'm really like honored that all
these people reached out with their personal stories.

Speaker 3 (46:29):
And I just thought, because it is only two.

Speaker 6 (46:30):
Times a year that I speak about this, generally his
birthday and anniversary, and now because it's World Addiction Month,
to use this opportunity. If you do have something to
say about addiction or something that you could your story
could inspire somebody else. We'd love to open the phone
lines and use this platform to potentially help someone that

(46:51):
you don't even know that's listening that you might actually
change their life.

Speaker 1 (46:55):
Keep us a ring that ain't one O two three.
If any of that has stirred anything up for you,
I'd love to hear from you.

Speaker 6 (47:01):
Yeah, we're talking about addiction, and you can remain anonymous
if you like, but if you do have something to say,
give us a call.

Speaker 5 (47:08):
Thirteen what I two three phones are open.

Speaker 14 (47:10):
We've had some real brave vulnerability this morning from Haley Pearson,
and Haley's now at a point where she's struggling a
little bit, and I just want to let you know
that you are Hailey freakin' Pierson, and you are strong,
and you're powerful, and you're brave, and you are changing
lives through your story and you need.

Speaker 5 (47:27):
To know that.

Speaker 6 (47:28):
Thank you. Ha Okay, I'm going to be strong because
I am talking about this because I hope that if
you're a family member of an addict, that my story
will make you feel normal, and if you are.

Speaker 3 (47:40):
An addict, that you that you know that you're the
only one that can help yourself.

Speaker 6 (47:50):
And I hope that I inspire you to go and
see your doctor and start a journey of health. Anyway,
so I have been talking about this because there was
an article in the paper on the weekend.

Speaker 3 (48:01):
I shared my family story about my.

Speaker 6 (48:02):
Brother who was thirty four and died from alcohol addiction,
and yeah.

Speaker 3 (48:08):
So funny.

Speaker 6 (48:08):
I'm all over the shop and I don't want to cry.
I'm trying really hard to be now. Yeah, so we're
going to go to some calls. I know this is
important to me and it's important to get through this.
I want to talk about this because potentially it could
save life.

Speaker 1 (48:21):
One of the great things is, and you've showed us
and read out a couple of mesters, it's resonated with
so many people. Yeah, which is brilliant because any little
bit that helps is exactly. What's something like that? With
your platform? You can do so thirty one O two
three if it's resonated with you at all. Vanessa and
Christie's beach is called in. Hey Vanessa, what's your story?

Speaker 16 (48:41):
Hey guys, Hailey, I've just been crying to that song. No, no,
I just want to I just want to tell you
that I'm with you one hundred percent. I'm just parted
at my son's school. So my dad literally just died
from alcohol dementia on the age of May and he

(49:05):
was only seventy but I was his care of its
ten years. He we realized there was memory loss. It's
when it was about fifty five. So it's called cours
the cough dementia and it so it's alcohol related dementia.
And it affects the frontal lobe of their brain. So
he had all the prices to deliver as well and everything.

(49:28):
But I looked after him for ten years until eventually
he had to go into care.

Speaker 3 (49:33):
And yes, I'm so sorry.

Speaker 16 (49:36):
So I just, yeah, thank you so much for using
this platform to talk about it. Just quickly with you
about your brother, I'm not my dad's name Ziggy.

Speaker 3 (49:45):
When I say that great name, because Ziggy.

Speaker 16 (49:49):
I just wanted to say my dad when he was
in a lot of denial with the dementia part of it.
But he said to me, I want people to use
my story. I want to be an example of in
schools and to tell people like what not to do,
because this is a between when he was in denial

(50:10):
and angry about it and stuff. He tried to go
to rehab a number of times, and I took him
to detoc centers and in Adelaide and everything, but it
was just too hard. So yeah, I'm a professional artist
in faith painter in Adelaide, and I've been wanting to
be an advocate for alcohol addiction. So Hayley, if you

(50:33):
ever want to do anything, I've already got ideas. There's
something I want to do.

Speaker 3 (50:37):
Or I do know what, there's probably a lot of people.
I am with you.

Speaker 6 (50:40):
There's so many people that are in our position that
we want to do something because there's not enough in
South Australia to help families going through addiction.

Speaker 3 (50:50):
Thank you.

Speaker 6 (50:50):
And can I just say, Vanessa, you just talking about
that with the dementia, that's something that I didn't even know.
So you're teaching people here listening to the radio that
that is also another thing that can happen to you
with alcohol addictions. So thank you for sharing your beautiful
dad ziggy story.

Speaker 1 (51:05):
Thank you, Vanessa. Slide into the DMS and do a
colin with Hailey. I'm sure she'd be more than happy
to do it. Sarah's called in from the city. Sarah,
can you tell us your story?

Speaker 6 (51:15):
Hi?

Speaker 10 (51:16):
Hi, Hailey, thank you for sharing. That was really special
as wanting to st a pull over because I was
just crying.

Speaker 3 (51:22):
Sorry, I don't want to make me o.

Speaker 15 (51:25):
It's good crying.

Speaker 10 (51:26):
I think it's like healing crying, and that's yeah, it's
okay to cry.

Speaker 15 (51:29):
I think it's a good thing for people don't know
it's okay to cry. But yeah, when I was a kid,
I faced quite a lot of abusive bullying and whatnot,
and I tried to stay strong during my younger years.
But when I was about like fourteen fifteen, I fell.

Speaker 10 (51:47):
Into like a really deep depression and really bad for
them self esteem and everything. And because of that and
sort of not feeling like I could reach out to
anyone for support, I just kind of fell in with
the wrong crowd of people and who were all addicted
to ice. And then I greatly dig did to ice

(52:08):
during that time. And it's such a.

Speaker 15 (52:11):
Vicious drug that just like it doesn't matter who.

Speaker 10 (52:15):
You are, it doesn't matter where you come from, like.

Speaker 15 (52:17):
It will grab hold of you and just slowly just
real life. And yeah, until I from about yeah, age
fifteen until twenty one, I was in the throws of
that addiction, and I lost pretty much everyone that meant
anything to me.

Speaker 10 (52:36):
And then by the time I was twenty one, on
my twenty first birthday, I sort of woke up a
little bit and like looked around and realized, like, you know,
I had made all of these plans with my friends about,
you know, how we're all going to celebrate our twenty
first birthday together.

Speaker 15 (52:54):
All of that stuff didn't realize that, like I had.

Speaker 10 (52:56):
Lost all of those people in my life.

Speaker 15 (53:00):
So yeah, that was sort of the moment that I
really went, now I'm going to like, like this is important.
I'm going to change my life.

Speaker 2 (53:09):
Sarah.

Speaker 10 (53:09):
Where are you now in Adelaide?

Speaker 5 (53:13):
In life?

Speaker 7 (53:15):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (53:15):
In life?

Speaker 10 (53:16):
So yeah, So I managed to go. I went to
a psychologist and I worked with them for a few years,
and then I was able to reach out to my
friends again and who supported me and were amazing, and
then I ended up going to UNI and now I'm
working in mental health.

Speaker 3 (53:31):
So actually, yeah, that is amazing.

Speaker 2 (53:35):
Sarah.

Speaker 6 (53:35):
You've just pointed out something that's so important. People don't
become addicts because they're happy. They become addicts to mask something,
whether it's emotional or physical trauma in their lives. That's
where we need to help people is when they're younger
to stop that from happening. And then I feel like
addiction will will go down if people can be more

(53:57):
supported when they're younger. We're going things through what I
can't even talk.

Speaker 5 (54:01):
I'm so sorry, Sarah. Is a great example of being
able to see a light.

Speaker 6 (54:05):
Yes, but things need to be done when when you're
younger Sarah, and then you wouldn't have turned to addiction.
But thank you, thank you so much for sharing that.
That is just so raw and honest.

Speaker 5 (54:16):
Thank you, Sarah kat in Redwood Park.

Speaker 1 (54:18):
Your daughter suffers with alcoholism, Yes, tell us about it, Okay.

Speaker 8 (54:25):
So unfortunately, Yeah, she started out about nine or ten
years ago, became an ice ADDICCT and we got her
clean from that. So that was great, very proud of her,
and we did all the steps and then sadly, behind
our backs, we didn't realize she was just swapping one
addiction for another. So then she was drinking behind our backs,

(54:45):
and we realized that, yeah, a few years later, that
she was a full grown alcoholic and it really ruined
her life, for our lives.

Speaker 5 (54:54):
As a family.

Speaker 8 (54:54):
It's not just the person that had affects, it affixed
the whole community as a family unit. So, yeah, she
lost everything. She lost a house, her partner, a job,
her license, her partner took her daughter from her as well.
You know, we'd go home and there'd be you know,
certain notes left around the house, so we didn't know

(55:15):
if we were going to go home and sort of
see you they're awake or not necessarily awake. If you
know what I mean, And yes, so it was. It's
just terrible. Last year was definitely not just the worst
year of my daughter's life, but also mine. I helped
when I failed as a parent and just really touched home,
you know. Unfortunately, alcohol was one of the hardest things

(55:36):
to give up because it's so social. It's everywhere. You
can't walk down a street without passing a bottle shop
or a souper market that sells it, or a pub,
or you can't even go out for a meal.

Speaker 6 (55:45):
They I know exactly what you're talking about. How is
your daughter now?

Speaker 8 (55:51):
She is almost five months sober. Thanks, thank the Lord
and Baby.

Speaker 12 (55:57):
Jesus for that.

Speaker 8 (55:59):
It's been a very long, hard road and I must admit,
you know, she is doing all the steps. We're so
proud of her. But of course you know that I
can't get in contact with her or she having a
bad day, all those feelings come flooding back to me.
Is is she going to start drinking? Is what can
I do?

Speaker 3 (56:14):
I take pain and you kind of work out what
their voice sounds like.

Speaker 8 (56:17):
A minute the minute the first tullow is like, Okay,
we're going to have a good day. Is it a
bad day, Is she lying?

Speaker 9 (56:23):
Is she's drinking?

Speaker 8 (56:24):
Is she what do we you know? It's it's unfortunately
for me as a parent, and I'm sure there's other
parents that can relate. It's never gone to end because yeah,
the minute she has a bad day, she's crying. Ordiately,
I think, is she going to got bottle shop? Is
she going to drink?

Speaker 6 (56:39):
Is she you know, it's actual hell, it's living in hell,
just waiting for that because you're always worried, constantly worried. Kat,
that is excellent news. I'm so happy. I hope she
reads the article and hopefully that may inspire her to
keep sober.

Speaker 5 (56:54):
Thank you, Kat, appreciate you cool.

Speaker 6 (56:56):
I do want to talk to someone important, one more,
really really important, because thirteen years ago, when my brother
was going through this, there wasn't enough in South Australia.

Speaker 3 (57:05):
There was like, you know, the wool shared or.

Speaker 6 (57:08):
Couple of rehab centers, but there's not really a lot
in South Australia for this, support wise, support wise. So
Chris Picton, the Health Minister, commented on my Instagram post
on the weekend and I was really really touched that
he did so, and I asked him to come on
our show and he's joining us now.

Speaker 3 (57:23):
Hello Chris Picton, Hi Hailey, thank you for joining us today.

Speaker 6 (57:29):
I just wanted to say, as I guess there's a
health minister, we're talking about a really important topic with addiction,
and there's a lot of people listening to this now
who need help, who needs support. What have we got
in South Australia in place now because there wasn't enough
thirteen years ago.

Speaker 13 (57:45):
Well look, firstly, thank you Hailey for sharing your story.
I mean reading a story about Ryan on the weekend
touched me as much as it did everyone else across
Outh Australia. Secondly, there is help available, Certainly there's always
a need for more, and we're adding more drug and
alcohol rehabilitation services as we speak. We're just added a

(58:06):
whole news service just in the past year. But I
really want to you know, no doubt this has brought
up a lot of feelings for a lot of people
out there. If you are somebody who is in that
situation where you've now thinking about your own substance abuse,
whether it's alcohol or drugs, and want to get help,
there's a few ways and want people to reach out.

(58:26):
One is to go to a website called Know Your
Options or essay dot golf DODU that explains the whole
different range of services that are available to help people.
And there's also a phone line the Alcohol and Drug
Information Service one three hundred and three six eight one
six eight, and there's counseling, there's telephone support, but there's
also sobering up services as you mentioned places like the Woolshed,

(58:50):
we've got residential drug and alcohol services available, So there's
a whole range of different things. There's one other thing
that I really want to touch on as well is
that no doubt there's a whole lot of family members
who are out there who are wondering what they can do,
how they can get support, and you know a few
years ago there wasn't much support for family members going
through this as well. So we've helped an organization called

(59:13):
Family Drug Support to provide more services for families as well,
helping families to navigate how they can help their loved ones.
And there's a twenty four hour phone line for families
one three hundred three six eight one six eight. And
every year I have a Family Drug Support come into
Parliament with different family members from across the state, some

(59:33):
who similar to you, Hailey, unfortunately things have gone very
badly in terms of their loved ones life. Other people
who have things have turned around for them. Any inspirational
stories of where they've been able to make amends. But
getting that support from people who have known what it's
like to be there is absolutely amazing. So I encourage
people to reach out to them too.

Speaker 1 (59:53):
Hey, Chris, thank you for rattling off all of those
options for people.

Speaker 5 (59:57):
We were wondering.

Speaker 1 (59:59):
When you think of rehab centers, a lot of the
big ones seem to be into state and they seem
to cost a whole lot of money.

Speaker 5 (01:00:06):
They're all like the big celebrity rehab center.

Speaker 1 (01:00:08):
As we hear about that sort of really is the
only thing for a lot of people? Is there is
there an alternative for people that don't have heaps of
money that are struggling.

Speaker 13 (01:00:18):
Yeah, exactly. So drug and alcohol services out Australia run
services here in our state and they don't cost you know,
to get into their public services. So we have detox units,
but we also have residential rehab services that are dotted
right throughout Adelaide. We partner with organizations like United Communities

(01:00:39):
to run lots of those that are running in the community.
People in the suburb might even know that they're being
in operation near their home, and they provide excellent ways
for people to break that addiction and to live a
different life and to get back on the right path.
So all of those services are freely available, but we

(01:01:03):
need people to obviously reach out and get that help.

Speaker 6 (01:01:05):
Chris, just to write this up as the health ministry,
I know you care about well being. I've said this
before that addiction, you don't just become an addict for
no reason. You try you're drinking or you're using drugs
to mask a trauma, whether it's.

Speaker 3 (01:01:19):
Emotional or physical.

Speaker 6 (01:01:21):
Can you promise me that you will do more in
schools to educate children on addiction and make sure there
will being is at the best possible level and they've
got enough support, because I think this is what needs
to happen, is we need to put this in place
for kids so they don't grow up to be adults.

Speaker 5 (01:01:40):
Yeah, yeah, absolutely right, Yeah, absolutely right.

Speaker 13 (01:01:44):
There's no doubt there's a connection between people who have
trauma and mental health and addiction a lot of the
time as well. And you know, I think part of
the value of your story and Ryan's story is you know,
a family that loves each other, that's got support, that
goes to good schools could still end up in this situation.
So it doesn't discriminate no matter who you are or

(01:02:04):
where you are. So we are putting additional mental health
staff into our schools across the state. One hundred additional
mental health staff in our schools. It's additional mental health
kids programs running out and part of it is about
helping people to avoid a path of addiction like this.
And you know it is obviously essential that you know,

(01:02:25):
we can help people early and that's going to pay
off in the long run.

Speaker 6 (01:02:29):
Thank you, That means a lot. Thank you, Chris Pickton,
Health Minister. Thanks for joining us.

Speaker 13 (01:02:33):
Thanks so much, Hailey, Thank you.

Speaker 5 (01:02:35):
Thank you Hailey for sharing with us, Thanks for listening Heavy.

Speaker 2 (01:02:39):
Anytime you can read the article that Haley has shared
the links of our socials at Mixdelaide on Instagram. We
love you, We're proud of you. You didn't think you could
get through that, but you did and you are strong
and brave.

Speaker 5 (01:02:51):
Thank you all right, Rowdie, See you guys,