August 7, 2025 • 5 mins
Hayley and producer Bella debunk the "mixed signals" they apparently send to men without realising it.
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Speaker 1 (00:10):
I heard podcasts here more mixed one or two point
three podcasts, playlists and listen live on the Free iHeart app.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Has your bubbly personality got you into trouble?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
That was my question on the War the Truth today,
and turns out has has. When a coworker's wife thought
that I liked her husband and admitted to me after
she met me, I'm so glad I met you because
I really like it, and I can see that's how you.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Are with everybody. But I thought you liked my husband
because of the way you were with him.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
And a whole bunch of people have called in and say, hey,
it happened to me. That's happened to me as well.
I completely understand Hailey's bubbly personality problem. So Burgo and I,
as the men in the room, would just like to
do a bit of a public service for the men
out there and maybe debunk.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
Some myths on signals.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Yes, so we've got you, Hayley, We've got producer Bella
who is actually single and in the dating game, and.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
We would like to ask you both some stuff.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Go go for it far away.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Instagram reacts straight off the bat. If you react to
a man's Instagram story. Is that a sign that you're
a little bit into him? Because I know that blokes
Instagram react to women usually because they are interested in
that woman.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
No, for me, one single huh huh signal, I like
everyone's in the story.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
My problem is like I'm a serial likeer. But like
they have to somehow like telepathically know that the photo
that I'm liking is because I'm into them, and like
the key there is like you don't like every photo
because that's just too thirsty. But to sort of like
sprinkle it enough to be constantly present, is it just the.
Speaker 6 (01:48):
Like react or is it a flame?
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Blames is definitely a sign.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
You need to be sort of a bit modest, you know,
if you're immediately like actually reacting to the process like
in their dms, that's a sign.
Speaker 6 (02:00):
Would it kill women to just write you look really
great here and I'm interested, Like, would it kill you
just to do that?
Speaker 4 (02:07):
That's embarrassed? Sad you say that?
Speaker 6 (02:10):
Yeah? I think I feel like men.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Are you said that to me? I would be like, oh, yeah,
what's your success? Right?
Speaker 4 (02:15):
We're doing that?
Speaker 6 (02:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (02:16):
You like a little bit of a chase, right, I'm not.
Speaker 6 (02:18):
Saying I do do it, but White like, we just
need to be more forward in general.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
So do you see how we've given I've given one
example here and it's taken two minutes to debate it.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
How we're confused with generations though too. Bella's like in
the early twenties.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Next, touching your hair when you're talking to a man.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
That's just in a movie. That's a flirty move in
a movie.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
I will say that that has to be a sign.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
That's a move written by men in films.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
So that doesn't so if you were to touch your
hair in front of someone, that's not a sign.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
No, we're just trying to get the fuzz out of it,
that's all.
Speaker 5 (02:47):
Yeah, We're always just trying to fix it.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
It's like, if you tell your hair like that right now,
Hailey Pierson up hurting with you right now?
Speaker 6 (02:54):
What I'm jumping in because mine relates to this, and
Max and I and producer Bella went to the footy
recently produced. Bella had a couple of d does love
a dry light and did the same thing that Haley does,
and that is you come a little, you come close,
you touch the hair, you the head down, you look
up with the eyes. They're battering and flattering away with
their little.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Puppy because you're seven foot tall.
Speaker 6 (03:14):
No, it's flirty, and it's the body language.
Speaker 5 (03:17):
It's just amazing eyelashes.
Speaker 6 (03:19):
It wasn't me. You were doing it to Max, you
were doing it to like my mate Aaron who was there.
You did it to everyone.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
You are mean, that's just who she is.
Speaker 6 (03:26):
I love a flirt, but it's a sign.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Flirting is not a bad thing anyway. It's just being bubbly.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Really, isn't it, because you're not actually leading someone on.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
That is leading someone on to you think it's up
at someone because you're tall.
Speaker 6 (03:39):
Do you think it's okay to flirt and then go No,
that's not a sign.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
That's that sucks. That's like the girl that goes out
and it's just like I didn't pay for a drink
all night. Boys are just buying. Did you buy one back?
Or did you like talk to the man?
Speaker 2 (03:50):
That is the wrong thing. You shouldn't do that.
Speaker 5 (03:52):
That's just using someone like I was talking to out.
Did you produce on Michael McNally two weeks ago and
we're talking about flirting. I was like I flirt with
Michael all the time and it is so much fun,
but it means nothing.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Yeah, see, and Michael gets it. Carry on X.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Is on the end of texts.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
I do like, I do like your chronic exit.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
Yeah is that a sign?
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Is it a sign? If it is, I should stop
doing it.
Speaker 5 (04:13):
I also challenge is to personality trait, Like there's girls
in the world that just love putting.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
An X you.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Text messages are hard to read, and I don't want
anyone to think that I'm being rude or mean or
anything or cold, So I do like four exes.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
Yeah, like, please, I'm not I'm not trying. Don't take
me the wrong way.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Yeah, my last one for you is a little bit
of the opposite. Playing hard to get sick, And you're
about to see why men get so confused because all
of these things like sliding into someone's Instagram DMS is
apparently a sign. But then flip the coin and women
play hard to get and it's just like, well, hang
on a second. I can't talk to you, but then
(04:50):
I can talk to you either way. I can't be
interpreted the way that I want to be interpreted.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Yeah, we want to be chased.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Mazzie just said that that when she actually likes someone,
she goes the opposite and doesn't know how to talk
to them.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
It doesn't touch that. Yeah, I do.
Speaker 6 (05:05):
You see why we're potentially confused in every sh scenario.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Because we're maybe women should just be with women and
men should be with Oh yeah, that's the answer to everything, right.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
I don't fix it.
I heard podcasts here more mixed one or two point
three podcasts, playlists and listen live on the Free iHeart app.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Has your bubbly personality got you into trouble?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
That was my question on the War the Truth today,
and turns out has has. When a coworker's wife thought
that I liked her husband and admitted to me after
she met me, I'm so glad I met you because
I really like it, and I can see that's how you.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Are with everybody. But I thought you liked my husband
because of the way you were with him.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
And a whole bunch of people have called in and say, hey,
it happened to me. That's happened to me as well.
I completely understand Hailey's bubbly personality problem. So Burgo and I,
as the men in the room, would just like to
do a bit of a public service for the men
out there and maybe debunk.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
Some myths on signals.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Yes, so we've got you, Hayley, We've got producer Bella
who is actually single and in the dating game, and.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
We would like to ask you both some stuff.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Go go for it far away.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Instagram reacts straight off the bat. If you react to
a man's Instagram story. Is that a sign that you're
a little bit into him? Because I know that blokes
Instagram react to women usually because they are interested in
that woman.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
No, for me, one single huh huh signal, I like
everyone's in the story.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
My problem is like I'm a serial likeer. But like
they have to somehow like telepathically know that the photo
that I'm liking is because I'm into them, and like
the key there is like you don't like every photo
because that's just too thirsty. But to sort of like
sprinkle it enough to be constantly present, is it just the.
Speaker 6 (01:48):
Like react or is it a flame?
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Blames is definitely a sign.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
You need to be sort of a bit modest, you know,
if you're immediately like actually reacting to the process like
in their dms, that's a sign.
Speaker 6 (02:00):
Would it kill women to just write you look really
great here and I'm interested, Like, would it kill you
just to do that?
Speaker 4 (02:07):
That's embarrassed? Sad you say that?
Speaker 6 (02:10):
Yeah? I think I feel like men.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Are you said that to me? I would be like, oh, yeah,
what's your success? Right?
Speaker 4 (02:15):
We're doing that?
Speaker 6 (02:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (02:16):
You like a little bit of a chase, right, I'm not.
Speaker 6 (02:18):
Saying I do do it, but White like, we just
need to be more forward in general.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
So do you see how we've given I've given one
example here and it's taken two minutes to debate it.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
How we're confused with generations though too. Bella's like in
the early twenties.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Next, touching your hair when you're talking to a man.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
That's just in a movie. That's a flirty move in
a movie.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
I will say that that has to be a sign.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
That's a move written by men in films.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
So that doesn't so if you were to touch your
hair in front of someone, that's not a sign.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
No, we're just trying to get the fuzz out of it,
that's all.
Speaker 5 (02:47):
Yeah, We're always just trying to fix it.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
It's like, if you tell your hair like that right now,
Hailey Pierson up hurting with you right now?
Speaker 6 (02:54):
What I'm jumping in because mine relates to this, and
Max and I and producer Bella went to the footy
recently produced. Bella had a couple of d does love
a dry light and did the same thing that Haley does,
and that is you come a little, you come close,
you touch the hair, you the head down, you look
up with the eyes. They're battering and flattering away with
their little.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Puppy because you're seven foot tall.
Speaker 6 (03:14):
No, it's flirty, and it's the body language.
Speaker 5 (03:17):
It's just amazing eyelashes.
Speaker 6 (03:19):
It wasn't me. You were doing it to Max, you
were doing it to like my mate Aaron who was there.
You did it to everyone.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
You are mean, that's just who she is.
Speaker 6 (03:26):
I love a flirt, but it's a sign.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Flirting is not a bad thing anyway. It's just being bubbly.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Really, isn't it, because you're not actually leading someone on.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
That is leading someone on to you think it's up
at someone because you're tall.
Speaker 6 (03:39):
Do you think it's okay to flirt and then go No,
that's not a sign.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
That's that sucks. That's like the girl that goes out
and it's just like I didn't pay for a drink
all night. Boys are just buying. Did you buy one back?
Or did you like talk to the man?
Speaker 2 (03:50):
That is the wrong thing. You shouldn't do that.
Speaker 5 (03:52):
That's just using someone like I was talking to out.
Did you produce on Michael McNally two weeks ago and
we're talking about flirting. I was like I flirt with
Michael all the time and it is so much fun,
but it means nothing.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Yeah, see, and Michael gets it. Carry on X.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Is on the end of texts.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
I do like, I do like your chronic exit.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
Yeah is that a sign?
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Is it a sign? If it is, I should stop
doing it.
Speaker 5 (04:13):
I also challenge is to personality trait, Like there's girls
in the world that just love putting.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
An X you.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Text messages are hard to read, and I don't want
anyone to think that I'm being rude or mean or
anything or cold, So I do like four exes.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
Yeah, like, please, I'm not I'm not trying. Don't take
me the wrong way.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Yeah, my last one for you is a little bit
of the opposite. Playing hard to get sick, And you're
about to see why men get so confused because all
of these things like sliding into someone's Instagram DMS is
apparently a sign. But then flip the coin and women
play hard to get and it's just like, well, hang
on a second. I can't talk to you, but then
(04:50):
I can talk to you either way. I can't be
interpreted the way that I want to be interpreted.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Yeah, we want to be chased.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Mazzie just said that that when she actually likes someone,
she goes the opposite and doesn't know how to talk
to them.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
It doesn't touch that. Yeah, I do.
Speaker 6 (05:05):
You see why we're potentially confused in every sh scenario.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Because we're maybe women should just be with women and
men should be with Oh yeah, that's the answer to everything, right.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
I don't fix it.
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