⚡MINI: Would Hayley Pearson Leave Her Husband If He Cheated On Her?

Love, Lies and Infidelity - When cheating destroys trust

What would you do if you found out your partner cheated? Could you forgive them? Or would it be an instant relationship-ender? We dive into the messy world of affairs, betrayal and broken trust.

Hayley bares her soul when asked what she'd do if she discovered her husband Jimmy had strayed. Her raw, honest response shows the turmoil this would cause. She wants to preserve their family but admits it may break her ability to trust.

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Episode Transcript

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Haley Peerson's in the Wall of Truth today. She gets
a question, she has to answer it truthfully. No two
puts of but two butts of it. Now, there's been
a message bouncing around in our little WhatsApp group chat here,
and it's a screenshot. It's from Instagram. I don't know
that it's a fully scientific account. One in three men
cheat according to this. Oh yeah, They've cited some studies

(01:25):
they reckon twenty percent of married men admit to cheating.
Then there's relationships outside of marriage, and they've done a
little bit of accounting, accounting for underreporting. So I'm not
sure that it's true as a bloke old offenders, but hey,
a lot of blokes cheat. So Haley, my question to
you is, what would you do if you found out
that Jimmy had cheated on you?

Speaker 4 (01:48):
That's such a disgusting question, isn't it.

Speaker 2 (01:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:52):
It brings up so many like insecurities and things like that.

Speaker 1 (01:56):
But it's a question that a lot of people have
to go through and they have to face in their
own lives.

Speaker 4 (02:00):
There's so many variables, especially because to me, it's like, well,
if he did, were they He's not going to, by
the way, I don't think so much. Would He's a
beautiful man. We've been together a long time, more than.

Speaker 1 (02:13):
Half our lives.

Speaker 2 (02:14):
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Speaker 1 (02:14):
It's not a short leash.

Speaker 4 (02:15):
Yeah, so true, there's the way he'd want to because
he gets cut off. So was he in love with
this person? Was he was he one night? Was it
a one night stand?

Speaker 1 (02:28):
I'll put a cup that you quick fight. You have
just found out that eight years ago Jimmy one time
cheated on you.

Speaker 4 (02:37):
I that changes things then I would be so so
hurt and like I think, but the time thing also
changes things too. I we've had this conversation before. I
feel like.

Speaker 2 (02:51):
I would.

Speaker 4 (02:52):
We have so much to lose. We have two boys,
two dogs. I'm trying to justify in my head. I
would want to stay with him because I love our
life together, but I don't trust myself.

Speaker 2 (03:05):
I feel like I.

Speaker 4 (03:05):
Would constantly bring it up, and I would be so insecure.

Speaker 1 (03:08):
Even if in this scenario where it was like nearly
a decade ago, it was one time and nothing's happened
since doesn't speak this.

Speaker 4 (03:14):
First, Yeah, I would still I would. I probably wouldn't
break up a marriage over.

Speaker 1 (03:18):
That because of what we have, Okay, but.

Speaker 4 (03:20):
It would make me doubt everything else. And also I
just I have trust issues and if I'm a Scorpio,
if someone does wrong by me, I swipe them and
I and.

Speaker 2 (03:29):
I'll I move on. Okay, So it battle with that one,
I would really battle.

Speaker 4 (03:33):
And I know when you if if there is cheating
in a relationship, you if you do stay together, that's fine,
but you both have to let it go, and the
person that was cheated on has to let it go
otherwise it will fester like a cancer and it will
eventually kill your relationship.

Speaker 1 (03:47):
Of course, I'm guessing then if I was to throw
another scenario at where it happened recently or was still
if there was it, is it immediate grounds for separation,
divorce or is there any way you want to I couldn't.

Speaker 4 (03:59):
I couldn't I would do I would be so so hurt. Yeah,
and I would also cut off his thing.

Speaker 2 (04:07):
I really, look, you really, actually, I don't doubt you.
I'd like to myself.

Speaker 1 (04:11):
I'd love to hear from people on thirtay one or
two three who've been in this scenario. Have you actually
worked through it and it's worked out for you, yeah,
Or you tried to work through it and it made
it worse, or it happened to you and you're like, nah,
I'm getting the knife out. Please don't tell us you
cut someone's really off on radio and you broke it

(04:32):
up instantly.

Speaker 4 (04:32):
Or sometimes stuff like this happens and it makes people
stronger in the end. Hear those stories. Do I don't
know how that happens. Hats off to you, but We'd
love to hear from you.

Speaker 1 (04:43):
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