When Has Your Bubbly Personality Got You In Trouble??

Hayley's bubbly personality has been mistaken as flirting and it keeps getting her into trouble!

Should she change who she is just because someone else is interpreting her actions in the wrong way?

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:10):
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app Tricky questions, tricky answers have to answer them truthfully.
Those are the rules we're locked in. That's what we
have signed in our contract. And I have a tricky
question for Haley in the Wall of Truth today. Hailey Pearson,
you are such a ray of sunshine, a ball of

(00:31):
energy in our lives. And I want to know, I
think this all the time when we run into people
out in public as your bubbly personality ever got you
into trouble?

Speaker 2 (00:42):
Oh, bubbly personality is generally is good.

Speaker 1 (00:47):
It's a great thing. And you come across as friendly
to everyone to live people up. They walk away going,
oh my god, Gee is so much nicer and happier
than Max.

Speaker 2 (00:57):
You just hide it.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
Well yeah, yeah, I'd say having my personality has probably
maybe got me into trouble in that someone read me
the wrong way. And there's one standout moment where that happened,
and maybe it made me look at myself and reflect

(01:19):
and like, wow, do I need to change the way
I am with people? So I was working with this
guy and we were friends, like as I am, I've
a lot of male friends, and we ended up going
to this party and he was there with his wife
and rah rah my husband wasn't there for some reason
I can't remember why. We were just newly married. And

(01:40):
his wife came up to me, like at the end
of the night and said, can I just pull you
aside and tell you something?

Speaker 4 (01:46):
And I was like, sure, what is it, big smiley girl?

Speaker 3 (01:50):
Yeah, and she goes, I just want to say, after
spending tonight with you, I really like you. But I
got to be honest, the last six months I've hated
you because I thought you wanted my husband. Oh and
I was like, like a stab in the heart because
A I didn't want her husband at all, and also

(02:12):
I have my own husband that.

Speaker 2 (02:13):
I love very much.

Speaker 4 (02:14):
Why did she think that?

Speaker 3 (02:16):
I guess maybe it's because she wasn't outwardly bubbly maybe
like I am, and maybe she thought. I don't know,
maybe people get the wrong idea, like you're flirty, but
I'm flirty with men and women as in like that's
just that's probably how I like. I am exactly how
I am with you guys, and with say Bell or

(02:36):
a producer.

Speaker 2 (02:37):
It's the same kind.

Speaker 4 (02:38):
Of you do say I love you to everyone, and.

Speaker 3 (02:41):
Yeah I do, but like people know that I don't
take to everyone. I do tay to my friends.

Speaker 1 (02:46):
Can be tough for some people to read the signs.
And when I say some people, I mean most men most.

Speaker 3 (02:54):
But I I literally, in my whole life, I can't
unless I'm not aware of it. I've only remembered that
one time that it was the wrong way, because I
don't see myself doing the wrong thing at all.

Speaker 4 (03:05):
Was it?

Speaker 1 (03:06):
Did you have to clear anything up with the bloke?
Had he given his wire?

Speaker 2 (03:11):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (03:12):
Maybe he went home and said, oh, she's really touchy
or like, really friendly or whatever. But that's just who
I am with everybody, so I'm not like and doesn't
matter what age, so I never.

Speaker 2 (03:23):
I never.

Speaker 3 (03:24):
I also don't read science too, so I wouldn't know
if someone thought that I was cracking onto them.

Speaker 2 (03:30):
Do you know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (03:31):
I do.

Speaker 1 (03:32):
It's tough when you give out science by accident, which
I think it sounds.

Speaker 4 (03:36):
Like you do.

Speaker 3 (03:37):
But it's also I don't want to come across as
cold or rude, so I'm probably overtly Oh.

Speaker 4 (03:41):
You come across as the opposite very well?

Speaker 2 (03:44):
Have I given you guys the wrong impression.

Speaker 4 (03:46):
We were going to get married? We know you very well.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
If i'd met you for the first time and you
were like this, I'd.

Speaker 2 (03:52):
Be like a little bit interested. Did you think that
was the first time I met you?

Speaker 1 (03:58):
No? No, you can understand impression that he's meeting you
like once.

Speaker 3 (04:05):
Yeah, but also like it says something about my character,
thinking or does she not love her husband?

Speaker 1 (04:08):
I don't think it's not necessarily it may not even
necessarily be a you thing. I think it's just a
it's sometimes we struggle to read women. Yeah, and your actions. Okay,
I need help.

Speaker 4 (04:20):
With that, I'd say all the time. Actually, can we can?

Speaker 2 (04:23):
We ask?

Speaker 3 (04:23):
Am I the only persons that happened to has your
bubbly personality got you into trouble before?

Speaker 2 (04:30):
Well, I'd love to.

Speaker 3 (04:31):
Hear from you if if you'll want someone like me
and someone's read you're wrong, I love to make me
feel a little bit better.

Speaker 4 (04:37):
I got the wrong idea from being friendly.

Speaker 2 (04:40):
Do we need to pull back? What am I supposed
to do about it?

Speaker 4 (04:41):
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