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June 17, 2025 2 mins

Do 'save the date' invitations pass the pub test?

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
And Amanda gam.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
Nation Save the date?

Speaker 1 (00:04):
Do they pass the pub test? Well, your daughter's getting
married next year, so you said, this is a big
discussion wide as possible.

Speaker 2 (00:10):
So there's nobody there.

Speaker 1 (00:13):
And what does your daughter say when you talk like this? Interesting?
Because save the date? Did you say it goes out
like eight months before the wedding?

Speaker 2 (00:22):
Apparently? Yeah, eight to twelve months before the wedding.

Speaker 1 (00:25):
Wow. One of our executive producers was saying, how triggering
she finds that because she doesn't have a diary for
next year. It locks you in, whether you like it
or not. So no excuse can be made. Well, we
gave you the date, et cetera, et cetera. The pressure
it puts on you. You cannot not attend if you've
known this has been in the works for a year,
even if it's an event, you may be deciding whether

(00:46):
you'll go to and make that decision when the invitation
comes six to eight weeks before the wedding. But a
lot of people are saying it's great, you know, save
the date. If I've got to travel, I've got whatever.
I like to know what I'm doing in a year
in advance. It's like people the book concert gets two
years in advance. Yeah, that's my head.

Speaker 2 (01:03):
Who's booking tickets to either like elderly performers or oasis.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
Interesting, isn't it? So how do you feel about this
save the date? Is it past the pub test?

Speaker 3 (01:13):
Oh? I really think that saving the dates are perfect
opportunity for people to organize their lives.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
Saving the date. I'm not too sure about these. I
get these all the time, and all they do is
just fill up the inbox, fill up my notifications. No,
I don't need these things anymore. That do not pass
the pub test.

Speaker 4 (01:28):
Absolutely passes the pub test. My diary is busy, so
I like to know well in advance what's going on.

Speaker 2 (01:34):
But then on the.

Speaker 4 (01:35):
Other side, I save the date doesn't necessarily lock you in,
so you can still say no, it's just letting you
know you know when it is well.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
I don't think it passes the pub pests. It should
be sent closer to the date because if there's a
falling out in the family and I had the Save
the date sitting on my fridge.

Speaker 2 (01:55):
Double edged sword locks in the guests, but it can
also lock in the bride groom.

Speaker 3 (02:00):
Who may have a change of mine. They might have
to downside.

Speaker 4 (02:04):
Circumstances could change finances.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
It's a double exhoulder.

Speaker 3 (02:08):
It's important date to sat girl.

Speaker 1 (02:10):
And I remember Jones's Jonesy's son got married a little
while ago, and I don't remember Jonesy w engine about that?

Speaker 2 (02:17):
Is that because he wasn't paying?

Speaker 1 (02:19):
Oh paid for that as well?

Speaker 3 (02:22):
Why?

Speaker 1 (02:22):
No, I don't think you did.

Speaker 2 (02:25):
It was money. There was money.

Speaker 1 (02:26):
I paid, sure, I paid. No, I paid not for
the whole wedding, paid your drinks pill alone.

Speaker 2 (02:34):
And what you did to the dance floor
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