September 16, 2025 • 27 mins
Lisa paid tribute to Robert Redford on The Shaw Report, Barra joined the guys to discuss the Sandover medal results, the upcoming Brownlow medal and gentle parenting. Assistant producer Liz joined the guys to chat about her most recent housesit and the guys opened the phone and text line to ask: How many languages do you speak?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Christ empowered by the iHeart ad from ninety six AIRVM
to whenever You're listening Today, This is Lisa and Russell's podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Coming up on the podcast Adrian barratch Chat's about one
of his perth demons winning the Sandover Medal on Monday Night,
and another edition of his and Russell's parenting segment, Dad Chat.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Hollywood great Robert Redford has passed away at the age
of eighty nine.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
We take calls on the number of languages you speak,
with Russell learning Spanish, which will be his second.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Barely, and we do the first The Life of Liz segment,
in which our producer Liz shares a bizarre story from
her bizarre life. We've quickly learned she has many to share.
Did my homework again last night? That bird?
Speaker 4 (00:49):
Like you do that?
Speaker 5 (00:50):
Senor?
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Yeah? Yeah, depends how old the bird is. Anyway, I'm
working on it. Yeah. We'll see how many languages you
can speak as I try to attempt my second one.
Speaker 5 (01:13):
L Hello, how are you to that one?
Speaker 2 (01:17):
That's the only thing I learned when I had to
go at Spanish from once. I gave that when I
couldn't roll my ars, that kind of.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
And you should reply to me. I would hope.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Mayben yes, yes, just what is it? Is it always
moi bien? Can it ever be just be in okay,
can be be in that like?
Speaker 3 (01:43):
But moy is very I want very good from you
this morning. I really want very good. We were talking
about the bird a little while ago, people, but what
what bird is that? Phar It's if you've got the
duo lingo app, which is hugely popular popular around the world.
This little bird is the icon and it just bugs
(02:04):
about the woman.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
I thought you kept calling her a bird, and I
was just about to pull you up on it.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Well that's what you. You started it because.
Speaker 5 (02:12):
I'm not a fan of it's their being called birds.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Yeah, beautiful plume, it's a little It is an actual bird.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
It is an actual bird and a liter and it
bugs you all day until you've done your little fifteen
Spanish lessons.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
When you fit bit zaps you to tell you I
haven't got up and moved for a while.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
It's like really and it gets more and more. It's
like passive aggressive, is it?
Speaker 5 (02:37):
Yeah? Look very wise, very wise, out sad looking one?
Is it?
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Well, the longer you leave it between lessons, it is yeah.
So anyway, that's my that's my That's what I'm putting
up with as I try to learn a second language.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Well, I'm always terribly impressed by people that can speak
more than one language.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
Some can because it's not learning another language is really
really hard.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
And you know these languages like that, you're doing Spanish
and Italian and they have all these what is it
the male female?
Speaker 3 (03:08):
What is the word for that? Masculine and feminine?
Speaker 2 (03:12):
And I don't know why, why do you need to
have that? That just confuses me further?
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Are you allowed to now?
Speaker 5 (03:18):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Maybe maybe language needs to be Now, well.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
That's going to mess up. It's going to mess up
a few.
Speaker 5 (03:27):
It is, isn't it. I wonder what the toughest.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
I have often heard it, Well, I think some of
the Chinese languages would.
Speaker 5 (03:35):
Be very hard.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
But I have heard it said that Hebrew is very
difficult to learn. Well, not only that you know the words,
but the you got you know, it's a whole time.
It's not easy. Yeah, like beautiful to listen to my
love listening to people speak here.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Larry David can do it, Male Brooks can do it.
Speaker 6 (03:59):
We're talking about Barvin Hamler's earlier doing it for Barbara
streisand yes, so we want to know how many languages
do you know?
Speaker 5 (04:10):
Come on and we will be We will be requiring proof.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
You can't just come and go I speak six fluid
or we want words in it, all of them.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Impress us, impress all of perth, impress everybody with your
lingual well bilingual, try lingual linguistics, quadring lingual.
Speaker 5 (04:28):
Skills, with your skills, Paul and Savile.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Grove has to tell us I speak two languages, English
and married bracket set says yes, dear.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Yes, dear yes, Dear.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Marianne in Eastwee Park says, I'm learning Oslin.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Marion Num signed that in earlier.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Yes, a demographic.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
That's a very important language that I would.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
Like to be able to engage with. That's awesome, Marianne.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Yes, now we have alias. Good morning are you Alicia Andres?
I'm doing very very well? How many can you speak?
Speaker 5 (05:06):
Three languages and.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Like one not very fluently?
Speaker 5 (05:13):
So what languages are they? It's Arabic, English and French.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Oh, it's a bit of Hebrew y like in different
languages as.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Well, because I was talking about Hebrew before Arabics a same.
I just love listening to anything from that region.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
It is just so Yes, it's not. Is it a
difficult language to learn?
Speaker 3 (05:46):
I can tell you.
Speaker 7 (05:46):
I can tell you a sentence in Hebrew which says
Anti has by millium, which means I'm.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Forgot lots of words. Still sounds right. And then I
see him there d him every oh, like there're no
people talking Hebrew.
Speaker 7 (06:11):
That's why, because I can't say that in the langues
as well.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
And it's also the accent too, that really adds to it.
That that makes it makes it makes it sing.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
I mean, I'm a loss.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
That's we're both rather impressed. Beautiful. Thank you so much. Yeah,
you're you're most welcome. Thank you the way you said that.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
I love it's beautiful to listen to. I just love it.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (06:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
An in Wande on the text says, I speak Portuguese,
a little bit of French, and I understand Spanish and English,
and Donnor a North dandle Up says I speak four
languages fluently, English, Ossi teenage grunt and.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Scam teenage grunt. That's that's a good one to get
your head around.
Speaker 5 (07:08):
That one, all right. Peter in Marangaro.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
What do you know, think he's not on that line,
He's gone to this line, Peter, Peter Morning.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Impresses three languages. Yes, I'm impressed, English, Irish and a
lot of rubbish. I'm a little less impressed than I
was a moment.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
So get all those.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
It can't be hard to understand.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Sometimes there is there is, There is the old the
old language up there, the Celtic.
Speaker 5 (07:49):
That's really yeah, what about Welsh? Try to have I
don't think there's even a single word I'd be able
to put.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Out that'd be up there with me, wouldn't it for difficult?
Speaker 5 (07:59):
Definitely? Oh? Thank you, Peter, A.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Good have a good day, Okay, thank you? All right?
So you know, yeah, well, well we'll give it our
best shot. Yep.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
More Lisa More Russell More podcast soon the Sure Report
on ninety six AIRFM.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
Well it's happening more and more, isn't it that we're
coming into news like this? Yes, not good news this morning.
Robert Redford has died. He was eighty nine. The actor,
who was also an Oscar winning director and the founder
of the Sundance Film Institute, passed away in his sleep
in Provo, Utah. Surrounded by loved ones. Robert spent decades
as a leading actor in Hollywood, known for films like
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The Sting, Three Days of the Condor, All the President's
Men and Butch Cassidy, and The Sundance Kid with Paul Newman,
Get Away from Me.
Speaker 7 (08:51):
I want a fighter. He'll kill us.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
Maybe you want to die? Do you all right? I'll
jump first, then you jump for it. Oh, I said,
what's the matter with you? I can't swim?
Speaker 4 (09:09):
Why are you crazy?
Speaker 1 (09:11):
The four will.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Probably kill you?
Speaker 6 (09:12):
Such a good movie, Redford?
Speaker 5 (09:16):
That's is that? What rain drops keep falling on my head?
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Redford acted alongside Hollywood's favorite leading ladies, including Jane Fonder
and Barefoot in the Park, Barbara streisand In the Way
We Were and Meryll's Streep in Out of Africa.
Speaker 5 (09:30):
We know you leaving? Doesn't it matter to you that
I'm another man's wife.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
No, what matters to me is that you try.
Speaker 5 (09:43):
So what time tomorrow?
Speaker 3 (09:47):
What time tomorrow?
Speaker 2 (09:50):
He really was quite the leading man. As well as
those I just mentioned. There was also Indecent Proposal.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
Which was a similar event to someone Else's Wife Yes.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Twenty seventeen's Our Souls at Night, where he teamed up
a game with Jane Fonder and in nineteen ninety six
up close and personal with Michelle Pfeiffer.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
She was an unknown with nothing but ambition over here.
Speaker 4 (10:13):
He was the professional who'd done it all.
Speaker 5 (10:16):
You used to cover the White House.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
You still get the coffee.
Speaker 7 (10:20):
This is to tell me I have a lot to learn.
Speaker 5 (10:22):
I already know that.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
Wow what she needed to know.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
She eats the lands.
Speaker 8 (10:27):
He taught her.
Speaker 4 (10:28):
We keep it loose, keep it open, and bring it
Lucky Gold.
Speaker 5 (10:34):
Remember when all movie trailers sounded.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
Like that guy, that guy, that voice, That guy did
them all.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
That was a great.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
Roberts list of awards and credentials is just endless. And
All the President's Men he is up.
Speaker 5 (10:49):
All the President's Men is an insanely good movie. Barbara.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
I mean he made a you know, we talked about
him being a leading man, but he made a lot
of politically news related.
Speaker 5 (10:58):
Who knows really won.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Barbra streisand is sharing her misty watercolor memories of her
that's from the song of her The Way We Were
co star in a post on Instagram, She's written, every
day on the set of the Way We Were was exciting, intense,
and Pure Joy.
Speaker 5 (11:13):
We were such opposites. He was from the world of horses.
I was allergic to them.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
Yet we kept trying to find out more about each other,
just like the characters in the movie. Redford also appeared
in the Marvel franchise, starring as Alexander Pierce in Captain America,
The Winter Soldier and Avengers Endgame, and he won an
Oscar for directing the brilliant nineteen eighty film Ordinary People Yes,
which had the likes of Tilly Hutton and Mary Tyler
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Moore and Donald Sutherland.
Speaker 5 (11:40):
Wonderful film.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
He was also passionate about supporting filmmakers and artists and
founded the Sundance Institute before launching the Sundance Film Festival
in nineteen eighty four.
Speaker 5 (11:51):
Coincidence he was a son Dat's kid, but it was and.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
Of course was us based in Sundance in Utah, and
as I said, he passed away in his sleep in Provo, Utah.
Speaker 5 (12:02):
Varlet Robert Redford absolute legends.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Sad news This morning from Well. For the first time,
but probably not the last time, it is time.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
For the life of Liz.
Speaker 3 (12:16):
Hello, Liz, Yes, there's a whole about your misadventures.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Misadventures you've been regaling us with stories recently of house
sithing and.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
Into the microphone.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
We've all house sat before, but never with the adventures
that you seem to run up against.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
You seem to make it more difficult than it need
to be.
Speaker 5 (12:40):
Yes, take us through what's happening at the moment.
Speaker 7 (12:43):
Okay, So I'm a professional, almost professionally house sitting because
I'm trying to buy an apartment in this econdo.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
Me. Yes, and.
Speaker 7 (12:52):
Look, I have how sat for ever, like I've done
a lot of stuff. I've you know, I seem to
have a strange affinity with the guinea pigs, but I'm
great with a cat dog too. Yeah, yeah, and you
know I've had to wipe a British bulldog's bum before.
But this that does not top the cat that I
am housitting at the moment, who we will refer to
as Tinky, which is actually its name, and it's my parents'
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neighbor's cat, and she is psychotic. So I'm trying to
establish myself as an alpha. So I'm with Chinky Tinky.
So I'll come to the top of the driveway. She's
just at like nose pressed against the glass of the window.
Staring at you, and then she sort of slowly sort
of like descends back from the curtains and you go
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into the house and you're like, where is she? And
you just hear this and she's like, fly kicked you
and like bitten you. And I don't know, call me
just comes out of nowhere, comes out of nowhere, and
call me old fashioned. But I was on the impression
don't bite the hand that feeds exactly, and she is
just going absolutely psycho and you're doing to feed her,
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like a couple of times I'm out and my parents
will go feed her. And my dad's actually invested in
heavy duty gardening gloves.
Speaker 8 (14:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (14:09):
I had a friend come over the other day and
I said, you'll have to wear jeans. You need a
thick cotton because you will get a.
Speaker 5 (14:14):
Ta Yeah, two pairs of corduroy.
Speaker 7 (14:16):
Yeah, thick, a thick coiter. But yeah, So I'm terrified
every day dealing with her. And I guess I'm trying
to establish myself as this alpha I go in and
I start hissing, and I'll start I'll go like a cartoon.
Speaker 5 (14:33):
I'll go, yeah, you're dealing with it from Chinky's level.
Speaker 7 (14:36):
Yeah, I was like, I've got to get inside the
mind of a deranged cat, geriatric cat.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
Did you guys get off on the wrong foot or
the wrong paw as the case? Maybe did you do something?
Is there anything that you can think of that maybe
I did something to get the cat offside?
Speaker 5 (14:49):
I think did you laugh at it? Or something?
Speaker 3 (14:51):
Yeah? Every Maybe about the name.
Speaker 7 (14:54):
I've heard about Tinky for years and I never met
her because my parents would look after her for the
neighbor when I was living overseas, and they'd be like, oh, Tink,
Like my dad's got that sort of old tissue paper
skin and yeah, he's like in ribbons and he'll be like, oh, Tinky, have.
Speaker 5 (15:09):
You ever gone tinky.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Name?
Speaker 3 (15:13):
It's such a silly name.
Speaker 5 (15:14):
Maybe she's coming at you for that.
Speaker 7 (15:16):
But I've heard, I've heard, like, I've heard the lore
of Tinky and I didn't believe it.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
And yeah, I am.
Speaker 7 (15:22):
I'm terrified. I've actually meant to be sleeping there, but
I don't. I'm too scared, So I sleep at my
parents house next door.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
Lock the door.
Speaker 5 (15:29):
How much longer have you got to go?
Speaker 7 (15:30):
I've got another three weeks and now, but a tink,
you think this is psychotic. She only drinks from a
water glass, like a tall You have.
Speaker 5 (15:37):
To hold it for her.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
Are we talking a high ball or a high.
Speaker 5 (15:43):
Ball, like a high ball, like a long glass of water?
Speaker 3 (15:46):
Yeah, a tall glass of water, twist of lemon.
Speaker 7 (15:50):
But yeah, she's moving. They're moving, her owners, moving to
retirement village. So Tinky is leaving the neighborhood in three weeks.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
Oh, you want to get as much Tinky as you
can while you can as much Tinky time.
Speaker 3 (16:03):
Lots of people to attack and the retirement.
Speaker 7 (16:05):
Sometimes you walk past and she's just staring herself in
the mirror, like in the dark.
Speaker 5 (16:13):
Evil Jinky sounds awesome.
Speaker 3 (16:16):
Cats are like that, though, aren't they. You know, they
always look unimpressed. They always look, you know, like what
are you looking at?
Speaker 5 (16:23):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (16:24):
Yeah, I'm sure she'll raise hell at the retirement village,
no doubt.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
Well, either that or she'll go missing.
Speaker 5 (16:31):
Possible.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
But we look forward to hearing more about the tales
of Tinky and whatever else is going on in your
life soon.
Speaker 5 (16:42):
I'm thinking sooner rather than later.
Speaker 7 (16:44):
Don't get me started on the dating. But anyway, I
don't worry.
Speaker 5 (16:47):
We're saving that.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
We know, we know there'll be more stories ahead. Don't
worry started this good Luck in Life Liz.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
More of Lisa and Muscle's podcast.
Speaker 4 (16:58):
It's on the.
Speaker 8 (16:59):
Way suit morning mate, sort of just recovering from the
Sandover medal.
Speaker 3 (17:06):
Still this works in.
Speaker 5 (17:08):
With the parenting thing because you're like a proud papa. Yeah,
Charlie Constable.
Speaker 8 (17:14):
Yeah, charged over there and gave him a big hug
when his name was announced as a Sandover medalist.
Speaker 5 (17:18):
That's fantastic.
Speaker 8 (17:20):
Yeah, he's our co captain at Perth. Fantastic guy, great family.
He is a Victorian, but you know, don't hold that
against him. He played for Geelong and the sons came
over here to help us out. He's actually got a
couple of good. Mate's best mate is Andy Brayshaw from
the Dockers and ham Issue plays for East Berth.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
Yes, and he's also a Sandover medallist.
Speaker 8 (17:44):
So guess who stormed into the pent house after the
after the event to.
Speaker 4 (17:50):
Celebrate with him.
Speaker 8 (17:51):
Andy and Hamish of course, and his footy's equivalent of
having the Hemsworth brothers turn up.
Speaker 4 (17:58):
That's what it was like. You know, they came and.
Speaker 8 (18:02):
And Andy's bitty about the freeo mate and all that
but and the other thing is, I don't know if
you know this, but you get a Subiaco paver with
your name on it.
Speaker 7 (18:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (18:12):
Okay, so yesterday morning.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Are they still alongside with the Yeah? Where the oval?
Speaker 4 (18:17):
Yeah? He goes around.
Speaker 8 (18:19):
Yeah, and so they put your name down there. So
you get a bit of real estate in Subi as well.
So that's pretty good for posterity. Actually, you know, there's
a guy called Aaron Black who also want a sound
up a medal. And he works at Bob Hoak College,
which is right next to a step on himself all
the time. Yeah, which is right next to see over.
But because he's a teacher, what he does is if
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the kids play up, he sends him out to go
and find his name.
Speaker 3 (18:44):
And polish it.
Speaker 8 (18:45):
It's like a humble brag as well as a he's
a clever man.
Speaker 4 (18:51):
So I've got a bit of Brownlane news too. I
think this shill rock your socks off. I believe this
year at the.
Speaker 8 (18:59):
Brown Line met All which is next Monday night of
course in Melbourne, and all the stars going, there's the
red carpet, which is normally the highest rating part actual
red carpet, isn't it blue?
Speaker 4 (19:11):
Carpet. Yeah, on the on the blue carpet called the
red carpet.
Speaker 5 (19:14):
But yeah, brown carpet doesn't sound very appetizing.
Speaker 4 (19:18):
Like hawthorns jumpers.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
It's not a shag.
Speaker 4 (19:22):
Hawthorns jumpers are called Pooh and Wi.
Speaker 3 (19:29):
Primary school.
Speaker 8 (19:32):
I don't know why I threw that in, but anyway,
so back to the Brownlow Medal. The crazy part is
the highest rating part of it is the red carpet.
But now I believe the AFL is saying, look, the
Brownlow is about the fairest and best player in the
competition as opposed to who's got the hottest girlfriend or partner.
So you're only getting in if you're actually going to
get some boats. So for example, last year Paris, Paris,
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Bishop was an absolute start. Her partner Essen and Sam Durham.
He placed rest and obviously was a very good player
last year, and she got in and she was she
was sort of a credit to being the best dressed,
a bit like beck jud that year. The red dress,
this amazing, amazing dress.
Speaker 5 (20:13):
Famous Jennifer Lopez's MTV Awards.
Speaker 4 (20:16):
Dress, exactly right.
Speaker 8 (20:18):
Last year she wore a custom rose gold dress okay,
and just killed.
Speaker 5 (20:23):
It and no one's going to keep Beck out of.
Speaker 4 (20:26):
The keeps getting one because he has won one.
Speaker 8 (20:30):
Yeah, Chris, but this girl, Paris Bishop, I don't think
she's getting an invite because Sam didn't play better well enough?
Speaker 2 (20:37):
So does that mean they're going to have fewer people
at the Brown Low?
Speaker 8 (20:40):
No, same number, but just based on nothing to do
with fashion.
Speaker 4 (20:44):
Or how good looking new girlfriend is.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Or whether I didn't based on anything other than how
good you played to begin with?
Speaker 3 (20:52):
Well no, well, see this is the thing.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
How literally inviting people based on how good looking their
girlfriend is, well ratings, it's just.
Speaker 3 (20:59):
Going to say houses to affect the old Blue carpet
ratings and.
Speaker 8 (21:03):
Some of the ugly did votes, the ugly fellows, they've
probably haven't got girl friends as well.
Speaker 5 (21:09):
Their footballers they've got girl friends.
Speaker 3 (21:12):
Can you imagine they might not be if they're not
going to get brown Low invites anymore.
Speaker 8 (21:15):
Yeah, that's gonna that's going to make it hard think
about That's a big change, Paris Bishop. I think about her,
she'd be all year working getting fit again.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
I'm going to spend a lot of time today thinking
about Powers Bishop.
Speaker 3 (21:30):
There's no chance to go back to back for her,
and she.
Speaker 4 (21:32):
Doesn't go in because her boyfriend couldn't kick straight anyway.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Chat with Russell and bar Bara's got some thoughts this
morning on a on a technique called gentle parenting.
Speaker 8 (21:52):
Yeah, well, just as we've been doing this segment, people
have been sending me stuff and someone said you should
research gentle parenting.
Speaker 4 (21:59):
And I've never heard.
Speaker 8 (22:00):
About it in the past, and having grown up at
a very strict household, I was actually a ghast that
this was happening.
Speaker 4 (22:09):
I didn't actually know.
Speaker 8 (22:10):
Apparently it's all the rage basically means no yelling, no punishment,
no raised voices, just calm reasoning.
Speaker 4 (22:18):
And it's even with really young kids.
Speaker 8 (22:21):
Yeah, after school care people have told me and teachers Darling,
don't throw the ball at daddy's head.
Speaker 4 (22:27):
It makes him sad. It makes him sad.
Speaker 5 (22:29):
Don't run on the road in front.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
Of that car.
Speaker 3 (22:32):
Yeah, you'll damp the bumper.
Speaker 8 (22:34):
Well, even if you put your kid on a slippery
dip or something, you don't be careful.
Speaker 4 (22:38):
You have to say what's your plan here?
Speaker 3 (22:41):
And like I found this because I'm a bit like you,
I'd never really heard of it before. But demands not
to touch something can be communicated by saying things like,
let's use our gentle hands.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
On gentle hands hands on that pot of boiling water
when we pull it down on.
Speaker 8 (22:58):
Our hand, Yeah, that gets a big run. But when
a three year old bite someone at daycare, I reckon,
they go darling, how do you think Tommy felt when
you gnawed on his arm like a chicken wing.
Speaker 4 (23:11):
That's actual true story, darling. How did you feel?
Speaker 8 (23:15):
Okay, sweetheart, I know you're upset about not being able
to have ice cream for dinner, but let's unpack those feelings.
Let's unpack the who wants to do It's like hostage negotiations.
Speaker 4 (23:26):
I'll tell you what. Put the iPad down. No one
needs to get hurt.
Speaker 3 (23:30):
But see, this doesn't This doesn't prepare them for the
real world because you can sit there and do that
and you know we care about them. But then when
they go out into the real world and people who
don't care about them, when they get a job, or
when they go too high school or university, they're not
going to be prepared for it.
Speaker 4 (23:46):
No, I don't, but I don't.
Speaker 8 (23:48):
I think it's it's a wave that's sweeping the nation
and you're not you go to university now, they're not
allowed to speak to kids in any negative sense at all.
The professors are absolutely petrified about getting, you know, some
sort of charge against them.
Speaker 5 (24:02):
It's the whole participation trophy thing.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
Eventually life is going to hurt. You might as well
get prepared for it that you're not. Everyone wins every time.
Speaker 8 (24:11):
So you reckon Channel liam N I will find you
go to bed now.
Speaker 3 (24:20):
Just just leave the last bit out of what we've
got A.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
Text from Steve and Miranda who wants to know, what
do you think kids need more of from their parents today? Well,
this is very much related to what you're talking about.
They maybe need a.
Speaker 3 (24:35):
Bit more tough love. I exactly, discipline, but there's you know,
there's discipline, and then there's this. There have always been
parents who go too far and who are can be cruel,
So you don't want that more discipline.
Speaker 8 (24:50):
And I would add more hugs as well, because that's
in my family.
Speaker 4 (24:56):
Hugging wasn't a big thing.
Speaker 5 (24:58):
Yeah, that's our generation.
Speaker 8 (25:00):
Yeah, and saying I love you seems to be the
hardest thing to say.
Speaker 5 (25:04):
Sometimes also our generation.
Speaker 8 (25:05):
I reckon, I reckon, you need to say that. Actually
I did hear from one of the gentle parenting people.
How is this is a classic. Mum told me the
other day, she said, you can't even say I'm so
proud of you, little Johnny. You got to say because
that focuses on the parent. You say, I'm so proud
of you.
Speaker 4 (25:20):
You need to say.
Speaker 8 (25:22):
Talking about the snowball. You need to say you should
be so proud. So you can't use the eye work.
Speaker 5 (25:28):
They're pretty much proud enough. This new generation, I think themselves.
Speaker 8 (25:32):
And you can't rush them. You can't say, hurry up,
we've got to leave. No, No, you got to sort
of negotiate. Are we almost ready to grab your shoes?
Speaker 4 (25:38):
There?
Speaker 3 (25:39):
Not in my house? Not in my house?
Speaker 4 (25:41):
How late would you be exactly?
Speaker 3 (25:43):
You'd never get there, you wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (25:46):
And the school, And what about when they do have
to be somewhere on time? Exactly when this is?
Speaker 4 (25:51):
This?
Speaker 8 (25:51):
Is this where they learn exactly leaving the house and
getting somewhere quickly and going to bed, that would be
that's when gentle parenting really gets tested.
Speaker 3 (26:01):
Yeah, absolutely, we're going.
Speaker 4 (26:03):
To leave in the shops.
Speaker 3 (26:04):
What about when they have to start a job on timeatly?
Speaker 4 (26:08):
What about? What about this?
Speaker 8 (26:09):
Did you ever get this one? You guys, I can't
wait to get you in the car. When I get
you in the car, you're in so much trouble. Or
wait for the old one. The old school one was
wait till dad gets.
Speaker 3 (26:20):
Wait till your father gets home.
Speaker 8 (26:22):
Imagine the poor old dad having to come home and
discipline kids. I imagine you work hard. I mean women
do as well. I'm just saying in the old time,
dad comes Sam and Jesus, I'm tired. You've got to
go and discipline the kids that.
Speaker 5 (26:35):
Wait till your father got home, and then ask your mother.
I never ending circle of confusion. I get that that
can go, but.
Speaker 4 (26:45):
I'll be hopeless.
Speaker 5 (26:46):
You know some boundary.
Speaker 2 (26:47):
I was always told that kids actually do like to
have some sort of boundaries.
Speaker 3 (26:53):
I don't know where you stand.
Speaker 8 (26:54):
But yeah, you've got to negotiate with them and just
make sure you know their feelings.
Speaker 3 (27:00):
That's only if you subscribe to gentle parenting, which I
think they must not.
Speaker 5 (27:04):
Have a fastage situation.
Speaker 4 (27:06):
You can't even give awards that I believe it after care.
Speaker 8 (27:09):
You can't even give awards for the best kid of
the day because other kids miss out or someone's kid
hasn't got one, and the parents can plain, so they
have canned best Kid of the day.
Speaker 3 (27:18):
At the end of the day, the world's gone mad.
The world's gone mad, all right, well, thank you both,
Thank you g. I don't think we're fully subscribed to
this gentle parenting thing.
Speaker 4 (27:27):
We're changing the world.
Speaker 2 (27:32):
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Speaker 2 (00:11):
Coming up on the podcast Adrian barratch Chat's about one
of his perth demons winning the Sandover Medal on Monday Night,
and another edition of his and Russell's parenting segment, Dad Chat.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Hollywood great Robert Redford has passed away at the age
of eighty nine.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
We take calls on the number of languages you speak,
with Russell learning Spanish, which will be his second.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Barely, and we do the first The Life of Liz segment,
in which our producer Liz shares a bizarre story from
her bizarre life. We've quickly learned she has many to share.
Did my homework again last night? That bird?
Speaker 4 (00:49):
Like you do that?
Speaker 5 (00:50):
Senor?
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Yeah? Yeah, depends how old the bird is. Anyway, I'm
working on it. Yeah. We'll see how many languages you
can speak as I try to attempt my second one.
Speaker 5 (01:13):
L Hello, how are you to that one?
Speaker 2 (01:17):
That's the only thing I learned when I had to
go at Spanish from once. I gave that when I
couldn't roll my ars, that kind of.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
And you should reply to me. I would hope.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Mayben yes, yes, just what is it? Is it always
moi bien? Can it ever be just be in okay,
can be be in that like?
Speaker 3 (01:43):
But moy is very I want very good from you
this morning. I really want very good. We were talking
about the bird a little while ago, people, but what
what bird is that? Phar It's if you've got the
duo lingo app, which is hugely popular popular around the world.
This little bird is the icon and it just bugs
(02:04):
about the woman.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
I thought you kept calling her a bird, and I
was just about to pull you up on it.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Well that's what you. You started it because.
Speaker 5 (02:12):
I'm not a fan of it's their being called birds.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Yeah, beautiful plume, it's a little It is an actual bird.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
It is an actual bird and a liter and it
bugs you all day until you've done your little fifteen
Spanish lessons.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
When you fit bit zaps you to tell you I
haven't got up and moved for a while.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
It's like really and it gets more and more. It's
like passive aggressive, is it?
Speaker 5 (02:37):
Yeah? Look very wise, very wise, out sad looking one?
Is it?
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Well, the longer you leave it between lessons, it is yeah.
So anyway, that's my that's my That's what I'm putting
up with as I try to learn a second language.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Well, I'm always terribly impressed by people that can speak
more than one language.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
Some can because it's not learning another language is really
really hard.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
And you know these languages like that, you're doing Spanish
and Italian and they have all these what is it
the male female?
Speaker 3 (03:08):
What is the word for that? Masculine and feminine?
Speaker 2 (03:12):
And I don't know why, why do you need to
have that? That just confuses me further?
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Are you allowed to now?
Speaker 5 (03:18):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Maybe maybe language needs to be Now, well.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
That's going to mess up. It's going to mess up
a few.
Speaker 5 (03:27):
It is, isn't it. I wonder what the toughest.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
I have often heard it, Well, I think some of
the Chinese languages would.
Speaker 5 (03:35):
Be very hard.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
But I have heard it said that Hebrew is very
difficult to learn. Well, not only that you know the words,
but the you got you know, it's a whole time.
It's not easy. Yeah, like beautiful to listen to my
love listening to people speak here.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Larry David can do it, Male Brooks can do it.
Speaker 6 (03:59):
We're talking about Barvin Hamler's earlier doing it for Barbara
streisand yes, so we want to know how many languages
do you know?
Speaker 5 (04:10):
Come on and we will be We will be requiring proof.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
You can't just come and go I speak six fluid
or we want words in it, all of them.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Impress us, impress all of perth, impress everybody with your
lingual well bilingual, try lingual linguistics, quadring lingual.
Speaker 5 (04:28):
Skills, with your skills, Paul and Savile.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Grove has to tell us I speak two languages, English
and married bracket set says yes, dear.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Yes, dear yes, Dear.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Marianne in Eastwee Park says, I'm learning Oslin.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Marion Num signed that in earlier.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Yes, a demographic.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
That's a very important language that I would.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
Like to be able to engage with. That's awesome, Marianne.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Yes, now we have alias. Good morning are you Alicia Andres?
I'm doing very very well? How many can you speak?
Speaker 5 (05:06):
Three languages and.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Like one not very fluently?
Speaker 5 (05:13):
So what languages are they? It's Arabic, English and French.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Oh, it's a bit of Hebrew y like in different
languages as.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Well, because I was talking about Hebrew before Arabics a same.
I just love listening to anything from that region.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
It is just so Yes, it's not. Is it a
difficult language to learn?
Speaker 3 (05:46):
I can tell you.
Speaker 7 (05:46):
I can tell you a sentence in Hebrew which says
Anti has by millium, which means I'm.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Forgot lots of words. Still sounds right. And then I
see him there d him every oh, like there're no
people talking Hebrew.
Speaker 7 (06:11):
That's why, because I can't say that in the langues
as well.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
And it's also the accent too, that really adds to it.
That that makes it makes it makes it sing.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
I mean, I'm a loss.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
That's we're both rather impressed. Beautiful. Thank you so much. Yeah,
you're you're most welcome. Thank you the way you said that.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
I love it's beautiful to listen to. I just love it.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (06:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
An in Wande on the text says, I speak Portuguese,
a little bit of French, and I understand Spanish and English,
and Donnor a North dandle Up says I speak four
languages fluently, English, Ossi teenage grunt and.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Scam teenage grunt. That's that's a good one to get
your head around.
Speaker 5 (07:08):
That one, all right. Peter in Marangaro.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
What do you know, think he's not on that line,
He's gone to this line, Peter, Peter Morning.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Impresses three languages. Yes, I'm impressed, English, Irish and a
lot of rubbish. I'm a little less impressed than I
was a moment.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
So get all those.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
It can't be hard to understand.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Sometimes there is there is, There is the old the
old language up there, the Celtic.
Speaker 5 (07:49):
That's really yeah, what about Welsh? Try to have I
don't think there's even a single word I'd be able
to put.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Out that'd be up there with me, wouldn't it for difficult?
Speaker 5 (07:59):
Definitely? Oh? Thank you, Peter, A.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Good have a good day, Okay, thank you? All right?
So you know, yeah, well, well we'll give it our
best shot. Yep.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
More Lisa More Russell More podcast soon the Sure Report
on ninety six AIRFM.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
Well it's happening more and more, isn't it that we're
coming into news like this? Yes, not good news this morning.
Robert Redford has died. He was eighty nine. The actor,
who was also an Oscar winning director and the founder
of the Sundance Film Institute, passed away in his sleep
in Provo, Utah. Surrounded by loved ones. Robert spent decades
as a leading actor in Hollywood, known for films like
(08:43):
The Sting, Three Days of the Condor, All the President's
Men and Butch Cassidy, and The Sundance Kid with Paul Newman,
Get Away from Me.
Speaker 7 (08:51):
I want a fighter. He'll kill us.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
Maybe you want to die? Do you all right? I'll
jump first, then you jump for it. Oh, I said,
what's the matter with you? I can't swim?
Speaker 4 (09:09):
Why are you crazy?
Speaker 1 (09:11):
The four will.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Probably kill you?
Speaker 6 (09:12):
Such a good movie, Redford?
Speaker 5 (09:16):
That's is that? What rain drops keep falling on my head?
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Redford acted alongside Hollywood's favorite leading ladies, including Jane Fonder
and Barefoot in the Park, Barbara streisand In the Way
We Were and Meryll's Streep in Out of Africa.
Speaker 5 (09:30):
We know you leaving? Doesn't it matter to you that
I'm another man's wife.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
No, what matters to me is that you try.
Speaker 5 (09:43):
So what time tomorrow?
Speaker 3 (09:47):
What time tomorrow?
Speaker 2 (09:50):
He really was quite the leading man. As well as
those I just mentioned. There was also Indecent Proposal.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
Which was a similar event to someone Else's Wife Yes.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Twenty seventeen's Our Souls at Night, where he teamed up
a game with Jane Fonder and in nineteen ninety six
up close and personal with Michelle Pfeiffer.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
She was an unknown with nothing but ambition over here.
Speaker 4 (10:13):
He was the professional who'd done it all.
Speaker 5 (10:16):
You used to cover the White House.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
You still get the coffee.
Speaker 7 (10:20):
This is to tell me I have a lot to learn.
Speaker 5 (10:22):
I already know that.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
Wow what she needed to know.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
She eats the lands.
Speaker 8 (10:27):
He taught her.
Speaker 4 (10:28):
We keep it loose, keep it open, and bring it
Lucky Gold.
Speaker 5 (10:34):
Remember when all movie trailers sounded.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
Like that guy, that guy, that voice, That guy did
them all.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
That was a great.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
Roberts list of awards and credentials is just endless. And
All the President's Men he is up.
Speaker 5 (10:49):
All the President's Men is an insanely good movie. Barbara.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
I mean he made a you know, we talked about
him being a leading man, but he made a lot
of politically news related.
Speaker 5 (10:58):
Who knows really won.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Barbra streisand is sharing her misty watercolor memories of her
that's from the song of her The Way We Were
co star in a post on Instagram, She's written, every
day on the set of the Way We Were was exciting, intense,
and Pure Joy.
Speaker 5 (11:13):
We were such opposites. He was from the world of horses.
I was allergic to them.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
Yet we kept trying to find out more about each other,
just like the characters in the movie. Redford also appeared
in the Marvel franchise, starring as Alexander Pierce in Captain America,
The Winter Soldier and Avengers Endgame, and he won an
Oscar for directing the brilliant nineteen eighty film Ordinary People Yes,
which had the likes of Tilly Hutton and Mary Tyler
(11:39):
Moore and Donald Sutherland.
Speaker 5 (11:40):
Wonderful film.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
He was also passionate about supporting filmmakers and artists and
founded the Sundance Institute before launching the Sundance Film Festival
in nineteen eighty four.
Speaker 5 (11:51):
Coincidence he was a son Dat's kid, but it was and.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
Of course was us based in Sundance in Utah, and
as I said, he passed away in his sleep in Provo, Utah.
Speaker 5 (12:02):
Varlet Robert Redford absolute legends.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Sad news This morning from Well. For the first time,
but probably not the last time, it is time.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
For the life of Liz.
Speaker 3 (12:16):
Hello, Liz, Yes, there's a whole about your misadventures.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Misadventures you've been regaling us with stories recently of house
sithing and.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
Into the microphone.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
We've all house sat before, but never with the adventures
that you seem to run up against.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
You seem to make it more difficult than it need
to be.
Speaker 5 (12:40):
Yes, take us through what's happening at the moment.
Speaker 7 (12:43):
Okay, So I'm a professional, almost professionally house sitting because
I'm trying to buy an apartment in this econdo.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
Me. Yes, and.
Speaker 7 (12:52):
Look, I have how sat for ever, like I've done
a lot of stuff. I've you know, I seem to
have a strange affinity with the guinea pigs, but I'm
great with a cat dog too. Yeah, yeah, and you
know I've had to wipe a British bulldog's bum before.
But this that does not top the cat that I
am housitting at the moment, who we will refer to
as Tinky, which is actually its name, and it's my parents'
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neighbor's cat, and she is psychotic. So I'm trying to
establish myself as an alpha. So I'm with Chinky Tinky.
So I'll come to the top of the driveway. She's
just at like nose pressed against the glass of the window.
Staring at you, and then she sort of slowly sort
of like descends back from the curtains and you go
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into the house and you're like, where is she? And
you just hear this and she's like, fly kicked you
and like bitten you. And I don't know, call me
just comes out of nowhere, comes out of nowhere, and
call me old fashioned. But I was on the impression
don't bite the hand that feeds exactly, and she is
just going absolutely psycho and you're doing to feed her,
(14:02):
like a couple of times I'm out and my parents
will go feed her. And my dad's actually invested in
heavy duty gardening gloves.
Speaker 8 (14:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (14:09):
I had a friend come over the other day and
I said, you'll have to wear jeans. You need a
thick cotton because you will get a.
Speaker 5 (14:14):
Ta Yeah, two pairs of corduroy.
Speaker 7 (14:16):
Yeah, thick, a thick coiter. But yeah, So I'm terrified
every day dealing with her. And I guess I'm trying
to establish myself as this alpha I go in and
I start hissing, and I'll start I'll go like a cartoon.
Speaker 5 (14:33):
I'll go, yeah, you're dealing with it from Chinky's level.
Speaker 7 (14:36):
Yeah, I was like, I've got to get inside the
mind of a deranged cat, geriatric cat.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
Did you guys get off on the wrong foot or
the wrong paw as the case? Maybe did you do something?
Is there anything that you can think of that maybe
I did something to get the cat offside?
Speaker 5 (14:49):
I think did you laugh at it? Or something?
Speaker 3 (14:51):
Yeah? Every Maybe about the name.
Speaker 7 (14:54):
I've heard about Tinky for years and I never met
her because my parents would look after her for the
neighbor when I was living overseas, and they'd be like, oh, Tink,
Like my dad's got that sort of old tissue paper
skin and yeah, he's like in ribbons and he'll be like, oh, Tinky, have.
Speaker 5 (15:09):
You ever gone tinky.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Name?
Speaker 3 (15:13):
It's such a silly name.
Speaker 5 (15:14):
Maybe she's coming at you for that.
Speaker 7 (15:16):
But I've heard, I've heard, like, I've heard the lore
of Tinky and I didn't believe it.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
And yeah, I am.
Speaker 7 (15:22):
I'm terrified. I've actually meant to be sleeping there, but
I don't. I'm too scared, So I sleep at my
parents house next door.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
Lock the door.
Speaker 5 (15:29):
How much longer have you got to go?
Speaker 7 (15:30):
I've got another three weeks and now, but a tink,
you think this is psychotic. She only drinks from a
water glass, like a tall You have.
Speaker 5 (15:37):
To hold it for her.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
Are we talking a high ball or a high.
Speaker 5 (15:43):
Ball, like a high ball, like a long glass of water?
Speaker 3 (15:46):
Yeah, a tall glass of water, twist of lemon.
Speaker 7 (15:50):
But yeah, she's moving. They're moving, her owners, moving to
retirement village. So Tinky is leaving the neighborhood in three weeks.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
Oh, you want to get as much Tinky as you
can while you can as much Tinky time.
Speaker 3 (16:03):
Lots of people to attack and the retirement.
Speaker 7 (16:05):
Sometimes you walk past and she's just staring herself in
the mirror, like in the dark.
Speaker 5 (16:13):
Evil Jinky sounds awesome.
Speaker 3 (16:16):
Cats are like that, though, aren't they. You know, they
always look unimpressed. They always look, you know, like what
are you looking at?
Speaker 5 (16:23):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (16:24):
Yeah, I'm sure she'll raise hell at the retirement village,
no doubt.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
Well, either that or she'll go missing.
Speaker 5 (16:31):
Possible.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
But we look forward to hearing more about the tales
of Tinky and whatever else is going on in your
life soon.
Speaker 5 (16:42):
I'm thinking sooner rather than later.
Speaker 7 (16:44):
Don't get me started on the dating. But anyway, I
don't worry.
Speaker 5 (16:47):
We're saving that.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
We know, we know there'll be more stories ahead. Don't
worry started this good Luck in Life Liz.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
More of Lisa and Muscle's podcast.
Speaker 4 (16:58):
It's on the.
Speaker 8 (16:59):
Way suit morning mate, sort of just recovering from the
Sandover medal.
Speaker 3 (17:06):
Still this works in.
Speaker 5 (17:08):
With the parenting thing because you're like a proud papa. Yeah,
Charlie Constable.
Speaker 8 (17:14):
Yeah, charged over there and gave him a big hug
when his name was announced as a Sandover medalist.
Speaker 5 (17:18):
That's fantastic.
Speaker 8 (17:20):
Yeah, he's our co captain at Perth. Fantastic guy, great family.
He is a Victorian, but you know, don't hold that
against him. He played for Geelong and the sons came
over here to help us out. He's actually got a
couple of good. Mate's best mate is Andy Brayshaw from
the Dockers and ham Issue plays for East Berth.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
Yes, and he's also a Sandover medallist.
Speaker 8 (17:44):
So guess who stormed into the pent house after the
after the event to.
Speaker 4 (17:50):
Celebrate with him.
Speaker 8 (17:51):
Andy and Hamish of course, and his footy's equivalent of
having the Hemsworth brothers turn up.
Speaker 4 (17:58):
That's what it was like. You know, they came and.
Speaker 8 (18:02):
And Andy's bitty about the freeo mate and all that
but and the other thing is, I don't know if
you know this, but you get a Subiaco paver with
your name on it.
Speaker 7 (18:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (18:12):
Okay, so yesterday morning.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Are they still alongside with the Yeah? Where the oval?
Speaker 4 (18:17):
Yeah? He goes around.
Speaker 8 (18:19):
Yeah, and so they put your name down there. So
you get a bit of real estate in Subi as well.
So that's pretty good for posterity. Actually, you know, there's
a guy called Aaron Black who also want a sound
up a medal. And he works at Bob Hoak College,
which is right next to a step on himself all
the time. Yeah, which is right next to see over.
But because he's a teacher, what he does is if
(18:39):
the kids play up, he sends him out to go
and find his name.
Speaker 3 (18:44):
And polish it.
Speaker 8 (18:45):
It's like a humble brag as well as a he's
a clever man.
Speaker 4 (18:51):
So I've got a bit of Brownlane news too. I
think this shill rock your socks off. I believe this
year at the.
Speaker 8 (18:59):
Brown Line met All which is next Monday night of
course in Melbourne, and all the stars going, there's the
red carpet, which is normally the highest rating part actual
red carpet, isn't it blue?
Speaker 4 (19:11):
Carpet. Yeah, on the on the blue carpet called the
red carpet.
Speaker 5 (19:14):
But yeah, brown carpet doesn't sound very appetizing.
Speaker 4 (19:18):
Like hawthorns jumpers.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
It's not a shag.
Speaker 4 (19:22):
Hawthorns jumpers are called Pooh and Wi.
Speaker 3 (19:29):
Primary school.
Speaker 8 (19:32):
I don't know why I threw that in, but anyway,
so back to the Brownlow Medal. The crazy part is
the highest rating part of it is the red carpet.
But now I believe the AFL is saying, look, the
Brownlow is about the fairest and best player in the
competition as opposed to who's got the hottest girlfriend or partner.
So you're only getting in if you're actually going to
get some boats. So for example, last year Paris, Paris,
(19:54):
Bishop was an absolute start. Her partner Essen and Sam Durham.
He placed rest and obviously was a very good player
last year, and she got in and she was she
was sort of a credit to being the best dressed,
a bit like beck jud that year. The red dress,
this amazing, amazing dress.
Speaker 5 (20:13):
Famous Jennifer Lopez's MTV Awards.
Speaker 4 (20:16):
Dress, exactly right.
Speaker 8 (20:18):
Last year she wore a custom rose gold dress okay,
and just killed.
Speaker 5 (20:23):
It and no one's going to keep Beck out of.
Speaker 4 (20:26):
The keeps getting one because he has won one.
Speaker 8 (20:30):
Yeah, Chris, but this girl, Paris Bishop, I don't think
she's getting an invite because Sam didn't play better well enough?
Speaker 2 (20:37):
So does that mean they're going to have fewer people
at the Brown Low?
Speaker 8 (20:40):
No, same number, but just based on nothing to do
with fashion.
Speaker 4 (20:44):
Or how good looking new girlfriend is.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Or whether I didn't based on anything other than how
good you played to begin with?
Speaker 3 (20:52):
Well no, well, see this is the thing.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
How literally inviting people based on how good looking their
girlfriend is, well ratings, it's just.
Speaker 3 (20:59):
Going to say houses to affect the old Blue carpet
ratings and.
Speaker 8 (21:03):
Some of the ugly did votes, the ugly fellows, they've
probably haven't got girl friends as well.
Speaker 5 (21:09):
Their footballers they've got girl friends.
Speaker 3 (21:12):
Can you imagine they might not be if they're not
going to get brown Low invites anymore.
Speaker 8 (21:15):
Yeah, that's gonna that's going to make it hard think
about That's a big change, Paris Bishop. I think about her,
she'd be all year working getting fit again.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
I'm going to spend a lot of time today thinking
about Powers Bishop.
Speaker 3 (21:30):
There's no chance to go back to back for her,
and she.
Speaker 4 (21:32):
Doesn't go in because her boyfriend couldn't kick straight anyway.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Chat with Russell and bar Bara's got some thoughts this
morning on a on a technique called gentle parenting.
Speaker 8 (21:52):
Yeah, well, just as we've been doing this segment, people
have been sending me stuff and someone said you should
research gentle parenting.
Speaker 4 (21:59):
And I've never heard.
Speaker 8 (22:00):
About it in the past, and having grown up at
a very strict household, I was actually a ghast that
this was happening.
Speaker 4 (22:09):
I didn't actually know.
Speaker 8 (22:10):
Apparently it's all the rage basically means no yelling, no punishment,
no raised voices, just calm reasoning.
Speaker 4 (22:18):
And it's even with really young kids.
Speaker 8 (22:21):
Yeah, after school care people have told me and teachers Darling,
don't throw the ball at daddy's head.
Speaker 4 (22:27):
It makes him sad. It makes him sad.
Speaker 5 (22:29):
Don't run on the road in front.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
Of that car.
Speaker 3 (22:32):
Yeah, you'll damp the bumper.
Speaker 8 (22:34):
Well, even if you put your kid on a slippery
dip or something, you don't be careful.
Speaker 4 (22:38):
You have to say what's your plan here?
Speaker 3 (22:41):
And like I found this because I'm a bit like you,
I'd never really heard of it before. But demands not
to touch something can be communicated by saying things like,
let's use our gentle hands.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
On gentle hands hands on that pot of boiling water
when we pull it down on.
Speaker 8 (22:58):
Our hand, Yeah, that gets a big run. But when
a three year old bite someone at daycare, I reckon,
they go darling, how do you think Tommy felt when
you gnawed on his arm like a chicken wing.
Speaker 4 (23:11):
That's actual true story, darling. How did you feel?
Speaker 8 (23:15):
Okay, sweetheart, I know you're upset about not being able
to have ice cream for dinner, but let's unpack those feelings.
Let's unpack the who wants to do It's like hostage negotiations.
Speaker 4 (23:26):
I'll tell you what. Put the iPad down. No one
needs to get hurt.
Speaker 3 (23:30):
But see, this doesn't This doesn't prepare them for the
real world because you can sit there and do that
and you know we care about them. But then when
they go out into the real world and people who
don't care about them, when they get a job, or
when they go too high school or university, they're not
going to be prepared for it.
Speaker 4 (23:46):
No, I don't, but I don't.
Speaker 8 (23:48):
I think it's it's a wave that's sweeping the nation
and you're not you go to university now, they're not
allowed to speak to kids in any negative sense at all.
The professors are absolutely petrified about getting, you know, some
sort of charge against them.
Speaker 5 (24:02):
It's the whole participation trophy thing.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
Eventually life is going to hurt. You might as well
get prepared for it that you're not. Everyone wins every time.
Speaker 8 (24:11):
So you reckon Channel liam N I will find you
go to bed now.
Speaker 3 (24:20):
Just just leave the last bit out of what we've
got A.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
Text from Steve and Miranda who wants to know, what
do you think kids need more of from their parents today? Well,
this is very much related to what you're talking about.
They maybe need a.
Speaker 3 (24:35):
Bit more tough love. I exactly, discipline, but there's you know,
there's discipline, and then there's this. There have always been
parents who go too far and who are can be cruel,
So you don't want that more discipline.
Speaker 8 (24:50):
And I would add more hugs as well, because that's
in my family.
Speaker 4 (24:56):
Hugging wasn't a big thing.
Speaker 5 (24:58):
Yeah, that's our generation.
Speaker 8 (25:00):
Yeah, and saying I love you seems to be the
hardest thing to say.
Speaker 5 (25:04):
Sometimes also our generation.
Speaker 8 (25:05):
I reckon, I reckon, you need to say that. Actually
I did hear from one of the gentle parenting people.
How is this is a classic. Mum told me the
other day, she said, you can't even say I'm so
proud of you, little Johnny. You got to say because
that focuses on the parent. You say, I'm so proud
of you.
Speaker 4 (25:20):
You need to say.
Speaker 8 (25:22):
Talking about the snowball. You need to say you should
be so proud. So you can't use the eye work.
Speaker 5 (25:28):
They're pretty much proud enough. This new generation, I think themselves.
Speaker 8 (25:32):
And you can't rush them. You can't say, hurry up,
we've got to leave. No, No, you got to sort
of negotiate. Are we almost ready to grab your shoes?
Speaker 4 (25:38):
There?
Speaker 3 (25:39):
Not in my house? Not in my house?
Speaker 4 (25:41):
How late would you be exactly?
Speaker 3 (25:43):
You'd never get there, you wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (25:46):
And the school, And what about when they do have
to be somewhere on time? Exactly when this is?
Speaker 4 (25:51):
This?
Speaker 8 (25:51):
Is this where they learn exactly leaving the house and
getting somewhere quickly and going to bed, that would be
that's when gentle parenting really gets tested.
Speaker 3 (26:01):
Yeah, absolutely, we're going.
Speaker 4 (26:03):
To leave in the shops.
Speaker 3 (26:04):
What about when they have to start a job on timeatly?
Speaker 4 (26:08):
What about? What about this?
Speaker 8 (26:09):
Did you ever get this one? You guys, I can't
wait to get you in the car. When I get
you in the car, you're in so much trouble. Or
wait for the old one. The old school one was
wait till dad gets.
Speaker 3 (26:20):
Wait till your father gets home.
Speaker 8 (26:22):
Imagine the poor old dad having to come home and
discipline kids. I imagine you work hard. I mean women
do as well. I'm just saying in the old time,
dad comes Sam and Jesus, I'm tired. You've got to
go and discipline the kids that.
Speaker 5 (26:35):
Wait till your father got home, and then ask your mother.
I never ending circle of confusion. I get that that
can go, but.
Speaker 4 (26:45):
I'll be hopeless.
Speaker 5 (26:46):
You know some boundary.
Speaker 2 (26:47):
I was always told that kids actually do like to
have some sort of boundaries.
Speaker 3 (26:53):
I don't know where you stand.
Speaker 8 (26:54):
But yeah, you've got to negotiate with them and just
make sure you know their feelings.
Speaker 3 (27:00):
That's only if you subscribe to gentle parenting, which I
think they must not.
Speaker 5 (27:04):
Have a fastage situation.
Speaker 4 (27:06):
You can't even give awards that I believe it after care.
Speaker 8 (27:09):
You can't even give awards for the best kid of
the day because other kids miss out or someone's kid
hasn't got one, and the parents can plain, so they
have canned best Kid of the day.
Speaker 3 (27:18):
At the end of the day, the world's gone mad.
The world's gone mad, all right, well, thank you both,
Thank you g. I don't think we're fully subscribed to
this gentle parenting thing.
Speaker 4 (27:27):
We're changing the world.
Speaker 2 (27:32):
And Russell ninety six FM
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