Attracting the Perfect Partner

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Unlocking the Ultimate Life is the book. Elizabeth Jane joins us.
Good morning, Elizabeth, how are you.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Going very well? Very well?

Speaker 1 (00:06):
Campo Attracting the perfect partner in twenty twenty five, it's
a big question. Can you give us a little bit
of an insight. We've had people that are offering fudge,
their hairy chests and all sorts of things to attract
their perfect partner. What can you can you solve problem?

Speaker 2 (00:21):
Well, look, it's you know, everyone and wants to attract
that perfect partner and have that perfect person in your life,
supporting you, walking alongside beside you. But what I've worked
out is that we really I don't think we can
attract what we want. We don't attract what we want.
We attract what we are. Oh so that's yeah, we

(00:41):
attrack what we are. So what do I mean by
that is that if we're holding on to stuff, you know,
like our pain.

Speaker 1 (00:51):
Or our baggage.

Speaker 2 (00:52):
Yeah, our baggage, our baggage, if we're holding on to it,
then we tend to attract that sort of thing into
our relationship, you know, that that person for our relationship.

Speaker 1 (01:04):
So it's not a mirror of ourselves, it's it's you know,
it's it's our personality traits.

Speaker 2 (01:08):
Is that what you're saying. No, No, it's it's how
we're feeling. So if we're feeling needy, you know, like
I'd really like to have that person, we've got that
neediness and we radiate that and we attract that needy
person in, you know, we sort of hook them in.
So we really need to look have a real good

(01:31):
look at ourselves and bullet proof ourselves from within, so
as we're radiating what we want in that partner. So
we want, you know, we have to if we if
we've got our mind talking negative thoughts about ourselves and
we're not respecting ourselves and we're giving ourselves a hard time, Yeah,
well we're going to attract someone who disrespects us.

Speaker 1 (01:54):
But on that logic, though, if we're attracting who you are,
does that mean you need to be perfect yourself to
get the perfect partner?

Speaker 2 (02:05):
Well, no one's perfect on this planet.

Speaker 1 (02:10):
Well that means you just can't attract the perfect partners.

Speaker 2 (02:13):
Sorry, Well it depends how you define perfect really, you know,
but I think we just need to get rid of
our baggage. I think you know what you were saying before,
but some people think, oh no, I'm fine, I'm fine,
I'm fine, and they're not really feeling how they feel.
You know, we and until we can actually feel our feelings,

(02:35):
they can't move on, you know. So I you know,
for a while, I was thinking, you know, I'm you know,
when of my marriage broke up. You know, I'm fine.
You know I'm fine. You know I'm not angry. Nope,
you know, but I was. I was lacking in self worth.
I was angry, I was everything, you know, I was
all those negative emotions. And I think when you're really low,

(03:00):
you're just not going to you know, you really have
to bulletproof yourself and build yourself up from inside, self care,
all those.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
All that does Your book help with these things, has
a list of things that you can do to.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
Us exactly exactly Campo. I mean, my book has written
really sixtinctly because you know, when you're going through a
hard time, you know, whether it's a relationship time, or
health problem or a financial problem or all three baskets
you need you need some tools and tips to lift
yourself up, because we all want to, we all deserve happiness.

Speaker 1 (03:38):
Have you got the perfect partner at the moment, Elizabeth.

Speaker 2 (03:42):
Well, Campo, you're getting a bit personal.

Speaker 1 (03:45):
Then, but just you've written the book.

Speaker 2 (03:51):
It's just going all around Australia.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
There's always there's.

Speaker 2 (03:57):
Always more room for suitable suitors.

Speaker 1 (04:00):
Okay, okay, look we gotta go free and first, unlocking
your ultimate life is the book.

Speaker 2 (04:07):
Thank you, Elizabeth, my pleasure. Camp I have a good day.

Speaker 1 (04:11):
I hope you find the perfect partner.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
Thank you.