Sleeping in Seperate Beds

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Do you and your partner sleep in separate beds or
separate rooms?

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Right?

Speaker 3 (00:03):
Call us three eight one three one.

Speaker 1 (00:05):
And tell me how it works for you all. Why
you do that? Because I was talking to my dad
and he and I had no idea because I was
going to pop up and see them and stay right.
And he said, I'll have to move out of the
spare room. And I'm like, oh, what have you done wrong?
And he said no, I've been in the spare room
for like forever. And I was like, what do you

(00:25):
mean You're in the spare room. What are you doing
in the spare room? He said, well, well, he's a
terrible sleeper and he's got a lot of shoulder and
arthritic plant pain. Now you know, he's a veteran. And
I was like okay, and he said, oh no, le
just can't just can't stand it. Can't stand because I
get up every five minutes and I'm you know, like
I just annoy it. So he said no, like I've
been in the back room for like fifteen years or something.

(00:48):
I don't like it. Yeah, He's like, no, if anyone
comes to say, I've got to go back in, and
he hates it. It's like how long is this person staying for?
How long are you back in here? But I kind
of got it, Like at first I was really I
was like, oh, I had no idea, right, Oh, so
do I have to book ah schedule? Or what can
you sleep on the couch? Or how much drama is
this going to cause? But now that I've actually had
a significant amount of time on my own, I kind

(01:08):
of get it. I love having theirs and I don't
know how I would go sharing.

Speaker 3 (01:16):
Well, I sleep in this, yeah, you do it, truly.
The only reason is because I get up so early
in the morning. Well you know, I don't want to
wake my wife, and I don't want to wake the kids,
and I don't want to wake anyone, you know. And
I put my clothes in the laundry so I can
get changed there and try to keep all the lights off,
you know.

Speaker 1 (01:33):
So yes, absolutely, because you wake everybody up with that
up and look, I think too. I remember obviously when
the kids were very young, with them coming in and
out and up and down all ones that didn't you know, sleep.
I've only got to now where I actually sleep in
my bed by myself most of the time, because at
times I'd be in with one if one was waking
up and in with the other one, or you know

(01:53):
then you know kids in bed or out of the couch.
It was it's like musical beds. I think it is
more common, but I I just remember the first time
I heard it, I thought, what, this is the strangest thing.
Do you sleep separately from your partner?

Speaker 3 (02:05):
Josh is in rock Hampton listening to us on iHeart Radio.
How do you Josh?

Speaker 2 (02:09):
Here?

Speaker 1 (02:10):
You go?

Speaker 3 (02:10):
Great to have you on the show, mate, Thanks thanks
for listening in. Now. Do you sleep in separate beds
with your partner?

Speaker 2 (02:16):
Yeah? I do?

Speaker 1 (02:17):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (02:17):
Why what's the story?

Speaker 2 (02:19):
It's gotten that bad to the point where I had
to go to bed early because of her snoring really loud,
like you could hear from upstairs and we were staying
downstairs and they could hear her from upstairs. And yeah,
I'd get up early early and go to bed early. Wow,

(02:41):
and she'd like talk and asleep, wake up sometimes walk
Some mornings I've had to get up. I'm up by
myself having a coffee and you'd stood up start talking
to me, and I started a conversation. She's awake and
when I walk over to a bit more, have a lookout.

(03:04):
I should still be asleep.

Speaker 1 (03:05):
Oh no, that happens a lot with people. They can
get up and have full conversations and they're actually did
she ever remember the conversations because it happens. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (03:16):
There there was one conversation where I thought we were
going to my parents and we were arranging stuff and
then I've arranged everything to go in the car, come
back out, and she was sleep laying down and it happens.

Speaker 1 (03:33):
Wow, g mate, Yes, anyep.

Speaker 2 (03:38):
Yeah, I'm normally a really deep sleeper and I'd be
woking up here and there, real bad next to a trucky.

Speaker 1 (03:48):
Oh my gosh, No, I get look, I get it.

Speaker 2 (03:50):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
I had a partner that was like they could hear
them from downstairs. It's like, that's terrible.