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Speaker 1 (00:12):
I heard podcasts year more kiss podcasts, playlists and listen live.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
On the Free Heart.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
When you guys were having your babies, and yes, you
do have pigeon pears, RAFFI, your son is six.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
In a few a couple of months, he's six, yeah,
and Sienna is nearly one, nearly one, yep.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
And you have Monty who's six.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
So when your respective partners were pregnant, did you care
what the gender of your children are going to be? Yes?
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Oh, well done, absolutely, And I was very happy to
have a boy to start with. I'm not gonna lie.
I was very excited about that and thrilled with that
Sienna was a girl, like I was so happy with that,
and I reckon, if Siena were a boy, we would probably,
(01:06):
you know, me and I would be trying for another one,
trying for a girl. But because we've got one of each,
I'm happy. I'm happy.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Is she happy?
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Squared away? I think she wouldn't want another roll of
the dogs and.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
This third child, hypothetical third child, would you care what
gender it was?
Speaker 3 (01:23):
No? No, because you've got because we've already got one
of each, We're good. Yeah, we ticked all the boxes.
Speaker 4 (01:28):
Sorry, Well, the first one, no, definitely, I remember I
was just so excited to have a baby, become a dad,
so fantas girls, happy hours, and honestly, you know Monta now,
I just love it so much. And yeah, and when
(01:49):
we obviously got pregnant for the second team and fell
pregnant second time, I know you were involved and the
lady had the results of what it was. She's like, oh,
you know, I really you know, hope it's it's a
boy and things like why. She's like, I don't how
much Corey was a boy. He'd loved one, but he
(02:10):
loves Montana and that was just that was the way
it was. I'm like, yeah, I'd love to have a
girl and a boy straight Wou'd be great. But if
I do, if I don't, it doesn't bother me, Like
it really doesn't. And now that we've had hucks, I'm
so happy. But honestly, I think i'd rather change you
back to a girl.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
That it is a lot of work.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
Oh my goodness, gracious, are you guys squared away?
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Have you put the que on the rack?
Speaker 4 (02:36):
I have you it out, it's still on the pool table.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
You're still just talking about give me your take on this,
because yesterday on the pick Up, Laura and Maddie j
did their gender reveal. They're pregnant again. They have two
little girls. They did their gender reveal live on air,
and I want you to listen to Maddie Jay's.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Rect have a gender reveal cake. I am cutting the
cake and it's.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
It's a girl.
Speaker 5 (03:15):
Oh my god, you're having a bad little girl. Congratul
like a ship.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
There's a lot of in our house and that I
am I capable of producing boys. Let's go again. I
mean he's kind of joking, but yeah, I think he's sad,
isn't he.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
Well, I think because he's got two.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Of three girls.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
Yes, so I think I think it's it's fair like
you obviously you you want to have both. I really
I believe you want to have both. And a man
always wants to have a little, you know, his boy,
because at some stage does.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
A man always want to I don't know. I don't
want that. You're because you're coming from the other side
of it. You're a mum that had three sons.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
I definitely if you I'm fourth generation only girls, yeah right.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
And I have three boys.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
And I was absolutely devastated, and I wanted a fourth child.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
I'm being really on.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
I wanted to have a girl because I knew and
I still would say, I think i'd be a much
better girl mom, like I would intuitively know what to do.
But you know what, boys are the best. No one
loves a mother like a son, truly.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
You say that with a very skewed pool. But I
also know I don't know what it's like.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
But I also know what it was like when their
dad was alive and when their stepdad was alive, Like
there is a special bond. And i'd say the same
fathers and daughters too in a different way that you know,
like I wanted a fourth kid, and it was one
thing we had massive arguments about. Yeah, right, But you know,
I got three boys, and I could like they're glorious
(04:49):
and I you know, like I do have a big
influence on them, and they're soft and gentle and kind
as well as being really bloky and masculine and all
of those things. So I kind of I'm so grateful
I didn't try.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Again thirty one six five out number, because you hear
about people that try again as well, and then like
you might have got another boy.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
There was a go a woman and Ken Moore who
had seven girls I think, and just kept going and
then finally got the boy. Could you imagine having like
nine sisters?
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Imagine that boy?
Speaker 1 (05:23):
I think it was that way round maybe found a way,
but regardless.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Yeah, that little baby boy has got like nine moms.
Everyone's pat alone.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
I just think it's so interesting when you talk about
dendas of children because people don't actually really want to
be honest about what they want because if you don't
get it, then there's almost an assumption that you're not
going to love that child as much, or that it
somehow it's not right, which is just not true. I mean,
I think why gestation is nine months is we can
all come to terms with it.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Yeah, that's why, and I reckon that's why people often
do find out early so that they can come to
terms with it. When did you do that with Oh?
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Yeah, I found out each one each time, and I
was by the time they were born. I was just
super Another reason why we're talking about gender is yesterday
on the Pickup, Laura and Maddie Jay had their gender reveal,
and it's quite obvious when you listen that Maddie was
not wanting the result he got.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
We have a gender reveal cake. I am cutting the
cake and it's a.
Speaker 5 (06:32):
It's a girl. Oh my god, you're having a bad
little girl. Congratulate the ship. There's a lot of ostrogen in.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
Our house that I'm like capable of producing boys. Let's
go again. Yeah, and like you said, I'm sure he's
gonna love that little girl like nothing else and it's
all gonna be fine. But you can tell he's disappointed
in the moment.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Yeah, and you know he hasn't had the nine months
to get used to it.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
That was the moment he found out.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Yes, Victoria of Chamside, how many.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Boys have you got?
Speaker 2 (07:09):
I have ways?
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Did you want to go?
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Well, I'm super super girly and so I did want
a girl, but then I obviously just kept having boys
and I wasn't trying for a girl once i'd started
having my boys because they're so amazing. But my sister
is a big tomboy and she has four girls, so
the best. But we have the best of both, and
(07:36):
I think that I am the best auntie mum, and
I want to change it. My girls offer and I
call them my girls often say, oh, you know don't
you wish you had a girl?
Speaker 3 (07:47):
Anniwick?
Speaker 2 (07:47):
And I say no, because I have them and I
can spoil them rotten and not get in trouble for it.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
And I reckon, you get you get cut through like
you get listened to as an auntie the way the
mum probably never does.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Very special.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Okay, I did that as a godmother godmother's to lots
of little girls. I mean, who else is going to
end heard all my jewelry? Yeah, John Logan, your sister
had how many children? She had nine boys and one girl?
Speaker 3 (08:20):
Oh my goodness? What was the girl like at the end?
Speaker 2 (08:23):
There?
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Yes, the last month last so she kept going?
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Yes, well, I.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Guess she's gone through the ninth month. So she wanted
the girl.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
She had a ten ring to get what she wanted.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Nine would she have kept going?
Speaker 3 (08:40):
John?
Speaker 2 (08:42):
She reckoned? She would have?
Speaker 3 (08:43):
Yeah? Is that that would be a madhouse with nine
boys in it?
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (08:49):
Yes? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:50):
But also that little girl, I mean, what is the beit?
Speaker 3 (08:53):
What? What was it?
Speaker 2 (08:54):
John?
Speaker 1 (08:54):
She just desperately wanted to raise a.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Daughter, the baby girl?
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Yep?
Speaker 2 (08:59):
Because I had five girls and three boys.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Yeah, okay, a big family.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
You guys, don't look around like to their boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
That's right, yeah, her boyfriend when she's got nine older brothers.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
Nicole Virabilba, Hi, Hello, tell us about your auntie.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
So my auntie had four boys.
Speaker 5 (09:19):
She always wanted a.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Girl, which has never happened, and then a few years
ago one of the boys came out as transgender.
Speaker 5 (09:26):
So when she told the family, we all said, well,
now you finally got your girl.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
You that's talk an extra couple of years, but you
wanted excellent. Thanks Nicol,
I heard podcasts year more kiss podcasts, playlists and listen live.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
On the Free Heart.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
When you guys were having your babies, and yes, you
do have pigeon pears, RAFFI, your son is six.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
In a few a couple of months, he's six, yeah,
and Sienna is nearly one, nearly one, yep.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
And you have Monty who's six.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
So when your respective partners were pregnant, did you care
what the gender of your children are going to be? Yes?
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Oh, well done, absolutely, And I was very happy to
have a boy to start with. I'm not gonna lie.
I was very excited about that and thrilled with that
Sienna was a girl, like I was so happy with that,
and I reckon, if Siena were a boy, we would probably,
(01:06):
you know, me and I would be trying for another one,
trying for a girl. But because we've got one of each,
I'm happy. I'm happy.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Is she happy?
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Squared away? I think she wouldn't want another roll of
the dogs and.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
This third child, hypothetical third child, would you care what
gender it was?
Speaker 3 (01:23):
No? No, because you've got because we've already got one
of each, We're good. Yeah, we ticked all the boxes.
Speaker 4 (01:28):
Sorry, Well, the first one, no, definitely, I remember I
was just so excited to have a baby, become a dad,
so fantas girls, happy hours, and honestly, you know Monta now,
I just love it so much. And yeah, and when
(01:49):
we obviously got pregnant for the second team and fell
pregnant second time, I know you were involved and the
lady had the results of what it was. She's like, oh,
you know, I really you know, hope it's it's a
boy and things like why. She's like, I don't how
much Corey was a boy. He'd loved one, but he
(02:10):
loves Montana and that was just that was the way
it was. I'm like, yeah, I'd love to have a
girl and a boy straight Wou'd be great. But if
I do, if I don't, it doesn't bother me, Like
it really doesn't. And now that we've had hucks, I'm
so happy. But honestly, I think i'd rather change you
back to a girl.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
That it is a lot of work.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
Oh my goodness, gracious, are you guys squared away?
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Have you put the que on the rack?
Speaker 4 (02:36):
I have you it out, it's still on the pool table.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
You're still just talking about give me your take on this,
because yesterday on the pick Up, Laura and Maddie j
did their gender reveal. They're pregnant again. They have two
little girls. They did their gender reveal live on air,
and I want you to listen to Maddie Jay's.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Rect have a gender reveal cake. I am cutting the
cake and it's.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
It's a girl.
Speaker 5 (03:15):
Oh my god, you're having a bad little girl. Congratul
like a ship.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
There's a lot of in our house and that I
am I capable of producing boys. Let's go again. I
mean he's kind of joking, but yeah, I think he's sad,
isn't he.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
Well, I think because he's got two.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Of three girls.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
Yes, so I think I think it's it's fair like
you obviously you you want to have both. I really
I believe you want to have both. And a man
always wants to have a little, you know, his boy,
because at some stage does.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
A man always want to I don't know. I don't
want that. You're because you're coming from the other side
of it. You're a mum that had three sons.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
I definitely if you I'm fourth generation only girls, yeah right.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
And I have three boys.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
And I was absolutely devastated, and I wanted a fourth child.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
I'm being really on.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
I wanted to have a girl because I knew and
I still would say, I think i'd be a much
better girl mom, like I would intuitively know what to do.
But you know what, boys are the best. No one
loves a mother like a son, truly.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
You say that with a very skewed pool. But I
also know I don't know what it's like.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
But I also know what it was like when their
dad was alive and when their stepdad was alive, Like
there is a special bond. And i'd say the same
fathers and daughters too in a different way that you know,
like I wanted a fourth kid, and it was one
thing we had massive arguments about. Yeah, right, But you know,
I got three boys, and I could like they're glorious
(04:49):
and I you know, like I do have a big
influence on them, and they're soft and gentle and kind
as well as being really bloky and masculine and all
of those things. So I kind of I'm so grateful
I didn't try.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Again thirty one six five out number, because you hear
about people that try again as well, and then like
you might have got another boy.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
There was a go a woman and Ken Moore who
had seven girls I think, and just kept going and
then finally got the boy. Could you imagine having like
nine sisters?
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Imagine that boy?
Speaker 1 (05:23):
I think it was that way round maybe found a way,
but regardless.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Yeah, that little baby boy has got like nine moms.
Everyone's pat alone.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
I just think it's so interesting when you talk about
dendas of children because people don't actually really want to
be honest about what they want because if you don't
get it, then there's almost an assumption that you're not
going to love that child as much, or that it
somehow it's not right, which is just not true. I mean,
I think why gestation is nine months is we can
all come to terms with it.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Yeah, that's why, and I reckon that's why people often
do find out early so that they can come to
terms with it. When did you do that with Oh?
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Yeah, I found out each one each time, and I
was by the time they were born. I was just
super Another reason why we're talking about gender is yesterday
on the Pickup, Laura and Maddie Jay had their gender reveal,
and it's quite obvious when you listen that Maddie was
not wanting the result he got.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
We have a gender reveal cake. I am cutting the
cake and it's a.
Speaker 5 (06:32):
It's a girl. Oh my god, you're having a bad
little girl. Congratulate the ship. There's a lot of ostrogen in.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
Our house that I'm like capable of producing boys. Let's
go again. Yeah, and like you said, I'm sure he's
gonna love that little girl like nothing else and it's
all gonna be fine. But you can tell he's disappointed
in the moment.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Yeah, and you know he hasn't had the nine months
to get used to it.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
That was the moment he found out.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Yes, Victoria of Chamside, how many.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Boys have you got?
Speaker 2 (07:09):
I have ways?
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Did you want to go?
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Well, I'm super super girly and so I did want
a girl, but then I obviously just kept having boys
and I wasn't trying for a girl once i'd started
having my boys because they're so amazing. But my sister
is a big tomboy and she has four girls, so
the best. But we have the best of both, and
(07:36):
I think that I am the best auntie mum, and
I want to change it. My girls offer and I
call them my girls often say, oh, you know don't
you wish you had a girl?
Speaker 3 (07:47):
Anniwick?
Speaker 2 (07:47):
And I say no, because I have them and I
can spoil them rotten and not get in trouble for it.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
And I reckon, you get you get cut through like
you get listened to as an auntie the way the
mum probably never does.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Very special.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Okay, I did that as a godmother godmother's to lots
of little girls. I mean, who else is going to
end heard all my jewelry? Yeah, John Logan, your sister
had how many children? She had nine boys and one girl?
Speaker 3 (08:20):
Oh my goodness? What was the girl like at the end?
Speaker 2 (08:23):
There?
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Yes, the last month last so she kept going?
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Yes, well, I.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Guess she's gone through the ninth month. So she wanted
the girl.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
She had a ten ring to get what she wanted.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Nine would she have kept going?
Speaker 3 (08:40):
John?
Speaker 2 (08:42):
She reckoned? She would have?
Speaker 3 (08:43):
Yeah? Is that that would be a madhouse with nine
boys in it?
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (08:49):
Yes? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:50):
But also that little girl, I mean, what is the beit?
Speaker 3 (08:53):
What? What was it?
Speaker 2 (08:54):
John?
Speaker 1 (08:54):
She just desperately wanted to raise a.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Daughter, the baby girl?
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Yep?
Speaker 2 (08:59):
Because I had five girls and three boys.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Yeah, okay, a big family.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
You guys, don't look around like to their boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
That's right, yeah, her boyfriend when she's got nine older brothers.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
Nicole Virabilba, Hi, Hello, tell us about your auntie.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
So my auntie had four boys.
Speaker 5 (09:19):
She always wanted a.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Girl, which has never happened, and then a few years
ago one of the boys came out as transgender.
Speaker 5 (09:26):
So when she told the family, we all said, well,
now you finally got your girl.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
You that's talk an extra couple of years, but you
wanted excellent. Thanks Nicol,
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