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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Alex Warren.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I'm very curious about this question because it came up
last night on Maps. Of course it did, And yes,
we do use this as a as a launching pad
to discuss other things. But Jackie and Ryan are the
most irritating couple. I mean, they're so shallow. No, they're weird. No,
I guaranteed they're weird. They're doing homestays and Jackie has
(00:29):
taken it upon him, upon herself to request that Ryan
really changes his physical appearance night.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Shave it off, right to shave it off.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
If you do, then just be prepared for an immediate divorce.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
What's wrong with clean shaven?
Speaker 2 (00:46):
There's nothing wrong with it. But you're threatening to shave
a man's beard.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
It's a dangerous ground.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Why Why don't you want to give it a shot,
particularly if your wife will find you more attractive?
Speaker 3 (00:55):
You know how you would never go Throughnette, That's.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Not what I want.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Why being a child.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
And they're not necessarily normal, normal human beings. Because if
you the person you love most in the world is
coming to you saying, look, I just really like it
if you'd shave off your beard.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Yeah, something small.
Speaker 5 (01:21):
No, I've got photos of me where I shaved it
like I don't know how many years ago, and it
looks terrible. I look like I don't have a chin,
and everything on my face is all out of proportion.
And in fact, last time I did shave it another way,
I remember saying Naomi saying, like, don't do that again.
I've lost all attractiveness, as we're not going to do
(01:43):
it for another three weeks at least till it comes back.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
But for her, it's like like as far as she's
definitely like talks to me like my hair is longer
than normal because she likes that, and I'm wearing short
of shorts than normal because she goes, I like the
short shorts on you, and she keeps like I wear
longer shorts, like.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
So you do it, You're flad to do it.
Speaker 5 (02:03):
It just tweaks and then eventually, yeah, all of a sudden,
she's buying me shirts and I've changed my whole appearance.
But but you.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Don't care, though, do you? Really?
Speaker 5 (02:11):
No? Not really, but but I like I mean, I
like her with long hair. I like long hair, and
I would be disappointed if she was too shorten her
hair because that's what I you know, when we met
that's what I was attracted to, and I like it, Okay, Cory.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Yeah, well so taking it's really blond hair when we
first met, and she changed it because she wanted to
change it. But then I think I think she remember talking.
We spoke about She's like, you still always date brunettes.
I'm pretty sure, Like I think she brought that up. Yeah,
and then she dyed her hair like it went brown,
and then she didn't like it, And I'm like.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Well, did it matter to you that?
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Not? Really?
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Like, like you know, turning her hair is fine. It's
like the way it looks now, it's fine, but I
liked it when she was brunette.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Like she didn't like it.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
I'm like, well change it?
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Did you prove.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
I wouldn't say that. I think it looks nice now too,
But how blond it was. I didn't like it as much,
but she didn't. I don't think she really liked it.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
So your first priority is the fact that you want
her to be happy. No, no, no, but some people
it's nice. And you know, one thing I hate this
to even admit it, but one thing Maths teaches me
is what I see on the screen all the time
is how much For men in the initial stages, physical
attraction is super important, and if you don't have that
physical attraction, it's a problem.
Speaker 5 (03:33):
Yeah. Absolutely, Has Waffles talked to you about tweaking anything?
Speaker 2 (03:37):
No, No, he is one of the he I've never
been with someone who is so enamored and so like complimentary.
It's actually lovely. I mean, I'm not necessarily a words
of affirmation person, but to have someone just like totally
into you is so nice.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
Confidence, even if you're already confident, still get a little
extra pump.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Yeah, I wonder if I if I cut my hair off,
you may not be so yeah, okay, but I also
hate me with short hair, so it's not going to happen.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
That's the other thing I think sometimes if they tip
you on something and then it's like, well, no, I
don't like that either, Like you never do it, so yeah,
like always I loved I do the opposite. I love
annoying the hell out of you.
Speaker 5 (04:22):
You make yourself up more more unattracted.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
And then she goes, you don't get rid of it.
I'm like, is it annoying? She goes, yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
But if she said, oh I love it, you go.
Speaker 5 (04:35):
Thirteen one O six fives. Can you can you ask
your partner to change their appearance? Could you ask something?
Could you say, listen, I found you more attractive when
you were a bit thinner.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Oh could you do it?
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Has anyone got the nuts?
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Probably or otherwise they still got them?
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Sharon of Bribe the Island.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
You think it is absolutely. I mean my husband was
sexy and my now husband was sexy when I met him. Anyway,
but I liked the look as his silver pack, so
I like the look with the goadie and I asked
him if he would grow one, and he said, you know,
you can always shave it off. It's so bigg He
(05:14):
wanted me to go on long and blonde. He wanted
me to go short and red.
Speaker 5 (05:18):
And did you do it? I did, yeah, short.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Red, and he hated it because he reckons. It made
me angry.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Change your personality some of the thirteen one of six
fives our number Michael out of boot moral Haygar, Michael.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Not too chabby.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
So what happened? Did someone ask you to change who
you were? Your appearance?
Speaker 4 (05:45):
Oh it's the ex missus.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
She told me to lose weight, get a haircut, bloody
dyet as well, so I ended up just getting rid
of her. I changed.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
This should have changed.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
In the house as it is playing to be.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
It was easier to change missions. This is the changing.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Easier.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Divorce was cheaper than you do.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Now have another partner.
Speaker 5 (06:19):
I am a.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Couple on the go.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
There's a couple on the go.
Speaker 5 (06:27):
Oh god, I'll see you on
Alex Warren.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I'm very curious about this question because it came up
last night on Maps. Of course it did, And yes,
we do use this as a as a launching pad
to discuss other things. But Jackie and Ryan are the
most irritating couple. I mean, they're so shallow. No, they're weird. No,
I guaranteed they're weird. They're doing homestays and Jackie has
(00:29):
taken it upon him, upon herself to request that Ryan
really changes his physical appearance night.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Shave it off, right to shave it off.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
If you do, then just be prepared for an immediate divorce.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
What's wrong with clean shaven?
Speaker 2 (00:46):
There's nothing wrong with it. But you're threatening to shave
a man's beard.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
It's a dangerous ground.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Why Why don't you want to give it a shot,
particularly if your wife will find you more attractive?
Speaker 3 (00:55):
You know how you would never go Throughnette, That's.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Not what I want.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Why being a child.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
And they're not necessarily normal, normal human beings. Because if
you the person you love most in the world is
coming to you saying, look, I just really like it
if you'd shave off your beard.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Yeah, something small.
Speaker 5 (01:21):
No, I've got photos of me where I shaved it
like I don't know how many years ago, and it
looks terrible. I look like I don't have a chin,
and everything on my face is all out of proportion.
And in fact, last time I did shave it another way,
I remember saying Naomi saying, like, don't do that again.
I've lost all attractiveness, as we're not going to do
(01:43):
it for another three weeks at least till it comes back.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
But for her, it's like like as far as she's
definitely like talks to me like my hair is longer
than normal because she likes that, and I'm wearing short
of shorts than normal because she goes, I like the
short shorts on you, and she keeps like I wear
longer shorts, like.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
So you do it, You're flad to do it.
Speaker 5 (02:03):
It just tweaks and then eventually, yeah, all of a sudden,
she's buying me shirts and I've changed my whole appearance.
But but you.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Don't care, though, do you? Really?
Speaker 5 (02:11):
No? Not really, but but I like I mean, I
like her with long hair. I like long hair, and
I would be disappointed if she was too shorten her
hair because that's what I you know, when we met
that's what I was attracted to, and I like it, Okay, Cory.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Yeah, well so taking it's really blond hair when we
first met, and she changed it because she wanted to
change it. But then I think I think she remember talking.
We spoke about She's like, you still always date brunettes.
I'm pretty sure, Like I think she brought that up. Yeah,
and then she dyed her hair like it went brown,
and then she didn't like it, And I'm like.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Well, did it matter to you that?
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Not? Really?
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Like, like you know, turning her hair is fine. It's
like the way it looks now, it's fine, but I
liked it when she was brunette.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Like she didn't like it.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
I'm like, well change it?
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Did you prove.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
I wouldn't say that. I think it looks nice now too,
But how blond it was. I didn't like it as much,
but she didn't. I don't think she really liked it.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
So your first priority is the fact that you want
her to be happy. No, no, no, but some people
it's nice. And you know, one thing I hate this
to even admit it, but one thing Maths teaches me
is what I see on the screen all the time
is how much For men in the initial stages, physical
attraction is super important, and if you don't have that
physical attraction, it's a problem.
Speaker 5 (03:33):
Yeah. Absolutely, Has Waffles talked to you about tweaking anything?
Speaker 2 (03:37):
No, No, he is one of the he I've never
been with someone who is so enamored and so like complimentary.
It's actually lovely. I mean, I'm not necessarily a words
of affirmation person, but to have someone just like totally
into you is so nice.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
Confidence, even if you're already confident, still get a little
extra pump.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Yeah, I wonder if I if I cut my hair off,
you may not be so yeah, okay, but I also
hate me with short hair, so it's not going to happen.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
That's the other thing I think sometimes if they tip
you on something and then it's like, well, no, I
don't like that either, Like you never do it, so yeah,
like always I loved I do the opposite. I love
annoying the hell out of you.
Speaker 5 (04:22):
You make yourself up more more unattracted.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
And then she goes, you don't get rid of it.
I'm like, is it annoying? She goes, yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
But if she said, oh I love it, you go.
Speaker 5 (04:35):
Thirteen one O six fives. Can you can you ask
your partner to change their appearance? Could you ask something?
Could you say, listen, I found you more attractive when
you were a bit thinner.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Oh could you do it?
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Has anyone got the nuts?
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Probably or otherwise they still got them?
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Sharon of Bribe the Island.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
You think it is absolutely. I mean my husband was
sexy and my now husband was sexy when I met him. Anyway,
but I liked the look as his silver pack, so
I like the look with the goadie and I asked
him if he would grow one, and he said, you know,
you can always shave it off. It's so bigg He
(05:14):
wanted me to go on long and blonde. He wanted
me to go short and red.
Speaker 5 (05:18):
And did you do it? I did, yeah, short.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Red, and he hated it because he reckons. It made
me angry.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Change your personality some of the thirteen one of six
fives our number Michael out of boot moral Haygar, Michael.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Not too chabby.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
So what happened? Did someone ask you to change who
you were? Your appearance?
Speaker 4 (05:45):
Oh it's the ex missus.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
She told me to lose weight, get a haircut, bloody
dyet as well, so I ended up just getting rid
of her. I changed.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
This should have changed.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
In the house as it is playing to be.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
It was easier to change missions. This is the changing.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Easier.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Divorce was cheaper than you do.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Now have another partner.
Speaker 5 (06:19):
I am a.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Couple on the go.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
There's a couple on the go.
Speaker 5 (06:27):
Oh god, I'll see you on
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