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Speaker 1 (00:12):
I Heard podcasts, hear more kiss podcasts, playlists and listen live.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
On the free iHeart apps. You're listening to the Robin
and Kid podcast.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Now, if you have kids in the car, we should
warn you that this nexted segment has adult themes, so
parental discretion recommended. Might be time for the year muffs
for a bit for a little here, like I know
for I know RAFFI my five year old, I wouldn't
probably want him to hear this discussion, but maybe.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
For older kids it could spark another interesting discussion, and
of course it will be on our podcast. But let
us introduce you to Jeremy of Blimba not your real name.
Hello Jeremy, Hello, how are you very good?
Speaker 4 (00:56):
Good? What is your confession?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Since the age of eighteen, I've basically substitute a fairly
lavish life style by doing sex work. Okay, okay, nobody knows. Well,
the majority of my family is completely oblivious to it.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
How do they not know?
Speaker 2 (01:18):
It's funny you don't realize how much you don't know
about a person. You don't go into people's finances and
go to that job every day, and it's all basically
just untrust.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
So you've been doing it since you're eighteen? How old
are you now, Jeremy, I'm thirty five.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Oh wow, So is.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
This your career?
Speaker 4 (01:38):
This is what you do for a living?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Yeah, it is. It is like I started it during
UNI and quickly found out I don't have to.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Go to more and didn't like close family ask you
questions as to where's this money come from?
Speaker 5 (01:55):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Yeah, absolutely. And there's also like a running joke in
my family of he could slip on banann appeal and
wind up in a bucket of gold.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Right, so you just see that everyone just thinks you're
really lucky.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Yes, yeah, yeah, But what.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Do you tell people? You have to tell them something.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
You know. My favorite one is crypto because I don't
even know what cryptosy.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
That's true. No one knows what's going to happen or
how they how they did it.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Yes, do you remember why you decided to take this path?
Speaker 5 (02:30):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Curiosity? And like it seems exhilarating a bit like different?
Speaker 4 (02:37):
And who and what are your clients mostly made up of?
Speaker 3 (02:41):
As it?
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Older ladies?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Is it?
Speaker 4 (02:42):
Man? Who are your clients.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Majority of older sort of confirmed bachelor men, the fairly
successful men as well? Okay, I've been paid to go
on holidays. I went on Safari two years ago and
got paid very nicely to do.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
That, right, and go as an escort, like just to
be with and hang out. Wow, do you have regular clients?
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Yeah? Oh yeah, Like now I barely advertise or see anybody.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Know.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
It's just completely regulus or regulars. Oh yeah, great that way.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
If you've been doing this for nearly twenty years, you
must enjoy it.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Yeah, Like there's a certain like enjoyment I get out
of it, satisfaction as well, Like it's a good Like
it's not just about sexual stuff. It's about like knowing
somebody and having a relationship. And they could talk to me,
and a lot of them like me because they really
unburden themselves and share the deepest, most intimate parts of
(03:48):
the soul with me.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Why can't you tell your family?
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Well, it's not really the you'd want.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Like, I'm not surprised I wouldn't tell you.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
I know why I get it.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Okay, are you go ahead?
Speaker 2 (04:08):
It's selfish to do it and then also be like, hey, I'm.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
Doing it, okay, put it in their faces.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
You in a relationship, have you ever been in a relationship?
Speaker 4 (04:21):
And how does that work?
Speaker 2 (04:24):
When I was nineteen, I tried to do it in
a way where I could hide it, and that quickly
quickly unraveled.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
I learned that honesty is essentially the key, but you
have to basically find the right sort of person, the
right sort of weird person that's okay with it.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Can I ask you male or female partner?
Speaker 2 (04:46):
I've had both, but majority of the male.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
Yeah, okay?
Speaker 1 (04:49):
And are you with someone now who's fine with what
you do?
Speaker 2 (04:53):
No? I'm single at the moment. Makes life a lot easier.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
I mean, it is our job to say, would you
like to tell anyone with us supporting you? And I'm
guessing I know the answer, but we will happily help
conf best your secret to anyone in your life.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
If you like.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Thank you jeremy secret for this one.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
You do it well? Five hundred dollars cash for you, mate,
you can have the.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Night off five bucks cash regular Thursday morning.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
A final question, how much money do you make from
doing this?
Speaker 2 (05:35):
More than a doctor?
Speaker 4 (05:37):
More than a specialist?
Speaker 5 (05:39):
Yep? Wow, like like millions, not millions, but.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
It's up there.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
Wow wow. Interesting.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
The first time ever, Keip white Man is considering the
right choices.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
Do you even want this five hundred bucks?
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Right?
Speaker 3 (05:59):
You're gonna have a Jeremy, well done, Thank you mate.
If you've got a confession that you want to share,
head to the website Kiss ninety seven three dot com
dot au.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
What do you think about you thinking? Man? Mate?
Speaker 1 (06:10):
Well, I have I have someone very close to me
who owns a couple of brothels, and I've been in
them a number of times.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
There is no.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
Way that I would do it, but I really respect
how much the people that do have control of their.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Lives right because of the money.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Yeah, and also just that's a decision you have to
consciously make.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
You know.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
People think that prostitutes are out there because they're desperate,
and some of them are, don't get me wrong, But
there are also a lot of very well educated, you know,
people that do it.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
I wonder if there's any that.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
If you're listening right now and that's your line of
work and everyone in your family knows that everyone's cool
with it, I'll be interested to know thirty one oh
sixty five.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
None of the prostitutes I've met their family members.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
Know thirty six five though, surprise us you.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Kip said, is there any sex worker whose family do know?
And Melissa of Eagle be here you are?
Speaker 4 (07:11):
Hello?
Speaker 5 (07:12):
How are you good?
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Mate?
Speaker 1 (07:16):
John?
Speaker 4 (07:19):
How did it go? First? Told you your family.
Speaker 5 (07:23):
I was a bit guilty of what I was doing,
and I felt ashamed. But I said, I've got two
teenage daughters, twenty eight and thirty one. I said, look,
I'm doing this sort of work. They said, they were
quite disappointed. They were disgusted and said, mum, what are
(07:45):
you doing this for? The lower yourself?
Speaker 4 (07:49):
So when you were a single mum at the time.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Yes, I was okay for thirty one years?
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Right, Okay, So I've brought up.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
My girls as a single parent. I went through a
rape stage with having them both so and I felt
so and then I met a bloke and I went
through domestic violence badly.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Okay, So Melissa, when did you decide to do this
kind of work?
Speaker 5 (08:14):
I've done it for ten years now.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
And the girls who were originally shocked to find out
and against it, how do they feel about it now
that they've had time to get used to it.
Speaker 5 (08:26):
I have one that puts my ads on for me,
helps me in a way of just upgrading my ads.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
Like online, like posting them and things, oh wow wow.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
And my other daughter she picks out what if she
think successful, like you know, judges whatever of you know,
the people that I see.
Speaker 4 (08:49):
She monitors the clients and says, this one's good and
that one's no good.
Speaker 5 (08:53):
She told me what who not to see and who
not to see. But I see a lot of elderly
where a lot of elderly don't get any you please
or in love, and I think it's discussed.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
Yeah, Melissa, people are so judgmental of sex work, But
can I tell you nds work. I know my girlfriend
who owns a couple of brothels, she does a lot
of that because and going into nursing homes, children of
elderly people in nursing homes often ring sex workers. And
you have to be a really special kind of person,
and that's clearly you.
Speaker 5 (09:23):
You've got to have the heart, you've got to have
the love, you've got to give them what they want
in a little bit of roam and swear a lot
of elderly I see on nursing roams and then I'll
cuttle or kissl the missus and it's down grading.
Speaker 4 (09:37):
Well, well, thank you for sharing, thank you.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Can I just ask you one thing, Melissa, because based
on your history, you are now doing this because you
want to, right.
Speaker 5 (09:47):
I do it, yeah, because I broke from a lot
of domestic violence and I feel safer doing this sort
of work around people than borrowing over what hell I
went through with him with my.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Ex Okay, because it would concern me greatly if I
didn't get off. Ask you that question that you were
doing it because you have to, but with your children involved,
it's a family business.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
That's incredible.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Wow, Thank you, And we should say as well, whatever
we talk about or you hear about domestic violence, that
there is help if you are in a situation one
eight hundred.
Speaker 4 (10:19):
Respect,
I Heard podcasts, hear more kiss podcasts, playlists and listen live.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
On the free iHeart apps. You're listening to the Robin
and Kid podcast.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Now, if you have kids in the car, we should
warn you that this nexted segment has adult themes, so
parental discretion recommended. Might be time for the year muffs
for a bit for a little here, like I know
for I know RAFFI my five year old, I wouldn't
probably want him to hear this discussion, but maybe.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
For older kids it could spark another interesting discussion, and
of course it will be on our podcast. But let
us introduce you to Jeremy of Blimba not your real name.
Hello Jeremy, Hello, how are you very good?
Speaker 4 (00:56):
Good? What is your confession?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Since the age of eighteen, I've basically substitute a fairly
lavish life style by doing sex work. Okay, okay, nobody knows. Well,
the majority of my family is completely oblivious to it.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
How do they not know?
Speaker 2 (01:18):
It's funny you don't realize how much you don't know
about a person. You don't go into people's finances and
go to that job every day, and it's all basically
just untrust.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
So you've been doing it since you're eighteen? How old
are you now, Jeremy, I'm thirty five.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Oh wow, So is.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
This your career?
Speaker 4 (01:38):
This is what you do for a living?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Yeah, it is. It is like I started it during
UNI and quickly found out I don't have to.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Go to more and didn't like close family ask you
questions as to where's this money come from?
Speaker 5 (01:55):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Yeah, absolutely. And there's also like a running joke in
my family of he could slip on banann appeal and
wind up in a bucket of gold.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Right, so you just see that everyone just thinks you're
really lucky.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Yes, yeah, yeah, But what.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Do you tell people? You have to tell them something.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
You know. My favorite one is crypto because I don't
even know what cryptosy.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
That's true. No one knows what's going to happen or
how they how they did it.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Yes, do you remember why you decided to take this path?
Speaker 5 (02:30):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Curiosity? And like it seems exhilarating a bit like different?
Speaker 4 (02:37):
And who and what are your clients mostly made up of?
Speaker 3 (02:41):
As it?
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Older ladies?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Is it?
Speaker 4 (02:42):
Man? Who are your clients.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Majority of older sort of confirmed bachelor men, the fairly
successful men as well? Okay, I've been paid to go
on holidays. I went on Safari two years ago and
got paid very nicely to do.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
That, right, and go as an escort, like just to
be with and hang out. Wow, do you have regular clients?
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Yeah? Oh yeah, Like now I barely advertise or see anybody.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Know.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
It's just completely regulus or regulars. Oh yeah, great that way.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
If you've been doing this for nearly twenty years, you
must enjoy it.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Yeah, Like there's a certain like enjoyment I get out
of it, satisfaction as well, Like it's a good Like
it's not just about sexual stuff. It's about like knowing
somebody and having a relationship. And they could talk to me,
and a lot of them like me because they really
unburden themselves and share the deepest, most intimate parts of
(03:48):
the soul with me.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Why can't you tell your family?
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Well, it's not really the you'd want.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Like, I'm not surprised I wouldn't tell you.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
I know why I get it.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Okay, are you go ahead?
Speaker 2 (04:08):
It's selfish to do it and then also be like, hey, I'm.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
Doing it, okay, put it in their faces.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
You in a relationship, have you ever been in a relationship?
Speaker 4 (04:21):
And how does that work?
Speaker 2 (04:24):
When I was nineteen, I tried to do it in
a way where I could hide it, and that quickly
quickly unraveled.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
I learned that honesty is essentially the key, but you
have to basically find the right sort of person, the
right sort of weird person that's okay with it.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Can I ask you male or female partner?
Speaker 2 (04:46):
I've had both, but majority of the male.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
Yeah, okay?
Speaker 1 (04:49):
And are you with someone now who's fine with what
you do?
Speaker 2 (04:53):
No? I'm single at the moment. Makes life a lot easier.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
I mean, it is our job to say, would you
like to tell anyone with us supporting you? And I'm
guessing I know the answer, but we will happily help
conf best your secret to anyone in your life.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
If you like.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Thank you jeremy secret for this one.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
You do it well? Five hundred dollars cash for you, mate,
you can have the.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Night off five bucks cash regular Thursday morning.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
A final question, how much money do you make from
doing this?
Speaker 2 (05:35):
More than a doctor?
Speaker 4 (05:37):
More than a specialist?
Speaker 5 (05:39):
Yep? Wow, like like millions, not millions, but.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
It's up there.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
Wow wow. Interesting.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
The first time ever, Keip white Man is considering the
right choices.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
Do you even want this five hundred bucks?
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Right?
Speaker 3 (05:59):
You're gonna have a Jeremy, well done, Thank you mate.
If you've got a confession that you want to share,
head to the website Kiss ninety seven three dot com
dot au.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
What do you think about you thinking? Man? Mate?
Speaker 1 (06:10):
Well, I have I have someone very close to me
who owns a couple of brothels, and I've been in
them a number of times.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
There is no.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
Way that I would do it, but I really respect
how much the people that do have control of their.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Lives right because of the money.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Yeah, and also just that's a decision you have to
consciously make.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
You know.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
People think that prostitutes are out there because they're desperate,
and some of them are, don't get me wrong, But
there are also a lot of very well educated, you know,
people that do it.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
I wonder if there's any that.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
If you're listening right now and that's your line of
work and everyone in your family knows that everyone's cool
with it, I'll be interested to know thirty one oh
sixty five.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
None of the prostitutes I've met their family members.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
Know thirty six five though, surprise us you.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Kip said, is there any sex worker whose family do know?
And Melissa of Eagle be here you are?
Speaker 4 (07:11):
Hello?
Speaker 5 (07:12):
How are you good?
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Mate?
Speaker 1 (07:16):
John?
Speaker 4 (07:19):
How did it go? First? Told you your family.
Speaker 5 (07:23):
I was a bit guilty of what I was doing,
and I felt ashamed. But I said, I've got two
teenage daughters, twenty eight and thirty one. I said, look,
I'm doing this sort of work. They said, they were
quite disappointed. They were disgusted and said, mum, what are
(07:45):
you doing this for? The lower yourself?
Speaker 4 (07:49):
So when you were a single mum at the time.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Yes, I was okay for thirty one years?
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Right, Okay, So I've brought up.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
My girls as a single parent. I went through a
rape stage with having them both so and I felt
so and then I met a bloke and I went
through domestic violence badly.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Okay, So Melissa, when did you decide to do this
kind of work?
Speaker 5 (08:14):
I've done it for ten years now.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
And the girls who were originally shocked to find out
and against it, how do they feel about it now
that they've had time to get used to it.
Speaker 5 (08:26):
I have one that puts my ads on for me,
helps me in a way of just upgrading my ads.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
Like online, like posting them and things, oh wow wow.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
And my other daughter she picks out what if she
think successful, like you know, judges whatever of you know,
the people that I see.
Speaker 4 (08:49):
She monitors the clients and says, this one's good and
that one's no good.
Speaker 5 (08:53):
She told me what who not to see and who
not to see. But I see a lot of elderly
where a lot of elderly don't get any you please
or in love, and I think it's discussed.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
Yeah, Melissa, people are so judgmental of sex work, But
can I tell you nds work. I know my girlfriend
who owns a couple of brothels, she does a lot
of that because and going into nursing homes, children of
elderly people in nursing homes often ring sex workers. And
you have to be a really special kind of person,
and that's clearly you.
Speaker 5 (09:23):
You've got to have the heart, you've got to have
the love, you've got to give them what they want
in a little bit of roam and swear a lot
of elderly I see on nursing roams and then I'll
cuttle or kissl the missus and it's down grading.
Speaker 4 (09:37):
Well, well, thank you for sharing, thank you.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Can I just ask you one thing, Melissa, because based
on your history, you are now doing this because you
want to, right.
Speaker 5 (09:47):
I do it, yeah, because I broke from a lot
of domestic violence and I feel safer doing this sort
of work around people than borrowing over what hell I
went through with him with my.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Ex Okay, because it would concern me greatly if I
didn't get off. Ask you that question that you were
doing it because you have to, but with your children involved,
it's a family business.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
That's incredible.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Wow, Thank you, And we should say as well, whatever
we talk about or you hear about domestic violence, that
there is help if you are in a situation one
eight hundred.
Speaker 4 (10:19):
Respect,
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