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Speaker 3 (04:41):
So yesterday afternoon after school pickup, we headed to Davies
Park in West End, the South Logan Club, which is
where Corey's Little League big game will happen in about
ten days time, and we had our first training session
with the eleven twelve year olds representing north Side South Side.
It's been a lot of fun picking the teams, getting
them ready and the emphasis on just having fun and
(05:01):
enjoying footy.
Speaker 8 (05:02):
Yeah, and at the start of the session, obviously they're
all quiet and which is which is which I was
actually ready for. And yeah, I just wanted to see
the difference from the start at the finish and at
the end. We had all these questions for the kids,
and yeah, they gave you our answers.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Which was it was good to hear.
Speaker 8 (05:18):
What did you learn today, mate?
Speaker 9 (05:19):
How to cush the ball?
Speaker 10 (05:20):
That putting your hands up on a butterify.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Big, how to share the ball and show teamwork and
be a team plower.
Speaker 8 (05:29):
Yeah, but it's important, isn't it works better?
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Yeah, when you talk to each other your work.
Speaker 11 (05:33):
Yeah, each a lot of fun. And how to catch
the ball and don't cutch it in your chest.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Because it will take longer to pass.
Speaker 10 (05:41):
Passing running like hit movement and stuff.
Speaker 12 (05:44):
I was.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
I liked the passing drill.
Speaker 6 (05:48):
It was like intense and like the challenge like who
would win.
Speaker 8 (05:56):
Yeah, it was good because a lot of them said
the communication part, you know, as just talking it actually
makes it more more fun and more enjoyable because you're
chatting and then you start having fun and you start
learning more because you listen in it and your content
and you're talking and then you make friends.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Yeah they noticed though, and massive shout out to you choreotes,
because you do really walk your talk. Is that I
saw you You would point to individual kids, so they
knew that you were saying good things about them.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
True.
Speaker 8 (06:27):
Yeah, And well, because all kids just want a little
bit of recognition for trying. So if I can see
that trying and they do small things like at one stage,
I was just telling kiddy it was a good tag.
You know, it was a good tag. Like I can
see the effort. I can see they're actually trying. So
you just want to see kids try but enjoyed.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
But you found something, I mean, and it wasn't hard,
don't get me wrong, but you absolutely found something unique
to say to each and every one of them repetitively
throughout the whole time.
Speaker 8 (06:56):
Yeah yeah, yeah, And you're into me about being repeted
all the time, but it works. You're just gonna be
so repetitive.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Well, you do well, speaking of repetition, because Matt Gillett,
of course played twelve games for Australia, twenty for Queens
and two hundred for the Broncos. He was there. He's
coaching the North Side. And what we discovered, Corey is
that you just basically stood next to Jillo and yelled
everything he said about a half second after he yelled at.
Speaker 8 (07:23):
Running back and just run, just run back, run back,
run back, run back run back, carries jo back jong
back those.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
The small ones. Okay, you ain't carried carries. It was
just the whole day.
Speaker 10 (07:41):
Hey, it.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Was a good stand next to someone who knows what
they're doing. I want to get music kids and yell
what they yelled.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
Okay, so who's going to win?
Speaker 8 (07:51):
Hey, South Now we're gonna have fun, have fun.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Yeah, if you want to come and see the game's
it is going to be a great day at at
South Slogan. This is on on the fifteenth of June
at at South Slogan in west End, and you want
to be there for one thirty to get there for kickoff.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
I mean, they've heaps of other games, but clearly this
is the.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
Most exactly.
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Speaker 14 (08:34):
Ten days from game day.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
It'll be a fantastic afternoon June fifteenth, Davies Park at
West End at the South Slogan Club there, it's a
big Broncos into activation. There'll be thousands of people there
and our kids get to play before the game and
then again at halftime.
Speaker 8 (08:52):
It's gonna be huge.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
It's going to hit.
Speaker 8 (08:53):
It's four games on the day, games on the day,
so yeah, there should be back there.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
But the most important will be Cory's little league at coach.
Yesterday afternoon at Davis Park, we got together and the
kids got together for the very first time to get
out onto the field and just get a handle of
what was going to go on. But they were all
brought to the Davies Park by their parents and so
as they sat back and the parents were great.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
They were actually they.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
Were really lovely.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
They were so happy their kids were having a great time.
One family drove from not Kobulcher, Caloundra. Oh wow, it's
a right and Bilbert like all over Brisbane to be
a part of this. But you know, there were varying
stories and I literally went from one parent to the
next as we were watching what was going out there
and I could see little Addison.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
She was probably the tiniest, the twelfth wonder.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
Yes, she's one.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Of twelve kids, and she seemed to be having a
great time.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
So I asked her mum, Tanya, what was going on?
Speaker 6 (09:52):
Cobby has a tendency to scream on the field, does
she she does?
Speaker 3 (09:57):
About?
Speaker 1 (09:57):
What?
Speaker 4 (09:58):
About anything?
Speaker 6 (10:00):
If someone's not standing in the right spot?
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Sure, let it, okay, watch out for Addison dictating terms,
got it.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
She'd had a big day that day.
Speaker 8 (10:10):
I was watching and I'm like, oh, she looks she's
having farmer. She doesn't want to kind of you do it.
And I went over and I'm.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
Like, what's wrong? I get in there and start running.
I said, I thought you were a bit of a mayhem. Yeah,
she goes, I'm sure, my b I'm sure.
Speaker 8 (10:22):
And then I've bet it. After she had eight hundred,
four hundred, two hundred one hundred.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
In the long jump, I'm like, I'm so sorry, I believe.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
But did you notice? I thought this was really sweet.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
You may not have noticed, but she actually had her
blue ribbons attached to us.
Speaker 4 (10:44):
We did have a bit of a moment where everyone
kind of went.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
A kid called LEVI got sort of knocked out by accident.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
Is knocked out. He just had it knocked knocked down.
Speaker 8 (10:55):
It just got knocked down by and they were competing
like yeah and yeah, we all ran over, but there's
a little as a boy that ran over first to
help him up, wasn't it.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
That's exactly right.
Speaker 1 (11:05):
His name is Jack, and I spoke to his mum,
Jane Jane. We called Jack or Jack was called the
bulldozer because he's like fearless and out there on the team.
But we just had a bit of an incident where
a kid could leave.
Speaker 4 (11:19):
I went down, and you.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Know what, Jack is the only one that went over
to pick him up and see if he was okay.
Speaker 10 (11:25):
That's his nature. He's really caring person. Had an incident
at school this year where a teacher fell and he
was the first responder to her.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
She broke a hip.
Speaker 10 (11:34):
And he's been like reck like notified at school and
identified and given a certificate.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
And mate on the pitch, he's not like that.
Speaker 15 (11:46):
No, but he just yeah what he's playing.
Speaker 10 (11:48):
But he does think secondly about other people because that's
his nature.
Speaker 4 (11:54):
And yet on the field he's like a bulldozer.
Speaker 10 (11:58):
Yeah, just runs straight and doesn't care who he runs into.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
But as he knocks him down, he then goes back
and picks him up and feels bad.
Speaker 4 (12:09):
That's what we want kids with hearts and good on
he does. He does worry about this next person. Y.
Speaker 8 (12:14):
Yeah, he was a quiet boy. Yeah, but yeah, he
just wanted to play. I don't think he likes you
and everyone told that he just wants to go out
there and train.
Speaker 4 (12:23):
Get on with it.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Well, the last one I want to bring to you, Corey,
because I know you saw her was little well Savannah.
Speaker 4 (12:29):
She was the last one that was named.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
We had one of the twins pull out yesterday and
Savannah got called up at the very last moment.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
But we found out from her mum, a Kayla.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
That Savannah has had a real journey when it comes
to her rugby league.
Speaker 6 (12:45):
She's been called some not so nice names because she
she's a little bit biger than some of the other kids,
and she has been called names by some of the
boys and they've targeted her as well, like tried to
hit her hard.
Speaker 12 (12:56):
One of your kids got punched in the back of
the head three times.
Speaker 6 (12:59):
Yeah, and said and she obviously being a girl, And
it is hard for the girls in the footy as well.
There's not a lot of them. And the coach she's
had for the last couple of years, him and his
wife and now on our clubs committee, and they've pushed
real for the girls team because they want to get
girls into Pooty, like they're really trying to promote it.
Speaker 4 (13:14):
So she sounds like she's a great player too.
Speaker 6 (13:16):
She loves it. Like I said, she takes some hard
hits and she gives them back. But it takes her
good to open up. But she'll once she's in there,
she'll be like happy and laughing and chatty. But yeah, no,
she's smile all day.
Speaker 3 (13:27):
She had so much ticket, didn't she. Yeah, she just
have going on. She just like she didn't stop.
Speaker 8 (13:31):
She didn't like, she didn't like not want to be
a part of it. And it was it was right
at the start. I just gave her a quick compliment
about like just doing a certain movement and a pattern,
and after that she she just kept going. And after
that I said, you really enjoy passing the ball and
shanned around. I said, if you run the ball, you
can run. She goes, No, I love doing all of it. Yeah,
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she she just loves it. She had a good time,
which was nice.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
It was a great day and if you want to
be there to see the big game, it's on June fifteen,
Davies Park at West End, the South Slogan Club.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
Now with Courios the podcast and.
Speaker 3 (14:08):
We have produced a Toddy this year. I should say
this just quickly. Yesterday when we had Cory's Little League,
I have my five year old Raft with me and
you said something. You said, yes it is, and Raft
just stopped, looked at you confused and said why did
you say yes it is?
Speaker 7 (14:25):
And I said no, I said yes it is, and
he goes, oh, yes it is.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Okay, okay, I'm not one of.
Speaker 10 (14:33):
You.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
Explained that you're from somewhere else.
Speaker 10 (14:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (14:35):
I was like, I've got an accent, I'm from New Zealand. Yes,
and then he walks away, Yes it is.
Speaker 3 (14:41):
All day.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
But I never realized that possibly the reason why we
have the honor of having you as part of our
team is that you've bolted from New Zealand because you
have the most horrendous story I know.
Speaker 7 (14:53):
And this is years ago, but I was working in Auckland,
which is obviously the biggest city in New Zealand and Ponsonby,
which is a central city suburb, and the car park
for work was out the back, but it had a
ninety minute limit on it, right, I would always get
stuck in meetings. I'd be busy, i'd be in the air,
I'd be doing something and I wouldn't get the chance
to move my car. So every day I was getting
(15:16):
a sixty five dollar ticket every day, every day, and
if you didn't pay that, it became eighty five dollars
within five days.
Speaker 8 (15:26):
So you said, no car park.
Speaker 7 (15:27):
No, we had to either pay for parking down the
road or move your car every ninety minutes.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
Okay, Why didn't you do something else like surely ubering
public moving the car to a parking station.
Speaker 7 (15:41):
Well, I thought every day i'd say a reminder, I'll
move it. Yet today I've got it. I'll definitely remember.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
Nope.
Speaker 4 (15:47):
Okay, So this accumulated for how long?
Speaker 7 (15:49):
It was a six month period, and there was also
a little period there where I didn't have a warranton
read Joe, and so I was getting, on top of
the sixty five dollars, a four hundred dollar fine.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
Oh my goodness, it's accumulated to a figure that you
claim is the second highest in you How do.
Speaker 4 (16:07):
You know it's the second highest.
Speaker 7 (16:09):
It went viral back last year. There were so many
news articles, a news story and a journalist did like
some digging into it, and I was just sick and high.
Speaker 3 (16:20):
On a current affair.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
Okay, do not know the figure. We want to see
if anyone in Brisbane can come close.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
Okay, thirteen one oh sixty five is our number to
talk us about your parking five tally see if you
can go close to Todd's and we'll get Todd's number
in the next few minutes.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
So thirteen one oh sixty five how much have you
had to pay in fines?
Speaker 2 (16:50):
Now with Correos the podcast.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
Producer Todd, who's moved here recently from New Zealand. In
the studio where us, Todd was telling us the story
how you made the news in New Zealand.
Speaker 7 (17:01):
I went viral last year.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
For the moment for the post amount of parking lit
because you used to get a parking fine pretty much
every day at work.
Speaker 7 (17:09):
Yeah, so it was over a six month period, I
got a sixty five dollar ticket if I didn't move
my car within ninety minutes at work. That then became
eighty five dollars within five days. There was a small
period there where I also didn't have a warrant till Rigio,
and that was a four hundred dollars fine a day
each time was two hundred for Rigo, two hundred for warrant.
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Wow, what did you think was going.
Speaker 7 (17:32):
I don't know what I thought was going to happen,
but I didn't expect it to be so high. I mean,
the footwell of my back seat, Yeah, granted that was full.
Speaker 14 (17:40):
I it when you.
Speaker 3 (17:41):
Fill the back seat of your car with tickets, that's
an indicator that you're in trouble.
Speaker 7 (17:44):
Todd well, yeah, but I thought maybe there was five
thousand dollars worth.
Speaker 3 (17:49):
Yeah, okay, So you called.
Speaker 7 (17:51):
I called the Ministry of Justice, okay, yes, And I said,
how many fines do I have? She said to me,
fifteen thousand and counting. She said that coming in every.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
Day, fifteen thousand.
Speaker 4 (18:07):
The report in New Zealand. I just found the article.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
How someone rack up? Well, they're saying seventeen thousand, but
I guess that's seventeen thousand parking fines over six months.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
Sit quick, I know how much were you even earning
at this place you can't have been.
Speaker 7 (18:24):
No, I could never pay that off?
Speaker 3 (18:26):
So what did you do?
Speaker 10 (18:27):
How do you?
Speaker 3 (18:27):
How do you pay that off?
Speaker 7 (18:28):
Well, after I got off the phone when they told
me I had seventeen thousand dollars worth of parking fines,
I hung up, cried and called Mum and Mom, I
need help, and then I had to work out a
payment plan.
Speaker 4 (18:42):
It took me seven years to.
Speaker 7 (18:44):
Pay it off.
Speaker 4 (18:44):
Did you have to pay off every cent?
Speaker 7 (18:46):
Every single cent?
Speaker 3 (18:47):
The other thing?
Speaker 7 (18:48):
I could have done community service, but I didn't feel
like that was part of my personality and I didn't
think I said anymore.
Speaker 14 (18:58):
Community services off brand.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
But here's the thing.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
Yes, we thought that no one could beat that in Brisbane.
Speaker 4 (19:08):
We were wrong of beat mea how much?
Speaker 14 (19:13):
Twenty two thousand guys?
Speaker 3 (19:14):
My brother twelve two thong?
Speaker 14 (19:18):
He has a learning lesson?
Speaker 3 (19:19):
No? Is it all parking fines? Yeah?
Speaker 14 (19:23):
I've been stuff mostly parking. I don't care.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
He just doesn't care. Is he ever going to pay
him off? Do you reckon?
Speaker 9 (19:31):
He's above?
Speaker 14 (19:34):
Did the Cowboys supporters.
Speaker 3 (19:39):
Out?
Speaker 2 (19:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (19:41):
The defense restaurant.
Speaker 4 (19:43):
You probably have to declare bankruptcy to get rid of that.
Speaker 7 (19:46):
That was also another option that I can do that.
Speaker 8 (19:48):
No, they chase it or they just keeping.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
Now they keep chasing you.
Speaker 4 (19:54):
New Zealand smaller than Australia, you can't run as far.
Speaker 3 (19:59):
That's true. That's true. They just had a group text.
Does anyone who told.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
Jimmy Astley okay, Todd had seventeen, Dan's brother had twenty two.
Speaker 16 (20:10):
How much Jimmy, I have twenty five thousand dollars right now?
A little bit over that. Yeah, well I've paid a
bit off, but yeah, still about twenty grand on it too.
Speaker 4 (20:22):
How did you do that, Jimmy?
Speaker 16 (20:25):
About five years of parking in the city, working in
the city and just struggling to find car parks and
going no stuff, I'll just go there. And I found
out they were just emailing the fines to me for
a while. They had an old email address. Oh yeah,
and yeah, I didn't even realize I was getting fined
(20:45):
for about two years.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
So you never got the physical ticket. He's like, what, Yeah, yeah,
I thought I was in. Did you come back Jimmy
for the wind? How did you? And so how did
you find the old email?
Speaker 17 (21:02):
Well?
Speaker 3 (21:03):
I didn't.
Speaker 16 (21:03):
I've got a ticket on my car one day called
up about it and They're like, well, well you owe
this month.
Speaker 14 (21:08):
I was like, and so you're on some type of
payment plan now, Jimmy, is that what you're doing?
Speaker 12 (21:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 16 (21:19):
Yeah, I'm paying slightly but surely in the arts. But
you're getting there.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
Okay, I just checked just for a friend. You cannot
be jailed solely paying failing to pay a parking finding.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
That's good today.
Speaker 14 (21:38):
And Jimmy for winning this game a hundred bucks to
spend it.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Game over.
Speaker 14 (21:45):
Do a driving game, not a parking game, Jimmy, Ronie.
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Speaker 13 (22:25):
I have a sixteen year old daughter. I have kept
a secret for sixteen years that nobody knows. It started
when me and my ex husband we were high school sweethearts.
We were on and off for about a year or two.
In that time, we had a three month break. I
(22:48):
met my sister's boss. One thing led to another. He
came over and had a one night stand, and then
I found out eight weeks later that I was pregnant.
And now for sixteen years, my ex husband thinks our
daughter is his, but he has not.
Speaker 8 (23:10):
So you were a fresh out of school, yes.
Speaker 13 (23:12):
Of seventeen and a half.
Speaker 3 (23:14):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (23:15):
Wow, so you were young. This was a moment in
your life.
Speaker 13 (23:19):
Definitely, And sadly my husband now of nine years doesn't
know as well. He thinks my ex husband is my
child's father.
Speaker 3 (23:28):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (23:29):
So no one knows.
Speaker 13 (23:31):
No one knows, dad knows, the biological father knows.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
Yes, he does know. Okay, so this is your sister's boss.
Speaker 17 (23:38):
Yes.
Speaker 4 (23:39):
Why did you tell him?
Speaker 13 (23:40):
I felt that I had to tell him because he
needed to know. I didn't want, you know, to have
a child, and he not know that he never had
a child because I found out I was eight weeks pregnant.
And then the moment I got home from the doctors,
I messaged him and told him. He didn't speak to
me my whole pregnancy. My ex husband was there with
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me the whole time. You're believing this baby is his,
he messaged me. At the end of the year, and
said did you have my child? And I said yes,
it's a girl. And then he didn't speak to me
for another couple of months and then he's like, I
want to see my daughter. I'm like, okay, he's seen
her for ten minutes and I haven't heard him for
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now fifteen years.
Speaker 4 (24:25):
Wow wow?
Speaker 13 (24:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (24:27):
So how long did you stay together at the time
with the child with their exts?
Speaker 13 (24:32):
We were together for ten years and married two years.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
Two years and at this stage with your sixteen year
old child, he still thinks he's the dad.
Speaker 13 (24:45):
Yeap, My sixteen year old still thinks that my's husband
her father.
Speaker 4 (24:51):
Ye Nikita, Why tell us?
Speaker 13 (24:55):
I've been holding it in for so long and I
wanted to tell someone.
Speaker 4 (25:01):
Well, how do you feel?
Speaker 13 (25:03):
I do feel relieved, I really do. And it's a
good relief as well, because I know I've kept this
secret from my child's father as well as my family.
When I found out I was pregnant with my daughter,
Everyone's like, oh, is it is it his? I'm like, oh, yeah,
(25:24):
don't be Sally like you know yeah. And it was
so hot because when my daughter started to get up
more and start and say words I had. I felt
bad because I had to mumble, go to daddy because
I knew it wasn't her father mad.
Speaker 4 (25:41):
Does it help to tell us?
Speaker 17 (25:45):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (25:45):
Yes, sweet thing. I wish I could give you a big.
Speaker 13 (25:51):
I've kept this to myself.
Speaker 4 (25:52):
Yeah, well well done. That is very very brave.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
Do you think it will change the decisions you make
from now on?
Speaker 13 (26:00):
Oh yeah, definitely. I I do want to tell my daughter,
but then I don't because then I don't want anything ruined.
Speaker 3 (26:11):
It's an unenviable decision you've got to make there. I
don't know what the right one is. You just wouldn't
know what would happened. No, yelp.
Speaker 4 (26:17):
Do you know what, Nikita?
Speaker 1 (26:19):
We're going to give you five hundred bucks because it's
confessions for cash and we're super grateful. Maybe you can
spend some of that money, take her away for a
night and if you feel like you're meeting.
Speaker 13 (26:30):
Then I'm trying to save up so hot because I'm
taking her to Japan next year. Oh cool, We're going
to supporta Tokyo and Singapore. So yeah, I'm saving up
so hot so that's going towards it, and I need
to get our passports like as possible.
Speaker 1 (26:50):
Well, mate, there you go five hundred dollars towards your trip,
and maybe the moment will arise and you will feel
that this is the time to tell her or not.
Speaker 4 (26:59):
Yep, Well you've spoken it out loud now and hopefully that.
Speaker 1 (27:04):
May feel make you feel a little bit different about
the situation. But thank you, thank you so much.
Speaker 13 (27:10):
I heard that the lady's story about her husband had
that other family, and if she can do this and
she has three children, you know how I can just
do this with my one and homely.
Speaker 3 (27:23):
Li isn't how much it's light You just seem like, yeah,
it seemed like this is a big weight off your shoulders.
Speaker 13 (27:29):
It really is, to be honest with you, really really.
Speaker 3 (27:32):
Is good onion, Nikita. I'm glad we could be that
part of that.
Speaker 13 (27:36):
Thank you so much, thanks for sharing, thanks to my story.
Speaker 4 (27:41):
Good luck, mate, good lad, Thank you so much.
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Didn't she sound different? Yeah, like what a change? Yes,
that huge weight's gone.
Speaker 4 (27:56):
If you interesting to see.
Speaker 3 (27:57):
What she does. Sixteen years of hanging on to that secret.
Speaker 8 (28:00):
So relieved.
Speaker 3 (28:01):
Yeah, so you're right.
Speaker 8 (28:02):
It would be very interesting to see what happens from me.
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Speaker 2 (28:11):
With the podcast.
Speaker 3 (28:14):
Yesterday, great day at Davies Park.
Speaker 8 (28:17):
We've done lots of hard work.
Speaker 3 (28:19):
You know, Corey was integral to the coaching process.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
Well, Yellow, the other coach said it, and then you
just said it louder so made sure everyone hurt.
Speaker 3 (28:30):
Yeah, you were like a megaphone.
Speaker 14 (28:32):
He was speaking the wisdom and you just yelled into
the crowd.
Speaker 3 (28:36):
Yes, exactly. And my little boy, Rafael came along. I
picked him up from school and I had a bit
of fun. I noticed that actually a couple of the
Kiss staff were looking after him while I was out
on the field. Is that what you were? Yes, it is.
And they said, geez, they said he's fun, isn't He's smart?
And sassy? I said, yes, he's all of those things
(28:58):
and not great at listing, although he was good with them,
which is frustrating sometimes sometimes he's good with other people
and not with me. And yeah, and so I've my
algorithms on Instagram. Saw my desperation. But coach Mary. A
video from a laodical coach, Mary, who's a parent child
(29:19):
relationship expert, came up about kids that don't listen and
white listen and she offered this advice about an eight
second rule.
Speaker 11 (29:28):
The revolutionary research has discovered that there is a precise
moment when children shift from not listening to you to
spontaneously cooperating. It's called the eight second rule. Here's how
it works. When you give a request to your child,
take a complete pause of eight seconds after saying it,
don't repeat, don't explain, simply wait in silence, watching them
with a neutral expression. The study result showed that seventy
(29:50):
three percent of children respond positively within those eight seconds.
Parents typically interrupt the weight after only two to three second.
Repeating request reduces the likelihood of response by forty percent.
Children need this time to process and decide autonomously. Child
development experts explain this works because one, children process information
more slowly than adult too. The pause creates a decision
(30:12):
vacuum that the child feels the need to fill. Three.
It allows the child to feel autonomous in choosing to cooperate. Four,
It eliminates the power dynamic that drives resistance.
Speaker 3 (30:22):
So you're given you tell them something to wash your hands,
for example, and then you count in your head one, two, three.
I mean that's a lot eight seconds forever get.
Speaker 8 (30:34):
I'm going to don't you act Montana with that plastic
golf club and then he said he's like.
Speaker 3 (30:40):
To bang before.
Speaker 1 (30:47):
I think that works if you are in a situation
where you have the child's undivided attention. So if you're
at the sink and you're going to brush their teeth, yes,
so there is no nothing else going on, and they're
mucking around a bit, but that's the job. I cannot
imagine that working if you're on the side of the
road and the kid's about to bolt.
Speaker 3 (31:06):
Yes, yeah, it actually when as we walk back to
our cars yes to day at after Corey's little league,
Rap and I were jogging together and he went out
in front of me and then I saw the lights,
the reverse lights turn on in a car in front,
and I said stop and then it stops, you know,
and then he panicked and he stopped. But like I
(31:26):
saw him running and a car was going to reverse,
and if I didn't, if I waited eight seconds is god?
I agree that happens all the.
Speaker 4 (31:33):
Time, can you two try it?
Speaker 3 (31:35):
I do want to try it because he's not listening.
And yeah, my fear is is that, like you said,
with Harks, terrible things will happen in that eight seconds.
But I do want to try it because at the
moment I'll do like wash your hands, for example. And
this is one of my pet hates you know that
I'm in germophobe, is that he'll go to the toilet,
he'll do it up two and I'll go, okay, wash
(31:55):
your hands. And the idea of me counting for eight
seconds while he touches everything in the bathroom, including my toothbrush,
without me going.
Speaker 4 (32:04):
Washer in Okay. You wouldn't say that, though, would you.
Speaker 3 (32:08):
No, I wouldn't. I would say it like that. Actually silence,
I beat myself out. I'm silence my own.
Speaker 10 (32:17):
There.
Speaker 1 (32:18):
Okay, So you guys are going to go home and
try it on Huxy and RAF.
Speaker 4 (32:21):
Yes tonight, Yeah, yes, you got RAPI tonight I do.
Speaker 3 (32:25):
Yeah, you got a Huxy. I have to.
Speaker 8 (32:29):
He's going your so maybe be a good night maybe not.
I don't know if you will find out.
Speaker 1 (32:35):
Yeah, I have another hack, yes and thirteen one O six.
Speaker 4 (32:39):
Five If you have the boarding school. What age are
we talking like? Under eight?
Speaker 3 (32:46):
Yeah, also wraps five turning six. So yeah, any hacks
are welcome.
Speaker 1 (32:50):
Desperate for any I have one, but I'd be curious
as to you whether you think it will work. It
did work on my three boys, okay, and it's counterintuitive
to absolutely everything, particularly for me.
Speaker 3 (33:04):
Oh god, alright, let's come back with that and anything
you've got thirteen one oh six fives out number. Now
with the podcast, we've been talking about this eight second rule.
I got this from coach Mary on Instagram, who is
saying that if you've got a child that doesn't listen,
which I do that, try saying something and then waiting
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eight seconds before you say anything else, before you repeat
yourself or try and catch them up. Wait eight seconds
count in your head.
Speaker 1 (33:30):
We all have gone to the fact that another child
may die.
Speaker 17 (33:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (33:36):
The eight seconds is unfolding, but you got to try
it this afternoon.
Speaker 8 (33:40):
Watching Running Away.
Speaker 3 (33:43):
That's right, This is the long way you can go
sixty Yes, path added ting gave, But we're getting other hacks.
Speaker 14 (33:51):
What have you got, calf Make sure the child's looking
at you.
Speaker 12 (33:55):
That can actually eye contact?
Speaker 3 (33:57):
Eye contact?
Speaker 12 (33:58):
Okay, my contact you've got to you've got to have
them looking at you when you're actually asking them to
do something. Notice I say asking and not telling.
Speaker 4 (34:07):
True, No, I know. I used to get told that
all the time.
Speaker 12 (34:09):
I'm like, my son's school teacher did exactly what you did.
Robin was a quiet voice.
Speaker 4 (34:18):
Was very funny, she had a.
Speaker 12 (34:19):
School foot, she had a classroom of boys, and that's
what you do to get them to shut up.
Speaker 4 (34:27):
Many spring woods. What's your hack?
Speaker 17 (34:31):
Well, I have a five training six year old as well,
and my hack is because asking her to do something
in wating eight seconds would never work. I can't see
that working if you give them a choice. So you say,
like you want them to brush their teeth, and they
obviously aren't going to go. So do you want to
skip to the bathroom today? Or did you want to
jump to the bathroom? And then she'll pick what she
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wants to do and it works without fail every time.
Speaker 3 (34:54):
That's good advice. That's good. Then it's a bit of
a game. And give options, two options and they both
in the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (35:02):
Yes, our boss Ali has a really good one with
her daughter of Rosy six.
Speaker 16 (35:08):
Yes, we're seeing a free tour, so it would be
you know, time to pick up the toys.
Speaker 15 (35:14):
Pick up the toys, pick up the toys.
Speaker 1 (35:15):
My favorite for showering is the front bottom, back bottom song.
Speaker 3 (35:19):
How does that go? Allie?
Speaker 15 (35:21):
Front bottom?
Speaker 3 (35:42):
You can imagine, Pezza, you can. I just love that.
You know Rosie is going to be at a slumber
party one of these should are we.
Speaker 2 (35:50):
All doing now? With Coos?
Speaker 3 (35:56):
The Daily Mail Australia Everything you need to know now
Robin's entertainment news for me.
Speaker 1 (36:10):
New Zealand Prime Minister Jacinda r Dern has a documentary
coming out that is going to hit cinemas in June.
Speaker 4 (36:16):
It is called A Different.
Speaker 1 (36:17):
Kind of Power and she's been going around the world
publicizing it and has appeared on Oprah Winfrey. This woman
has been a heroine, a hero for me for so
many years.
Speaker 12 (36:29):
I've admired from afar and this is the first time
I've had the opportunity to sit down and have a
conversation because she's written a book called.
Speaker 4 (36:36):
A Different Kind of Power.
Speaker 15 (36:38):
And I love that you call it that because the
different kind of power is kindness.
Speaker 7 (36:44):
Absolutely, It's all those things that you think are witnesses
or a taught a witnesses.
Speaker 1 (36:49):
Empathy, sensitivity, self doubt and humility, so.
Speaker 4 (36:54):
A different kind of how.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
The book is out on June third, and the documentary
is coming out later in June, but not everyone is
happy about it. A number of journalists in New Zealand,
one in particular by the name of Chris Lynch, is
saying that Jacinta left New Zealand in a horrible state.
She lives in a parallel universe and what the people
perceive her to be around the world is not how
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most New Zealanders see her.
Speaker 3 (37:19):
Well, last time you spoke about Justinda on our show
that yeah, the text line did have comments from people going, well,
I'm a Kiwi and I hated it. Really, it's really interesting.
Speaker 4 (37:29):
Mind you to be fair? Isn't that what politics is about?
Speaker 3 (37:32):
And certainly Kiwi's very similar to Australians in that there's
not a lot of polligues that we.
Speaker 1 (37:37):
Love, doesn't as someone representing the rest of the world, Yes,
I'm all good.
Speaker 3 (37:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (37:44):
Deborly Faness is going to get the ultimate revenge on
Hugh Jackman, who apparently had an affair with his Broadway
costar Sutton Foster, and Deborle was left devastated. They are
now divorced after nearly thirty years of marriage.
Speaker 4 (38:00):
But guess what she's doing. She's written a.
Speaker 1 (38:02):
Book, know holsbar divorce Diary, detailing the painful splits.
Speaker 3 (38:12):
What's your take on this? Because I saw every story
I read about this as people saying I've lost all
respect for you. You know is now he's off with
a younger woman, which is an interesting thought because Debra's
fifteen or fourteen years older than him, so the age,
the age thing shouldn't matter. I mean, he was with
an older woman, he's now with a younger woman. He
doesn't care about age, obviously.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
The one thing I will say is that what I
learned from going through big traumatic events in my life,
they always tend you do not make any major decisions
until after the first anniversary.
Speaker 3 (38:45):
Right.
Speaker 1 (38:45):
You need to just hold your line, retreat, take care
of yourself, and then after a year has gone past, reassess,
because all emotions have a chance to wash.
Speaker 2 (38:57):
Out just a little.
Speaker 8 (38:59):
So I reckon that just take a chill.
Speaker 1 (39:01):
I think if she wants to write a book, she
absolutely should, But if it's a book full of revenge
and nastiness, the only person that's going to hurt is
her that is what.
Speaker 3 (39:08):
I would say. That's good advice, great advice, center text.
Speaker 4 (39:13):
I don't think she'll care.
Speaker 1 (39:15):
And Mariah Carey, he's teasing us with a brand new album.
She's dropped this on Instagram. It's been seven years. Basically,
she's sitting looking totally glamorous in a car. She plays
with the radio and then this. The camera pulls back
to show a number plate. But the audio is hard,
but have a listen.
Speaker 11 (39:42):
The appreciation.
Speaker 3 (39:47):
Flap.
Speaker 1 (39:47):
The lumber plate is MC sixteen. If a new album
is coming, it will be her sixteenth.
Speaker 3 (39:58):
By the way, so that you know that you know
the note of the car.
Speaker 1 (40:02):
Else is listening to Mariah Carey and Corey is the.
Speaker 3 (40:07):
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Keep that in. Come on, it's the podcast. What does
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My friend Heidi like you know how people love music.
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She loves comediansky that's her thing. She will spend money.
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She won't go to concerts, she doesn't go to dinner
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She went to Melbourne last weekend another weekend before and
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that she knew that much.
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They were just really good. Yeah, that's cool.
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So she sends me little comedy things that she likes.
And this guy, Michael McIntyre. Oh yes, it's been around
for guy, very good.
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He's visited, he's visited down South, he's come down to
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So yesterday afternoon after school pickup, we headed to Davies
Park in West End, the South Logan Club, which is
where Corey's Little League big game will happen in about
ten days time, and we had our first training session
with the eleven twelve year olds representing north Side South Side.
It's been a lot of fun picking the teams, getting
them ready and the emphasis on just having fun and
(05:01):
enjoying footy.
Speaker 8 (05:02):
Yeah, and at the start of the session, obviously they're
all quiet and which is which is which I was
actually ready for. And yeah, I just wanted to see
the difference from the start at the finish and at
the end. We had all these questions for the kids,
and yeah, they gave you our answers.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Which was it was good to hear.
Speaker 8 (05:18):
What did you learn today, mate?
Speaker 9 (05:19):
How to cush the ball?
Speaker 10 (05:20):
That putting your hands up on a butterify.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Big, how to share the ball and show teamwork and
be a team plower.
Speaker 8 (05:29):
Yeah, but it's important, isn't it works better?
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Yeah, when you talk to each other your work.
Speaker 11 (05:33):
Yeah, each a lot of fun. And how to catch
the ball and don't cutch it in your chest.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Because it will take longer to pass.
Speaker 10 (05:41):
Passing running like hit movement and stuff.
Speaker 12 (05:44):
I was.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
I liked the passing drill.
Speaker 6 (05:48):
It was like intense and like the challenge like who
would win.
Speaker 8 (05:56):
Yeah, it was good because a lot of them said
the communication part, you know, as just talking it actually
makes it more more fun and more enjoyable because you're
chatting and then you start having fun and you start
learning more because you listen in it and your content
and you're talking and then you make friends.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Yeah they noticed though, and massive shout out to you choreotes,
because you do really walk your talk. Is that I
saw you You would point to individual kids, so they
knew that you were saying good things about them.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
True.
Speaker 8 (06:27):
Yeah, And well, because all kids just want a little
bit of recognition for trying. So if I can see
that trying and they do small things like at one stage,
I was just telling kiddy it was a good tag.
You know, it was a good tag. Like I can
see the effort. I can see they're actually trying. So
you just want to see kids try but enjoyed.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
But you found something, I mean, and it wasn't hard,
don't get me wrong, but you absolutely found something unique
to say to each and every one of them repetitively
throughout the whole time.
Speaker 8 (06:56):
Yeah yeah, yeah, And you're into me about being repeted
all the time, but it works. You're just gonna be
so repetitive.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Well, you do well, speaking of repetition, because Matt Gillett,
of course played twelve games for Australia, twenty for Queens
and two hundred for the Broncos. He was there. He's
coaching the North Side. And what we discovered, Corey is
that you just basically stood next to Jillo and yelled
everything he said about a half second after he yelled at.
Speaker 8 (07:23):
Running back and just run, just run back, run back,
run back, run back run back, carries jo back jong
back those.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
The small ones. Okay, you ain't carried carries. It was
just the whole day.
Speaker 10 (07:41):
Hey, it.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Was a good stand next to someone who knows what
they're doing. I want to get music kids and yell
what they yelled.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
Okay, so who's going to win?
Speaker 8 (07:51):
Hey, South Now we're gonna have fun, have fun.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Yeah, if you want to come and see the game's
it is going to be a great day at at
South Slogan. This is on on the fifteenth of June
at at South Slogan in west End, and you want
to be there for one thirty to get there for kickoff.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
I mean, they've heaps of other games, but clearly this
is the.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
Most exactly.
Speaker 13 (08:15):
Now with the podcast a hit, this game is handled.
Speaker 9 (08:24):
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Speaker 14 (08:34):
Ten days from game day.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
It'll be a fantastic afternoon June fifteenth, Davies Park at
West End at the South Slogan Club there, it's a
big Broncos into activation. There'll be thousands of people there
and our kids get to play before the game and
then again at halftime.
Speaker 8 (08:52):
It's gonna be huge.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
It's going to hit.
Speaker 8 (08:53):
It's four games on the day, games on the day,
so yeah, there should be back there.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
But the most important will be Cory's little league at coach.
Yesterday afternoon at Davis Park, we got together and the
kids got together for the very first time to get
out onto the field and just get a handle of
what was going to go on. But they were all
brought to the Davies Park by their parents and so
as they sat back and the parents were great.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
They were actually they.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
Were really lovely.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
They were so happy their kids were having a great time.
One family drove from not Kobulcher, Caloundra. Oh wow, it's
a right and Bilbert like all over Brisbane to be
a part of this. But you know, there were varying
stories and I literally went from one parent to the
next as we were watching what was going out there
and I could see little Addison.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
She was probably the tiniest, the twelfth wonder.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
Yes, she's one.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Of twelve kids, and she seemed to be having a
great time.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
So I asked her mum, Tanya, what was going on?
Speaker 6 (09:52):
Cobby has a tendency to scream on the field, does
she she does?
Speaker 3 (09:57):
About?
Speaker 1 (09:57):
What?
Speaker 4 (09:58):
About anything?
Speaker 6 (10:00):
If someone's not standing in the right spot?
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Sure, let it, okay, watch out for Addison dictating terms,
got it.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
She'd had a big day that day.
Speaker 8 (10:10):
I was watching and I'm like, oh, she looks she's
having farmer. She doesn't want to kind of you do it.
And I went over and I'm.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
Like, what's wrong? I get in there and start running.
I said, I thought you were a bit of a mayhem. Yeah,
she goes, I'm sure, my b I'm sure.
Speaker 8 (10:22):
And then I've bet it. After she had eight hundred,
four hundred, two hundred one hundred.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
In the long jump, I'm like, I'm so sorry, I believe.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
But did you notice? I thought this was really sweet.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
You may not have noticed, but she actually had her
blue ribbons attached to us.
Speaker 4 (10:44):
We did have a bit of a moment where everyone
kind of went.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
A kid called LEVI got sort of knocked out by accident.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
Is knocked out. He just had it knocked knocked down.
Speaker 8 (10:55):
It just got knocked down by and they were competing
like yeah and yeah, we all ran over, but there's
a little as a boy that ran over first to
help him up, wasn't it.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
That's exactly right.
Speaker 1 (11:05):
His name is Jack, and I spoke to his mum,
Jane Jane. We called Jack or Jack was called the
bulldozer because he's like fearless and out there on the team.
But we just had a bit of an incident where
a kid could leave.
Speaker 4 (11:19):
I went down, and you.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Know what, Jack is the only one that went over
to pick him up and see if he was okay.
Speaker 10 (11:25):
That's his nature. He's really caring person. Had an incident
at school this year where a teacher fell and he
was the first responder to her.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
She broke a hip.
Speaker 10 (11:34):
And he's been like reck like notified at school and
identified and given a certificate.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
And mate on the pitch, he's not like that.
Speaker 15 (11:46):
No, but he just yeah what he's playing.
Speaker 10 (11:48):
But he does think secondly about other people because that's
his nature.
Speaker 4 (11:54):
And yet on the field he's like a bulldozer.
Speaker 10 (11:58):
Yeah, just runs straight and doesn't care who he runs into.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
But as he knocks him down, he then goes back
and picks him up and feels bad.
Speaker 4 (12:09):
That's what we want kids with hearts and good on
he does. He does worry about this next person. Y.
Speaker 8 (12:14):
Yeah, he was a quiet boy. Yeah, but yeah, he
just wanted to play. I don't think he likes you
and everyone told that he just wants to go out
there and train.
Speaker 4 (12:23):
Get on with it.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Well, the last one I want to bring to you, Corey,
because I know you saw her was little well Savannah.
Speaker 4 (12:29):
She was the last one that was named.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
We had one of the twins pull out yesterday and
Savannah got called up at the very last moment.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
But we found out from her mum, a Kayla.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
That Savannah has had a real journey when it comes
to her rugby league.
Speaker 6 (12:45):
She's been called some not so nice names because she
she's a little bit biger than some of the other kids,
and she has been called names by some of the
boys and they've targeted her as well, like tried to
hit her hard.
Speaker 12 (12:56):
One of your kids got punched in the back of
the head three times.
Speaker 6 (12:59):
Yeah, and said and she obviously being a girl, And
it is hard for the girls in the footy as well.
There's not a lot of them. And the coach she's
had for the last couple of years, him and his
wife and now on our clubs committee, and they've pushed
real for the girls team because they want to get
girls into Pooty, like they're really trying to promote it.
Speaker 4 (13:14):
So she sounds like she's a great player too.
Speaker 6 (13:16):
She loves it. Like I said, she takes some hard
hits and she gives them back. But it takes her
good to open up. But she'll once she's in there,
she'll be like happy and laughing and chatty. But yeah, no,
she's smile all day.
Speaker 3 (13:27):
She had so much ticket, didn't she. Yeah, she just
have going on. She just like she didn't stop.
Speaker 8 (13:31):
She didn't like, she didn't like not want to be
a part of it. And it was it was right
at the start. I just gave her a quick compliment
about like just doing a certain movement and a pattern,
and after that she she just kept going. And after
that I said, you really enjoy passing the ball and
shanned around. I said, if you run the ball, you
can run. She goes, No, I love doing all of it. Yeah,
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she she just loves it. She had a good time,
which was nice.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
It was a great day and if you want to
be there to see the big game, it's on June fifteen,
Davies Park at West End, the South Slogan Club.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
Now with Courios the podcast and.
Speaker 3 (14:08):
We have produced a Toddy this year. I should say
this just quickly. Yesterday when we had Cory's Little League,
I have my five year old Raft with me and
you said something. You said, yes it is, and Raft
just stopped, looked at you confused and said why did
you say yes it is?
Speaker 7 (14:25):
And I said no, I said yes it is, and
he goes, oh, yes it is.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Okay, okay, I'm not one of.
Speaker 10 (14:33):
You.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
Explained that you're from somewhere else.
Speaker 10 (14:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (14:35):
I was like, I've got an accent, I'm from New Zealand. Yes,
and then he walks away, Yes it is.
Speaker 3 (14:41):
All day.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
But I never realized that possibly the reason why we
have the honor of having you as part of our
team is that you've bolted from New Zealand because you
have the most horrendous story I know.
Speaker 7 (14:53):
And this is years ago, but I was working in Auckland,
which is obviously the biggest city in New Zealand and Ponsonby,
which is a central city suburb, and the car park
for work was out the back, but it had a
ninety minute limit on it, right, I would always get
stuck in meetings. I'd be busy, i'd be in the air,
I'd be doing something and I wouldn't get the chance
to move my car. So every day I was getting
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a sixty five dollar ticket every day, every day, and
if you didn't pay that, it became eighty five dollars
within five days.
Speaker 8 (15:26):
So you said, no car park.
Speaker 7 (15:27):
No, we had to either pay for parking down the
road or move your car every ninety minutes.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
Okay, Why didn't you do something else like surely ubering
public moving the car to a parking station.
Speaker 7 (15:41):
Well, I thought every day i'd say a reminder, I'll
move it. Yet today I've got it. I'll definitely remember.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
Nope.
Speaker 4 (15:47):
Okay, So this accumulated for how long?
Speaker 7 (15:49):
It was a six month period, and there was also
a little period there where I didn't have a warranton
read Joe, and so I was getting, on top of
the sixty five dollars, a four hundred dollar fine.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
Oh my goodness, it's accumulated to a figure that you
claim is the second highest in you How do.
Speaker 4 (16:07):
You know it's the second highest.
Speaker 7 (16:09):
It went viral back last year. There were so many
news articles, a news story and a journalist did like
some digging into it, and I was just sick and high.
Speaker 3 (16:20):
On a current affair.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
Okay, do not know the figure. We want to see
if anyone in Brisbane can come close.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
Okay, thirteen one oh sixty five is our number to
talk us about your parking five tally see if you
can go close to Todd's and we'll get Todd's number
in the next few minutes.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
So thirteen one oh sixty five how much have you
had to pay in fines?
Speaker 2 (16:50):
Now with Correos the podcast.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
Producer Todd, who's moved here recently from New Zealand. In
the studio where us, Todd was telling us the story
how you made the news in New Zealand.
Speaker 7 (17:01):
I went viral last year.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
For the moment for the post amount of parking lit
because you used to get a parking fine pretty much
every day at work.
Speaker 7 (17:09):
Yeah, so it was over a six month period, I
got a sixty five dollar ticket if I didn't move
my car within ninety minutes at work. That then became
eighty five dollars within five days. There was a small
period there where I also didn't have a warrant till Rigio,
and that was a four hundred dollars fine a day
each time was two hundred for Rigo, two hundred for warrant.
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Wow, what did you think was going.
Speaker 7 (17:32):
I don't know what I thought was going to happen,
but I didn't expect it to be so high. I mean,
the footwell of my back seat, Yeah, granted that was full.
Speaker 14 (17:40):
I it when you.
Speaker 3 (17:41):
Fill the back seat of your car with tickets, that's
an indicator that you're in trouble.
Speaker 7 (17:44):
Todd well, yeah, but I thought maybe there was five
thousand dollars worth.
Speaker 3 (17:49):
Yeah, okay, So you called.
Speaker 7 (17:51):
I called the Ministry of Justice, okay, yes, And I said,
how many fines do I have? She said to me,
fifteen thousand and counting. She said that coming in every.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
Day, fifteen thousand.
Speaker 4 (18:07):
The report in New Zealand. I just found the article.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
How someone rack up? Well, they're saying seventeen thousand, but
I guess that's seventeen thousand parking fines over six months.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
Sit quick, I know how much were you even earning
at this place you can't have been.
Speaker 7 (18:24):
No, I could never pay that off?
Speaker 3 (18:26):
So what did you do?
Speaker 10 (18:27):
How do you?
Speaker 3 (18:27):
How do you pay that off?
Speaker 7 (18:28):
Well, after I got off the phone when they told
me I had seventeen thousand dollars worth of parking fines,
I hung up, cried and called Mum and Mom, I
need help, and then I had to work out a
payment plan.
Speaker 4 (18:42):
It took me seven years to.
Speaker 7 (18:44):
Pay it off.
Speaker 4 (18:44):
Did you have to pay off every cent?
Speaker 7 (18:46):
Every single cent?
Speaker 3 (18:47):
The other thing?
Speaker 7 (18:48):
I could have done community service, but I didn't feel
like that was part of my personality and I didn't
think I said anymore.
Speaker 14 (18:58):
Community services off brand.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
But here's the thing.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
Yes, we thought that no one could beat that in Brisbane.
Speaker 4 (19:08):
We were wrong of beat mea how much?
Speaker 14 (19:13):
Twenty two thousand guys?
Speaker 3 (19:14):
My brother twelve two thong?
Speaker 14 (19:18):
He has a learning lesson?
Speaker 3 (19:19):
No? Is it all parking fines? Yeah?
Speaker 14 (19:23):
I've been stuff mostly parking. I don't care.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
He just doesn't care. Is he ever going to pay
him off? Do you reckon?
Speaker 9 (19:31):
He's above?
Speaker 14 (19:34):
Did the Cowboys supporters.
Speaker 3 (19:39):
Out?
Speaker 2 (19:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (19:41):
The defense restaurant.
Speaker 4 (19:43):
You probably have to declare bankruptcy to get rid of that.
Speaker 7 (19:46):
That was also another option that I can do that.
Speaker 8 (19:48):
No, they chase it or they just keeping.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
Now they keep chasing you.
Speaker 4 (19:54):
New Zealand smaller than Australia, you can't run as far.
Speaker 3 (19:59):
That's true. That's true. They just had a group text.
Does anyone who told.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
Jimmy Astley okay, Todd had seventeen, Dan's brother had twenty two.
Speaker 16 (20:10):
How much Jimmy, I have twenty five thousand dollars right now?
A little bit over that. Yeah, well I've paid a
bit off, but yeah, still about twenty grand on it too.
Speaker 4 (20:22):
How did you do that, Jimmy?
Speaker 16 (20:25):
About five years of parking in the city, working in
the city and just struggling to find car parks and
going no stuff, I'll just go there. And I found
out they were just emailing the fines to me for
a while. They had an old email address. Oh yeah,
and yeah, I didn't even realize I was getting fined
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for about two years.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
So you never got the physical ticket. He's like, what, Yeah, yeah,
I thought I was in. Did you come back Jimmy
for the wind? How did you? And so how did
you find the old email?
Speaker 17 (21:02):
Well?
Speaker 3 (21:03):
I didn't.
Speaker 16 (21:03):
I've got a ticket on my car one day called
up about it and They're like, well, well you owe
this month.
Speaker 14 (21:08):
I was like, and so you're on some type of
payment plan now, Jimmy, is that what you're doing?
Speaker 12 (21:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 16 (21:19):
Yeah, I'm paying slightly but surely in the arts. But
you're getting there.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
Okay, I just checked just for a friend. You cannot
be jailed solely paying failing to pay a parking finding.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
That's good today.
Speaker 14 (21:38):
And Jimmy for winning this game a hundred bucks to
spend it.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Game over.
Speaker 14 (21:45):
Do a driving game, not a parking game, Jimmy, Ronie.
Speaker 3 (21:52):
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In that time, we had a three month break. I
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met my sister's boss. One thing led to another. He
came over and had a one night stand, and then
I found out eight weeks later that I was pregnant.
And now for sixteen years, my ex husband thinks our
daughter is his, but he has not.
Speaker 8 (23:10):
So you were a fresh out of school, yes.
Speaker 13 (23:12):
Of seventeen and a half.
Speaker 3 (23:14):
Wow.
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Wow, so you were young. This was a moment in
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Definitely, And sadly my husband now of nine years doesn't
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Speaker 3 (23:36):
Yes, he does know. Okay, so this is your sister's boss.
Speaker 17 (23:38):
Yes.
Speaker 4 (23:39):
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Speaker 13 (23:40):
I felt that I had to tell him because he
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a child, and he not know that he never had
a child because I found out I was eight weeks pregnant.
And then the moment I got home from the doctors,
I messaged him and told him. He didn't speak to
me my whole pregnancy. My ex husband was there with
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he messaged me. At the end of the year, and
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it's a girl. And then he didn't speak to me
for another couple of months and then he's like, I
want to see my daughter. I'm like, okay, he's seen
her for ten minutes and I haven't heard him for
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now fifteen years.
Speaker 4 (24:25):
Wow wow?
Speaker 13 (24:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (24:27):
So how long did you stay together at the time
with the child with their exts?
Speaker 13 (24:32):
We were together for ten years and married two years.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
Two years and at this stage with your sixteen year
old child, he still thinks he's the dad.
Speaker 13 (24:45):
Yeap, My sixteen year old still thinks that my's husband
her father.
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Speaker 13 (24:55):
I've been holding it in for so long and I
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Speaker 13 (25:03):
I do feel relieved, I really do. And it's a
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secret from my child's father as well as my family.
When I found out I was pregnant with my daughter,
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more and start and say words I had. I felt
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Speaker 4 (25:41):
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Speaker 17 (25:45):
Oh?
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Speaker 13 (25:51):
I've kept this to myself.
Speaker 4 (25:52):
Yeah, well well done. That is very very brave.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
Do you think it will change the decisions you make
from now on?
Speaker 13 (26:00):
Oh yeah, definitely. I I do want to tell my daughter,
but then I don't because then I don't want anything ruined.
Speaker 3 (26:11):
It's an unenviable decision you've got to make there. I
don't know what the right one is. You just wouldn't
know what would happened. No, yelp.
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Do you know what, Nikita?
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Then I'm trying to save up so hot because I'm
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to supporta Tokyo and Singapore. So yeah, I'm saving up
so hot so that's going towards it, and I need
to get our passports like as possible.
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Speaker 4 (26:59):
Yep, Well you've spoken it out loud now and hopefully that.
Speaker 1 (27:04):
May feel make you feel a little bit different about
the situation. But thank you, thank you so much.
Speaker 13 (27:10):
I heard that the lady's story about her husband had
that other family, and if she can do this and
she has three children, you know how I can just
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Li isn't how much it's light You just seem like, yeah,
it seemed like this is a big weight off your shoulders.
Speaker 13 (27:29):
It really is, to be honest with you, really really.
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Speaker 13 (27:36):
Thank you so much, thanks for sharing, thanks to my story.
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Speaker 8 (28:00):
So relieved.
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Speaker 3 (28:14):
Yesterday, great day at Davies Park.
Speaker 8 (28:17):
We've done lots of hard work.
Speaker 3 (28:19):
You know, Corey was integral to the coaching process.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
Well, Yellow, the other coach said it, and then you
just said it louder so made sure everyone hurt.
Speaker 3 (28:30):
Yeah, you were like a megaphone.
Speaker 14 (28:32):
He was speaking the wisdom and you just yelled into
the crowd.
Speaker 3 (28:36):
Yes, exactly. And my little boy, Rafael came along. I
picked him up from school and I had a bit
of fun. I noticed that actually a couple of the
Kiss staff were looking after him while I was out
on the field. Is that what you were? Yes, it is.
And they said, geez, they said he's fun, isn't He's smart?
And sassy? I said, yes, he's all of those things
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and not great at listing, although he was good with them,
which is frustrating sometimes sometimes he's good with other people
and not with me. And yeah, and so I've my
algorithms on Instagram. Saw my desperation. But coach Mary. A
video from a laodical coach, Mary, who's a parent child
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relationship expert, came up about kids that don't listen and
white listen and she offered this advice about an eight
second rule.
Speaker 11 (29:28):
The revolutionary research has discovered that there is a precise
moment when children shift from not listening to you to
spontaneously cooperating. It's called the eight second rule. Here's how
it works. When you give a request to your child,
take a complete pause of eight seconds after saying it,
don't repeat, don't explain, simply wait in silence, watching them
with a neutral expression. The study result showed that seventy
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three percent of children respond positively within those eight seconds.
Parents typically interrupt the weight after only two to three second.
Repeating request reduces the likelihood of response by forty percent.
Children need this time to process and decide autonomously. Child
development experts explain this works because one, children process information
more slowly than adult too. The pause creates a decision
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vacuum that the child feels the need to fill. Three.
It allows the child to feel autonomous in choosing to cooperate. Four,
It eliminates the power dynamic that drives resistance.
Speaker 3 (30:22):
So you're given you tell them something to wash your hands,
for example, and then you count in your head one, two, three.
I mean that's a lot eight seconds forever get.
Speaker 8 (30:34):
I'm going to don't you act Montana with that plastic
golf club and then he said he's like.
Speaker 3 (30:40):
To bang before.
Speaker 1 (30:47):
I think that works if you are in a situation
where you have the child's undivided attention. So if you're
at the sink and you're going to brush their teeth, yes,
so there is no nothing else going on, and they're
mucking around a bit, but that's the job. I cannot
imagine that working if you're on the side of the
road and the kid's about to bolt.
Speaker 3 (31:06):
Yes, yeah, it actually when as we walk back to
our cars yes to day at after Corey's little league,
Rap and I were jogging together and he went out
in front of me and then I saw the lights,
the reverse lights turn on in a car in front,
and I said stop and then it stops, you know,
and then he panicked and he stopped. But like I
(31:26):
saw him running and a car was going to reverse,
and if I didn't, if I waited eight seconds is god?
I agree that happens all the.
Speaker 4 (31:33):
Time, can you two try it?
Speaker 3 (31:35):
I do want to try it because he's not listening.
And yeah, my fear is is that, like you said,
with Harks, terrible things will happen in that eight seconds.
But I do want to try it because at the
moment I'll do like wash your hands, for example. And
this is one of my pet hates you know that
I'm in germophobe, is that he'll go to the toilet,
he'll do it up two and I'll go, okay, wash
(31:55):
your hands. And the idea of me counting for eight
seconds while he touches everything in the bathroom, including my toothbrush,
without me going.
Speaker 4 (32:04):
Washer in Okay. You wouldn't say that, though, would you.
Speaker 3 (32:08):
No, I wouldn't. I would say it like that. Actually silence,
I beat myself out. I'm silence my own.
Speaker 10 (32:17):
There.
Speaker 1 (32:18):
Okay, So you guys are going to go home and
try it on Huxy and RAF.
Speaker 4 (32:21):
Yes tonight, Yeah, yes, you got RAPI tonight I do.
Speaker 3 (32:25):
Yeah, you got a Huxy. I have to.
Speaker 8 (32:29):
He's going your so maybe be a good night maybe not.
I don't know if you will find out.
Speaker 1 (32:35):
Yeah, I have another hack, yes and thirteen one O six.
Speaker 4 (32:39):
Five If you have the boarding school. What age are
we talking like? Under eight?
Speaker 3 (32:46):
Yeah, also wraps five turning six. So yeah, any hacks
are welcome.
Speaker 1 (32:50):
Desperate for any I have one, but I'd be curious
as to you whether you think it will work. It
did work on my three boys, okay, and it's counterintuitive
to absolutely everything, particularly for me.
Speaker 3 (33:04):
Oh god, alright, let's come back with that and anything
you've got thirteen one oh six fives out number. Now
with the podcast, we've been talking about this eight second rule.
I got this from coach Mary on Instagram, who is
saying that if you've got a child that doesn't listen,
which I do that, try saying something and then waiting
(33:24):
eight seconds before you say anything else, before you repeat
yourself or try and catch them up. Wait eight seconds
count in your head.
Speaker 1 (33:30):
We all have gone to the fact that another child
may die.
Speaker 17 (33:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (33:36):
The eight seconds is unfolding, but you got to try
it this afternoon.
Speaker 8 (33:40):
Watching Running Away.
Speaker 3 (33:43):
That's right, This is the long way you can go
sixty Yes, path added ting gave, But we're getting other hacks.
Speaker 14 (33:51):
What have you got, calf Make sure the child's looking
at you.
Speaker 12 (33:55):
That can actually eye contact?
Speaker 3 (33:57):
Eye contact?
Speaker 12 (33:58):
Okay, my contact you've got to you've got to have
them looking at you when you're actually asking them to
do something. Notice I say asking and not telling.
Speaker 4 (34:07):
True, No, I know. I used to get told that
all the time.
Speaker 12 (34:09):
I'm like, my son's school teacher did exactly what you did.
Robin was a quiet voice.
Speaker 4 (34:18):
Was very funny, she had a.
Speaker 12 (34:19):
School foot, she had a classroom of boys, and that's
what you do to get them to shut up.
Speaker 4 (34:27):
Many spring woods. What's your hack?
Speaker 17 (34:31):
Well, I have a five training six year old as well,
and my hack is because asking her to do something
in wating eight seconds would never work. I can't see
that working if you give them a choice. So you say,
like you want them to brush their teeth, and they
obviously aren't going to go. So do you want to
skip to the bathroom today? Or did you want to
jump to the bathroom? And then she'll pick what she
(34:51):
wants to do and it works without fail every time.
Speaker 3 (34:54):
That's good advice. That's good. Then it's a bit of
a game. And give options, two options and they both
in the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (35:02):
Yes, our boss Ali has a really good one with
her daughter of Rosy six.
Speaker 16 (35:08):
Yes, we're seeing a free tour, so it would be
you know, time to pick up the toys.
Speaker 15 (35:14):
Pick up the toys, pick up the toys.
Speaker 1 (35:15):
My favorite for showering is the front bottom, back bottom song.
Speaker 3 (35:19):
How does that go? Allie?
Speaker 15 (35:21):
Front bottom?
Speaker 3 (35:42):
You can imagine, Pezza, you can. I just love that.
You know Rosie is going to be at a slumber
party one of these should are we.
Speaker 2 (35:50):
All doing now? With Coos?
Speaker 3 (35:56):
The Daily Mail Australia Everything you need to know now
Robin's entertainment news for me.
Speaker 1 (36:10):
New Zealand Prime Minister Jacinda r Dern has a documentary
coming out that is going to hit cinemas in June.
Speaker 4 (36:16):
It is called A Different.
Speaker 1 (36:17):
Kind of Power and she's been going around the world
publicizing it and has appeared on Oprah Winfrey. This woman
has been a heroine, a hero for me for so
many years.
Speaker 12 (36:29):
I've admired from afar and this is the first time
I've had the opportunity to sit down and have a
conversation because she's written a book called.
Speaker 4 (36:36):
A Different Kind of Power.
Speaker 15 (36:38):
And I love that you call it that because the
different kind of power is kindness.
Speaker 7 (36:44):
Absolutely, It's all those things that you think are witnesses
or a taught a witnesses.
Speaker 1 (36:49):
Empathy, sensitivity, self doubt and humility, so.
Speaker 4 (36:54):
A different kind of how.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
The book is out on June third, and the documentary
is coming out later in June, but not everyone is
happy about it. A number of journalists in New Zealand,
one in particular by the name of Chris Lynch, is
saying that Jacinta left New Zealand in a horrible state.
She lives in a parallel universe and what the people
perceive her to be around the world is not how
(37:17):
most New Zealanders see her.
Speaker 3 (37:19):
Well, last time you spoke about Justinda on our show
that yeah, the text line did have comments from people going, well,
I'm a Kiwi and I hated it. Really, it's really interesting.
Speaker 4 (37:29):
Mind you to be fair? Isn't that what politics is about?
Speaker 3 (37:32):
And certainly Kiwi's very similar to Australians in that there's
not a lot of polligues that we.
Speaker 1 (37:37):
Love, doesn't as someone representing the rest of the world, Yes,
I'm all good.
Speaker 3 (37:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (37:44):
Deborly Faness is going to get the ultimate revenge on
Hugh Jackman, who apparently had an affair with his Broadway
costar Sutton Foster, and Deborle was left devastated. They are
now divorced after nearly thirty years of marriage.
Speaker 4 (38:00):
But guess what she's doing. She's written a.
Speaker 1 (38:02):
Book, know holsbar divorce Diary, detailing the painful splits.
Speaker 3 (38:12):
What's your take on this? Because I saw every story
I read about this as people saying I've lost all
respect for you. You know is now he's off with
a younger woman, which is an interesting thought because Debra's
fifteen or fourteen years older than him, so the age,
the age thing shouldn't matter. I mean, he was with
an older woman, he's now with a younger woman. He
doesn't care about age, obviously.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
The one thing I will say is that what I
learned from going through big traumatic events in my life,
they always tend you do not make any major decisions
until after the first anniversary.
Speaker 3 (38:45):
Right.
Speaker 1 (38:45):
You need to just hold your line, retreat, take care
of yourself, and then after a year has gone past, reassess,
because all emotions have a chance to wash.
Speaker 2 (38:57):
Out just a little.
Speaker 8 (38:59):
So I reckon that just take a chill.
Speaker 1 (39:01):
I think if she wants to write a book, she
absolutely should, But if it's a book full of revenge
and nastiness, the only person that's going to hurt is
her that is what.
Speaker 3 (39:08):
I would say. That's good advice, great advice, center text.
Speaker 4 (39:13):
I don't think she'll care.
Speaker 1 (39:15):
And Mariah Carey, he's teasing us with a brand new album.
She's dropped this on Instagram. It's been seven years. Basically,
she's sitting looking totally glamorous in a car. She plays
with the radio and then this. The camera pulls back
to show a number plate. But the audio is hard,
but have a listen.
Speaker 11 (39:42):
The appreciation.
Speaker 3 (39:47):
Flap.
Speaker 1 (39:47):
The lumber plate is MC sixteen. If a new album
is coming, it will be her sixteenth.
Speaker 3 (39:58):
By the way, so that you know that you know
the note of the car.
Speaker 1 (40:02):
Else is listening to Mariah Carey and Corey is the.
Speaker 3 (40:07):
Twelve essentially.
Speaker 2 (40:11):
Ron in kid Now Choreos, the podcast
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