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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's Robin and Keith for Breakfast, Great break You're listening to.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
The Robin Kid podcast.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
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It's Robin and Kip on demand the podcast. I've got
some homework for you at halftime that you will enjoy.
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I am ninety eight percent positive that don't you think
about the two percent? Think about the ninety eight Okay, right.
Speaker 5 (00:32):
You're listening to the Robin and Kip podcast.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
Now, our next caller wants you to get involved, opening
up for opinions from you.
Speaker 6 (00:43):
Please, we want your opinions on this thirteen six five,
So let's talk to Melinda.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Good morning. What's going on.
Speaker 7 (00:50):
I have my son who is getting married, and he
had a falling out with all the family except for
my husband, over his new girlfriend he's only had for
that year. So I'm not invited or any of my
other family fail my husband, and I'm not sure if
I should feel it's good that my husband's going and
not me, or should I be angry, or should I
(01:11):
let my husband go or what? Man, It's like one
of these situations where we were all very close, and
within less than a year this girlfriend came in the
family and literally destroyed it all.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Can you give us a bit of background, like what
was the catalyst for the big falling out?
Speaker 7 (01:28):
Basically because I was talking to his ex girlfriend because
she wanted to keep in touch with my grandchild and
they live in Melbourne, and this girlfriend didn't agree with it,
and she's thinking that if they can't see the daughter,
nor should I see my grandchild. And so it just
went from there, and different things that we used to
do together, like have family dinners and go out on
(01:48):
the weekend, she always made an excuse up, Oh, no,
we're busy. I need him with me this weekend. And
when we spoke up and mentioned, hey, you haven't been
hanging out with us much, she kind of said, yeah, no,
he's busy, and it ended up being a big fight.
And then all of a sudden, my husband popped up.
So they're getting married, so oh okay, and he goes, yeah,
but you're not invited, And when I read my son
(02:09):
to see what's gone on, he gets definitely, you're not invited,
only daddies, and I thought, oh my god, Caleen.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Yeah, there's a couple of questions though.
Speaker 6 (02:17):
So he has a child with someone else in Melbourne
and has nothing to do with that child.
Speaker 7 (02:22):
Oh, it's all going through court at the moment.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
Yeah. I know when I broke up with my partner
and we had a baby together, and I know my
mum was still in contact with Amba, and sometimes I
felt like she crossed the line. I get the tension
because there are those moments where you're like, go, hang on,
whose side are you on? And you obviously used to
just want to be a grandma, So you've got to
play both sides. You know, it's hard, especially when there's
a new relationship that go why are you talking to them?
Speaker 6 (02:47):
And let me ask you this, if you were invited
to the wedding, how would you behave.
Speaker 7 (02:52):
I would be happy that he's found someone that he
can actually be with.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
But did they know that? Does he know that? Does
she know that?
Speaker 8 (03:00):
That?
Speaker 7 (03:00):
Actually has never spoke to me about that.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
No?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Did you ask to be invited?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
No?
Speaker 7 (03:05):
I didn't. He just like rubbed in my face and
we're getting married and you're not invited, and no one
else but my dad is and he's going to come
and have a good time with us, and kind of
rubbed in my face that way. And this has been
gone on since maybe February this year.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
There's a mother of only sons.
Speaker 6 (03:22):
One thing I learned fairly early on, and particularly as
they developed into young men, that if I ever pitied
myself against someone they were in love with, I would lose,
and I would expect to lose, because if I've done
my job correctly, I need to let my boys go
(03:43):
out into the world and make their own decisions and mistakes.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Ye.
Speaker 6 (03:48):
So I kind of it's interesting this question because I
understand as a mum you want to watch your son
get married, but if you genuinely don't like his partner
and she doesn't like you, that it won't be a
great day for either of you. And maybe it's better
that he's up front and saying I don't want you
to come.
Speaker 7 (04:07):
Because I know I know what you mean.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Yeah, you have.
Speaker 6 (04:11):
To respect that if she doesn't want you there, then
he's going to side with her exactly.
Speaker 7 (04:16):
Yeah. But should I let my husband go be angry
at him that he's invited?
Speaker 6 (04:20):
I think it's an interesting question, and we can certainly
put it out there thirteen one oh sixty five because
people would have similar experiences, and I'm sure there are
a lot of people who are going to disagree with
what I just said, But then isn't it better that
someone from his family is there and if he has
a good relationship with them? I mean, it's hurtful, don't.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Get me wrong, it is.
Speaker 7 (04:39):
I just think that I should be there. I should
be the one to going, you know what I mean?
We should all be going. Actually, the whole family, he's
other two sisters and his other brother as well, should
be going.
Speaker 6 (04:47):
Okay, Well, then what I would then say to you,
if it's that imperative to you, what do you have
to do to make it right?
Speaker 7 (04:52):
I have no idea because we've reached out to him
twice and it just ended up in a big flamed argument.
Speaker 6 (04:58):
I think that if you desperately want to be there,
then you're willing to do anything to be there, then
you have to make it up with his wife.
Speaker 7 (05:05):
That's it exactly exactly.
Speaker 9 (05:08):
I know that.
Speaker 6 (05:08):
Yeah, okay, but that's just my opinion that people may
have vastly different ones, and we will absolutely put it
out there and see what they say.
Speaker 7 (05:16):
Thank you very much, The Robin and Chip Podcast.
Speaker 4 (05:24):
Often with weddings, it's the in laws that make it difficult.
Like it's a tough day, it's a very busy, stressful
day for a lot of people. But the in laws
is where he can make or break the day.
Speaker 6 (05:34):
Yeah, and you know we've had this scenario with Melinda
There is her son's wedding is coming up very very soon,
and she doesn't like the new bride the fiance, and
the fiance does not like her, and she is not
invited to the wedding. But she's kind of also challenging
her husband has been and whether she should. In inverted commas,
let him go on our text line read this, lady,
(05:58):
don't get angry at hubby first going to a wedding,
support him rather than act like a child.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Be grown up about it.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Yeah, that's so interesting, isn't it. So what do you reckon?
Thirteen one oh sixty fives our number? Cody out of Kalanga. Hey,
here you go, Hey Cody, what are your thoughts?
Speaker 10 (06:14):
Well, personally, I would be a bit anger if my
partner decided to go. Haven't been in a similar situation
to do with a wedding. However, my brother's now ex
wife used to make.
Speaker 11 (06:27):
Up lies all the time about us, do whatever she
could to isolate him from the family. Yeah, the only
problem we had was whenever we did try to reach
out and fix things, and just like family dinners or whatever,
it just kept making it worse and worse no matter
what we did, right, like to the point where she
even said that my child was actually my brother's kid,
(06:50):
just to try and cause drama.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
In the family, saying that you had slept with her.
Speaker 11 (06:55):
Saying that my brother slept with my wife.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
Oh right, the other way around.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
Yeah, okay, And is she still you said, ex wife?
She's gone, yes, but yeah, she ended up cheating on him,
so not great.
Speaker 11 (07:08):
But before that, it was like two or three years
where I hadn't seen my brother who we used to
do everything.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
To other And is he back in the family now
and pretends it never happened?
Speaker 10 (07:18):
Yep, Inmily, she's gone. We just both led to the
Pokemon World Championships together, like it's it's very good now.
Speaker 6 (07:26):
Well, you know, he and jealousy are really powerful emotions.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
Jesseph Runcorn, what do you like to say?
Speaker 12 (07:33):
Yes, I actually didn't invite my own mother to my wedding. Wow,
how come it was a really hard decision And it
wasn't you know, sever at the moment in any way,
it was years and years of boundaries being pushed, and
(07:55):
it was probably, you know, one of the hardest decisions
of my life, to be honest.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
You can still hear how long?
Speaker 4 (08:01):
How long ago was it?
Speaker 7 (08:02):
Yes?
Speaker 12 (08:03):
One year today?
Speaker 4 (08:04):
One year today?
Speaker 12 (08:06):
Yeah, October is my wedding anniversary.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
What happened?
Speaker 6 (08:11):
Just it was years and years of just misunderstanding and
feeling like you aren't being understood.
Speaker 12 (08:18):
In a way. It was also you know, realizing that
there was a lot of abuse in our family as well,
and when I spoke up about it, you know, the
blame was always shifted, and I decided for myself that
I didn't want that relationship anymore, and that was kind
of the last point for me.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
You obviously are still hurt by the decision and how
hard it was. Do you regret it?
Speaker 13 (08:43):
Never?
Speaker 10 (08:43):
I will never regret it.
Speaker 6 (08:44):
Okay, mate, Can we do something nice for you on
your wedding anniversary?
Speaker 7 (08:51):
Of course?
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (08:52):
I want to give you a hair Blimba vouchers so
you can go and get your hair done and that'll
make you.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
Feel super special. Nice. And we've also got a double
gold class.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
Past to Event Cinemas, so you can take your hobby
and go and have a really special night at the movies.
Speaker 12 (09:07):
Thank you. I've listened to you guys a lot and
I really appreciate that. Thank you so much.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
Jess.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
Happy anniversary mate.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
Yeah, wake up with Robin and Kid.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
It's kIPS fifth for Christmas.
Speaker 4 (09:25):
So Rob last week I decided to say it on air,
not necessarily to do a radio thing, but because I thought,
if I say it on air, then I've got to
do it.
Speaker 6 (09:32):
Yes, you've decided to lose ten killos in ten weeks.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
Yes, we've brought hot Nathan, the aforementioned Hot Nathan into
the studio Morning Nathan. We're allowed to call him that
because CASA Producer has.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
Married him and that's what Chi calls it.
Speaker 4 (09:45):
Yes, and he's a pte at at adapt in Nunda.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
So how is he going to do it?
Speaker 7 (09:50):
Like?
Speaker 6 (09:50):
What would you say? Like kicking off straight away? There
are so many people listening who actually want to know
this for themselves.
Speaker 8 (09:56):
To Yeah, like, obviously there's this whole ten killers ten
weeks thing.
Speaker 14 (10:00):
I am really like, we don't do any of that.
Speaker 8 (10:02):
Where big advocators for long term adherence to exercise, and
we believe that compounded over five, ten, fifteen, twenty years
will have you quite healthy by the time you're sixty
seventy eighty years old. And that's what I like to
get people to think about. I really believe in resistance
training and strength training. Kip does a little bit of
that at the moment. There's a lot of research out
there that just shows that one to two resistance training
(10:24):
exercise they can reduce it. I'm talking about long term stuff.
You're thirty percent mortality down the line, and this is
just not like just anything. Doesn't have to be a
chest date. It doesn't have to be an arm day.
I don't have to be a leak that don't have any
heaviest dead as you've ever done. If we can put
a little bit of lean muscle mass on with some
resistance training, do a little bit of structured aerobic conditioning,
which is more of your steadier zone two stuff, tell
(10:44):
build a little bit of an aerobic base. What we'll
find in the long term is that you'll actually be
able to burn more fat while you're at rest because
you have a little bit more lean muscle mass. You'll
have a better aerobic capacity. Your body will become a
little bit better at using energy while you're sitting here
talking at five am in the morning.
Speaker 4 (11:00):
Okay, so that's what and what are your thoughts on alcohol?
Because I've made a conscious decision once I started this
was like, okay, so maximum two nights a week that
I can have some beers. In fact, I only used
grand Fine, so I only did Saturday over the weekend.
I've got those four x one which are only seventy
nine calories, but I did have nine.
Speaker 3 (11:18):
Okay, sure, it's a long game.
Speaker 10 (11:23):
Three.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
How does that.
Speaker 5 (11:31):
Look?
Speaker 14 (11:31):
I love as well. We have to think about lifestyle here.
Speaker 5 (11:34):
I'm probably going to have beer.
Speaker 4 (11:35):
Yeah, I was at your wedding. You can have you
can have nine.
Speaker 8 (11:39):
Alcohol is actually surprisingly very calorie or killogual dense, yes,
So you do have to think about that side of
things as well, and then also what it then does
to your recovery. Like let's say you know, Kip on
Friday or yeah, Friday, you had a great resistance training session,
felt it you would have needed that next day to
recover and build and come back for your training the
(12:02):
next week. If you've had a big session on the biers,
your recovery will be obviously compromised.
Speaker 14 (12:07):
But compounding over time.
Speaker 8 (12:10):
And that's what one thing I get people think about
it's you know, missing one day of training or you know,
having you know, a little bit of a cheat or
an unhealthy meal isn't going to be the big thing.
Speaker 14 (12:19):
It's going to be compounding that over the multiple weeks.
Speaker 8 (12:22):
That's where the stuff really cat And it's the same
with training and good habits doing it. And after a
couple of weeks, I would say, you may not even
lose a couple of kilos. But when you think about
compounding that over time, and it's going to come eventually,
and then.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
This is a lifestyle choice.
Speaker 6 (12:37):
I mean, this is what I think. This is the
cycle that everyone gets caught into. You know, you've got
I'm going to lose ten kilos and then you stop
doing all the things that got you to lose ten
kilos and it kind of is for the rest of
your life.
Speaker 8 (12:49):
Like it has to be right, yeah, And for that
it also has to be enjoyable too, Like you have
to find a mode of exercise that is enjoyable. That
being said, in my opinion, as an exercise scientist, I
like to look at the science backed approaches for a
lot of things. I relatively have a good idea of
what will work the best, but there needs.
Speaker 14 (13:09):
Also be other elements that you enjoy as well.
Speaker 8 (13:10):
Some people might be yoga, spin class, wherever it is,
but you need to get those one to two resistance
training sessions in a week as well.
Speaker 4 (13:15):
Your lovely wife cast her and I often talk about,
you know, what we're doing diet and exercise wise, because
we both feel like we're struggled street. Do you ever
give her advice or do you shut the hell up
about that?
Speaker 14 (13:30):
Not unsolicited?
Speaker 3 (13:31):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (13:32):
Yea interesting?
Speaker 14 (13:33):
To be fair, she does ask a lot in terms
of advice.
Speaker 8 (13:36):
Okay, and I says, okay, we're coming down to the
gym now, and she'll come most of the time. Once
she's there, though, it's it might be the small fact
of me telling her put an extra five kilos on
the bar that could lead to an argument.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
She's not the quietest, but we might come back with this.
But you've got some ideas of exercise, so could you
give us some quick exercises we can do around here?
Speaker 5 (13:59):
Absolutely, you're listening to the Robin and Kit podcast.
Speaker 4 (14:06):
With about ten weeks to score holidays. I'm trying to
get fit for Christmas.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
It's kIPS get Fit for Christmas swear out.
Speaker 4 (14:15):
So we've enlisted the help of pot and a film
the pt from adapt at Nanda also the husband of
cast for producer produce the Gas. Yes, and so we're
just talking about exercises that we can do for people
that can't necessarily get to the gym. You could do
them at home or even right here in the studio.
Speaker 8 (14:33):
What I like to do, especially with body weight, you
don't have a lot of resistance that you can add
on top of your body weight. So what you can
do is actually add what we call a tempo or
a speed to your reps. So doing this will create
a lot more tension through the muscle that we're trying
to target, typically through the eccentric phase of the movement,
which is the lowering phase. We're going to really slow
(14:55):
that down so we can feel it a lot more
and all of a sudden, fifty reps be achievable with
this technique if you go slow, slow, and with more range.
Speaker 14 (15:04):
We're going to do twelve squats.
Speaker 8 (15:06):
We're going to do a four second lower a two
second pause at the bottom. At the bottom, I want
you to try and push your hips below the knees.
Speaker 4 (15:14):
Okay, ready, all right, all right.
Speaker 8 (15:16):
Ready, okay, going down one two three one, two, three
four one.
Speaker 4 (15:25):
Okay and again okay for yep.
Speaker 14 (15:27):
Two two three.
Speaker 5 (15:30):
Four one.
Speaker 4 (15:33):
Sorry okay three three four one two and oh yeah
that pause, that pause you already feelings.
Speaker 14 (15:44):
Not even the way that one up boom.
Speaker 8 (15:49):
I think he keeps getting his hips on the songs
on black O p.
Speaker 5 (15:55):
Eight more the Robin and Chip Podcast.
Speaker 4 (16:02):
I swear we did. I swear we did twelve like
fifteen times. That was Yeah, that was good. That pause
is good, isn't That's where you get the little burn.
Speaker 14 (16:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (16:08):
So when you're looking at increasing muscle size, taking away
any elastic energy from the tendons and ligaments really important.
Speaker 14 (16:14):
So the muscles do quite a bit of work. You
out of breath, fair mate a little bit?
Speaker 4 (16:17):
Yeah that's good. That's your legs are the big big muscles,
aren't they, So you just use so much more energy.
Speaker 8 (16:22):
Yeah, so a squat, But looking at any lower body movement,
I could do obviously a lunge with a very similar
slow tempo. If I was to do this at home,
it's something that I probably need, yeah, you know, to
actually overload my quads and glotes. Someone who hasn't done
a lot of exercise. Will probably find a lot of
soreness just from doing those slow tempos at body weight.
(16:42):
So quite good bang for buck at home session. And
you can apply that to anything. A push up, you know,
just go.
Speaker 14 (16:51):
Yeah, you can really chuck in a nice slow tempo.
I find that works.
Speaker 4 (16:53):
Well, that was good. Yeah, how did you go? Robbie
managed to splash everyone pretty much.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
It's kIPS get fit for Christmas.
Speaker 4 (17:03):
I'll worry out. Yes, watch this space. We're going to
do more of that with hot Nathan. We'll get him
to come and show us some other exercises you can
do at home or at work.
Speaker 6 (17:10):
Yeah, it'll be up on our social media. Because wearing
a short Sassin Biger leopard print.
Speaker 3 (17:16):
Glitter skirt was not my best wardrobe chose not today,
not your funest moment.
Speaker 5 (17:22):
It really wasn't wake up with Robin and kid.
Speaker 6 (17:29):
We've had lots of texts today four oh nine nine
seven three nine seven three and a couple came through
which I didn't anticipate. There's a brand new trend happening
in Brisbane, peeps, if you want to get on board.
It's only been in the last couple of weeks and months,
but Dinah's are choosing to eat alone as an act
of self care.
Speaker 4 (17:46):
Yes, well, I mean, I guess the popularity of it
has only been a couple of months. But you've been
doing it for a long time, haven't you.
Speaker 6 (17:52):
Yeah, because you know, I live alone. My kids live
somewhere else. I beg them to come with me. They
say no, But no, that's not why. I just I
live right near the Paddington Strip. There's some really cool restaurants.
It's a fun vibe. I like not having things kind
of coming at me all the time. I like watching
people and yeah, it's come back. That's saying there's been
(18:14):
a ten percent increase only in the last couple of months,
and people who do do it spend thirty eight percent
more than if they go with other people.
Speaker 4 (18:21):
I find that amazing. I just yeah, I don't know.
I mean, with all the uber eats and the takeaways, like,
why wouldn't you just eat it home.
Speaker 6 (18:28):
Because then you don't get to go out and it's
so interesting. You find this really uncomfortable.
Speaker 4 (18:34):
Yeah, I would be uncomfortable, especially like you know, cafes
I can do. You can have your laptop or whatever else.
But the idea of being out at dinner, ordering courses
and having a wine and sitting by myself.
Speaker 6 (18:43):
No, okay, Well, Linnelle says she was ahead of the trend.
She's been doing this for a while. How about hey, guys,
just on a hang on, Sorry, I'm looking.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
I'm with Kip.
Speaker 6 (18:53):
I can't stand being by myself. I had kids young
and have never really been alone, so it thinks it's
come from But even as my kids are growing up
and I can leave them, I don't like to eat alone.
But my best friend, who single, absolutely loves it and
does everything alone, including world travel.
Speaker 4 (19:11):
Wow. See that's different, isn't it. Imagine Trout.
Speaker 3 (19:14):
Yeah, I've done a lot of travel by myself.
Speaker 4 (19:16):
Have you all alone? I think I did, maybe did
a little bit of Yeah. I did a little bit
of backpacking.
Speaker 6 (19:20):
I left when after high school I went overseas by myself.
Speaker 4 (19:23):
Did you how long for.
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Thirteen months?
Speaker 4 (19:27):
Thirteen months? Or alone?
Speaker 3 (19:29):
My youngest is cruising out, found himself a girl.
Speaker 4 (19:32):
Girlfriend he does now, Yeah, but he did it the
Whiteman way.
Speaker 3 (19:36):
Yeah, the white Mean way.
Speaker 4 (19:38):
You go alone, you find yourself and missus quick smart,
Who we going? Do you want to go with? Linnelle?
Speaker 7 (19:48):
No?
Speaker 3 (19:48):
I reckon go with Hailey.
Speaker 4 (19:49):
Hailey's the one. Yes, thank you Hailey. So you have
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they'll do as for today. If you haven't got the podcast.
If you don't get the podcast regularly, you should. It's
on iHeartRadio. We do some extra bits as well.
Speaker 3 (20:08):
Yeah we do.
Speaker 6 (20:09):
And also check out our social media because you'll see
both Kip and I doing a whole lot of squats
me in an inappropriate shorts. Yes, and keep getting really,
really really puffed.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
I didn't find that difficult at all.
Speaker 5 (20:21):
Shut up, Boom. You're listening to the Robin and Kid podcast.
Speaker 4 (20:32):
Halfway through the podcast? Now do you before I give
you this homework, do you have any entertainment news you
want you want to get to?
Speaker 3 (20:37):
There's not a huge amount.
Speaker 6 (20:39):
Isla Fisher and Emma Roberts were front and center at Zimmerman.
Speaker 12 (20:45):
Now.
Speaker 6 (20:45):
Zimmerman is a wonderful Australian. In fact, I know Naomi
loves zimmer Man.
Speaker 4 (20:49):
Yes, and they.
Speaker 6 (20:51):
Were part of the closing for the Paris Fashion Week
and Isle of Fisher and Emma Roberts were front and center,
which is kind of cool.
Speaker 4 (20:57):
Now, No isla Fisher. But which one's Emma Roberts Roberts niece.
Speaker 3 (21:01):
Okay, and I could list off, but is she Australian.
Speaker 4 (21:04):
No, she's not Australian.
Speaker 3 (21:05):
Okay, So Julia Roberts niece Australia.
Speaker 4 (21:08):
Well yeah, now she's a niece someone could have got
married somewhere. No, no, okay.
Speaker 6 (21:12):
No, even even Matt Damon, who spends huge amounts of
time here and his daughters are not Australian.
Speaker 4 (21:19):
They're kind of Australian. They will be Australian enough by
the time they're teenagers.
Speaker 3 (21:23):
Okay, okay, what else?
Speaker 4 (21:25):
Okay, so this is your homework. It's a show that
Naomi has just just absolutely dove deep into. It's called
The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.
Speaker 6 (21:39):
Okay, so it's not. It's not the one that's been
around forever and ever.
Speaker 4 (21:43):
I don't think sister.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
Wives, no, no, no secret Lives.
Speaker 4 (21:50):
Their mom. It's a group that got themselves famous for
mom Talk, where there was a bunch of them were
doing their dances on TikTok as Mom's hot mum just
as it turns out, and so yes, they're Mormon wives.
They have there's a cheating, cheating scandal, there's like a
partner sharing it is, it's wild.
Speaker 3 (22:13):
Are they good looking?
Speaker 4 (22:15):
I mentioned hot three times. Yes, that's what I meant
by hot.
Speaker 6 (22:21):
Okay, I don't know, but hang on wait wait wait
wait wait wait, wait about it, because in my brain
I went, well, no, I'm not actually, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (22:32):
Going to get my stuff with trouble. I get myself
in trouble if I go where my brain made. Okay,
so yeah they're hot. Great, they're very hot. Yes, sure, awesome.
Speaker 4 (22:42):
But the hottest one becomes repulsive as you get to
know her, I think anyway.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
As in as a nasty human or becomes ugly. Yeah,
she gets ugly.
Speaker 4 (22:50):
I'm not that she actually her body doesn't change or whatever,
her face doesn't change. But as you get to know her,
you're like, all of a sudden, you just get I
don't know, she becomes disgusting to me because she's so awful.
Speaker 3 (23:00):
Okay, yeah, I'll watching it.
Speaker 4 (23:02):
Watch it.
Speaker 5 (23:03):
You're listening to the Robin and Kid podcast.
Speaker 15 (23:10):
Our next guest is an Australian singer songwriter who was
runner up Shout or What On the first season of
Australian Idol is Shon. He's had ten consecutive top ten singles.
Speaker 1 (23:24):
What About Me.
Speaker 5 (23:27):
Now.
Speaker 15 (23:28):
He's celebrating twenty years since the release of That's what
I'm talking About Watch.
Speaker 6 (23:37):
Now.
Speaker 15 (23:38):
He's back on tour and also performing at this year's
Groundwater Country Music Festival. Today, Robin and Kip Welcome Shannon.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
No, we like to call him nod.
Speaker 4 (23:52):
He make very good Welcome.
Speaker 3 (23:54):
Where in the countryside are you?
Speaker 16 (23:58):
I'm just at home of asually heading end of the
gym and then someone rang up and I wasn't in
the schedule, so sorry about that, guys. We're all good.
Speaker 4 (24:09):
No dramas, mate, No drama, no way.
Speaker 3 (24:11):
So where are you living now? Though?
Speaker 13 (24:13):
Open than Northern Rivers mate, Not fine, just over the
bordery Lismal.
Speaker 4 (24:16):
Oh yeah, no, it's okay, all the rivers and you're
actually farming like you're on a farm, just a big property.
What do you got going?
Speaker 16 (24:21):
Yeah, you gotta hands, mate, she's a bit of a
tree farm. But we've got we're got some motivot tracks
and stuff like that for a bit of fun time.
Speaker 4 (24:28):
Can you believe it's been twenty years since that happened?
Since that's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 16 (24:32):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 17 (24:33):
You know, it's been such a crazy ride, the whole,
the whole last swing years. It's gone so far.
Speaker 16 (24:38):
Yeah, i'd see I'm looking in the mirror of it.
I doesn't see what twenty.
Speaker 13 (24:43):
Years, that's for sure.
Speaker 4 (24:44):
And you were ahead of your time really because you
think about Look Australia. Country music has always been a
thing in Australia, but it hasn't really been mainstream. And now,
I mean, look at what's just happening at the moment,
Luke Colmbs is selling out sun Corpse Stadium twice in
country music. When you were doing it on Idle, it
was kind of like it was almost a gimmick.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
Wasn't it, mate.
Speaker 17 (25:05):
Yeah, we definitely has grown so much out of the
last few years. I think, you know, when I first
started going out to America and writing in Nashville and
LA and New York and things like that, back then,
country is really starting to kick off and quickly becoming
the biggest market in the industry.
Speaker 13 (25:21):
So it's sort of a surprise that it's sort of
same things happened here, which I think fantastic and I
think I love country music and the substance in the
songs and the storytelling I think is brilliant.
Speaker 6 (25:32):
Ye, what would you be doing, Noisey if you hauldn't
have gone onto idle, if all of that stuff hadn't
have happened to you, where would your life be right now?
Speaker 16 (25:40):
I would be still playing music.
Speaker 17 (25:42):
That's That's one thing I've thought about before.
Speaker 16 (25:44):
I think actually speaking of the currency brought down the song,
I think it's still be doing that.
Speaker 17 (25:50):
So if someone asked him an interview, would be doing
and he said, I'd still be doing this what I'm
doing right now?
Speaker 16 (25:55):
But probably do know as many people.
Speaker 4 (25:58):
Yeah, that's right. I mean now now you know part
of this massive festival, the Groundwater Country Music Festival, which
is a huge three day festival. It's actually free on
the Gold Coast as well, with a massive lineup including yourself,
Casey Chambers, Adam Brand, Tim Hicks as tons of artists.
Do you love a festival feel mate?
Speaker 16 (26:16):
Absolutely? You know all they're just such They're so great
for us as the artist because you know, we.
Speaker 13 (26:21):
Get to we get to catch up for starters with
a lot of other friends that are always on the
road somewhere in a different spot. So it's a great
way of catching up with friends you haven't seen for
a while on the road. But then also mainly, you know,
you get to draw from other people's crowds too, So
you know this is because it's such a great event
and it's free. You know there there'll be all these
different artists fan based there, yeah, that are all there
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to support everyone. So it's just a really great vibe.
Speaker 17 (26:45):
And when you get big numbers like that, it's just
a thrill to plan.
Speaker 3 (26:48):
That's so cool.
Speaker 6 (26:49):
Now, Nlsy, you're a bit of an ossie legend in American
which is kind of being going to be a good
thing because Kip Whiteman.
Speaker 4 (26:55):
Look, look before we play this, before before I need
you two things before I play this, Shannon. First of all,
Queensland Health, who you probably wouldn't be aware, but Queensland
Health have been using songs up here and they tweet
them out with different lyrics to try and get important
health messages across with a bit of funky and so
I sort of then fleshed them out and actually made
(27:18):
them into proper songs some of their things. So that's
the first thing you need to know. The second thing
you need to know is that they're very interested and
teaching the kids that have got schoolies coming up that
sexually transmitted diseases are still a thing and you still
need to be careful and still need to wear condoms.
The third thing you need to know. The thing you
(27:40):
need to know is that is that you started it
by changing your own song for the Channel seven promotion.
What about.
Speaker 12 (27:52):
Yes, so.
Speaker 4 (27:55):
In that in that vein This is what I've put
together four Quisland Health, and then you promote about teaching
kids about venereal disease? This is what about VD? Now
there's a little boil hiding down the crevice of your underpants.
It's been itching down there, itch and a half a day.
(28:18):
It never seems like it is going to her stuff.
It gets spread around all over town. If only you
are aconom instead.
Speaker 5 (28:30):
What about v D? It isn't fair. I got enough
and there's more to share.
Speaker 4 (28:37):
You can't always see when it's lingering there, and you
can always.
Speaker 5 (28:44):
Cure it with the creed.
Speaker 4 (28:49):
What about v D? Oh I pull the joy?
Speaker 16 (28:54):
Oh no, you can truck, don't sit.
Speaker 4 (28:56):
Free, don't sit him free.
Speaker 16 (29:00):
I'm gonna.
Speaker 4 (29:02):
I'm going to add it to it.
Speaker 5 (29:04):
We're going to make a change. Nasey wants to add,
don't set it free.
Speaker 4 (29:10):
Okay, I think he braves k see that's why we
love it.
Speaker 16 (29:16):
Great, great message the kid Kidnam you listening, I'm up
for the challenge.
Speaker 5 (29:27):
It's all about it.
Speaker 4 (29:28):
It's all about it if you want to see Nailsey
as part of the Groundwater Country Music Festivals back on
the Gold Coast from eighteenth to the twentieth of October
and the twentieth anniversary of the platinum selling that's what
I'm talking about as the thirty track double CD which
is out right now. Thank you so much for joining us,
Narlsy get on.
Speaker 16 (29:44):
Your guys, Thanks so much and really looking forward to Groundwater.
I have to see you guys there.
Speaker 4 (29:47):
Cheers mate.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
The Robin and Chit Podcast.
Speaker 3 (30:00):
Rest Check day to day.
Speaker 4 (30:03):
So today, being the first day of the month, is
kiss Breast Check Day. Have you felt yours lately? As
the question we're asking, and since we've started this initiative
of the response has been quite incredible.
Speaker 6 (30:15):
Really yeah, absolutely, because if unless you're reminded to do it,
you just forget and then months go past, and you know,
fifty seven women are diagnosed every single day, and it
is the highest form of cancer in women. Yeah, it
is imperative and some men get it too, don't get
me wrong. True, But Rachel and Mattcravat you contacted us,
(30:35):
what did you want to say about this?
Speaker 18 (30:37):
Well, it's important to me. I've had three instances of
breast cancer, and I guess because through all the checks
and the mammograms and things like that, we've been on
top of it and been able to get things diagnosed
and actions before there's like a bigger problem.
Speaker 4 (30:55):
How old were you when you first find found something wrong?
Speaker 18 (30:58):
Thirty four? There was a month came up, so it
was within the breast, it was psych higher in the
chest wall, and it just popped up my GP. At
the time, I thought it was a like as cyst,
just keep an eye on it. But it was actually
the day before my wedding that a great pain just
shot through it and I went, that's not right. So
(31:20):
I had to wait until we got back after the
wedding and a little holiday to get it all checked.
And that's when I first found out. And then we
had our son afterwards, and then I had another one
like four and a half years later.
Speaker 6 (31:33):
Well you had another son or another cancer?
Speaker 18 (31:35):
No, another cancer. So they found another little it's called
it within the milk duct, but if it hadn't been checked,
it would have turned into a cancer.
Speaker 4 (31:45):
And that was the second one. And you were saying,
there's now a third. There's been a third.
Speaker 18 (31:49):
Yes, so last time it was like two years ago,
So that's fifteen years from the first time. I had
to have a double missctomy and the reconstruction because I've
been through chemo radiation and that's they can't offer that again,
so I get rid of that problem.
Speaker 3 (32:06):
And yeah, I'll just take them out.
Speaker 18 (32:09):
Monal treatment now. So yes, it's been a bit of
a road.
Speaker 3 (32:12):
Yeah, check your boobs, yank you boobs. Check your boobs.
Speaker 4 (32:16):
A good reminder to anyone listening. And maybe you've never
even thought to check them before, but today's the day,
so so check them out and don't forget the first
day of the month. We won't stop talking about it, no.
Speaker 6 (32:28):
Because it's the it's the changes that you feel within
your own body is what we're trying to do with
a regular checkup. And Rachel, you're a living and breathing
example of that. This thing can you I mean, obviously
it hasn't taken you out you're just living with it
and you're very successfully doing so.
Speaker 3 (32:46):
So thank you so much.
Speaker 18 (32:48):
Okay, thank you.
Speaker 5 (32:51):
Wake up with Robin and kid.
Speaker 4 (32:56):
You might have a take on this, this idea that's
apparently all over Brisbane, solo dining.
Speaker 3 (33:03):
Yeah, it's a new trend and it's timely kicked off.
Speaker 6 (33:05):
In the last couple of months, since the weather's starting
to get a little nicer. People, there's been a ten
percent increase in reservations of people eating alone. And that's
just as I said, in the last few weeks and months.
Speaker 3 (33:17):
And it's not because people.
Speaker 6 (33:19):
Are lonely and terrified and I don't know, but it's
about self care.
Speaker 4 (33:23):
Yeah. So the suggestion is that you're not going out
by yourself because no one wants to go with you. No,
you're going because you want to go by yourself.
Speaker 6 (33:31):
Yeah, that's right, and you want to fill up your
own cup like you're putting yourself first, which is actually
such a wonderful kind of revolutionary idea. The data shows
that thirty eight percent of those surveyed would opt to
dine alone when their social battery had run out, and
that compared to those who dine with us. Is this
is extraordinary for dining places, they spend on average ninety
(33:54):
four dollars per meal, which is a stunning thirty six
percent more than if they dine with someone.
Speaker 4 (34:00):
So round it up. You're going out by yourself. You're
dropping one hundred dollars on your meal by yourself. I mean,
I guess you can see how it's a bit more
because if you go with someone else, you can share,
you can get garlic bread between you or whatever else.
You know, but that's you. Do you do that to you?
You don't you go out to a restaurant by myself,
by yourself.
Speaker 6 (34:19):
I live in Paddington. I live really close to their strip,
that Paddington Strip. There's a great Japanese where they're super friendly.
There's a wonderful no nose Lebanese where you can sit.
Speaker 3 (34:29):
Up and order some grape food. I'm very happy to
eat on my own.
Speaker 4 (34:32):
Now those places you mentioned when I wasn't living in
America for that year, there's places you can go. You
can eat at the bar there. You can literally sit
at the bar and they bring your meal to you
and you sort of feel like you're part of it.
You talk to the barman. So I've done that and
the Japanese. I guess if you were sitting if you're
sitting up near that that don't need people, but you're
not sitting at a Are you sitting at a table
(34:52):
by yourself?
Speaker 3 (34:53):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (34:54):
Are you reading a book? No?
Speaker 3 (34:56):
What do you but the enjoying my own company? Oh?
I actually quite like myself.
Speaker 4 (35:04):
Yeah, I mean I like myself. I'm happy to be.
I love being at home by myself or in a
movie by myself, But I don't want to be out
by myself.
Speaker 6 (35:12):
This is intriguing to me because you are constantly as
an introvert extrovert, you were constantly wanting alone time, but
you don't want to state publicly that you're by yourself.
Speaker 4 (35:23):
No, yeah I would. I would definitely get takeaway and
then eat at home alone. That's fine, But being at
a table, being at a.
Speaker 6 (35:31):
Table public declaration that you are totally at one with
who you are.
Speaker 4 (35:38):
Well, I'm then I'm not. I don't want to do that.
Speaker 6 (35:41):
We've had this conversation before because in terms of relationships,
like I was that person that spent four to five
years alone working out all of my stuff. Yes, before
I was ready to go back out online because I
felt like I really needed to be the best version
of me. So I'm super comfortable with me and you
kind of went quickly into a new relationship, and can
(36:03):
I make you feel better? My counselor says that eighty
to ninety percent of men and women don't want to
deal with their own company and want they move shut
down in a crash burned move.
Speaker 4 (36:14):
Yeah, well, I feel like I mean, I didn't have
a girlfriend until I was in my twenty I was
single for a big chunk of my life. I feel
like I've had that. I've had my alone time.
Speaker 3 (36:24):
But you don't want it now.
Speaker 4 (36:25):
I mean, only only for a bit. I don't, and
I certainly not socially. I don't want to be out
and alone. The idea, okay, what is.
Speaker 3 (36:32):
The terror in that? Forew you were genuinely going.
Speaker 4 (36:35):
I don't know, miss why, But what's the point of it?
What's the point of being out if you're not talking
to someone? Who? Are you just sitting there by yourself.
Speaker 6 (36:43):
But you're enjoying really lovely food, You're not sitting at home.
There's something more tragic about being alone at home.
Speaker 4 (36:50):
I mean, oh no, I disagree. I think the tragic
is being out. I like being alone at home. I
think if I see someone eating at a restaurant by themselves,
I think, oh no, how sad for them?
Speaker 3 (37:00):
Really?
Speaker 6 (37:00):
Yeah, don't you think, Well, there's a super confident person
just doing their thing, living in their life.
Speaker 4 (37:05):
I go, Wow, not one person in this world wants
to sit with you.
Speaker 6 (37:08):
Oh my goodness, Oh it looks seriously thirteen one or
six y five Alana in our newsroom?
Speaker 3 (37:13):
Is she there's she's not. She's another one.
Speaker 4 (37:16):
He does this, he dines alone.
Speaker 3 (37:18):
Yeah, okay, you're okay, aren't you with this?
Speaker 4 (37:21):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (37:21):
I am.
Speaker 3 (37:22):
Well.
Speaker 19 (37:22):
I think I can't tell whether it's just something that naturally,
like I decided to lean into, or because you know,
I finished work at like midday. I've just always had
a job where I spend half the day alone. Anyway,
So most lunches, most afternoons, I'm always Yeah, I like it,
And it's really normal to me to be alone, but
not lonely.
Speaker 6 (37:44):
Lonely that is the difference, because I'm not lonely. I'm
not going to an establishment going please be.
Speaker 4 (37:49):
My friends, talking to the basketb trying to make friends
with the waiters.
Speaker 6 (37:52):
No, no, and I don't even I mean, I have
at times brought a book, but I don't want to
do that. I actually really enjoy just kind of feeling
the vibe in the space around me and just enjoying
the food and just being okay to exist in my
own space.
Speaker 3 (38:09):
That is fascinating to me.
Speaker 4 (38:11):
Yeah, what about if you started thinking about things, they
started self reflecting. I don't want to self reflect ah huh.
Speaker 3 (38:16):
And there is.
Speaker 6 (38:18):
The rub we found people terrified Jennifer Calimba, what do
you reckon about this?
Speaker 7 (38:27):
Dinah alone is one of the best things.
Speaker 18 (38:29):
I'm a man of three kids, so if I get
a chance to dine alone, I'm dunking on that.
Speaker 16 (38:34):
Yeah. Yeah, you're right.
Speaker 4 (38:35):
The more the more kids I had, the more I'm
starting to see.
Speaker 6 (38:39):
Your point is because you start thinking about the things
you don't like about yourself.
Speaker 3 (38:42):
What is it the self reflection?
Speaker 4 (38:44):
I don't know. I don't do it enough to find out.
Speaker 3 (38:47):
Well, would you go and do it? Can you do
it for lunch today?
Speaker 4 (38:50):
Can't I just watch sci fi?
Speaker 3 (38:52):
That's what I need? Okay, you desperately do not want
to have a look at myself.
Speaker 4 (38:56):
I just want to see people in space. Is it
too much task?
Speaker 5 (39:00):
You're listening to the Robin and Kid podcast.
Speaker 2 (39:06):
Robin's Entertainment News, This.
Speaker 3 (39:11):
Is so full on.
Speaker 6 (39:12):
A lawyer for the New Sean Diddy Coombe's accuser claims
that she's been contacted about the sale of one of
the Diddy tapes, specifically a pornographic video featuring the embattled
hip hop mogul plus someone more.
Speaker 3 (39:27):
O Hope Price high profile than the rapper.
Speaker 4 (39:32):
Now this this I reckon. What's going on with Diddy now?
Is like, because you know that there's tapes, you know
that there's been seized evidence, and the other famous people
that there's must be there must be other famous people
involved are doing everything they can to try and stop
it all from getting out there.
Speaker 3 (39:48):
But here's the cruel twist.
Speaker 6 (39:50):
Yeah, the person who has offered the video has it
as a third party. Yeah, and they're offering to sell
it to try and stop it being released. And the
person who features in it doesn't know.
Speaker 4 (40:04):
Wow, okay, so that it's out there.
Speaker 3 (40:06):
No, they don't.
Speaker 6 (40:08):
The speculation is that they didn't realize they were being videoed, right,
So this third party, goodness knows how they got it,
has has contacted the attorney saying, well, you can reach
out to this high profile person and you can see
if they want to buy it to stop me releasing
it to the general public, which is utter blackmail.
Speaker 3 (40:27):
Yes, it is black male anything flows in America.
Speaker 5 (40:32):
Right, Yeah?
Speaker 4 (40:33):
And interesting? Then, but does that mean that it can't
be used in the trial if it's out there? I
don't know.
Speaker 3 (40:38):
I don't know either.
Speaker 6 (40:39):
No, I would say that that could be used as evidence,
so they'll release it. Someone has been very opportunistic.
Speaker 3 (40:44):
To try and get cash for it.
Speaker 6 (40:46):
Wow, Okay, we were all talking. When was this this
time last year? Netflix and number one show Baby Reindeer.
Speaker 4 (40:55):
You say this woman's talking it? Yeah, like six months?
Speaker 3 (40:57):
Maybe why did it takes you so long to report it?
Speaker 1 (40:59):
I think she needs She comes to my work, my house,
she sends me emails like all the time.
Speaker 4 (41:04):
There's a reason you're keeping her around.
Speaker 3 (41:05):
And maybe it's like she gives.
Speaker 1 (41:07):
You really manly harms, haven't you? Chessel Jarline should even
the way together.
Speaker 4 (41:15):
That Martha just go back home.
Speaker 3 (41:17):
I was locky feeling you may be the death of me.
Speaker 4 (41:21):
I just binged that so hard last year and.
Speaker 6 (41:23):
It was such a crazy show, such a crazy thing. Well,
a judge has ruled that Fiona Harvey, the woman claiming
to be the inspiration for the character Martha, can pursue
her one hundred and seventy million dollar defamation lawsuit against
Netflix WHOA. The district judge concluded in his ruling that
the show was not a true story and that Netflix
(41:46):
made no effort to investigate the accuracy of the facts
presented in the show, nor did they take measures to
hide Harvey's identity.
Speaker 4 (41:55):
Wow, because it is basically, if you haven't seen it yet,
it is in first person in the main the man,
the comedian basically tells his story, but it's his side
of the story. Yeah, not hers, And the judge says,
not a real story.
Speaker 3 (42:07):
And also there was no counter story.
Speaker 6 (42:09):
I mean, if Netflix was smart, they would get Fiona
Harvey and say, let's do Martha's story story and rather
than pay you one hundred and seventy million in court,
let's settle and create.
Speaker 4 (42:25):
Goosebumps over the idea.
Speaker 1 (42:26):
I would love to watch that show, Martha's Story.
Speaker 3 (42:28):
That come on Newflix. That's how you get yourself out.
Speaker 4 (42:30):
Of this one exactly.
Speaker 6 (42:32):
And Travis Kelce now Taylor Swift, there's been so much
speculation she hasn't turned up for the last two Chief
games because the American football is back and everyone's saying
they're breaking up.
Speaker 3 (42:43):
They're breaking up.
Speaker 4 (42:44):
But no.
Speaker 6 (42:45):
If you know Travis Kelce, this was an interview he
did back in twenty sixteen, but it kind of explains
why he's not fast.
Speaker 9 (42:52):
If you're dating a professional athlete, I do not believe,
at least for me, that you have got all the games.
I mean there's eight home games, eight week games, plus playoffs.
I don't even expect my parents and my friends to
make every single game.
Speaker 4 (43:05):
Yeah, so they go.
Speaker 6 (43:06):
When you go friends Taylor Swift, you can't possibly expect
her to do it.
Speaker 4 (43:09):
No, and he doesn't have to go to every one
of her shows. You just call it. Even you know
you got to step to a lot, you did.
Speaker 6 (43:15):
Get to a lot, he would probably be more bored
than she would be, because at least in a game
of football, you don't know what's going to happen.
Speaker 3 (43:21):
We know the set list off by heart.
Speaker 4 (43:24):
Yeah, they're going. If I have to listen to shake
it off one more time, fanniam, I'm gonna next somebody.
Speaker 3 (43:30):
And every single fan of Taylor Swift's going.
Speaker 5 (43:33):
I'll take it.
Speaker 1 (43:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (43:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (43:36):
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