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Speaker 1 (00:12):
I heard podcasts, hear more Kiss podcasts, playlists, and listen
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Speaker 2 (00:21):
Robin and Kids Now with Chios. The podcast.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
It's Robin and Kip Now with Coreo. It's on Kiss
ninety seven three.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
I think you guys are going to name me to all,
but anyway, I'll let me just give you the context,
because everything's got to be in context. Yes, I have
bought some Well, I'm just about to buy something. Well,
I think I'm going to do it that's worth a
lot of money and I'll never be able to use it.
Speaker 4 (00:45):
Now, before I tell you this story, what.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Do you think it is on marketplace?
Speaker 4 (00:48):
On marketplace?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Okay? And it's thousands either, yeah, and you're never going
to be able to use it. All right, it's something
for your house. It's something that that that the boys
are going to like in your house. That's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
What about you, Corey?
Speaker 5 (01:04):
I got nothing, honestly, jewelry or something. If it's going
to be worth more of it, I can use your.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Oh okay, you're saying it it's like something something antique.
Speaker 5 (01:14):
I don't know, an old I don't.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Know's it goin of crazy value?
Speaker 4 (01:18):
Maybe I don't know. See, I don't even know a
lot about it.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Okay, so let me give you the context with this conversation.
So the first week of the holidays, I lost a
wonderful friend that I've known for like thirty years. She
died of cancer. It was really crappy, and her funerals tomorrow,
and one of her big things was that she said,
You've just got to live your life. And you know, me,
with my history, there's a lot of people who have died,
(01:43):
and I'm constantly reminded that you have to push outside
your boundaries, say yes till the universe says no.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Right.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
So, the last couple of days I've already lost you.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Do you can drive it if you want to.
Speaker 6 (01:59):
This sounds like an emotional purchase. Yes, yes, yes.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
So the last couple of days, I've been looking for
some Harley Davidson leather pants because it's coming into winter,
and I ride on the back of my boyfrid Friend's bike,
and I happened to find Harley Davidson dirt bike. So
Harley's traditionally can't go on dirt roads because they get hurt.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
Road bikes they're road bikes.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
And so Olivier my boyfriend and I've been talking about
wanting to do more trips around Australia and there's a
lot of dirt roads. Yes, so I found a dirt bike.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
So you're going to buy. But you can't ride a motorbike.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
That's right. Right, So here's the thing, right, I have
a squirrel account.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
It's a little odd. Who am I squirreling from person?
But I put money into this squirrel account in case.
You know, I want to do fun things and I
haven't spent. You know, I've been saving, not buying a
lot of clothes recently, and I've there's money in this
squirrel account, and I thought, why.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Not buy an off motorbike that you can't ride, that's right,
so that you'll you'll be on the back of it.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Yes, you've you've bought it.
Speaker 5 (03:09):
Well, have had a mechanic look at it.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
That's a good.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Practice, I can tell you better than a mechanic.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Because Olivier is part of the Veterans Motorcycle Club, so
he actually I suggested it to him. He thought it
was a cracking idea and one of his veteran guys
went and had a look at it yesterday and said it's.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
A really great bike.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Is he a mechanic?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Well, they know about motorbikes and you know they go
in their colors, So good luck if you want to
take you.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Don't want to sell them the Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:40):
No, okay, yeah, okay.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
And this is a great idea. Is this not a
good idea?
Speaker 2 (03:46):
I mean, if you get from A to B, it's
a great idea. Now listen, come on, okay, just Devil's advocate.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Yes, this is what I'm telling you.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
What happens if you break up with Olivier and then
now you've got a Harley.
Speaker 6 (03:59):
Davidson off road motorbike that you can't ride, I'm.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Always going to take your Australia.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
Do you imagine?
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Sorry Teaks, I've got got to ride Robin Alice Screens.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
I'll be back in a month. You'll be right, look
after the kids.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
For a week.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
It's a great idea.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
It's a fun.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Living in the now moment.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
It's going life is too short. Lets like grab it
by the dirt.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Bike, yous bits, go by the hogbits and get out
there in the bloody dirt.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
You wouldn't do it.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Well, no, I would know. I think it's a good idea.
You're in the right place. This is the right time
in your life to do it.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Do it, do it? Yeah, why not?
Speaker 5 (04:55):
I'm just worried about oil.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
The mechanics. So yes, it was about this time.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Yesterday on the show, we played Don't Stop the music
by Rhianna, which famously ends with this bit.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
I'm the same, I'm I'm the same.
Speaker 7 (05:16):
Now.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
That is from Michael Jackson song. It's from I want
to be starting something.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
I'm saying, see now you're saying it that I just
mumbled at my whole life.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Yeah, my mom, any idea, core you just.
Speaker 5 (05:35):
Now, I've always know it's something I'm gonna say something.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
Something you knew I've always because I never remember.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
It because I've always been saying the same mama.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
So I'm saying, my Michael, I'm gonna say.
Speaker 5 (05:46):
I can't remember it is.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
I'm gonna say it one more time.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
I'm not gonna start.
Speaker 4 (05:54):
Hanging. I'm saying one of the stuff I.
Speaker 8 (06:03):
Don't know.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
I just hang just let it, let him do it.
Speaker 9 (06:09):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
I mean, yes, of course it's Michael Jackson who's saying
what every life but no where if my life depended
on that listening.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
To that, would I have got what is it?
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Does just sound like you're saying, mama, say mama, So
my mom's up.
Speaker 4 (06:37):
Said anyway, would say normally he doesn't. Yeah, no, yeah,
you just add.
Speaker 10 (06:45):
A little bit.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
That's up.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
A couple of ways you can contact the show. You
can sent us a text at any time four O
nine nine seven three nine seven three, or you can
call us thirteen one O six five, which is what
Jody did. Now, Jody has a family secret story to
share with us, something from your childhood.
Speaker 11 (07:02):
What happened Jody, My twin cousins are actually my sisters,
I think siblings.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
How much older were they?
Speaker 11 (07:13):
Six years? What had happened was she was only sixteen
when my mother and father had the twins.
Speaker 9 (07:20):
So back then it was.
Speaker 11 (07:22):
Pretty taboo, nothing married and everything, and my grandmother had
a very stronghold on the situation. So my auntie stepped
in and adopted them.
Speaker 12 (07:35):
So sister, Yeah, that's my mom's sister.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Yes, so it's keeping up appearances. Grandma said no, no, no, no,
you can't be a sixteen year old mom. Your sister's
going to have to pretend to be their mum.
Speaker 11 (07:47):
Basically, yes, oh wow, I don't even know if it's
legal to be quite honest.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
So were they raised in a separate house with your
auntie or were they Were you all in the same
house together?
Speaker 7 (07:58):
No?
Speaker 11 (07:58):
Separate? Oh, my auntie had had a daughter biologically the
same age as my mother. So my mother was sixteen,
her daughter sixteen, and then all of a sudden they
had twins going to their family. Yeah, if your father,
you know.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
And stayed around and then you were born, what did
he feel about the fact that his children were being
raised by someone else.
Speaker 11 (08:25):
I don't really know how he felt. I don't think
he liked it. But he was also at a eight
he was nineteen, I think where he wasn't ready to
and financially to raise the twins.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
And so how's your relationship with your sisters now?
Speaker 7 (08:42):
Oh?
Speaker 11 (08:42):
Very close? We always were brought up very close. And
I used to always say when we used to go
on outings, I wish you were my sisters, And little
did I know they actually were.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
So where did it all come out?
Speaker 11 (08:57):
Would you believe? When my grandmother passed away, my mother
sat me down, and I'm an adult, and she said,
I've got a secret to tell you, but you can't
tell anyone. And she told me there and then after
my grandmother passed away, I think she just had that
strong yeah the family.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
Did she tell the other kids?
Speaker 11 (09:19):
I just went, how am I going to keep this
as a secret? This is crazy. So a few years later,
one of the sisters came up to me. We're at
a family gathering. She came up to me and said, hi, sister,
and I went, what was going on? And then she said,
I just found out and I wod, oh.
Speaker 12 (09:40):
Like that?
Speaker 2 (09:40):
So was there a shift?
Speaker 3 (09:42):
Was there a shift in your relationship because obviously that
some cousins are very very close anyway, But did you
feel different once it was all out that they were
your sisters?
Speaker 11 (09:49):
Not really, I didn't, but I think it was a
little bit different. With my mum, oh like that, you know.
She she had at seventeen, she had a nervous breakdown.
She didn't want to do it like she obviously, you know,
saw them every day and with another family with her sister.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
So that was hard.
Speaker 11 (10:10):
She said, yeah, very tough. But I think that sort
of shifted a little bit because oh, wow, you're not
my auntie, you're my mom.
Speaker 9 (10:20):
Mate.
Speaker 4 (10:21):
That is a doozy crazy, so much no worry, thank
you have you.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
Got one of your own. Thirteen one oh sixty five
is our number of family secrets.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
I do wonder how many secrets then get revealed when
someone dies, Like there's a matriarch or a patriarch that's
kind of dictated the terms. Yes, and when that person goes,
it feels like, okay, maybe we can actually be honest now.
Speaker 5 (10:44):
Yeah, that's yeah, it's weird how that makes people want
to do that.
Speaker 13 (10:49):
I don't.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
But also the mom, like the mum knowing that her
children were being raised by her sister and still didn't, like,
didn't stand up to her mother, going no, you actually
made a mistake.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
This is awful. Yeah it.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Thirteen six five is our number.
Speaker 3 (11:05):
If you've got a family secret you want to share
with us, let's go. We've been getting family secrets this morning.
Jody kicked us off with an incredible family secret about
twin sisters that were actually what were they so confused? Yes,
that's right, she grew up saying these are your cousins.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
But their sisters, they were full sisters.
Speaker 4 (11:22):
Yeah, and you know it's often when people die that
the truth comes out.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
Yes, so what do you got? Thirteen one oh six
fires our number.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
Julie of North Lakes, Hi, Hello, what is your secret?
Speaker 12 (11:35):
Well, when I was sixteen, my mum my grandma, actually
I thought though it was my mom told me that
my sister was actually my mother.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
Oh wow, okay, so your grandma was raising you both
as daughters, but you were actually so much how much
older was your sister?
Speaker 12 (11:56):
Sixteen?
Speaker 2 (11:56):
Sixteen?
Speaker 4 (11:57):
Woll What did that do to your relationship?
Speaker 12 (12:02):
Well, it really destroyed it for a long time because
we were so close, and I couldn't understand why he
didn't kill me in me like thee years and years
and years, like I've been weekend at her house. I
couldn't understand it. You know, we were so close and
we had a big family. I was one of us.
I was second to the youngest of nine children, so
(12:22):
I it was totally blood younger sister who actually was
my auntie. So it's yeah, destroyed. It destroyed that relationship
for a long time, and and she keept to the secret.
So my mother had children of her own, had more
more children, and they were my nieces by a daughter,
and she wouldn't let them know what that was either.
(12:45):
So they were I think nineteen and seventeen when I
told them myself that they're actually my god. Yeah, it
really effect it really affected the family for a long time.
So you know my grandparents, I was my mom and dad.
I never called my sister my mother, you know, mum
and like that. But yeah, they pepped on the secret years.
Speaker 4 (13:08):
And years and years I had Do you feel about
it now?
Speaker 3 (13:13):
I just think they should have told me, right, because
you can see why as a young child they would
have might have kept the secret. But then as it
got further, then the longer it goes, the longer, the
bigger the lie gets, doesn't.
Speaker 12 (13:26):
It And thinking on generation, which is not great.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Yeah, And is there what your relationship like with your
mom now or your system?
Speaker 12 (13:36):
I don't, I don't need to do with it. I
still I still talk to my well, my sister, yeah,
my mom, But.
Speaker 7 (13:47):
Have been.
Speaker 13 (13:50):
Lots of capes, have been close and have my daughters
butt in the It's just it's yeah, too much, it's.
Speaker 4 (14:01):
Hard yet, too much water under the bridge. Thanks for
telling you. Wow, what a story.
Speaker 11 (14:08):
Yeah it is.
Speaker 14 (14:10):
Take it.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
Chelsea out of Red Bank planes. What's the secret?
Speaker 13 (14:14):
Chelsea?
Speaker 10 (14:16):
So growing up I basically was terrified of the pool
cleaners or the creepy crawlies in the pool. Yes, obviously
my family growing up obviously thought I grew out of it. No,
I'm still absolutely terrified.
Speaker 7 (14:33):
Out of it.
Speaker 4 (14:36):
So when you see one, what happens?
Speaker 10 (14:40):
Well, if I'm in the pool like and it gets closed,
I just sort of into the corner and I'm just like, yeah,
I'm not scared.
Speaker 14 (14:46):
I'm fine.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
It's such a great party.
Speaker 4 (14:54):
You feel better for getting out of Chelsea.
Speaker 7 (14:57):
I do.
Speaker 9 (15:01):
Give me.
Speaker 4 (15:03):
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Speaker 3 (15:14):
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Speaker 9 (15:28):
Jody, good morning.
Speaker 4 (15:30):
You've got a confession.
Speaker 7 (15:32):
What is it?
Speaker 14 (15:34):
Don't tell anyone.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
Between us.
Speaker 3 (15:37):
I'm told that this is a non traditional confession.
Speaker 14 (15:41):
Yeah, I don't know till this day. If I'm with
the right parents.
Speaker 3 (15:45):
Right parents, parents, parents, what do you mean?
Speaker 14 (15:50):
I was born in a Sydney hospital, I won't mention.
And there was a good handful of babies born on
that day and back in those days, I used to
take you back to your own little room. All the
baby slipt in a room and a nurse would look
after us and bathe us. And during the bath, the
nurse took all the baby names off all the babies
(16:10):
and didn't know which names went on with babies. So
there was multiple people that got given wrong babies. And
I suppose they just diboed out and hope that everyone
got the right babies back.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
So did the parents notice? They must have noticed.
Speaker 14 (16:27):
The baby that originally my parents got given was a
little colored baby with black curly hair, and I was
very different because I had virtually no hair and blue eyes.
But there was a couple of babies that had no
hair and blue eyes, and a couple of dark skinned
babies with dark hair. So who knows to this day
if any of us got the right parents?
Speaker 3 (16:49):
Was that nurse was it her first day to take
all the tags off?
Speaker 2 (16:52):
That's madness.
Speaker 14 (16:53):
I don't know, but she certainly got racked over the colts.
I just don't know, like sometimes am I am I
really there? Or am I not really there?
Speaker 5 (17:00):
They never got it like a DNA T.
Speaker 8 (17:04):
No.
Speaker 14 (17:05):
I mean I feel like I look like my sisters. Well,
I feel like I'm quite one of my sisters. But
later on I had brown hair and blue eyes, but
both of my siblings had blonde hair and blue eyes.
So it's like, why am I that little bit different?
I questioned it. Believe me, I questioned it a lot.
Speaker 3 (17:20):
Imagine if you got handed to the wrong family and your.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
Whole life that is currently a big story in Brisbane
were Liff. But so, Jodie, would you want to find out?
Speaker 9 (17:34):
Oh?
Speaker 14 (17:34):
It would be scary. I'd be open to it because,
oh my gosh, fifty years later. Could you imagine because
we had.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
To organize like a DNA test and we could certainly
find out and then get the results and ring you
and say, hey.
Speaker 4 (17:49):
Guess what I'm baby? Would that change your life?
Speaker 3 (17:54):
What would that do?
Speaker 1 (17:56):
Just hypothetically, if you discovered you weren't your parents biological child,
what would that do to your life?
Speaker 14 (18:02):
I honestly don't think it would change anything. I'd have
a lot of questions.
Speaker 3 (18:06):
Your real family.
Speaker 14 (18:09):
It could be so I could be like a rich
princess or something which would totally different to my life
right now?
Speaker 4 (18:16):
Why do your parents think though? Would they be okay
with it?
Speaker 14 (18:22):
I think they'd be like, don'd be so stupid, you know,
push her our baby, you know, why would you do that?
So if I had to get samples from them, I
think I'd have to do it sneakily. To be honest,
I think because my dad, you know, he's a fifties
baby and fifties managers.
Speaker 5 (18:37):
There but a lot of yourself and your your siblings.
Do you see a lot of yourself?
Speaker 2 (18:43):
There's not just a few.
Speaker 14 (18:44):
Things in one of my younger sisters, I do. We
even sound very similar. And since she started wearing glasses.
I've been wearing glasses for about twenty years that she
started wearing glasses about eight years ago. I've noticed we
look a lot more alike now that we both wear
the glasses. It's always been a questionable thing, especially when
I'm not happy with my family.
Speaker 4 (19:04):
So mate, we'll do it. If you want to, we'll
sort it out and you'll have a definitive answer.
Speaker 14 (19:12):
That would be crazy. You know, I'm up for it.
Speaker 2 (19:15):
Yeah, okay, yes, how good you need to get?
Speaker 8 (19:18):
Now?
Speaker 2 (19:18):
You might have to get a sneaky sample from your dad.
Something care cut, a little bit of hair, just will
find the landry little sniff.
Speaker 14 (19:26):
And good will pretend COVID tests or something.
Speaker 3 (19:31):
That's a good idea.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
But you only need one of your parents because it's
not like you have to have both, because if you've
won biologically, then you're clearly out with right parents.
Speaker 14 (19:41):
What if I turn out to not be my father's then.
Speaker 3 (19:43):
Oh, good grief, my goodness, Well that's fine.
Speaker 5 (19:48):
The family.
Speaker 3 (19:50):
OK, let's.
Speaker 9 (19:53):
Job.
Speaker 14 (19:54):
You can really cause some trouble here.
Speaker 3 (19:56):
Yeah. Well, in the meantime for your first confession, five
hundred dollars cash.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
It's all yours.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
I think it's awsome and hopefully we'll find out this
DNA will get that result as soon as possible.
Speaker 4 (20:08):
I'm curious, though, I mean family secrets.
Speaker 3 (20:11):
Oh yeah, there's always some.
Speaker 4 (20:12):
There's so many good ones.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
Only only you know about your family choice. You can
change your name thirteen one o six five.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
Yes, tell us about it when he got.
Speaker 4 (20:22):
Because there's a couple of people in our team that
have revealed some stuff. Yes, that is gobsmacking.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
Yeah, they seem so normal.
Speaker 4 (20:30):
Yeah, So if you have a family secret, we'll change
your name. You won't have to be identified.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Oh that's right, we can help you out.
Speaker 3 (20:38):
So thirty one day six five's Own Numb with Robling
Kip Now with coreots on Kiss ninety seven three, Who's
had a really interesting story about someone who's not sure
if her parents are a real parent. She's nearly fifty,
She's gone her whole life not being sure because the
baby tags all got switched around at the hospital where
she was born back in Sydney.
Speaker 4 (20:56):
That just seems insane to me. It just it's like,
how does that actually happen? I don't think it does anymore.
Speaker 1 (21:01):
But we want to hear your family secrets, the things
you haven't necessarily told anyone else.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
The only thing, the only way that she's kind of
certain is that they originally handed her a parent's a
brown baby, and she's like, baby, there's no one brown
in the family.
Speaker 4 (21:17):
That's out. Michelle E. Rabina, what's your family's secret?
Speaker 9 (21:23):
I have a very similar situation where I found out
that years later, it was brought to my attention that
my father wasn't my real father. So I didn't really
know what to do about it, and I asked for
a DNA test with my father. We did the DNA test,
and it came back to me because I was the
(21:43):
one that sent it away. And he was, in fact
not my father. I'm in my fifties as well, but
I found out in my forties and I didn't know
what to do because he was in his late seventies
and dying. So I never told him.
Speaker 4 (21:57):
Oh, did he not ask if you if he knew
you were doing the DNA test?
Speaker 9 (22:03):
He did. He didn't want to do it, but then
he realized that my mother had had an affair around
the time that I was before I was born, So
it all started to make sense to him when I
brought it to his attention, and so he agreed to
do the DNA test. But when the results came back,
I told him that they were inconclusive and that we
just didn't put enough to live hery and I said, oh, look,
don't worry about it. You know, I'm just being silly anyway.
(22:25):
So I just sort of downplayed it all after the
fact because I didn't want to break his heart and
break my family's heart, my sisters and everything. So I
never told anybody.
Speaker 3 (22:35):
And did he pass? Is he still around?
Speaker 9 (22:37):
He's still around. He's still dying. It's been going on
now for a little while. We thought, you know, he's
very unwell, but he still doesn't know. He still thinks
I'm his daughter.
Speaker 4 (22:46):
So, Michelle, so do you think he genuinely thinks that
if they were putting like and just decided he would prefer.
Speaker 9 (22:51):
Not to know. I think he knows that I'm not.
I think he prefers not to know. I think it's
just an unspoken thing between us. And what about your mom, mate, Well,
she passed away, and this is why I wanted the
DNA tests done, because it came to light. I knew
before she passed away, but then it became very we
are some comments that were made to me by other
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people that my dad wasn't my dad, And now I'll
never know who my dad was because no one knows
whoso right.
Speaker 3 (23:20):
So you don't you don't get that from the DNA.
You don't get who it is, just that it isn't.
Speaker 9 (23:26):
No, you get like a ninety nine point ninety nine
percent conclusive that it is that you're related to this person.
And I believe you know, it gives you like a
percentage and if you're anything over like you know, ninety
eight percent or something, then that's your father. Well, that's
your parents. And it was really easy. You just I
sent away the cheapest way of doing it was sending
away and you get a kid sent to you, and
(23:48):
then you get the report and everything sent back to you.
But you have to do a mouth for both of
you have to do a mouth square than send a mind.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
And so yep, you're just going to hang on to
that secret because it's better. It's the secret that's better kept.
I think that's a good decision.
Speaker 9 (24:02):
Yeah, it was more for my peace of mind than
to upset anybody, So I just never told anybody else.
It was just something I guess I was to find
out that he was and that it was just a
big room, but I kind of knew it was.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
If you were to do this over again knowing the results,
you know, because there are people who are trying to
make this decision, would you have done it to know
or would have preferred not to.
Speaker 9 (24:26):
Oh no, I'm absolutely glad that I did it before
he passed away, because you'll never get that chance again.
But I wouldn't have wanted to hurt his feelings. So
if anyone's out there listening, I guess you've got to
do it in such a way if they already know
and there's suspicions, fare enough but if there's feelings going
to be hurt and it's going to cause massive family problems,
then you've got to really think about that, because to
(24:46):
my understanding, you can't just get a DNA test anymore
from hair samples and things like that. It has to
be a mousefob. But I may be wrong about that,
but I'd be very careful because obviously you've got to
tell the person what you're doing it for and everything,
and then that's going to cause hurt the answers come
back that they're not and things. That's the only problem,
I guess.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
Thank you so much, Michelle, I really appreciate it. It
helped a lot of peop people.
Speaker 4 (25:10):
I reckon Yeah with Robin Kip and choreotes.
Speaker 3 (25:18):
So this is where we take a classic moment from
film and and rihannact Yes.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
And a song we are doing.
Speaker 1 (25:27):
Mama Mia Mama Maya is a feel good, aberinsparred musical
set on a Greek island where a young bride to be, Sophie,
invites three of her mother's former lovers to her wedding
in hopes of discovering which one is her father. Sophie
will be played by me, but in the movie Amanda Seyfried. Yes,
it's the character Sam is going to be played by Kip,
(25:49):
who in the movie is played by Pierce Brosnan.
Speaker 2 (25:52):
Obviously obviously choose anyone else.
Speaker 5 (25:57):
Johnna is our.
Speaker 1 (25:58):
Very own choreotes, which in the movie is played by
three time Oscar winner Merrill'streep, and the narrator is our
wonderful news reader Alana.
Speaker 4 (26:08):
Hello, guys, let us set the scene.
Speaker 15 (26:14):
In this scene, after the three men arrive at the island,
Sophie shows them into the attic that they will be
secretly staying in so her mother doesn't find out.
Speaker 1 (26:24):
Okay, when I sent the invites out, it was a
long shot you would even reply. And now you've come
all this way for a wedding. Surely there must have
been some special reason to be here, like a siren call.
Speaker 9 (26:37):
Maybe.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
Oh, you're really out, a little minx. You know that
you're just like your mother. I'm glad my boys haven't
met you. They'd never recover. You have sons, Oh, yes too,
and someday I'd like to bring them here, one character.
Speaker 4 (27:02):
Like you used to bring my mother outside.
Speaker 15 (27:05):
The distant humming of mother Donna drifts through the air.
Speaker 4 (27:09):
As she prepares the property for the wedding. Hearing the voice.
Speaker 15 (27:12):
Hearing her voice for the first time in years, all
three men stand up, visibly excited and begin walking toward
the door.
Speaker 4 (27:20):
Keep bumming.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
No, it's Donna.
Speaker 4 (27:25):
No, no, no, no, no, no, listen, listen. She can't know.
I'm gonna go. Please stay. Promise me you'll not tell
anyone I invited you.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
Okay, promise, it's a promise.
Speaker 4 (27:37):
Sophie leaves.
Speaker 15 (27:39):
However, her plan of her mother not finding out didn't work.
It's Donna spots through a window the three men she
was with so many years ago, and naturally breaks into song.
Speaker 5 (27:49):
Nice, I.
Speaker 2 (28:03):
Was cheated by you, and I think you know when
so made of my mind and must come to an end.
Speaker 11 (28:16):
Look at me now?
Speaker 7 (28:18):
Will I ever learned?
Speaker 2 (28:19):
I don't know how the body suddenly lose control. There's
a fire within my sole. Just why I'm looking knocking?
Speaker 7 (28:30):
Here?
Speaker 2 (28:30):
Bill ring one?
Speaker 4 (28:32):
Mama?
Speaker 2 (28:32):
Can I forget everything? Whoa Mama?
Speaker 9 (28:36):
Mia?
Speaker 2 (28:38):
Here I go again?
Speaker 9 (28:39):
Mama?
Speaker 2 (28:40):
How can I resister? Mama?
Speaker 1 (28:43):
Mia?
Speaker 2 (28:44):
Does it show again?
Speaker 9 (28:46):
Mama?
Speaker 2 (28:47):
Just how much your mister?
Speaker 5 (28:49):
Yes, I mean brokingcose is the day we fought els?
Speaker 2 (28:56):
Why? Why indeed I ever let you go Mama, Mia.
Speaker 7 (29:01):
Now I really know mama how to shut out and
let you go around.
Speaker 3 (29:10):
Oh, Meryl, I've got to get home and get Raff
from his mom's because he's he's sick. Looks like he's
got flu. He's been crooked all weekend.
Speaker 4 (29:23):
Oh the flu shocking it is it is.
Speaker 3 (29:26):
Yeah, went all through his school. There was all these
you know, you can see all these parents coughing on
pickup and things like that over the last week.
Speaker 4 (29:32):
You'd love that.
Speaker 2 (29:33):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 3 (29:35):
And RAF's already like me, like there was a little
girl coughing one of his little friends, and he's gone.
Speaker 2 (29:41):
Are you sick?
Speaker 3 (29:43):
Because I've got a little sister at home, so i
can't play with you.
Speaker 2 (29:47):
That's okay.
Speaker 3 (29:48):
He cares so much about Siena. But we got Naomi
and I went and got our flu shots about three
weeks ago. Now well done. Yes, And my GP was
actually telling me a lot less people than in previous
years have been getting the flu shots because we've got
what they call vaccine fatigue, where everyone's.
Speaker 4 (30:05):
Just after how many covids did we have?
Speaker 3 (30:08):
We're all just over it. But pronged, Yeah, don't forget
to get It's not too late. To go and get
your flu shot.
Speaker 1 (30:13):
And I can tell you because my boyfriend Olivia works
in age care that now it's much more concerning.
Speaker 4 (30:19):
If a flu.
Speaker 1 (30:22):
Whatever goes through the nursing home, that end it is COVID. Yeah,
so't won't you know, people won't die necessarily from COVID,
but they will flu when you're in age facilities.
Speaker 4 (30:33):
So that's kind of like telling everyone it's serious.
Speaker 3 (30:36):
Yeah, yeah, I'm going to hang out with Raf because
he's sick. But I do feel like I've got like
a little a little armor on because I've had my shot.
But when we went to go and get the shots,
Rafi he hates needles, hate shots. On the day, he said,
do I have to get a shot? Because he was
coming in with us. I said not, if you not,
if you really don't want to, you can just you
can just watch. And he's going, well, that's what I'm
gonna do.
Speaker 2 (30:56):
I'm just gonna watch.
Speaker 3 (30:56):
I don't want a shot, Well, let's just talk about it.
And on the way there he's talking about it again.
Now I don't have to get one, do you can
just watch? And so when we got to the actual doctors,
he's walked in like he walked in in front of us.
He's walked straight into the to the waiting room. It's
a full waiting room. He goes, guys, I'm just here
to watch.
Speaker 2 (31:15):
I'm not getting a shot. I'm a dad of getting shots.
I'm just watching. That's so cute. And then it came
out at the ending and went straight out to reception.
I didn't get a shot. I just watched. Everything was fine.
Speaker 4 (31:30):
Okay, why didn't he get a shot? Couldn't you have
got there?
Speaker 3 (31:34):
I don't know. It just doesn't seem like it's worth
it for the how much he is terrified of it.
Speaker 4 (31:39):
Okay, can we have this conversation tomorrow. I've been home
with him sick with the flow.
Speaker 7 (31:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (31:43):
So yeah, you've got to go to someone like my friend.
Speaker 1 (31:46):
Nessie is a wonderful nurse and she's been nursing for
years and years and years and lou my middle son
is terrified of needles, and all through his childhood. I
did take him into Nessie and he'd be gone. Now mate,
you know I don't like needles.
Speaker 4 (31:58):
He's just like, yeah, no worries. She'll go look over
there and then go boom every time. By the time
he's like squawking and carrying on. It's all done.
Speaker 3 (32:10):
Just need to hire a ninja who knows.
Speaker 4 (32:13):
Exactly what they're doing. I can like just pinpoint precisions. Okay.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
I asked you to come up with me and tell
me whether you're a hugger. I want to know how
you feel about that physical touch. It is certainly one
of my affirmations. One of the things that I love
to do. It's the way that I show love is
to show affection.
Speaker 4 (32:35):
So I'm a hugger, yeah, Kip.
Speaker 3 (32:40):
Now I'm trying to think about it because I do.
There are definitely people that I hug, but I don't
hug everyone. Yeah, so like my close mates, we'll hug.
I'm trying to Like sometimes Dad and I will hug,
but sometimes we shake hands.
Speaker 2 (32:51):
Is it weird.
Speaker 3 (32:53):
It's a bit weird with Dad, I think maybe because maybe.
Speaker 4 (32:56):
Yeah, do you hug women easily?
Speaker 7 (32:59):
No?
Speaker 3 (32:59):
No, I mean Naomi absolutely, Like we hug generally at
the end of the day, when we've got the kids
to sleep and we've finished doing the dishes and we're
both exhausted, will have a kitchen hug, which is just.
Speaker 4 (33:09):
Like I thank god we made it.
Speaker 3 (33:11):
We're going to make it.
Speaker 2 (33:13):
One more day maybe so we have one of those hugs.
Speaker 5 (33:16):
Yeah, I'm pretty similar to that, Like, yeah, like hug mates,
old man, you shake your hands most of the time,
but then when you know, you do a hug, it's
just like it's a little bit weird, but you're happy
you want to do it.
Speaker 2 (33:32):
Yeah it's weird.
Speaker 4 (33:34):
Yeah, you're getting so awkward about it.
Speaker 2 (33:37):
I just I hope it's never weird with my son,
you know what I mean. It's weird with my dad,
and I don't want it and I'm trying to.
Speaker 3 (33:42):
I don't want that to be weird with Raf, Like
we hugg now, and I hope you always want the heart, But.
Speaker 5 (33:46):
I reckon that was us some little kids, like maybe
with your dad you always I don't know what it
is with your father and yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (33:54):
Why wouldn't you hug your son there?
Speaker 3 (33:55):
Like precious, right, And I hope that you want to
keep it going. But mates, you go through that teenage phase,
you know, when you're fifteen.
Speaker 4 (34:02):
And then you don't get out of it and you're
mad at your dad, and then your dad's mad at you.
Speaker 1 (34:07):
You're actually what you both have described is actually exactly
this was what my partner, Olivia sent to me because
he and I are very affectate, Like we're both really
big huggers.
Speaker 4 (34:17):
But this is interesting.
Speaker 7 (34:19):
Did you know that if your boyfriend is very affectionate
and hugs you all the time, it's not a coincidence.
According to studies, men hug more than women, but they
only do it with those they truly love deeply. It's
because you give them complete confidence, you make them feel
happiness and emotional security. Hugs are not just a sign
(34:40):
of love. They also help men relieve stress and feel
more connected with you.
Speaker 4 (34:45):
Interesting, that's all true.
Speaker 9 (34:47):
So you know how I feel?
Speaker 2 (34:52):
Okay, Blacks, Honestly, I really I do feel that.
Speaker 4 (34:56):
Okay, what about random people hugging you?
Speaker 3 (34:59):
No, I'm not intoc Are you sure?
Speaker 2 (35:01):
I would rather.
Speaker 5 (35:06):
When I first mate someone, I always prefer to shake hands.
Speaker 2 (35:10):
But then but then after and then after I don't hug. Okay,
hugs fine, Back producer Todd left. The Maddie has moved
in for a hug with with Corey and that's fine.
Speaker 4 (35:26):
I think keeps the one that Kip has just done
the whole you know, okay, he's oh you gotta what's producing?
Speaker 9 (35:47):
Mad?
Speaker 1 (35:47):
You here?
Speaker 4 (35:49):
I don't hug Kip. Ever, you don't really have a
hug Corey, like we'll have a hug. We'll hug occasionally
hug each other, but like Corey, yeah, I'm not a
big hug.
Speaker 2 (36:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (36:00):
Camera, it's interesting that producer just like he wanted no partner.
Speaker 4 (36:09):
I think coming in that was less weird than you
hugging out producers.
Speaker 8 (36:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (36:17):
No, so based on that audio, you love him more.
Speaker 2 (36:22):
No, that's I'm sure.
Speaker 9 (36:27):
That's true.
Speaker 3 (36:27):
Yes, there was a guy on the Joe Rogan podcast
who was talking about the contraceptive pill on how it
could be the cause of relationship breakups, and it's on
the back.
Speaker 2 (36:44):
Of this study.
Speaker 16 (36:45):
He got a bunch of guys who were deficient in
one part of their immune response, and then a bunch
of women who were also deficient in one part. It's
called histal compatibility index, and let's say it has five elements,
So they would find a bunch of guys who were
low in one or two or number three or number
four whatever, and women who have the same different deficiencies.
Hypothesis was that a woman who's low in factor three
(37:08):
won't be attracted to men who are low in factor three.
They'll be attracted to men who were high in factor
three because then the babies will be healthy. So he
gets these guys to wear T shirts for three days
and nights with no deodorant, no showers, no soap, nothing,
then puts the T shirts in plastic bags. Then he
has the women smell the bags and mark on a
piece of paper how attractive they thought the men were
(37:29):
based only on the smell of the T shirts, And
he found that with eighty percent of the women, they
chose as he predicted, that they chose the men high
in the thing that they were low in, and they
avoided the men who were low in the thing that
they were low in. But in about twenty percent they
seem to be choosing randomly. So he went back and
looked at the women again and found that those twenty
percent were on birth control pills. So the birth control
(37:50):
pills short circuits that response.
Speaker 3 (37:54):
Anyway, He went on to say that there were relationships where,
you know, a couple of bee together for ten years,
then she'd go off the pill right because they're trying
to have it, and all of a sudden she'd get
a whiff of his hormones and realize that they're no
longer compatible hormone related and she would just go be
off him and.
Speaker 1 (38:10):
Just go that you're not from me nature determining that
you have the strongest babies humanly possible.
Speaker 3 (38:16):
Yeah, I mean I understand the science of it that
it makes sense, right, I mean, it's pretty incredible that
you can smell someone and go, Okay, you've got the
jeans that I need.
Speaker 2 (38:25):
What smells good pheromones.
Speaker 3 (38:28):
But then the idea that you're on the pill, so
it blocks that, so you don't realize that that person
is actually not for you as far as your genetic makeup,
and then you and then you go off the pill
and the person that you did love all of a
sudden go smells wrong to.
Speaker 4 (38:43):
You no longer. You're no longer the guy that I
need to make really strong babies.
Speaker 3 (38:49):
Is that crazy love?
Speaker 5 (38:52):
I'll give you a kiss, good night, Wake up, Get out,
Get out?
Speaker 1 (38:56):
I mean, you know, I thought you were going to
talk about how the pill long term effects can create
mood swings or headaches or tender breasts or make you
feel crazy. Yeah, right, you never want to like month in,
month out, Oh no, no, no, this is just keep
trying to find a reason why so many women.
Speaker 4 (39:18):
Rejected him because you don't smell good?
Speaker 8 (39:21):
Is that it?
Speaker 3 (39:26):
People take sudden turns on me, and I've never fully
understood why.
Speaker 1 (39:30):
And now you went looking for it's because, of course, mate,
it's not me.
Speaker 4 (39:35):
It couldn't be you. Thoughts from the right on marm.
Speaker 3 (39:41):
Cor Cory's about to share some thoughts he's had.
Speaker 5 (39:48):
Yeah, while you're on your own and just have so
much time to yourself to think about things and questions without.
Speaker 3 (39:53):
Answers a lot of the time, lots of them.
Speaker 5 (39:55):
Yeah, okay, yeah, I don't believe that he can ever
be truly answered. Well, look, I got a dog, two dogs,
and one Snapper, and one's Malon. And now Staffer loves
fetching the ball.
Speaker 4 (40:08):
So what kind of dog is Snapper?
Speaker 5 (40:09):
He's a kelpie collie.
Speaker 4 (40:11):
Okay, I do love a ball and they love to run.
Speaker 13 (40:14):
He stopped.
Speaker 5 (40:15):
Yeah, so it wasn't a smart pick anyway. Now, I've
always wondered, does he actually like fetching the ball or
does he bring the ball back to me because he
thinks I like throwing it?
Speaker 4 (40:32):
Wow, I mean dogs are destined to make this in
his mind.
Speaker 8 (40:38):
You think he's like my dad loves running the ball
in mind. Yeah, he's going, all right, I'll keep bringing
it back to it. She's throwing it again, alright, he's
obviously loving it. Yeah, I'm getting packs from you every
time I bring it back. You know, he's doing because
he loves throwing it that much.
Speaker 2 (40:53):
He's doing it for you.
Speaker 3 (40:54):
Yeah, that's an interesting thought.
Speaker 2 (40:56):
I hope it doesn't think that, because.
Speaker 1 (40:58):
Dogs absolutely are put on this planet, like they're the
most unconditional lovers of him.
Speaker 2 (41:05):
Yes, that's exactly my thing.
Speaker 5 (41:07):
Yeah, yeah, they show you unconditional love and just they're
always trying to make you feel good and happy and like, yeah,
because I always know as I walk outside, because I
just want time to myself and then he brings me
to the ball and Dad didn't cheer up here.
Speaker 4 (41:24):
It makes you feel better, you go.
Speaker 2 (41:27):
Yeah, Okay, interesting thoughts thought about that?
Speaker 5 (41:32):
Got another one out of the mile, right, Well actually
yeah poison. Yeah, so you know how like you buy stuff,
food goes off, it's poisonous, it'll probably kill you.
Speaker 3 (41:44):
Yeah, so actual poison like weed, like weed poison or whatever.
Speaker 5 (41:49):
Just when it goes off, is it more poisonous?
Speaker 2 (41:53):
When poison expires?
Speaker 5 (41:56):
Does it become more make it more lethal and potent
of the stuff you're trying to kill.
Speaker 3 (42:02):
That is a good question.
Speaker 2 (42:03):
Yeah, I think it is. Poison expires, does it become
more poisonous? I think that's the one.
Speaker 3 (42:10):
I think that is.
Speaker 5 (42:11):
I don't think I've ever seen a half a half
a cart and a poison trying out. They're always used.
Speaker 4 (42:17):
Poison have an expiry day.
Speaker 3 (42:19):
I know that's the thing with the assassin's going, Wait,
don't use that poison.
Speaker 2 (42:22):
It's gone off.
Speaker 1 (42:25):
The bridge.
Speaker 5 (42:26):
If you add like a lover poison and like a
broad leaf poison.
Speaker 4 (42:31):
Does that just you're not talking about ni like poisoning, which.
Speaker 5 (42:36):
Is yeah, I'm about all poisons.
Speaker 3 (42:38):
Yeah, okay, you don't make the plant.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
You're going to plant poison?
Speaker 3 (42:41):
Now to plant poisons?
Speaker 2 (42:42):
Which question?
Speaker 5 (42:42):
Yeah, two separate plant poisons, yes, weed poisons mixed together together?
Speaker 4 (42:47):
Does that does that make them more doubles?
Speaker 3 (42:50):
Create a super?
Speaker 1 (42:55):
Please don't please, don't try and find an answer to
you may blow yourself.
Speaker 12 (42:59):
Yeah, that's just a question.
Speaker 2 (43:01):
Keep that one on the mower question.
Speaker 4 (43:04):
Think about that one, otherwise we'll see this.
Speaker 3 (43:11):
Shut out of sample.
Speaker 2 (43:17):
The garden.
Speaker 3 (43:19):
Neighbors, suggesting he was trying to invest a super poison, Well,
what do you got?
Speaker 2 (43:26):
Thirty one six out of.
Speaker 3 (43:27):
Number we've been getting Corey's thoughts from his right or.
Speaker 4 (43:30):
Mower thoughts from the right on Marlow.
Speaker 3 (43:37):
And one of your thoughts Corey was about about poison
and how like if something is that's good for you
in the fridge expires, that also all of a sudden
becomes toxic. So what happens if you get poison and
it expires? Does it get even more toxic?
Speaker 2 (43:52):
Or Google makes sense?
Speaker 4 (43:54):
Does not surprise me that you have googled this?
Speaker 13 (43:59):
You know what?
Speaker 5 (43:59):
Same thing?
Speaker 3 (44:00):
It's a great question, and it's a question that's been
asked many times because I started typing it in and
it was just like, you know, it finishes the sentence.
According to Google, it does not become more topic.
Speaker 8 (44:10):
What is it?
Speaker 3 (44:11):
I reckon because it's the chemical compounds, like it gets
potentially less strong or they don't try it.
Speaker 2 (44:22):
It's not like it's safe, so it's maybe less poisonous.
Speaker 5 (44:26):
Okay, a bit of a little bit different type of
it's not poor. Yeah, poison so like an aseptic cream
for cuts and whatnot? Right, yes, so they have an
expiring Yeah, is that the same thing?
Speaker 3 (44:37):
Yes, But they're saying, as they expire, they might they
might not work out as.
Speaker 5 (44:41):
Well as we used to like about and it was
expired by about twenty years?
Speaker 1 (44:46):
Was it in your my mum is exactly the same
medicine cabinet, right, And this thing stuck.
Speaker 5 (44:54):
Like it was horrendous and beause I get so I
had a lot of infections playing footy, so I get
real panic and paranoid when I get a little cut. Now,
so I just wound.
Speaker 2 (45:04):
What are you gotten?
Speaker 5 (45:05):
She just had this one from like nineteen tickety two still,
and I'm like, I'll take it, take whatever you got.
Speaker 2 (45:13):
Well, yeah, it didn't kill me. I'm silly. I love
as she was prepared to test and yeah, had just give.
Speaker 8 (45:19):
It to me.
Speaker 6 (45:20):
No indicator that as she tries to squeeze it out
of the tube comes out like a dry down a
dark brown.
Speaker 2 (45:26):
I'm like, what did it start? But this brown past
strong and I'm looking at him.
Speaker 14 (45:36):
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Speaker 3 (00:27):
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Speaker 1 (00:31):
I think you guys are going to name me to all,
but anyway, I'll let me just give you the context,
because everything's got to be in context. Yes, I have
bought some Well, I'm just about to buy something. Well,
I think I'm going to do it that's worth a
lot of money and I'll never be able to use it.
Speaker 4 (00:45):
Now, before I tell you this story, what.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Do you think it is on marketplace?
Speaker 4 (00:48):
On marketplace?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Okay? And it's thousands either, yeah, and you're never going
to be able to use it. All right, it's something
for your house. It's something that that that the boys
are going to like in your house. That's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
What about you, Corey?
Speaker 5 (01:04):
I got nothing, honestly, jewelry or something. If it's going
to be worth more of it, I can use your.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Oh okay, you're saying it it's like something something antique.
Speaker 5 (01:14):
I don't know, an old I don't.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Know's it goin of crazy value?
Speaker 4 (01:18):
Maybe I don't know. See, I don't even know a
lot about it.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Okay, so let me give you the context with this conversation.
So the first week of the holidays, I lost a
wonderful friend that I've known for like thirty years. She
died of cancer. It was really crappy, and her funerals tomorrow,
and one of her big things was that she said,
You've just got to live your life. And you know, me,
with my history, there's a lot of people who have died,
(01:43):
and I'm constantly reminded that you have to push outside
your boundaries, say yes till the universe says no.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Right.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
So, the last couple of days I've already lost you.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Do you can drive it if you want to.
Speaker 6 (01:59):
This sounds like an emotional purchase. Yes, yes, yes.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
So the last couple of days, I've been looking for
some Harley Davidson leather pants because it's coming into winter,
and I ride on the back of my boyfrid Friend's bike,
and I happened to find Harley Davidson dirt bike. So
Harley's traditionally can't go on dirt roads because they get hurt.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
Road bikes they're road bikes.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
And so Olivier my boyfriend and I've been talking about
wanting to do more trips around Australia and there's a
lot of dirt roads. Yes, so I found a dirt bike.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
So you're going to buy. But you can't ride a motorbike.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
That's right. Right, So here's the thing, right, I have
a squirrel account.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
It's a little odd. Who am I squirreling from person?
But I put money into this squirrel account in case.
You know, I want to do fun things and I
haven't spent. You know, I've been saving, not buying a
lot of clothes recently, and I've there's money in this
squirrel account, and I thought, why.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Not buy an off motorbike that you can't ride, that's right,
so that you'll you'll be on the back of it.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Yes, you've you've bought it.
Speaker 5 (03:09):
Well, have had a mechanic look at it.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
That's a good.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Practice, I can tell you better than a mechanic.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Because Olivier is part of the Veterans Motorcycle Club, so
he actually I suggested it to him. He thought it
was a cracking idea and one of his veteran guys
went and had a look at it yesterday and said it's.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
A really great bike.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Is he a mechanic?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Well, they know about motorbikes and you know they go
in their colors, So good luck if you want to
take you.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Don't want to sell them the Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:40):
No, okay, yeah, okay.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
And this is a great idea. Is this not a
good idea?
Speaker 2 (03:46):
I mean, if you get from A to B, it's
a great idea. Now listen, come on, okay, just Devil's advocate.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Yes, this is what I'm telling you.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
What happens if you break up with Olivier and then
now you've got a Harley.
Speaker 6 (03:59):
Davidson off road motorbike that you can't ride, I'm.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Always going to take your Australia.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
Do you imagine?
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Sorry Teaks, I've got got to ride Robin Alice Screens.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
I'll be back in a month. You'll be right, look
after the kids.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
For a week.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
It's a great idea.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
It's a fun.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Living in the now moment.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
It's going life is too short. Lets like grab it
by the dirt.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Bike, yous bits, go by the hogbits and get out
there in the bloody dirt.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
You wouldn't do it.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Well, no, I would know. I think it's a good idea.
You're in the right place. This is the right time
in your life to do it.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Do it, do it? Yeah, why not?
Speaker 5 (04:55):
I'm just worried about oil.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
The mechanics. So yes, it was about this time.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Yesterday on the show, we played Don't Stop the music
by Rhianna, which famously ends with this bit.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
I'm the same, I'm I'm the same.
Speaker 7 (05:16):
Now.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
That is from Michael Jackson song. It's from I want
to be starting something.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
I'm saying, see now you're saying it that I just
mumbled at my whole life.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Yeah, my mom, any idea, core you just.
Speaker 5 (05:35):
Now, I've always know it's something I'm gonna say something.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
Something you knew I've always because I never remember.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
It because I've always been saying the same mama.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
So I'm saying, my Michael, I'm gonna say.
Speaker 5 (05:46):
I can't remember it is.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
I'm gonna say it one more time.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
I'm not gonna start.
Speaker 4 (05:54):
Hanging. I'm saying one of the stuff I.
Speaker 8 (06:03):
Don't know.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
I just hang just let it, let him do it.
Speaker 9 (06:09):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
I mean, yes, of course it's Michael Jackson who's saying
what every life but no where if my life depended
on that listening.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
To that, would I have got what is it?
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Does just sound like you're saying, mama, say mama, So
my mom's up.
Speaker 4 (06:37):
Said anyway, would say normally he doesn't. Yeah, no, yeah,
you just add.
Speaker 10 (06:45):
A little bit.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
That's up.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
A couple of ways you can contact the show. You
can sent us a text at any time four O
nine nine seven three nine seven three, or you can
call us thirteen one O six five, which is what
Jody did. Now, Jody has a family secret story to
share with us, something from your childhood.
Speaker 11 (07:02):
What happened Jody, My twin cousins are actually my sisters,
I think siblings.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
How much older were they?
Speaker 11 (07:13):
Six years? What had happened was she was only sixteen
when my mother and father had the twins.
Speaker 9 (07:20):
So back then it was.
Speaker 11 (07:22):
Pretty taboo, nothing married and everything, and my grandmother had
a very stronghold on the situation. So my auntie stepped
in and adopted them.
Speaker 12 (07:35):
So sister, Yeah, that's my mom's sister.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Yes, so it's keeping up appearances. Grandma said no, no, no, no,
you can't be a sixteen year old mom. Your sister's
going to have to pretend to be their mum.
Speaker 11 (07:47):
Basically, yes, oh wow, I don't even know if it's
legal to be quite honest.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
So were they raised in a separate house with your
auntie or were they Were you all in the same
house together?
Speaker 7 (07:58):
No?
Speaker 11 (07:58):
Separate? Oh, my auntie had had a daughter biologically the
same age as my mother. So my mother was sixteen,
her daughter sixteen, and then all of a sudden they
had twins going to their family. Yeah, if your father,
you know.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
And stayed around and then you were born, what did
he feel about the fact that his children were being
raised by someone else.
Speaker 11 (08:25):
I don't really know how he felt. I don't think
he liked it. But he was also at a eight
he was nineteen, I think where he wasn't ready to
and financially to raise the twins.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
And so how's your relationship with your sisters now?
Speaker 7 (08:42):
Oh?
Speaker 11 (08:42):
Very close? We always were brought up very close. And
I used to always say when we used to go
on outings, I wish you were my sisters, And little
did I know they actually were.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
So where did it all come out?
Speaker 11 (08:57):
Would you believe? When my grandmother passed away, my mother
sat me down, and I'm an adult, and she said,
I've got a secret to tell you, but you can't
tell anyone. And she told me there and then after
my grandmother passed away, I think she just had that
strong yeah the family.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
Did she tell the other kids?
Speaker 11 (09:19):
I just went, how am I going to keep this
as a secret? This is crazy. So a few years later,
one of the sisters came up to me. We're at
a family gathering. She came up to me and said, hi, sister,
and I went, what was going on? And then she said,
I just found out and I wod, oh.
Speaker 12 (09:40):
Like that?
Speaker 2 (09:40):
So was there a shift?
Speaker 3 (09:42):
Was there a shift in your relationship because obviously that
some cousins are very very close anyway, But did you
feel different once it was all out that they were
your sisters?
Speaker 11 (09:49):
Not really, I didn't, but I think it was a
little bit different. With my mum, oh like that, you know.
She she had at seventeen, she had a nervous breakdown.
She didn't want to do it like she obviously, you know,
saw them every day and with another family with her sister.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
So that was hard.
Speaker 11 (10:10):
She said, yeah, very tough. But I think that sort
of shifted a little bit because oh, wow, you're not
my auntie, you're my mom.
Speaker 9 (10:20):
Mate.
Speaker 4 (10:21):
That is a doozy crazy, so much no worry, thank
you have you.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
Got one of your own. Thirteen one oh sixty five
is our number of family secrets.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
I do wonder how many secrets then get revealed when
someone dies, Like there's a matriarch or a patriarch that's
kind of dictated the terms. Yes, and when that person goes,
it feels like, okay, maybe we can actually be honest now.
Speaker 5 (10:44):
Yeah, that's yeah, it's weird how that makes people want
to do that.
Speaker 13 (10:49):
I don't.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
But also the mom, like the mum knowing that her
children were being raised by her sister and still didn't, like,
didn't stand up to her mother, going no, you actually
made a mistake.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
This is awful. Yeah it.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Thirteen six five is our number.
Speaker 3 (11:05):
If you've got a family secret you want to share
with us, let's go. We've been getting family secrets this morning.
Jody kicked us off with an incredible family secret about
twin sisters that were actually what were they so confused? Yes,
that's right, she grew up saying these are your cousins.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
But their sisters, they were full sisters.
Speaker 4 (11:22):
Yeah, and you know it's often when people die that
the truth comes out.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
Yes, so what do you got? Thirteen one oh six
fires our number.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
Julie of North Lakes, Hi, Hello, what is your secret?
Speaker 12 (11:35):
Well, when I was sixteen, my mum my grandma, actually
I thought though it was my mom told me that
my sister was actually my mother.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
Oh wow, okay, so your grandma was raising you both
as daughters, but you were actually so much how much
older was your sister?
Speaker 12 (11:56):
Sixteen?
Speaker 2 (11:56):
Sixteen?
Speaker 4 (11:57):
Woll What did that do to your relationship?
Speaker 12 (12:02):
Well, it really destroyed it for a long time because
we were so close, and I couldn't understand why he
didn't kill me in me like thee years and years
and years, like I've been weekend at her house. I
couldn't understand it. You know, we were so close and
we had a big family. I was one of us.
I was second to the youngest of nine children, so
(12:22):
I it was totally blood younger sister who actually was
my auntie. So it's yeah, destroyed. It destroyed that relationship
for a long time, and and she keept to the secret.
So my mother had children of her own, had more
more children, and they were my nieces by a daughter,
and she wouldn't let them know what that was either.
(12:45):
So they were I think nineteen and seventeen when I
told them myself that they're actually my god. Yeah, it
really effect it really affected the family for a long time.
So you know my grandparents, I was my mom and dad.
I never called my sister my mother, you know, mum
and like that. But yeah, they pepped on the secret years.
Speaker 4 (13:08):
And years and years I had Do you feel about
it now?
Speaker 3 (13:13):
I just think they should have told me, right, because
you can see why as a young child they would
have might have kept the secret. But then as it
got further, then the longer it goes, the longer, the
bigger the lie gets, doesn't.
Speaker 12 (13:26):
It And thinking on generation, which is not great.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Yeah, And is there what your relationship like with your
mom now or your system?
Speaker 12 (13:36):
I don't, I don't need to do with it. I
still I still talk to my well, my sister, yeah,
my mom, But.
Speaker 7 (13:47):
Have been.
Speaker 13 (13:50):
Lots of capes, have been close and have my daughters
butt in the It's just it's yeah, too much, it's.
Speaker 4 (14:01):
Hard yet, too much water under the bridge. Thanks for
telling you. Wow, what a story.
Speaker 11 (14:08):
Yeah it is.
Speaker 14 (14:10):
Take it.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
Chelsea out of Red Bank planes. What's the secret?
Speaker 13 (14:14):
Chelsea?
Speaker 10 (14:16):
So growing up I basically was terrified of the pool
cleaners or the creepy crawlies in the pool. Yes, obviously
my family growing up obviously thought I grew out of it. No,
I'm still absolutely terrified.
Speaker 7 (14:33):
Out of it.
Speaker 4 (14:36):
So when you see one, what happens?
Speaker 10 (14:40):
Well, if I'm in the pool like and it gets closed,
I just sort of into the corner and I'm just like, yeah,
I'm not scared.
Speaker 14 (14:46):
I'm fine.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
It's such a great party.
Speaker 4 (14:54):
You feel better for getting out of Chelsea.
Speaker 7 (14:57):
I do.
Speaker 9 (15:01):
Give me.
Speaker 4 (15:03):
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Speaker 3 (15:14):
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Speaker 9 (15:28):
Jody, good morning.
Speaker 4 (15:30):
You've got a confession.
Speaker 7 (15:32):
What is it?
Speaker 14 (15:34):
Don't tell anyone.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
Between us.
Speaker 3 (15:37):
I'm told that this is a non traditional confession.
Speaker 14 (15:41):
Yeah, I don't know till this day. If I'm with
the right parents.
Speaker 3 (15:45):
Right parents, parents, parents, what do you mean?
Speaker 14 (15:50):
I was born in a Sydney hospital, I won't mention.
And there was a good handful of babies born on
that day and back in those days, I used to
take you back to your own little room. All the
baby slipt in a room and a nurse would look
after us and bathe us. And during the bath, the
nurse took all the baby names off all the babies
(16:10):
and didn't know which names went on with babies. So
there was multiple people that got given wrong babies. And
I suppose they just diboed out and hope that everyone
got the right babies back.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
So did the parents notice? They must have noticed.
Speaker 14 (16:27):
The baby that originally my parents got given was a
little colored baby with black curly hair, and I was
very different because I had virtually no hair and blue eyes.
But there was a couple of babies that had no
hair and blue eyes, and a couple of dark skinned
babies with dark hair. So who knows to this day
if any of us got the right parents?
Speaker 3 (16:49):
Was that nurse was it her first day to take
all the tags off?
Speaker 2 (16:52):
That's madness.
Speaker 14 (16:53):
I don't know, but she certainly got racked over the colts.
I just don't know, like sometimes am I am I
really there? Or am I not really there?
Speaker 5 (17:00):
They never got it like a DNA T.
Speaker 8 (17:04):
No.
Speaker 14 (17:05):
I mean I feel like I look like my sisters. Well,
I feel like I'm quite one of my sisters. But
later on I had brown hair and blue eyes, but
both of my siblings had blonde hair and blue eyes.
So it's like, why am I that little bit different?
I questioned it. Believe me, I questioned it a lot.
Speaker 3 (17:20):
Imagine if you got handed to the wrong family and your.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
Whole life that is currently a big story in Brisbane
were Liff. But so, Jodie, would you want to find out?
Speaker 9 (17:34):
Oh?
Speaker 14 (17:34):
It would be scary. I'd be open to it because,
oh my gosh, fifty years later. Could you imagine because
we had.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
To organize like a DNA test and we could certainly
find out and then get the results and ring you
and say, hey.
Speaker 4 (17:49):
Guess what I'm baby? Would that change your life?
Speaker 3 (17:54):
What would that do?
Speaker 1 (17:56):
Just hypothetically, if you discovered you weren't your parents biological child,
what would that do to your life?
Speaker 14 (18:02):
I honestly don't think it would change anything. I'd have
a lot of questions.
Speaker 3 (18:06):
Your real family.
Speaker 14 (18:09):
It could be so I could be like a rich
princess or something which would totally different to my life
right now?
Speaker 4 (18:16):
Why do your parents think though? Would they be okay
with it?
Speaker 14 (18:22):
I think they'd be like, don'd be so stupid, you know,
push her our baby, you know, why would you do that?
So if I had to get samples from them, I
think I'd have to do it sneakily. To be honest,
I think because my dad, you know, he's a fifties
baby and fifties managers.
Speaker 5 (18:37):
There but a lot of yourself and your your siblings.
Do you see a lot of yourself?
Speaker 2 (18:43):
There's not just a few.
Speaker 14 (18:44):
Things in one of my younger sisters, I do. We
even sound very similar. And since she started wearing glasses.
I've been wearing glasses for about twenty years that she
started wearing glasses about eight years ago. I've noticed we
look a lot more alike now that we both wear
the glasses. It's always been a questionable thing, especially when
I'm not happy with my family.
Speaker 4 (19:04):
So mate, we'll do it. If you want to, we'll
sort it out and you'll have a definitive answer.
Speaker 14 (19:12):
That would be crazy. You know, I'm up for it.
Speaker 2 (19:15):
Yeah, okay, yes, how good you need to get?
Speaker 8 (19:18):
Now?
Speaker 2 (19:18):
You might have to get a sneaky sample from your dad.
Something care cut, a little bit of hair, just will
find the landry little sniff.
Speaker 14 (19:26):
And good will pretend COVID tests or something.
Speaker 3 (19:31):
That's a good idea.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
But you only need one of your parents because it's
not like you have to have both, because if you've
won biologically, then you're clearly out with right parents.
Speaker 14 (19:41):
What if I turn out to not be my father's then.
Speaker 3 (19:43):
Oh, good grief, my goodness, Well that's fine.
Speaker 5 (19:48):
The family.
Speaker 3 (19:50):
OK, let's.
Speaker 9 (19:53):
Job.
Speaker 14 (19:54):
You can really cause some trouble here.
Speaker 3 (19:56):
Yeah. Well, in the meantime for your first confession, five
hundred dollars cash.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
It's all yours.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
I think it's awsome and hopefully we'll find out this
DNA will get that result as soon as possible.
Speaker 4 (20:08):
I'm curious, though, I mean family secrets.
Speaker 3 (20:11):
Oh yeah, there's always some.
Speaker 4 (20:12):
There's so many good ones.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
Only only you know about your family choice. You can
change your name thirteen one o six five.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
Yes, tell us about it when he got.
Speaker 4 (20:22):
Because there's a couple of people in our team that
have revealed some stuff. Yes, that is gobsmacking.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
Yeah, they seem so normal.
Speaker 4 (20:30):
Yeah, So if you have a family secret, we'll change
your name. You won't have to be identified.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Oh that's right, we can help you out.
Speaker 3 (20:38):
So thirty one day six five's Own Numb with Robling
Kip Now with coreots on Kiss ninety seven three, Who's
had a really interesting story about someone who's not sure
if her parents are a real parent. She's nearly fifty,
She's gone her whole life not being sure because the
baby tags all got switched around at the hospital where
she was born back in Sydney.
Speaker 4 (20:56):
That just seems insane to me. It just it's like,
how does that actually happen? I don't think it does anymore.
Speaker 1 (21:01):
But we want to hear your family secrets, the things
you haven't necessarily told anyone else.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
The only thing, the only way that she's kind of
certain is that they originally handed her a parent's a
brown baby, and she's like, baby, there's no one brown
in the family.
Speaker 4 (21:17):
That's out. Michelle E. Rabina, what's your family's secret?
Speaker 9 (21:23):
I have a very similar situation where I found out
that years later, it was brought to my attention that
my father wasn't my real father. So I didn't really
know what to do about it, and I asked for
a DNA test with my father. We did the DNA test,
and it came back to me because I was the
(21:43):
one that sent it away. And he was, in fact
not my father. I'm in my fifties as well, but
I found out in my forties and I didn't know
what to do because he was in his late seventies
and dying. So I never told him.
Speaker 4 (21:57):
Oh, did he not ask if you if he knew
you were doing the DNA test?
Speaker 9 (22:03):
He did. He didn't want to do it, but then
he realized that my mother had had an affair around
the time that I was before I was born, So
it all started to make sense to him when I
brought it to his attention, and so he agreed to
do the DNA test. But when the results came back,
I told him that they were inconclusive and that we
just didn't put enough to live hery and I said, oh, look,
don't worry about it. You know, I'm just being silly anyway.
(22:25):
So I just sort of downplayed it all after the
fact because I didn't want to break his heart and
break my family's heart, my sisters and everything. So I
never told anybody.
Speaker 3 (22:35):
And did he pass? Is he still around?
Speaker 9 (22:37):
He's still around. He's still dying. It's been going on
now for a little while. We thought, you know, he's
very unwell, but he still doesn't know. He still thinks
I'm his daughter.
Speaker 4 (22:46):
So, Michelle, so do you think he genuinely thinks that
if they were putting like and just decided he would prefer.
Speaker 9 (22:51):
Not to know. I think he knows that I'm not.
I think he prefers not to know. I think it's
just an unspoken thing between us. And what about your mom, mate, Well,
she passed away, and this is why I wanted the
DNA tests done, because it came to light. I knew
before she passed away, but then it became very we
are some comments that were made to me by other
(23:12):
people that my dad wasn't my dad, And now I'll
never know who my dad was because no one knows
whoso right.
Speaker 3 (23:20):
So you don't you don't get that from the DNA.
You don't get who it is, just that it isn't.
Speaker 9 (23:26):
No, you get like a ninety nine point ninety nine
percent conclusive that it is that you're related to this person.
And I believe you know, it gives you like a
percentage and if you're anything over like you know, ninety
eight percent or something, then that's your father. Well, that's
your parents. And it was really easy. You just I
sent away the cheapest way of doing it was sending
away and you get a kid sent to you, and
(23:48):
then you get the report and everything sent back to you.
But you have to do a mouth for both of
you have to do a mouth square than send a mind.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
And so yep, you're just going to hang on to
that secret because it's better. It's the secret that's better kept.
I think that's a good decision.
Speaker 9 (24:02):
Yeah, it was more for my peace of mind than
to upset anybody, So I just never told anybody else.
It was just something I guess I was to find
out that he was and that it was just a
big room, but I kind of knew it was.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
If you were to do this over again knowing the results,
you know, because there are people who are trying to
make this decision, would you have done it to know
or would have preferred not to.
Speaker 9 (24:26):
Oh no, I'm absolutely glad that I did it before
he passed away, because you'll never get that chance again.
But I wouldn't have wanted to hurt his feelings. So
if anyone's out there listening, I guess you've got to
do it in such a way if they already know
and there's suspicions, fare enough but if there's feelings going
to be hurt and it's going to cause massive family problems,
then you've got to really think about that, because to
(24:46):
my understanding, you can't just get a DNA test anymore
from hair samples and things like that. It has to
be a mousefob. But I may be wrong about that,
but I'd be very careful because obviously you've got to
tell the person what you're doing it for and everything,
and then that's going to cause hurt the answers come
back that they're not and things. That's the only problem,
I guess.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
Thank you so much, Michelle, I really appreciate it. It
helped a lot of peop people.
Speaker 4 (25:10):
I reckon Yeah with Robin Kip and choreotes.
Speaker 3 (25:18):
So this is where we take a classic moment from
film and and rihannact Yes.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
And a song we are doing.
Speaker 1 (25:27):
Mama Mia Mama Maya is a feel good, aberinsparred musical
set on a Greek island where a young bride to be, Sophie,
invites three of her mother's former lovers to her wedding
in hopes of discovering which one is her father. Sophie
will be played by me, but in the movie Amanda Seyfried. Yes,
it's the character Sam is going to be played by Kip,
(25:49):
who in the movie is played by Pierce Brosnan.
Speaker 2 (25:52):
Obviously obviously choose anyone else.
Speaker 5 (25:57):
Johnna is our.
Speaker 1 (25:58):
Very own choreotes, which in the movie is played by
three time Oscar winner Merrill'streep, and the narrator is our
wonderful news reader Alana.
Speaker 4 (26:08):
Hello, guys, let us set the scene.
Speaker 15 (26:14):
In this scene, after the three men arrive at the island,
Sophie shows them into the attic that they will be
secretly staying in so her mother doesn't find out.
Speaker 1 (26:24):
Okay, when I sent the invites out, it was a
long shot you would even reply. And now you've come
all this way for a wedding. Surely there must have
been some special reason to be here, like a siren call.
Speaker 9 (26:37):
Maybe.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
Oh, you're really out, a little minx. You know that
you're just like your mother. I'm glad my boys haven't
met you. They'd never recover. You have sons, Oh, yes too,
and someday I'd like to bring them here, one character.
Speaker 4 (27:02):
Like you used to bring my mother outside.
Speaker 15 (27:05):
The distant humming of mother Donna drifts through the air.
Speaker 4 (27:09):
As she prepares the property for the wedding. Hearing the voice.
Speaker 15 (27:12):
Hearing her voice for the first time in years, all
three men stand up, visibly excited and begin walking toward
the door.
Speaker 4 (27:20):
Keep bumming.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
No, it's Donna.
Speaker 4 (27:25):
No, no, no, no, no, no, listen, listen. She can't know.
I'm gonna go. Please stay. Promise me you'll not tell
anyone I invited you.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
Okay, promise, it's a promise.
Speaker 4 (27:37):
Sophie leaves.
Speaker 15 (27:39):
However, her plan of her mother not finding out didn't work.
It's Donna spots through a window the three men she
was with so many years ago, and naturally breaks into song.
Speaker 5 (27:49):
Nice, I.
Speaker 2 (28:03):
Was cheated by you, and I think you know when
so made of my mind and must come to an end.
Speaker 11 (28:16):
Look at me now?
Speaker 7 (28:18):
Will I ever learned?
Speaker 2 (28:19):
I don't know how the body suddenly lose control. There's
a fire within my sole. Just why I'm looking knocking?
Speaker 7 (28:30):
Here?
Speaker 2 (28:30):
Bill ring one?
Speaker 4 (28:32):
Mama?
Speaker 2 (28:32):
Can I forget everything? Whoa Mama?
Speaker 9 (28:36):
Mia?
Speaker 2 (28:38):
Here I go again?
Speaker 9 (28:39):
Mama?
Speaker 2 (28:40):
How can I resister? Mama?
Speaker 1 (28:43):
Mia?
Speaker 2 (28:44):
Does it show again?
Speaker 9 (28:46):
Mama?
Speaker 2 (28:47):
Just how much your mister?
Speaker 5 (28:49):
Yes, I mean brokingcose is the day we fought els?
Speaker 2 (28:56):
Why? Why indeed I ever let you go Mama, Mia.
Speaker 7 (29:01):
Now I really know mama how to shut out and
let you go around.
Speaker 3 (29:10):
Oh, Meryl, I've got to get home and get Raff
from his mom's because he's he's sick. Looks like he's
got flu. He's been crooked all weekend.
Speaker 4 (29:23):
Oh the flu shocking it is it is.
Speaker 3 (29:26):
Yeah, went all through his school. There was all these
you know, you can see all these parents coughing on
pickup and things like that over the last week.
Speaker 4 (29:32):
You'd love that.
Speaker 2 (29:33):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 3 (29:35):
And RAF's already like me, like there was a little
girl coughing one of his little friends, and he's gone.
Speaker 2 (29:41):
Are you sick?
Speaker 3 (29:43):
Because I've got a little sister at home, so i
can't play with you.
Speaker 2 (29:47):
That's okay.
Speaker 3 (29:48):
He cares so much about Siena. But we got Naomi
and I went and got our flu shots about three
weeks ago. Now well done. Yes, And my GP was
actually telling me a lot less people than in previous
years have been getting the flu shots because we've got
what they call vaccine fatigue, where everyone's.
Speaker 4 (30:05):
Just after how many covids did we have?
Speaker 3 (30:08):
We're all just over it. But pronged, Yeah, don't forget
to get It's not too late. To go and get
your flu shot.
Speaker 1 (30:13):
And I can tell you because my boyfriend Olivia works
in age care that now it's much more concerning.
Speaker 4 (30:19):
If a flu.
Speaker 1 (30:22):
Whatever goes through the nursing home, that end it is COVID. Yeah,
so't won't you know, people won't die necessarily from COVID,
but they will flu when you're in age facilities.
Speaker 4 (30:33):
So that's kind of like telling everyone it's serious.
Speaker 3 (30:36):
Yeah, yeah, I'm going to hang out with Raf because
he's sick. But I do feel like I've got like
a little a little armor on because I've had my shot.
But when we went to go and get the shots,
Rafi he hates needles, hate shots. On the day, he said,
do I have to get a shot? Because he was
coming in with us. I said not, if you not,
if you really don't want to, you can just you
can just watch. And he's going, well, that's what I'm
gonna do.
Speaker 2 (30:56):
I'm just gonna watch.
Speaker 3 (30:56):
I don't want a shot, Well, let's just talk about it.
And on the way there he's talking about it again.
Now I don't have to get one, do you can
just watch? And so when we got to the actual doctors,
he's walked in like he walked in in front of us.
He's walked straight into the to the waiting room. It's
a full waiting room. He goes, guys, I'm just here
to watch.
Speaker 2 (31:15):
I'm not getting a shot. I'm a dad of getting shots.
I'm just watching. That's so cute. And then it came
out at the ending and went straight out to reception.
I didn't get a shot. I just watched. Everything was fine.
Speaker 4 (31:30):
Okay, why didn't he get a shot? Couldn't you have
got there?
Speaker 3 (31:34):
I don't know. It just doesn't seem like it's worth
it for the how much he is terrified of it.
Speaker 4 (31:39):
Okay, can we have this conversation tomorrow. I've been home
with him sick with the flow.
Speaker 7 (31:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (31:43):
So yeah, you've got to go to someone like my friend.
Speaker 1 (31:46):
Nessie is a wonderful nurse and she's been nursing for
years and years and years and lou my middle son
is terrified of needles, and all through his childhood. I
did take him into Nessie and he'd be gone. Now mate,
you know I don't like needles.
Speaker 4 (31:58):
He's just like, yeah, no worries. She'll go look over
there and then go boom every time. By the time
he's like squawking and carrying on. It's all done.
Speaker 3 (32:10):
Just need to hire a ninja who knows.
Speaker 4 (32:13):
Exactly what they're doing. I can like just pinpoint precisions. Okay.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
I asked you to come up with me and tell
me whether you're a hugger. I want to know how
you feel about that physical touch. It is certainly one
of my affirmations. One of the things that I love
to do. It's the way that I show love is
to show affection.
Speaker 4 (32:35):
So I'm a hugger, yeah, Kip.
Speaker 3 (32:40):
Now I'm trying to think about it because I do.
There are definitely people that I hug, but I don't
hug everyone. Yeah, so like my close mates, we'll hug.
I'm trying to Like sometimes Dad and I will hug,
but sometimes we shake hands.
Speaker 2 (32:51):
Is it weird.
Speaker 3 (32:53):
It's a bit weird with Dad, I think maybe because maybe.
Speaker 4 (32:56):
Yeah, do you hug women easily?
Speaker 7 (32:59):
No?
Speaker 3 (32:59):
No, I mean Naomi absolutely, Like we hug generally at
the end of the day, when we've got the kids
to sleep and we've finished doing the dishes and we're
both exhausted, will have a kitchen hug, which is just.
Speaker 4 (33:09):
Like I thank god we made it.
Speaker 3 (33:11):
We're going to make it.
Speaker 2 (33:13):
One more day maybe so we have one of those hugs.
Speaker 5 (33:16):
Yeah, I'm pretty similar to that, Like, yeah, like hug mates,
old man, you shake your hands most of the time,
but then when you know, you do a hug, it's
just like it's a little bit weird, but you're happy
you want to do it.
Speaker 2 (33:32):
Yeah it's weird.
Speaker 4 (33:34):
Yeah, you're getting so awkward about it.
Speaker 2 (33:37):
I just I hope it's never weird with my son,
you know what I mean. It's weird with my dad,
and I don't want it and I'm trying to.
Speaker 3 (33:42):
I don't want that to be weird with Raf, Like
we hugg now, and I hope you always want the heart, But.
Speaker 5 (33:46):
I reckon that was us some little kids, like maybe
with your dad you always I don't know what it
is with your father and yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (33:54):
Why wouldn't you hug your son there?
Speaker 3 (33:55):
Like precious, right, And I hope that you want to
keep it going. But mates, you go through that teenage phase,
you know, when you're fifteen.
Speaker 4 (34:02):
And then you don't get out of it and you're
mad at your dad, and then your dad's mad at you.
Speaker 1 (34:07):
You're actually what you both have described is actually exactly
this was what my partner, Olivia sent to me because
he and I are very affectate, Like we're both really
big huggers.
Speaker 4 (34:17):
But this is interesting.
Speaker 7 (34:19):
Did you know that if your boyfriend is very affectionate
and hugs you all the time, it's not a coincidence.
According to studies, men hug more than women, but they
only do it with those they truly love deeply. It's
because you give them complete confidence, you make them feel
happiness and emotional security. Hugs are not just a sign
(34:40):
of love. They also help men relieve stress and feel
more connected with you.
Speaker 4 (34:45):
Interesting, that's all true.
Speaker 9 (34:47):
So you know how I feel?
Speaker 2 (34:52):
Okay, Blacks, Honestly, I really I do feel that.
Speaker 4 (34:56):
Okay, what about random people hugging you?
Speaker 3 (34:59):
No, I'm not intoc Are you sure?
Speaker 2 (35:01):
I would rather.
Speaker 5 (35:06):
When I first mate someone, I always prefer to shake hands.
Speaker 2 (35:10):
But then but then after and then after I don't hug. Okay,
hugs fine, Back producer Todd left. The Maddie has moved
in for a hug with with Corey and that's fine.
Speaker 4 (35:26):
I think keeps the one that Kip has just done
the whole you know, okay, he's oh you gotta what's producing?
Speaker 9 (35:47):
Mad?
Speaker 1 (35:47):
You here?
Speaker 4 (35:49):
I don't hug Kip. Ever, you don't really have a
hug Corey, like we'll have a hug. We'll hug occasionally
hug each other, but like Corey, yeah, I'm not a
big hug.
Speaker 2 (36:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (36:00):
Camera, it's interesting that producer just like he wanted no partner.
Speaker 4 (36:09):
I think coming in that was less weird than you
hugging out producers.
Speaker 8 (36:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (36:17):
No, so based on that audio, you love him more.
Speaker 2 (36:22):
No, that's I'm sure.
Speaker 9 (36:27):
That's true.
Speaker 3 (36:27):
Yes, there was a guy on the Joe Rogan podcast
who was talking about the contraceptive pill on how it
could be the cause of relationship breakups, and it's on
the back.
Speaker 2 (36:44):
Of this study.
Speaker 16 (36:45):
He got a bunch of guys who were deficient in
one part of their immune response, and then a bunch
of women who were also deficient in one part. It's
called histal compatibility index, and let's say it has five elements,
So they would find a bunch of guys who were
low in one or two or number three or number
four whatever, and women who have the same different deficiencies.
Hypothesis was that a woman who's low in factor three
(37:08):
won't be attracted to men who are low in factor three.
They'll be attracted to men who were high in factor
three because then the babies will be healthy. So he
gets these guys to wear T shirts for three days
and nights with no deodorant, no showers, no soap, nothing,
then puts the T shirts in plastic bags. Then he
has the women smell the bags and mark on a
piece of paper how attractive they thought the men were
(37:29):
based only on the smell of the T shirts, And
he found that with eighty percent of the women, they
chose as he predicted, that they chose the men high
in the thing that they were low in, and they
avoided the men who were low in the thing that
they were low in. But in about twenty percent they
seem to be choosing randomly. So he went back and
looked at the women again and found that those twenty
percent were on birth control pills. So the birth control
(37:50):
pills short circuits that response.
Speaker 3 (37:54):
Anyway, He went on to say that there were relationships where,
you know, a couple of bee together for ten years,
then she'd go off the pill right because they're trying
to have it, and all of a sudden she'd get
a whiff of his hormones and realize that they're no
longer compatible hormone related and she would just go be
off him and.
Speaker 1 (38:10):
Just go that you're not from me nature determining that
you have the strongest babies humanly possible.
Speaker 3 (38:16):
Yeah, I mean I understand the science of it that
it makes sense, right, I mean, it's pretty incredible that
you can smell someone and go, Okay, you've got the
jeans that I need.
Speaker 2 (38:25):
What smells good pheromones.
Speaker 3 (38:28):
But then the idea that you're on the pill, so
it blocks that, so you don't realize that that person
is actually not for you as far as your genetic makeup,
and then you and then you go off the pill
and the person that you did love all of a
sudden go smells wrong to.
Speaker 4 (38:43):
You no longer. You're no longer the guy that I
need to make really strong babies.
Speaker 3 (38:49):
Is that crazy love?
Speaker 5 (38:52):
I'll give you a kiss, good night, Wake up, Get out,
Get out?
Speaker 1 (38:56):
I mean, you know, I thought you were going to
talk about how the pill long term effects can create
mood swings or headaches or tender breasts or make you
feel crazy. Yeah, right, you never want to like month in,
month out, Oh no, no, no, this is just keep
trying to find a reason why so many women.
Speaker 4 (39:18):
Rejected him because you don't smell good?
Speaker 8 (39:21):
Is that it?
Speaker 3 (39:26):
People take sudden turns on me, and I've never fully
understood why.
Speaker 1 (39:30):
And now you went looking for it's because, of course, mate,
it's not me.
Speaker 4 (39:35):
It couldn't be you. Thoughts from the right on marm.
Speaker 3 (39:41):
Cor Cory's about to share some thoughts he's had.
Speaker 5 (39:48):
Yeah, while you're on your own and just have so
much time to yourself to think about things and questions without.
Speaker 3 (39:53):
Answers a lot of the time, lots of them.
Speaker 5 (39:55):
Yeah, okay, yeah, I don't believe that he can ever
be truly answered. Well, look, I got a dog, two dogs,
and one Snapper, and one's Malon. And now Staffer loves
fetching the ball.
Speaker 4 (40:08):
So what kind of dog is Snapper?
Speaker 5 (40:09):
He's a kelpie collie.
Speaker 4 (40:11):
Okay, I do love a ball and they love to run.
Speaker 13 (40:14):
He stopped.
Speaker 5 (40:15):
Yeah, so it wasn't a smart pick anyway. Now, I've
always wondered, does he actually like fetching the ball or
does he bring the ball back to me because he
thinks I like throwing it?
Speaker 4 (40:32):
Wow, I mean dogs are destined to make this in
his mind.
Speaker 8 (40:38):
You think he's like my dad loves running the ball
in mind. Yeah, he's going, all right, I'll keep bringing
it back to it. She's throwing it again, alright, he's
obviously loving it. Yeah, I'm getting packs from you every
time I bring it back. You know, he's doing because
he loves throwing it that much.
Speaker 2 (40:53):
He's doing it for you.
Speaker 3 (40:54):
Yeah, that's an interesting thought.
Speaker 2 (40:56):
I hope it doesn't think that, because.
Speaker 1 (40:58):
Dogs absolutely are put on this planet, like they're the
most unconditional lovers of him.
Speaker 2 (41:05):
Yes, that's exactly my thing.
Speaker 5 (41:07):
Yeah, yeah, they show you unconditional love and just they're
always trying to make you feel good and happy and like, yeah,
because I always know as I walk outside, because I
just want time to myself and then he brings me
to the ball and Dad didn't cheer up here.
Speaker 4 (41:24):
It makes you feel better, you go.
Speaker 2 (41:27):
Yeah, Okay, interesting thoughts thought about that?
Speaker 5 (41:32):
Got another one out of the mile, right, Well actually
yeah poison. Yeah, so you know how like you buy stuff,
food goes off, it's poisonous, it'll probably kill you.
Speaker 3 (41:44):
Yeah, so actual poison like weed, like weed poison or whatever.
Speaker 5 (41:49):
Just when it goes off, is it more poisonous?
Speaker 2 (41:53):
When poison expires?
Speaker 5 (41:56):
Does it become more make it more lethal and potent
of the stuff you're trying to kill.
Speaker 3 (42:02):
That is a good question.
Speaker 2 (42:03):
Yeah, I think it is. Poison expires, does it become
more poisonous? I think that's the one.
Speaker 3 (42:10):
I think that is.
Speaker 5 (42:11):
I don't think I've ever seen a half a half
a cart and a poison trying out. They're always used.
Speaker 4 (42:17):
Poison have an expiry day.
Speaker 3 (42:19):
I know that's the thing with the assassin's going, Wait,
don't use that poison.
Speaker 2 (42:22):
It's gone off.
Speaker 1 (42:25):
The bridge.
Speaker 5 (42:26):
If you add like a lover poison and like a
broad leaf poison.
Speaker 4 (42:31):
Does that just you're not talking about ni like poisoning, which.
Speaker 5 (42:36):
Is yeah, I'm about all poisons.
Speaker 3 (42:38):
Yeah, okay, you don't make the plant.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
You're going to plant poison?
Speaker 3 (42:41):
Now to plant poisons?
Speaker 2 (42:42):
Which question?
Speaker 5 (42:42):
Yeah, two separate plant poisons, yes, weed poisons mixed together together?
Speaker 4 (42:47):
Does that does that make them more doubles?
Speaker 3 (42:50):
Create a super?
Speaker 1 (42:55):
Please don't please, don't try and find an answer to
you may blow yourself.
Speaker 12 (42:59):
Yeah, that's just a question.
Speaker 2 (43:01):
Keep that one on the mower question.
Speaker 4 (43:04):
Think about that one, otherwise we'll see this.
Speaker 3 (43:11):
Shut out of sample.
Speaker 2 (43:17):
The garden.
Speaker 3 (43:19):
Neighbors, suggesting he was trying to invest a super poison, Well,
what do you got?
Speaker 2 (43:26):
Thirty one six out of.
Speaker 3 (43:27):
Number we've been getting Corey's thoughts from his right or.
Speaker 4 (43:30):
Mower thoughts from the right on Marlow.
Speaker 3 (43:37):
And one of your thoughts Corey was about about poison
and how like if something is that's good for you
in the fridge expires, that also all of a sudden
becomes toxic. So what happens if you get poison and
it expires? Does it get even more toxic?
Speaker 2 (43:52):
Or Google makes sense?
Speaker 4 (43:54):
Does not surprise me that you have googled this?
Speaker 13 (43:59):
You know what?
Speaker 5 (43:59):
Same thing?
Speaker 3 (44:00):
It's a great question, and it's a question that's been
asked many times because I started typing it in and
it was just like, you know, it finishes the sentence.
According to Google, it does not become more topic.
Speaker 8 (44:10):
What is it?
Speaker 3 (44:11):
I reckon because it's the chemical compounds, like it gets
potentially less strong or they don't try it.
Speaker 2 (44:22):
It's not like it's safe, so it's maybe less poisonous.
Speaker 5 (44:26):
Okay, a bit of a little bit different type of
it's not poor. Yeah, poison so like an aseptic cream
for cuts and whatnot? Right, yes, so they have an
expiring Yeah, is that the same thing?
Speaker 3 (44:37):
Yes, But they're saying, as they expire, they might they
might not work out as.
Speaker 5 (44:41):
Well as we used to like about and it was
expired by about twenty years?
Speaker 1 (44:46):
Was it in your my mum is exactly the same
medicine cabinet, right, And this thing stuck.
Speaker 5 (44:54):
Like it was horrendous and beause I get so I
had a lot of infections playing footy, so I get
real panic and paranoid when I get a little cut. Now,
so I just wound.
Speaker 2 (45:04):
What are you gotten?
Speaker 5 (45:05):
She just had this one from like nineteen tickety two still,
and I'm like, I'll take it, take whatever you got.
Speaker 2 (45:13):
Well, yeah, it didn't kill me. I'm silly. I love
as she was prepared to test and yeah, had just give.
Speaker 8 (45:19):
It to me.
Speaker 6 (45:20):
No indicator that as she tries to squeeze it out
of the tube comes out like a dry down a
dark brown.
Speaker 2 (45:26):
I'm like, what did it start? But this brown past
strong and I'm looking at him.
Speaker 14 (45:36):
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