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Speaker 1 (00:12):
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Speaker 2 (00:18):
Heart Robin and Kids Now with Choreos the podcast.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
It's Robin and Kipp Now with Coreo. It's on Kiss
ninety seven to three and we have producer Todd ky
We this year, I have my five year old Raft
with me and you said something. You said, yes it is,
and Raft just stopped, looked at you confused and said
why did you say yes it is?
Speaker 4 (00:44):
And no I said yes it is, and he goes, Okay, okay,
I'm not one of.
Speaker 5 (00:52):
You.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Explain that you're from somewhere else.
Speaker 6 (00:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
I was like, I've got an next scene. I'm from
New Zealand. Yes, and then he walks away.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
But I never realized that possibly the reason why we
have the honor of having you as part of our
team is that you've bolted from New zealing because you
have the most randous story I know.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
And this is years ago, but I was working in Auckland,
which is obviously the biggest city in New Zealand, in
Pontonbe which is a central city suburb, and the car
park for work was out the back, but it had
a ninety minute limit. On it right. I would always
get stuck in meetings, I'd be busy, i'd be on
the air, I'd be doing something, and I wouldn't get
the chance to move my car. So every day I
(01:35):
was getting a sixty five dollars ticket every day, every day,
and if you didn't pay that, it became eighty five
dollars within five days.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
So you said, no car park, No, we had.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
To either pay for parking down the road or move
your car every ninety minutes.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Okay, Why didn't you do something else like surely ubering
public moving the car to a parking station.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
Well, I thought every day i'd set a reminder, I'll
move it. Yet today I've got it. I'll definitely remember.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Nope, okay, So this accumulated for how long?
Speaker 4 (02:08):
It was a six month period, And there was also
a little period there where I didn't have a Warranton
rid Joe, and so I was getting on top of
the sixty five dollars, a four hundred dollars fine.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Oh my goodness, it's accumulated to a figure that you
claim is the second highest in New How do you
know it's the second highest?
Speaker 4 (02:28):
It went viral backcome last year. There were so many
news articles and a journalist did like some digging into it,
and I was the sick and highest and.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
On a current affair.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Okay, do not know the figure. We want to see
if anyone in Brisbane can come close.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Okay, thirteen one oh sixty five is our number to
talk us about your parking fied tally, see if you
can go close to Todd's and we'll get Todd's number
in the next few minutes. We've got producer Todd, who's
moved here recently from New Zealand. In the studio where us,
Todd was telling us the story. You made the news
in New Zealand.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
I went viral last year.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
For the moment for the post amount of parking lot
because you used to get a parking fine pretty much
every day at work.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Yeah, so it was over a six month period. I
got a sixty five dollar ticket if I didn't move
my car within ninety minutes at work. That then became
eighty five dollars within five days. There was a small
period there where I also didn't have a warrant a rigio,
and that was a four hundred dollars fine a day
each time, just two hundred for Rigo two hundred for warrant.
Speaker 7 (03:37):
Wow, what did you think was going I don't know
what I thought was going to happen, but I didn't
expect it to be so high.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
I mean the footwell of my back seat. Yeah, granted,
that was full.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
I don't get it.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
When you fill the back seat of your car with tickets,
that's an indicator that you're in trouble.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Todd, well, yeah, I thought maybe there was five thousand
dollars worth.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Yeah, okay, so you called.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
I called the Ministry of Justice, okay, yes, And I said,
how many fines do I have? She said to me,
fifteen thousand and counting? She said that coming in every.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Day fifteen thousand discussed a report in New Zealand. I
just found the article how does someone rack up? Well,
they're saying seventeen thousand, but I guess that's seventeen thousand
parking fines over six months.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Six months?
Speaker 3 (04:28):
Quick. I know how much were you even earning at
this place? You can't have been.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
No, I could never pay that off.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
So what did you do?
Speaker 1 (04:36):
How do you?
Speaker 3 (04:36):
How do you pay that off?
Speaker 8 (04:37):
Well?
Speaker 4 (04:38):
After I got off the phone, when they told me
I had seventeen thousand dollars worth of parking fines. I
hung up, cried and called Mum and nom, I need help,
And then I had to work out a payment plan.
It took me seven years to pay it off.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Did you have to pay off every cent?
Speaker 4 (04:55):
Every single cent?
Speaker 1 (04:56):
The other thing?
Speaker 4 (04:57):
I could have done community service, but I didn't feel
like that was part of my personality and I didn't
think I said in the.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Community Services off brand.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
I love it. But here's the thing. Yes, we thought
that no one could beat that in Brisbane. We were wrong.
Dan have Beachmere how much?
Speaker 9 (05:22):
Twenty two thousand guys?
Speaker 3 (05:23):
My brother twelve two thous.
Speaker 9 (05:27):
A learning lesson?
Speaker 3 (05:28):
No? Is it all parking fines?
Speaker 4 (05:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (05:32):
I've been stuff mostly parking.
Speaker 11 (05:36):
I don't care.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
He just doesn't care. Is he ever going to pay
him off? Do you reckon the Cowboys supporters?
Speaker 10 (05:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
The Defense restaurant.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
You probably have to declare bankruptcy to get rid of that.
Speaker 4 (05:55):
That was also another option that I can do that
they chase it or they just keep.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Now they keep chasing you.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
New Zealand smaller than Australia, you can't run as far.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
That's true.
Speaker 12 (06:08):
That's true.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
They just had a group text. Does anyone who taught.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
Me Jimmy Ashley Okay, Todd had seventeen, dance brother had
twenty two.
Speaker 13 (06:19):
How much, Jimmy, I have twenty five thousand dollars now right,
A little bit over that. Yeah, well I've paid a
bit off, but yeah, still about twenty grand on it too.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
How did you do that, Jimmy?
Speaker 14 (06:34):
About five years of parking in the city, working in
the city and just struggling to find car parks and
going no stuff it, I'll just go there. And I
found out that just emailing the fines to me for
a while, they had an old email address. Oh yeah,
and yeah, I didn't even realize I was getting fined
(06:54):
for about two years.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
So you never got the physical ticket. He's like, what,
oh yeah, yeah I thought I was. You come back
Jimmy for the win. How did you and so how
did you find the old email?
Speaker 14 (07:11):
Well?
Speaker 3 (07:12):
I didn't.
Speaker 14 (07:12):
I've got a ticket on my car one day, called
up about it and they're like, well, well you owe
this month if.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Yeah, and so you on staff type of payment plan, now, Jimmy,
is that what you're doing?
Speaker 8 (07:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 14 (07:28):
Yeah, I'm paying slightly but surely the ass but you're
getting there.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Okay, I just checked just for a friend. You cannot
be jailed solely paying a failing to pay a parking finding.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
That's good to Okay, it's rong. We keep now with Coreo.
It's on Kiss ninety seven three.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
I've got to be really honest about me renovating because
things have gone up so much in the last six months.
Cost Yeah, cost wise, like people have got super busy
and just exponentially months for month. It just seems like
all the cost of actual materials has gone up. And
that is if you can find a builder that's available, and.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
Any decision, what I've discovered recently, any decision you make
is ten thousand dollars. Yeah, well do you want to
do that? That's ten thousand dollars. That's ten thousands.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Very cautious about doing this. I just don't want to
spend money unnecessarily. But I always bought this little worker's
cottage because it needed Like the kitchen's not great, and
I don't mean esthetically, I mean it's not like there's
a lot of things wrong that needs to be fixed.
Doesn't work, so then yeah, it kind of doesn't work.
Now for me, that's not necessarily as diabolic off for
(08:41):
someone who cooks better than me. But just things like
that have been kind of problematic. And so I was
going to start with a retaining wall, and it's been
discovered because of just some other issues with the neighbors,
that I probably need two retaining walls.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
Terrific? Was that ten thousand dollars?
Speaker 10 (08:59):
No?
Speaker 1 (08:59):
But and then you know, I'm looking at other things
and I'm just going, surely some of this stuff I
can do myself, and I'm not glorified around this, Like
my spare room painted with Olibya and my boyfriend and
we did that ourselves. Of course you can, you can
take on those sort of yeah things. But I was
in Bunnings yesterday for the most boring three hours in
my life.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Three hours.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
It's a lot, but it was heaving with people who
were asking for help. So clearly they were trying to
do stuff themselves. Have you how much like what kind
of things have you taken on? And did they work out?
Speaker 3 (09:36):
My mate Pete, him and his partner Amanda, they're they're
renovating at the moment, they're lifting their house and they
needed to put a because they're as part of the lift,
they're putting a power pole out in front of electrical
power pole, a private one.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
They didn't do electrics by themselves.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
Not the electrics, but the pole, which is five meters
and about one hundred and fifty kilos. Now, normally you
need a crane for that, but instead Pete got me
and Toby to come around and his dad and the
three and the four of us managed it with straps
and stuff like. It was terrifying. So we should never
have done it. It was terrifying. We had to get
it off well on the house, like we agree that
(10:12):
we're all going to run in different directions and.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
So you only lose one of you.
Speaker 15 (10:17):
Yes, I had an escape plane.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
Yeah, and then I had to And I've been on
Voltairean for about a week because my back is rooted
from lifting this pole.
Speaker 13 (10:28):
Right.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Yeah, it was a terrible idea.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Did you get it in?
Speaker 3 (10:31):
Yeah, we did it. I'll show you the video. It's
so stressful to watch because you, guys, one of you
is going to die, that's what you won't I'm hugging
this pole as peak climbs the ladder, pushing it up higher.
It's terrifying. Goodness, we should never have done it.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
I was thinking more like in kitchen, Like you know,
when you can get the lamonade off the cupboards and
put new lemonade on relamination.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Have you done that?
Speaker 15 (10:59):
That sounds difficult, I'll before that the sort of stuff
you're talking about.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Well, I'm just thinking that that's where you save money.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
Right, I think you can pay Someone told me you
can paint over laminite, you stand it back, and you can.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
Get you know, all this stuff.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
I'm pretty sure you can. I'm supposed to.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Be the useless one.
Speaker 16 (11:16):
Can I chime in from the newsroom? So my partner Jesse,
and I just bought a house and it's a it's
a real fixer upper. I feel like that's an understatement.
But the bathroom is asbestos and it's it is really
like aged yellowed and that kind of thing. And I
just found out you can buy like fake tiles, so
like three D tile looking stickers that you can read,
(11:37):
tiele the tiles with stickers, and then you just put
like fake silicon, well real silicon, but like you know,
you fake silicon them through the edges so it does
seal them on. But then you don't need to Well,
you can't remove the tiles without removing the asbestos. So
it's like the cheap, a poor man's way giving a
room a facelift.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
Just sticks over there.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Yet you're not going to remove the asbestos yourself?
Speaker 10 (12:00):
Right?
Speaker 12 (12:01):
No?
Speaker 1 (12:01):
No, no, no, absolutely not.
Speaker 16 (12:02):
But yeah, that's kind of like, you know, it's thousands
and thousands of dollars. I don't know if you can
put stickers on the asbestos.
Speaker 3 (12:08):
But on the tie thir if you've got a hack,
that's pretty incredible.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
We are clearly glueless. So if anyone's got like a
clever thing that will save your money, that can update
your house, I'm all.
Speaker 3 (12:23):
So you're not replace in the kitchen, Well, no, I'm going.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
To try and keep as much of it as possible
because it's cheaper that way.
Speaker 15 (12:29):
If the cabinets are fine, just replaces doors.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
Well that's what I'm saying. Don't you just replace the lemonade?
Speaker 17 (12:35):
No?
Speaker 3 (12:35):
But you just your doors? Oh, I said, of a
whole new cabinetry, the doors. There's a second of Bunning's
Corey'll take you.
Speaker 15 (12:42):
I shy.
Speaker 3 (12:47):
I was doing some Reno's.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
Are you calling me now? Because I'm like, I'm a renovating.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
Get around in your boots.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
I do have steel cat boots I do, and I
feel really important when I'm putting them on and I
stopped around and they're like baby blue with pin trim.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
Yeah, I know I could just you would have bought
the boots well before you did any renovations. Bran new
the outfit.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
So much for all the people that are messaging me.
I just got one from Trish who says, just listening
to you this morning talking about renovating. I've renovated many
houses over the years. Just painting the exterior of an
average house can save you eighteen thousand dollars.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Wow, yeah, oh yeah, massive, that's big jobs A yeah,
demo yourself where you can.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
Hey, Corey, you'd be good with a sledge.
Speaker 3 (13:38):
Haven't take up Bunny.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
And using a pre fab kitchen from Bunnings or I
Care could save you up to twenty.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
K prefab kitchen. That's not a bad idea. Cory's idea
of you changing the doors, getting the doors from from
somewhere like that, we.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
Are clearly clueless. Rebecca and Sherwood, what would you like
to say?
Speaker 5 (13:58):
Hi, good morning, good morning everyone.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
Hello.
Speaker 5 (14:02):
Hello. When I knew so, I am repainted a lot
of my signiture.
Speaker 4 (14:07):
I didn't want to.
Speaker 5 (14:10):
So so dev And also I did YouTube tutorio is on,
you know, changed the mozinette some doors and windows. Yes,
because I was getting coats for like two hundred bucks. Yeah,
power window. I went to Bunning's got everything for like
eighty bucks. Saved myself about fifteen hundred dollars.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Wow. So you did all your own fly screens?
Speaker 1 (14:32):
Yeah, I did it all YouTube.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
That's that's a good tip. It's a great tip, okay.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Ben on our text line O four oh nine nine
seven three nine seven three says, redo your kitchen with
Dulux paints designed for cabinets and changed the handles over
gives a fresh new look.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
So yeah, you can paint over the laminade. I think
you just give a little sand Okay, care is.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Not appy with anyone to change my doors? Ron and
Woolen Gammer, what do you reckon?
Speaker 12 (15:00):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (15:00):
Hi, guys, Look, I'm a tradium, a painter buy by trade,
and I know that I do in a few other traders.
What they have is they will have like a consultancy service,
so they'll have like you know, it's like a couple
of hundred bucks. And what they do, or what I do,
is I go out to site, and if it's something
that they want to do themselves, like painting or related,
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then I will go through their job, give them advice
on how I will tackle it, what potential issue sell has,
and what's the best way of doing it. Because yes,
painting is something that you can potentially do, but if
you if you have no clue, you can make more
of a mess than what you actually realize. Have you
made it?
Speaker 3 (15:36):
What are you suggesting?
Speaker 14 (15:37):
Right?
Speaker 3 (15:44):
I mean, if per chance that you were hopeless and
had no clue, you do you get yourself big trouble.
Speaker 10 (15:50):
Yeah, but it does help you a lot, Like if
you're painting the outside of the house, Like yes, you
can say yourself, you know twenty thirty forty thousand, but
then what if that contains lead paint? How are you
going to contain that when you know all those things.
So if you get someone who's been painting for a
long time and has done all that things and can say, look,
this is how I will tackle it, this is what
I would do. There's the materials you know, and it
makes your job a lot easier. And then you can
(16:11):
also what I what some people often what I do
is well you can use my trade discount to purchase
your paint also in that feet.
Speaker 1 (16:18):
You know, so getting a consultant for that particular area,
and even though it's a couple of hundred bucks, it
will save you that what's your.
Speaker 3 (16:25):
Company called rod Painting Strokes, Painting strokes.
Speaker 15 (16:31):
The high pages, high pages you put in the job
and then oh.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
It's like yeah many of the uber things.
Speaker 15 (16:42):
So is it like that they send you the photo
and you say what you want done and blah blah blah,
and then it sends you the right people to.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
Do it for trades.
Speaker 15 (16:50):
Yeah, but honestly, what I've realized, just bone your doors, you.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Get a new doors.
Speaker 15 (16:59):
Okay, I deal with your trying to stand and paint.
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Speaker 1 (17:26):
This is Confessions for cash.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
Good morning Sammy, how to road stale? Hey Sammy, Hi,
how are you good?
Speaker 5 (17:38):
Good?
Speaker 1 (17:38):
Thanks mate? Now you have got a confession what is it.
Speaker 12 (17:44):
Outside of me? There is only one person who knows
the real reason why I divorced my husband after fifteen years?
Speaker 14 (17:53):
What?
Speaker 1 (17:53):
Wow? Is it your husband who knows the real reason?
Speaker 10 (17:57):
Oh?
Speaker 9 (17:57):
Okay, well three, So you're married for fifteen years and
you're about to tell everyone why you got divorce.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
Yeah, let's go mate, what happened?
Speaker 5 (18:13):
Okay?
Speaker 12 (18:14):
So this only had like this. My marriage officially ended
about a year and a half ago. I was pregnant,
about five months pregnant with my last baby, and I
said to my husband I would love to choose her name.
I want to choose her name. It's my last baby.
And he'd always been very firm on picking babies names
(18:36):
and it wasn't really an option.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
So he named the first two Yes, right, okay.
Speaker 12 (18:41):
Okay, And so with this one, I was like, it's
my last baby, I want to name her. And it
became a massive argument which lasted over a week, and
in the end I was like, why can't I name it?
Like what is the big problem with me naming one
of our kids? And he just yelled I'll forget what
(19:02):
it is and left. And so he would work two
weeks away and then be home for two weeks and
then go again. So he was gone for two weeks,
and then when he came back, it was the sort
of we're not talking about it.
Speaker 3 (19:14):
That's it was he five fou? What was he doing
for two weeks?
Speaker 12 (19:17):
Well he said it was five fix but getting there?
Speaker 3 (19:22):
Yeah, okay.
Speaker 12 (19:25):
So, like I've been talking with my girlfriend over a
period of two weeks, and you know, we were sitting
having she was having a glass of wine, and she's like, oh,
he probably wants to name the baby because that's what
he names his other kids as a joke. Yeah, you
don't plan to steed like that in the pregnant woman's head,
the starters.
Speaker 5 (19:45):
And I was like, let's look into it.
Speaker 12 (19:49):
So started going through his phone and you know, went
into maps and everything else to see where he was going.
And there was an address listed under home, which was
not our address.
Speaker 9 (19:59):
Okay, So ended.
Speaker 12 (20:02):
Up it was only a few suburbs away. So I
ended up driving over to this place. It didn't look
anything remarkable. That wasn't a business place or anything like.
It was just a normal home. And so I went
home and you know, went about for the next couple
of weeks, and he left again, and I actually drove
(20:22):
to this address again and his car was parked there,
and started doing a little bit of Facebook stalking and
then found out that he had a whole other family.
Oh sammy with kids and all of that. So through
(20:44):
my Facebook stalking, found out that he had now three
kids with this woman. And you were the same as
my kid's name. So my girlfriend's joke off probably so
he doesn't forget it wasn't really a joke about.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
So he had potentially five, nearly six children, and each
of those children dren had the same names in separate
families because as he threw at you in an argument,
so he doesn't forget the name. Mhm, yep, Oh my goodness.
Speaker 3 (21:22):
So there's allest kids on each side of the same names.
Speaker 2 (21:25):
So he had a whole other life, really.
Speaker 12 (21:27):
Whole other family. Like he was engaged to this woman.
But yeah, but like it really came to a head
sort of. He posted It was about a month or
so after I'd had my baby. He posted an ad
on Facebook looking for someone to go and hang out
with her mom because the mom wasn't well while they
(21:50):
went to a family event. And I responded to.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
The ad just to hang on one sect. Let's come
and get into that in a thingd But so is
this kind of the way you confirmed it? We're going
to get into it. Yeah, Okay, let's come back. We
might get a song and we'll come back and we'll
get this story because it feels like there's there's another
whole story. Yeah, this is incredible hanging there. Can you
hang in there for a second, Sammy?
Speaker 2 (22:14):
Sure?
Speaker 5 (22:15):
Sure.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
We've been talking with Sammy out of Roachdale, who has
never told anyone the real reason she filed for divorce
after fifteen years of marriage.
Speaker 12 (22:25):
Through my Facebook stalking and found out that he had
a whole other family now three kids with this woman
same as my kid's name.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
So we got to the point where you were suspicious
and you wanted to confirm it to what happened? Something
about Facebook.
Speaker 12 (22:45):
Yeah, so I did a lot of Facebook stalking, and
I learned that, you know, our older two girls were
actually playing against each other and into school sports and
things like that. So that'd actually been in the same
room together and competed together.
Speaker 3 (22:59):
And wait, so the.
Speaker 15 (23:00):
Kids at the same age.
Speaker 1 (23:02):
Yeah, roughly and the same gender obviously. Yeah wow, okay,
so yes, you found out that the two oldest girls
were associates.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
They're step sisters.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
They don't even know it.
Speaker 12 (23:14):
Yeah. And then about a month after I had my
last baby, she'd posted an ad on Facebook saying that
they had a family event and they wanted someone to
come and stay with mum while they were at this event.
Speaker 3 (23:27):
And I responded, so you were about to go into
the house of the person you know is the other woman.
Speaker 14 (23:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 12 (23:33):
It was very, very confronting to walk in and see
pictures of him with his kids on the wall that
mirrored what was on my wall. You know. I ended
up hanging out with this woman's mum, and she was
absolutely beautiful. She had the most wicked sense of humor
and sort of got talking about her daughter and her
daughter's Beyonce, and how he'd been engaged for like eleven
(23:55):
years and she didn't think that he was ever going
to marry her and she didn't like him and everything else.
And I said, oh, well, it's probably been engaged that
long because he can't get married, and she was like,
what do you mean, And I said, because I'm actually
his wife.
Speaker 3 (24:09):
Oh wow?
Speaker 1 (24:10):
What did she say?
Speaker 12 (24:12):
She was like sorry?
Speaker 4 (24:13):
What?
Speaker 12 (24:15):
So I sort of just showed her my wedding photos
and sphotos of him at the birth of my kids,
and she was like, oh, I knew there was something
about him that I didn't like. So her and I
were sort of sitting in the lounge room and he
came in first and he just stopped and he went white,
and it was sort of that oh god, dear in
(24:36):
the headlights look. And then she came in behind him,
and he didn't say a word the entire time, and
she was like, oh, did you have a good night?
Speaker 1 (24:45):
I was like, yep, Why why didn't you say something?
Speaker 12 (24:51):
Because why play into his line and give him the
justification of him saying me hurt by what he's done?
Speaker 1 (24:57):
Oh, fair enough, that is so strong.
Speaker 2 (25:01):
Okay, so you oh.
Speaker 12 (25:03):
My girlfriend on the way home and we had a
little bonfire in the backyard and we burned everything that
he owned. And then he came home like a week
later because he had to stick to his you know,
two weeks on, two weeks off, and he's like, oh,
where's my staff, And I'm like, it's the ash in
the backyard.
Speaker 10 (25:21):
But here's your horse papers.
Speaker 3 (25:23):
Here's your divorce papers.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
He didn't try and walk in going let me explain,
I'm so sorry, Like he just thought you would just
keep going.
Speaker 12 (25:33):
Yeah, I think because I didn't try to find him
about it and I didn't say anything, and you know,
there was no contact with us for that week.
Speaker 15 (25:46):
Brush sweet under.
Speaker 3 (25:47):
The rugs, Like, sam, he's going to be fine. Yeah,
you've only told your friend and now asked what about
your kids?
Speaker 12 (25:54):
No, I haven't told them.
Speaker 3 (25:56):
They don't know about the other family.
Speaker 12 (25:58):
No, it's not It's not up to me to tell
them and to destroy him in their eyes. You know,
at the end of the day, he is still there.
He doesn't have anything to.
Speaker 6 (26:07):
Do with them now.
Speaker 12 (26:08):
He's very much moved on with his new family.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
So they're still together.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
Yep, Sammie, why are you keeping a memory of a
man who's a complete drop kick? Like I mean, I
so respect you. You have so much courage and you
are so strong, But why are you protecting him? I
don't know.
Speaker 12 (26:31):
It's not about protecting him. It's about protecting the kids. Yeah,
you know, and at the end of the day, that
was between him and I. It's not about bringing the
kids into it and then them going, oh, well, now
I have this opinion of you in this way.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
It's so big of you. I mean, I can't help,
but feel that you are doing the right thing because
it doesn't improve their lives to know that their dad's
an ahole.
Speaker 12 (26:53):
But well, that's exactly right, Tammie.
Speaker 1 (26:55):
What happens if they find out and they blame you
for not telling them?
Speaker 12 (27:00):
Look, I think that will be an unimaginable hurdle to
try and get over.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
Because they will find out eventually, won't they of course they.
Speaker 12 (27:09):
Will, Look, they probably will. They probably will, And all
I can do is hope that they sort of understand
why I haven't told them.
Speaker 1 (27:18):
You poor love, I mean, And if you haven't told anyone,
you've got like one friend who's supporting you through this. Yeah,
that's insane. I get why you wanted to tell someone else.
Speaker 2 (27:29):
Is that why you're called Yeah?
Speaker 12 (27:32):
I think so, because, like it's something that just you
never ever think that it's going to happen to you.
The rebuild of yourself is the most painful thing that
you can ever go through, but it is also the
most rewarding to see yourself come out the other side.
Speaker 1 (27:51):
And I think that's why I kind of questioned why
you take on the responsibility of that lie, because it's
not you, mate, it's him. You have done nothing wrong.
Speaker 3 (28:06):
You're extraordinary or extraordinary, and you've come out the other
side with a story that most people don't want. But
what a story it is, and thank you so much
for sharing it with a Sammy. And it doesn't feel
like five hundred bucks is enough, but five hundred dollars,
so thank you for sharing.
Speaker 1 (28:25):
Good luck, mate, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 3 (28:27):
The story that we've just had in our Confessions for Cash,
where Sammy fan out her partner had an entire other family.
Speaker 1 (28:35):
For fifteen years. It's sa Mache children and the Way,
and she discovered it because she wanted to name her
last child and he wouldn't let her because he wanted
to keep both families on the kids' names the same,
so he didn't stuff it up. So many people are
reacting on our text line. Chantelle has written, I'm with Robin.
(28:56):
I'm having a physical reaction to her story. I want
to kick her husband in the face. What a douchebag.
But physical violence aside, which none of us are going
to do. We actually really want to help Sammy. I
feel so passionately about supporting this woman. So the one
way we can is with our resident counselor, Heidi Summer
Ball from Heidi's Counseling Services dot Com. Heidi, did you
(29:18):
just hear all.
Speaker 17 (29:19):
That I did?
Speaker 11 (29:22):
Poor Sammy? What a horrific story.
Speaker 1 (29:25):
So what can you do?
Speaker 11 (29:27):
Well, Look, the first thing I'll say is I'm so
glad that she reached out and she has told this story,
because what that indicates to me is that she's ready
to start to detox this. She obviously was in shock
her children were abandoned and really betrayed by their dad,
and so I feel as though she's probably gone into
(29:48):
a full Mama bear, lockdown, batten down the hatches sort
of protective mode. And that's tied into why she has
kept this secret. But you know, she's carrying this around
at the base of therapy and probably at the base
of what you guys are doing there with ther confessions
for cash. Once we speak it, we don't store it.
(30:10):
I don't want Sammy storing this story, and I really
want to help her work through it if she's open
to it.
Speaker 1 (30:17):
So you can help her, Like if she wants to
come and see you, you will give her all the
time she needs to be able to do that.
Speaker 11 (30:24):
I absolutely will. I mean I don't I'd need to
talk to her a little bit more. But one of
my fears in this is that she's carrying around the
embarrassment and the shame of this happening to her. Often
what I hear in these sorts of stories is, you know, well,
how could I have been so vallable? I should have known.
It's almost like they can victim shame themselves and because
(30:47):
of that embarrassment, they they don't share it with anybody.
But it's not it's not her that she should be embarrassed.
Speaker 3 (30:55):
You know, there's not one part of that story that
I thought, oh, she's done something wrong. It's just phenomenal
or what a pig this blokes.
Speaker 1 (31:04):
But we've just got Sammy back up. Hey Sammy, Hi,
are you good? Mate? I know must be so overwhelming
with all of this, but Heidie's offering to help you.
Do you want that help?
Speaker 8 (31:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (31:18):
I think it could be something that we look into
and how chat about.
Speaker 3 (31:23):
You need to have more conversations about it, because we
haven't stopped talking about it since. Like off, it's just
such an incredible story and it's just so shameful what's
happened to you?
Speaker 1 (31:34):
To you, Sammy, It's so shameful what he's done to you,
so we'll we'll let you got you go. Thank you
so much. I know it's been a lot, and we'll
give you Heidi's number and when you're ready. I can
absolutely vouch for this woman. She has helped me personally
and so many other people, and I'm sure that she
can help you too.
Speaker 12 (31:56):
Thank you, Thank you so much. I really appreciate it.
Speaker 3 (31:58):
Thanks Sammy, thank you, Hey Heidi. Before we let you go?
Is there a technical term for this blog beyond a hole?
Speaker 11 (32:05):
I don't think it's anything we can say before nine
pm at night, right.
Speaker 3 (32:10):
It was more the fact he came back and just
thought it was yeah, when he came back into the
house after he'd been found out two weeks later, he
came back into the house and said, oh, where are
all my things? Like it was all going to be fine, And.
Speaker 1 (32:21):
It's the worst gas lighting.
Speaker 11 (32:22):
Ever, absolutely extraordinary. And I mean I hear stories all
day every day, and this is right up there. It's
we can't understand it because it's so far from the
normal frame of reality that it's kind of honestly impossible
to understand. And you know, Sammy just sounds even then,
she sounds so vulnerable and wobbly and you know it's Yeah,
(32:47):
you can hear it in a voice. He really needs
some support.
Speaker 3 (32:50):
Yeah, well, hopefully you can give it to a thank
you Heidi.
Speaker 11 (32:52):
Okay, thanks guys, and obviously.
Speaker 3 (32:54):
We'll try and give Sammy all the privacy she deserves.
But ye keep you up to date if we can.
Speaker 1 (32:58):
Yeah. Absolutely, Now we step out, but let me just
say Heidi'scounseling Services dot com. She's awesome and we need
to help this woman.
Speaker 3 (33:06):
We do. Indeed, right now it is time for.
Speaker 2 (33:09):
With Robin Kid Coyotes.
Speaker 3 (33:15):
We take a magic moment from film and make it
our own, includes a little song at the end. It's
a fun one. Today it's probably adult themes. Hopefully we'll
go overheads of anyone else, but just be aware that
there are some adult themes in this one.
Speaker 1 (33:30):
Yeah, because we are talking about something about Mary.
Speaker 3 (33:34):
Yes, now the role today the ben still a role
will be played by Corey today. Are your Mary Robins? Yes,
and I'll be the best mate Woogie who gives the
very vital advice.
Speaker 9 (33:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 16 (33:46):
Sorry, and I'm in here from the newsroom, but I
agreed before I realized what I would be reading, So apologies.
Speaker 1 (33:55):
Your credibility is in town.
Speaker 3 (33:58):
La will also be helping us out with the chorus
for the song, which is the other reason we bring
I didn't know. Okay, great?
Speaker 1 (34:04):
Ok So.
Speaker 16 (34:05):
Setting the scene, Ted is getting ready for a big
date with Mary. His mate Woogie is giving him a
pep talk about needing to clean the pipes before a
big date.
Speaker 15 (34:15):
I don't know, Dan, I don't feel good.
Speaker 3 (34:17):
I feel nervous. I feel really nervous. Come on, relaxed.
You've been in the cash machine. Yeah, car clean? Uh huh,
plenty of gas?
Speaker 2 (34:26):
Uh huh, breath.
Speaker 3 (34:28):
How's your breath? That's fire, that's some alter it all right?
Speaker 9 (34:31):
Then?
Speaker 3 (34:31):
Uh, I think you're all set, So just go clean
the pipes and it's a go. Huh, you know, clean
the pipes? What do you mean, clean the pipes? You
choked the chicken before any big date. Don't you tell
me you spank the monkey before any big date? Oh God,
he doesn't flog the dolphin before a big date?
Speaker 2 (34:51):
Are you crazy? Loogie then gives.
Speaker 16 (34:55):
A different version of the Birds and the Beast talk
to Ted about how he'll feel better before his big
date after cleaning the pipes. In the next scene, Ted
had cleaned these pipes, but has lost the filling and
is desperately searching for where it went, whether how did
it go?
Speaker 18 (35:15):
Hang on, hang, hang on, wait a second.
Speaker 1 (35:21):
Oh hello, how are you doing?
Speaker 2 (35:24):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (35:25):
How are you doing?
Speaker 13 (35:27):
Good?
Speaker 1 (35:29):
Good?
Speaker 3 (35:30):
You're looking very beautiful.
Speaker 1 (35:31):
Oh thank you?
Speaker 3 (35:34):
What is that.
Speaker 1 (35:36):
On your ear?
Speaker 3 (35:38):
On my ear?
Speaker 1 (35:40):
No? No, you're left ear? Is that.
Speaker 3 (35:45):
Is that hair?
Speaker 18 (35:46):
Jel?
Speaker 3 (35:49):
Yeah, you're right.
Speaker 18 (35:52):
I could use some No, no, no, no, don't you don't
have to.
Speaker 2 (35:55):
I just ran out.
Speaker 18 (35:57):
Oh why didn't you build me up?
Speaker 1 (36:13):
Fill me up?
Speaker 3 (36:14):
Body, come baby, just to let.
Speaker 1 (36:16):
Me down, let me down, mess me around?
Speaker 2 (36:19):
And then worst of all, worst of all.
Speaker 3 (36:21):
I'll never come baby.
Speaker 2 (36:22):
Way, ain't you say you will, say you will?
Speaker 3 (36:25):
Let I still love you.
Speaker 18 (36:26):
I need you, I need you. Wann't anyone Darland. You
know that I have from the stone. So build me up,
fill me up, body.
Speaker 2 (36:36):
Cop, don't break my heart. I'll be over it.
Speaker 3 (36:42):
Ten you told me time in again, but you're late.
Speaker 1 (36:46):
I wait around for you and the hause I went
to the door.
Speaker 3 (36:49):
I can't take any more. It's not you.
Speaker 18 (36:51):
You let me down again. Hey, Hey baby, I try
to find hey, Hey, time I make up? Hey, have
me home? I mean beside the parn waiting for you.
Why do you filled me up? Build me a body,
(37:15):
come eby, just to let me down, Let me down,
must be around, and there was all.
Speaker 1 (37:21):
West and all.
Speaker 18 (37:21):
I'll never come baby.
Speaker 3 (37:23):
When you say you will, say, well, I just to
love you. How he do?
Speaker 18 (37:27):
How mother?
Speaker 3 (37:29):
Anyone Darland, I know.
Speaker 18 (37:31):
That you have promised. Don so fill me up, bail
me abady, come, don't beat my heart.
Speaker 3 (37:50):
There's been an incident over in the US. And look,
I think Samuel Jackson said it best when he was
worried about the snakes on a plane. But this this
is the update. There's been pigeons on a plane. And
Samuel l was there, no is eno.
Speaker 7 (38:04):
I have had it with these mother flipping pigeons on
this mother flipping hoy.
Speaker 3 (38:10):
That incredible eye witness. But this has happened over in
the States. Delta Airlines a flight from Minneapolis to Wisconsin.
It's like flying from Adelaide to somewhere else boring. That's
the flight. And so they've gone to their taxiing and
(38:31):
apparently they've they've taxied, they've seen a pigeon, they've caught
a pigeon and released it from the plane.
Speaker 1 (38:37):
And on the outside of the plane.
Speaker 3 (38:39):
Inside the plane, they've gone there's a pigeon in the plane.
They've caught it, released it, carried on taxing, and only
to discover there's more pigeons. And so this is a
scene from inside the plane.
Speaker 17 (38:56):
I went to sit down and I overheard a passenger
come up to the flight of tenant who was standing
right by where I was, and she said, I think
there's a pigeon on this plane.
Speaker 3 (39:11):
That sound is the captain talking to the tower there.
They haven't taken off. They had to. They had to
head back again, like a third time. There's a pigeon.
Speaker 1 (39:22):
I'm not of birds at all, Like they don't freak
me out, but in confined spaces when they're coming at you,
because that would be.
Speaker 3 (39:32):
People are trying to catch it with suit jackets. They're
all throwing jackets. Have a listen, because you can hear
someone who's actually having the worst day of their lives.
Speaker 17 (39:45):
I want to sit.
Speaker 3 (39:48):
Crying. Oh it's a pigeon, I know. And that's when
you need someone to stand up.
Speaker 7 (39:54):
I have had it with these mama flipping pigeons. How
they got in the plane, because because the changeover is
always so quick like from when they land, they refuel,
the doors are open for a bit it, but how
did they get in there?
Speaker 1 (40:11):
Well, and if there's anything like Australia, which they're probably not,
you know those what are those arms called.
Speaker 3 (40:16):
The gate thing?
Speaker 1 (40:18):
Yeah, there's no real gap, no pigeon to get in.
Speaker 3 (40:21):
I mean you wouldn't have thought so. So someone's.
Speaker 15 (40:25):
Someone's put them on there.
Speaker 3 (40:26):
Well, apparently they reckon they're wild. There wasn't someone traveling,
you know, Americans travel with their pets. They reckon they
were wild pigeons or do.
Speaker 1 (40:33):
You imagine the pigeon?
Speaker 3 (40:34):
Hey, Harry, and you know how pigeons are. You know
the pigeons always fly home as well, so they could
have gone they're like you know them? Then take me
out someone down back to this, going back to Wisconsint
have you had have you had a bird in the
house though, or birds somewhere you don't want it? Thirteen
(40:55):
one oh six five's out number, and.
Speaker 1 (40:57):
You feel so stupid because how do you actually catch it?
Speaker 3 (41:00):
They're so fast and you stand.
Speaker 1 (41:02):
Yourself jumping jacks like as if you're going to catch
it with your bed.
Speaker 3 (41:07):
Or you've got your tiny little fishing net. The one
from your fish bonds not big enough. Our number over
in the States. A plane had to go back to
the what are they called it? Not the station gate?
Speaker 14 (41:23):
The gate?
Speaker 3 (41:24):
Yes, because there was there was pigeons flying around inside
the cabin.
Speaker 17 (41:34):
I went to sit down, and I order heard a
passenger come up to the flator tenant who was standing
right by where I was, and she said, I think
there's a pigeon on this plane.
Speaker 6 (41:44):
The pigeon.
Speaker 3 (41:47):
Everyone was stunned, and the cabin is going, what what else.
Speaker 1 (41:51):
Is gonna happen?
Speaker 3 (41:52):
The first time in his whole career is had to
have a turn back because of a pigeon.
Speaker 1 (41:56):
What do you know about birds and your encounters with
them in your life? Duty of a Rana Hills? What happened?
Speaker 6 (42:02):
Oh my goodness. So I'm a teacher and we're in
our prep classroom and there was the turkey that wanders
around all the time. There's a few of them we
named and Dan and Roy. Anyway, the turkey came into
the classroom. The back door was left open, and it
took us about forty five minutes with twenty five preppies trying.
Speaker 2 (42:22):
To get this turkey who's.
Speaker 6 (42:24):
Flying high into the high ceilings who were everywhere flapping
they go, they go, b oh, my gosh. But we
took it a step further and we turned it into
our project based learning, and so the kids had to
come up with ideas on how to keep this turkey
out of the classroom, and oh my gosh, they made
life size flamingos, a very light butterfly hanging from the
(42:49):
back door to scare it away, you know, Christmas lights
as you need. It was brilliant and it went on
for about oh that project took us about maybe two months. Yeah,
it was hilarious.
Speaker 3 (43:04):
That's brilliant. Love of the idea of being an as
Jane student and going back to Germany. Go well, for
the last two months we learned how to chase off.
Speaker 1 (43:12):
A turkey Slack's Creek. Something happened with a cockatoo. What
was it?
Speaker 8 (43:19):
I went to go do a rescue of a sun splash,
dead looking bird on the side of the roads. Go
rescue it, wrap it up in the towel, poppet in
the car driving to go through the vet and the
bugger decided to come alive and fly around like a loam.
Speaker 1 (43:34):
What did you do?
Speaker 8 (43:36):
Don't looked like a drunk person erb in this lane,
that lane everything dunk dive and weaving open that window
and I said, natural selection, mate, you're on your own.
Speaker 4 (43:50):
You go.
Speaker 1 (43:51):
It just reminds me of that falcon moment with Julianne
Moore in Siren. You don't like birds, don't watch it
so bad?
Speaker 2 (44:03):
Thoughts from the right on Marlow the Cory own choreo.
Speaker 3 (44:10):
It spends a lot of time on a ride on mow.
It's got a big property to mow, and so in
that time he has thoughts which he likes to share.
And if you've got one thirteen one oh sixty five
is our number, well so.
Speaker 15 (44:20):
This one kind of yeah. Look, it's something that I
think has been a great debate for.
Speaker 1 (44:26):
A long time, particularly your mind.
Speaker 15 (44:28):
Yes, yeah, I.
Speaker 3 (44:30):
Was of it.
Speaker 15 (44:31):
Actually, how can you tell me how how does your
brain remember that you've forgotten something but can't remember what
you forgot?
Speaker 1 (44:42):
Scientifically, it to be about where the thoughts are in
your brain.
Speaker 3 (44:45):
Yeah, like your filing system, filing.
Speaker 1 (44:47):
System in your brain. That is about as good as
I can help you.
Speaker 15 (44:51):
My filing systems a bit like Simpsons.
Speaker 3 (44:53):
There's no good now the monkey. Yeah, I think you've
got to clapping symbols together. It's annoying, isn't it, Because
it's almost like you get the notification, Hey, you've forgotten something, yeah,
and then you go what is it?
Speaker 1 (45:06):
And then you know why did you bother with the notification? Exactly?
Speaker 18 (45:10):
If you cannot why are you telling me?
Speaker 3 (45:16):
Why are you telling me about this if I can't
fix it?
Speaker 15 (45:18):
Yes, stupid. Maybe that's why people will trust me with
the deepest, darkest secrets, because then I'll just forget.
Speaker 3 (45:26):
You're a good man to tell your stories.
Speaker 1 (45:28):
Yeah, so you'll know when someone you hear a repeated
story that somehow that is vaguely familiar, but you just
can't that. Yeah, where did they go?
Speaker 3 (45:38):
In my brain? Thirteen one sixty five is our number.
We've got somebody who wants to get involved, Jamie out
a green bank. What's your thought, Jamie?
Speaker 17 (45:45):
So my thought is every single day in the world,
somebody will take the biggest poop and not.
Speaker 3 (45:53):
Realize, like a world record ship.
Speaker 1 (45:56):
Yeah, not realize, Jamie. Can I tell you? I could
have lived my entire life never thinking that, thinking of.
Speaker 3 (46:11):
You're right, every day someone takes someone takes the record
for the day.
Speaker 1 (46:16):
Seven billion people or whatever it is.
Speaker 3 (46:19):
It doesn't even realize they just break the record.
Speaker 1 (46:23):
Michelle of Toowong.
Speaker 13 (46:24):
Hi, Hi, guys.
Speaker 6 (46:27):
I always think that the water that you drink is
never truly yours.
Speaker 12 (46:33):
It's just your turn to.
Speaker 3 (46:34):
Drink it, yeah, because it's always floating around, going up
into this the clouds and down in the ocean, and
then someone else might have drunk it once and it's
moved through and.
Speaker 1 (46:43):
Then you pee it and it goes into the serea system,
which then goes out into the ocean that then rises
up into the clouds, comes down again, goes into water
tanks and here we are.
Speaker 3 (46:54):
It's just your turn.
Speaker 13 (46:55):
Bo.
Speaker 15 (46:55):
It's a good filter, great filter system clouds, because.
Speaker 1 (47:01):
Otherwise you'd be drinking other people.
Speaker 3 (47:02):
Yeah, yeah, that is a gross thought. Thank you, Thank
you water, Thank you Michelle.
Speaker 1 (47:09):
Okay, so my our friend Linda is up from Adelaide
and we went down to the Gold Coast and went
to a bath house Land bath house. It's same as
soak and all those guns that they have around, and
they had an eye spath, right, and the idea of
you know, you can go you're supposed to go warm pool,
hot pool, sauna.
Speaker 3 (47:30):
I spat the after the sauna yes, to finish it
always cold.
Speaker 1 (47:34):
Do you and you're supposed to get as hot as possible.
Men go to the icepar repeat just.
Speaker 3 (47:39):
To really shock your skin.
Speaker 15 (47:40):
That's the whole point of it.
Speaker 3 (47:41):
It shocks your body.
Speaker 1 (47:42):
So the one that I was at was twelve degrees,
which is I think what they.
Speaker 2 (47:46):
Most that's hot?
Speaker 1 (47:48):
Really?
Speaker 15 (47:49):
Yes, there's like seven to nine.
Speaker 14 (47:51):
I think.
Speaker 1 (47:51):
Well, there is a photo of me not coping, trying
to get in and out. And can I say I
can still feel the tingle that's good on my legs
and you need it. That's twenty four hours later.
Speaker 3 (48:02):
Yeah, it hate it.
Speaker 1 (48:04):
It's like it's like because I'm such a cold egg,
Like I'm the one that swims with a wet suit. Yes, yes, okay,
that's me because I get so cold that it sort
of impacts my DNA, So I am still cold head.
Speaker 2 (48:21):
No have you seen my ears?
Speaker 1 (48:24):
That would be flashed?
Speaker 15 (48:26):
Dunk your head it makes it.
Speaker 3 (48:29):
Oh yeah, I guess it's kind of like a swimming
pool when you put your head under, it does get
it does sort of equalize somehow. But you know, but
how long were you in this twelve degree ice bath?
Speaker 1 (48:37):
For well, I was watching people staying for three minutes. Yes,
and I thought I'll die, so I dunked yep, and
then I waited and then I could then like my
teeth were chattering, and I went, I did go off
them like I did go my shoulders.
Speaker 3 (48:51):
Under, Yeah, shoulders under okay for what like thirty seconds?
Speaker 16 (48:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (48:58):
Maybe?
Speaker 1 (48:58):
And if as you see on my Instagram, there's me
coming out of the water, just don't.
Speaker 14 (49:02):
Get me out.
Speaker 3 (49:03):
I have it, do you. Yeah.
Speaker 15 (49:05):
I used to loved on it every day every morning.
Speaker 3 (49:06):
I used to.
Speaker 15 (49:08):
My routine was so I stuck to it so so well,
you know, ten to fifteen minutes sauna and then just
like a five minute ice bath.
Speaker 1 (49:17):
In there for five minutes dive.
Speaker 15 (49:19):
I'd jump in like underneath.
Speaker 1 (49:21):
For five minutes.
Speaker 15 (49:22):
So I got to a point where I could do
my head under for about ten to twenty seconds.
Speaker 3 (49:26):
I'd try and sad, yeah, because that'd have it at
Broncos training to have a nice bath.
Speaker 15 (49:31):
Yeah, and then I'd sitting there for five five minutes.
Sometimes you I'd stay with like my neck.
Speaker 1 (49:37):
Just how do you get hyperthermia?
Speaker 18 (49:40):
No?
Speaker 3 (49:41):
I feel like you should have a sauna afterwards to
let your body warm up.
Speaker 15 (49:44):
And you had to finish on cold and then have
a shower and gave train. Yeah, but it's so good
for they say. The whole point of doing the warm
and then straight the cold is it shocks.
Speaker 3 (49:56):
Your brain, shops your system. Yeah, it's really healthy for you.
Speaker 1 (50:00):
Okay, we should do that. We should actually go to
like soak it was, and see how long each of
can last ice bath.
Speaker 15 (50:06):
I wish I could do it every day, so I don't.
I would love to be ab to do it all
still the same.
Speaker 1 (50:11):
I wish I could, but because I'll lose, yeah, and
Corey will win. Will you sit on that?
Speaker 12 (50:16):
Well?
Speaker 3 (50:16):
You know what, I'm actually not allowed to dawn because
I had that member. I had that heart operation for
my atual fibrillation, so that's when your heart beats out rhythms.
You're not allowed to do ice baths because they reckon
it could shock your body. It could shock your heart
out of rhythm again because mine's backing in as I
had the operation. They reckon for you, it's that bad.
It could ruin your heart. Really, Yeah, I'm not allowed,
(50:40):
and I'm not sad that I'm not allowed.
Speaker 1 (50:42):
I was just meant to say for anyone else at
one hundred percent believe that for you wipement, that is
the best excuse
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Speaker 2 (00:18):
Heart Robin and Kids Now with Choreos the podcast.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
It's Robin and Kipp Now with Coreo. It's on Kiss
ninety seven to three and we have producer Todd ky
We this year, I have my five year old Raft
with me and you said something. You said, yes it is,
and Raft just stopped, looked at you confused and said
why did you say yes it is?
Speaker 4 (00:44):
And no I said yes it is, and he goes, Okay, okay,
I'm not one of.
Speaker 5 (00:52):
You.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Explain that you're from somewhere else.
Speaker 6 (00:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
I was like, I've got an next scene. I'm from
New Zealand. Yes, and then he walks away.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
But I never realized that possibly the reason why we
have the honor of having you as part of our
team is that you've bolted from New zealing because you
have the most randous story I know.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
And this is years ago, but I was working in Auckland,
which is obviously the biggest city in New Zealand, in
Pontonbe which is a central city suburb, and the car
park for work was out the back, but it had
a ninety minute limit. On it right. I would always
get stuck in meetings, I'd be busy, i'd be on
the air, I'd be doing something, and I wouldn't get
the chance to move my car. So every day I
(01:35):
was getting a sixty five dollars ticket every day, every day,
and if you didn't pay that, it became eighty five
dollars within five days.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
So you said, no car park, No, we had.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
To either pay for parking down the road or move
your car every ninety minutes.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Okay, Why didn't you do something else like surely ubering
public moving the car to a parking station.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
Well, I thought every day i'd set a reminder, I'll
move it. Yet today I've got it. I'll definitely remember.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Nope, okay, So this accumulated for how long?
Speaker 4 (02:08):
It was a six month period, And there was also
a little period there where I didn't have a Warranton
rid Joe, and so I was getting on top of
the sixty five dollars, a four hundred dollars fine.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Oh my goodness, it's accumulated to a figure that you
claim is the second highest in New How do you
know it's the second highest?
Speaker 4 (02:28):
It went viral backcome last year. There were so many
news articles and a journalist did like some digging into it,
and I was the sick and highest and.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
On a current affair.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Okay, do not know the figure. We want to see
if anyone in Brisbane can come close.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Okay, thirteen one oh sixty five is our number to
talk us about your parking fied tally, see if you
can go close to Todd's and we'll get Todd's number
in the next few minutes. We've got producer Todd, who's
moved here recently from New Zealand. In the studio where us,
Todd was telling us the story. You made the news
in New Zealand.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
I went viral last year.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
For the moment for the post amount of parking lot
because you used to get a parking fine pretty much
every day at work.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Yeah, so it was over a six month period. I
got a sixty five dollar ticket if I didn't move
my car within ninety minutes at work. That then became
eighty five dollars within five days. There was a small
period there where I also didn't have a warrant a rigio,
and that was a four hundred dollars fine a day
each time, just two hundred for Rigo two hundred for warrant.
Speaker 7 (03:37):
Wow, what did you think was going I don't know
what I thought was going to happen, but I didn't
expect it to be so high.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
I mean the footwell of my back seat. Yeah, granted,
that was full.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
I don't get it.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
When you fill the back seat of your car with tickets,
that's an indicator that you're in trouble.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Todd, well, yeah, I thought maybe there was five thousand
dollars worth.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Yeah, okay, so you called.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
I called the Ministry of Justice, okay, yes, And I said,
how many fines do I have? She said to me,
fifteen thousand and counting? She said that coming in every.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Day fifteen thousand discussed a report in New Zealand. I
just found the article how does someone rack up? Well,
they're saying seventeen thousand, but I guess that's seventeen thousand
parking fines over six months.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Six months?
Speaker 3 (04:28):
Quick. I know how much were you even earning at
this place? You can't have been.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
No, I could never pay that off.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
So what did you do?
Speaker 1 (04:36):
How do you?
Speaker 3 (04:36):
How do you pay that off?
Speaker 8 (04:37):
Well?
Speaker 4 (04:38):
After I got off the phone, when they told me
I had seventeen thousand dollars worth of parking fines. I
hung up, cried and called Mum and nom, I need help,
And then I had to work out a payment plan.
It took me seven years to pay it off.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Did you have to pay off every cent?
Speaker 4 (04:55):
Every single cent?
Speaker 1 (04:56):
The other thing?
Speaker 4 (04:57):
I could have done community service, but I didn't feel
like that was part of my personality and I didn't
think I said in the.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Community Services off brand.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
I love it. But here's the thing. Yes, we thought
that no one could beat that in Brisbane. We were wrong.
Dan have Beachmere how much?
Speaker 9 (05:22):
Twenty two thousand guys?
Speaker 3 (05:23):
My brother twelve two thous.
Speaker 9 (05:27):
A learning lesson?
Speaker 3 (05:28):
No? Is it all parking fines?
Speaker 4 (05:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (05:32):
I've been stuff mostly parking.
Speaker 11 (05:36):
I don't care.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
He just doesn't care. Is he ever going to pay
him off? Do you reckon the Cowboys supporters?
Speaker 10 (05:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
The Defense restaurant.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
You probably have to declare bankruptcy to get rid of that.
Speaker 4 (05:55):
That was also another option that I can do that
they chase it or they just keep.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Now they keep chasing you.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
New Zealand smaller than Australia, you can't run as far.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
That's true.
Speaker 12 (06:08):
That's true.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
They just had a group text. Does anyone who taught.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
Me Jimmy Ashley Okay, Todd had seventeen, dance brother had
twenty two.
Speaker 13 (06:19):
How much, Jimmy, I have twenty five thousand dollars now right,
A little bit over that. Yeah, well I've paid a
bit off, but yeah, still about twenty grand on it too.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
How did you do that, Jimmy?
Speaker 14 (06:34):
About five years of parking in the city, working in
the city and just struggling to find car parks and
going no stuff it, I'll just go there. And I
found out that just emailing the fines to me for
a while, they had an old email address. Oh yeah,
and yeah, I didn't even realize I was getting fined
(06:54):
for about two years.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
So you never got the physical ticket. He's like, what,
oh yeah, yeah I thought I was. You come back
Jimmy for the win. How did you and so how
did you find the old email?
Speaker 14 (07:11):
Well?
Speaker 3 (07:12):
I didn't.
Speaker 14 (07:12):
I've got a ticket on my car one day, called
up about it and they're like, well, well you owe
this month if.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Yeah, and so you on staff type of payment plan, now, Jimmy,
is that what you're doing?
Speaker 8 (07:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 14 (07:28):
Yeah, I'm paying slightly but surely the ass but you're
getting there.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Okay, I just checked just for a friend. You cannot
be jailed solely paying a failing to pay a parking finding.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
That's good to Okay, it's rong. We keep now with Coreo.
It's on Kiss ninety seven three.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
I've got to be really honest about me renovating because
things have gone up so much in the last six months.
Cost Yeah, cost wise, like people have got super busy
and just exponentially months for month. It just seems like
all the cost of actual materials has gone up. And
that is if you can find a builder that's available, and.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
Any decision, what I've discovered recently, any decision you make
is ten thousand dollars. Yeah, well do you want to
do that? That's ten thousand dollars. That's ten thousands.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Very cautious about doing this. I just don't want to
spend money unnecessarily. But I always bought this little worker's
cottage because it needed Like the kitchen's not great, and
I don't mean esthetically, I mean it's not like there's
a lot of things wrong that needs to be fixed.
Doesn't work, so then yeah, it kind of doesn't work.
Now for me, that's not necessarily as diabolic off for
(08:41):
someone who cooks better than me. But just things like
that have been kind of problematic. And so I was
going to start with a retaining wall, and it's been
discovered because of just some other issues with the neighbors,
that I probably need two retaining walls.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
Terrific? Was that ten thousand dollars?
Speaker 10 (08:59):
No?
Speaker 1 (08:59):
But and then you know, I'm looking at other things
and I'm just going, surely some of this stuff I
can do myself, and I'm not glorified around this, Like
my spare room painted with Olibya and my boyfriend and
we did that ourselves. Of course you can, you can
take on those sort of yeah things. But I was
in Bunnings yesterday for the most boring three hours in
my life.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Three hours.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
It's a lot, but it was heaving with people who
were asking for help. So clearly they were trying to
do stuff themselves. Have you how much like what kind
of things have you taken on? And did they work out?
Speaker 3 (09:36):
My mate Pete, him and his partner Amanda, they're they're
renovating at the moment, they're lifting their house and they
needed to put a because they're as part of the lift,
they're putting a power pole out in front of electrical
power pole, a private one.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
They didn't do electrics by themselves.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
Not the electrics, but the pole, which is five meters
and about one hundred and fifty kilos. Now, normally you
need a crane for that, but instead Pete got me
and Toby to come around and his dad and the
three and the four of us managed it with straps
and stuff like. It was terrifying. So we should never
have done it. It was terrifying. We had to get
it off well on the house, like we agree that
(10:12):
we're all going to run in different directions and.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
So you only lose one of you.
Speaker 15 (10:17):
Yes, I had an escape plane.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
Yeah, and then I had to And I've been on
Voltairean for about a week because my back is rooted
from lifting this pole.
Speaker 13 (10:28):
Right.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Yeah, it was a terrible idea.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Did you get it in?
Speaker 3 (10:31):
Yeah, we did it. I'll show you the video. It's
so stressful to watch because you, guys, one of you
is going to die, that's what you won't I'm hugging
this pole as peak climbs the ladder, pushing it up higher.
It's terrifying. Goodness, we should never have done it.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
I was thinking more like in kitchen, Like you know,
when you can get the lamonade off the cupboards and
put new lemonade on relamination.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Have you done that?
Speaker 15 (10:59):
That sounds difficult, I'll before that the sort of stuff
you're talking about.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Well, I'm just thinking that that's where you save money.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
Right, I think you can pay Someone told me you
can paint over laminite, you stand it back, and you can.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
Get you know, all this stuff.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
I'm pretty sure you can. I'm supposed to.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Be the useless one.
Speaker 16 (11:16):
Can I chime in from the newsroom? So my partner Jesse,
and I just bought a house and it's a it's
a real fixer upper. I feel like that's an understatement.
But the bathroom is asbestos and it's it is really
like aged yellowed and that kind of thing. And I
just found out you can buy like fake tiles, so
like three D tile looking stickers that you can read,
(11:37):
tiele the tiles with stickers, and then you just put
like fake silicon, well real silicon, but like you know,
you fake silicon them through the edges so it does
seal them on. But then you don't need to Well,
you can't remove the tiles without removing the asbestos. So
it's like the cheap, a poor man's way giving a
room a facelift.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
Just sticks over there.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Yet you're not going to remove the asbestos yourself?
Speaker 10 (12:00):
Right?
Speaker 12 (12:01):
No?
Speaker 1 (12:01):
No, no, no, absolutely not.
Speaker 16 (12:02):
But yeah, that's kind of like, you know, it's thousands
and thousands of dollars. I don't know if you can
put stickers on the asbestos.
Speaker 3 (12:08):
But on the tie thir if you've got a hack,
that's pretty incredible.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
We are clearly glueless. So if anyone's got like a
clever thing that will save your money, that can update
your house, I'm all.
Speaker 3 (12:23):
So you're not replace in the kitchen, Well, no, I'm going.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
To try and keep as much of it as possible
because it's cheaper that way.
Speaker 15 (12:29):
If the cabinets are fine, just replaces doors.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
Well that's what I'm saying. Don't you just replace the lemonade?
Speaker 17 (12:35):
No?
Speaker 3 (12:35):
But you just your doors? Oh, I said, of a
whole new cabinetry, the doors. There's a second of Bunning's
Corey'll take you.
Speaker 15 (12:42):
I shy.
Speaker 3 (12:47):
I was doing some Reno's.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
Are you calling me now? Because I'm like, I'm a renovating.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
Get around in your boots.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
I do have steel cat boots I do, and I
feel really important when I'm putting them on and I
stopped around and they're like baby blue with pin trim.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
Yeah, I know I could just you would have bought
the boots well before you did any renovations. Bran new
the outfit.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
So much for all the people that are messaging me.
I just got one from Trish who says, just listening
to you this morning talking about renovating. I've renovated many
houses over the years. Just painting the exterior of an
average house can save you eighteen thousand dollars.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Wow, yeah, oh yeah, massive, that's big jobs A yeah,
demo yourself where you can.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
Hey, Corey, you'd be good with a sledge.
Speaker 3 (13:38):
Haven't take up Bunny.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
And using a pre fab kitchen from Bunnings or I
Care could save you up to twenty.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
K prefab kitchen. That's not a bad idea. Cory's idea
of you changing the doors, getting the doors from from
somewhere like that, we.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
Are clearly clueless. Rebecca and Sherwood, what would you like
to say?
Speaker 5 (13:58):
Hi, good morning, good morning everyone.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
Hello.
Speaker 5 (14:02):
Hello. When I knew so, I am repainted a lot
of my signiture.
Speaker 4 (14:07):
I didn't want to.
Speaker 5 (14:10):
So so dev And also I did YouTube tutorio is on,
you know, changed the mozinette some doors and windows. Yes,
because I was getting coats for like two hundred bucks. Yeah,
power window. I went to Bunning's got everything for like
eighty bucks. Saved myself about fifteen hundred dollars.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Wow. So you did all your own fly screens?
Speaker 1 (14:32):
Yeah, I did it all YouTube.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
That's that's a good tip. It's a great tip, okay.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Ben on our text line O four oh nine nine
seven three nine seven three says, redo your kitchen with
Dulux paints designed for cabinets and changed the handles over
gives a fresh new look.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
So yeah, you can paint over the laminade. I think
you just give a little sand Okay, care is.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Not appy with anyone to change my doors? Ron and
Woolen Gammer, what do you reckon?
Speaker 12 (15:00):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (15:00):
Hi, guys, Look, I'm a tradium, a painter buy by trade,
and I know that I do in a few other traders.
What they have is they will have like a consultancy service,
so they'll have like you know, it's like a couple
of hundred bucks. And what they do, or what I do,
is I go out to site, and if it's something
that they want to do themselves, like painting or related,
(15:20):
then I will go through their job, give them advice
on how I will tackle it, what potential issue sell has,
and what's the best way of doing it. Because yes,
painting is something that you can potentially do, but if
you if you have no clue, you can make more
of a mess than what you actually realize. Have you
made it?
Speaker 3 (15:36):
What are you suggesting?
Speaker 14 (15:37):
Right?
Speaker 3 (15:44):
I mean, if per chance that you were hopeless and
had no clue, you do you get yourself big trouble.
Speaker 10 (15:50):
Yeah, but it does help you a lot, Like if
you're painting the outside of the house, Like yes, you
can say yourself, you know twenty thirty forty thousand, but
then what if that contains lead paint? How are you
going to contain that when you know all those things.
So if you get someone who's been painting for a
long time and has done all that things and can say, look,
this is how I will tackle it, this is what
I would do. There's the materials you know, and it
makes your job a lot easier. And then you can
(16:11):
also what I what some people often what I do
is well you can use my trade discount to purchase
your paint also in that feet.
Speaker 1 (16:18):
You know, so getting a consultant for that particular area,
and even though it's a couple of hundred bucks, it
will save you that what's your.
Speaker 3 (16:25):
Company called rod Painting Strokes, Painting strokes.
Speaker 15 (16:31):
The high pages, high pages you put in the job
and then oh.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
It's like yeah many of the uber things.
Speaker 15 (16:42):
So is it like that they send you the photo
and you say what you want done and blah blah blah,
and then it sends you the right people to.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
Do it for trades.
Speaker 15 (16:50):
Yeah, but honestly, what I've realized, just bone your doors, you.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Get a new doors.
Speaker 15 (16:59):
Okay, I deal with your trying to stand and paint.
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Good morning Sammy, how to road stale? Hey Sammy, Hi,
how are you good?
Speaker 5 (17:38):
Good?
Speaker 1 (17:38):
Thanks mate? Now you have got a confession what is it.
Speaker 12 (17:44):
Outside of me? There is only one person who knows
the real reason why I divorced my husband after fifteen years?
Speaker 14 (17:53):
What?
Speaker 1 (17:53):
Wow? Is it your husband who knows the real reason?
Speaker 10 (17:57):
Oh?
Speaker 9 (17:57):
Okay, well three, So you're married for fifteen years and
you're about to tell everyone why you got divorce.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
Yeah, let's go mate, what happened?
Speaker 5 (18:13):
Okay?
Speaker 12 (18:14):
So this only had like this. My marriage officially ended
about a year and a half ago. I was pregnant,
about five months pregnant with my last baby, and I
said to my husband I would love to choose her name.
I want to choose her name. It's my last baby.
And he'd always been very firm on picking babies names
(18:36):
and it wasn't really an option.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
So he named the first two Yes, right, okay.
Speaker 12 (18:41):
Okay, And so with this one, I was like, it's
my last baby, I want to name her. And it
became a massive argument which lasted over a week, and
in the end I was like, why can't I name it?
Like what is the big problem with me naming one
of our kids? And he just yelled I'll forget what
(19:02):
it is and left. And so he would work two
weeks away and then be home for two weeks and
then go again. So he was gone for two weeks,
and then when he came back, it was the sort
of we're not talking about it.
Speaker 3 (19:14):
That's it was he five fou? What was he doing
for two weeks?
Speaker 12 (19:17):
Well he said it was five fix but getting there?
Speaker 3 (19:22):
Yeah, okay.
Speaker 12 (19:25):
So, like I've been talking with my girlfriend over a
period of two weeks, and you know, we were sitting
having she was having a glass of wine, and she's like, oh,
he probably wants to name the baby because that's what
he names his other kids as a joke. Yeah, you
don't plan to steed like that in the pregnant woman's head,
the starters.
Speaker 5 (19:45):
And I was like, let's look into it.
Speaker 12 (19:49):
So started going through his phone and you know, went
into maps and everything else to see where he was going.
And there was an address listed under home, which was
not our address.
Speaker 9 (19:59):
Okay, So ended.
Speaker 12 (20:02):
Up it was only a few suburbs away. So I
ended up driving over to this place. It didn't look
anything remarkable. That wasn't a business place or anything like.
It was just a normal home. And so I went
home and you know, went about for the next couple
of weeks, and he left again, and I actually drove
(20:22):
to this address again and his car was parked there,
and started doing a little bit of Facebook stalking and
then found out that he had a whole other family.
Oh sammy with kids and all of that. So through
(20:44):
my Facebook stalking, found out that he had now three
kids with this woman. And you were the same as
my kid's name. So my girlfriend's joke off probably so
he doesn't forget it wasn't really a joke about.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
So he had potentially five, nearly six children, and each
of those children dren had the same names in separate
families because as he threw at you in an argument,
so he doesn't forget the name. Mhm, yep, Oh my goodness.
Speaker 3 (21:22):
So there's allest kids on each side of the same names.
Speaker 2 (21:25):
So he had a whole other life, really.
Speaker 12 (21:27):
Whole other family. Like he was engaged to this woman.
But yeah, but like it really came to a head
sort of. He posted It was about a month or
so after I'd had my baby. He posted an ad
on Facebook looking for someone to go and hang out
with her mom because the mom wasn't well while they
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went to a family event. And I responded to.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
The ad just to hang on one sect. Let's come
and get into that in a thingd But so is
this kind of the way you confirmed it? We're going
to get into it. Yeah, Okay, let's come back. We
might get a song and we'll come back and we'll
get this story because it feels like there's there's another
whole story. Yeah, this is incredible hanging there. Can you
hang in there for a second, Sammy?
Speaker 2 (22:14):
Sure?
Speaker 5 (22:15):
Sure.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
We've been talking with Sammy out of Roachdale, who has
never told anyone the real reason she filed for divorce
after fifteen years of marriage.
Speaker 12 (22:25):
Through my Facebook stalking and found out that he had
a whole other family now three kids with this woman
same as my kid's name.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
So we got to the point where you were suspicious
and you wanted to confirm it to what happened? Something
about Facebook.
Speaker 12 (22:45):
Yeah, so I did a lot of Facebook stalking, and
I learned that, you know, our older two girls were
actually playing against each other and into school sports and
things like that. So that'd actually been in the same
room together and competed together.
Speaker 3 (22:59):
And wait, so the.
Speaker 15 (23:00):
Kids at the same age.
Speaker 1 (23:02):
Yeah, roughly and the same gender obviously. Yeah wow, okay,
so yes, you found out that the two oldest girls
were associates.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
They're step sisters.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
They don't even know it.
Speaker 12 (23:14):
Yeah. And then about a month after I had my
last baby, she'd posted an ad on Facebook saying that
they had a family event and they wanted someone to
come and stay with mum while they were at this event.
Speaker 3 (23:27):
And I responded, so you were about to go into
the house of the person you know is the other woman.
Speaker 14 (23:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 12 (23:33):
It was very, very confronting to walk in and see
pictures of him with his kids on the wall that
mirrored what was on my wall. You know. I ended
up hanging out with this woman's mum, and she was
absolutely beautiful. She had the most wicked sense of humor
and sort of got talking about her daughter and her
daughter's Beyonce, and how he'd been engaged for like eleven
(23:55):
years and she didn't think that he was ever going
to marry her and she didn't like him and everything else.
And I said, oh, well, it's probably been engaged that
long because he can't get married, and she was like,
what do you mean, And I said, because I'm actually
his wife.
Speaker 3 (24:09):
Oh wow?
Speaker 1 (24:10):
What did she say?
Speaker 12 (24:12):
She was like sorry?
Speaker 4 (24:13):
What?
Speaker 12 (24:15):
So I sort of just showed her my wedding photos
and sphotos of him at the birth of my kids,
and she was like, oh, I knew there was something
about him that I didn't like. So her and I
were sort of sitting in the lounge room and he
came in first and he just stopped and he went white,
and it was sort of that oh god, dear in
(24:36):
the headlights look. And then she came in behind him,
and he didn't say a word the entire time, and
she was like, oh, did you have a good night?
Speaker 1 (24:45):
I was like, yep, Why why didn't you say something?
Speaker 12 (24:51):
Because why play into his line and give him the
justification of him saying me hurt by what he's done?
Speaker 1 (24:57):
Oh, fair enough, that is so strong.
Speaker 2 (25:01):
Okay, so you oh.
Speaker 12 (25:03):
My girlfriend on the way home and we had a
little bonfire in the backyard and we burned everything that
he owned. And then he came home like a week
later because he had to stick to his you know,
two weeks on, two weeks off, and he's like, oh,
where's my staff, And I'm like, it's the ash in
the backyard.
Speaker 10 (25:21):
But here's your horse papers.
Speaker 3 (25:23):
Here's your divorce papers.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
He didn't try and walk in going let me explain,
I'm so sorry, Like he just thought you would just
keep going.
Speaker 12 (25:33):
Yeah, I think because I didn't try to find him
about it and I didn't say anything, and you know,
there was no contact with us for that week.
Speaker 15 (25:46):
Brush sweet under.
Speaker 3 (25:47):
The rugs, Like, sam, he's going to be fine. Yeah,
you've only told your friend and now asked what about
your kids?
Speaker 12 (25:54):
No, I haven't told them.
Speaker 3 (25:56):
They don't know about the other family.
Speaker 12 (25:58):
No, it's not It's not up to me to tell
them and to destroy him in their eyes. You know,
at the end of the day, he is still there.
He doesn't have anything to.
Speaker 6 (26:07):
Do with them now.
Speaker 12 (26:08):
He's very much moved on with his new family.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
So they're still together.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
Yep, Sammie, why are you keeping a memory of a
man who's a complete drop kick? Like I mean, I
so respect you. You have so much courage and you
are so strong, But why are you protecting him? I
don't know.
Speaker 12 (26:31):
It's not about protecting him. It's about protecting the kids. Yeah,
you know, and at the end of the day, that
was between him and I. It's not about bringing the
kids into it and then them going, oh, well, now
I have this opinion of you in this way.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
It's so big of you. I mean, I can't help,
but feel that you are doing the right thing because
it doesn't improve their lives to know that their dad's
an ahole.
Speaker 12 (26:53):
But well, that's exactly right, Tammie.
Speaker 1 (26:55):
What happens if they find out and they blame you
for not telling them?
Speaker 12 (27:00):
Look, I think that will be an unimaginable hurdle to
try and get over.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
Because they will find out eventually, won't they of course they.
Speaker 12 (27:09):
Will, Look, they probably will. They probably will, And all
I can do is hope that they sort of understand
why I haven't told them.
Speaker 1 (27:18):
You poor love, I mean, And if you haven't told anyone,
you've got like one friend who's supporting you through this. Yeah,
that's insane. I get why you wanted to tell someone else.
Speaker 2 (27:29):
Is that why you're called Yeah?
Speaker 12 (27:32):
I think so, because, like it's something that just you
never ever think that it's going to happen to you.
The rebuild of yourself is the most painful thing that
you can ever go through, but it is also the
most rewarding to see yourself come out the other side.
Speaker 1 (27:51):
And I think that's why I kind of questioned why
you take on the responsibility of that lie, because it's
not you, mate, it's him. You have done nothing wrong.
Speaker 3 (28:06):
You're extraordinary or extraordinary, and you've come out the other
side with a story that most people don't want. But
what a story it is, and thank you so much
for sharing it with a Sammy. And it doesn't feel
like five hundred bucks is enough, but five hundred dollars,
so thank you for sharing.
Speaker 1 (28:25):
Good luck, mate, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 3 (28:27):
The story that we've just had in our Confessions for Cash,
where Sammy fan out her partner had an entire other family.
Speaker 1 (28:35):
For fifteen years. It's sa Mache children and the Way,
and she discovered it because she wanted to name her
last child and he wouldn't let her because he wanted
to keep both families on the kids' names the same,
so he didn't stuff it up. So many people are
reacting on our text line. Chantelle has written, I'm with Robin.
(28:56):
I'm having a physical reaction to her story. I want
to kick her husband in the face. What a douchebag.
But physical violence aside, which none of us are going
to do. We actually really want to help Sammy. I
feel so passionately about supporting this woman. So the one
way we can is with our resident counselor, Heidi Summer
Ball from Heidi's Counseling Services dot Com. Heidi, did you
(29:18):
just hear all.
Speaker 17 (29:19):
That I did?
Speaker 11 (29:22):
Poor Sammy? What a horrific story.
Speaker 1 (29:25):
So what can you do?
Speaker 11 (29:27):
Well, Look, the first thing I'll say is I'm so
glad that she reached out and she has told this story,
because what that indicates to me is that she's ready
to start to detox this. She obviously was in shock
her children were abandoned and really betrayed by their dad,
and so I feel as though she's probably gone into
(29:48):
a full Mama bear, lockdown, batten down the hatches sort
of protective mode. And that's tied into why she has
kept this secret. But you know, she's carrying this around
at the base of therapy and probably at the base
of what you guys are doing there with ther confessions
for cash. Once we speak it, we don't store it.
(30:10):
I don't want Sammy storing this story, and I really
want to help her work through it if she's open
to it.
Speaker 1 (30:17):
So you can help her, Like if she wants to
come and see you, you will give her all the
time she needs to be able to do that.
Speaker 11 (30:24):
I absolutely will. I mean I don't I'd need to
talk to her a little bit more. But one of
my fears in this is that she's carrying around the
embarrassment and the shame of this happening to her. Often
what I hear in these sorts of stories is, you know, well,
how could I have been so vallable? I should have known.
It's almost like they can victim shame themselves and because
(30:47):
of that embarrassment, they they don't share it with anybody.
But it's not it's not her that she should be embarrassed.
Speaker 3 (30:55):
You know, there's not one part of that story that
I thought, oh, she's done something wrong. It's just phenomenal
or what a pig this blokes.
Speaker 1 (31:04):
But we've just got Sammy back up. Hey Sammy, Hi,
are you good? Mate? I know must be so overwhelming
with all of this, but Heidie's offering to help you.
Do you want that help?
Speaker 8 (31:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (31:18):
I think it could be something that we look into
and how chat about.
Speaker 3 (31:23):
You need to have more conversations about it, because we
haven't stopped talking about it since. Like off, it's just
such an incredible story and it's just so shameful what's
happened to you?
Speaker 1 (31:34):
To you, Sammy, It's so shameful what he's done to you,
so we'll we'll let you got you go. Thank you
so much. I know it's been a lot, and we'll
give you Heidi's number and when you're ready. I can
absolutely vouch for this woman. She has helped me personally
and so many other people, and I'm sure that she
can help you too.
Speaker 12 (31:56):
Thank you, Thank you so much. I really appreciate it.
Speaker 3 (31:58):
Thanks Sammy, thank you, Hey Heidi. Before we let you go?
Is there a technical term for this blog beyond a hole?
Speaker 11 (32:05):
I don't think it's anything we can say before nine
pm at night, right.
Speaker 3 (32:10):
It was more the fact he came back and just
thought it was yeah, when he came back into the
house after he'd been found out two weeks later, he
came back into the house and said, oh, where are
all my things? Like it was all going to be fine, And.
Speaker 1 (32:21):
It's the worst gas lighting.
Speaker 11 (32:22):
Ever, absolutely extraordinary. And I mean I hear stories all
day every day, and this is right up there. It's
we can't understand it because it's so far from the
normal frame of reality that it's kind of honestly impossible
to understand. And you know, Sammy just sounds even then,
she sounds so vulnerable and wobbly and you know it's Yeah,
(32:47):
you can hear it in a voice. He really needs
some support.
Speaker 3 (32:50):
Yeah, well, hopefully you can give it to a thank
you Heidi.
Speaker 11 (32:52):
Okay, thanks guys, and obviously.
Speaker 3 (32:54):
We'll try and give Sammy all the privacy she deserves.
But ye keep you up to date if we can.
Speaker 1 (32:58):
Yeah. Absolutely, Now we step out, but let me just
say Heidi'scounseling Services dot com. She's awesome and we need
to help this woman.
Speaker 3 (33:06):
We do. Indeed, right now it is time for.
Speaker 2 (33:09):
With Robin Kid Coyotes.
Speaker 3 (33:15):
We take a magic moment from film and make it
our own, includes a little song at the end. It's
a fun one. Today it's probably adult themes. Hopefully we'll
go overheads of anyone else, but just be aware that
there are some adult themes in this one.
Speaker 1 (33:30):
Yeah, because we are talking about something about Mary.
Speaker 3 (33:34):
Yes, now the role today the ben still a role
will be played by Corey today. Are your Mary Robins? Yes,
and I'll be the best mate Woogie who gives the
very vital advice.
Speaker 9 (33:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 16 (33:46):
Sorry, and I'm in here from the newsroom, but I
agreed before I realized what I would be reading, So apologies.
Speaker 1 (33:55):
Your credibility is in town.
Speaker 3 (33:58):
La will also be helping us out with the chorus
for the song, which is the other reason we bring
I didn't know. Okay, great?
Speaker 1 (34:04):
Ok So.
Speaker 16 (34:05):
Setting the scene, Ted is getting ready for a big
date with Mary. His mate Woogie is giving him a
pep talk about needing to clean the pipes before a
big date.
Speaker 15 (34:15):
I don't know, Dan, I don't feel good.
Speaker 3 (34:17):
I feel nervous. I feel really nervous. Come on, relaxed.
You've been in the cash machine. Yeah, car clean? Uh huh,
plenty of gas?
Speaker 2 (34:26):
Uh huh, breath.
Speaker 3 (34:28):
How's your breath? That's fire, that's some alter it all right?
Speaker 9 (34:31):
Then?
Speaker 3 (34:31):
Uh, I think you're all set, So just go clean
the pipes and it's a go. Huh, you know, clean
the pipes? What do you mean, clean the pipes? You
choked the chicken before any big date. Don't you tell
me you spank the monkey before any big date? Oh God,
he doesn't flog the dolphin before a big date?
Speaker 2 (34:51):
Are you crazy? Loogie then gives.
Speaker 16 (34:55):
A different version of the Birds and the Beast talk
to Ted about how he'll feel better before his big
date after cleaning the pipes. In the next scene, Ted
had cleaned these pipes, but has lost the filling and
is desperately searching for where it went, whether how did
it go?
Speaker 18 (35:15):
Hang on, hang, hang on, wait a second.
Speaker 1 (35:21):
Oh hello, how are you doing?
Speaker 2 (35:24):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (35:25):
How are you doing?
Speaker 13 (35:27):
Good?
Speaker 1 (35:29):
Good?
Speaker 3 (35:30):
You're looking very beautiful.
Speaker 1 (35:31):
Oh thank you?
Speaker 3 (35:34):
What is that.
Speaker 1 (35:36):
On your ear?
Speaker 3 (35:38):
On my ear?
Speaker 1 (35:40):
No? No, you're left ear? Is that.
Speaker 3 (35:45):
Is that hair?
Speaker 18 (35:46):
Jel?
Speaker 3 (35:49):
Yeah, you're right.
Speaker 18 (35:52):
I could use some No, no, no, no, don't you don't
have to.
Speaker 2 (35:55):
I just ran out.
Speaker 18 (35:57):
Oh why didn't you build me up?
Speaker 1 (36:13):
Fill me up?
Speaker 3 (36:14):
Body, come baby, just to let.
Speaker 1 (36:16):
Me down, let me down, mess me around?
Speaker 2 (36:19):
And then worst of all, worst of all.
Speaker 3 (36:21):
I'll never come baby.
Speaker 2 (36:22):
Way, ain't you say you will, say you will?
Speaker 3 (36:25):
Let I still love you.
Speaker 18 (36:26):
I need you, I need you. Wann't anyone Darland. You
know that I have from the stone. So build me up,
fill me up, body.
Speaker 2 (36:36):
Cop, don't break my heart. I'll be over it.
Speaker 3 (36:42):
Ten you told me time in again, but you're late.
Speaker 1 (36:46):
I wait around for you and the hause I went
to the door.
Speaker 3 (36:49):
I can't take any more. It's not you.
Speaker 18 (36:51):
You let me down again. Hey, Hey baby, I try
to find hey, Hey, time I make up? Hey, have
me home? I mean beside the parn waiting for you.
Why do you filled me up? Build me a body,
(37:15):
come eby, just to let me down, Let me down,
must be around, and there was all.
Speaker 1 (37:21):
West and all.
Speaker 18 (37:21):
I'll never come baby.
Speaker 3 (37:23):
When you say you will, say, well, I just to
love you. How he do?
Speaker 18 (37:27):
How mother?
Speaker 3 (37:29):
Anyone Darland, I know.
Speaker 18 (37:31):
That you have promised. Don so fill me up, bail
me abady, come, don't beat my heart.
Speaker 3 (37:50):
There's been an incident over in the US. And look,
I think Samuel Jackson said it best when he was
worried about the snakes on a plane. But this this
is the update. There's been pigeons on a plane. And
Samuel l was there, no is eno.
Speaker 7 (38:04):
I have had it with these mother flipping pigeons on
this mother flipping hoy.
Speaker 3 (38:10):
That incredible eye witness. But this has happened over in
the States. Delta Airlines a flight from Minneapolis to Wisconsin.
It's like flying from Adelaide to somewhere else boring. That's
the flight. And so they've gone to their taxiing and
(38:31):
apparently they've they've taxied, they've seen a pigeon, they've caught
a pigeon and released it from the plane.
Speaker 1 (38:37):
And on the outside of the plane.
Speaker 3 (38:39):
Inside the plane, they've gone there's a pigeon in the plane.
They've caught it, released it, carried on taxing, and only
to discover there's more pigeons. And so this is a
scene from inside the plane.
Speaker 17 (38:56):
I went to sit down and I overheard a passenger
come up to the flight of tenant who was standing
right by where I was, and she said, I think
there's a pigeon on this plane.
Speaker 3 (39:11):
That sound is the captain talking to the tower there.
They haven't taken off. They had to. They had to
head back again, like a third time. There's a pigeon.
Speaker 1 (39:22):
I'm not of birds at all, Like they don't freak
me out, but in confined spaces when they're coming at you,
because that would be.
Speaker 3 (39:32):
People are trying to catch it with suit jackets. They're
all throwing jackets. Have a listen, because you can hear
someone who's actually having the worst day of their lives.
Speaker 17 (39:45):
I want to sit.
Speaker 3 (39:48):
Crying. Oh it's a pigeon, I know. And that's when
you need someone to stand up.
Speaker 7 (39:54):
I have had it with these mama flipping pigeons. How
they got in the plane, because because the changeover is
always so quick like from when they land, they refuel,
the doors are open for a bit it, but how
did they get in there?
Speaker 1 (40:11):
Well, and if there's anything like Australia, which they're probably not,
you know those what are those arms called.
Speaker 3 (40:16):
The gate thing?
Speaker 1 (40:18):
Yeah, there's no real gap, no pigeon to get in.
Speaker 3 (40:21):
I mean you wouldn't have thought so. So someone's.
Speaker 15 (40:25):
Someone's put them on there.
Speaker 3 (40:26):
Well, apparently they reckon they're wild. There wasn't someone traveling,
you know, Americans travel with their pets. They reckon they
were wild pigeons or do.
Speaker 1 (40:33):
You imagine the pigeon?
Speaker 3 (40:34):
Hey, Harry, and you know how pigeons are. You know
the pigeons always fly home as well, so they could
have gone they're like you know them? Then take me
out someone down back to this, going back to Wisconsint
have you had have you had a bird in the
house though, or birds somewhere you don't want it? Thirteen
(40:55):
one oh six five's out number, and.
Speaker 1 (40:57):
You feel so stupid because how do you actually catch it?
Speaker 3 (41:00):
They're so fast and you stand.
Speaker 1 (41:02):
Yourself jumping jacks like as if you're going to catch
it with your bed.
Speaker 3 (41:07):
Or you've got your tiny little fishing net. The one
from your fish bonds not big enough. Our number over
in the States. A plane had to go back to
the what are they called it? Not the station gate?
Speaker 14 (41:23):
The gate?
Speaker 3 (41:24):
Yes, because there was there was pigeons flying around inside
the cabin.
Speaker 17 (41:34):
I went to sit down, and I order heard a
passenger come up to the flator tenant who was standing
right by where I was, and she said, I think
there's a pigeon on this plane.
Speaker 6 (41:44):
The pigeon.
Speaker 3 (41:47):
Everyone was stunned, and the cabin is going, what what else.
Speaker 1 (41:51):
Is gonna happen?
Speaker 3 (41:52):
The first time in his whole career is had to
have a turn back because of a pigeon.
Speaker 1 (41:56):
What do you know about birds and your encounters with
them in your life? Duty of a Rana Hills? What happened?
Speaker 6 (42:02):
Oh my goodness. So I'm a teacher and we're in
our prep classroom and there was the turkey that wanders
around all the time. There's a few of them we
named and Dan and Roy. Anyway, the turkey came into
the classroom. The back door was left open, and it
took us about forty five minutes with twenty five preppies trying.
Speaker 2 (42:22):
To get this turkey who's.
Speaker 6 (42:24):
Flying high into the high ceilings who were everywhere flapping
they go, they go, b oh, my gosh. But we
took it a step further and we turned it into
our project based learning, and so the kids had to
come up with ideas on how to keep this turkey
out of the classroom, and oh my gosh, they made
life size flamingos, a very light butterfly hanging from the
(42:49):
back door to scare it away, you know, Christmas lights
as you need. It was brilliant and it went on
for about oh that project took us about maybe two months. Yeah,
it was hilarious.
Speaker 3 (43:04):
That's brilliant. Love of the idea of being an as
Jane student and going back to Germany. Go well, for
the last two months we learned how to chase off.
Speaker 1 (43:12):
A turkey Slack's Creek. Something happened with a cockatoo. What
was it?
Speaker 8 (43:19):
I went to go do a rescue of a sun splash,
dead looking bird on the side of the roads. Go
rescue it, wrap it up in the towel, poppet in
the car driving to go through the vet and the
bugger decided to come alive and fly around like a loam.
Speaker 1 (43:34):
What did you do?
Speaker 8 (43:36):
Don't looked like a drunk person erb in this lane,
that lane everything dunk dive and weaving open that window
and I said, natural selection, mate, you're on your own.
Speaker 4 (43:50):
You go.
Speaker 1 (43:51):
It just reminds me of that falcon moment with Julianne
Moore in Siren. You don't like birds, don't watch it
so bad?
Speaker 2 (44:03):
Thoughts from the right on Marlow the Cory own choreo.
Speaker 3 (44:10):
It spends a lot of time on a ride on mow.
It's got a big property to mow, and so in
that time he has thoughts which he likes to share.
And if you've got one thirteen one oh sixty five
is our number, well so.
Speaker 15 (44:20):
This one kind of yeah. Look, it's something that I
think has been a great debate for.
Speaker 1 (44:26):
A long time, particularly your mind.
Speaker 15 (44:28):
Yes, yeah, I.
Speaker 3 (44:30):
Was of it.
Speaker 15 (44:31):
Actually, how can you tell me how how does your
brain remember that you've forgotten something but can't remember what
you forgot?
Speaker 1 (44:42):
Scientifically, it to be about where the thoughts are in
your brain.
Speaker 3 (44:45):
Yeah, like your filing system, filing.
Speaker 1 (44:47):
System in your brain. That is about as good as
I can help you.
Speaker 15 (44:51):
My filing systems a bit like Simpsons.
Speaker 3 (44:53):
There's no good now the monkey. Yeah, I think you've
got to clapping symbols together. It's annoying, isn't it, Because
it's almost like you get the notification, Hey, you've forgotten something, yeah,
and then you go what is it?
Speaker 1 (45:06):
And then you know why did you bother with the notification? Exactly?
Speaker 18 (45:10):
If you cannot why are you telling me?
Speaker 3 (45:16):
Why are you telling me about this if I can't
fix it?
Speaker 15 (45:18):
Yes, stupid. Maybe that's why people will trust me with
the deepest, darkest secrets, because then I'll just forget.
Speaker 3 (45:26):
You're a good man to tell your stories.
Speaker 1 (45:28):
Yeah, so you'll know when someone you hear a repeated
story that somehow that is vaguely familiar, but you just
can't that. Yeah, where did they go?
Speaker 3 (45:38):
In my brain? Thirteen one sixty five is our number.
We've got somebody who wants to get involved, Jamie out
a green bank. What's your thought, Jamie?
Speaker 17 (45:45):
So my thought is every single day in the world,
somebody will take the biggest poop and not.
Speaker 3 (45:53):
Realize, like a world record ship.
Speaker 1 (45:56):
Yeah, not realize, Jamie. Can I tell you? I could
have lived my entire life never thinking that, thinking of.
Speaker 3 (46:11):
You're right, every day someone takes someone takes the record
for the day.
Speaker 1 (46:16):
Seven billion people or whatever it is.
Speaker 3 (46:19):
It doesn't even realize they just break the record.
Speaker 1 (46:23):
Michelle of Toowong.
Speaker 13 (46:24):
Hi, Hi, guys.
Speaker 6 (46:27):
I always think that the water that you drink is
never truly yours.
Speaker 12 (46:33):
It's just your turn to.
Speaker 3 (46:34):
Drink it, yeah, because it's always floating around, going up
into this the clouds and down in the ocean, and
then someone else might have drunk it once and it's
moved through and.
Speaker 1 (46:43):
Then you pee it and it goes into the serea system,
which then goes out into the ocean that then rises
up into the clouds, comes down again, goes into water
tanks and here we are.
Speaker 3 (46:54):
It's just your turn.
Speaker 13 (46:55):
Bo.
Speaker 15 (46:55):
It's a good filter, great filter system clouds, because.
Speaker 1 (47:01):
Otherwise you'd be drinking other people.
Speaker 3 (47:02):
Yeah, yeah, that is a gross thought. Thank you, Thank
you water, Thank you Michelle.
Speaker 1 (47:09):
Okay, so my our friend Linda is up from Adelaide
and we went down to the Gold Coast and went
to a bath house Land bath house. It's same as
soak and all those guns that they have around, and
they had an eye spath, right, and the idea of
you know, you can go you're supposed to go warm pool,
hot pool, sauna.
Speaker 3 (47:30):
I spat the after the sauna yes, to finish it
always cold.
Speaker 1 (47:34):
Do you and you're supposed to get as hot as possible.
Men go to the icepar repeat just.
Speaker 3 (47:39):
To really shock your skin.
Speaker 15 (47:40):
That's the whole point of it.
Speaker 3 (47:41):
It shocks your body.
Speaker 1 (47:42):
So the one that I was at was twelve degrees,
which is I think what they.
Speaker 2 (47:46):
Most that's hot?
Speaker 1 (47:48):
Really?
Speaker 15 (47:49):
Yes, there's like seven to nine.
Speaker 14 (47:51):
I think.
Speaker 1 (47:51):
Well, there is a photo of me not coping, trying
to get in and out. And can I say I
can still feel the tingle that's good on my legs
and you need it. That's twenty four hours later.
Speaker 3 (48:02):
Yeah, it hate it.
Speaker 1 (48:04):
It's like it's like because I'm such a cold egg,
Like I'm the one that swims with a wet suit. Yes, yes, okay,
that's me because I get so cold that it sort
of impacts my DNA, So I am still cold head.
Speaker 2 (48:21):
No have you seen my ears?
Speaker 1 (48:24):
That would be flashed?
Speaker 15 (48:26):
Dunk your head it makes it.
Speaker 3 (48:29):
Oh yeah, I guess it's kind of like a swimming
pool when you put your head under, it does get
it does sort of equalize somehow. But you know, but
how long were you in this twelve degree ice bath?
Speaker 1 (48:37):
For well, I was watching people staying for three minutes. Yes,
and I thought I'll die, so I dunked yep, and
then I waited and then I could then like my
teeth were chattering, and I went, I did go off
them like I did go my shoulders.
Speaker 3 (48:51):
Under, Yeah, shoulders under okay for what like thirty seconds?
Speaker 16 (48:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (48:58):
Maybe?
Speaker 1 (48:58):
And if as you see on my Instagram, there's me
coming out of the water, just don't.
Speaker 14 (49:02):
Get me out.
Speaker 3 (49:03):
I have it, do you. Yeah.
Speaker 15 (49:05):
I used to loved on it every day every morning.
Speaker 3 (49:06):
I used to.
Speaker 15 (49:08):
My routine was so I stuck to it so so well,
you know, ten to fifteen minutes sauna and then just
like a five minute ice bath.
Speaker 1 (49:17):
In there for five minutes dive.
Speaker 15 (49:19):
I'd jump in like underneath.
Speaker 1 (49:21):
For five minutes.
Speaker 15 (49:22):
So I got to a point where I could do
my head under for about ten to twenty seconds.
Speaker 3 (49:26):
I'd try and sad, yeah, because that'd have it at
Broncos training to have a nice bath.
Speaker 15 (49:31):
Yeah, and then I'd sitting there for five five minutes.
Sometimes you I'd stay with like my neck.
Speaker 1 (49:37):
Just how do you get hyperthermia?
Speaker 18 (49:40):
No?
Speaker 3 (49:41):
I feel like you should have a sauna afterwards to
let your body warm up.
Speaker 15 (49:44):
And you had to finish on cold and then have
a shower and gave train. Yeah, but it's so good
for they say. The whole point of doing the warm
and then straight the cold is it shocks.
Speaker 3 (49:56):
Your brain, shops your system. Yeah, it's really healthy for you.
Speaker 1 (50:00):
Okay, we should do that. We should actually go to
like soak it was, and see how long each of
can last ice bath.
Speaker 15 (50:06):
I wish I could do it every day, so I don't.
I would love to be ab to do it all
still the same.
Speaker 1 (50:11):
I wish I could, but because I'll lose, yeah, and
Corey will win. Will you sit on that?
Speaker 12 (50:16):
Well?
Speaker 3 (50:16):
You know what, I'm actually not allowed to dawn because
I had that member. I had that heart operation for
my atual fibrillation, so that's when your heart beats out rhythms.
You're not allowed to do ice baths because they reckon
it could shock your body. It could shock your heart
out of rhythm again because mine's backing in as I
had the operation. They reckon for you, it's that bad.
It could ruin your heart. Really, Yeah, I'm not allowed,
(50:40):
and I'm not sad that I'm not allowed.
Speaker 1 (50:42):
I was just meant to say for anyone else at
one hundred percent believe that for you wipement, that is
the best excuse
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