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Speaker 1 (00:12):
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Speaker 2 (00:21):
You're listening to the Robin and Kid podcast.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
When you guys were having your babies, and yes, you
do have pigeon pears RAFFI.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Your son is six in a few a couple of months' six.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Yeah, and Sienna is nearly one, nearly one, yep, and
you have Monty who's six. Okay. So when your respective
partners were pregnant, did you care what the gender of
your children are going to be? Yes?
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Oh, well done, absolutely, And I was very happy to
have a boy to start with. I'm not gonna lie.
I was very excited about that and thrilled with that
Sienna was a girl, like I was so happy with that,
and I reckon, if Siena were a boy, we would probably,
(01:13):
you know, me and I would be trying for another one,
trying for a girl. But because we've got one of each,
I'm happy. I'm happy.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Is she happy?
Speaker 3 (01:20):
Squared away?
Speaker 4 (01:21):
I think she wouldn't want another roll of the dogs.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
And this third child, hypothetical third child, would you care
what gender it was?
Speaker 3 (01:30):
No? No, because you've got because we've already got one.
Of each We're good. Yeah, we ticked all the boxes.
Speaker 5 (01:34):
Sorry, well the first one definitely. I remember I was
just so excited to have a baby, become a dad,
so fantas, girls, happy hours and honestly, you know Monta.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Now, I just love it so much.
Speaker 5 (01:51):
And yeah, and when we obviously got pregnant for the
second team and fell pregnant the second time.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
I know you were involved and the lady had the
results of what it was, She's like, oh, you know,
I really hope it's it's a.
Speaker 5 (02:12):
Boy and things why. She's like, I don't how much.
Corey one's a boy. He'd love one, but he loves
Montana and that was just that was the way it was.
I'm like, yeah, I'd love to have a girl and
a boy straight would be great. But if I don't.
If I don't, it doesn't bother me, Like it really doesn't.
And now that we've had hucks, I'm so happy. But honestly,
(02:32):
I think I'd rather change you back to a girl.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
That's it is a lot of work, my goodness.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Yeah, are you guys squared away? Have you put the
que on the rack?
Speaker 5 (02:43):
I have you it's still out, it's still on the pool.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Table you're still.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Just talking about.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Give me your take on this, because yesterday on the
pick Up, Laura and Maddie j did their gender reveal.
They're pregnant again. They have two little girls. They did
their gender reveal live on air, and I want you
to listen to Maddie Jay's real actually have.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
A gender reveal cake.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
I am cutting the cake.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
And it's a.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
It's a girl.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
Oh my god, you're having a bad little girl.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Congratulate like a ship.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
There's a lot of prog in the house.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
And I'm like capable of producing boys.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Let's go again.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
I mean, he's kind of joking, but yeah, I think
he's sad, isn't he. Well, I think because he's got
too of three girls?
Speaker 5 (03:44):
Yes, so I think I think it's it's fair like
you obviously you you want to have both. Really, I
believe you want to have both. And a man always
wants to have a little, you know, his boy, because
at some stage does a.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Man always want to I don't know.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
I don't that you're because you're coming from the other
side of it. You're a mum that had three sons.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
I definitely if you I'm fourth generation only girls. Yeah,
and I have three boys, and I was absolutely devastated
and I wanted a fourth child. I'm being really honest.
I wanted to have a girl because I knew and
I still would say, I think i'd be a much
better girl mom, like I would intuitively know what to do.
But you know what, boys are the best. No one
(04:29):
loves a mother like a son, truly.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
You say that with a very skewed pool.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
But I also know how I know what it's like.
But I also know what it was like when their
dad was alive and when their stepdad was alive, Like
there is a special bond. And i'd say the same
fathers and daughters too in a different way that you know,
Like I wanted a fourth kid, and it was one
thing we had massive arguments about. But you know, I
got three boys, and I could like they're glorious and
(04:56):
I you know, like I do have a big influence
on them, and they're soft and gentle and kind as
well as being really bloky and masculine and all of
those things. So I kind of I'm so grateful I
didn't try.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Again thirteen one oh six five out number, because you
hear about people that try again as well. And then
like you might have got another boy.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
There was there was a woman Ken Moore who had
seven girls I think, and just kept going oh man,
and then finally got the book. Could you imagine having
like nine sisters?
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Imagine being that boy?
Speaker 1 (05:30):
I think it was that way round. Maybe found a way,
but regardless, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
That little baby boy has got like nine moms.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Everyone's pat there alone. I just think it's so interesting
when you talk about dendas of children, because people don't
actually really want to be honest about what they want
because if you don't get it, then there's almost an
assumption that you're not going to love that child as much,
or that it somehow it's not right, which is just
(05:59):
not true. I mean, I think why gestation is nine
months is we can all come to terms with it.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Yeah, that's why, and I reckon that's why people often
do find out early so that they can come to
terms with it. When did you do that with Oh?
Speaker 4 (06:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:10):
I found out each each one each time, yea, and
I was by the time they were born. I was
just super happy.
Speaker 5 (06:17):
Now.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
The reason why we're talking about gender is yesterday on
the Pickup, Laura and Maddie Jay had their gender reveal
and it's quite obvious when you listen that Maddie was
not wanting the result he got.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
We have a gender reveal cake.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
I am cutting the cake.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
And it's uh, it's a girl.
Speaker 5 (06:44):
Oh my god, you're having a bad little girl.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
Congratulate the ship. There's a lot of oestrogen in our house.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
I'm like capable of producing boys.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Let's go again.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
And like you said, I'm sure he's gonna love that
little girl like nothing else and it's all gonna be fine.
But you could tell he's disappointed in the moment.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Yeah, and you know he hasn't had the nine months
to get used to it. That was my Then he
found out. Yes, Victoria of Chamside, how many boys have
you got?
Speaker 4 (07:15):
I have four boys? Did you want to Well, I'm
super super girly and so I did want a girl.
But then I obviously just kept having boys and I
wasn't trying for a girl once i'd started having my
boys because they're so amazing. But my sister is a
big tomboy and she has four girls, so the best.
(07:41):
But we have the best of both, and I think
that I am the best auntie mum, and I want
to change it. My girls offer and I call them
my girls. Often say oh, you know, don't you wish
you had a girl, Anniwick, And I say no, because
I have them and I can spoil them rotten and
not get in trouble for it.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
And I reckon, you get you get cut through like
you get listened to as an auntie the way the
mum probably never does.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
Yeah, yeah, very okay.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
I did that as a godmother, godmother's to lots of
little girls. I mean, who else is going to inherit
all my jewelry, John Logan, your sister had how many children?
Speaker 4 (08:25):
She had nine boys and one girl?
Speaker 3 (08:27):
Oh my goodness? What was the girl like at the end?
Speaker 4 (08:29):
There? Yes, the last month last so she kept going, Yes.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
Well, I guess she's gone through the nine month. So
she wanted a girl.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
She had ten, right, trying to get what she wanted?
Speaker 1 (08:45):
Nine? Would she have kept going? John?
Speaker 5 (08:49):
She reckoned, she would have.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Yeah? Is that that would be a madhouse with nine
boys in it?
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Yes? Yeah? But also that little girl, I mean, what
is the beit?
Speaker 4 (09:00):
What?
Speaker 1 (09:00):
What was it?
Speaker 4 (09:01):
John?
Speaker 1 (09:01):
She just desperately wanted to raise a d the baby girl.
Speaker 4 (09:05):
Yep, because I had five girls and three boys.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
Yeah, okay, a big family. You guys don't look around.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
Good luck to their boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
That's right, Yeah, her boyfriend when she's got nine older brothers.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Nicole Prabila, Hi, Hello, tell us about your auntie.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
So my auntie had four boys. She always wanted a girl,
which never happened, and then a few years ago one
of the boys came out as transgender. So when she
told the family, we all said, well, now you've finally
got your girl.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
To talk an extra couple of years but wanted.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
Excellent.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
Thanks Nicirl,
My heart podcasts, hear more kiss podcasts, playlists, and listen
live on the free heart app.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
You're listening to the Robin and Kid podcast.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
When you guys were having your babies, and yes, you
do have pigeon pears RAFFI.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Your son is six in a few a couple of months' six.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Yeah, and Sienna is nearly one, nearly one, yep, and
you have Monty who's six. Okay. So when your respective
partners were pregnant, did you care what the gender of
your children are going to be? Yes?
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Oh, well done, absolutely, And I was very happy to
have a boy to start with. I'm not gonna lie.
I was very excited about that and thrilled with that
Sienna was a girl, like I was so happy with that,
and I reckon, if Siena were a boy, we would probably,
(01:13):
you know, me and I would be trying for another one,
trying for a girl. But because we've got one of each,
I'm happy. I'm happy.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Is she happy?
Speaker 3 (01:20):
Squared away?
Speaker 4 (01:21):
I think she wouldn't want another roll of the dogs.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
And this third child, hypothetical third child, would you care
what gender it was?
Speaker 3 (01:30):
No? No, because you've got because we've already got one.
Of each We're good. Yeah, we ticked all the boxes.
Speaker 5 (01:34):
Sorry, well the first one definitely. I remember I was
just so excited to have a baby, become a dad,
so fantas, girls, happy hours and honestly, you know Monta.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Now, I just love it so much.
Speaker 5 (01:51):
And yeah, and when we obviously got pregnant for the
second team and fell pregnant the second time.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
I know you were involved and the lady had the
results of what it was, She's like, oh, you know,
I really hope it's it's a.
Speaker 5 (02:12):
Boy and things why. She's like, I don't how much.
Corey one's a boy. He'd love one, but he loves
Montana and that was just that was the way it was.
I'm like, yeah, I'd love to have a girl and
a boy straight would be great. But if I don't.
If I don't, it doesn't bother me, Like it really doesn't.
And now that we've had hucks, I'm so happy. But honestly,
(02:32):
I think I'd rather change you back to a girl.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
That's it is a lot of work, my goodness.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Yeah, are you guys squared away? Have you put the
que on the rack?
Speaker 5 (02:43):
I have you it's still out, it's still on the pool.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Table you're still.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Just talking about.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Give me your take on this, because yesterday on the
pick Up, Laura and Maddie j did their gender reveal.
They're pregnant again. They have two little girls. They did
their gender reveal live on air, and I want you
to listen to Maddie Jay's real actually have.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
A gender reveal cake.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
I am cutting the cake.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
And it's a.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
It's a girl.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
Oh my god, you're having a bad little girl.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Congratulate like a ship.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
There's a lot of prog in the house.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
And I'm like capable of producing boys.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Let's go again.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
I mean, he's kind of joking, but yeah, I think
he's sad, isn't he. Well, I think because he's got
too of three girls?
Speaker 5 (03:44):
Yes, so I think I think it's it's fair like
you obviously you you want to have both. Really, I
believe you want to have both. And a man always
wants to have a little, you know, his boy, because
at some stage does a.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Man always want to I don't know.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
I don't that you're because you're coming from the other
side of it. You're a mum that had three sons.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
I definitely if you I'm fourth generation only girls. Yeah,
and I have three boys, and I was absolutely devastated
and I wanted a fourth child. I'm being really honest.
I wanted to have a girl because I knew and
I still would say, I think i'd be a much
better girl mom, like I would intuitively know what to do.
But you know what, boys are the best. No one
(04:29):
loves a mother like a son, truly.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
You say that with a very skewed pool.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
But I also know how I know what it's like.
But I also know what it was like when their
dad was alive and when their stepdad was alive, Like
there is a special bond. And i'd say the same
fathers and daughters too in a different way that you know,
Like I wanted a fourth kid, and it was one
thing we had massive arguments about. But you know, I
got three boys, and I could like they're glorious and
(04:56):
I you know, like I do have a big influence
on them, and they're soft and gentle and kind as
well as being really bloky and masculine and all of
those things. So I kind of I'm so grateful I
didn't try.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Again thirteen one oh six five out number, because you
hear about people that try again as well. And then
like you might have got another boy.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
There was there was a woman Ken Moore who had
seven girls I think, and just kept going oh man,
and then finally got the book. Could you imagine having
like nine sisters?
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Imagine being that boy?
Speaker 1 (05:30):
I think it was that way round. Maybe found a way,
but regardless, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
That little baby boy has got like nine moms.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Everyone's pat there alone. I just think it's so interesting
when you talk about dendas of children, because people don't
actually really want to be honest about what they want
because if you don't get it, then there's almost an
assumption that you're not going to love that child as much,
or that it somehow it's not right, which is just
(05:59):
not true. I mean, I think why gestation is nine
months is we can all come to terms with it.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Yeah, that's why, and I reckon that's why people often
do find out early so that they can come to
terms with it. When did you do that with Oh?
Speaker 4 (06:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:10):
I found out each each one each time, yea, and
I was by the time they were born. I was
just super happy.
Speaker 5 (06:17):
Now.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
The reason why we're talking about gender is yesterday on
the Pickup, Laura and Maddie Jay had their gender reveal
and it's quite obvious when you listen that Maddie was
not wanting the result he got.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
We have a gender reveal cake.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
I am cutting the cake.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
And it's uh, it's a girl.
Speaker 5 (06:44):
Oh my god, you're having a bad little girl.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
Congratulate the ship. There's a lot of oestrogen in our house.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
I'm like capable of producing boys.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Let's go again.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
And like you said, I'm sure he's gonna love that
little girl like nothing else and it's all gonna be fine.
But you could tell he's disappointed in the moment.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Yeah, and you know he hasn't had the nine months
to get used to it. That was my Then he
found out. Yes, Victoria of Chamside, how many boys have
you got?
Speaker 4 (07:15):
I have four boys? Did you want to Well, I'm
super super girly and so I did want a girl.
But then I obviously just kept having boys and I
wasn't trying for a girl once i'd started having my
boys because they're so amazing. But my sister is a
big tomboy and she has four girls, so the best.
(07:41):
But we have the best of both, and I think
that I am the best auntie mum, and I want
to change it. My girls offer and I call them
my girls. Often say oh, you know, don't you wish
you had a girl, Anniwick, And I say no, because
I have them and I can spoil them rotten and
not get in trouble for it.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
And I reckon, you get you get cut through like
you get listened to as an auntie the way the
mum probably never does.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
Yeah, yeah, very okay.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
I did that as a godmother, godmother's to lots of
little girls. I mean, who else is going to inherit
all my jewelry, John Logan, your sister had how many children?
Speaker 4 (08:25):
She had nine boys and one girl?
Speaker 3 (08:27):
Oh my goodness? What was the girl like at the end?
Speaker 4 (08:29):
There? Yes, the last month last so she kept going, Yes.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
Well, I guess she's gone through the nine month. So
she wanted a girl.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
She had ten, right, trying to get what she wanted?
Speaker 1 (08:45):
Nine? Would she have kept going? John?
Speaker 5 (08:49):
She reckoned, she would have.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Yeah? Is that that would be a madhouse with nine
boys in it?
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Yes? Yeah? But also that little girl, I mean, what
is the beit?
Speaker 4 (09:00):
What?
Speaker 1 (09:00):
What was it?
Speaker 4 (09:01):
John?
Speaker 1 (09:01):
She just desperately wanted to raise a d the baby girl.
Speaker 4 (09:05):
Yep, because I had five girls and three boys.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
Yeah, okay, a big family. You guys don't look around.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
Good luck to their boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
That's right, Yeah, her boyfriend when she's got nine older brothers.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Nicole Prabila, Hi, Hello, tell us about your auntie.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
So my auntie had four boys. She always wanted a girl,
which never happened, and then a few years ago one
of the boys came out as transgender. So when she
told the family, we all said, well, now you've finally
got your girl.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
To talk an extra couple of years but wanted.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
Excellent.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
Thanks Nicirl,
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