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Speaker 1 (00:12):
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Speaker 4 (00:28):
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Speaker 5 (00:30):
With Robin Kip and Coriots.
Speaker 6 (00:33):
This is Confessions for Cash.
Speaker 7 (00:38):
Co asire of Logan.
Speaker 8 (00:42):
Good morning, Good morning guys. How are we good?
Speaker 7 (00:46):
Do you have a confession?
Speaker 8 (00:48):
Oh? Yeah, I'm taking them. I'm trying to get rid
of it. I cheated on my wife early in our marriage,
and it resulted in a child who is now approximately
twelve years old. The person I cheated on my wife
with her and I agreed that the child would grow
(01:12):
up not knowing her father at all. And yeah, it's
it's something else, chips myself, and I've just always wanted
to put it out there, just really to hear myself
say it.
Speaker 7 (01:28):
Why why have you? And why is this making you
so upset? Is it the lie? What is it?
Speaker 8 (01:37):
I'm well, I guess it is the lie a little bit.
And the reason being is I walked past her and
the mother the other day and yeah, oh she for
the fird time in twelve years? Didn't she was about
two weeks old that I've ever remotely even late eyes
(01:57):
or have any idea what she looked like.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
So you s were a child for the first time
in twelve years.
Speaker 8 (02:01):
Yeah, because then, of course the girl and I decided
we won't get to see each other anymore. To be
I know why that was. I can't really remember what
the decision was in that one. I sort of left
that up to her being the mother that would have
to bring her up her life.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
So did the mother of that child recognize you when.
Speaker 7 (02:23):
You walk past?
Speaker 8 (02:25):
I don't think so. I think I managed to be
out of her view or she wasn't really looking around.
Speaker 7 (02:33):
Do you pay any money?
Speaker 9 (02:35):
No?
Speaker 8 (02:36):
No, that was the thing. We agreed that there will
be absolutely no record, nothing besides her and I, knowing
now used to know the radio will it does?
Speaker 7 (02:48):
So do you want to change that? Asiah?
Speaker 1 (02:50):
It sounds like there's something in you that wants this
not to be the case.
Speaker 8 (02:56):
Deep down. Yeah, I guess I can say, let's put
it in a metaphoric way. I want you and that's growing.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
Who's it going to? Obviously there's a lot of people
that's going to affect if you were to reach out.
So what about your your wife at the time that
you that you cheated on, as she's still around, are
you still in a relationship.
Speaker 8 (03:21):
No, no, no where We're divorced, separated, and so no,
there's no communication with her and eyes. There will be
things like I told you those sort of things or
somewhat like I sort of knew it. But it will
absolutely I will be out that, I guess. I will
lose family, I will lose very close friends. I would
(03:44):
lose a lot. Why, I guess because I've had the
life for so long, and even when it has been
brought up with me at times, even with my best
friend that I would trust with my life, and even
keeping this information, I still haven't told.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
Who Well, so why now? Is it just wasn't seeing her?
Do you think that her?
Speaker 8 (04:10):
Yeah, it was seeing her, and I'm just like, I
got to get it out. I've got to say it
to someone. And as much as I've got some really
great friends helping me out right now, I still can't
even say to them, yes, you're right in a way, yeah,
I would like to, not necessarily straight away, but maybe
in due time reach out when she's old enough.
Speaker 10 (04:33):
But obviously you're fearful of what the reaction will be
from obviously her actual mother.
Speaker 8 (04:39):
Yes, I've got to feel your possitive reach out to her.
That's probably where it would stop.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Yeah, so.
Speaker 8 (04:46):
I guess you could say, I guess I'm probably hanging
around till she's eighteen, where it's entirely after her choice
whether she wants to go and find and get to
know who was the other party that brought her into
this world and created her.
Speaker 7 (04:58):
So you don't know what she's been told because.
Speaker 8 (05:02):
I don't know if she's been told anything. I don't
know her mom, and I came up with something to
hold just me, just disappearance or whatever the story her
mother has told sher in regards to me, I don't
know whether it's a story where I'm alive and it
is how it is, or whether I'm un alive and
no longer here. So that's why you'll never, unfortunately get
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to know and meet your father.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
And is she do you know if that woman is
in her family, like was she married?
Speaker 7 (05:31):
This is your child?
Speaker 8 (05:33):
I don't know. I don't know where she's that in life.
She was obviously seeing at the time her and I
were seeing each other and whatnot. I don't know whether
she's ended up getting into a relationship or getting married
or anything house like that. So that's that.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Yeah, what do you want us to do, Asiah, because
during a radio station you, I mean, we have the
means to help you if you wanted to.
Speaker 8 (05:58):
I don't want to risk destroying families and families lives
that may have been established over the last twelve years
or so. I I really just wanted someone to listen
and to tear me out. I don't know.
Speaker 10 (06:14):
Yeah, just seeing them now that day obviously just sparked it.
And you just wanted to tell someone that's.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
A heavy secret.
Speaker 8 (06:20):
That's basically in a way, I guess. Yeah, there's even
friends out there like so I would trust with my life,
and I still I tried him come to them and
talk about I haven't told my therapist about it.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Hey, Okay, well, thank you, and I hope that you
feel like we're a good place to start.
Speaker 8 (06:42):
Yeah, you know I do.
Speaker 9 (06:44):
I do.
Speaker 8 (06:45):
Thank you guys. It's actually helped me realize that. Yeah,
I think I do at some stage want to try
to meet her, but I think that my best way
about that would be when she's old. I'm not now
at a teenage?
Speaker 3 (06:57):
Could I suggest as it might be worth reaching out
to the mum and just finding out because a lot
changes in twelve years. Like you guys made that pact
right and at that time it was the right thing
for all of you to say not going to be
in part of each other's lives. But who knows if
that's how she still feels. And until you ask the question,
(07:18):
you're not going to know.
Speaker 8 (07:21):
Yeah, you know what, You're true, that's right, I don't know.
Your twelve years is a long time.
Speaker 7 (07:27):
Can you find her? Do you want us to help
you to find her?
Speaker 8 (07:31):
I might be able to find it.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
But you said you see a therapist, then you two.
Speaker 8 (07:37):
I am seeing a therapist.
Speaker 10 (07:39):
Yeah, well look I've seen them for a long time
for a lot of other just life in general for myself.
But honestly i'd be booking in and just talking to
them straight away. Yeah, just so then you have actually
someone to talk about it every day.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
That's what they're there for. You around me talk to them.
Speaker 10 (07:57):
And yeah, if I was obviously telling us has helped
a lot. But you know, if you've got a therapist
that you go and see, I'd be definitely doing something
because it's obviously it affects you a lot. It's a
massive decision a long time ago. But you know, obviously
I think I reckon you want a different outcome right now,
because I believe you want to maybe, like Kip said,
(08:20):
talk to the mum, but I think your therapist is
the first one that you need to talk to about
it all.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
And then.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
We have we have a private investigator as AIAH at
our fingertips who we use a lot who's excellent if
you want to go away and think about it, But
if you want us to try and help you find
the mum.
Speaker 7 (08:44):
We could possibly do that.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
I think when we're talking about a twelve year old
that is not our jurisdiction and we would have nothing
to do with that. But if that's something you feel
that you would want to, we could potentially help you there.
Speaker 8 (09:01):
Yeah, it's at least tracking down and having the option
to be able to be in contact with the muther
to see if I will I know, work up the
nerve to contact here and say, hey, look how things going.
I think I could probably handle that.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Maybe Yeah, okay, well, why don't you have a think
about it? Because it feels like there's a lot that's
just happened in this phone call.
Speaker 8 (09:26):
Yeah, right, and you need.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
To kind of digest that and be really comfortable with
your choices. But if you want us to help, then
there's some potential places that we can.
Speaker 8 (09:38):
I thank you. I think you appreciate that greatly. Yes,
ILL might just take it out with the days to
digest this and see where I'm going to be at emotionally.
I think Corey's right, I should really bring up with
my therapist. How can I not bring up with a
professional who's required to cheap secrets?
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Right exactly they are. And I know you haven't done
it for the money, but thank you for sharing. And
we've got five hundred bucks for you as well, mate,
so that'll pay for a bit of therapy anyway.
Speaker 8 (10:04):
Yeah, that'll have a few sessions.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Thank you for sure, mate, Thank you, thank you very.
Speaker 8 (10:12):
Much for your time and for your rears. Guys. You
guys are doing great and Corey you're an awesome addition
to the team mate.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
Thanks man, I appreciate it.
Speaker 8 (10:19):
And no, it's not the mission you guys either.
Speaker 7 (10:20):
Robin you're fine, mate.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
It's good you take care of you and have a
think about what your options are.
Speaker 8 (10:27):
Thank you very much. Guys, keep up the awesome work.
Speaker 9 (10:32):
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Speaker 3 (10:49):
And added Blogan back on the phone. It was a
pretty emotional story you told us about a twelve year
old daughter that you've never met.
Speaker 8 (10:56):
Yes, yeah, thank you for that too.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
Yeah, you were really upset, and I mean it has
the time. Let you kind of think about it. Are
you feeling okay about it all?
Speaker 8 (11:07):
I'm feeling okay about it all. The concept of initially
making the contact if it's at all possible becomes possible
is a very scary thought for me at the moment.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
But we left it with you saying that we have
this great guy called p I Dave who is our
own private investigator from oz Trace Investigations, and he is amazing.
Have you thought do you want us to try and
get him involved?
Speaker 8 (11:36):
I think O rule is probably best that I at
least try to move forward and try to do something
about the situation, I guess, and at least try to
make contact at some stage might find the strength.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
Yes, yeah, so you want us to help and yes, please?
Speaker 8 (11:50):
Yeah? No, I greatly appreciate it.
Speaker 3 (11:52):
Okay, because the next step is trying to find this
is the lady that you had the child with, the
twelve year old who you've never met. You saw her
the other day at the shops, but you've had no
contact with her for twelve years. So our next step
then is to talk to p I Dave and see
if he can track her down. And you want us
to do that.
Speaker 8 (12:09):
I would greatly appreciate good having the option known that
I could make contact if and when I'm strong enough,
I guess yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
Okay, So how would you feel if we kind of
did that now? PI Dave is a great friend of ours.
We can get him up, and I'm sure if he's
available right now, it'll give you a couple of minutes
to kind of get yourself together. But let's try and
get p I Dave up. You can have a chat
to him and see where this goes. Are you up
for that?
Speaker 8 (12:36):
Yeah? I think I managed that one today?
Speaker 2 (12:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (12:37):
Absolutely, all right.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
Okay, hang in that one, secon mate.
Speaker 8 (12:40):
Thank you.
Speaker 5 (12:43):
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This is Confessions for Cash.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
So we're back with Isaiah. He has a twelve year
old daughter he's never met. He saw her the other day,
just walk by her in the shops.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
Because, as Iah, you made the agreement with the mother
of this child that when she had the baby, you
would have absolutely nothing to do with them.
Speaker 8 (13:15):
Neither one of us were going to mention her anything
about me, even if we're still friends at the time,
it will still go to be kept completely secret. There
was never to be spoken of.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
And that worked until you saw her literally across the
street last week or the week before.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
So you've had a change of heart, and I guess
now we want to find out if she potentially has
has had a change of heart, and if there's any
chance that you could meet.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
Yeah, well we've got a guy who can find people.
Speaker 8 (13:48):
His neighbo.
Speaker 7 (13:49):
Yeah, one of the great friends of the show.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
We love p I Dave from Ostre's Investigations.
Speaker 4 (13:54):
Hey Dave, Morning team.
Speaker 3 (13:58):
Okay, mate, now you've been Have you heard most of
Isaiah's story?
Speaker 8 (14:03):
Yeah, I have.
Speaker 4 (14:04):
I just tuned into that little bit there and listened intently.
So it's an interesting situation.
Speaker 7 (14:10):
Yeah, can you help?
Speaker 4 (14:13):
Of course we can do if you guys will certainly
do the best we can Okay, unreal, what.
Speaker 7 (14:21):
Do you need to know from Isaiah?
Speaker 4 (14:25):
The mother's full name? Obviously is best that you know
that he recalls the information of her details, and from
that will go about and see what information we can find.
Hopefully it's not a reasonably common name and it's you know,
he's got some details that we can start, and then
we'll go about and do our thing from there.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
Do you think this is going to be a fairly
achievable goal?
Speaker 8 (14:50):
Oh, I'd hope so.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
I mean from the information that I've heard so far. Look,
I mean, it sounds like it's definitely going to be
somewhere to start. We're pretty confident of the area that
she's in by the sounds of Isaiah's story, So hopefully
that can you know, pinpoint us to the right location
and once we've done that, concern that and then come
back to you.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Guys, all right, how do you feel about that?
Speaker 8 (15:16):
I feel okay about that. I think I'll be happy
to Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
So on some level, mate, if you know that and
you've wrung us, there is a big part of you
that just wants an answer, right.
Speaker 8 (15:28):
I just want to know if if she was gifted
old enough and she did ask about me, would she
allowed to happened? Okay, we made out of Freeman. But
at the same time, when she becomes a woman at eighteen,
is her mother still going to be allowing to, you know,
anything from there or not?
Speaker 2 (15:49):
What's been what twelve years? I think you said? Was it?
Was it twelve years?
Speaker 8 (15:53):
Thirteen years there?
Speaker 10 (15:54):
Yeah, so a lot can change over that time, so
hopefully for you we can get a really positive outcome.
Speaker 8 (16:02):
I'm a home hype and so yeah, I know, like
I said yesterday, that you could do a lot of
destruction through relationships and personalities and some family especially, So yeah,
I'm worried about that, but at the same time, I'm
willing to see what can happen from it.
Speaker 4 (16:23):
Yes, yeah, Dave.
Speaker 7 (16:25):
You're not going to make contact though, are you.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
What you're going to do is a fact finding thing
at this point in time.
Speaker 4 (16:33):
Yeah. Absolutely, I mean that is something for me to
give to consideration the whole situation or any situation that
we become involved in like this. It's something that I
think very carefully about and whether it's in the best
interest of the parties to release sort of this information.
(16:54):
Hence why I'll have a conversation with Osaiah off air
and just determine, you know, where he's going with this
and what he wants to do and if he has
got some professional device. We certainly will not be making
any contact or any inquiries with any child. That's certainly
not what we're about. In regards to the mother, absolutely
we can. You know, we'll do our best to define her.
(17:16):
But as I said, it's not a right of passage
that someone gets this information off. I don't think it's
in the best interest of all parties concerns. So that's
something that I take quite seriously. And as I said,
we'll we'll work towards getting a goal that's that's you know,
that's achievable for all parties.
Speaker 3 (17:34):
Yeah, thanks, good, Yeah, you see why we like him.
Speaker 8 (17:39):
And I've heard many times how good he is at
his job.
Speaker 1 (17:43):
He's a fox terrier with moral, a moral company, with
the heart of a labrador.
Speaker 3 (17:49):
I don't believe everything you're here, all right, Well, we'll
leave you two to have a conversation and and and
get what what details p I Dave needs and we'll
talk to you again with the next steps and hopefully
we've got some details and see where we go from there.
Speaker 8 (18:06):
Thank you very much too. Three. I greatly appreciate your
time in all this.
Speaker 7 (18:10):
Good luck, good luck, Thanks p I Day.
Speaker 4 (18:14):
Thanks guys, take care.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
Again.
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This is Confessions for Cash.
Speaker 8 (18:34):
P I.
Speaker 3 (18:34):
Dave's in the studio with us. Welcome mate, Good morning guys.
We had a mission for you. We spoke to Isaiah,
who has a daughter that he's never met and per
chance he walked past her in the shopping center because
he remembers his ex. They had an agreement that they
were never going to speak again, see each other again.
He was going to have nothing to do with his
daughter's life, and I guess seeing her in the shops
(18:56):
has changed his mind on it. So he had no
idea if he could find this ex partner of his.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
And so yesterday we put you guys on together and
sent you off.
Speaker 7 (19:08):
Have you found anything and if so, what?
Speaker 2 (19:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 11 (19:11):
We definitely found exactly what we needed to. So we've
got the information that Oziah wants, so we'll be happy
to give that to him.
Speaker 2 (19:20):
Is it that easy to find mself on that?
Speaker 8 (19:22):
Not?
Speaker 3 (19:22):
Usually?
Speaker 11 (19:23):
Some obviously harder than the others, but this one wasn't
very hard at all. Put it this way, I won't
be getting Investigator of the Year. It was pretty easy.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
Well, let's get a Zira up from Logan. Hey, Isiah morning. Yes,
so we promised you that we would get p I.
Dave on the case, and he has done that. How
do you feel about that?
Speaker 8 (19:47):
I didn't think it was going to be hard for
a man hearing his track record with you guys. I'm scared.
I'm absolutely scared, prapless. I don't know what to do.
Like I said, we made that promise not to contact
each other, but I'm sort of breaking that promises something
(20:10):
I wanted to do. Yeah, twelve thirteen years is a
long time, as you guys said, and has changed, and
I just sort of hope there is that chance.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
What information have you actually got p I Dave?
Speaker 11 (20:23):
So yeah, we've got everything. Yeah, I'm happy to give
a phone number in this regard and if he wants
to make contact via text, by a phone call, whatever
he thinks is the best option. Just given these circumstances,
I really think this is probably the best and safest
option for everyone, rather than giving an address or anything
(20:44):
like that.
Speaker 10 (20:44):
Oh yeah, yeah, And I think for Isaiah it's more
do you reach out and ask that question or you're
better off just leaving it how it is, you.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
Know, And that's a hard one to answer.
Speaker 3 (20:54):
But is that where you're sitting? Is that where your
mind's at? Isaiah?
Speaker 8 (20:58):
Yeah, I was only ever going to ask for the
phone number we spoke, and it was not going to
anything more just the phone that would be the safest
way to make that contact. I'm probably going to sit
on it for a couple of days and over the
weekend and sort of just see what to do with it.
I loveously need to suspect to someone about it to
(21:20):
see what the best decision is, because I my head's
just really all over the place with it at the moment.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
You can't have got this far and not really and surely.
Speaker 12 (21:31):
I don't know how her reaction is going to be
because it was a lifetime promise and the type of
admiral woman she is, and you know, she was an
amazing woman when I knew her, and I know she
was going to be an amazing mother and everything else
like that, I just don't.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
Know the question you're really asking her is if you're saying, hey,
I've I've had to change your heart, but have you. Yeah,
until she knows that you're interested, then you'll never know.
Speaker 8 (21:59):
No. No, I know that. One of my things my
dad always said is if you can expect the answer no,
then there shouldn't be scared to ask the question. So
I'm going to my dad's words, I think, and I
may just phone call them just see what she says,
or even just a text message.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
First, Azaiah, you have the information. You originally told this
because you've not told another soul, and now we've provided
you with the information to get a definitive answer.
Speaker 3 (22:32):
But you said, mate, you wanted a couple of days
to think about it. Don't let us pressure.
Speaker 12 (22:35):
It's more finding the courage and finding the words to
put in a message.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 10 (22:42):
Also talk to the people closer too, like they know
your best trust me, family, friends, your therapist.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
They're always they're in your best interests.
Speaker 10 (22:51):
So if you're always unsure, you've got to ask someone
and you've got to make sure it's going to be
the right one.
Speaker 8 (22:57):
And I have your find number.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
Course, the reason I am the way I am is
I see my own I see I'll get it for you.
Speaker 3 (23:09):
Thank you. Trace investigations. If you ever need someone's help,
p I. Dave is the King.
Speaker 8 (23:14):
Thank you, Isaiah, thank you everyone, appreciate everything. Good luck mate,
Thanks guys.
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Speaker 7 (00:38):
Co asire of Logan.
Speaker 8 (00:42):
Good morning, Good morning guys. How are we good?
Speaker 7 (00:46):
Do you have a confession?
Speaker 8 (00:48):
Oh? Yeah, I'm taking them. I'm trying to get rid
of it. I cheated on my wife early in our marriage,
and it resulted in a child who is now approximately
twelve years old. The person I cheated on my wife
with her and I agreed that the child would grow
(01:12):
up not knowing her father at all. And yeah, it's
it's something else, chips myself, and I've just always wanted
to put it out there, just really to hear myself
say it.
Speaker 7 (01:28):
Why why have you? And why is this making you
so upset? Is it the lie? What is it?
Speaker 8 (01:37):
I'm well, I guess it is the lie a little bit.
And the reason being is I walked past her and
the mother the other day and yeah, oh she for
the fird time in twelve years? Didn't she was about
two weeks old that I've ever remotely even late eyes
(01:57):
or have any idea what she looked like.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
So you s were a child for the first time
in twelve years.
Speaker 8 (02:01):
Yeah, because then, of course the girl and I decided
we won't get to see each other anymore. To be
I know why that was. I can't really remember what
the decision was in that one. I sort of left
that up to her being the mother that would have
to bring her up her life.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
So did the mother of that child recognize you when.
Speaker 7 (02:23):
You walk past?
Speaker 8 (02:25):
I don't think so. I think I managed to be
out of her view or she wasn't really looking around.
Speaker 7 (02:33):
Do you pay any money?
Speaker 9 (02:35):
No?
Speaker 8 (02:36):
No, that was the thing. We agreed that there will
be absolutely no record, nothing besides her and I, knowing
now used to know the radio will it does?
Speaker 7 (02:48):
So do you want to change that? Asiah?
Speaker 1 (02:50):
It sounds like there's something in you that wants this
not to be the case.
Speaker 8 (02:56):
Deep down. Yeah, I guess I can say, let's put
it in a metaphoric way. I want you and that's growing.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
Who's it going to? Obviously there's a lot of people
that's going to affect if you were to reach out.
So what about your your wife at the time that
you that you cheated on, as she's still around, are
you still in a relationship.
Speaker 8 (03:21):
No, no, no where We're divorced, separated, and so no,
there's no communication with her and eyes. There will be
things like I told you those sort of things or
somewhat like I sort of knew it. But it will
absolutely I will be out that, I guess. I will
lose family, I will lose very close friends. I would
(03:44):
lose a lot. Why, I guess because I've had the
life for so long, and even when it has been
brought up with me at times, even with my best
friend that I would trust with my life, and even
keeping this information, I still haven't told.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
Who Well, so why now? Is it just wasn't seeing her?
Do you think that her?
Speaker 8 (04:10):
Yeah, it was seeing her, and I'm just like, I
got to get it out. I've got to say it
to someone. And as much as I've got some really
great friends helping me out right now, I still can't
even say to them, yes, you're right in a way, yeah,
I would like to, not necessarily straight away, but maybe
in due time reach out when she's old enough.
Speaker 10 (04:33):
But obviously you're fearful of what the reaction will be
from obviously her actual mother.
Speaker 8 (04:39):
Yes, I've got to feel your possitive reach out to her.
That's probably where it would stop.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Yeah, so.
Speaker 8 (04:46):
I guess you could say, I guess I'm probably hanging
around till she's eighteen, where it's entirely after her choice
whether she wants to go and find and get to
know who was the other party that brought her into
this world and created her.
Speaker 7 (04:58):
So you don't know what she's been told because.
Speaker 8 (05:02):
I don't know if she's been told anything. I don't
know her mom, and I came up with something to
hold just me, just disappearance or whatever the story her
mother has told sher in regards to me, I don't
know whether it's a story where I'm alive and it
is how it is, or whether I'm un alive and
no longer here. So that's why you'll never, unfortunately get
(05:24):
to know and meet your father.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
And is she do you know if that woman is
in her family, like was she married?
Speaker 7 (05:31):
This is your child?
Speaker 8 (05:33):
I don't know. I don't know where she's that in life.
She was obviously seeing at the time her and I
were seeing each other and whatnot. I don't know whether
she's ended up getting into a relationship or getting married
or anything house like that. So that's that.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Yeah, what do you want us to do, Asiah, because
during a radio station you, I mean, we have the
means to help you if you wanted to.
Speaker 8 (05:58):
I don't want to risk destroying families and families lives
that may have been established over the last twelve years
or so. I I really just wanted someone to listen
and to tear me out. I don't know.
Speaker 10 (06:14):
Yeah, just seeing them now that day obviously just sparked it.
And you just wanted to tell someone that's.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
A heavy secret.
Speaker 8 (06:20):
That's basically in a way, I guess. Yeah, there's even
friends out there like so I would trust with my life,
and I still I tried him come to them and
talk about I haven't told my therapist about it.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Hey, Okay, well, thank you, and I hope that you
feel like we're a good place to start.
Speaker 8 (06:42):
Yeah, you know I do.
Speaker 9 (06:44):
I do.
Speaker 8 (06:45):
Thank you guys. It's actually helped me realize that. Yeah,
I think I do at some stage want to try
to meet her, but I think that my best way
about that would be when she's old. I'm not now
at a teenage?
Speaker 3 (06:57):
Could I suggest as it might be worth reaching out
to the mum and just finding out because a lot
changes in twelve years. Like you guys made that pact
right and at that time it was the right thing
for all of you to say not going to be
in part of each other's lives. But who knows if
that's how she still feels. And until you ask the question,
(07:18):
you're not going to know.
Speaker 8 (07:21):
Yeah, you know what, You're true, that's right, I don't know.
Your twelve years is a long time.
Speaker 7 (07:27):
Can you find her? Do you want us to help
you to find her?
Speaker 8 (07:31):
I might be able to find it.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
But you said you see a therapist, then you two.
Speaker 8 (07:37):
I am seeing a therapist.
Speaker 10 (07:39):
Yeah, well look I've seen them for a long time
for a lot of other just life in general for myself.
But honestly i'd be booking in and just talking to
them straight away. Yeah, just so then you have actually
someone to talk about it every day.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
That's what they're there for. You around me talk to them.
Speaker 10 (07:57):
And yeah, if I was obviously telling us has helped
a lot. But you know, if you've got a therapist
that you go and see, I'd be definitely doing something
because it's obviously it affects you a lot. It's a
massive decision a long time ago. But you know, obviously
I think I reckon you want a different outcome right now,
because I believe you want to maybe, like Kip said,
(08:20):
talk to the mum, but I think your therapist is
the first one that you need to talk to about
it all.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
And then.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
We have we have a private investigator as AIAH at
our fingertips who we use a lot who's excellent if
you want to go away and think about it, But
if you want us to try and help you find
the mum.
Speaker 7 (08:44):
We could possibly do that.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
I think when we're talking about a twelve year old
that is not our jurisdiction and we would have nothing
to do with that. But if that's something you feel
that you would want to, we could potentially help you there.
Speaker 8 (09:01):
Yeah, it's at least tracking down and having the option
to be able to be in contact with the muther
to see if I will I know, work up the
nerve to contact here and say, hey, look how things going.
I think I could probably handle that.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Maybe Yeah, okay, well, why don't you have a think
about it? Because it feels like there's a lot that's
just happened in this phone call.
Speaker 8 (09:26):
Yeah, right, and you need.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
To kind of digest that and be really comfortable with
your choices. But if you want us to help, then
there's some potential places that we can.
Speaker 8 (09:38):
I thank you. I think you appreciate that greatly. Yes,
ILL might just take it out with the days to
digest this and see where I'm going to be at emotionally.
I think Corey's right, I should really bring up with
my therapist. How can I not bring up with a
professional who's required to cheap secrets?
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Right exactly they are. And I know you haven't done
it for the money, but thank you for sharing. And
we've got five hundred bucks for you as well, mate,
so that'll pay for a bit of therapy anyway.
Speaker 8 (10:04):
Yeah, that'll have a few sessions.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Thank you for sure, mate, Thank you, thank you very.
Speaker 8 (10:12):
Much for your time and for your rears. Guys. You
guys are doing great and Corey you're an awesome addition
to the team mate.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
Thanks man, I appreciate it.
Speaker 8 (10:19):
And no, it's not the mission you guys either.
Speaker 7 (10:20):
Robin you're fine, mate.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
It's good you take care of you and have a
think about what your options are.
Speaker 8 (10:27):
Thank you very much. Guys, keep up the awesome work.
Speaker 9 (10:32):
Now with Coos the podcast.
Speaker 4 (10:37):
Give Me.
Speaker 5 (10:39):
With Robin Kip and Corey Os This is Confessions for Cash.
Speaker 3 (10:49):
And added Blogan back on the phone. It was a
pretty emotional story you told us about a twelve year
old daughter that you've never met.
Speaker 8 (10:56):
Yes, yeah, thank you for that too.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
Yeah, you were really upset, and I mean it has
the time. Let you kind of think about it. Are
you feeling okay about it all?
Speaker 8 (11:07):
I'm feeling okay about it all. The concept of initially
making the contact if it's at all possible becomes possible
is a very scary thought for me at the moment.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
But we left it with you saying that we have
this great guy called p I Dave who is our
own private investigator from oz Trace Investigations, and he is amazing.
Have you thought do you want us to try and
get him involved?
Speaker 8 (11:36):
I think O rule is probably best that I at
least try to move forward and try to do something
about the situation, I guess, and at least try to
make contact at some stage might find the strength.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
Yes, yeah, so you want us to help and yes, please?
Speaker 8 (11:50):
Yeah? No, I greatly appreciate it.
Speaker 3 (11:52):
Okay, because the next step is trying to find this
is the lady that you had the child with, the
twelve year old who you've never met. You saw her
the other day at the shops, but you've had no
contact with her for twelve years. So our next step
then is to talk to p I Dave and see
if he can track her down. And you want us
to do that.
Speaker 8 (12:09):
I would greatly appreciate good having the option known that
I could make contact if and when I'm strong enough,
I guess yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
Okay, So how would you feel if we kind of
did that now? PI Dave is a great friend of ours.
We can get him up, and I'm sure if he's
available right now, it'll give you a couple of minutes
to kind of get yourself together. But let's try and
get p I Dave up. You can have a chat
to him and see where this goes. Are you up
for that?
Speaker 8 (12:36):
Yeah? I think I managed that one today?
Speaker 2 (12:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (12:37):
Absolutely, all right.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
Okay, hang in that one, secon mate.
Speaker 8 (12:40):
Thank you.
Speaker 5 (12:43):
Now with Courios the podcast Give Me the Cash with
Robin Kith and CoreOS.
Speaker 6 (12:53):
This is Confessions for Cash.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
So we're back with Isaiah. He has a twelve year
old daughter he's never met. He saw her the other day,
just walk by her in the shops.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
Because, as Iah, you made the agreement with the mother
of this child that when she had the baby, you
would have absolutely nothing to do with them.
Speaker 8 (13:15):
Neither one of us were going to mention her anything
about me, even if we're still friends at the time,
it will still go to be kept completely secret. There
was never to be spoken of.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
And that worked until you saw her literally across the
street last week or the week before.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
So you've had a change of heart, and I guess
now we want to find out if she potentially has
has had a change of heart, and if there's any
chance that you could meet.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
Yeah, well we've got a guy who can find people.
Speaker 8 (13:48):
His neighbo.
Speaker 7 (13:49):
Yeah, one of the great friends of the show.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
We love p I Dave from Ostre's Investigations.
Speaker 4 (13:54):
Hey Dave, Morning team.
Speaker 3 (13:58):
Okay, mate, now you've been Have you heard most of
Isaiah's story?
Speaker 8 (14:03):
Yeah, I have.
Speaker 4 (14:04):
I just tuned into that little bit there and listened intently.
So it's an interesting situation.
Speaker 7 (14:10):
Yeah, can you help?
Speaker 4 (14:13):
Of course we can do if you guys will certainly
do the best we can Okay, unreal, what.
Speaker 7 (14:21):
Do you need to know from Isaiah?
Speaker 4 (14:25):
The mother's full name? Obviously is best that you know
that he recalls the information of her details, and from
that will go about and see what information we can find.
Hopefully it's not a reasonably common name and it's you know,
he's got some details that we can start, and then
we'll go about and do our thing from there.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
Do you think this is going to be a fairly
achievable goal?
Speaker 8 (14:50):
Oh, I'd hope so.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
I mean from the information that I've heard so far. Look,
I mean, it sounds like it's definitely going to be
somewhere to start. We're pretty confident of the area that
she's in by the sounds of Isaiah's story, So hopefully
that can you know, pinpoint us to the right location
and once we've done that, concern that and then come
back to you.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Guys, all right, how do you feel about that?
Speaker 8 (15:16):
I feel okay about that. I think I'll be happy
to Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
So on some level, mate, if you know that and
you've wrung us, there is a big part of you
that just wants an answer, right.
Speaker 8 (15:28):
I just want to know if if she was gifted
old enough and she did ask about me, would she
allowed to happened? Okay, we made out of Freeman. But
at the same time, when she becomes a woman at eighteen,
is her mother still going to be allowing to, you know,
anything from there or not?
Speaker 2 (15:49):
What's been what twelve years? I think you said? Was it?
Was it twelve years?
Speaker 8 (15:53):
Thirteen years there?
Speaker 10 (15:54):
Yeah, so a lot can change over that time, so
hopefully for you we can get a really positive outcome.
Speaker 8 (16:02):
I'm a home hype and so yeah, I know, like
I said yesterday, that you could do a lot of
destruction through relationships and personalities and some family especially, So yeah,
I'm worried about that, but at the same time, I'm
willing to see what can happen from it.
Speaker 4 (16:23):
Yes, yeah, Dave.
Speaker 7 (16:25):
You're not going to make contact though, are you.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
What you're going to do is a fact finding thing
at this point in time.
Speaker 4 (16:33):
Yeah. Absolutely, I mean that is something for me to
give to consideration the whole situation or any situation that
we become involved in like this. It's something that I
think very carefully about and whether it's in the best
interest of the parties to release sort of this information.
(16:54):
Hence why I'll have a conversation with Osaiah off air
and just determine, you know, where he's going with this
and what he wants to do and if he has
got some professional device. We certainly will not be making
any contact or any inquiries with any child. That's certainly
not what we're about. In regards to the mother, absolutely
we can. You know, we'll do our best to define her.
(17:16):
But as I said, it's not a right of passage
that someone gets this information off. I don't think it's
in the best interest of all parties concerns. So that's
something that I take quite seriously. And as I said,
we'll we'll work towards getting a goal that's that's you know,
that's achievable for all parties.
Speaker 3 (17:34):
Yeah, thanks, good, Yeah, you see why we like him.
Speaker 8 (17:39):
And I've heard many times how good he is at
his job.
Speaker 1 (17:43):
He's a fox terrier with moral, a moral company, with
the heart of a labrador.
Speaker 3 (17:49):
I don't believe everything you're here, all right, Well, we'll
leave you two to have a conversation and and and
get what what details p I Dave needs and we'll
talk to you again with the next steps and hopefully
we've got some details and see where we go from there.
Speaker 8 (18:06):
Thank you very much too. Three. I greatly appreciate your
time in all this.
Speaker 7 (18:10):
Good luck, good luck, Thanks p I Day.
Speaker 4 (18:14):
Thanks guys, take care.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
Again.
Speaker 9 (18:17):
Now with Choreos the podcast.
Speaker 5 (18:22):
Give Me There with Robin Kip and Coriots.
Speaker 6 (18:27):
This is Confessions for Cash.
Speaker 8 (18:34):
P I.
Speaker 3 (18:34):
Dave's in the studio with us. Welcome mate, Good morning guys.
We had a mission for you. We spoke to Isaiah,
who has a daughter that he's never met and per
chance he walked past her in the shopping center because
he remembers his ex. They had an agreement that they
were never going to speak again, see each other again.
He was going to have nothing to do with his
daughter's life, and I guess seeing her in the shops
(18:56):
has changed his mind on it. So he had no
idea if he could find this ex partner of his.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
And so yesterday we put you guys on together and
sent you off.
Speaker 7 (19:08):
Have you found anything and if so, what?
Speaker 2 (19:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 11 (19:11):
We definitely found exactly what we needed to. So we've
got the information that Oziah wants, so we'll be happy
to give that to him.
Speaker 2 (19:20):
Is it that easy to find mself on that?
Speaker 8 (19:22):
Not?
Speaker 3 (19:22):
Usually?
Speaker 11 (19:23):
Some obviously harder than the others, but this one wasn't
very hard at all. Put it this way, I won't
be getting Investigator of the Year. It was pretty easy.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
Well, let's get a Zira up from Logan. Hey, Isiah morning. Yes,
so we promised you that we would get p I.
Dave on the case, and he has done that. How
do you feel about that?
Speaker 8 (19:47):
I didn't think it was going to be hard for
a man hearing his track record with you guys. I'm scared.
I'm absolutely scared, prapless. I don't know what to do.
Like I said, we made that promise not to contact
each other, but I'm sort of breaking that promises something
(20:10):
I wanted to do. Yeah, twelve thirteen years is a
long time, as you guys said, and has changed, and
I just sort of hope there is that chance.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
What information have you actually got p I Dave?
Speaker 11 (20:23):
So yeah, we've got everything. Yeah, I'm happy to give
a phone number in this regard and if he wants
to make contact via text, by a phone call, whatever
he thinks is the best option. Just given these circumstances,
I really think this is probably the best and safest
option for everyone, rather than giving an address or anything
(20:44):
like that.
Speaker 10 (20:44):
Oh yeah, yeah, And I think for Isaiah it's more
do you reach out and ask that question or you're
better off just leaving it how it is, you.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
Know, And that's a hard one to answer.
Speaker 3 (20:54):
But is that where you're sitting? Is that where your
mind's at? Isaiah?
Speaker 8 (20:58):
Yeah, I was only ever going to ask for the
phone number we spoke, and it was not going to
anything more just the phone that would be the safest
way to make that contact. I'm probably going to sit
on it for a couple of days and over the
weekend and sort of just see what to do with it.
I loveously need to suspect to someone about it to
(21:20):
see what the best decision is, because I my head's
just really all over the place with it at the moment.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
You can't have got this far and not really and surely.
Speaker 12 (21:31):
I don't know how her reaction is going to be
because it was a lifetime promise and the type of
admiral woman she is, and you know, she was an
amazing woman when I knew her, and I know she
was going to be an amazing mother and everything else
like that, I just don't.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
Know the question you're really asking her is if you're saying, hey,
I've I've had to change your heart, but have you. Yeah,
until she knows that you're interested, then you'll never know.
Speaker 8 (21:59):
No. No, I know that. One of my things my
dad always said is if you can expect the answer no,
then there shouldn't be scared to ask the question. So
I'm going to my dad's words, I think, and I
may just phone call them just see what she says,
or even just a text message.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
First, Azaiah, you have the information. You originally told this
because you've not told another soul, and now we've provided
you with the information to get a definitive answer.
Speaker 3 (22:32):
But you said, mate, you wanted a couple of days
to think about it. Don't let us pressure.
Speaker 12 (22:35):
It's more finding the courage and finding the words to
put in a message.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 10 (22:42):
Also talk to the people closer too, like they know
your best trust me, family, friends, your therapist.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
They're always they're in your best interests.
Speaker 10 (22:51):
So if you're always unsure, you've got to ask someone
and you've got to make sure it's going to be
the right one.
Speaker 8 (22:57):
And I have your find number.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
Course, the reason I am the way I am is
I see my own I see I'll get it for you.
Speaker 3 (23:09):
Thank you. Trace investigations. If you ever need someone's help,
p I. Dave is the King.
Speaker 8 (23:14):
Thank you, Isaiah, thank you everyone, appreciate everything. Good luck mate,
Thanks guys.
Speaker 9 (23:22):
Rowing him now with Correos The podcast
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