November 17, 2025 • 16 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:06):
It's lucky dip tell you with Mal Lamanty for your
bite sized podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Hi, how's a guy?
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Hi everyone, Thanks for listening. If you're new to the podcast,
we do to a week, a longer one, and then
a shorter lucky dip where you don't know what you're
gonna get today. Mail is leading.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
The other day you did some X. Yes, we had
a real long list. We might do a part two
of that.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
We're gonna we can do every episode is our X.
If you've got X show and tell podcasts on Instagram
is where you can send us your X. But today
we're going positive.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
We are we are gonna go positive turn ons and
this can be a turn on, not just in a
romantic sense, yes, just friendships and stuff like I.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Agree, Yes, I like this, Yes, all right.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
This is a counter to one of my X right,
which is generosity.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
You don't like generosity?
Speaker 2 (01:05):
No, I like. I'm turned on by it's not big,
showy you know I'll get dinner for everybody, Yes, but
not being a tied us, being generous with your well,
being generous with your money. Yes, I don't like it.
Oh so I had the RIGATONI and you had being generous,
(01:27):
But also with your time, yes, your ears, with your presence.
Generosity is a turn on.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Oh my god, it's such a turnout. And somebody who
is interested and interesting, like you realize there's so many
people in your life that you walk away from a
conversation with them or hangout with them and you're like,
they haven't asked me one fucking question.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
There was this really great quote that I read the
other day and I thought it was so bang on.
I just couldn't believe it. It was about having conversation right,
and how we're in this time where what you're doing
in a conversation is waiting for your turn to spare,
not actually listening to the other person. And I think, God,
(02:12):
I do that a lot. I'm so aware that I
do that a lot.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
I do that too.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
If it's if I'm not really present, I'm like, oh, okay,
yeah that's good, but I've got something funny to say.
It's so bad, it's so bad.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
It's so Yeah. I do think everyone does that too,
to an extent, though, don't you, Because somebody will say
something and then it sparks something that's happened to you
or and you want to share it.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Yeah, it's interesting because you.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Really do notice a good listener because it's fuel and
far between a.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Good listener is Yeah. Also, there's a very fine line
between I look at my husband and I'm like, oh,
he was a good listener, but now it's a line
between a good listener and someone who's able to tune out. Yeah,
because you know, because it's like two days later, I'll say,
you know, I help saying the other day and he'll
be like nah, And I was like, you were that is.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
An in Sam, I see, I just cut you off
to say what I had in my mind. I'm like,
that's Sam. Oh, Like tonight, I've got drinks with friends
an early one, thank god, five o'clock. So I'm like, yeah,
i'll go. But I said to him, don't forget I've
got drinks tomorrow night. And he's like, I don't think
I knew that. I'm like, I fucking told you, and
you went out with the husband last week. So I said,
how funny, I'm going out with the wife next Friday,
(03:25):
exact same time that you went out. Like you just
clearly didn't listen.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
I know, And also in fairness, I just said that.
But how many things have we all got going on
in our heads, like you know what I mean again,
I don't understand it.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
If he told me something, you know, and I wasn't listening,
I would be adamant that he didn't tell me, you know.
But he's just like, yeah, it's fine, don't worry about it.
But I say, I don't think I knew about it. Okay,
Next thing.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Okay, decisiveness, Oh yes, make the decision, make the call
about yourself. Go in yep, just organize, take charge, take charge. Hesitation, yeah,
I hate hesitation. Another thing on my list is, like
I know I've said this before, my husband is not
(04:13):
like an overly masculine man. I'm not saying it in
that way. He's masculine, but like he is the most
self assured person I've ever known. He gives zero fucks
about what's in what people are like. He's like, oh, yeah,
I'm not into that. I think I've used this example before,
but when Romeo and Juliet the movie came out, the
(04:35):
Basloman One, everyone loved it. Right. It was like, you know,
when there are things that it's almost like, oh, you
have to say you like Nirvana even if you don't
or Taylor Swift right, that sort of thing. But he
walked out of the movie theater and sat at the
front and had a cigarette. He was like, it was
so fucking shit. I just didn't get it. I'm not
(04:55):
wasting my time. And I'm like, he just doesn't care.
That self assuredness. He is so attractive to me, so
attractive because you're like, oh you want okay, Like the
ideas sometimes is all go like, oh, well, you know,
why don't you wear this or that? But he's just
so confident in his but not I like this.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
Yeah, Sam's the same. Sometimes I might I don't know
about that. I think, why don't you try a different?
Shows like I'm comfortable, Like, okay, you do, And then.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
And they are literally like no one else is looking
at me so totally where I'm like, well, I'm looking
at myself fucking hectically, so everyone else obviously is, which
they're totally not. But if he says to me, I
don't know about that, which isn't very often, then I'm like, oh,
I might still wear it, but I'll be a bit
conscious that maybe it's not that good. Do you know
(05:46):
what's very interesting about this? The other day, well, a
couple of weeks ago, we went out and I wore
a top that was very, very sheer and a black
bra underneath, right, And I said to my daughter, how
do you think this looks? And she goes, think it
looks good? And I said, I I can't remember how
(06:10):
I phrased it, but it's something like I will see
what Dad thinks of it or whatever. And she goes,
but what does it matter what Dad thinks? Ah? And
I said, well, I guess you're right. And I walked off,
and then I was like, oh god, have I sort
of overcorrected here in my don't let anyone tell you
what to do sort of set up. I went back
to her and I said, I just want to clarify
(06:30):
something I said in the same way that if I
said to Dad, I really hate that shirt? Can you
please put something else on? Because I hate that shirt?
He would change it. If I was passionate about it,
like I just can really hate it, he probably would
change it. If he said to me, I don't know,
I don't like that top. I said to her, there's
(06:54):
a difference between control and someone being honest with you. Yeah,
because I know. If I pushed back and said, but
I feel really good in this, then he'd be like,
all right, well then wear it. Yeah, but I want
him to think I look good, so I would change
because I want his eyes on me and thinking I
look good? Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Signline? Isn't it? Probably confusing? But she is right, like
who cares what anyone thinks? Like, we shouldn't care if
we feel comfortable and good. We shouldn't care at all. Yeah,
I know, I know that kind of the decisiveness leads
me a little bit to when you see your partner
(07:33):
or just anyone in their work environment and they're really
good at what they do, and you're like, far out,
you are so in control here of your domain, you
know what to do. Look at you using the terminology
whipping around like it's so attractive.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
If you knew how turned on I got when Mark
slicing her? Are you serious? Please?
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Don't or show it putting me all of us into
a tub. If you don't know Mel's mail, they own a.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Dally, Oh my god, if I I reckon, I've been
to his work like five times in like fifteen years.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Ah right, yeah, okay, yeah, I probably haven't been to
Sam's work that many times, but He'll often do a
work call at home and it will be negotiating a
contract or. Like Sam's job.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
Is tell everyone what he does.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
He is in the head of like a podcasting network.
It's called Listener, just in case you haven't heard of it. Yeah,
but maybe a lot of people haven't. Anyway, it's like
your TODAYFM, Triple M, Like they've got a big podcasting stream.
So he's the head of that. So his job is
sourcing talent. Won't fucking take our podcast on sourcing talent
(08:59):
finding me? Yeah, he bloody will negotiating contracts. His main
person is the COO or whatever. So when I hear him,
I'm like, and he's done it for so long, like
one hundred years, that he can do it with his
eyes closed. But he's so fair and so on it
and just knows the words, knows how to talk anyone around. Like, yes,
(09:23):
I call him a master manipulator, but he's actually not,
you know. But just seeing him and also when I
used to sometimes go into the studio produced to Hey,
Mish and Andy and just seeing him run the whole show,
I was like, you are the captain of this ship,
and it was like that anyway, Yes, they are good
at if you're good at sport, if you're good at.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Anything, it's like seeing someone in their element.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
Totally, or even like a guy kicking a football really well, oh.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
My god when they catch the ball. I'd love to
be able to catch a ball with that assurance.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
So yeah, just confidence.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
Confidence, that's what it means.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Totally. This isn't another one, but it's about women. What
is such a turn on is women with fantastic tits,
and it's usually younger girls. And then they don't wear
a bra. I'm just like, that's so hot because your
boobs are just staying put. There's a lot inviron, like
(10:28):
a lot of baristas and stuff. They're young and they
don't wear bras, And although it's confronting, I'm like, God,
that's hot.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
I see. I find that the no bra thing. I
don't know what it is about that that I don't know.
I think it's even like the idea of people thinking
that being able to see someone's nipple through a top,
like as in like when you nipples can't stay cold,
or you're really fucking turned on watching your husband cut hand. Right, Yes,
(10:55):
the idea of seeing an erect nipple is hot, right,
I get the concept, but I would be so uncomfortable
with that seeing myself. No, in myself, I would never
in one a million years leave the house without a
brown I wear until I go to bed here because
I'm not comfortable.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Mine are so sad. There's like when I bend over
to like pick something up off the shower and I
get a glance of them sagging down, I'm like shocked,
I'm shook us every time I see the state of
my boobs, Well, then you're so lucky you don't have
big boobs as well, like that they're and you know,
(11:36):
to fill out bras and stuff like, I don't feel
like the top of my cups are like empty because
the boob just all sinks to the bottom of the bra.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
It's the volume at the top. The volume at the
top at the.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
Time has gone. And I'm like, as I'm going to
get older, these are literally going to be hanging right
over my stomach, like there's no way they're not going
to be.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
And what I would say to that, though, is that
sometimes like I don't I don't you know, I believe you,
I believe you, but sometimes you know, when we get
fixated on something, Yeah, like otherwise, like Sam would probably
see you naked and not even notice that.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
He'd just be like, oh, she looks hot. I would
I think he would. Now they're very different after the babies,
Like I've never had rait cans, but these are like
they fucked them. And I just will never get a
boob job because I don't want to have an unnecessary operation.
But I do think it would make a huge difference
(12:37):
to my confidence.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Yeah, yeah, I get that, Like.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
I don't want I'm not comfortable. I wouldn't be comfortable
standing in front of Sam, like I would quickly get
changed in front of him, but I wouldn't have a
conversation with him with my top off.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
And isn't that funny? It all comes back to the
confidence thing that if you sort of, you know, put
your shoulders back and you're that he would find is
that attracted to do that? So hot? Because oh my god,
she's so secure? And as I say all the time,
who's to say things that our society deems a nunattractive,
(13:13):
like maybe a body that has a bit more softness
to it as opposed to feeling abs or whatever is
the bad thing. Yeah, that's just what we've been conditioned.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
Oh to believe, absolutely totally. But a nice set of
cans is such a to god.
Speaker 2 (13:29):
You know, you would have potential. I heard I think
Keith Flennigan said this once and it was so true.
You would have potential to be a lesbian from the
waist up.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
One thousand percent.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
I don't want to respect to anybody anywhere near me,
But you play with someone's boobs, for ages with somebody's boobs.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
My beautiful friend Claire, I always was like, oh my god,
if I like, I'm just like, you're the sexiest thing
I've ever seen. And I would just touch her and
grope her and me She's so got this beautiful, curvy
womanly bodies, yes, stunning face, and I would just always
be like, if I was gay, you would have to
(14:09):
watch out.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
Like I've got right type.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
But I'm not attracted to women, yeah, do you know
what I mean? Like I see them attractive, but sometimes
I'm like, God, I wish I was into that.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
Yeah, I know, God, how's it? How's the options?
Speaker 1 (14:24):
If you were I think if you were by it
would be easier than being because there's a minority are
is if people are a minority of people are gay
as opposed to straight, So just finding your people would
be harder for sure.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Yeah that's true, but maybe Bye would not think that's
what I feels like. I would open up both worlds.
I'd just be guzzling. You'd just love to know what's better,
because you would assume that technically gay, see is probably
better because you have the equipment. Yeah, you know how
(15:04):
things feel, even though people like different things. You know
your way around a woman's body better than a man's
body man does. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
One of my great mates was married and is gay,
So her and her partner broke her and her husband
broke up, and now she's with women. Yeah, and she
is like, the sex is a trillion times better, like
not even comparable.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
Yeah. You know why as well, because I think sex
is thought of as penis in vagina. Yes, yes, but
there are different kinds of sex, as we all know. Yeah,
so you know, yeah, I feel like you would get
way more creative. Yeah, because it's not just laying there
getting having a dick. It's like, well, what are we
(15:51):
going to do to get each other off here? So
you have to consciously think about.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
It a bit more.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
Yeah, yeah, probably anyway, interesting, I still love the Dick.
We know.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
All right, We're going to get out of here. Thank
you so much for listening. We love that you join us.
Share this podcast with your Dick loving friends, or your
friends that love John whoever. Everyone welcome.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
We'll chat to you soon.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
Bye for now, Love you,
It's lucky dip tell you with Mal Lamanty for your
bite sized podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Hi, how's a guy?
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Hi everyone, Thanks for listening. If you're new to the podcast,
we do to a week, a longer one, and then
a shorter lucky dip where you don't know what you're
gonna get today. Mail is leading.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
The other day you did some X. Yes, we had
a real long list. We might do a part two
of that.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
We're gonna we can do every episode is our X.
If you've got X show and tell podcasts on Instagram
is where you can send us your X. But today
we're going positive.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
We are we are gonna go positive turn ons and
this can be a turn on, not just in a
romantic sense, yes, just friendships and stuff like I.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Agree, Yes, I like this, Yes, all right.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
This is a counter to one of my X right,
which is generosity.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
You don't like generosity?
Speaker 2 (01:05):
No, I like. I'm turned on by it's not big,
showy you know I'll get dinner for everybody, Yes, but
not being a tied us, being generous with your well,
being generous with your money. Yes, I don't like it.
Oh so I had the RIGATONI and you had being generous,
(01:27):
But also with your time, yes, your ears, with your presence.
Generosity is a turn on.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Oh my god, it's such a turnout. And somebody who
is interested and interesting, like you realize there's so many
people in your life that you walk away from a
conversation with them or hangout with them and you're like,
they haven't asked me one fucking question.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
There was this really great quote that I read the
other day and I thought it was so bang on.
I just couldn't believe it. It was about having conversation right,
and how we're in this time where what you're doing
in a conversation is waiting for your turn to spare,
not actually listening to the other person. And I think, God,
(02:12):
I do that a lot. I'm so aware that I
do that a lot.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
I do that too.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
If it's if I'm not really present, I'm like, oh, okay,
yeah that's good, but I've got something funny to say.
It's so bad, it's so bad.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
It's so Yeah. I do think everyone does that too,
to an extent, though, don't you, Because somebody will say
something and then it sparks something that's happened to you
or and you want to share it.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Yeah, it's interesting because you.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Really do notice a good listener because it's fuel and
far between a.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Good listener is Yeah. Also, there's a very fine line
between I look at my husband and I'm like, oh,
he was a good listener, but now it's a line
between a good listener and someone who's able to tune out. Yeah,
because you know, because it's like two days later, I'll say,
you know, I help saying the other day and he'll
be like nah, And I was like, you were that is.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
An in Sam, I see, I just cut you off
to say what I had in my mind. I'm like,
that's Sam. Oh, Like tonight, I've got drinks with friends
an early one, thank god, five o'clock. So I'm like, yeah,
i'll go. But I said to him, don't forget I've
got drinks tomorrow night. And he's like, I don't think
I knew that. I'm like, I fucking told you, and
you went out with the husband last week. So I said,
how funny, I'm going out with the wife next Friday,
(03:25):
exact same time that you went out. Like you just
clearly didn't listen.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
I know, And also in fairness, I just said that.
But how many things have we all got going on
in our heads, like you know what I mean again,
I don't understand it.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
If he told me something, you know, and I wasn't listening,
I would be adamant that he didn't tell me, you know.
But he's just like, yeah, it's fine, don't worry about it.
But I say, I don't think I knew about it. Okay,
Next thing.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Okay, decisiveness, Oh yes, make the decision, make the call
about yourself. Go in yep, just organize, take charge, take charge. Hesitation, yeah,
I hate hesitation. Another thing on my list is, like
I know I've said this before, my husband is not
(04:13):
like an overly masculine man. I'm not saying it in
that way. He's masculine, but like he is the most
self assured person I've ever known. He gives zero fucks
about what's in what people are like. He's like, oh, yeah,
I'm not into that. I think I've used this example before,
but when Romeo and Juliet the movie came out, the
(04:35):
Basloman One, everyone loved it. Right. It was like, you know,
when there are things that it's almost like, oh, you
have to say you like Nirvana even if you don't
or Taylor Swift right, that sort of thing. But he
walked out of the movie theater and sat at the
front and had a cigarette. He was like, it was
so fucking shit. I just didn't get it. I'm not
(04:55):
wasting my time. And I'm like, he just doesn't care.
That self assuredness. He is so attractive to me, so
attractive because you're like, oh you want okay, Like the
ideas sometimes is all go like, oh, well, you know,
why don't you wear this or that? But he's just
so confident in his but not I like this.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
Yeah, Sam's the same. Sometimes I might I don't know
about that. I think, why don't you try a different?
Shows like I'm comfortable, Like, okay, you do, And then.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
And they are literally like no one else is looking
at me so totally where I'm like, well, I'm looking
at myself fucking hectically, so everyone else obviously is, which
they're totally not. But if he says to me, I
don't know about that, which isn't very often, then I'm like, oh,
I might still wear it, but I'll be a bit
conscious that maybe it's not that good. Do you know
(05:46):
what's very interesting about this? The other day, well, a
couple of weeks ago, we went out and I wore
a top that was very, very sheer and a black
bra underneath, right, And I said to my daughter, how
do you think this looks? And she goes, think it
looks good? And I said, I I can't remember how
(06:10):
I phrased it, but it's something like I will see
what Dad thinks of it or whatever. And she goes,
but what does it matter what Dad thinks? Ah? And
I said, well, I guess you're right. And I walked off,
and then I was like, oh god, have I sort
of overcorrected here in my don't let anyone tell you
what to do sort of set up. I went back
to her and I said, I just want to clarify
(06:30):
something I said in the same way that if I
said to Dad, I really hate that shirt? Can you
please put something else on? Because I hate that shirt?
He would change it. If I was passionate about it,
like I just can really hate it, he probably would
change it. If he said to me, I don't know,
I don't like that top. I said to her, there's
(06:54):
a difference between control and someone being honest with you. Yeah,
because I know. If I pushed back and said, but
I feel really good in this, then he'd be like,
all right, well then wear it. Yeah, but I want
him to think I look good, so I would change
because I want his eyes on me and thinking I
look good? Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Signline? Isn't it? Probably confusing? But she is right, like
who cares what anyone thinks? Like, we shouldn't care if
we feel comfortable and good. We shouldn't care at all. Yeah,
I know, I know that kind of the decisiveness leads
me a little bit to when you see your partner
(07:33):
or just anyone in their work environment and they're really
good at what they do, and you're like, far out,
you are so in control here of your domain, you
know what to do. Look at you using the terminology
whipping around like it's so attractive.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
If you knew how turned on I got when Mark
slicing her? Are you serious? Please?
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Don't or show it putting me all of us into
a tub. If you don't know Mel's mail, they own a.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Dally, Oh my god, if I I reckon, I've been
to his work like five times in like fifteen years.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Ah right, yeah, okay, yeah, I probably haven't been to
Sam's work that many times, but He'll often do a
work call at home and it will be negotiating a
contract or. Like Sam's job.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
Is tell everyone what he does.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
He is in the head of like a podcasting network.
It's called Listener, just in case you haven't heard of it. Yeah,
but maybe a lot of people haven't. Anyway, it's like
your TODAYFM, Triple M, Like they've got a big podcasting stream.
So he's the head of that. So his job is
sourcing talent. Won't fucking take our podcast on sourcing talent
(08:59):
finding me? Yeah, he bloody will negotiating contracts. His main
person is the COO or whatever. So when I hear him,
I'm like, and he's done it for so long, like
one hundred years, that he can do it with his
eyes closed. But he's so fair and so on it
and just knows the words, knows how to talk anyone around. Like, yes,
(09:23):
I call him a master manipulator, but he's actually not,
you know. But just seeing him and also when I
used to sometimes go into the studio produced to Hey,
Mish and Andy and just seeing him run the whole show,
I was like, you are the captain of this ship,
and it was like that anyway, Yes, they are good
at if you're good at sport, if you're good at.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Anything, it's like seeing someone in their element.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
Totally, or even like a guy kicking a football really well, oh.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
My god when they catch the ball. I'd love to
be able to catch a ball with that assurance.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
So yeah, just confidence.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
Confidence, that's what it means.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Totally. This isn't another one, but it's about women. What
is such a turn on is women with fantastic tits,
and it's usually younger girls. And then they don't wear
a bra. I'm just like, that's so hot because your
boobs are just staying put. There's a lot inviron, like
(10:28):
a lot of baristas and stuff. They're young and they
don't wear bras, And although it's confronting, I'm like, God,
that's hot.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
I see. I find that the no bra thing. I
don't know what it is about that that I don't know.
I think it's even like the idea of people thinking
that being able to see someone's nipple through a top,
like as in like when you nipples can't stay cold,
or you're really fucking turned on watching your husband cut hand. Right, Yes,
(10:55):
the idea of seeing an erect nipple is hot, right,
I get the concept, but I would be so uncomfortable
with that seeing myself. No, in myself, I would never
in one a million years leave the house without a
brown I wear until I go to bed here because
I'm not comfortable.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Mine are so sad. There's like when I bend over
to like pick something up off the shower and I
get a glance of them sagging down, I'm like shocked,
I'm shook us every time I see the state of
my boobs, Well, then you're so lucky you don't have
big boobs as well, like that they're and you know,
(11:36):
to fill out bras and stuff like, I don't feel
like the top of my cups are like empty because
the boob just all sinks to the bottom of the bra.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
It's the volume at the top. The volume at the
top at the.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
Time has gone. And I'm like, as I'm going to
get older, these are literally going to be hanging right
over my stomach, like there's no way they're not going
to be.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
And what I would say to that, though, is that
sometimes like I don't I don't you know, I believe you,
I believe you, but sometimes you know, when we get
fixated on something, Yeah, like otherwise, like Sam would probably
see you naked and not even notice that.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
He'd just be like, oh, she looks hot. I would
I think he would. Now they're very different after the babies,
Like I've never had rait cans, but these are like
they fucked them. And I just will never get a
boob job because I don't want to have an unnecessary operation.
But I do think it would make a huge difference
(12:37):
to my confidence.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Yeah, yeah, I get that, Like.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
I don't want I'm not comfortable. I wouldn't be comfortable
standing in front of Sam, like I would quickly get
changed in front of him, but I wouldn't have a
conversation with him with my top off.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
And isn't that funny? It all comes back to the
confidence thing that if you sort of, you know, put
your shoulders back and you're that he would find is
that attracted to do that? So hot? Because oh my god,
she's so secure? And as I say all the time,
who's to say things that our society deems a nunattractive,
(13:13):
like maybe a body that has a bit more softness
to it as opposed to feeling abs or whatever is
the bad thing. Yeah, that's just what we've been conditioned.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
Oh to believe, absolutely totally. But a nice set of
cans is such a to god.
Speaker 2 (13:29):
You know, you would have potential. I heard I think
Keith Flennigan said this once and it was so true.
You would have potential to be a lesbian from the
waist up.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
One thousand percent.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
I don't want to respect to anybody anywhere near me,
But you play with someone's boobs, for ages with somebody's boobs.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
My beautiful friend Claire, I always was like, oh my god,
if I like, I'm just like, you're the sexiest thing
I've ever seen. And I would just touch her and
grope her and me She's so got this beautiful, curvy
womanly bodies, yes, stunning face, and I would just always
be like, if I was gay, you would have to
(14:09):
watch out.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
Like I've got right type.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
But I'm not attracted to women, yeah, do you know
what I mean? Like I see them attractive, but sometimes
I'm like, God, I wish I was into that.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
Yeah, I know, God, how's it? How's the options?
Speaker 1 (14:24):
If you were I think if you were by it
would be easier than being because there's a minority are
is if people are a minority of people are gay
as opposed to straight, So just finding your people would
be harder for sure.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Yeah that's true, but maybe Bye would not think that's
what I feels like. I would open up both worlds.
I'd just be guzzling. You'd just love to know what's better,
because you would assume that technically gay, see is probably
better because you have the equipment. Yeah, you know how
(15:04):
things feel, even though people like different things. You know
your way around a woman's body better than a man's
body man does. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
One of my great mates was married and is gay,
So her and her partner broke her and her husband
broke up, and now she's with women. Yeah, and she
is like, the sex is a trillion times better, like
not even comparable.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
Yeah. You know why as well, because I think sex
is thought of as penis in vagina. Yes, yes, but
there are different kinds of sex, as we all know. Yeah,
so you know, yeah, I feel like you would get
way more creative. Yeah, because it's not just laying there
getting having a dick. It's like, well, what are we
(15:51):
going to do to get each other off here? So
you have to consciously think about.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
It a bit more.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
Yeah, yeah, probably anyway, interesting, I still love the Dick.
We know.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
All right, We're going to get out of here. Thank
you so much for listening. We love that you join us.
Share this podcast with your Dick loving friends, or your
friends that love John whoever. Everyone welcome.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
We'll chat to you soon.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
Bye for now, Love you,
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