It’s our last episode of Summer School, and today we welcome back clinical psychologist (and “clinical cousin” of Hugh and Josh), James van Cuylenburg.
In this episode, James tells us EVERYTHING we need to know about our relationships… well almost everything…there’s a lot to cover.
From attachment styles, to breaking trust, to learning how to own your feelings and navigating coupledom through life’s changing seasons.
Getting into the nitty gritty, Hugh asks James about intimacy and what happens when you’re not…. having any. And how to start a conversation with your kids about pornography.
Relationships make life worth living and whether they’re with an intimate partner, a friend, or yourself, they should be cherished and treated with care.
James, we thank you for your guidance.
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If you would like to watch this full episode on YouTube, click here - https://bit.ly/3WwDguJ
🎧Things to listen to
- James’ new podcast (that he makes with ANOTHER van Cuylenburg) You’re a Good Kid - https://apple.co/3E54MZR
- James van Cuylenburg - Love Your Wonky Bricks - https://apple.co/3UYXmgt
- Esther Perel - Let’s Be Better Lovers - https://apple.co/3Af9OB6
- Chanel Contos - Consensual Healing - https://bit.ly/3RNKpEm
📖 Things to read
- Attached by Dr Amir Levine and Rachel S.F Heller M.A - https://amzn.to/3EeVDhe
💻Things to check out
- Teach Us Consent Website - https://bit.ly/3QVhlK0
- Three Sided Pillar (triangle of happiness) - https://bit.ly/42kntmc
🚨If you, or someone you know, has experienced or is at risk of domestic violence or coercive control, call the 24 hour national counselling service 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732). In an emergency, or if you’re feeling unsafe, call 000.
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