May 15, 2024 • 51 mins
Marley has been living among NPCs in Palm Beach this week, brushing shoulders with Donald Trump (aka Donald Crump) and is reporting for duty sick as a dog - as is their new producer Grace… but the show must go on! This week Tilly and Marley unpack trainwreck stories you sent in - From cheating exes, Snapchat Premium exposing friends, budgeting tips, and asking your partner to post you on social media… and of course their advice is equal parts wise and outrageous!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Life is an endless series of train wrecks with only
brief commercial like breaks of happiness.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Marley, you sound hungover, Yeah, I feel it.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
I feel I feel like I'm absolutely going through the walls.
Literally going on a plane after being sick. Oh, well,
as you are still sick is not something I recommend.
That was the worst pain that I've ever been through. No,
not the worst pain I've ever been through, but that
was really bad. The pressure in my head. I thought
(00:33):
I was going to like explode. God, yeah, no, it
was bad, and I was like, I don't know if
I can do this pod my eyes were watering all the.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Pressure, was just crying so much through.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Yeah, I couldn't because I couldn't sneeze or anything either.
I've got all this mucus. I still got some mucus. Guys,
don't judge me. So I've got a cup with me.
I've got I've got a cup with me till I've
got a cup that if I need to, I will
spit into. Do not judge me, do you wish? But
(01:05):
I will mute and go off. And I've got I'm
gonna just disregard your comments right now. Tell I've got
a full thing of paper towel.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Oh Molly, I'm right there with you. I've got a
box of tissues, okay. And then also I'm in the
stage where I have just like a bag next to
me that I'm just slowly filling up with all my tissues.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
It's not good, good girl. I love I love that
you're along this ride with me. Guys, if you're listening
right now to this lovely new voice within our podcast,
this is Grace. Everyone who is picking up the pieces
because producer Jay he left us hanging. He couldn't handle
the train wreck, could he.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Yeah, nice to meet you everyone, Good to be here.
Jay has decided to what should we say? He lows
load and hit there. He decided to exactly. He decided
to move to Cuba under a new name. He's formed
a new identity. So I'm stepping in and I'm super
happy about it.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
So and wait, no, you didn't tell everyone that Grace
is really good with music. So everyone, Grace, plug your music.
Don't know how many listeners will get you, but give
it a crack anyway.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Yeah, come on, give it a crack.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
Grace, you never know, give it a crack, all right?
Two words for you.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
I like that music and Sleigh, I like that. I
suppose I don't know to plug your Spotify. Oh my Spotify,
we're called clues. Thanks Tilly shout out. Sometimes I'm like, oh, yeah,
I'm in a band and people are like, wow, You're
in a band, and I'm like, isn't everyone like everyone
is legit?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Way, No, we're not.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
No, Grace yours is a real band.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
We're not as cool as you.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Yeah, Like, stop, you're actually guys, you're the real rock stars.
Speaker 5 (02:42):
Hey, well I.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Don't feel like a rock star at the moment. I
tell you that much. But I was not going to
miss this week's episode. We weren't going to miss this
Grace for nothing.
Speaker 5 (02:50):
That's right, the show must go on.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Yeah, I thought this wasn't happening.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
I can't no, no, for a second there when I
was messaging you tell because I was I was up
there mess guys. Literally, Okay, let's let's just break this
down again and give some real context to this. I
just landed, like as of an hour ago from Palm Beach, Florida,
and I was texting Telly on the plane and literally
I didn't think I was going to make it, But wow,
what a place, Palm Beach is till let me tell
(03:14):
you about this place. Have you heard about this place?
Speaker 2 (03:16):
No? But is my mom's telling me that I'm going
there for your wedding? She reckons. It's like a few
hours up the road.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Well not necessarily, it's kind of on the other side
of the country. So I don't think you're going on
to Palm Beach. But I was actually talking about it.
I don't know. I don't know, but let me tell
you about this place right till you're gonna you've got
to google this place.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
This is like, wait, is this from GTS.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
This is literally GTA. I was telling my friend that
I was with that.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
This is I know GTS know GTA.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
This is the metaverse. This was these people weren't real.
Let me tell you. Let me tell you something about past.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
What's the thing called the people that walk around.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
The face and PCs they were in PC.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Tom always calls me that.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
These people weren't guys. So the average car that was
driving around this place, and you guys are going to
think I'm lying was either a bent or a Rolls Royce.
The average like the average home here on Palm Beach Island,
wherever we were staying is twenty million? What is that
not insane? Us twenty million usage? This is like the
(04:14):
richest of the rich, right, like live here like a
lot of older people retire here and stuff what not?
Speaker 5 (04:21):
Not Like what were you doing there?
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Great question, great questions? All right, you guys wanted to
strap in for this. All right. So my friend back home, well,
my brother's friend.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Wait, we're not referring to the person you said in
text messages.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
Not, No, that's my that's my friend. This is my
brother's other friend. There's two, there's two friends within this story.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Okay, so can you give them letters? Like brother's friend
is B, Marley's friend is M.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
All right, so B, so that would be So B
friend bought some crypto, right and it was it was
Donald Trump's crypto and NFTs. Okay, so he bought the
and with those you had the chance to go to
a gala and have dinner with Donald Trump essentially, right,
So he won this and he says, see me president.
(05:10):
He is not at the moment, No, but he was,
but he will be, uh well yeah he probably, yeah,
he has a high chance. Yeah. And so my boy
be said to me, do you want to go to this,
and I don't really have much interest with Trump or
anything like that. So I'm like, no, I don't think
I'll like, I'll go, but I do know another friend
that would love to go, and.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Then has to tell me, you had dinner with Donald Trump.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
I didn't have dinner with Donald Trump, but my other
friend that I went to Palm Beach with had dinner
with Donald Trump. Because he was like, yeah, absolutely, I'll go.
So he was ending up ending up going, and then
I'm like, you know, what, should I just come and
have a boy's trip with you for two days and
have some rest? And turned out he went to go
see Donald Trump. He rolled in for ten minutes, said
what's up? My friend had a great time, and I
(05:54):
was just sick the whole time. So it was a
great trip to Palm Beach.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
So while you were sick, your friends were lunch with
Donald Trump. What did he do with Donald Did he
say is orange?
Speaker 1 (06:04):
No, he didn't say he was orange? And he got
to take videos. I was so surprised they were allowed
to take their phones in there, because the Secret Service
and everything was in there.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Him or something.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
No, he was not doing that, Eliza. He was there
was a huge like dinner, gala banquet with all these
other people that invested within Donald Trump, Donald Crump, Donald
Trump's I like Donald.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
Trump too, Let's rebrand, right, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
But great place, guys. You need to google this place.
It's absolutely not even real life. And it was Trump's
estate and he looked up the Wi fi and it
was Trump's WiFi. How crazy is that?
Speaker 5 (06:40):
Well, so this all happened this week?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Well, I know, yeah, this happened literally yesterday, Grace. Yeah,
America's just like these things, and we've touched on it
before till where we were talking about celebrities and things
like this is like, it's not like it's normal. These
are still crazy, like outlandish experiences. But you're like, I
don't know, You're just more likely to run into random,
crazy things like that here in America. Dude.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
Do you know how excited I am to go at
the end of the year. Yeah, like, I'm gonna fuck
it up. Mom's like she's like nervy. She's I'm like,
she's saying, we need to get a bus from wherever
Marley's wedding is to Vegas. I said, no, we're going to.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Know.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
She's like chilly with you.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
We're going to get murdered in the middle of the desert,
like she's a bit concerned. Yeah, and then we're gonna
go party strippers, a club, cocaine, another club, DJs and you.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
Know in Vegas they have the they have the DJs
and the parties where it's super gross. But you've got
to do it like you're in a pool. You're in
a pool like within this like you know, like hotel
kind of thing, and everyone's in the pool, like you
know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
The other day we were telling Tom, like We're sitting
around the dinner table and I was like, I'm going
to Vegas.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
He's like, you are not going to Vegas.
Speaker 4 (08:01):
I'm going to Vegas, baby, Vegas.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
No, he's probably scared.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Have you have you puod in front of Tom yet? No?
Can we can? We? Can we do that as a
group as a unit train wreckers? Can we all push
I don't know, not on FaceTime. No. I just want
us all collectively as a group to push you and
Tom to just reach that milestone within your relationship.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
You want to know what I do?
Speaker 4 (08:25):
This morning, Tom was leaving to work and I really
had to go, so I waited till Tom was gone
out of the house and then sometimes I get nervous
that it will come back in me.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
This is literally like sixteen year old stuffed.
Speaker 4 (08:40):
His location and he was like five minutes, I'm good
to go.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
And that's when you were safe to let that thing go.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Let that thing Fly's going to great lengths to avoid
ever that situation happened.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
No, I actually will never in front.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Of him have a boyfriend of what three years now?
Speaker 2 (08:58):
Yep?
Speaker 5 (08:59):
Oh my, just keeping the romance alive. I get it,
exactly get it.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
I think like especially, you know, there's a thing of
like girls have to keep up the illusion that girls
don't fight or poo.
Speaker 5 (09:10):
Yeah, I can't break that. We can't shout at our
job raise.
Speaker 4 (09:13):
You know what we were discussing the other day, me
and my friend. Who the fuck said girls should have
to work again? Can we just go back to the
times when men just did everything and I can just
sit at home and have a boogie life with cocktails
brought to me by the pool.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
You could if you want. I don't see why not.
Actually no, life's way too expensive.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Now and life's way too fine.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Oh so you do want to work?
Speaker 4 (09:36):
Yeah, yeah, I actually do, But like just I'm just
surprised that with when they had all these really nice
lives that one day that well, let.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Me tell you, let me tell you in Palm Beach,
they're definitely not working over there. They are just holiday
driving rolls Royce's guys. I'm telling you. It was literally
it wasn't real. There was even a stray cat that
I was like out just chilling watching Lynn's game last night.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
I have a dime collar.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
No, yeah, probably, but it was like the most beautiful,
elegant cat I've ever seen as like a stray cat.
It was like a white I was thinking about it.
I was hoping it was going to jump over into
our little airbnb situation.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Oh my god, I would have catnapped it.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
That is so what's been happening with you? Tell what's
what's the latest on your end?
Speaker 2 (10:19):
I'm gonna call my dad.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
Okay, it didn't expect to Marley.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
How is my message this morning?
Speaker 1 (10:24):
Can I can I talk about me you and your dad?
That sounds really weird, but let me tell you this,
it's the sweetest thing. And I really take this feedback critically.
It's really your dad sends us and he takes his
time with it. He listens to our podcasts, you know, religiously,
and he gives us feedback on them, and I take
him to heart.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Crazy.
Speaker 4 (10:42):
He has like this little group chat and he sends
us just notes on this week's podcast.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
Should we read one of them?
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Yeah? Go on read read the last one?
Speaker 4 (10:51):
Okay, Dad and Marley Morning. Just listen to podcast three
Entertainment plus three Thoughts one beginning of each episode, explain
episode is about, like, if I don't know you, I
may have switched off because of not knowing what I
was listening for two with Tilly's love of ghosts, get
a medium on three? Do a travel show together. It
(11:12):
would be hilarious.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Who's fighting?
Speaker 1 (11:14):
A travel A travel show would be good.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
We would be idea with what money wrong?
Speaker 1 (11:20):
You're true? I was going to say that maybe.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
Because he doesn't have the money.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
Okay, Well, in wanting to give listeners a roadmap, what
can they expect from this episode?
Speaker 2 (11:30):
Guys, Yeah, listening to.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Ross, Yeah, I'll break it down. I'll break it down.
We started with it last week. Guys. We are really
taking this seriously. Okay. We want to hear what train
reck stories you guys have for us, and we really
do want to give you advice on those train Rex stories.
So today, especially because I'm sick, I'm run down, Grace
is rundown, we are going to hit you with some
absolute train stories train Rex story and we're going to
(11:55):
offer our advice. We're going to start with actually, because
last week, Tilly, we're going to go through the story
that we had last week because we have some more
added context of that.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
Right, yes, okay, let's get right into it, all.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Right, give us a debrief of last week's story.
Speaker 4 (12:13):
So, last week's story, we had the girl whose family
was talking shite. Sorry, her partner's family was talking shit
about her family, and we said, you need a break
up with them, but we didn't really know context. So
based on the episode, she's given us a bit more context.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
We want to read it out. Okay ready. Also, we
love that you've come back and say.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
Yes, thank you. Please we advise this because you know,
we're just we're just professionals within this space our advice.
Speaker 4 (12:45):
Yes, we love a follow up and an update and
on our second episode of doing this, but we love it. Okay,
So continuing from last episode, she's very well literate. You
should see how well.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
This is written.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Yeah, I can tell I can see this.
Speaker 4 (13:00):
Yeah, Anonymous, we are married, living together and very happily
and very happy, but unfortunately her family just does not
like me. Would always hang out together for the past
many years of our relationship, hardly being a part her
family and I were so fine up until a couple
of days before the wedding.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Oh moral of the story.
Speaker 4 (13:21):
My partner's family left early on our wedding night and
was very miserable the entire night. They left, hardly speaking
to everyone. But they said it's because we created a
negative space.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
It's a long story.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
Wait, they like gas lit them and put it back
on them. Hold on. This is huge context though, because
we didn't know last week that they were married, right, Yeah, they're.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Married, So they can't just break up.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
Yeah, no, they can't just break up. And I think
I can't remember the exact advice that we gave, even
though it was really really crucial.
Speaker 4 (13:54):
We said break up, if your family just break up
getting along, We said break up, but this is marriage.
Speaker 3 (13:59):
You can go back and listen to the full story
in last week's episode. But Marley, I remember you saying
that would be such a deal breaker for you, Like
if your partner's family didn't get along with you. That
would be like I can't go forward. That would be
so this is really hard. This is really hard because
they are wed, you know, oh my god, I.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
Am they're locked and loaded.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
Yeah, and that whole we like, like, I feel like
that's that's a little selfish of the parents there, you know,
the whole get up and leave, make a.
Speaker 5 (14:25):
Scene like the wedding day.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Yeah, that's that's what's tough for me. Again, it's really
hard if you do anonymous Anonymous individual, thank you for
being brave enough for sending these in first. If you
want to continue adding context to this story, we would
love to continue giving you our advice as we unpack this.
But that's tough. That's that's tough for me. That part
alone would be like, I don't know, you know what
I mean till how would you? I don't know how
(14:50):
you'd feel with that?
Speaker 4 (14:51):
Okay, honestly, like, first up, if you're going to ruin
someone's wedding, you can be shot, Oh okay with a
paintball gun, so that you're.
Speaker 5 (15:04):
Before you finish that sentence, till.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
Jesus shoot on site, no questions as Yeah, paintball gun.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
Yeah, that's fair. That's a fair, that's that's a fair.
Punishment is a paintball gun?
Speaker 4 (15:16):
Yeah, it's just rude, Like, do not ruin somebody's wedding,
Do you know what? I've been in multiple situations where
I just smile and wave, and in my head, I'm
thinking I.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
Struggle with that. I struggle with smiling and wave. Oh
you're saying if you were the parents, you just do
it for you.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
Yes, in your head you like to.
Speaker 4 (15:34):
Sea, yeah, but like in person, you're just like.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Yeah, I mean you have to do at that point,
smile and wave. Yeah, you just copy it, you really do.
I think that's a really selfish move. Again, we don't.
We don't know all the context though, right, No, we
really don't.
Speaker 3 (15:49):
So that's true because she said, like they that the
parents reasoning for being sour at the wedding or leaving
early or whatever, which is obviously so awful, was because
they thought that they had created a negative space.
Speaker 5 (16:03):
I'm like, what does that mean?
Speaker 1 (16:04):
We just about to ask that, grace, but.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
Who created that? And like was that real? Or did
the parents just not like this person? And so they
were like, you know, oh, you're making a negative space
as an exit.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
What is a negative space. I've never heard of a
negative space before.
Speaker 5 (16:18):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (16:19):
Guys, can you explain because is she insinuating that the family.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
Was creative space?
Speaker 5 (16:26):
So they tried to leave family?
Speaker 1 (16:29):
The family? Yes, we're accusing that the couples, right.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
Yeah, was making a negative space at their wedding, I think,
and that's why they left.
Speaker 4 (16:37):
I so doubt that who's creating a negative space?
Speaker 1 (16:42):
Mean just inviting people like past, people that you hate,
Like like what is what? How can you? How can
you create a negative space at a wedding? Was the
food ship? You know? Was there no alcohol like provided for?
Did you have to pay for your alcohol? Maybe?
Speaker 5 (16:59):
Even then it's probably to be.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
Fair, i'd probably leave. I'd probably leave if I had
to go to a wedding and then pay for my
own alcohol. You know, I'd probably be like, yeah, this
is pretty this is a negative space for me. I
go to get out of here.
Speaker 4 (17:08):
We don't really I don't really know what to give
advice wise, because I would just cut the family off.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
Yeah, I would still to this day. You obviously really
love this person, you got married to them, right, So
I would try and I would try and avoid that
negative space. And that negative energy and aura and all
of that as much as you can, because you don't
need that in your life. Again, it's really hard with
your partner if they're really close with their family, and
it's a very sticky situation. Deal break it for me.
(17:35):
But I do understand you're now married. So just do
your best to protect your energy, is my advice.
Speaker 2 (17:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (17:43):
And if you have children, or you're in a position
to have them, definitely use them as blackmail. Say you're
not seeing the grandkids, you're not seeing the cousins, you're rude, Sorry,
tough luck. And if you don't have kids, I would
consider having them for that.
Speaker 2 (18:04):
Black mail. Two words for you, blackmail.
Speaker 3 (18:07):
Oh she's good, she's good. This is why, this is
why we get Tilly's advice.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
All right, we're ready to read off the next one away?
Speaker 2 (18:18):
Okay, who's reading? Am I reading again?
Speaker 1 (18:20):
I'll read it off. It's good for my vocals, it's
breaking up the mucus in.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
My che Can you read it?
Speaker 1 (18:24):
It's very long, It is very long. I think why.
I think this is why this was a signed to me.
Speaker 5 (18:28):
Let's do this train Wick story for the week. Let's
go all right, let's.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
Rock and roll. This is this is this is an
essay here, Okay, so pretty much. This is a story
about how I found my ex had cheated on me.
So me and my ex broke up.
Speaker 3 (18:42):
Yeah, yeah, this is sorry.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
So me and my ex broke up two months ago
and our relationship was really good, but we broke it
up over a miscommunication. And a month ago we got
back into contact and we were talking for a while.
The other day he asked me if I wanted to
come over, and I agreed. Oh so I was at
his house and things started to happen. I swear I'm
not a slut, okay, but it's just something about him. Hey,
(19:11):
we get a girlfriend, right, we get it, We get
that completely. And I was midway through and he takes
off his shirt. I looked at his chest and he
had hickeys all over.
Speaker 5 (19:19):
That is rough and he's chest.
Speaker 2 (19:21):
Wait where do you guys give hikeys?
Speaker 4 (19:22):
Because I don't give them on the chest. Yeah I wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
Area would be be an area of a teach. But
good on him, good on him. Each their own, you
know what I mean. I was initially shocked because he
told me he had only slept with me about a
week before. So I asked, what are those? He said,
I don't know what are they? And I was I
was like, be so for real, they are hickeys. Who
are they from? He told me just the other person.
(19:48):
I was like, okay, but you're not in a relationship,
are you? He said no. Then I asked, when did
you guys meet? He said, I met them in week ten?
What does that mean?
Speaker 3 (19:56):
Like, I feel like, oh, I feel like it's oh yeah,
it might be like a semester i'd un or something.
Speaker 5 (20:03):
Yeah, Like you had to.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
Clarify that because I thought it was like week ten
into their initial relationship. You know what I mean? Yeah,
I mean at that point. I hope at week ten
that they were pulling in front of each other. Oh,
all right, let's continue. I was like, okay, I was upset,
but there isn't really anything I can do because we
aren't together anymore. Then I started to cry and he
told me he still loved me and had feelings for me,
and he still loved me, but was not ready for
(20:26):
a relationship. I said, okay, neither am I. But yesterday
he posted on his private story one month in a
nursery with my boom. Oh it was a pick of
him and this girl kissing. So I have two questions
for you. Am I a bad person for sleeping with
a guy in a relationship? And two? Should I tell
the other girl?
Speaker 2 (20:46):
Person?
Speaker 3 (20:47):
So, they'd started off by them saying that them and
their ex broke up two months ago and their relationship
was good, but it broke up because of like miscommunication
or bad communication, right, And then they got back into
con started talking for a while, and then they like
got together again and saw the hickeys and like turned
out they had to you know, had a boo quote unquote, Like.
Speaker 1 (21:11):
The tough part is the end part.
Speaker 2 (21:13):
If I was them, I would go and hook up
with the person that they're dating.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
Now, hold on, hold on what I Firstly, firstly, I
don't think you're a bad person for sleeping with them,
as you didn't know that they were in a relationship.
Can we all agree on that?
Speaker 5 (21:30):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (21:31):
Are we all on the same page? Yes?
Speaker 2 (21:32):
Look at that.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
So firstly, let's take that out of your head. All right,
You're not a bad person for that. This is not
your fault. You didn't know. And two, should you tell
the other girl? This is the part where it's like, this.
Speaker 4 (21:42):
Is the part where it's obvious to me that you
shouldn't just tell the other girl. You should go hook
up with the other girl. You should definitely message her,
and you should just screw over that. I don't know,
maybe even introduce the other girl to your brother somebody
nice that they could organize another date, make her cheat
(22:03):
on him, Like it's just rude.
Speaker 5 (22:05):
To try and give them a taste of their own
medicine kind of thing. Yes, okay, is.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
That really gonna make him feel better at the end
of the day.
Speaker 2 (22:11):
It will?
Speaker 5 (22:12):
It will.
Speaker 4 (22:12):
I can one hundred percent assure you you will be
so much better, your tits will grow, You'll be so happy.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
Like, that's definitely the way to do it.
Speaker 3 (22:21):
This is a very tricky, like ethical question of like
do you tell the person that has been cheated on?
I fully, I've never I straight up, Oh my god,
it stressed me out. I don't know what the right
thing to do. It's because it's like, if you were
getting cheated on, what do you want to know? Yes,
(22:42):
everyone's answer.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
Would yeah, you would. You would want to know you're right,
and if you if you break it down that way,
that's a good way to look at it. Grace, if
you break it down that way, then maybe the answer
is yes, you probably should mention something.
Speaker 4 (22:52):
Then TikTok, talk about the hay girl message. You know,
the hay girl message, like nobody wants the hay girl
like because it's like, oh, yes, of course you want
to blow.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
It's like that.
Speaker 5 (23:02):
We need to talk.
Speaker 1 (23:03):
Yes, I'm say, I'm gonna say it.
Speaker 4 (23:06):
Ye do it if you're not telling the other girl.
I will get me to do you know what, message
me and I'll organize it.
Speaker 2 (23:14):
I will get it done.
Speaker 1 (23:16):
Till he will do that, I'll do it. We can
get that extra I can.
Speaker 4 (23:19):
I'll actually make a three way zoom if you want,
and we can orchestrate it. Oh, you know what, you
should all just come on the pod. We'll sort it
out with all of you. A. You are not a
bad person. You're a good person.
Speaker 5 (23:30):
Live laughing.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
Be snitch, tell snitch on that.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
But you know what, be sneaky about it. Be smart.
Speaker 4 (23:37):
Don't tell your X that you're going to tell them,
but make sure they find out.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
They will find out.
Speaker 3 (23:44):
Absolutely or just throwing in sorry, just before we move on,
throwing in one more option. There is the thing of
saying like you need to tell them by this day,
like by tomorrow or else. I'm going to tell them
because then it gives them an opportunity to like do
the heart because then it's also like you need to
protect your piece. You were put into this situation against
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your will. You didn't know that they had a boo
or whatever. So why should it be on you to
have to have that really awful conversation and send a
hey girl text?
Speaker 5 (24:16):
It should be them having to face up to their
own But.
Speaker 4 (24:19):
Guys, this person was clearly cheated on, So I think
you should really get some calmer back because this person's
cheated twice. He's cheated with you and cheated on you,
So chop his penis off.
Speaker 2 (24:31):
That's all I have to say. Next, let's go.
Speaker 1 (24:34):
Let's move on. I assume I'm reading this one again,
am I.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
Actually, if for people listening, if you do have stories
to send in, you actually can also send a voice
memo and we can just play it as well.
Speaker 4 (24:50):
And Grace, you're really smart, so you could probably put
a filter over their voice, couldn't you If they wanted
it to make it all cryptic, know how to do that?
Speaker 1 (25:01):
That could be fun. Guys. All right, let's go all right, Hey, Tilly,
I don't know if this is what you were looking
quite looking for with these stories to send you, but
I would like your opinion on this anyway. That is
why we are here anonymous individual. Last week I went
to work and it was pissing down with rain. Guys,
if you don't know what pissing down with rain is like,
if there's any American listeners, it just means it is
really really raining, all right.
Speaker 5 (25:22):
Americans do not use that phrase?
Speaker 2 (25:23):
Ye?
Speaker 1 (25:24):
Sorry?
Speaker 5 (25:24):
Do Americans not use that phrase?
Speaker 1 (25:26):
That is like the most Australian thing you could ever say?
If you said that here, do you? Could? You? You
got yeah, like the look that you would get. Someone
would be like what like they would look at you
with DIY.
Speaker 5 (25:39):
Just say it's raining cats and dogs or something.
Speaker 1 (25:41):
This is why Tilly genuinely like her mother. I would
be scared for her as Tilly is making a wish.
All right, you keep yes.
Speaker 4 (25:50):
Do you know the worst thing I did in America
when we were on the train and it was like
the nine to eleven day, Oh my god, yeah, and
I was like so loud. I was like, oh my god,
it's not eleven, and everyone like looks at you like
so bad, Like you didn't even I didn't even mean
to be allowed, and like I wasn't being obnoxious. I
was like, holy shit, look at the date guys, and
everyone stares at you.
Speaker 2 (26:11):
Yeah, I'm sure you have to be so careful what
you say.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
Trauma with everything in life.
Speaker 5 (26:16):
Sorry, Molly, continue with the story.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
All right, let's let's keep this going. Yeah, So last
week I went to work and it was pissing down
with rain. I was twenty minutes early for my shift.
Good on you, twenty minutes early. I like it.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
I'm twenty minutes late.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
For my shift with my coworker, who is also one
of the girls in my friendship group. Okay, so they're friends.
I got to the job with me all right, Okay,
this my way into the story. Here was parked in
a wait so my friends in her friendship group was
parked in a car directly in front of me. I
waited until the rain wasn't as bad to get out
of my car. Logical like that. But when it did,
it started pissing down again. So I put my hoodie
(26:53):
up and sprint it across the road into the building
to try to avoid getting drenched. But umbrella no you
know what, I wouldn't have number either. I'm not going
to judge you there. When I got into the building,
it was probably about five minutes before I could clock
on when I realized that I have forgotten to lock
my car in brackets. EIGHTHD was playing me hard yelp.
(27:13):
I work in childcare and once I got there, I
wasn't actually allowed to leave until the end of my shift,
and I had to close that day, so I wouldn't
have been able to check in for about four hours,
check it for about four.
Speaker 4 (27:24):
If somebody's not letting you lock your car leave, that's
so rude.
Speaker 1 (27:28):
Yeah, is that like a childcare thing?
Speaker 4 (27:29):
I like, it's like a ratio thing. But her, if
she's sprinting across to her car, that's absolut like.
Speaker 1 (27:35):
Yeah, they'd letter, they'd let her leave.
Speaker 4 (27:37):
Yeah, she's saying they won't. You should get your boss fired.
That's so rude.
Speaker 2 (27:40):
Anyway, Yeah, I read that.
Speaker 1 (27:41):
Actually that might be the end of this story. That
our conclusion here, all right? Note that I work in
a high theft zone. Oh yeah, hell you alone help? Yeah?
And I had valuables in my car. This sounds like
Tilly that one time till you remember that one time
you left your technic car.
Speaker 2 (27:55):
Yeah it was town, So yes, lock your car till
your laptop got stolen.
Speaker 5 (28:00):
We'll scucle back to that.
Speaker 1 (28:00):
Let's yeah, we're going to get back to that. God,
this girl and her house keys. Oh my god. Wait,
you don't take any of that into work, which we're
hidden from view but still there. Yeah, hey, let's start
bringing that into work now. My friend who was parked
in front of me that I mentioned earlier, I didn't
have to start a ship for another twenty minutes after
I clocked on, so I sent her a message on
Snapchat asking her if it was all if it was
(28:22):
at all possible to check that my car was locked
for me on her way in, because I was getting
mad anxious about it. I want to mention as well
that one of my other friends had recently bought me
Snapchat Premium as a birthday joke gift. What Snapchat premium?
Speaker 4 (28:35):
It's like you can see where everyone's locations are, and
you can see who their top best friend is.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
You can see everything.
Speaker 1 (28:42):
So it's just the old Snapchat, Yeah, the old stuff.
So they're making you pay to get the old originations.
Speaker 2 (28:48):
This is a scare I'm a partner.
Speaker 1 (28:49):
Now, yeah, you're working with them, but I'm going to
call them out. That is very scamy Snapchat. Now, I'm
not trying to talk bad, but come on, now, what
are we doing?
Speaker 2 (28:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (28:58):
You know what I mean? Like, what are we doing?
It is? I mean, how much is the premium? How
much is the premium cheap?
Speaker 2 (29:03):
It's like six bucks a month or something for what you.
Speaker 5 (29:06):
Could have gotten ten years ago.
Speaker 1 (29:09):
Six bucks a month to go backwards the hell? Anyways, Hey,
that's a great birthday gift. I'm glad you got premium
on there. And because of this, I could see half
I could see her half swipe. Wait wait wait wait
wait wait you can see you know how you can
half swipe and like see some of the message.
Speaker 5 (29:25):
Yeah, so then.
Speaker 4 (29:26):
Pull the message across like the arms and then like so,
I think on premium you can actually see if someone
half swipes.
Speaker 1 (29:34):
Stop, you know what, Snapchat, You're actually doing something big there.
I would pay the six bucks for that premium too.
That's crazy. Exactly, you can unlock a half swipe and
see that. That's cool. Okay, yeah, good on you. She's
a detective, all right, so she knew that she saw
a message, but twenty minutes later, when she walked in
the door, she had still left me un delivered and
pretended with the worst acting ever that she didn't even
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look at her phone until she went to clock in.
She never said anything to me about my message, and
I purposely changed the subject to avoid to avoid conflict,
as I was extremely anxious that my car would be unlocked,
and I was overly frustrated and didn't know how to
approach this situation.
Speaker 5 (30:12):
Wow, I love the amount of detail.
Speaker 2 (30:16):
Really well, I didn't see it.
Speaker 3 (30:18):
I'm there, it's worrying with rain, I'm kind of drenched
from my hoodie.
Speaker 5 (30:25):
Anyway, continue, I'm loving this.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
I'm loving this all right. So she also left work
about an hour before I did and didn't offer to
check it then at all, and has not spoken to
me since. Wait, So I guess I wanted to see
your thoughts because I know I've been overreacting by getting
so frustrated at a small thing. And I understand that
it was raining at the start of her shift, so
she may not have wanted to check it then, but
(30:47):
my car was literally on her way in and probably
about three steps away from the door, So I was
so mad that she wouldn't go through this tiny effort
to ease my anxiety for me when she is one
of my closest friends. Wait, we didn't know that? Do
we know that she was one of her first friend Oh? Okay,
all right, and didn't even bother to do it on
her way out either. I don't know what I should
do because if I tell her I saw her half swiping, yay,
(31:10):
that's when you flex on him, like, yeah, I got
that's what I do. Yeah, I got premium, you know, Yeah,
ok I flex that for sure. If I had premium,
I'm fine to.
Speaker 4 (31:19):
Send her a screenshot of the premium.
Speaker 1 (31:21):
Yes, and her location? Yeah, okay, tell her I saw
her half swiping. She would deny it and would just
be a big, a big fight for no good reason.
But it's been making me more annoyed the more I
think about it. Am I in the wrong for asking
her to check it while it was raining? Though? I
(31:42):
spent a whole shift pretending like I was fine, but
wanted to break down crying because of this. Okay, all done? Okay,
that was that was huge. Firstly, I really appreciate the
detail within that story that really paints a picture for
us here, all right, till start us off.
Speaker 4 (31:57):
Okay, First up, Next time she's in on a day
that it's not raining, where theft is more likely, go
to find her keys and get her phone. Put her
phone in her car on the front seat where it's
visible to be stolen, and unlock her door and.
Speaker 2 (32:14):
Just leave it like that's sort stolen and have her
phone stolen.
Speaker 5 (32:19):
Done?
Speaker 2 (32:20):
Oh done?
Speaker 5 (32:21):
Oh wow?
Speaker 1 (32:22):
Well look, you know you know where this gets really sticky. Guys.
It's a close friend, right, I'd be I'd be pissed
off at my close friend. Hey, you've got premium, you
know what I mean. We can see a half swipe,
like Snapchat isn't making us pay six bucks a month,
and then they're just gonna glitch their system and make
it seem like there was a half swipe when there wasn't.
There was a half swipe here. Okay, So she read
(32:43):
the message and clearly didn't want to go check the
car as it were my thing. I'm going to try
and play Devil's advocate here. It was raining, pissing down,
to be exact, So maybe you did a little half
swipe and then you were like, oh, my phone's getting
super wet, like let me just put it in my
pocket and continue walking.
Speaker 2 (33:01):
You know what I mean, getn't put it in my pocket?
Speaker 1 (33:04):
Like, because as soon as you guys, hold on, hold on,
I'm diving in deep it. As soon as you see
the start of a message, say, hey, can you do
me a favor? Hey? I was just wondering, Hey, you
know what I mean. You're like, I.
Speaker 2 (33:14):
Wonder if she just saw that bit, Like, I wonder.
Speaker 1 (33:17):
If that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (33:19):
And she was like, oh what am I doing?
Speaker 1 (33:21):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (33:21):
Okay, but then why did she do the fake acting
quote unquote lie true and say that she hadn't seen
it at all?
Speaker 4 (33:30):
Wait did you ask if she'd seen it?
Speaker 1 (33:32):
Yeah? Well well she said she fake acted like she didn't. Yeah,
she hadn't seen it at all.
Speaker 5 (33:36):
But because she's got talking about something.
Speaker 1 (33:38):
Snapchat premium, you know, flex she was able to see
the host.
Speaker 4 (33:41):
Well, I'm just straight up, I would just say to her, honestly,
this is my biggest thing. Somebody told me the other
day that they was so anxious about something but they
didn't want to ask someone about it, or they didn't
want to tell someone they had feelings for them. And
I don't know why you people let things each you alive,
like I do not do it to myself. You are
(34:02):
gonna make yourself sick in the stomach by letting things
sit there. I've like, I've had a friend who wanted
to say something to someone for six months and was
getting drunk all the time about it.
Speaker 2 (34:13):
And why do you let things eat you up?
Speaker 4 (34:16):
Like genuinely me coming from a good place and being
full serious here, do not let things eat you up.
Life is too effing short. If you want to ask something,
do it. If she's anxious enough to write this whole
message out to us to ask for our advice on
a podcast, they do not do that to yourself. Straight
up message her, say, hey, just letting you know. I
(34:37):
got Snapchat Premium for my birthday. I know that you
saw the message, and you know we live in a
high theft zone. Why did you not just check the
door or why could you not tell me that you'd
see it?
Speaker 1 (34:48):
Like just be upfront, yeah, well put yeah, because I
just want to I just want to know the answer, Like,
just give me an answer, and you know what, that
might ease everything, and it might be a reasonable explanation.
It might be look yeah, like it was raining. I
did half read it and then I just ran in
and then it was super awkward. I didn't want to
act like I didn't, you know what I mean, Like.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
Your good position, it doesn't even put you in a
bad position. Just ask just be like sorry, just letting
you know I actually do have Snapchat premium.
Speaker 2 (35:16):
I saw your half swipe.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
It was low, such a persive aggressive, like you can
tell Tilly's done this before, you know, just letting you know,
low capital lol to.
Speaker 3 (35:29):
I just love that answer. Honesty is the best policy.
I actually genuinely think that's really great advice.
Speaker 1 (35:34):
I think it's great advice as well. And I would,
honestly I think this is there's a deeper route to this.
I would. I would let my boss know, Hey, I'm
running outside really quick and you're not going to stop
me because I've got YouTube premium, I mean YouTube premium,
Snapchat premium, and there's nothing that you can do about it,
you know what I mean. Like I'm I'm flexing on
them to do with the boss. You should be, like
you said before, you should be allowed to run outside.
(35:56):
Why should you not be able to go check on
your car?
Speaker 4 (35:59):
I climb out of the window, work all the time
and go check my car. The fact that your boss
in a high theft zone would not let you quickly
check that your car door is locked.
Speaker 1 (36:08):
Yes, that's what I'm saying. So that's the I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (36:10):
Go to HR. That is the real problem. Go to H.
Speaker 1 (36:13):
Thank you. I'm glad you're on board. When you've got
Snapchat premium, you are popping you.
Speaker 2 (36:17):
We're on top of the damn world.
Speaker 1 (36:19):
All right, Well, keep us updated with this anonymous Snapchat
premium individual because we please want to hear about it.
Like you resolving this with your friend?
Speaker 4 (36:28):
Yeah, so her first thing? End of like conclusively go
to HR about your boss not letting you lock your
car a B. Never rock up to work twenty minutes early,
you're not getting paid, stay home sis, see message your friend.
That's all like, all right, let's go next one, go
(36:52):
for it. Okay, Hey, chicky, are you able to ask
for help in relations to how to manage money. I'm
a solo mother and struggling every paycheck to paycheck. I
work full time. Just times are tough, and I'm sure
there are other single moms out there struggling too that
will have advice.
Speaker 2 (37:12):
I'm due with my.
Speaker 4 (37:13):
Second in October, and I'm so scared I won't be
able to afford stuff.
Speaker 3 (37:18):
All right, right at the top of this one, I'm
just gonna say, any advice given on this podcast is
not individualized financial advice. Please consult a legit professional before
you put into action anything that is about to come
out of this girl's mouth.
Speaker 5 (37:31):
All right, Tillie, you how we can't get sued.
Speaker 1 (37:33):
Now, we can't get canceled, Thank you, Grace.
Speaker 4 (37:35):
First, go to the strip club. Show them your tits.
Here we go, five hundred dollars straight up, boy, yep,
just for a flash.
Speaker 2 (37:46):
So just show them your boobs.
Speaker 5 (37:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (37:49):
Well, she's going to be a mum.
Speaker 4 (37:51):
I think there's like a fetish for pregnant people, and yeah,
there would be.
Speaker 2 (37:55):
Yeah, and they want.
Speaker 5 (37:56):
To for everything, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 4 (37:59):
Oh so someone will want to drink her milk. She's
going to make banks. She's a single mom, become a stripper.
Speaker 1 (38:11):
Okay, now, she's a single mom becomes a stripper. I
don't know if that's that. I don't know if that's
the perfect path that she could be taking.
Speaker 4 (38:21):
Okay, she should do only fans instead, because they love pregnancy.
Speaker 2 (38:27):
I'm sure of it.
Speaker 4 (38:28):
I'm sure Tom always says pregnant girls are hot.
Speaker 1 (38:34):
Nah.
Speaker 4 (38:35):
They I feel like everyone nah nah you actually do
your hips, get big, your tits get big, you get
a fat ass.
Speaker 1 (38:43):
All right, all right, First, firstly, let me start with
I want to commend you for taking on this. Yeah,
this this this obviously this life. I was going to say,
this challenge, but it's a beautiful blessing that you are
going to endure of being a strong, independent single mother.
Speaker 2 (39:00):
And also, let's shure a happy Mother's Day. It will
be a week.
Speaker 1 (39:03):
Past, but and happy Mother's Day to you. I'm sorry
that you're in a tough position and struggling, and man,
it's it's really it is. It's hard for everyone to
try and save money. I feel like in our day
and age, like with inflation, with how expensive everything is,
it's really really tough. But there's definitely ways that you
can maximize. I guess we don't have any context as to, yeah,
(39:26):
what kind of work you do, but you're working full time, right,
But working full time on one wage is always going
to be really, really tough. I guess it. Yeah, as
generic as I can be, it comes down to just
trying to budget in terms of what can you sacrifice
without like month to month.
Speaker 2 (39:41):
Yes, I think a few things.
Speaker 4 (39:44):
Firstly, like going to budget places for example, like myself
and my boyfriend just moved out. We save one hundred
and fifty dollars a week by just shopping it audi
yeah and yeah, and being conscious like I always will
buy in just because it ends up being cheaper, Like
you sacrifice that higher payment one week, but then you'll
(40:06):
have that product for three weeks instead. Secondly, looking at
food options that aren't is expensive. For example, the other
night we had a butter chicken with rice and none,
and that dinner alone would have cost me sixty dollars
to make. However, if I bought a dollar bag of rice,
that rice would go such a long way. Then add
some frozen veggies, like just really make everything super cheap
(40:30):
and use your dinner the leftovers the next day for lunch.
Also shopping at the reject stare for like cleaning things.
Using Facebook marketplace, you can get free stuff on there
if you need like a new baby cud or something.
Speaker 2 (40:43):
Going to Vinnie's.
Speaker 4 (40:44):
Vinnie's actually isn't as affordable these days, but that is
because of their like demographic of where I live on
the norll the beaches.
Speaker 2 (40:51):
They charge an arm and a leg for everything.
Speaker 1 (40:53):
Yeah, I guess, like just being as thorough as you
can in terms of what you are spending your money on, right,
being specific as you can.
Speaker 4 (41:02):
Yeah, and while your kids young, make sacrifices, because when
they're young, it doesn't matter if they miss out on
going to Lunar Park or going on this holiday because quite.
Speaker 2 (41:11):
Frankly, they won't remember it.
Speaker 4 (41:13):
But like save that for when they're a bit older
and everyone can like remember that. So don't worry about
that stuff. Just focus on what is a necessity.
Speaker 1 (41:23):
Yeah, no, for sure, I agree. And again it's it's
obviously a lot easier said than done. You're in such
a hard position having two children to just yourself is
very very difficult to handle. So again, commend you on
everything that you're doing. You're amazing, You're strong, you are
absolutely going to crush this and good on you. Thank
(41:43):
you so much for sending that. Hang in there, Yeah,
it'll all be good.
Speaker 2 (41:52):
Okay to be anonymous, of course, you're all.
Speaker 4 (41:55):
And on my podcast advice scenario would be how to
ask your partner to post you on social media? To me,
that is a quite important thing now straight up at
the bottom of the screenshot, I've written, give him a
blowye and then ask him so, or you could threaten
(42:15):
it the other way.
Speaker 1 (42:15):
Wait, hold on, yeah, why would you do that before
the ask?
Speaker 4 (42:19):
Yeah, well, like he might love you, like if you
gave him good head and be like, oh, yes, I'll
post a photo of you.
Speaker 1 (42:25):
Right. I don't think that should be the reason that
someone should love.
Speaker 4 (42:28):
No, it shouldn't, but it might help anyway. Maley, You're
a male, so I think you should offer your perspective.
Speaker 1 (42:36):
How to ask their partner. Yes, so with me especially,
I think with a lot of guys, we don't necessarily
like being told what to do. I feel, well, I
feel everyone doesn't, right, but I feel like, especially guys,
you know what I mean, like we want to kind
of come up with what we want to come up
with on our own terms and our own timing and everything, right,
So I would I would just try and hint at
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things like and I would be posting a lot as well.
I feel like this was a really I'm not sure
how old this person is, but I feel like this
was something that you deal with when you're when you
were younger A lot, so I.
Speaker 4 (43:07):
Have Maley, I have friends older still dealing with this.
Speaker 2 (43:10):
Stuff year olds.
Speaker 1 (43:13):
Yeah, well, then, especially at that age, I would definitely
I would open up a conversation with him and say, look,
is there any reason as to why you don't like posting?
Speaker 2 (43:21):
Yes, you know me on your Instagram?
Speaker 4 (43:22):
Like if you're you would reverse like reverse psychology, not
reverse psychology. But instead of saying why don't you post me? Like,
is there any reason why you don't like posting?
Speaker 1 (43:32):
Especially if they're already posting a lot of stuff. Right,
If they're not posting stuff, and that's a different story,
it's like maybe they're just not big on social media,
like it's not a big deal. But if they're posting
a lot and posting different things or posting their mates
or whatnot, I'd be like, is there any reason as
to why? And then I would tackle it from there
because at that point, if they're not posting, like if
you're not posting about your partner on there, like intentionally,
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to me, that's a red flag. There's an issue there,
you know.
Speaker 4 (43:56):
Yeah, dude, my ex boyfriend, Dude, I'm referring to Grace
as well.
Speaker 2 (44:00):
Everyone.
Speaker 4 (44:01):
My ex boyfriend put up a story when he went
to Melbourne and he.
Speaker 2 (44:08):
Yep, it was.
Speaker 4 (44:09):
It was cooked, and basically because he used to post me.
We were still dating at this time, but he was
in Melbourne, which I gave him like a thousand dollars
for don't know why.
Speaker 2 (44:19):
It's nineteen.
Speaker 4 (44:20):
But he put up a story in a bed in
a hotel and put up the song.
Speaker 2 (44:25):
You know that song that's like the.
Speaker 4 (44:26):
City is going to break your heart, The city is
going to love you and leave you alone?
Speaker 3 (44:29):
Nah, do you know that he's gonna break your heart?
Speaker 1 (44:33):
Oh? There we go. Yes, now I know the song.
Now that I've heard such a bad.
Speaker 3 (44:39):
Literally straight into my head, I know exactly the song.
Speaker 4 (44:43):
So she put that up, pretended he was single, blocked
me off the story. Later put a photo of him
like a girl holding his hand like at the end,
and we were still dating. So anyway, what I'm trying
to get at is how active does your boyfriend post?
If he's something like that and then he's not posting you,
then he can fuck off.
Speaker 2 (45:05):
I still picked him up from the airport.
Speaker 5 (45:08):
Were used to wait what would be together?
Speaker 1 (45:13):
Or clearly she picked him up the airport.
Speaker 4 (45:17):
Yeah, we were dating and my friends were so pissed.
Speaker 2 (45:19):
Off at me.
Speaker 4 (45:20):
They're like, why did you pick him up? If there's
a literal story of actually no, it was on the
other girl's story. Imagine me filming my hand being held
filming like this and at the other end being like no,
and I was dating.
Speaker 1 (45:38):
Oh.
Speaker 4 (45:39):
I literally told my friends. I was like, it's his
cousin because I was so yeah, I took the afternoon
off work and went and picked him up from the airport.
Speaker 5 (45:49):
When picked him up, did you say anything?
Speaker 2 (45:52):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (45:52):
Yeah, I said something, but it wouldn't have mattered at
that point.
Speaker 1 (45:56):
I mean, I hope you just left him. But yeah, Again,
I think I think bring the conversation up with your
partner and ask them just directly, why is there a
reason to it? See what he says to that, and
then I would adjust, like on is this really something that? Again,
and I know I'm being harsh, but again, that's what
I'm referring to, Like Tilly's example, is if they're not
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or if they're hiding you or things like that, it's
a red flags. I mean, things are.
Speaker 3 (46:21):
Getting really Yeah, I think it's I think it's the
hiding thing because on the face of it, when you
read this out, I know what you mean Miley.
Speaker 5 (46:28):
I was like, you know, how old is this person?
Speaker 3 (46:30):
It can sound on the surface like a bit of
a yeah, just like a surface leftl level petty thing
to worry about, But I don't think it is, because
I actually think that, like social media is a part
of relationships now, it's part of it's a resume, and
there are just like unspoken rules that come with that.
I feel about, Like, if you have a partner, you
(46:52):
post about them, but most of the time it's not
spoken about. It just happens organically. You do the soft launch,
you do the hard launch. So when someone is clearly
aware of like how social media works and these unspoken
rules that we have now, but then like doesn't abide
by them, I'm fully like there has to be there's
something going on there the reason unless they genuinely don't
(47:13):
use Instagram, like just don't.
Speaker 1 (47:15):
Care that's and don't feel crazy for like, don't be like, oh,
I'm going to be acting like a crazy partner if
I ask you this question. No, Like that is completely normal,
And I think a really mature like way at like
handling that situation.
Speaker 4 (47:28):
This is so circumstantial, Like I feel like I need
more background, Like For example, my boyfriend has eighty followers
and didn't post me, like literally eighty. Like I'm not
just saying, oh he has eighty, Like he has eighty
three followers and didn't post me for a very long
time and it didn't bother me because he never posts
a story, has one photo of him playing footy, like
(47:50):
he's not doing anything dodgy. But on the other hand,
if they're actively posting and you're just not going up there,
it's a bit for and weird, like just yeah, I
don't know. But my suggestion genuinely, let's play toxic. I
think you need to get your tits out, get your
ass out, and you need to start posting first traps
(48:14):
because I should you not.
Speaker 2 (48:16):
He will get you on that gram real quick.
Speaker 1 (48:20):
Real, you know what. This is the first piece of
advice of yours, Tilly that I've agreed with tonight. I think, yeah,
Grace too, we're all on board.
Speaker 4 (48:29):
I promise he will quickly.
Speaker 1 (48:33):
Yeah, I like that.
Speaker 2 (48:35):
Yeah, so just play the game.
Speaker 4 (48:37):
But yeah, honestly, like I think, like for real, for real,
I would just say what Miley said, don't do it
in a way where it's annoying and telling them what
to do.
Speaker 2 (48:48):
Just actually just be like, hey, like, is there.
Speaker 4 (48:51):
Any reason that you don't like posting us on socials?
Like do it that way instead of sounding like his
mum and being like you need to boost me on
social media, where like, don't cry about it.
Speaker 1 (49:02):
Just yeah, don't go into like you need to yeah,
say like is there origin as to why?
Speaker 4 (49:06):
Yeah, one hundred percent. I think that's the way to
go about it. Just just say like, I feel like
that's something that's very important to me, and that actually
is something that I need to feel secure in this relationship.
And if you're not posting me, I'm sorry, but that
is a requirement for me and I will end this relationship.
And I actually think that is fair without sounding like
(49:28):
an idiot, I actually think that's fair to be like,
that's one of my boundaries and you do need to
be posting me, And I think.
Speaker 2 (49:35):
That's breakup worthy.
Speaker 4 (49:36):
If he actively posts on his social media but does
not post you and refuses to post you, I think.
Speaker 3 (49:42):
That if it's important to you, if it's important to you, yeah, yeah,
and then next.
Speaker 1 (49:47):
We're going to stop there. We're going to stop there.
That was great. That was awesome. That was awesome. Advice.
Thank you for that. Well, thank you first for and
foremost guys for sending all of these train recks in. Again,
this is going to be, like I guess, the theme
and the backbone of what we want to do at
the moment moving forward. We just really enjoy diving into
(50:10):
these stories of yours and giving you the best advice
that we can. So thank you again guys for being
so open and transparent. Again, we're going to keep it
as anonymous as possible. So those were great.
Speaker 2 (50:20):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (50:21):
Awesome. Yeah, we're all going to get through this absolute
train wreck of a life together, all right, guys, So
thank you all for listening. Please do if you haven't already,
follow us on train Wreck the Pod on Instagram and
then train Wreck over on TikTok. And that is with
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Speaker 4 (50:51):
If you leave a review, actually message me and we'll chat. Please,
I love you like we'll be friends. I will reply
to your DM.
Speaker 1 (50:59):
We want to grow. We want to grow this family, guys,
and we can all do that together. Yes, all right,
Well that was the trainees, the Trainees of the week.
We love you all. Jason Pott, I need to go
rest because I'm feeling terrible. Love you Love
Life is an endless series of train wrecks with only
brief commercial like breaks of happiness.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Marley, you sound hungover, Yeah, I feel it.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
I feel I feel like I'm absolutely going through the walls.
Literally going on a plane after being sick. Oh, well,
as you are still sick is not something I recommend.
That was the worst pain that I've ever been through. No,
not the worst pain I've ever been through, but that
was really bad. The pressure in my head. I thought
(00:33):
I was going to like explode. God, yeah, no, it
was bad, and I was like, I don't know if
I can do this pod my eyes were watering all the.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Pressure, was just crying so much through.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Yeah, I couldn't because I couldn't sneeze or anything either.
I've got all this mucus. I still got some mucus. Guys,
don't judge me. So I've got a cup with me.
I've got I've got a cup with me till I've
got a cup that if I need to, I will
spit into. Do not judge me, do you wish? But
(01:05):
I will mute and go off. And I've got I'm
gonna just disregard your comments right now. Tell I've got
a full thing of paper towel.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Oh Molly, I'm right there with you. I've got a
box of tissues, okay. And then also I'm in the
stage where I have just like a bag next to
me that I'm just slowly filling up with all my tissues.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
It's not good, good girl. I love I love that
you're along this ride with me. Guys, if you're listening
right now to this lovely new voice within our podcast,
this is Grace. Everyone who is picking up the pieces
because producer Jay he left us hanging. He couldn't handle
the train wreck, could he.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Yeah, nice to meet you everyone, Good to be here.
Jay has decided to what should we say? He lows
load and hit there. He decided to exactly. He decided
to move to Cuba under a new name. He's formed
a new identity. So I'm stepping in and I'm super
happy about it.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
So and wait, no, you didn't tell everyone that Grace
is really good with music. So everyone, Grace, plug your music.
Don't know how many listeners will get you, but give
it a crack anyway.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Yeah, come on, give it a crack.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
Grace, you never know, give it a crack, all right?
Two words for you.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
I like that music and Sleigh, I like that. I
suppose I don't know to plug your Spotify. Oh my Spotify,
we're called clues. Thanks Tilly shout out. Sometimes I'm like, oh, yeah,
I'm in a band and people are like, wow, You're
in a band, and I'm like, isn't everyone like everyone
is legit?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Way, No, we're not.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
No, Grace yours is a real band.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
We're not as cool as you.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Yeah, Like, stop, you're actually guys, you're the real rock stars.
Speaker 5 (02:42):
Hey, well I.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Don't feel like a rock star at the moment. I
tell you that much. But I was not going to
miss this week's episode. We weren't going to miss this
Grace for nothing.
Speaker 5 (02:50):
That's right, the show must go on.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Yeah, I thought this wasn't happening.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
I can't no, no, for a second there when I
was messaging you tell because I was I was up
there mess guys. Literally, Okay, let's let's just break this
down again and give some real context to this. I
just landed, like as of an hour ago from Palm Beach, Florida,
and I was texting Telly on the plane and literally
I didn't think I was going to make it, But wow,
what a place, Palm Beach is till let me tell
(03:14):
you about this place. Have you heard about this place?
Speaker 2 (03:16):
No? But is my mom's telling me that I'm going
there for your wedding? She reckons. It's like a few
hours up the road.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Well not necessarily, it's kind of on the other side
of the country. So I don't think you're going on
to Palm Beach. But I was actually talking about it.
I don't know. I don't know, but let me tell
you about this place right till you're gonna you've got
to google this place.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
This is like, wait, is this from GTS.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
This is literally GTA. I was telling my friend that
I was with that.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
This is I know GTS know GTA.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
This is the metaverse. This was these people weren't real.
Let me tell you. Let me tell you something about past.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
What's the thing called the people that walk around.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
The face and PCs they were in PC.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Tom always calls me that.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
These people weren't guys. So the average car that was
driving around this place, and you guys are going to
think I'm lying was either a bent or a Rolls Royce.
The average like the average home here on Palm Beach Island,
wherever we were staying is twenty million? What is that
not insane? Us twenty million usage? This is like the
(04:14):
richest of the rich, right, like live here like a
lot of older people retire here and stuff what not?
Speaker 5 (04:21):
Not Like what were you doing there?
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Great question, great questions? All right, you guys wanted to
strap in for this. All right. So my friend back home, well,
my brother's friend.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Wait, we're not referring to the person you said in
text messages.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
Not, No, that's my that's my friend. This is my
brother's other friend. There's two, there's two friends within this story.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Okay, so can you give them letters? Like brother's friend
is B, Marley's friend is M.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
All right, so B, so that would be So B
friend bought some crypto, right and it was it was
Donald Trump's crypto and NFTs. Okay, so he bought the
and with those you had the chance to go to
a gala and have dinner with Donald Trump essentially, right,
So he won this and he says, see me president.
(05:10):
He is not at the moment, No, but he was,
but he will be, uh well yeah he probably, yeah,
he has a high chance. Yeah. And so my boy
be said to me, do you want to go to this,
and I don't really have much interest with Trump or
anything like that. So I'm like, no, I don't think
I'll like, I'll go, but I do know another friend
that would love to go, and.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Then has to tell me, you had dinner with Donald Trump.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
I didn't have dinner with Donald Trump, but my other
friend that I went to Palm Beach with had dinner
with Donald Trump. Because he was like, yeah, absolutely, I'll go.
So he was ending up ending up going, and then
I'm like, you know, what, should I just come and
have a boy's trip with you for two days and
have some rest? And turned out he went to go
see Donald Trump. He rolled in for ten minutes, said
what's up? My friend had a great time, and I
(05:54):
was just sick the whole time. So it was a
great trip to Palm Beach.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
So while you were sick, your friends were lunch with
Donald Trump. What did he do with Donald Did he
say is orange?
Speaker 1 (06:04):
No, he didn't say he was orange? And he got
to take videos. I was so surprised they were allowed
to take their phones in there, because the Secret Service
and everything was in there.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Him or something.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
No, he was not doing that, Eliza. He was there
was a huge like dinner, gala banquet with all these
other people that invested within Donald Trump, Donald Crump, Donald
Trump's I like Donald.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
Trump too, Let's rebrand, right, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
But great place, guys. You need to google this place.
It's absolutely not even real life. And it was Trump's
estate and he looked up the Wi fi and it
was Trump's WiFi. How crazy is that?
Speaker 5 (06:40):
Well, so this all happened this week?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Well, I know, yeah, this happened literally yesterday, Grace. Yeah,
America's just like these things, and we've touched on it
before till where we were talking about celebrities and things
like this is like, it's not like it's normal. These
are still crazy, like outlandish experiences. But you're like, I
don't know, You're just more likely to run into random,
crazy things like that here in America. Dude.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
Do you know how excited I am to go at
the end of the year. Yeah, like, I'm gonna fuck
it up. Mom's like she's like nervy. She's I'm like,
she's saying, we need to get a bus from wherever
Marley's wedding is to Vegas. I said, no, we're going to.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Know.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
She's like chilly with you.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
We're going to get murdered in the middle of the desert,
like she's a bit concerned. Yeah, and then we're gonna
go party strippers, a club, cocaine, another club, DJs and you.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
Know in Vegas they have the they have the DJs
and the parties where it's super gross. But you've got
to do it like you're in a pool. You're in
a pool like within this like you know, like hotel
kind of thing, and everyone's in the pool, like you
know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
The other day we were telling Tom, like We're sitting
around the dinner table and I was like, I'm going
to Vegas.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
He's like, you are not going to Vegas.
Speaker 4 (08:01):
I'm going to Vegas, baby, Vegas.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
No, he's probably scared.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Have you have you puod in front of Tom yet? No?
Can we can? We? Can we do that as a
group as a unit train wreckers? Can we all push
I don't know, not on FaceTime. No. I just want
us all collectively as a group to push you and
Tom to just reach that milestone within your relationship.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
You want to know what I do?
Speaker 4 (08:25):
This morning, Tom was leaving to work and I really
had to go, so I waited till Tom was gone
out of the house and then sometimes I get nervous
that it will come back in me.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
This is literally like sixteen year old stuffed.
Speaker 4 (08:40):
His location and he was like five minutes, I'm good
to go.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
And that's when you were safe to let that thing go.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Let that thing Fly's going to great lengths to avoid
ever that situation happened.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
No, I actually will never in front.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Of him have a boyfriend of what three years now?
Speaker 2 (08:58):
Yep?
Speaker 5 (08:59):
Oh my, just keeping the romance alive. I get it,
exactly get it.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
I think like especially, you know, there's a thing of
like girls have to keep up the illusion that girls
don't fight or poo.
Speaker 5 (09:10):
Yeah, I can't break that. We can't shout at our
job raise.
Speaker 4 (09:13):
You know what we were discussing the other day, me
and my friend. Who the fuck said girls should have
to work again? Can we just go back to the
times when men just did everything and I can just
sit at home and have a boogie life with cocktails
brought to me by the pool.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
You could if you want. I don't see why not.
Actually no, life's way too expensive.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Now and life's way too fine.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Oh so you do want to work?
Speaker 4 (09:36):
Yeah, yeah, I actually do, But like just I'm just
surprised that with when they had all these really nice
lives that one day that well, let.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Me tell you, let me tell you in Palm Beach,
they're definitely not working over there. They are just holiday
driving rolls Royce's guys. I'm telling you. It was literally
it wasn't real. There was even a stray cat that
I was like out just chilling watching Lynn's game last night.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
I have a dime collar.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
No, yeah, probably, but it was like the most beautiful,
elegant cat I've ever seen as like a stray cat.
It was like a white I was thinking about it.
I was hoping it was going to jump over into
our little airbnb situation.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Oh my god, I would have catnapped it.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
That is so what's been happening with you? Tell what's
what's the latest on your end?
Speaker 2 (10:19):
I'm gonna call my dad.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
Okay, it didn't expect to Marley.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
How is my message this morning?
Speaker 1 (10:24):
Can I can I talk about me you and your dad?
That sounds really weird, but let me tell you this,
it's the sweetest thing. And I really take this feedback critically.
It's really your dad sends us and he takes his
time with it. He listens to our podcasts, you know, religiously,
and he gives us feedback on them, and I take
him to heart.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Crazy.
Speaker 4 (10:42):
He has like this little group chat and he sends
us just notes on this week's podcast.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
Should we read one of them?
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Yeah? Go on read read the last one?
Speaker 4 (10:51):
Okay, Dad and Marley Morning. Just listen to podcast three
Entertainment plus three Thoughts one beginning of each episode, explain
episode is about, like, if I don't know you, I
may have switched off because of not knowing what I
was listening for two with Tilly's love of ghosts, get
a medium on three? Do a travel show together. It
(11:12):
would be hilarious.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Who's fighting?
Speaker 1 (11:14):
A travel A travel show would be good.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
We would be idea with what money wrong?
Speaker 1 (11:20):
You're true? I was going to say that maybe.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
Because he doesn't have the money.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
Okay, Well, in wanting to give listeners a roadmap, what
can they expect from this episode?
Speaker 2 (11:30):
Guys, Yeah, listening to.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Ross, Yeah, I'll break it down. I'll break it down.
We started with it last week. Guys. We are really
taking this seriously. Okay. We want to hear what train
reck stories you guys have for us, and we really
do want to give you advice on those train Rex stories.
So today, especially because I'm sick, I'm run down, Grace
is rundown, we are going to hit you with some
absolute train stories train Rex story and we're going to
(11:55):
offer our advice. We're going to start with actually, because
last week, Tilly, we're going to go through the story
that we had last week because we have some more
added context of that.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
Right, yes, okay, let's get right into it, all.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Right, give us a debrief of last week's story.
Speaker 4 (12:13):
So, last week's story, we had the girl whose family
was talking shite. Sorry, her partner's family was talking shit
about her family, and we said, you need a break
up with them, but we didn't really know context. So
based on the episode, she's given us a bit more context.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
We want to read it out. Okay ready. Also, we
love that you've come back and say.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
Yes, thank you. Please we advise this because you know,
we're just we're just professionals within this space our advice.
Speaker 4 (12:45):
Yes, we love a follow up and an update and
on our second episode of doing this, but we love it. Okay,
So continuing from last episode, she's very well literate. You
should see how well.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
This is written.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Yeah, I can tell I can see this.
Speaker 4 (13:00):
Yeah, Anonymous, we are married, living together and very happily
and very happy, but unfortunately her family just does not
like me. Would always hang out together for the past
many years of our relationship, hardly being a part her
family and I were so fine up until a couple
of days before the wedding.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Oh moral of the story.
Speaker 4 (13:21):
My partner's family left early on our wedding night and
was very miserable the entire night. They left, hardly speaking
to everyone. But they said it's because we created a
negative space.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
It's a long story.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
Wait, they like gas lit them and put it back
on them. Hold on. This is huge context though, because
we didn't know last week that they were married, right, Yeah, they're.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Married, So they can't just break up.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
Yeah, no, they can't just break up. And I think
I can't remember the exact advice that we gave, even
though it was really really crucial.
Speaker 4 (13:54):
We said break up, if your family just break up
getting along, We said break up, but this is marriage.
Speaker 3 (13:59):
You can go back and listen to the full story
in last week's episode. But Marley, I remember you saying
that would be such a deal breaker for you, Like
if your partner's family didn't get along with you. That
would be like I can't go forward. That would be
so this is really hard. This is really hard because
they are wed, you know, oh my god, I.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
Am they're locked and loaded.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
Yeah, and that whole we like, like, I feel like
that's that's a little selfish of the parents there, you know,
the whole get up and leave, make a.
Speaker 5 (14:25):
Scene like the wedding day.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Yeah, that's that's what's tough for me. Again, it's really
hard if you do anonymous Anonymous individual, thank you for
being brave enough for sending these in first. If you
want to continue adding context to this story, we would
love to continue giving you our advice as we unpack this.
But that's tough. That's that's tough for me. That part
alone would be like, I don't know, you know what
I mean till how would you? I don't know how
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you'd feel with that?
Speaker 4 (14:51):
Okay, honestly, like, first up, if you're going to ruin
someone's wedding, you can be shot, Oh okay with a
paintball gun, so that you're.
Speaker 5 (15:04):
Before you finish that sentence, till.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
Jesus shoot on site, no questions as Yeah, paintball gun.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
Yeah, that's fair. That's a fair, that's that's a fair.
Punishment is a paintball gun?
Speaker 4 (15:16):
Yeah, it's just rude, Like, do not ruin somebody's wedding,
Do you know what? I've been in multiple situations where
I just smile and wave, and in my head, I'm
thinking I.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
Struggle with that. I struggle with smiling and wave. Oh
you're saying if you were the parents, you just do
it for you.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
Yes, in your head you like to.
Speaker 4 (15:34):
Sea, yeah, but like in person, you're just like.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Yeah, I mean you have to do at that point,
smile and wave. Yeah, you just copy it, you really do.
I think that's a really selfish move. Again, we don't.
We don't know all the context though, right, No, we
really don't.
Speaker 3 (15:49):
So that's true because she said, like they that the
parents reasoning for being sour at the wedding or leaving
early or whatever, which is obviously so awful, was because
they thought that they had created a negative space.
Speaker 5 (16:03):
I'm like, what does that mean?
Speaker 1 (16:04):
We just about to ask that, grace, but.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
Who created that? And like was that real? Or did
the parents just not like this person? And so they
were like, you know, oh, you're making a negative space
as an exit.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
What is a negative space. I've never heard of a
negative space before.
Speaker 5 (16:18):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (16:19):
Guys, can you explain because is she insinuating that the family.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
Was creative space?
Speaker 5 (16:26):
So they tried to leave family?
Speaker 1 (16:29):
The family? Yes, we're accusing that the couples, right.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
Yeah, was making a negative space at their wedding, I think,
and that's why they left.
Speaker 4 (16:37):
I so doubt that who's creating a negative space?
Speaker 1 (16:42):
Mean just inviting people like past, people that you hate,
Like like what is what? How can you? How can
you create a negative space at a wedding? Was the
food ship? You know? Was there no alcohol like provided for?
Did you have to pay for your alcohol? Maybe?
Speaker 5 (16:59):
Even then it's probably to be.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
Fair, i'd probably leave. I'd probably leave if I had
to go to a wedding and then pay for my
own alcohol. You know, I'd probably be like, yeah, this
is pretty this is a negative space for me. I
go to get out of here.
Speaker 4 (17:08):
We don't really I don't really know what to give
advice wise, because I would just cut the family off.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
Yeah, I would still to this day. You obviously really
love this person, you got married to them, right, So
I would try and I would try and avoid that
negative space. And that negative energy and aura and all
of that as much as you can, because you don't
need that in your life. Again, it's really hard with
your partner if they're really close with their family, and
it's a very sticky situation. Deal break it for me.
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But I do understand you're now married. So just do
your best to protect your energy, is my advice.
Speaker 2 (17:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (17:43):
And if you have children, or you're in a position
to have them, definitely use them as blackmail. Say you're
not seeing the grandkids, you're not seeing the cousins, you're rude, Sorry,
tough luck. And if you don't have kids, I would
consider having them for that.
Speaker 2 (18:04):
Black mail. Two words for you, blackmail.
Speaker 3 (18:07):
Oh she's good, she's good. This is why, this is
why we get Tilly's advice.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
All right, we're ready to read off the next one away?
Speaker 2 (18:18):
Okay, who's reading? Am I reading again?
Speaker 1 (18:20):
I'll read it off. It's good for my vocals, it's
breaking up the mucus in.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
My che Can you read it?
Speaker 1 (18:24):
It's very long, It is very long. I think why.
I think this is why this was a signed to me.
Speaker 5 (18:28):
Let's do this train Wick story for the week. Let's
go all right, let's.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
Rock and roll. This is this is this is an
essay here, Okay, so pretty much. This is a story
about how I found my ex had cheated on me.
So me and my ex broke up.
Speaker 3 (18:42):
Yeah, yeah, this is sorry.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
So me and my ex broke up two months ago
and our relationship was really good, but we broke it
up over a miscommunication. And a month ago we got
back into contact and we were talking for a while.
The other day he asked me if I wanted to
come over, and I agreed. Oh so I was at
his house and things started to happen. I swear I'm
not a slut, okay, but it's just something about him. Hey,
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we get a girlfriend, right, we get it, We get
that completely. And I was midway through and he takes
off his shirt. I looked at his chest and he
had hickeys all over.
Speaker 5 (19:19):
That is rough and he's chest.
Speaker 2 (19:21):
Wait where do you guys give hikeys?
Speaker 4 (19:22):
Because I don't give them on the chest. Yeah I wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
Area would be be an area of a teach. But
good on him, good on him. Each their own, you
know what I mean. I was initially shocked because he
told me he had only slept with me about a
week before. So I asked, what are those? He said,
I don't know what are they? And I was I
was like, be so for real, they are hickeys. Who
are they from? He told me just the other person.
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I was like, okay, but you're not in a relationship,
are you? He said no. Then I asked, when did
you guys meet? He said, I met them in week ten?
What does that mean?
Speaker 3 (19:56):
Like, I feel like, oh, I feel like it's oh yeah,
it might be like a semester i'd un or something.
Speaker 5 (20:03):
Yeah, Like you had to.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
Clarify that because I thought it was like week ten
into their initial relationship. You know what I mean? Yeah,
I mean at that point. I hope at week ten
that they were pulling in front of each other. Oh,
all right, let's continue. I was like, okay, I was upset,
but there isn't really anything I can do because we
aren't together anymore. Then I started to cry and he
told me he still loved me and had feelings for me,
and he still loved me, but was not ready for
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a relationship. I said, okay, neither am I. But yesterday
he posted on his private story one month in a
nursery with my boom. Oh it was a pick of
him and this girl kissing. So I have two questions
for you. Am I a bad person for sleeping with
a guy in a relationship? And two? Should I tell
the other girl?
Speaker 2 (20:46):
Person?
Speaker 3 (20:47):
So, they'd started off by them saying that them and
their ex broke up two months ago and their relationship
was good, but it broke up because of like miscommunication
or bad communication, right, And then they got back into
con started talking for a while, and then they like
got together again and saw the hickeys and like turned
out they had to you know, had a boo quote unquote, Like.
Speaker 1 (21:11):
The tough part is the end part.
Speaker 2 (21:13):
If I was them, I would go and hook up
with the person that they're dating.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
Now, hold on, hold on what I Firstly, firstly, I
don't think you're a bad person for sleeping with them,
as you didn't know that they were in a relationship.
Can we all agree on that?
Speaker 5 (21:30):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (21:31):
Are we all on the same page? Yes?
Speaker 2 (21:32):
Look at that.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
So firstly, let's take that out of your head. All right,
You're not a bad person for that. This is not
your fault. You didn't know. And two, should you tell
the other girl? This is the part where it's like, this.
Speaker 4 (21:42):
Is the part where it's obvious to me that you
shouldn't just tell the other girl. You should go hook
up with the other girl. You should definitely message her,
and you should just screw over that. I don't know,
maybe even introduce the other girl to your brother somebody
nice that they could organize another date, make her cheat
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on him, Like it's just rude.
Speaker 5 (22:05):
To try and give them a taste of their own
medicine kind of thing. Yes, okay, is.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
That really gonna make him feel better at the end
of the day.
Speaker 2 (22:11):
It will?
Speaker 5 (22:12):
It will.
Speaker 4 (22:12):
I can one hundred percent assure you you will be
so much better, your tits will grow, You'll be so happy.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
Like, that's definitely the way to do it.
Speaker 3 (22:21):
This is a very tricky, like ethical question of like
do you tell the person that has been cheated on?
I fully, I've never I straight up, Oh my god,
it stressed me out. I don't know what the right
thing to do. It's because it's like, if you were
getting cheated on, what do you want to know? Yes,
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everyone's answer.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
Would yeah, you would. You would want to know you're right,
and if you if you break it down that way,
that's a good way to look at it. Grace, if
you break it down that way, then maybe the answer
is yes, you probably should mention something.
Speaker 4 (22:52):
Then TikTok, talk about the hay girl message. You know,
the hay girl message, like nobody wants the hay girl
like because it's like, oh, yes, of course you want
to blow.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
It's like that.
Speaker 5 (23:02):
We need to talk.
Speaker 1 (23:03):
Yes, I'm say, I'm gonna say it.
Speaker 4 (23:06):
Ye do it if you're not telling the other girl.
I will get me to do you know what, message
me and I'll organize it.
Speaker 2 (23:14):
I will get it done.
Speaker 1 (23:16):
Till he will do that, I'll do it. We can
get that extra I can.
Speaker 4 (23:19):
I'll actually make a three way zoom if you want,
and we can orchestrate it. Oh, you know what, you
should all just come on the pod. We'll sort it
out with all of you. A. You are not a
bad person. You're a good person.
Speaker 5 (23:30):
Live laughing.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
Be snitch, tell snitch on that.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
But you know what, be sneaky about it. Be smart.
Speaker 4 (23:37):
Don't tell your X that you're going to tell them,
but make sure they find out.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
They will find out.
Speaker 3 (23:44):
Absolutely or just throwing in sorry, just before we move on,
throwing in one more option. There is the thing of
saying like you need to tell them by this day,
like by tomorrow or else. I'm going to tell them
because then it gives them an opportunity to like do
the heart because then it's also like you need to
protect your piece. You were put into this situation against
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your will. You didn't know that they had a boo
or whatever. So why should it be on you to
have to have that really awful conversation and send a
hey girl text?
Speaker 5 (24:16):
It should be them having to face up to their
own But.
Speaker 4 (24:19):
Guys, this person was clearly cheated on, So I think
you should really get some calmer back because this person's
cheated twice. He's cheated with you and cheated on you,
So chop his penis off.
Speaker 2 (24:31):
That's all I have to say. Next, let's go.
Speaker 1 (24:34):
Let's move on. I assume I'm reading this one again,
am I.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
Actually, if for people listening, if you do have stories
to send in, you actually can also send a voice
memo and we can just play it as well.
Speaker 4 (24:50):
And Grace, you're really smart, so you could probably put
a filter over their voice, couldn't you If they wanted
it to make it all cryptic, know how to do that?
Speaker 1 (25:01):
That could be fun. Guys. All right, let's go all right, Hey, Tilly,
I don't know if this is what you were looking
quite looking for with these stories to send you, but
I would like your opinion on this anyway. That is
why we are here anonymous individual. Last week I went
to work and it was pissing down with rain. Guys,
if you don't know what pissing down with rain is like,
if there's any American listeners, it just means it is
really really raining, all right.
Speaker 5 (25:22):
Americans do not use that phrase?
Speaker 2 (25:23):
Ye?
Speaker 1 (25:24):
Sorry?
Speaker 5 (25:24):
Do Americans not use that phrase?
Speaker 1 (25:26):
That is like the most Australian thing you could ever say?
If you said that here, do you? Could? You? You
got yeah, like the look that you would get. Someone
would be like what like they would look at you
with DIY.
Speaker 5 (25:39):
Just say it's raining cats and dogs or something.
Speaker 1 (25:41):
This is why Tilly genuinely like her mother. I would
be scared for her as Tilly is making a wish.
All right, you keep yes.
Speaker 4 (25:50):
Do you know the worst thing I did in America
when we were on the train and it was like
the nine to eleven day, Oh my god, yeah, and
I was like so loud. I was like, oh my god,
it's not eleven, and everyone like looks at you like
so bad, Like you didn't even I didn't even mean
to be allowed, and like I wasn't being obnoxious. I
was like, holy shit, look at the date guys, and
everyone stares at you.
Speaker 2 (26:11):
Yeah, I'm sure you have to be so careful what
you say.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
Trauma with everything in life.
Speaker 5 (26:16):
Sorry, Molly, continue with the story.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
All right, let's let's keep this going. Yeah, So last
week I went to work and it was pissing down
with rain. I was twenty minutes early for my shift.
Good on you, twenty minutes early. I like it.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
I'm twenty minutes late.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
For my shift with my coworker, who is also one
of the girls in my friendship group. Okay, so they're friends.
I got to the job with me all right, Okay,
this my way into the story. Here was parked in
a wait so my friends in her friendship group was
parked in a car directly in front of me. I
waited until the rain wasn't as bad to get out
of my car. Logical like that. But when it did,
it started pissing down again. So I put my hoodie
(26:53):
up and sprint it across the road into the building
to try to avoid getting drenched. But umbrella no you
know what, I wouldn't have number either. I'm not going
to judge you there. When I got into the building,
it was probably about five minutes before I could clock
on when I realized that I have forgotten to lock
my car in brackets. EIGHTHD was playing me hard yelp.
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I work in childcare and once I got there, I
wasn't actually allowed to leave until the end of my shift,
and I had to close that day, so I wouldn't
have been able to check in for about four hours,
check it for about four.
Speaker 4 (27:24):
If somebody's not letting you lock your car leave, that's
so rude.
Speaker 1 (27:28):
Yeah, is that like a childcare thing?
Speaker 4 (27:29):
I like, it's like a ratio thing. But her, if
she's sprinting across to her car, that's absolut like.
Speaker 1 (27:35):
Yeah, they'd letter, they'd let her leave.
Speaker 4 (27:37):
Yeah, she's saying they won't. You should get your boss fired.
That's so rude.
Speaker 2 (27:40):
Anyway, Yeah, I read that.
Speaker 1 (27:41):
Actually that might be the end of this story. That
our conclusion here, all right? Note that I work in
a high theft zone. Oh yeah, hell you alone help? Yeah?
And I had valuables in my car. This sounds like
Tilly that one time till you remember that one time
you left your technic car.
Speaker 2 (27:55):
Yeah it was town, So yes, lock your car till
your laptop got stolen.
Speaker 5 (28:00):
We'll scucle back to that.
Speaker 1 (28:00):
Let's yeah, we're going to get back to that. God,
this girl and her house keys. Oh my god. Wait,
you don't take any of that into work, which we're
hidden from view but still there. Yeah, hey, let's start
bringing that into work now. My friend who was parked
in front of me that I mentioned earlier, I didn't
have to start a ship for another twenty minutes after
I clocked on, so I sent her a message on
Snapchat asking her if it was all if it was
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at all possible to check that my car was locked
for me on her way in, because I was getting
mad anxious about it. I want to mention as well
that one of my other friends had recently bought me
Snapchat Premium as a birthday joke gift. What Snapchat premium?
Speaker 4 (28:35):
It's like you can see where everyone's locations are, and
you can see who their top best friend is.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
You can see everything.
Speaker 1 (28:42):
So it's just the old Snapchat, Yeah, the old stuff.
So they're making you pay to get the old originations.
Speaker 2 (28:48):
This is a scare I'm a partner.
Speaker 1 (28:49):
Now, yeah, you're working with them, but I'm going to
call them out. That is very scamy Snapchat. Now, I'm
not trying to talk bad, but come on, now, what
are we doing?
Speaker 2 (28:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (28:58):
You know what I mean? Like, what are we doing?
It is? I mean, how much is the premium? How
much is the premium cheap?
Speaker 2 (29:03):
It's like six bucks a month or something for what you.
Speaker 5 (29:06):
Could have gotten ten years ago.
Speaker 1 (29:09):
Six bucks a month to go backwards the hell? Anyways, Hey,
that's a great birthday gift. I'm glad you got premium
on there. And because of this, I could see half
I could see her half swipe. Wait wait wait wait
wait wait you can see you know how you can
half swipe and like see some of the message.
Speaker 5 (29:25):
Yeah, so then.
Speaker 4 (29:26):
Pull the message across like the arms and then like so,
I think on premium you can actually see if someone
half swipes.
Speaker 1 (29:34):
Stop, you know what, Snapchat, You're actually doing something big there.
I would pay the six bucks for that premium too.
That's crazy. Exactly, you can unlock a half swipe and
see that. That's cool. Okay, yeah, good on you. She's
a detective, all right, so she knew that she saw
a message, but twenty minutes later, when she walked in
the door, she had still left me un delivered and
pretended with the worst acting ever that she didn't even
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look at her phone until she went to clock in.
She never said anything to me about my message, and
I purposely changed the subject to avoid to avoid conflict,
as I was extremely anxious that my car would be unlocked,
and I was overly frustrated and didn't know how to
approach this situation.
Speaker 5 (30:12):
Wow, I love the amount of detail.
Speaker 2 (30:16):
Really well, I didn't see it.
Speaker 3 (30:18):
I'm there, it's worrying with rain, I'm kind of drenched
from my hoodie.
Speaker 5 (30:25):
Anyway, continue, I'm loving this.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
I'm loving this all right. So she also left work
about an hour before I did and didn't offer to
check it then at all, and has not spoken to
me since. Wait, So I guess I wanted to see
your thoughts because I know I've been overreacting by getting
so frustrated at a small thing. And I understand that
it was raining at the start of her shift, so
she may not have wanted to check it then, but
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my car was literally on her way in and probably
about three steps away from the door, So I was
so mad that she wouldn't go through this tiny effort
to ease my anxiety for me when she is one
of my closest friends. Wait, we didn't know that? Do
we know that she was one of her first friend Oh? Okay,
all right, and didn't even bother to do it on
her way out either. I don't know what I should
do because if I tell her I saw her half swiping, yay,
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that's when you flex on him, like, yeah, I got
that's what I do. Yeah, I got premium, you know, Yeah,
ok I flex that for sure. If I had premium,
I'm fine to.
Speaker 4 (31:19):
Send her a screenshot of the premium.
Speaker 1 (31:21):
Yes, and her location? Yeah, okay, tell her I saw
her half swiping. She would deny it and would just
be a big, a big fight for no good reason.
But it's been making me more annoyed the more I
think about it. Am I in the wrong for asking
her to check it while it was raining? Though? I
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spent a whole shift pretending like I was fine, but
wanted to break down crying because of this. Okay, all done? Okay,
that was that was huge. Firstly, I really appreciate the
detail within that story that really paints a picture for
us here, all right, till start us off.
Speaker 4 (31:57):
Okay, First up, Next time she's in on a day
that it's not raining, where theft is more likely, go
to find her keys and get her phone. Put her
phone in her car on the front seat where it's
visible to be stolen, and unlock her door and.
Speaker 2 (32:14):
Just leave it like that's sort stolen and have her
phone stolen.
Speaker 5 (32:19):
Done?
Speaker 2 (32:20):
Oh done?
Speaker 5 (32:21):
Oh wow?
Speaker 1 (32:22):
Well look, you know you know where this gets really sticky. Guys.
It's a close friend, right, I'd be I'd be pissed
off at my close friend. Hey, you've got premium, you
know what I mean. We can see a half swipe,
like Snapchat isn't making us pay six bucks a month,
and then they're just gonna glitch their system and make
it seem like there was a half swipe when there wasn't.
There was a half swipe here. Okay, So she read
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the message and clearly didn't want to go check the
car as it were my thing. I'm going to try
and play Devil's advocate here. It was raining, pissing down,
to be exact, So maybe you did a little half
swipe and then you were like, oh, my phone's getting
super wet, like let me just put it in my
pocket and continue walking.
Speaker 2 (33:01):
You know what I mean, getn't put it in my pocket?
Speaker 1 (33:04):
Like, because as soon as you guys, hold on, hold on,
I'm diving in deep it. As soon as you see
the start of a message, say, hey, can you do
me a favor? Hey? I was just wondering, Hey, you
know what I mean. You're like, I.
Speaker 2 (33:14):
Wonder if she just saw that bit, Like, I wonder.
Speaker 1 (33:17):
If that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (33:19):
And she was like, oh what am I doing?
Speaker 1 (33:21):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (33:21):
Okay, but then why did she do the fake acting
quote unquote lie true and say that she hadn't seen
it at all?
Speaker 4 (33:30):
Wait did you ask if she'd seen it?
Speaker 1 (33:32):
Yeah? Well well she said she fake acted like she didn't. Yeah,
she hadn't seen it at all.
Speaker 5 (33:36):
But because she's got talking about something.
Speaker 1 (33:38):
Snapchat premium, you know, flex she was able to see
the host.
Speaker 4 (33:41):
Well, I'm just straight up, I would just say to her, honestly,
this is my biggest thing. Somebody told me the other
day that they was so anxious about something but they
didn't want to ask someone about it, or they didn't
want to tell someone they had feelings for them. And
I don't know why you people let things each you alive,
like I do not do it to myself. You are
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gonna make yourself sick in the stomach by letting things
sit there. I've like, I've had a friend who wanted
to say something to someone for six months and was
getting drunk all the time about it.
Speaker 2 (34:13):
And why do you let things eat you up?
Speaker 4 (34:16):
Like genuinely me coming from a good place and being
full serious here, do not let things eat you up.
Life is too effing short. If you want to ask something,
do it. If she's anxious enough to write this whole
message out to us to ask for our advice on
a podcast, they do not do that to yourself. Straight
up message her, say, hey, just letting you know. I
(34:37):
got Snapchat Premium for my birthday. I know that you
saw the message, and you know we live in a
high theft zone. Why did you not just check the
door or why could you not tell me that you'd
see it?
Speaker 1 (34:48):
Like just be upfront, yeah, well put yeah, because I
just want to I just want to know the answer, Like,
just give me an answer, and you know what, that
might ease everything, and it might be a reasonable explanation.
It might be look yeah, like it was raining. I
did half read it and then I just ran in
and then it was super awkward. I didn't want to
act like I didn't, you know what I mean, Like.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
Your good position, it doesn't even put you in a
bad position. Just ask just be like sorry, just letting
you know I actually do have Snapchat premium.
Speaker 2 (35:16):
I saw your half swipe.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
It was low, such a persive aggressive, like you can
tell Tilly's done this before, you know, just letting you know,
low capital lol to.
Speaker 3 (35:29):
I just love that answer. Honesty is the best policy.
I actually genuinely think that's really great advice.
Speaker 1 (35:34):
I think it's great advice as well. And I would,
honestly I think this is there's a deeper route to this.
I would. I would let my boss know, Hey, I'm
running outside really quick and you're not going to stop
me because I've got YouTube premium, I mean YouTube premium,
Snapchat premium, and there's nothing that you can do about it,
you know what I mean. Like I'm I'm flexing on
them to do with the boss. You should be, like
you said before, you should be allowed to run outside.
(35:56):
Why should you not be able to go check on
your car?
Speaker 4 (35:59):
I climb out of the window, work all the time
and go check my car. The fact that your boss
in a high theft zone would not let you quickly
check that your car door is locked.
Speaker 1 (36:08):
Yes, that's what I'm saying. So that's the I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (36:10):
Go to HR. That is the real problem. Go to H.
Speaker 1 (36:13):
Thank you. I'm glad you're on board. When you've got
Snapchat premium, you are popping you.
Speaker 2 (36:17):
We're on top of the damn world.
Speaker 1 (36:19):
All right, Well, keep us updated with this anonymous Snapchat
premium individual because we please want to hear about it.
Like you resolving this with your friend?
Speaker 4 (36:28):
Yeah, so her first thing? End of like conclusively go
to HR about your boss not letting you lock your
car a B. Never rock up to work twenty minutes early,
you're not getting paid, stay home sis, see message your friend.
That's all like, all right, let's go next one, go
(36:52):
for it. Okay, Hey, chicky, are you able to ask
for help in relations to how to manage money. I'm
a solo mother and struggling every paycheck to paycheck. I
work full time. Just times are tough, and I'm sure
there are other single moms out there struggling too that
will have advice.
Speaker 2 (37:12):
I'm due with my.
Speaker 4 (37:13):
Second in October, and I'm so scared I won't be
able to afford stuff.
Speaker 3 (37:18):
All right, right at the top of this one, I'm
just gonna say, any advice given on this podcast is
not individualized financial advice. Please consult a legit professional before
you put into action anything that is about to come
out of this girl's mouth.
Speaker 5 (37:31):
All right, Tillie, you how we can't get sued.
Speaker 1 (37:33):
Now, we can't get canceled, Thank you, Grace.
Speaker 4 (37:35):
First, go to the strip club. Show them your tits.
Here we go, five hundred dollars straight up, boy, yep,
just for a flash.
Speaker 2 (37:46):
So just show them your boobs.
Speaker 5 (37:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (37:49):
Well, she's going to be a mum.
Speaker 4 (37:51):
I think there's like a fetish for pregnant people, and yeah,
there would be.
Speaker 2 (37:55):
Yeah, and they want.
Speaker 5 (37:56):
To for everything, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 4 (37:59):
Oh so someone will want to drink her milk. She's
going to make banks. She's a single mom, become a stripper.
Speaker 1 (38:11):
Okay, now, she's a single mom becomes a stripper. I
don't know if that's that. I don't know if that's
the perfect path that she could be taking.
Speaker 4 (38:21):
Okay, she should do only fans instead, because they love pregnancy.
Speaker 2 (38:27):
I'm sure of it.
Speaker 4 (38:28):
I'm sure Tom always says pregnant girls are hot.
Speaker 1 (38:34):
Nah.
Speaker 4 (38:35):
They I feel like everyone nah nah you actually do
your hips, get big, your tits get big, you get
a fat ass.
Speaker 1 (38:43):
All right, all right, First, firstly, let me start with
I want to commend you for taking on this. Yeah,
this this this obviously this life. I was going to say,
this challenge, but it's a beautiful blessing that you are
going to endure of being a strong, independent single mother.
Speaker 2 (39:00):
And also, let's shure a happy Mother's Day. It will
be a week.
Speaker 1 (39:03):
Past, but and happy Mother's Day to you. I'm sorry
that you're in a tough position and struggling, and man,
it's it's really it is. It's hard for everyone to
try and save money. I feel like in our day
and age, like with inflation, with how expensive everything is,
it's really really tough. But there's definitely ways that you
can maximize. I guess we don't have any context as to, yeah,
(39:26):
what kind of work you do, but you're working full time, right,
But working full time on one wage is always going
to be really, really tough. I guess it. Yeah, as
generic as I can be, it comes down to just
trying to budget in terms of what can you sacrifice
without like month to month.
Speaker 2 (39:41):
Yes, I think a few things.
Speaker 4 (39:44):
Firstly, like going to budget places for example, like myself
and my boyfriend just moved out. We save one hundred
and fifty dollars a week by just shopping it audi
yeah and yeah, and being conscious like I always will
buy in just because it ends up being cheaper, Like
you sacrifice that higher payment one week, but then you'll
(40:06):
have that product for three weeks instead. Secondly, looking at
food options that aren't is expensive. For example, the other
night we had a butter chicken with rice and none,
and that dinner alone would have cost me sixty dollars
to make. However, if I bought a dollar bag of rice,
that rice would go such a long way. Then add
some frozen veggies, like just really make everything super cheap
(40:30):
and use your dinner the leftovers the next day for lunch.
Also shopping at the reject stare for like cleaning things.
Using Facebook marketplace, you can get free stuff on there
if you need like a new baby cud or something.
Speaker 2 (40:43):
Going to Vinnie's.
Speaker 4 (40:44):
Vinnie's actually isn't as affordable these days, but that is
because of their like demographic of where I live on
the norll the beaches.
Speaker 2 (40:51):
They charge an arm and a leg for everything.
Speaker 1 (40:53):
Yeah, I guess, like just being as thorough as you
can in terms of what you are spending your money on, right,
being specific as you can.
Speaker 4 (41:02):
Yeah, and while your kids young, make sacrifices, because when
they're young, it doesn't matter if they miss out on
going to Lunar Park or going on this holiday because quite.
Speaker 2 (41:11):
Frankly, they won't remember it.
Speaker 4 (41:13):
But like save that for when they're a bit older
and everyone can like remember that. So don't worry about
that stuff. Just focus on what is a necessity.
Speaker 1 (41:23):
Yeah, no, for sure, I agree. And again it's it's
obviously a lot easier said than done. You're in such
a hard position having two children to just yourself is
very very difficult to handle. So again, commend you on
everything that you're doing. You're amazing, You're strong, you are
absolutely going to crush this and good on you. Thank
(41:43):
you so much for sending that. Hang in there, Yeah,
it'll all be good.
Speaker 2 (41:52):
Okay to be anonymous, of course, you're all.
Speaker 4 (41:55):
And on my podcast advice scenario would be how to
ask your partner to post you on social media? To me,
that is a quite important thing now straight up at
the bottom of the screenshot, I've written, give him a
blowye and then ask him so, or you could threaten
(42:15):
it the other way.
Speaker 1 (42:15):
Wait, hold on, yeah, why would you do that before
the ask?
Speaker 4 (42:19):
Yeah, well, like he might love you, like if you
gave him good head and be like, oh, yes, I'll
post a photo of you.
Speaker 1 (42:25):
Right. I don't think that should be the reason that
someone should love.
Speaker 4 (42:28):
No, it shouldn't, but it might help anyway. Maley, You're
a male, so I think you should offer your perspective.
Speaker 1 (42:36):
How to ask their partner. Yes, so with me especially,
I think with a lot of guys, we don't necessarily
like being told what to do. I feel, well, I
feel everyone doesn't, right, but I feel like, especially guys,
you know what I mean, like we want to kind
of come up with what we want to come up
with on our own terms and our own timing and everything, right,
So I would I would just try and hint at
(42:57):
things like and I would be posting a lot as well.
I feel like this was a really I'm not sure
how old this person is, but I feel like this
was something that you deal with when you're when you
were younger A lot, so I.
Speaker 4 (43:07):
Have Maley, I have friends older still dealing with this.
Speaker 2 (43:10):
Stuff year olds.
Speaker 1 (43:13):
Yeah, well, then, especially at that age, I would definitely
I would open up a conversation with him and say, look,
is there any reason as to why you don't like posting?
Speaker 2 (43:21):
Yes, you know me on your Instagram?
Speaker 4 (43:22):
Like if you're you would reverse like reverse psychology, not
reverse psychology. But instead of saying why don't you post me? Like,
is there any reason why you don't like posting?
Speaker 1 (43:32):
Especially if they're already posting a lot of stuff. Right,
If they're not posting stuff, and that's a different story,
it's like maybe they're just not big on social media,
like it's not a big deal. But if they're posting
a lot and posting different things or posting their mates
or whatnot, I'd be like, is there any reason as
to why? And then I would tackle it from there
because at that point, if they're not posting, like if
you're not posting about your partner on there, like intentionally,
(43:54):
to me, that's a red flag. There's an issue there,
you know.
Speaker 4 (43:56):
Yeah, dude, my ex boyfriend, Dude, I'm referring to Grace
as well.
Speaker 2 (44:00):
Everyone.
Speaker 4 (44:01):
My ex boyfriend put up a story when he went
to Melbourne and he.
Speaker 2 (44:08):
Yep, it was.
Speaker 4 (44:09):
It was cooked, and basically because he used to post me.
We were still dating at this time, but he was
in Melbourne, which I gave him like a thousand dollars
for don't know why.
Speaker 2 (44:19):
It's nineteen.
Speaker 4 (44:20):
But he put up a story in a bed in
a hotel and put up the song.
Speaker 2 (44:25):
You know that song that's like the.
Speaker 4 (44:26):
City is going to break your heart, The city is
going to love you and leave you alone?
Speaker 3 (44:29):
Nah, do you know that he's gonna break your heart?
Speaker 1 (44:33):
Oh? There we go. Yes, now I know the song.
Now that I've heard such a bad.
Speaker 3 (44:39):
Literally straight into my head, I know exactly the song.
Speaker 4 (44:43):
So she put that up, pretended he was single, blocked
me off the story. Later put a photo of him
like a girl holding his hand like at the end,
and we were still dating. So anyway, what I'm trying
to get at is how active does your boyfriend post?
If he's something like that and then he's not posting you,
then he can fuck off.
Speaker 2 (45:05):
I still picked him up from the airport.
Speaker 5 (45:08):
Were used to wait what would be together?
Speaker 1 (45:13):
Or clearly she picked him up the airport.
Speaker 4 (45:17):
Yeah, we were dating and my friends were so pissed.
Speaker 2 (45:19):
Off at me.
Speaker 4 (45:20):
They're like, why did you pick him up? If there's
a literal story of actually no, it was on the
other girl's story. Imagine me filming my hand being held
filming like this and at the other end being like no,
and I was dating.
Speaker 1 (45:38):
Oh.
Speaker 4 (45:39):
I literally told my friends. I was like, it's his
cousin because I was so yeah, I took the afternoon
off work and went and picked him up from the airport.
Speaker 5 (45:49):
When picked him up, did you say anything?
Speaker 2 (45:52):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (45:52):
Yeah, I said something, but it wouldn't have mattered at
that point.
Speaker 1 (45:56):
I mean, I hope you just left him. But yeah, Again,
I think I think bring the conversation up with your
partner and ask them just directly, why is there a
reason to it? See what he says to that, and
then I would adjust, like on is this really something that? Again,
and I know I'm being harsh, but again, that's what
I'm referring to, Like Tilly's example, is if they're not
(46:18):
or if they're hiding you or things like that, it's
a red flags. I mean, things are.
Speaker 3 (46:21):
Getting really Yeah, I think it's I think it's the
hiding thing because on the face of it, when you
read this out, I know what you mean Miley.
Speaker 5 (46:28):
I was like, you know, how old is this person?
Speaker 3 (46:30):
It can sound on the surface like a bit of
a yeah, just like a surface leftl level petty thing
to worry about, But I don't think it is, because
I actually think that, like social media is a part
of relationships now, it's part of it's a resume, and
there are just like unspoken rules that come with that.
I feel about, Like, if you have a partner, you
(46:52):
post about them, but most of the time it's not
spoken about. It just happens organically. You do the soft launch,
you do the hard launch. So when someone is clearly
aware of like how social media works and these unspoken
rules that we have now, but then like doesn't abide
by them, I'm fully like there has to be there's
something going on there the reason unless they genuinely don't
(47:13):
use Instagram, like just don't.
Speaker 1 (47:15):
Care that's and don't feel crazy for like, don't be like, oh,
I'm going to be acting like a crazy partner if
I ask you this question. No, Like that is completely normal,
And I think a really mature like way at like
handling that situation.
Speaker 4 (47:28):
This is so circumstantial, Like I feel like I need
more background, Like For example, my boyfriend has eighty followers
and didn't post me, like literally eighty. Like I'm not
just saying, oh he has eighty, Like he has eighty
three followers and didn't post me for a very long
time and it didn't bother me because he never posts
a story, has one photo of him playing footy, like
(47:50):
he's not doing anything dodgy. But on the other hand,
if they're actively posting and you're just not going up there,
it's a bit for and weird, like just yeah, I
don't know. But my suggestion genuinely, let's play toxic. I
think you need to get your tits out, get your
ass out, and you need to start posting first traps
(48:14):
because I should you not.
Speaker 2 (48:16):
He will get you on that gram real quick.
Speaker 1 (48:20):
Real, you know what. This is the first piece of
advice of yours, Tilly that I've agreed with tonight. I think, yeah,
Grace too, we're all on board.
Speaker 4 (48:29):
I promise he will quickly.
Speaker 1 (48:33):
Yeah, I like that.
Speaker 2 (48:35):
Yeah, so just play the game.
Speaker 4 (48:37):
But yeah, honestly, like I think, like for real, for real,
I would just say what Miley said, don't do it
in a way where it's annoying and telling them what
to do.
Speaker 2 (48:48):
Just actually just be like, hey, like, is there.
Speaker 4 (48:51):
Any reason that you don't like posting us on socials?
Like do it that way instead of sounding like his
mum and being like you need to boost me on
social media, where like, don't cry about it.
Speaker 1 (49:02):
Just yeah, don't go into like you need to yeah,
say like is there origin as to why?
Speaker 4 (49:06):
Yeah, one hundred percent. I think that's the way to
go about it. Just just say like, I feel like
that's something that's very important to me, and that actually
is something that I need to feel secure in this relationship.
And if you're not posting me, I'm sorry, but that
is a requirement for me and I will end this relationship.
And I actually think that is fair without sounding like
(49:28):
an idiot, I actually think that's fair to be like,
that's one of my boundaries and you do need to
be posting me, And I think.
Speaker 2 (49:35):
That's breakup worthy.
Speaker 4 (49:36):
If he actively posts on his social media but does
not post you and refuses to post you, I think.
Speaker 3 (49:42):
That if it's important to you, if it's important to you, yeah, yeah,
and then next.
Speaker 1 (49:47):
We're going to stop there. We're going to stop there.
That was great. That was awesome. That was awesome. Advice.
Thank you for that. Well, thank you first for and
foremost guys for sending all of these train recks in. Again,
this is going to be, like I guess, the theme
and the backbone of what we want to do at
the moment moving forward. We just really enjoy diving into
(50:10):
these stories of yours and giving you the best advice
that we can. So thank you again guys for being
so open and transparent. Again, we're going to keep it
as anonymous as possible. So those were great.
Speaker 2 (50:20):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (50:21):
Awesome. Yeah, we're all going to get through this absolute
train wreck of a life together, all right, guys, So
thank you all for listening. Please do if you haven't already,
follow us on train Wreck the Pod on Instagram and
then train Wreck over on TikTok. And that is with
how many e's, Tilly two's three, season four k's. Might
be a little tough to get that one, but yeah,
(50:42):
good luck. Make sure you hit the bell icon on Spotify,
follow the podcast, leave reviews, give it guys within within
the actual podcast on Spotify.
Speaker 4 (50:51):
If you leave a review, actually message me and we'll chat. Please,
I love you like we'll be friends. I will reply
to your DM.
Speaker 1 (50:59):
We want to grow. We want to grow this family, guys,
and we can all do that together. Yes, all right,
Well that was the trainees, the Trainees of the week.
We love you all. Jason Pott, I need to go
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