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Speaker 1 (00:10):
My Heart podcasts, hear More Kids podcasts, playlists, and listen
live on the Free I heard a we all love.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
A gossip And apparently, according to a new study, gossip
can be very good for your relationship.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Oh really apparently.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
And this is a study unlike one of those Mickey
Mouse ones that you pull from Vietnam Woods, this is
from the Journal of Science and Personal Relationships. This is
a legit psychological study found that in instances of gossip
amongst partners, it produced incredibly high scores for happiness in
(00:48):
relationship quality.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Is it because you feel better about your relationship when
you're sort of gossiping about other people and like, look,
how look how bad it's going for them? Like, do
we feel stronger now?
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Is that the bit?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
That's one of the things. That's definitely one of the things.
So it affirms to both partners that you're on the
same team when you're talking about other people. So there's
that part of it fostering more communication with you. Gossip
often leads to a really you know, juicy conversation, which
means you're talking rather than not talking.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
I suppose, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
And also it establishes expectations and behaviors within the relationship.
So you're kind of like sussing out within your relationship
via the lens of somebody else. Is that good behavior?
Is that bad behavior?
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Would you like that? Would you not like that? Oh? Fascinating?
It is really really interesting.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
So do you goss with Sem? Of course it's hard
not to like, like, I know, I.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Mean, I think she brings most of the content, though,
if I'm being honest, like when we have it, it's
often just like she's caught up with the girls and
then she's like, here's a bit for you.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
But and then I'm like, great, great, great.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
Then I'm just like I've got yes, or I will
haven't find that.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
I will be sitting on a piece of gossip that
I didn't your lize was gossip, and then Sem will
find out through somebody else the gossip and she'll be
like did you know that? And I'll be like, well, yeah,
I knew that Sally was sleeping with Sean. And then
she's like, why didn't that's great goss? Why didn't you
Why didn't you bring that to the table. It would have
(02:27):
been a great chat for us. And I feel like
that is the that's the complain of a lot of
women in heterosexual relationships. I mean, I'm looking at button
push of tom over here. I'm sure you boys you
bitch the house.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Down, don't you know?
Speaker 2 (02:41):
But interestingly with guys, because within this study, the people
that were found to be in the happiest relationship were
actually female and female couples who produced the greatest amount
of gossip.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Of course, yeah that makes sense.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Yes, so women know how to gossip. I mean we
saw it on the show Sex and the City.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
The whole show was literally built around, you know, those
lunches that needs to have sit down.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
And just spill the tea. And I mean that made
the show very watchable, very successful.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
I'm not I would like to try and buck the
stereotype here.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
You want to train, you want to get better at gossip.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Well, I mean the producers who are all female. Now
the Captain poop Pants is not here. We're getting were surrounded.
Woods were surrounded.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
They are out there gossiping, right, they turn us down
and they start.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Very good. So I think we can gossip. I think
we can lift our game. And I'd like to prove
on behalf of some men that we can gossip.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Yeah, I contribute when when mim brings the content.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
I've got thoughts, your thoughts of crap, manna, they are
they're a big crap. You know, You've got these quirky
things like have you ever thought to yourself, what if
they were on the moon? And you're like, what are you?
Speaker 3 (03:56):
You're not You're not a question.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
You're not on the bit more, mate, You're a tangent.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
I can tangent, Yeah, I can.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
That's good chat. Though, isn't this whole bit about talking
more with your partner? No, you've got to turn until
the cows come home.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
You got to stay on the bit and you got
to make it spicy and well, okay, what oh my god, what.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
If it was happening before we knew? And did you
see the way that he looked?
Speaker 1 (04:16):
You know, like I just follow question? What if we
got some girls to call right now? On thirteen one
oh six five? And I don't know if this is
too spicy, but like, is there any goss in your
life or maybe just bring up some some level of
gossip that was from ages ago, right, doesn't need to
be just in case you don't want to share gossip
(04:37):
on radio, Harry, bring up some great goss that you
had in your life like years ago, maybe even from
like high school.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Oh yeah, that was a great rumor about you in
high school.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
So so you call an old gossip and then and
then we'll just we'll just see if we can sex
in the city with you.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Yes, I'm samanthah obviously, and we'll just see if we're Samantha.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Yeah that checks out with that rumor about.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
You right well, strong and independent anyway, So yeah, bring
the goss lunch on sex in the city.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
I think we'll prove that we can keep the ball
in the air.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
So we're going to try and gossip with some some women.
Ball in the air. Yeah, what's more than that.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
It's keeping the ball in the air, and it's it's
spicing the ball up, you know. Six five, give us
call if you've got some gasp woods and I on
a quest right now to dispel the myth that men.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Are bad gossipers. Study that's found it recently as well.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
And to be honest, my partner is Sami's often frustrated
at my lack of good gear the front or often
I'll come home and be like, you know, oh, you
wouldn't believe it. One of the one of the texts
at work is he's leaving. She's like, I don't know
that best.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
You're even boring me.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
But it was a sad day in the cash anyway,
I don't put a name on now.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
I feel terrible. It was a sad day. Absolutely was
a sad man. So right now, we want.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
To go to gossip boot camp, Will, So we want
to join you guys for a Sex and the City lunch,
which is apparently where the.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Girls on sex and were doing.
Speaker 4 (06:16):
I'm Samantha, You're you're Miranda.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
No, I am not Miranda. You do I am not Miranda.
Can get off it? Well, you just call yourself the
hottest one.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
And I'm on my lunge between Charlotte and Samantha.
Speaker 5 (06:29):
You know, don't touch Charlotte. She you're mound Charlotte. You're
mound Charlotte a bit vanilla. No, I'm Sarah, I'm the star.
I know I'm a rider. I'm a bit of a bitch.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
Like come clearly, I'm Carrie. Let's let's gossip.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Call me Carrie and well gossip okay, carry let's gossip okay.
So Sarah, you just you bring a little bit of
gossip here and our goal is to just kind of
like ask the right follow up questions and keep the
gossip ball in the air.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
So hit us with your guys, Sarah.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
Okay, So a lady that I know from high school,
she had a baby with her ex partner when that partner, yes,
so they broke up and when the child was about
six months old, she got a new partner, and then
shortly after that relationship started, she found out she was pregnant,
(07:24):
and unfortunately that relationship had ended, and now she has
another partner.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
Right, my god, Okay, sorry, slow down. What's the goss there?
Speaker 6 (07:37):
The goss is that she's got two or three different
baby daddy.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Have I missed a bit? What's the bit? She's got
pregnant a couple of times.
Speaker 6 (07:48):
Right, yep, yes, two different baby daddies, all within a
two year period, and now she's got a third baby daddy.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Yeah, and I think power to her. I think she's
doing an amazing job. Sure, she's an incredible mother.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
What's that?
Speaker 4 (08:03):
A lot of organizing?
Speaker 7 (08:05):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Right, I don't think that that's all that.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
Like, you know, she's nice in school?
Speaker 6 (08:10):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (08:10):
Was she nice in school?
Speaker 6 (08:12):
She's an amazing person. She's such a great mum.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
And she's still she's still with the third guy. Is
she still with the third guy currently?
Speaker 6 (08:19):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (08:19):
And he is Is he parenting all three of the children?
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Yes? Are the two other guys in the kid's life
that's a good question.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
No, any of them?
Speaker 6 (08:32):
No?
Speaker 3 (08:33):
And is that a bit nasty?
Speaker 6 (08:35):
Not nasty, but just not involved?
Speaker 3 (08:38):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (08:39):
And which one is the best kid?
Speaker 3 (08:41):
Does he?
Speaker 4 (08:42):
Does he prefer his own child more than the others?
Speaker 6 (08:45):
No? No, no, no, definitely not. So he's he's great
with all of the kids. So, yeah, she's very lucky
in that.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
A bitch?
Speaker 3 (08:52):
What a bitch? Is that right? Why she a bitch?
I don't know. I'm trying to the gossip thing.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Man, She's just been a good mother. I thanks Sarah. Hey,
sorry Sarah, before we go.
Speaker 7 (09:02):
What sort of thing you say, like, what a bitch
when they're being a bitch, but being a bitch, she
has just being, you know, exactly exploring with Julia Roberts hearings.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Normal and then you know, and then I tried to
add some spice to it.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
I got frowned upon.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Isn't gossip, you know?
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Sorry, Sarah. I'm from the hip calling people bitches. I
carry carry that car that.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Sorry, I didn't realize seek.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
Alex story about a bitch go on.
Speaker 6 (09:42):
So when I was seventeen, I worked at this hotel
as like a chef, and there was this other chef there.
He was like thirty dog.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
And we got was he hard?
Speaker 3 (09:58):
Did he have a big package?
Speaker 6 (10:02):
He was at Ranger, So nothing against.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
The next.
Speaker 6 (10:08):
I mean, she just gave me a lot of health
space because she's also born ye
My Heart podcasts, hear More Kids podcasts, playlists, and listen
live on the Free I heard a we all love.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
A gossip And apparently, according to a new study, gossip
can be very good for your relationship.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Oh really apparently.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
And this is a study unlike one of those Mickey
Mouse ones that you pull from Vietnam Woods, this is
from the Journal of Science and Personal Relationships. This is
a legit psychological study found that in instances of gossip
amongst partners, it produced incredibly high scores for happiness in
(00:48):
relationship quality.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Is it because you feel better about your relationship when
you're sort of gossiping about other people and like, look,
how look how bad it's going for them? Like, do
we feel stronger now?
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Is that the bit?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
That's one of the things. That's definitely one of the things.
So it affirms to both partners that you're on the
same team when you're talking about other people. So there's
that part of it fostering more communication with you. Gossip
often leads to a really you know, juicy conversation, which
means you're talking rather than not talking.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
I suppose, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
And also it establishes expectations and behaviors within the relationship.
So you're kind of like sussing out within your relationship
via the lens of somebody else. Is that good behavior?
Is that bad behavior?
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Would you like that? Would you not like that? Oh? Fascinating?
It is really really interesting.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
So do you goss with Sem? Of course it's hard
not to like, like, I know, I.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Mean, I think she brings most of the content, though,
if I'm being honest, like when we have it, it's
often just like she's caught up with the girls and
then she's like, here's a bit for you.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
But and then I'm like, great, great, great.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
Then I'm just like I've got yes, or I will
haven't find that.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
I will be sitting on a piece of gossip that
I didn't your lize was gossip, and then Sem will
find out through somebody else the gossip and she'll be
like did you know that? And I'll be like, well, yeah,
I knew that Sally was sleeping with Sean. And then
she's like, why didn't that's great goss? Why didn't you
Why didn't you bring that to the table. It would have
(02:27):
been a great chat for us. And I feel like
that is the that's the complain of a lot of
women in heterosexual relationships. I mean, I'm looking at button
push of tom over here. I'm sure you boys you
bitch the house.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Down, don't you know?
Speaker 2 (02:41):
But interestingly with guys, because within this study, the people
that were found to be in the happiest relationship were
actually female and female couples who produced the greatest amount
of gossip.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Of course, yeah that makes sense.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Yes, so women know how to gossip. I mean we
saw it on the show Sex and the City.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
The whole show was literally built around, you know, those
lunches that needs to have sit down.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
And just spill the tea. And I mean that made
the show very watchable, very successful.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
I'm not I would like to try and buck the
stereotype here.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
You want to train, you want to get better at gossip.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Well, I mean the producers who are all female. Now
the Captain poop Pants is not here. We're getting were surrounded.
Woods were surrounded.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
They are out there gossiping, right, they turn us down
and they start.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Very good. So I think we can gossip. I think
we can lift our game. And I'd like to prove
on behalf of some men that we can gossip.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Yeah, I contribute when when mim brings the content.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
I've got thoughts, your thoughts of crap, manna, they are
they're a big crap. You know, You've got these quirky
things like have you ever thought to yourself, what if
they were on the moon? And you're like, what are you?
Speaker 3 (03:56):
You're not You're not a question.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
You're not on the bit more, mate, You're a tangent.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
I can tangent, Yeah, I can.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
That's good chat. Though, isn't this whole bit about talking
more with your partner? No, you've got to turn until
the cows come home.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
You got to stay on the bit and you got
to make it spicy and well, okay, what oh my god, what.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
If it was happening before we knew? And did you
see the way that he looked?
Speaker 1 (04:16):
You know, like I just follow question? What if we
got some girls to call right now? On thirteen one
oh six five? And I don't know if this is
too spicy, but like, is there any goss in your
life or maybe just bring up some some level of
gossip that was from ages ago, right, doesn't need to
be just in case you don't want to share gossip
(04:37):
on radio, Harry, bring up some great goss that you
had in your life like years ago, maybe even from
like high school.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Oh yeah, that was a great rumor about you in
high school.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
So so you call an old gossip and then and
then we'll just we'll just see if we can sex
in the city with you.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Yes, I'm samanthah obviously, and we'll just see if we're Samantha.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Yeah that checks out with that rumor about.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
You right well, strong and independent anyway, So yeah, bring
the goss lunch on sex in the city.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
I think we'll prove that we can keep the ball
in the air.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
So we're going to try and gossip with some some women.
Ball in the air. Yeah, what's more than that.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
It's keeping the ball in the air, and it's it's
spicing the ball up, you know. Six five, give us
call if you've got some gasp woods and I on
a quest right now to dispel the myth that men.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Are bad gossipers. Study that's found it recently as well.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
And to be honest, my partner is Sami's often frustrated
at my lack of good gear the front or often
I'll come home and be like, you know, oh, you
wouldn't believe it. One of the one of the texts
at work is he's leaving. She's like, I don't know
that best.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
You're even boring me.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
But it was a sad day in the cash anyway,
I don't put a name on now.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
I feel terrible. It was a sad day. Absolutely was
a sad man. So right now, we want.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
To go to gossip boot camp, Will, So we want
to join you guys for a Sex and the City lunch,
which is apparently where the.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Girls on sex and were doing.
Speaker 4 (06:16):
I'm Samantha, You're you're Miranda.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
No, I am not Miranda. You do I am not Miranda.
Can get off it? Well, you just call yourself the
hottest one.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
And I'm on my lunge between Charlotte and Samantha.
Speaker 5 (06:29):
You know, don't touch Charlotte. She you're mound Charlotte. You're
mound Charlotte a bit vanilla. No, I'm Sarah, I'm the star.
I know I'm a rider. I'm a bit of a bitch.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
Like come clearly, I'm Carrie. Let's let's gossip.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Call me Carrie and well gossip okay, carry let's gossip okay.
So Sarah, you just you bring a little bit of
gossip here and our goal is to just kind of
like ask the right follow up questions and keep the
gossip ball in the air.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
So hit us with your guys, Sarah.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
Okay, So a lady that I know from high school,
she had a baby with her ex partner when that partner, yes,
so they broke up and when the child was about
six months old, she got a new partner, and then
shortly after that relationship started, she found out she was pregnant,
(07:24):
and unfortunately that relationship had ended, and now she has
another partner.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
Right, my god, Okay, sorry, slow down. What's the goss there?
Speaker 6 (07:37):
The goss is that she's got two or three different
baby daddy.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Have I missed a bit? What's the bit? She's got
pregnant a couple of times.
Speaker 6 (07:48):
Right, yep, yes, two different baby daddies, all within a
two year period, and now she's got a third baby daddy.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Yeah, and I think power to her. I think she's
doing an amazing job. Sure, she's an incredible mother.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
What's that?
Speaker 4 (08:03):
A lot of organizing?
Speaker 7 (08:05):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Right, I don't think that that's all that.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
Like, you know, she's nice in school?
Speaker 6 (08:10):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (08:10):
Was she nice in school?
Speaker 6 (08:12):
She's an amazing person. She's such a great mum.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
And she's still she's still with the third guy. Is
she still with the third guy currently?
Speaker 6 (08:19):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (08:19):
And he is Is he parenting all three of the children?
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Yes? Are the two other guys in the kid's life
that's a good question.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
No, any of them?
Speaker 6 (08:32):
No?
Speaker 3 (08:33):
And is that a bit nasty?
Speaker 6 (08:35):
Not nasty, but just not involved?
Speaker 3 (08:38):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (08:39):
And which one is the best kid?
Speaker 3 (08:41):
Does he?
Speaker 4 (08:42):
Does he prefer his own child more than the others?
Speaker 6 (08:45):
No? No, no, no, definitely not. So he's he's great
with all of the kids. So, yeah, she's very lucky
in that.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
A bitch?
Speaker 3 (08:52):
What a bitch? Is that right? Why she a bitch?
I don't know. I'm trying to the gossip thing.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Man, She's just been a good mother. I thanks Sarah. Hey,
sorry Sarah, before we go.
Speaker 7 (09:02):
What sort of thing you say, like, what a bitch
when they're being a bitch, but being a bitch, she
has just being, you know, exactly exploring with Julia Roberts hearings.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Normal and then you know, and then I tried to
add some spice to it.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
I got frowned upon.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Isn't gossip, you know?
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Sorry, Sarah. I'm from the hip calling people bitches. I
carry carry that car that.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Sorry, I didn't realize seek.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
Alex story about a bitch go on.
Speaker 6 (09:42):
So when I was seventeen, I worked at this hotel
as like a chef, and there was this other chef there.
He was like thirty dog.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
And we got was he hard?
Speaker 3 (09:58):
Did he have a big package?
Speaker 6 (10:02):
He was at Ranger, So nothing against.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
The next.
Speaker 6 (10:08):
I mean, she just gave me a lot of health
space because she's also born ye
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