September 15, 2025 • 46 mins
- Grossest thing you did as a pregnant woman
- Is Gen Z afraid of being uncomfortable?
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Speaker 1 (00:04):
The Will and Woody Podcast, the grossest thing that you
have done as a pregnant woman, because I do think look,
Sam's pregnant at the moment, and I do think that
she tends to get more, she tends to get grosser.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Oh no, no, well, I don't come again.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Sound, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
I choose your words again, mate, I reckon and choose
your words wisely. I'd say, if you want a home
to go home to tonight, you can stay in my
bed like spare bedroom if you want.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
I want a job to come back to tomorrow.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
Yeah, easy, that's not again.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
It's got nothing to do with her physical appearance. She's beautiful.
She looks amazing, she really does.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
She's glowing. But but but as is my beautiful pregnant wife.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Very I think we've nailed that.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
But I think in terms of the things that she
has the potential to do, she can be quite gross.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Oh yeah, sure, okay, God.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
So it actually came up the other day because we
were on the Wiggles podcast and they were asking about, oh,
you know, how do you find your parents being pregnant,
how do you find your partner's being pregnant, et cetera,
And I said it had just happened that morning.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
One of the grossest things.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
I have been I've ever borne witnessed towards was we
have a drain in our shower which I try and
get them to. Well, it's her job to empty it
because it's her hair that blocks it. Sure, so I'm like,
it's got to be your bag. Anyway, She hadn't done
it for a few weeks because of the pregnancy.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
She vomited in the shower.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
And then that wouldn't go down the drain because it
got clogged in the hair.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Little chewbacker was stuck in.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
They can't even I can't.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
And then rather than reaching down and sorting it out
of herself, she called me in.
Speaker 4 (01:45):
I think that's fair because is she having struggles bending over?
Is she at that stage now where she can't make
give it to her?
Speaker 5 (01:51):
No?
Speaker 6 (01:52):
I think.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Some mobility. Was she vomited, carrying.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
In discomfort and then she made Look, we call her
and get her to explain a little bit of what
happened because it was it was vile.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Okay, sure she might be thinking she's getting scammed, actually scammed. Yes, hello,
it's crazy calling from nabor Wards. I will very funny
I was just ringing because.
Speaker 7 (02:30):
Creek, I.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Was calling because I was talking to you about that
globulous gu of hair and vomit that ended up in
the shower the other day.
Speaker 8 (02:57):
Why do you find that so funny.
Speaker 7 (03:02):
To publicly ask me like that?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
If I'm being fully candid, He told the Wiggles as well.
So all the Wiggles know about your chunky vomit now,
he did, he did, Yeah, I want you to be
a little bit more embarrassing. You're not embarrassed about you.
Speaker 9 (03:27):
I just found it very funny because we all was
so grossed out by it, so grossed out he nearly
started vomiting on the spot.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
And I just find.
Speaker 8 (03:35):
Real grossed out one of the funny things.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
It's the best. It's the best in the world. Will
uncomfortable my favorite. Will.
Speaker 9 (03:41):
Yeah, Will exactly really uncomfortable so much.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
Because I am most comfortable most of the time, I know,
and it's annoying, so like when you're in heat, for example,
when you can't handle the hate.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
I love it. I just love it so much.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
All right?
Speaker 9 (03:54):
Do you.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Do you find it funny when you're gross when you're pregnant?
Speaker 7 (04:02):
What do you mean?
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Well, you know, like you can be a bit grosser
when you're pregnant.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Easy will easy, like physically more gross.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
No, I don't mean physically, I mean like, I mean
like some.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Of the things that you do can be a bit gross,
just eating like whole watermelons at a time. I think
your farts are generally pretty a little bit worse spewing
in the shower.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
With the Yeah.
Speaker 10 (04:31):
Wait, so what was the question.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Let's focus on this. We'll focus on the vomit.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
I heard sim that it wasn't only the vomit that
was disgusting, but also because you've clogged all the plants
with your hair. It was like almost like a vomity
hairy monster that was in.
Speaker 7 (04:48):
The against like the country.
Speaker 11 (04:53):
No, not the kind.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
The ring from the Ring.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
Yeah, great reference, It was the chick and it.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Comes out of the world and it came out of
the drain.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
That's it. That's great.
Speaker 9 (05:10):
Actually, but it was I was quite surprised, very very windy.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Yeah, we might let you go, Sam. That's great.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Thank you, thank you, Oh yeah, thank you, thank you
so much for that.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Bye, goodbye.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Now all right, there you go. So from the Horse's
Mouth really ranked the chick from the Ring. Love to
take some calls from other people, probably other pregnant women,
I think is if if, if they're willing to divulge.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
I'm not saying that.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
I just want to get the language right here, because
it might come across as if I'm saying pregnant women
are gross, which they're not.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
You've got it a bit wrong. Before the song you've
done you have you written something down?
Speaker 3 (05:54):
I just slipped into it. I didn't.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
I just meant to say, yeah, Sam is gross as
in like as a verb, sorry, no as an adjective.
But I'm describing her behavior, not her as a person.
So she's currently pregnant, and I just feel like it
looks beautiful. Absolutely, But she does kind of use it
as an excuse to sort of lean into the fact
that she can be a bit gross. I don't know,
(06:16):
it's almost like a bit of a cart blonde for her. Sure,
I'm pregnant, whatever, don't care. Sure, there's a sense of
like recklessness that comes with it. She's like, you know what,
I'm struggling at the moment or whatever. And then immediately
she kind of finds it funny because it also makes
me uncomfortable and she loves that. Yes, so yesterday, she
made me fish out some I can't say it, some
(06:41):
hair drenched vomit from our shower drain, and that's your role. Well,
I don't know if it was because it was carrying
your child. Was her hair and her vomit.
Speaker 4 (06:51):
Yeah, if she says pick up ms picking up. You
were saying before the song, you don't think there's a
mobility issue there. But as the baby grows make it
gets harder to bend. I actually and I actually ended
up getting it out because she didn't care.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
She was like, I'll just leave it there for a
little bit. And I know that she was playing chicken
with me because she knew that would make me uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
That's very funny. In the shower after sure to put
a glove on, you put a glove on? Yeah, man,
oh that's offensive to your mate.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
That was so that was It was actually like it
was close to the most heinous thing I've ever seen
in my life.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
Yeah, right, Like it was like why I wanted to
go into it. I think we can all imagine it.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
I think I think we've covered a lot. Let's go
to Erica here on thirty one and six five. Erica,
thanks so much for calling I was calling pregnant women.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
Gross, right, I've cleared that.
Speaker 10 (07:40):
Hey, hey, hey, yeah, so I'm being pregnant. Obviously constipation
is a normal thing. Yes, I probably. I think I
didn't go with me on day or two and then
being closly flashed the toilet and I it didn't flash,
(08:01):
and I left my husband a little bit of a
surprise in the.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Morning, little tree.
Speaker 4 (08:05):
I think it's nice to show him though, because I'm
sure he would have been across the constipation would have
been like, there's been a movement and you can go
and check it out. And just on that topic, Erica,
So my wife, this happened in the first pregnancy. It
has started happening again now with this second pregnancy. But yes,
the constipation, it's it's such a real thing. One of
two days. Min would be happy with one to two days,
sometimes three, four, five days. It really started stretching out.
(08:28):
But she has a theory that when she sits on
the toilet and says the Fred Flintstone catch cry, yabadaba
do that it actually moves things along. So, Erica, if
you are struggling with constepation, I'm not sure of the
scientific backing of that, but just just yell at yeabadabado.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
I'll just take of that, just give it a go.
She couldn't believe it.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
She was like, it's happening to Faith there.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Six five Faith talking the grocers. Hello, hello, currently pregnant
or it's only you did in the past.
Speaker 12 (09:05):
Not not currently pregnant. But it was something that happened
when I was pregnant, Okay, Yeah, ended up in the
hospital with gastro. Really horrible and horrible as it is,
let alone when you're pregnant.
Speaker 6 (09:19):
Oh god.
Speaker 5 (09:21):
Yeah, I could not.
Speaker 12 (09:22):
Make it to the toilet obviously to vomit and new boats.
So I'm sitting there pregnant belly's mass is in the
way and you can't make it to the toilet when
you're vomiting so all over the stomach, all over the floor, everywhere.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
That's tough. That's tough.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
In the hospital, Yeah.
Speaker 12 (09:40):
In the hospital. So yeah, no gastro when you're pregnant,
stay away from anyone sick.
Speaker 4 (09:45):
Yeah, so fair hospital. Though the hospital's are saying far
worse than a bit of spufa. It's totally fine place.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
To do it.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
We're gonna be good involvement anywhay, Yeah, we get someone
to clean it up for you.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
Let's just do it so someone.
Speaker 4 (09:57):
Candent mimes other one because obviously so as everyone knows,
finding hair ties like that's just a thing with the females.
It's just like hair ties are everywhere, right, Yeah, But
for mem getting finding the hair ties a bit more
difficult when she gets more pregnant because often the hair tires,
they're scattered around the ground, et cetera. In the morning
when she really needs to put her hair up and
(10:18):
she can't necessarily reach her hair tie, she she can
sometimes not every day put to take a dirty G
string off and use that as a hairtye.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
Wow yea clever actually when you think about it.
Speaker 4 (10:33):
And then every now and then she'll do the daycare
drop off and go oh or just go over the
morning walk to go and get coffee, and it's like,
do I have a G string.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
In my head?
Speaker 4 (10:45):
That's one of those moments where you're like, I think
maybe the lie is better here.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (10:49):
It's going to find out anyway, Yeah, she is. You
just don't want to be the one to break it
to them, that's right, Natalie. Five grossest thing you did
as a pregnant woman.
Speaker 13 (10:58):
Oh yeah, I'm quite in embarrassed with this, and I
just ran in the house to tell my husband what
I'm doing. So was pregnant number four child on the
yacht with my general manager at the time. It was
your weekend.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Working yacht.
Speaker 13 (11:16):
Well it was his yacht, so we were spending the weekend,
and he made it clear to us that we can't
really do number two. You know, if we got to
stop go somewhere. Yeah, I knew that, but you know,
we had a here. I just had a big afternoon
and uncomfortable, did my thing in his toilet and I flush, flush, flush,
Holy cracker, I can't do it. So I sneak out
(11:38):
the back and I'm like, husband, it was overflowing, and
I'm like, honey, I need help. Quietly, can you go
to a toilet? Holy cracker? My husband needs a medal
for this, seriously, because it was blooded when crap in
a whole toilet. He's right, he's looking at me. Just
(12:00):
what I'm doing right now?
Speaker 2 (12:03):
What did you do with it? What did you do with.
Speaker 13 (12:04):
The I don't know what he did.
Speaker 9 (12:06):
He cleaned it.
Speaker 13 (12:07):
He cleaned it. Next minute, like, well, I took a
little bit and I entertained my boss at the time,
so he wouldn't go to the toilet.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
You're distracting your boss.
Speaker 4 (12:15):
He's getting the CQ gamber and like putting it overboard.
Speaker 13 (12:21):
I don't think he knows that he did say yet
to go and get the drain fixed.
Speaker 9 (12:25):
And I'm like, okay, ye, not at all.
Speaker 13 (12:29):
Nobody knows what to say. He doesn't know what happened.
Speaker 10 (12:34):
And oh my god, yeah.
Speaker 13 (12:37):
I am a suirely totally overflower, He's saying, And I
know I am, but this one, I'm embarrassed. Explain that.
Speaker 4 (12:48):
No, Natalie, Natalie, your husband's there. So you were in
the car together just then you heard this bit on
the radio.
Speaker 13 (12:57):
Oh, I just think you know, well, you know well,
you know, as a husband, you've got to give her
a go in, really stand for your wife.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
No, I'm not.
Speaker 4 (13:09):
Apparently, according to this psychologist Lauren Zanatino, there is something
holding back young people.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
So we're talking gen z here between.
Speaker 4 (13:18):
The age of twelve and twenty eight, and apparently it
is a fear of being cringe. So to further define cringe, apparently,
for young people, the fear of going through something embarrassing
or awkward is holding them back.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
I just completely disagree with that.
Speaker 4 (13:40):
I mean, we have one gen Zia, well one particular
gen Za named Annals in this team who I'm going
to be honest and this is no disrespect, but always
embarrassing herself. And I do have some audio to play
you from her life which I very much look forward to.
Class This British actor Owen Cooper, who's the of Adolescence
(14:02):
huge Netflix shows to the Boy in Adolescence. Yes, he
actually just won an Emmy today, he won Outstanding Supporting Actor.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
Get it so again.
Speaker 4 (14:10):
So this this psychologist has said that gen z people
don't that they're too scared to embarrass themselves. This is
what Owen said on stage today.
Speaker 6 (14:18):
Tonight proves that if you listen and you focus, and
you step out your comfort zone, you can achieve. You
can achieve anything in life. I was nothing about three
years ago. I'm here and owls. You just step out
your comfort zone a little bit. Who cares if you
get embarrassed?
Speaker 2 (14:32):
You know he's doing it. He doesn't care.
Speaker 4 (14:34):
I don't know where this psychologist was when he was
going about his life. That's great, but I also want
to such a good message. It's such a good message,
and again, would you agree? I think the kids embarrassed
themselves more than I reckon we're more scared of embarrassment
than the kids the millennials. Have you been on TikTok
like recently? No, I'm not on social media constantly. That's
what it is, just cringe each other out doing really
(14:55):
the idea.
Speaker 3 (14:56):
But that's online. I feel like they feel us online.
I don't know if it's aim in person.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
Might be a difference. Well, I mean talking about analyti.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
Their bulletproof online. I totally agree with that. Is that
an iminy all that sort of stuff?
Speaker 4 (15:07):
That is an interesting difference, isn't it for analyse it's
real life as well?
Speaker 2 (15:11):
So percent again, No, to prove a point that.
Speaker 4 (15:15):
She's great, there's a point to this, torch the psychologist.
This is content again, this is this is why you're
not being held back in life, Analytes, because you are
willing to do these kinds of things. For example, when
she interviewed One Directions or former One Direction member Louis Tomlinson, Yes,
she asked this question.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
In the UK is Christmas a big deal?
Speaker 4 (15:37):
Because I was like, oh, I wonder if they actually
have Christmas lights in their in their like streets or
whether they just like sit.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
In complete darkness during Christmas?
Speaker 3 (15:46):
Like what was I thinking?
Speaker 7 (15:48):
No, yeah, we're doing brace Christmas.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
Must I love that? I love that.
Speaker 4 (15:55):
That's hard to listen to that one ask Louis Tomlinson,
as Christmas is big in the UK that or yeah,
that's why she's good, that's why she's.
Speaker 9 (16:04):
She is.
Speaker 4 (16:05):
Another one she also she shouldn't have revealed this, but
this is when she was a bit younger.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
She used to do a video blog or a vlog.
I think I think, I think was it was this
every day analyse, Yeah, every day for like probably six
to eight months.
Speaker 4 (16:21):
And this is why you're going to succeed in life
because you put yourself out there. She did a vlog
to One Direction for six to eight months, and here's
just a snippet.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
Of that car.
Speaker 11 (16:29):
One Direction puts from my face because it's all embarrassing.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
I've been faced.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
Pony, you can come up and stay in the sho
You wouldn't probably because he probably won't even get this great.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
I have really bad gas problems at the moment we
had Mexicans.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
I love that analyst, I absolutely love it.
Speaker 4 (16:51):
She wanted self Lady Gaga tickets. You want yourself, lady
Gogo tickets.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
The other day A yeah, I did.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
I did a performance to the whole office in like
this sequin dre yes and you know, lips, lips, saying
my way some tickets.
Speaker 3 (17:05):
Laps, thank you, ay all the way to some tickets.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Facts, facts, facts, facts, you put yourself out there. So
again that's just down the way.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
They did a lips in competition an least was the
only one who nted the whole office, the whole opposite there,
and they're like conngestion number one did a who's next?
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Guys?
Speaker 3 (17:21):
No, no, no, no one, no one else was game
enough to do that? Which and she walked away.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
That's the whole point.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
I think the young people are very much willing to
embarrass themselves. So thirteen one oh sixty five, I want
to hear from some young people. Just let us know,
what's the most embarrassing thing you've ever done.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
Let's prove this psychologist wrong.
Speaker 3 (17:41):
Love that woods, love it for jen z n you.
Speaker 4 (17:44):
Go you go live as well, do something really embarrassing
right now.
Speaker 1 (17:47):
On the radio, mate, So I think they will be
live to quote strictly ballroom A life lived in fury
is a life.
Speaker 4 (17:52):
Half lived nice very I think quoting strictly ballroom is
incredibly embarrassing, and that's why you're doing very well.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
I'm not living in here.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
Lemon's calling in a second Furious. That's a great movie.
That's one of the greatest trained movies.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
More you talk about that, the more embarrassing is getting,
isn't that?
Speaker 4 (18:12):
Let's go to Ree's here, because I've actually I've asked
young people to call, and I just want further proof
that the youngins are willing to embarrass themselves.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
So, Reese, how old are your mate?
Speaker 5 (18:26):
Hi, I'm twenty one.
Speaker 4 (18:27):
You're twenty one years old, and do you think you're
someone who's willing to embarrass yourself? I think, so, okay,
what's the most embarrassing thing you've done?
Speaker 9 (18:35):
Well?
Speaker 5 (18:35):
I don't know about the most embarrassing, but I remember
once of something that I consider cringe. Was once I
showed up to like a friend's gathering or something and
I had no clothes whatsoever. But I really wanted to go,
but should I put the shirt that was just like
way too small, And it's just it looked so bad.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
That is really not that embarrassing. Appreciate.
Speaker 3 (19:00):
I think we're just proving.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
That is the qualification of embarrassing for young people.
Speaker 4 (19:07):
Maybe this thing isn't it like they're just you always
were exactly.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
It's like a daily scene. Let's go to hi Riley. Hello,
how old are you? Riley?
Speaker 13 (19:22):
I'm twelve?
Speaker 4 (19:23):
Okay, now, Riley, are you willing to have a laugh
at yourself? You're willing to embarrass yourself. What's something you've done?
Speaker 13 (19:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (19:29):
So I was at war WOI and I was riding
my e bike.
Speaker 4 (19:33):
Sorry mate, you aware woy beautiful spot?
Speaker 2 (19:38):
Yeah, you go on.
Speaker 13 (19:40):
And I was riding my e bike and I crashed
and fell into the water and everyone saw me and
did nothing.
Speaker 3 (19:47):
No, it wasn't deliberate though, Riley, right, I was.
Speaker 10 (19:55):
I was looking at a bird.
Speaker 2 (19:57):
That's pretty embarrassing.
Speaker 3 (19:59):
It's embarrassing again, it's you just had to stack there
like that sucks.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
This is worrying.
Speaker 3 (20:05):
It's accidental. Cringe is cringe.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
I think the definition of cringe is like deliberately going
for something. Yeah, there needs to be a sense of
intention around this thing that you're putting yourself out there.
Speaker 2 (20:17):
Like for example, like calling over is not cringe.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
That's just an accident.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
That's just part of life.
Speaker 4 (20:22):
I think, Like for me, for example, every time I
look at myself in the mirror, I flick myself the bergs.
Speaker 2 (20:27):
I think it looks a bit sexy. That's obviously embarrassing.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
Well, that is embarrassing now that you've revealed it. But
but but again you're doing it. Do it to me, right,
I go side?
Speaker 2 (20:38):
You do the eight mile? Yeah, I look and then
go side on a go bomb.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
That's really strange, really strange.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
Oh my god. And at least does that as well. Yeah, yeah,
just like bomb ready for the day. Let's go to
Jenny here.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
Again, that's the that's just the bar we're expecting in.
Speaker 3 (20:55):
Front of it. Again, that is cringe that you've revealed it.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
But again I think there was differentiating because you do
it in private, it in front of us, putting yourself
out there in front of people, deliberately being uncomfortable with yourself.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
Like when I knew Toboggans. That's probably pretty.
Speaker 4 (21:11):
Bad, and I think that was necessarily cringe, But I
thought it was legendary.
Speaker 3 (21:14):
Yeah, you're right, it was.
Speaker 2 (21:17):
It was Let's go to Jenny. He let's see if
Jenna's going So Jenna I'm not sure.
Speaker 4 (21:21):
If young people have proven that they put themselves out
there and are willing to do cringe things.
Speaker 2 (21:25):
But what's the most cringe thing you've done?
Speaker 11 (21:28):
Wow, this is something that holds me back now. But
when I first got Instagram, I used to like make
my own little songs and I would sing them and
I would post them to there for all my school
friends to see.
Speaker 4 (21:40):
Jenna, to prove that young people are willing to put
themselves out there, I'm gonna need you to sing one
of those songs right now.
Speaker 11 (21:47):
Oh, I could not tell you. I honestly wouldn't know them.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
Shame that I cringe, I reckon.
Speaker 11 (21:54):
That's I definitely got commented on too, Like I knew
for sure that people saw them. And yes, since then,
I don't think I posted anything anymore.
Speaker 1 (22:02):
Yeah, that's really putting yourself out there posting a song
that you've recorded. Is it's social media and online when
gen z is just a little bit more freedom there.
My wife isn't a gen Z, but I know that
when she went through a breakup.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
She's gonna hate me saying this.
Speaker 4 (22:15):
She went through a breakup, so she invited two or
three of her friends over. They got ready like they
were going to have a night out, and then when
stood in front of a blank wall which could have
looked like a nightclub and filled up drinks of alcohol
to make it look like they are out partying having
a good time.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
I'm gonna be in trouble when I get hard right now, though, will.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
Beware of the spend a lot of time on reddits.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
I spent a lot of time on Reddit, and the
producers seeking me bring it up in the meeting room.
So I've got this tiny little five minute spot which
is just not enough gear enough for him. For all
the gear I've got woods, I've got the best gear
of read it from the last week, and.
Speaker 2 (23:00):
I'm the judge of that.
Speaker 4 (23:01):
So you are there's some things you're into which I'm
gonna be honest, most of the population would find incredibly boring.
Speaker 3 (23:08):
And most of the population are uncultured.
Speaker 2 (23:10):
And this is the kind of thing he says.
Speaker 4 (23:12):
So what you need to know is that the buzzer
is uncultured. And that's fine. So if at any point
he gets boring or too in depth or too deep,
I will move your mind.
Speaker 3 (23:20):
If you are liking it, though, what.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
I'm honest, I'm always honest, I got around a lot
of stuff.
Speaker 3 (23:26):
I'm not talking to you, okay, I'm talking people listening.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
If you if you are liking it, hit us up
and it's like, well i'd love to know more about that,
and you know, send it to Kate on the d
MS and she'll tell me and she's loving us.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
It's just a bit of validation for Will if we
could guys.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
I mean, sometimes it's nice to find people who you
know are like minded and they're like, you know, yeah.
Speaker 4 (23:46):
If you're interested in things, community things, you want to
create a community, well, go out and a cult. But
it's not that you'd anyway. I've got to get through,
so just stop distracting me. Distract you? Are you wanted
to start a car?
Speaker 3 (24:02):
No? No, okay, here we go. Okay.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
So yeah, So apparently at Disneyland there is a code
word for when guests attempt to scatter ashes at the
theme park.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
Cool, very cool. So what's the theme? What's the what's
the code word?
Speaker 3 (24:19):
So so it depends on the Disney theme park. People
do that all the time.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
So there's a so that there's an ex Disney cast
member because you know, like the princesses and stuff, one
of them trying to hook up with you on the
show Who Go and Dance at the theme park? Yeah,
the ex Disney princess remember date? What his dad remember
that one?
Speaker 9 (24:35):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (24:35):
Yeah, anyway, so there was it was a radio bit.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
Yeah, she still had to pass.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
Anyway. So there was a woman who.
Speaker 1 (24:42):
Used to work as a Disney princess at Disneyland, and
she said, in at her Disneyland, the code was Grandma,
and then they would request the supervisors to call ghostbusters.
That was that was the that was the code. Yes, anyway,
pull it off you and.
Speaker 4 (25:01):
Me, right, challenge except on it because go and scatter
the rat sashes.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
He would let it. He would love Disneyland.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
Great idea.
Speaker 4 (25:13):
I feel like there'd be an issue and Disney are
very litigious. But yeah, well anyway we could do it.
Let's keep it quiet, now, keep it off their now,
but we'll do that.
Speaker 3 (25:20):
Yeah, okay.
Speaker 1 (25:22):
This kicked off a pretty amazing discussion between lots of
other people who worked at theme parks for the different
codes they used to have at theme parks.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
Oh yeah, give me more.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
So this guy walked and worked it in an Orlando
theme park and he said, the saddest code was an
eight to two. It's eight two eight two, and it
meant that the rider was too large for the seat
that they were trying to get on on the on
the ride, why would you bubbleis on? It was called
an eight too because they ate too much. Yeah, anyway,
(25:50):
it was a prettish I put that on the thread.
Got a bit grubby radio because they have because and
also the other ones go just go No, another one.
Speaker 3 (26:01):
Talking not you.
Speaker 1 (26:02):
So there was another one, buzz disrespectful, Buzzy, you're disrespectful.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
This is a good bit, Buzzy.
Speaker 3 (26:11):
You want to know if they call you, apparently, if they.
Speaker 1 (26:15):
Call you our most treasured guest at any Disney theme park,
that means that you're beat.
Speaker 3 (26:19):
So you're back in.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
That means that you're being like an absolute prick. And
there and they're calling security. Another good one. I know,
I'm on. Okay, here we go. Another one here for you.
Speaker 2 (26:29):
It's still about Disneyland.
Speaker 4 (26:30):
No red Yeah, okay, here we go. Keep up, keep up, No,
you've been rude. Don't buy that feeds you. You don't
feed me. Reddit feeds me in this you know youd.
Speaker 3 (26:44):
It feeds me my bits. Okay, So this is really
cool video going around. I think it was actually filmed
in Australia. You know ring cameras.
Speaker 4 (26:51):
Yes, So these kids are in a band, and well
you can have listen.
Speaker 3 (26:55):
You gotta go and watch the footage for yourself and
have some of the audio.
Speaker 2 (26:58):
Hello, Hi, it's made from next floor. Is it okay
if we use your ring to make a music video?
Speaker 4 (27:04):
Please?
Speaker 9 (27:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (27:06):
I guess.
Speaker 3 (27:07):
Thanks.
Speaker 4 (27:09):
Okay, So they record their band's music video on his
ring camera.
Speaker 3 (27:16):
The whole music video is on his ring camera.
Speaker 2 (27:19):
I don't get it.
Speaker 3 (27:20):
I do you not get that? Sos a ring camera
front door?
Speaker 8 (27:25):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (27:25):
I thought you was one of those cameras with the
big circle light that they use for zoom meetings.
Speaker 3 (27:29):
That's a ring light. So ring camera, so camera, it's
a ring camera. It's a door camera. Mate, I do
not I'm not going to try and keep you up
with pop culture and give you the best to reddit.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
That's too many things. Next, this one's really good. I
want to get this one before the news.
Speaker 3 (27:43):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (27:44):
Two, I want to get to for the news, big one,
big no, No, I'll get too.
Speaker 2 (27:48):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (27:49):
So apparently I'm gonna say I don't have to say
to the firm because bugget case. There's there's a there's
a famous Just listen, there's a famous real estate firm
in Melbourne called Nelson ellen Xander. Okay, okay, now they
are just probably stereotypical real estate firm.
Speaker 3 (28:05):
Sure, just in terms of all.
Speaker 4 (28:06):
Real estate, domestic real estate agencies can.
Speaker 3 (28:08):
Be a bit like this.
Speaker 1 (28:09):
Anyway, this bar, this bar got asked if they could
host Nelson Alexander's Christmas party. Okay, So, Nelson Alexander sent
this email saying, Hi, could you please confirm if you
have a valuability for a Christmas party for forty two
people who would need the whole venue on insert the date.
Speaker 2 (28:23):
Sure?
Speaker 3 (28:23):
Right.
Speaker 4 (28:24):
They posted this on Reddit because this is what they're
emailed back. Hi, Steven, thanks for reaching out. Before confirming
any availabilities for Christian party, we'll need to see copies
of the following Nelson Alexander's bank account statements dating back
fourteen calendar years, previous venue, higher history and assigned static
that Nelson Exlander.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
Staff nor management will engage in any undesirable capitalist tendencies.
Speaker 2 (28:45):
Very good.
Speaker 4 (28:46):
Plus, we will take a bond which will you will
never see again.
Speaker 1 (28:49):
That is goody very popped off that is good star,
that's very good gear it.
Speaker 3 (28:58):
No, they didn't get the last one.
Speaker 4 (29:00):
Last one, I promise, yeah, last like it?
Speaker 2 (29:04):
You like it, you don't like it.
Speaker 1 (29:06):
Weird, but you don't like it. It's actually from the
subreddit weird. Okay, four months after thirty two year old
actress Britney Murphy died.
Speaker 3 (29:14):
Of pneumonia, and.
Speaker 4 (29:18):
You are hell bent like a dog with a bone,
or rather a dog with a fish. No, no, we
we bend. I'm just adding a little bit of class
in this studio. We went out to dinner on Friday night.
It was classy restaurant. Sure there was no taxi Derman
animals on the walls, but I actually.
Speaker 2 (29:34):
I actually it did. I feel I feel.
Speaker 3 (29:37):
Like deep over all the taxa animals table, but.
Speaker 4 (29:40):
I feel like even that restaurant could have benefited from
some taxi German animals on the walls.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
Class So I just think in this radio studio.
Speaker 4 (29:46):
Looks a little bit bland right now, How good would
it be, yeah, to have a taxidermied fish on the wall.
Speaker 2 (29:51):
If you've missed any of the journey, have listened to this.
Speaker 4 (29:54):
I love the idea of having a taxidermy animal in
the studio.
Speaker 13 (29:58):
It is a tw two year old goldfish who's probably
twenty five centimeters long, and he's been in a freezer
for about three weeks.
Speaker 4 (30:08):
Taxidermy extraordinary, Hannah, can your taxidermy fish?
Speaker 13 (30:14):
You certainly can't. Taxidermy actually just means movement of this skin,
so we're moving the skin onto an artificial form.
Speaker 4 (30:23):
Really need someone who's going to be driving from Sydney
to Melbourne. I would do it to you, boys, I've
been listening for It is absolutely a lot of everything
that you guys do. Oh, Harry got a soldier and
Harry he joins us on the phone right now. Harry
just wanted to confirm my friend that you are available
(30:45):
and willing to go and pick up a fish from Sydney.
Speaker 5 (30:48):
I'm so sorry, boys, I couldn't move a couple of
things around. Like I said, I've got work and I
can't do it for you.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
Harry.
Speaker 4 (30:55):
Harry, Harry, Harry, Harry. It I remind you how important
this show is to you. Did it did feel like
last time we spoke you you spoke at length about
how much you love Will and I and how much
you wan to do for the show.
Speaker 2 (31:07):
What are we talking? Would it be a horrible offense
to skip work this week.
Speaker 8 (31:12):
It very much could be.
Speaker 5 (31:15):
I've asked every single person that I can.
Speaker 4 (31:18):
I can't take you off. I'm so sorry, boy, it's mate,
it's okay, it's okay. If there's any guilt there, I
really don't want you to feel awful about that.
Speaker 1 (31:27):
I mean, yeah, we don't need to feel awful. We
will blacklist you from going the show again, Harry.
Speaker 2 (31:32):
We won't do that. We love your work, Harry.
Speaker 4 (31:36):
But if you can spend the week now looking for
a replacement, it's fine. No, it's fine, absolutely, Harry. You're
an absolute legend. Mate, will send you a mug or something,
or we'll send you some stuff.
Speaker 2 (31:48):
Harry. You're a good man. You're a good man. Thanks
for coming on the show. Too easy.
Speaker 9 (31:53):
Thank you boys.
Speaker 8 (31:54):
I promise I'll still listen.
Speaker 4 (31:55):
Thank you, Harry, Thank Youank you so much, Thank you
my god, Harry.
Speaker 3 (32:02):
Okay, so when did we know this?
Speaker 2 (32:06):
When did we know that Harry was out today? Like
an hour ago? Were just I just.
Speaker 4 (32:11):
Feel like we're behind the eight ball now. I wanted
this fish picked up on the weekend. Okay, fels we're nowhere,
so we drop it. No, no, no. Now, Unfortunately Australia,
we're spending the entire week. I wanted this wrapped up
like tomorrow. I wanted to fish in the studio today.
Was Harry busy on the weekend. I'm going to stop hammering, Harry.
Speaker 1 (32:29):
We could just buy a taxad like a pre taxidermy
fish boring will okay?
Speaker 2 (32:34):
Boring, Okay, Okay, I'm just I'm just so boring.
Speaker 3 (32:37):
I knew you'd be like this.
Speaker 1 (32:38):
This is why I was trying to say, like your
hell beend on this, and I was just like, well,
you know, well okay. I was just trying to coax
you out of it a little bit. And that's a
bad tactic with you. No, no coax I forgot how
prior you, how proud you are. I still want that fish. Okay,
So well I did this. I did this last week.
You wouldn't even know if it was if it was
another fish, I would You wouldn't know.
Speaker 2 (32:56):
It's twenty five centimeters and it's a goldfish, so don't.
Speaker 4 (32:59):
You it's I'm just saying, can we think of other options?
Speaker 2 (33:03):
No, it's a lot. I don't like other options.
Speaker 4 (33:07):
But if you're telling me right now that we are
incapable as a national drive show to get a frozen
fish from city to city. I mean that that's very disappointing.
Speaker 3 (33:15):
Yeah, look, look I tend to agree with you, but
I just know we.
Speaker 2 (33:18):
Put a man on the moon.
Speaker 4 (33:19):
We put a man on the moon sixty five years
that we didn't imagine if Neil Armstrong said to NASA, hey, guys,
do you mind if I get a frozen fish up
there dreck? And they would have said we can't do that,
Neil probably, Yeah, right, Okay, what a bad example. That's
a bad example.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
But okay do I have had a chat with the
producers before, and I think they're stretched.
Speaker 3 (33:36):
They've tried all weekend. We worked all weekend.
Speaker 2 (33:39):
Did you Oh you were hungover after a big party
on I was very hungover. I had a tough weekend.
Speaker 3 (33:44):
I was also very hungover.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
That's very tough.
Speaker 4 (33:47):
Maybe a little bit of that impatience is coming through
the radio. I've got a baby coming. I can't leave
the state. That's now, I can't. I saw my ob
this morning. I can't leave.
Speaker 3 (33:56):
I told you, I told you you can't leave.
Speaker 2 (33:59):
Right. I'm going to pay for a courier.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
A courier.
Speaker 2 (34:03):
Yeah, and when I say I pay, will provide.
Speaker 6 (34:08):
It is.
Speaker 2 (34:08):
I'm getting a courier. I'm getting.
Speaker 1 (34:10):
Well, we're just open the phone lines now and see
if anyone else Am I allowed to do that?
Speaker 3 (34:14):
Open the phone lines?
Speaker 2 (34:15):
Yeah? Well, if you're shut up, for sure, I'm not
going to shut up.
Speaker 4 (34:18):
I will continue about it all weak because I can
do this personally in private.
Speaker 1 (34:22):
I would like now, thirty one and six five, are
you driving from city in Melbourne?
Speaker 3 (34:27):
Can you take a frozen fish?
Speaker 2 (34:29):
Perfect?
Speaker 3 (34:30):
Let's do it again.
Speaker 2 (34:31):
Perfect. It does feel like we're in last but that's fine.
Hey's fine. Two steps backwards, one step forwards.
Speaker 3 (34:36):
Let's do it.
Speaker 1 (34:36):
That's what we've done so far. Okay, well no, we're
just on the two steps back bit. But let's technicals.
We haven't done the step forward. We're mid step.
Speaker 2 (34:45):
Again. The dream for me is that you're already planning
on driving from.
Speaker 4 (34:49):
City Melbourne fish in your car.
Speaker 3 (34:52):
Someone incidental, Yes, yes, driving to okay.
Speaker 4 (35:02):
Thirteen six five who's driving from Sydney Melbourne and wants
to bring with them a fish.
Speaker 2 (35:06):
Finally you're on board. Thank you.
Speaker 3 (35:08):
No, no, I'm just doing my job.
Speaker 4 (35:09):
Man.
Speaker 3 (35:09):
Now, I'm just back.
Speaker 2 (35:10):
Now, that is not your job. It is my job.
Speaker 3 (35:13):
That's my job.
Speaker 6 (35:16):
This is the bit.
Speaker 2 (35:17):
You're not going to say it with passion passion.
Speaker 3 (35:20):
I did feel it.
Speaker 2 (35:21):
I didn't feel it well.
Speaker 4 (35:22):
So look, yes, as Bill said that, I do want
to confirm that he is right. We're looking for someone
to pick up a frozen fish in Sydney and then
drive it to Melbourne. You're probably gonna need like an
eskie or so. I've never moved a frozen dead animal
before that. It's not shocking first, that'd be a first.
(35:43):
But look, I am just looking for someone to do
us a huge favor here because we want to get
that fish in this studio and then get it taxidermed.
Speaker 2 (35:53):
Then we'll have a taxidermed fish on.
Speaker 4 (35:56):
The wall here in the studio, and I just think
that will give the studio a certain amount of X factor.
I mean, we'll let me let me ask this question.
How many other drive radio shows in this country right
now have a taxidermed fish.
Speaker 2 (36:09):
On the wall? How many?
Speaker 9 (36:12):
Well?
Speaker 2 (36:12):
None, but I don't you go there.
Speaker 4 (36:14):
That's all the answer. That's our X factor. So you know,
if Lady gard Girls, Lady Gargar's coming at the end
of the year, right and her team's going okay, look,
you've got time for one radio interview.
Speaker 2 (36:25):
You go, okay, Well, tell me a bit about the shows.
No worries x y Z blah blah blah. Actually Will
and Woody the show.
Speaker 4 (36:31):
There, they've got a taxi fish on the wall before
they even finish. Guard goes book it. Let's go to
Bron here. I'm six five. I can't believe everyone knew
where you were going when you started that story.
Speaker 3 (36:46):
And I want I want that good seconds, good.
Speaker 2 (36:49):
Finish, Bron.
Speaker 4 (36:51):
The only hurdle I've got is that I need the
fish delivered from Sydney to Melbourne.
Speaker 2 (36:55):
Can you do it for me?
Speaker 3 (36:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (36:57):
Look boys, we can.
Speaker 9 (36:59):
It's our wedding and three and my mom my husband
surprised me with a trip to the opera at the
Opera House. So we're flying out Thursday night. We're back
Saturday afternoon.
Speaker 10 (37:09):
I can pick up your fish to put him.
Speaker 9 (37:13):
On ice and put him on the carry on and
Bob your uncle.
Speaker 2 (37:16):
So you Bron, so just to confirm you would be
happy to have a frozen fish on ice in your
carry on.
Speaker 9 (37:23):
I'm happy to do anything for you too.
Speaker 2 (37:25):
Ron, Bloody love you. That is absolutely a couple of.
Speaker 1 (37:30):
Questions marks over taking a frozen fish on a plane,
which we.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Do not need to answer that.
Speaker 3 (37:34):
Well, no we do because we can't.
Speaker 1 (37:36):
We can't send bron into it, into a death trap.
Speaker 4 (37:39):
We'll do our due diligence there about it?
Speaker 8 (37:43):
Google?
Speaker 2 (37:44):
Are you Google? You're already good and we're good. We're
good to go.
Speaker 9 (37:47):
Yeah, look, I think it'll be all right.
Speaker 2 (37:50):
I like it. I'm willing to go with I think
it'll be all right.
Speaker 1 (37:55):
Not if we're going to the effort here. Let's just
do our due diligence. I'm sure we'll be able to
speak to she googled.
Speaker 3 (38:01):
Yes, I know, but like we don't work because then
if the fish ends up in an airport loss and found,
you're going to be, oh, how do we get the
fish out of there? You know I'm doing that tomorrow
thirty one and six five? Do you work at the
I mean, Katrina's killed.
Speaker 2 (38:15):
By the journey, not the destination.
Speaker 4 (38:17):
Let's go to Katrina here, Katrina, whoa, here we go.
I mean, I hate to make this a competition, but Katrina,
am I riding saying that you are driving from Sydney
to Melbourne tomorrow?
Speaker 7 (38:28):
Yeah, we can I've been listening and I was so
excited to hear about the other gentleman who was going
to drive for Melbourne.
Speaker 5 (38:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (38:35):
No, I thought, I've got my son in the car
and he loves you, always thinks the Will and the
Will and Woody jingle, and I said, let's oll bring
up he's going no note, he's one of those gen
Z thirteen year olds who think that he's so embarrassed
to do anything you like.
Speaker 11 (38:49):
Let's just do it.
Speaker 4 (38:50):
You can meet Will and Hoody. Yeah, buddy, get a photo,
get a photo with us.
Speaker 2 (38:55):
We'll give you. We'll give you heaps some move Okay.
Speaker 4 (38:58):
So just to confirm though, Katrina, So you and your son,
you and your son are open to picking up a fish, probably.
Speaker 2 (39:04):
Tomorrow tomorrow morning.
Speaker 4 (39:06):
Yeah, if you can, if you can. Obviously, I don't
want to get to push you, but.
Speaker 7 (39:11):
I think dry ice will probably be the best.
Speaker 4 (39:13):
Bet a trader. You're a weapon, yeah, bloody, that is
super cold.
Speaker 6 (39:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (39:18):
And then we get a bit of a smoke show
when you bring the fish into the studio. Nice, Katrina. Look,
I'm going to pass you on to the producers just
to deal with all the details to do. But I've
done my job. I reckon, we might have a fish
will in the studio.
Speaker 1 (39:36):
Okay, tomorrow around, turn around, two steps back, one step forward, maybe.
Speaker 2 (39:43):
Katrina around a thirteen year old boy? Unreal? What a
road trip on dry ice, mother and son unreal.
Speaker 3 (39:49):
I don't know what that's going to do with it.
Speaker 4 (39:51):
But yeah, this is a great bonding moment for the
two of them, which leads to us and the fish tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (39:56):
Yeah, man, that's wild.
Speaker 1 (39:57):
All right, jeez le me, I'm back, as in maybe
I'm enjoying this bit again?
Speaker 2 (40:03):
Are you having to go drive over?
Speaker 3 (40:04):
Swiller? This sounds like we're an academic show.
Speaker 2 (40:09):
We're not.
Speaker 1 (40:10):
But there's this fascinating study from La Trobe University which
you're talking about, which actually concerns sex education for kids.
Speaker 3 (40:15):
So have you got kids who want to listen up?
Or actually, just if you're.
Speaker 1 (40:18):
A dude and you had a really weird sex education,
you also probably want to listen up because the study
found out that there's a huge gap in dad's giving
sex education to their kids and as a result, there
are hugely concerning results for young boys.
Speaker 3 (40:33):
And talk a little bit more about.
Speaker 1 (40:34):
This, doctor Justinson Coolson joins us again on Willem Woody.
Speaker 3 (40:38):
Welcome doctor Justin Win you guys, great to have you
on here.
Speaker 2 (40:41):
Mate.
Speaker 1 (40:42):
So I understand that you are actually in the middle
of writing a book and you've you've just finished writing
a chapter on this.
Speaker 8 (40:48):
Yeah, I'm writing a book about boys, will be out
early next year. You at the publisher at the end
of this week. So I'm under the puth. When I
got the call, I was like, I've got to talk about.
Speaker 1 (40:57):
This all right, Great, well, we appreciate the time, mate.
So I imagine you've probably come across this study in
your research.
Speaker 3 (41:02):
Then what is this?
Speaker 1 (41:04):
How is dad's not affecting not talking to young boys
about sex affecting them?
Speaker 8 (41:12):
This is such a tricky one to answer, guys, but
fundamentally what's happening is the load is falling on mum's
dads are shirking it and especially for our boys. So
here's some status that will blow your mind. Australian child
male treatment study published last year, probably the best study
of it's kind, certainly in Australia, maybe one of the
best in the world, found that twenty eight and a
half percent twenty eight and a half percent, nearly a
(41:34):
third of Australian has experienced childhood sexual abuse. Female thirty
seven point three percent, males eighteen point eight percent. So
girls twice is liking to abuse as boys. But just
pause on that for a sect. That means one in
five boys as well are experiencing sexual assault in the lives.
These are really big numbers, and a lot of this
happens because we're not talking about consent, we're not talking
about sex, we're not talking about sexual violence when we're
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actually not having the conversation. There's another really critical thing
to highlight here in research where boys, teenage boys are
interviewed about this. As much as they pretend that they
don't care, they don't want to know, and they know
it all already, they actually consistently say that they want
to hear about it specifically from their dad.
Speaker 2 (42:15):
Yeah, and so why is it important justin for the dads?
Speaker 4 (42:18):
Do you think to be doing this rather than mum?
Speaker 8 (42:22):
I think, as I'm writing this book about boys, one
of the key things that anthropologists, sociologists, psychologist, pretty much
everyone agrees on is masculinity is learnt by watching other men.
Masculinity is not playing that we just become. We actually
have to watch other men do it, and there's probably not.
Probably there's no relationship more important than the sexual relationship,
(42:42):
the intimate relationship, the partner relationship between the mum and dad,
between a husband and wife, between the people who are
biologically creating their offspring. And so when a kid, when
a sixteen year old or a fourteen year old or
an eleven year old boy sits down with his dad
and he's able to talk to his child about that
procreative process and about things like consent, it just changes
(43:05):
the game and time an ambassador for the federal governments
teachers consent can't wait campaign, and we're just we're having
this conversation all wrong, guys, We're having it all wrong.
And that accounts for why so many kids are struggling
with it so much.
Speaker 3 (43:18):
It's real.
Speaker 1 (43:19):
It feels like there's a real lack of soft male
leaders in general, let alone in a sort of micro
climate of a family where it's probably most influential and
most needed.
Speaker 8 (43:36):
I don't even know if softs the right word, Like
the definition that I've settled on to what masculinity is.
Healthy masculinity is good men help the people around them,
especially if it's all weaker they help them feel safer
and stronger. And so what there is acknowledgement that as
a man, the average man is stronger the ninety nine
(43:58):
percent of females. I'm pretty much any any measure of
strength that can come up with, right, So, if you've
got that strength and you're in an intimate situation with
a partner, you've got you've got the you've got the
capacity to physically coerce or emotionally psychologically coerce. But if
you're the kind of person who says no, no, no, my
job here is to help you to feel safer and stronger.
So it's not about softness as much as it's about
(44:19):
tenderness and being willing to be considerate. I think consideration
is just so lacking here.
Speaker 2 (44:27):
Yeah, right, that's really interesting.
Speaker 4 (44:29):
Just to go back on the sexual education ing doctor
justin saying that I'm sure boys might do in their
teen years if their dad isn't having that sex talk
with them, is go online and try and learn about
sex through the internet.
Speaker 2 (44:44):
What would the dangers of that be?
Speaker 8 (44:47):
Pornography is the number one sex educator of our young
people today in our society. And while I'm not a
consumer of it, and I know that many adults works
of the show aren't. There's plenty of people who are
as well, and they will tell you right away that
pornography is not for children. The average exposure we think,
I mean, it varies by culture, it varies by gender,
it varies by a whole lot of other factors, but
on average, we think it's about eleven maybe twelve. So
(45:09):
you think about you think about the content that kids
are being exposed to with online pornography, and they're having
that sexual.
Speaker 3 (45:16):
Scripture written for them.
Speaker 8 (45:18):
Like the average first kiss, average first kiss is fifteen,
So by the time they had that first kiss, that've
had three years of scripting around what it's supposed to be,
what that relationship is supposed to look like. And again,
do you know what, guys, this is my biggest message
of all. A lot of parents don't want to talk
about sex and intimacy with their kids because they're like, oh,
(45:39):
the kids already thinks they know, and it's awkward and
what am I going to say?
Speaker 10 (45:43):
But we're saying the wrong.
Speaker 8 (45:43):
Stuff because we say, oh, you've got to use a
condom and you've got to make sure that you're being
careful and all that sort of stuff. The conversation needs
to be this sex is awesome and I can't wait
for you to have it at the right time, with
the right person, in the right place, for the right reason.
And if you can tick those boxes, it's going to
be great. But if it's not, if you're not ticking
those four boxes, it's not the right time, not the
(46:06):
right place, not the right person, not the right reason,
then don't do it.
Speaker 3 (46:09):
I love that that sex is awesome.
Speaker 2 (46:12):
Don't demonize sex.
Speaker 1 (46:14):
This is a man to remove the fear factor which
is so huge, Doctor Justin Coilson.
Speaker 3 (46:20):
That is really awesome info. I know you're very busy.
What's the book called, mate, when's it out?
Speaker 8 (46:25):
The book? Well, I think it's going to be called
Boys that's the working Table.
Speaker 2 (46:28):
Okay, nice early next year.
Speaker 8 (46:31):
Keep an eye on it. Happy families dot com. Do
you you can sign up for notifications for when it
comes out?
Speaker 2 (46:35):
Awesome?
Speaker 5 (46:36):
Mate?
Speaker 3 (46:36):
All right, mate, thanks so much for coming on the show.
Speaker 1 (46:38):
They're fascinating insights and what's an incredibly difficult issues, so
hopefully that'll be really helpful.
Speaker 8 (46:42):
I love talking to you guys.
Speaker 2 (46:43):
See you mate, mate,
The Will and Woody Podcast, the grossest thing that you
have done as a pregnant woman, because I do think look,
Sam's pregnant at the moment, and I do think that
she tends to get more, she tends to get grosser.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Oh no, no, well, I don't come again.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Sound, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
I choose your words again, mate, I reckon and choose
your words wisely. I'd say, if you want a home
to go home to tonight, you can stay in my
bed like spare bedroom if you want.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
I want a job to come back to tomorrow.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
Yeah, easy, that's not again.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
It's got nothing to do with her physical appearance. She's beautiful.
She looks amazing, she really does.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
She's glowing. But but but as is my beautiful pregnant wife.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Very I think we've nailed that.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
But I think in terms of the things that she
has the potential to do, she can be quite gross.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Oh yeah, sure, okay, God.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
So it actually came up the other day because we
were on the Wiggles podcast and they were asking about, oh,
you know, how do you find your parents being pregnant,
how do you find your partner's being pregnant, et cetera,
And I said it had just happened that morning.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
One of the grossest things.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
I have been I've ever borne witnessed towards was we
have a drain in our shower which I try and
get them to. Well, it's her job to empty it
because it's her hair that blocks it. Sure, so I'm like,
it's got to be your bag. Anyway, She hadn't done
it for a few weeks because of the pregnancy.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
She vomited in the shower.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
And then that wouldn't go down the drain because it
got clogged in the hair.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Little chewbacker was stuck in.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
They can't even I can't.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
And then rather than reaching down and sorting it out
of herself, she called me in.
Speaker 4 (01:45):
I think that's fair because is she having struggles bending over?
Is she at that stage now where she can't make
give it to her?
Speaker 5 (01:51):
No?
Speaker 6 (01:52):
I think.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Some mobility. Was she vomited, carrying.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
In discomfort and then she made Look, we call her
and get her to explain a little bit of what
happened because it was it was vile.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Okay, sure she might be thinking she's getting scammed, actually scammed. Yes, hello,
it's crazy calling from nabor Wards. I will very funny
I was just ringing because.
Speaker 7 (02:30):
Creek, I.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Was calling because I was talking to you about that
globulous gu of hair and vomit that ended up in
the shower the other day.
Speaker 8 (02:57):
Why do you find that so funny.
Speaker 7 (03:02):
To publicly ask me like that?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
If I'm being fully candid, He told the Wiggles as well.
So all the Wiggles know about your chunky vomit now,
he did, he did, Yeah, I want you to be
a little bit more embarrassing. You're not embarrassed about you.
Speaker 9 (03:27):
I just found it very funny because we all was
so grossed out by it, so grossed out he nearly
started vomiting on the spot.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
And I just find.
Speaker 8 (03:35):
Real grossed out one of the funny things.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
It's the best. It's the best in the world. Will
uncomfortable my favorite. Will.
Speaker 9 (03:41):
Yeah, Will exactly really uncomfortable so much.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
Because I am most comfortable most of the time, I know,
and it's annoying, so like when you're in heat, for example,
when you can't handle the hate.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
I love it. I just love it so much.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
All right?
Speaker 9 (03:54):
Do you.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Do you find it funny when you're gross when you're pregnant?
Speaker 7 (04:02):
What do you mean?
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Well, you know, like you can be a bit grosser
when you're pregnant.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Easy will easy, like physically more gross.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
No, I don't mean physically, I mean like, I mean
like some.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Of the things that you do can be a bit gross,
just eating like whole watermelons at a time. I think
your farts are generally pretty a little bit worse spewing
in the shower.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
With the Yeah.
Speaker 10 (04:31):
Wait, so what was the question.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Let's focus on this. We'll focus on the vomit.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
I heard sim that it wasn't only the vomit that
was disgusting, but also because you've clogged all the plants
with your hair. It was like almost like a vomity
hairy monster that was in.
Speaker 7 (04:48):
The against like the country.
Speaker 11 (04:53):
No, not the kind.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
The ring from the Ring.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
Yeah, great reference, It was the chick and it.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Comes out of the world and it came out of
the drain.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
That's it. That's great.
Speaker 9 (05:10):
Actually, but it was I was quite surprised, very very windy.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Yeah, we might let you go, Sam. That's great.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Thank you, thank you, Oh yeah, thank you, thank you
so much for that.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Bye, goodbye.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Now all right, there you go. So from the Horse's
Mouth really ranked the chick from the Ring. Love to
take some calls from other people, probably other pregnant women,
I think is if if, if they're willing to divulge.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
I'm not saying that.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
I just want to get the language right here, because
it might come across as if I'm saying pregnant women
are gross, which they're not.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
You've got it a bit wrong. Before the song you've
done you have you written something down?
Speaker 3 (05:54):
I just slipped into it. I didn't.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
I just meant to say, yeah, Sam is gross as
in like as a verb, sorry, no as an adjective.
But I'm describing her behavior, not her as a person.
So she's currently pregnant, and I just feel like it
looks beautiful. Absolutely, But she does kind of use it
as an excuse to sort of lean into the fact
that she can be a bit gross. I don't know,
(06:16):
it's almost like a bit of a cart blonde for her. Sure,
I'm pregnant, whatever, don't care. Sure, there's a sense of
like recklessness that comes with it. She's like, you know what,
I'm struggling at the moment or whatever. And then immediately
she kind of finds it funny because it also makes
me uncomfortable and she loves that. Yes, so yesterday, she
made me fish out some I can't say it, some
(06:41):
hair drenched vomit from our shower drain, and that's your role. Well,
I don't know if it was because it was carrying
your child. Was her hair and her vomit.
Speaker 4 (06:51):
Yeah, if she says pick up ms picking up. You
were saying before the song, you don't think there's a
mobility issue there. But as the baby grows make it
gets harder to bend. I actually and I actually ended
up getting it out because she didn't care.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
She was like, I'll just leave it there for a
little bit. And I know that she was playing chicken
with me because she knew that would make me uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
That's very funny. In the shower after sure to put
a glove on, you put a glove on? Yeah, man,
oh that's offensive to your mate.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
That was so that was It was actually like it
was close to the most heinous thing I've ever seen
in my life.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
Yeah, right, Like it was like why I wanted to
go into it. I think we can all imagine it.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
I think I think we've covered a lot. Let's go
to Erica here on thirty one and six five. Erica,
thanks so much for calling I was calling pregnant women.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
Gross, right, I've cleared that.
Speaker 10 (07:40):
Hey, hey, hey, yeah, so I'm being pregnant. Obviously constipation
is a normal thing. Yes, I probably. I think I
didn't go with me on day or two and then
being closly flashed the toilet and I it didn't flash,
(08:01):
and I left my husband a little bit of a
surprise in the.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Morning, little tree.
Speaker 4 (08:05):
I think it's nice to show him though, because I'm
sure he would have been across the constipation would have
been like, there's been a movement and you can go
and check it out. And just on that topic, Erica,
So my wife, this happened in the first pregnancy. It
has started happening again now with this second pregnancy. But yes,
the constipation, it's it's such a real thing. One of
two days. Min would be happy with one to two days,
sometimes three, four, five days. It really started stretching out.
(08:28):
But she has a theory that when she sits on
the toilet and says the Fred Flintstone catch cry, yabadaba
do that it actually moves things along. So, Erica, if
you are struggling with constepation, I'm not sure of the
scientific backing of that, but just just yell at yeabadabado.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
I'll just take of that, just give it a go.
She couldn't believe it.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
She was like, it's happening to Faith there.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Six five Faith talking the grocers. Hello, hello, currently pregnant
or it's only you did in the past.
Speaker 12 (09:05):
Not not currently pregnant. But it was something that happened
when I was pregnant, Okay, Yeah, ended up in the
hospital with gastro. Really horrible and horrible as it is,
let alone when you're pregnant.
Speaker 6 (09:19):
Oh god.
Speaker 5 (09:21):
Yeah, I could not.
Speaker 12 (09:22):
Make it to the toilet obviously to vomit and new boats.
So I'm sitting there pregnant belly's mass is in the
way and you can't make it to the toilet when
you're vomiting so all over the stomach, all over the floor, everywhere.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
That's tough. That's tough.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
In the hospital, Yeah.
Speaker 12 (09:40):
In the hospital. So yeah, no gastro when you're pregnant,
stay away from anyone sick.
Speaker 4 (09:45):
Yeah, so fair hospital. Though the hospital's are saying far
worse than a bit of spufa. It's totally fine place.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
To do it.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
We're gonna be good involvement anywhay, Yeah, we get someone
to clean it up for you.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
Let's just do it so someone.
Speaker 4 (09:57):
Candent mimes other one because obviously so as everyone knows,
finding hair ties like that's just a thing with the females.
It's just like hair ties are everywhere, right, Yeah, But
for mem getting finding the hair ties a bit more
difficult when she gets more pregnant because often the hair tires,
they're scattered around the ground, et cetera. In the morning
when she really needs to put her hair up and
(10:18):
she can't necessarily reach her hair tie, she she can
sometimes not every day put to take a dirty G
string off and use that as a hairtye.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
Wow yea clever actually when you think about it.
Speaker 4 (10:33):
And then every now and then she'll do the daycare
drop off and go oh or just go over the
morning walk to go and get coffee, and it's like,
do I have a G string.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
In my head?
Speaker 4 (10:45):
That's one of those moments where you're like, I think
maybe the lie is better here.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (10:49):
It's going to find out anyway, Yeah, she is. You
just don't want to be the one to break it
to them, that's right, Natalie. Five grossest thing you did
as a pregnant woman.
Speaker 13 (10:58):
Oh yeah, I'm quite in embarrassed with this, and I
just ran in the house to tell my husband what
I'm doing. So was pregnant number four child on the
yacht with my general manager at the time. It was
your weekend.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Working yacht.
Speaker 13 (11:16):
Well it was his yacht, so we were spending the weekend,
and he made it clear to us that we can't
really do number two. You know, if we got to
stop go somewhere. Yeah, I knew that, but you know,
we had a here. I just had a big afternoon
and uncomfortable, did my thing in his toilet and I flush, flush, flush,
Holy cracker, I can't do it. So I sneak out
(11:38):
the back and I'm like, husband, it was overflowing, and
I'm like, honey, I need help. Quietly, can you go
to a toilet? Holy cracker? My husband needs a medal
for this, seriously, because it was blooded when crap in
a whole toilet. He's right, he's looking at me. Just
(12:00):
what I'm doing right now?
Speaker 2 (12:03):
What did you do with it? What did you do with.
Speaker 13 (12:04):
The I don't know what he did.
Speaker 9 (12:06):
He cleaned it.
Speaker 13 (12:07):
He cleaned it. Next minute, like, well, I took a
little bit and I entertained my boss at the time,
so he wouldn't go to the toilet.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
You're distracting your boss.
Speaker 4 (12:15):
He's getting the CQ gamber and like putting it overboard.
Speaker 13 (12:21):
I don't think he knows that he did say yet
to go and get the drain fixed.
Speaker 9 (12:25):
And I'm like, okay, ye, not at all.
Speaker 13 (12:29):
Nobody knows what to say. He doesn't know what happened.
Speaker 10 (12:34):
And oh my god, yeah.
Speaker 13 (12:37):
I am a suirely totally overflower, He's saying, And I
know I am, but this one, I'm embarrassed. Explain that.
Speaker 4 (12:48):
No, Natalie, Natalie, your husband's there. So you were in
the car together just then you heard this bit on
the radio.
Speaker 13 (12:57):
Oh, I just think you know, well, you know well,
you know, as a husband, you've got to give her
a go in, really stand for your wife.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
No, I'm not.
Speaker 4 (13:09):
Apparently, according to this psychologist Lauren Zanatino, there is something
holding back young people.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
So we're talking gen z here between.
Speaker 4 (13:18):
The age of twelve and twenty eight, and apparently it
is a fear of being cringe. So to further define cringe, apparently,
for young people, the fear of going through something embarrassing
or awkward is holding them back.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
I just completely disagree with that.
Speaker 4 (13:40):
I mean, we have one gen Zia, well one particular
gen Za named Annals in this team who I'm going
to be honest and this is no disrespect, but always
embarrassing herself. And I do have some audio to play
you from her life which I very much look forward to.
Class This British actor Owen Cooper, who's the of Adolescence
(14:02):
huge Netflix shows to the Boy in Adolescence. Yes, he
actually just won an Emmy today, he won Outstanding Supporting Actor.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
Get it so again.
Speaker 4 (14:10):
So this this psychologist has said that gen z people
don't that they're too scared to embarrass themselves. This is
what Owen said on stage today.
Speaker 6 (14:18):
Tonight proves that if you listen and you focus, and
you step out your comfort zone, you can achieve. You
can achieve anything in life. I was nothing about three
years ago. I'm here and owls. You just step out
your comfort zone a little bit. Who cares if you
get embarrassed?
Speaker 2 (14:32):
You know he's doing it. He doesn't care.
Speaker 4 (14:34):
I don't know where this psychologist was when he was
going about his life. That's great, but I also want
to such a good message. It's such a good message,
and again, would you agree? I think the kids embarrassed
themselves more than I reckon we're more scared of embarrassment
than the kids the millennials. Have you been on TikTok
like recently? No, I'm not on social media constantly. That's
what it is, just cringe each other out doing really
(14:55):
the idea.
Speaker 3 (14:56):
But that's online. I feel like they feel us online.
I don't know if it's aim in person.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
Might be a difference. Well, I mean talking about analyti.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
Their bulletproof online. I totally agree with that. Is that
an iminy all that sort of stuff?
Speaker 4 (15:07):
That is an interesting difference, isn't it for analyse it's
real life as well?
Speaker 2 (15:11):
So percent again, No, to prove a point that.
Speaker 4 (15:15):
She's great, there's a point to this, torch the psychologist.
This is content again, this is this is why you're
not being held back in life, Analytes, because you are
willing to do these kinds of things. For example, when
she interviewed One Directions or former One Direction member Louis Tomlinson, Yes,
she asked this question.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
In the UK is Christmas a big deal?
Speaker 4 (15:37):
Because I was like, oh, I wonder if they actually
have Christmas lights in their in their like streets or
whether they just like sit.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
In complete darkness during Christmas?
Speaker 3 (15:46):
Like what was I thinking?
Speaker 7 (15:48):
No, yeah, we're doing brace Christmas.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
Must I love that? I love that.
Speaker 4 (15:55):
That's hard to listen to that one ask Louis Tomlinson,
as Christmas is big in the UK that or yeah,
that's why she's good, that's why she's.
Speaker 9 (16:04):
She is.
Speaker 4 (16:05):
Another one she also she shouldn't have revealed this, but
this is when she was a bit younger.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
She used to do a video blog or a vlog.
I think I think, I think was it was this
every day analyse, Yeah, every day for like probably six
to eight months.
Speaker 4 (16:21):
And this is why you're going to succeed in life
because you put yourself out there. She did a vlog
to One Direction for six to eight months, and here's
just a snippet.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
Of that car.
Speaker 11 (16:29):
One Direction puts from my face because it's all embarrassing.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
I've been faced.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
Pony, you can come up and stay in the sho
You wouldn't probably because he probably won't even get this great.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
I have really bad gas problems at the moment we
had Mexicans.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
I love that analyst, I absolutely love it.
Speaker 4 (16:51):
She wanted self Lady Gaga tickets. You want yourself, lady
Gogo tickets.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
The other day A yeah, I did.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
I did a performance to the whole office in like
this sequin dre yes and you know, lips, lips, saying
my way some tickets.
Speaker 3 (17:05):
Laps, thank you, ay all the way to some tickets.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Facts, facts, facts, facts, you put yourself out there. So
again that's just down the way.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
They did a lips in competition an least was the
only one who nted the whole office, the whole opposite there,
and they're like conngestion number one did a who's next?
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Guys?
Speaker 3 (17:21):
No, no, no, no one, no one else was game
enough to do that? Which and she walked away.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
That's the whole point.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
I think the young people are very much willing to
embarrass themselves. So thirteen one oh sixty five, I want
to hear from some young people. Just let us know,
what's the most embarrassing thing you've ever done.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
Let's prove this psychologist wrong.
Speaker 3 (17:41):
Love that woods, love it for jen z n you.
Speaker 4 (17:44):
Go you go live as well, do something really embarrassing
right now.
Speaker 1 (17:47):
On the radio, mate, So I think they will be
live to quote strictly ballroom A life lived in fury
is a life.
Speaker 4 (17:52):
Half lived nice very I think quoting strictly ballroom is
incredibly embarrassing, and that's why you're doing very well.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
I'm not living in here.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
Lemon's calling in a second Furious. That's a great movie.
That's one of the greatest trained movies.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
More you talk about that, the more embarrassing is getting,
isn't that?
Speaker 4 (18:12):
Let's go to Ree's here, because I've actually I've asked
young people to call, and I just want further proof
that the youngins are willing to embarrass themselves.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
So, Reese, how old are your mate?
Speaker 5 (18:26):
Hi, I'm twenty one.
Speaker 4 (18:27):
You're twenty one years old, and do you think you're
someone who's willing to embarrass yourself? I think, so, okay,
what's the most embarrassing thing you've done?
Speaker 9 (18:35):
Well?
Speaker 5 (18:35):
I don't know about the most embarrassing, but I remember
once of something that I consider cringe. Was once I
showed up to like a friend's gathering or something and
I had no clothes whatsoever. But I really wanted to go,
but should I put the shirt that was just like
way too small, And it's just it looked so bad.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
That is really not that embarrassing. Appreciate.
Speaker 3 (19:00):
I think we're just proving.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
That is the qualification of embarrassing for young people.
Speaker 4 (19:07):
Maybe this thing isn't it like they're just you always
were exactly.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
It's like a daily scene. Let's go to hi Riley. Hello,
how old are you? Riley?
Speaker 13 (19:22):
I'm twelve?
Speaker 4 (19:23):
Okay, now, Riley, are you willing to have a laugh
at yourself? You're willing to embarrass yourself. What's something you've done?
Speaker 13 (19:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (19:29):
So I was at war WOI and I was riding
my e bike.
Speaker 4 (19:33):
Sorry mate, you aware woy beautiful spot?
Speaker 2 (19:38):
Yeah, you go on.
Speaker 13 (19:40):
And I was riding my e bike and I crashed
and fell into the water and everyone saw me and
did nothing.
Speaker 3 (19:47):
No, it wasn't deliberate though, Riley, right, I was.
Speaker 10 (19:55):
I was looking at a bird.
Speaker 2 (19:57):
That's pretty embarrassing.
Speaker 3 (19:59):
It's embarrassing again, it's you just had to stack there
like that sucks.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
This is worrying.
Speaker 3 (20:05):
It's accidental. Cringe is cringe.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
I think the definition of cringe is like deliberately going
for something. Yeah, there needs to be a sense of
intention around this thing that you're putting yourself out there.
Speaker 2 (20:17):
Like for example, like calling over is not cringe.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
That's just an accident.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
That's just part of life.
Speaker 4 (20:22):
I think, Like for me, for example, every time I
look at myself in the mirror, I flick myself the bergs.
Speaker 2 (20:27):
I think it looks a bit sexy. That's obviously embarrassing.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
Well, that is embarrassing now that you've revealed it. But
but but again you're doing it. Do it to me, right,
I go side?
Speaker 2 (20:38):
You do the eight mile? Yeah, I look and then
go side on a go bomb.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
That's really strange, really strange.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
Oh my god. And at least does that as well. Yeah, yeah,
just like bomb ready for the day. Let's go to
Jenny here.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
Again, that's the that's just the bar we're expecting in.
Speaker 3 (20:55):
Front of it. Again, that is cringe that you've revealed it.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
But again I think there was differentiating because you do
it in private, it in front of us, putting yourself
out there in front of people, deliberately being uncomfortable with yourself.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
Like when I knew Toboggans. That's probably pretty.
Speaker 4 (21:11):
Bad, and I think that was necessarily cringe, But I
thought it was legendary.
Speaker 3 (21:14):
Yeah, you're right, it was.
Speaker 2 (21:17):
It was Let's go to Jenny. He let's see if
Jenna's going So Jenna I'm not sure.
Speaker 4 (21:21):
If young people have proven that they put themselves out
there and are willing to do cringe things.
Speaker 2 (21:25):
But what's the most cringe thing you've done?
Speaker 11 (21:28):
Wow, this is something that holds me back now. But
when I first got Instagram, I used to like make
my own little songs and I would sing them and
I would post them to there for all my school
friends to see.
Speaker 4 (21:40):
Jenna, to prove that young people are willing to put
themselves out there, I'm gonna need you to sing one
of those songs right now.
Speaker 11 (21:47):
Oh, I could not tell you. I honestly wouldn't know them.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
Shame that I cringe, I reckon.
Speaker 11 (21:54):
That's I definitely got commented on too, Like I knew
for sure that people saw them. And yes, since then,
I don't think I posted anything anymore.
Speaker 1 (22:02):
Yeah, that's really putting yourself out there posting a song
that you've recorded. Is it's social media and online when
gen z is just a little bit more freedom there.
My wife isn't a gen Z, but I know that
when she went through a breakup.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
She's gonna hate me saying this.
Speaker 4 (22:15):
She went through a breakup, so she invited two or
three of her friends over. They got ready like they
were going to have a night out, and then when
stood in front of a blank wall which could have
looked like a nightclub and filled up drinks of alcohol
to make it look like they are out partying having
a good time.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
I'm gonna be in trouble when I get hard right now, though, will.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
Beware of the spend a lot of time on reddits.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
I spent a lot of time on Reddit, and the
producers seeking me bring it up in the meeting room.
So I've got this tiny little five minute spot which
is just not enough gear enough for him. For all
the gear I've got woods, I've got the best gear
of read it from the last week, and.
Speaker 2 (23:00):
I'm the judge of that.
Speaker 4 (23:01):
So you are there's some things you're into which I'm
gonna be honest, most of the population would find incredibly boring.
Speaker 3 (23:08):
And most of the population are uncultured.
Speaker 2 (23:10):
And this is the kind of thing he says.
Speaker 4 (23:12):
So what you need to know is that the buzzer
is uncultured. And that's fine. So if at any point
he gets boring or too in depth or too deep,
I will move your mind.
Speaker 3 (23:20):
If you are liking it, though, what.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
I'm honest, I'm always honest, I got around a lot
of stuff.
Speaker 3 (23:26):
I'm not talking to you, okay, I'm talking people listening.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
If you if you are liking it, hit us up
and it's like, well i'd love to know more about that,
and you know, send it to Kate on the d
MS and she'll tell me and she's loving us.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
It's just a bit of validation for Will if we
could guys.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
I mean, sometimes it's nice to find people who you
know are like minded and they're like, you know, yeah.
Speaker 4 (23:46):
If you're interested in things, community things, you want to
create a community, well, go out and a cult. But
it's not that you'd anyway. I've got to get through,
so just stop distracting me. Distract you? Are you wanted
to start a car?
Speaker 3 (24:02):
No? No, okay, here we go. Okay.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
So yeah, So apparently at Disneyland there is a code
word for when guests attempt to scatter ashes at the
theme park.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
Cool, very cool. So what's the theme? What's the what's
the code word?
Speaker 3 (24:19):
So so it depends on the Disney theme park. People
do that all the time.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
So there's a so that there's an ex Disney cast
member because you know, like the princesses and stuff, one
of them trying to hook up with you on the
show Who Go and Dance at the theme park? Yeah,
the ex Disney princess remember date? What his dad remember
that one?
Speaker 9 (24:35):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (24:35):
Yeah, anyway, so there was it was a radio bit.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
Yeah, she still had to pass.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
Anyway. So there was a woman who.
Speaker 1 (24:42):
Used to work as a Disney princess at Disneyland, and
she said, in at her Disneyland, the code was Grandma,
and then they would request the supervisors to call ghostbusters.
That was that was the that was the code. Yes, anyway,
pull it off you and.
Speaker 4 (25:01):
Me, right, challenge except on it because go and scatter
the rat sashes.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
He would let it. He would love Disneyland.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
Great idea.
Speaker 4 (25:13):
I feel like there'd be an issue and Disney are
very litigious. But yeah, well anyway we could do it.
Let's keep it quiet, now, keep it off their now,
but we'll do that.
Speaker 3 (25:20):
Yeah, okay.
Speaker 1 (25:22):
This kicked off a pretty amazing discussion between lots of
other people who worked at theme parks for the different
codes they used to have at theme parks.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
Oh yeah, give me more.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
So this guy walked and worked it in an Orlando
theme park and he said, the saddest code was an
eight to two. It's eight two eight two, and it
meant that the rider was too large for the seat
that they were trying to get on on the on
the ride, why would you bubbleis on? It was called
an eight too because they ate too much. Yeah, anyway,
(25:50):
it was a prettish I put that on the thread.
Got a bit grubby radio because they have because and
also the other ones go just go No, another one.
Speaker 3 (26:01):
Talking not you.
Speaker 1 (26:02):
So there was another one, buzz disrespectful, Buzzy, you're disrespectful.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
This is a good bit, Buzzy.
Speaker 3 (26:11):
You want to know if they call you, apparently, if they.
Speaker 1 (26:15):
Call you our most treasured guest at any Disney theme park,
that means that you're beat.
Speaker 3 (26:19):
So you're back in.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
That means that you're being like an absolute prick. And
there and they're calling security. Another good one. I know,
I'm on. Okay, here we go. Another one here for you.
Speaker 2 (26:29):
It's still about Disneyland.
Speaker 4 (26:30):
No red Yeah, okay, here we go. Keep up, keep up, No,
you've been rude. Don't buy that feeds you. You don't
feed me. Reddit feeds me in this you know youd.
Speaker 3 (26:44):
It feeds me my bits. Okay, So this is really
cool video going around. I think it was actually filmed
in Australia. You know ring cameras.
Speaker 4 (26:51):
Yes, So these kids are in a band, and well
you can have listen.
Speaker 3 (26:55):
You gotta go and watch the footage for yourself and
have some of the audio.
Speaker 2 (26:58):
Hello, Hi, it's made from next floor. Is it okay
if we use your ring to make a music video?
Speaker 4 (27:04):
Please?
Speaker 9 (27:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (27:06):
I guess.
Speaker 3 (27:07):
Thanks.
Speaker 4 (27:09):
Okay, So they record their band's music video on his
ring camera.
Speaker 3 (27:16):
The whole music video is on his ring camera.
Speaker 2 (27:19):
I don't get it.
Speaker 3 (27:20):
I do you not get that? Sos a ring camera
front door?
Speaker 8 (27:25):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (27:25):
I thought you was one of those cameras with the
big circle light that they use for zoom meetings.
Speaker 3 (27:29):
That's a ring light. So ring camera, so camera, it's
a ring camera. It's a door camera. Mate, I do
not I'm not going to try and keep you up
with pop culture and give you the best to reddit.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
That's too many things. Next, this one's really good. I
want to get this one before the news.
Speaker 3 (27:43):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (27:44):
Two, I want to get to for the news, big one,
big no, No, I'll get too.
Speaker 2 (27:48):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (27:49):
So apparently I'm gonna say I don't have to say
to the firm because bugget case. There's there's a there's
a famous Just listen, there's a famous real estate firm
in Melbourne called Nelson ellen Xander. Okay, okay, now they
are just probably stereotypical real estate firm.
Speaker 3 (28:05):
Sure, just in terms of all.
Speaker 4 (28:06):
Real estate, domestic real estate agencies can.
Speaker 3 (28:08):
Be a bit like this.
Speaker 1 (28:09):
Anyway, this bar, this bar got asked if they could
host Nelson Alexander's Christmas party. Okay, So, Nelson Alexander sent
this email saying, Hi, could you please confirm if you
have a valuability for a Christmas party for forty two
people who would need the whole venue on insert the date.
Speaker 2 (28:23):
Sure?
Speaker 3 (28:23):
Right.
Speaker 4 (28:24):
They posted this on Reddit because this is what they're
emailed back. Hi, Steven, thanks for reaching out. Before confirming
any availabilities for Christian party, we'll need to see copies
of the following Nelson Alexander's bank account statements dating back
fourteen calendar years, previous venue, higher history and assigned static
that Nelson Exlander.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
Staff nor management will engage in any undesirable capitalist tendencies.
Speaker 2 (28:45):
Very good.
Speaker 4 (28:46):
Plus, we will take a bond which will you will
never see again.
Speaker 1 (28:49):
That is goody very popped off that is good star,
that's very good gear it.
Speaker 3 (28:58):
No, they didn't get the last one.
Speaker 4 (29:00):
Last one, I promise, yeah, last like it?
Speaker 2 (29:04):
You like it, you don't like it.
Speaker 1 (29:06):
Weird, but you don't like it. It's actually from the
subreddit weird. Okay, four months after thirty two year old
actress Britney Murphy died.
Speaker 3 (29:14):
Of pneumonia, and.
Speaker 4 (29:18):
You are hell bent like a dog with a bone,
or rather a dog with a fish. No, no, we
we bend. I'm just adding a little bit of class
in this studio. We went out to dinner on Friday night.
It was classy restaurant. Sure there was no taxi Derman
animals on the walls, but I actually.
Speaker 2 (29:34):
I actually it did. I feel I feel.
Speaker 3 (29:37):
Like deep over all the taxa animals table, but.
Speaker 4 (29:40):
I feel like even that restaurant could have benefited from
some taxi German animals on the walls.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
Class So I just think in this radio studio.
Speaker 4 (29:46):
Looks a little bit bland right now, How good would
it be, yeah, to have a taxidermied fish on the wall.
Speaker 2 (29:51):
If you've missed any of the journey, have listened to this.
Speaker 4 (29:54):
I love the idea of having a taxidermy animal in
the studio.
Speaker 13 (29:58):
It is a tw two year old goldfish who's probably
twenty five centimeters long, and he's been in a freezer
for about three weeks.
Speaker 4 (30:08):
Taxidermy extraordinary, Hannah, can your taxidermy fish?
Speaker 13 (30:14):
You certainly can't. Taxidermy actually just means movement of this skin,
so we're moving the skin onto an artificial form.
Speaker 4 (30:23):
Really need someone who's going to be driving from Sydney
to Melbourne. I would do it to you, boys, I've
been listening for It is absolutely a lot of everything
that you guys do. Oh, Harry got a soldier and
Harry he joins us on the phone right now. Harry
just wanted to confirm my friend that you are available
(30:45):
and willing to go and pick up a fish from Sydney.
Speaker 5 (30:48):
I'm so sorry, boys, I couldn't move a couple of
things around. Like I said, I've got work and I
can't do it for you.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
Harry.
Speaker 4 (30:55):
Harry, Harry, Harry, Harry. It I remind you how important
this show is to you. Did it did feel like
last time we spoke you you spoke at length about
how much you love Will and I and how much
you wan to do for the show.
Speaker 2 (31:07):
What are we talking? Would it be a horrible offense
to skip work this week.
Speaker 8 (31:12):
It very much could be.
Speaker 5 (31:15):
I've asked every single person that I can.
Speaker 4 (31:18):
I can't take you off. I'm so sorry, boy, it's mate,
it's okay, it's okay. If there's any guilt there, I
really don't want you to feel awful about that.
Speaker 1 (31:27):
I mean, yeah, we don't need to feel awful. We
will blacklist you from going the show again, Harry.
Speaker 2 (31:32):
We won't do that. We love your work, Harry.
Speaker 4 (31:36):
But if you can spend the week now looking for
a replacement, it's fine. No, it's fine, absolutely, Harry. You're
an absolute legend. Mate, will send you a mug or something,
or we'll send you some stuff.
Speaker 2 (31:48):
Harry. You're a good man. You're a good man. Thanks
for coming on the show. Too easy.
Speaker 9 (31:53):
Thank you boys.
Speaker 8 (31:54):
I promise I'll still listen.
Speaker 4 (31:55):
Thank you, Harry, Thank Youank you so much, Thank you
my god, Harry.
Speaker 3 (32:02):
Okay, so when did we know this?
Speaker 2 (32:06):
When did we know that Harry was out today? Like
an hour ago? Were just I just.
Speaker 4 (32:11):
Feel like we're behind the eight ball now. I wanted
this fish picked up on the weekend. Okay, fels we're nowhere,
so we drop it. No, no, no. Now, Unfortunately Australia,
we're spending the entire week. I wanted this wrapped up
like tomorrow. I wanted to fish in the studio today.
Was Harry busy on the weekend. I'm going to stop hammering, Harry.
Speaker 1 (32:29):
We could just buy a taxad like a pre taxidermy
fish boring will okay?
Speaker 2 (32:34):
Boring, Okay, Okay, I'm just I'm just so boring.
Speaker 3 (32:37):
I knew you'd be like this.
Speaker 1 (32:38):
This is why I was trying to say, like your
hell beend on this, and I was just like, well,
you know, well okay. I was just trying to coax
you out of it a little bit. And that's a
bad tactic with you. No, no coax I forgot how
prior you, how proud you are. I still want that fish. Okay,
So well I did this. I did this last week.
You wouldn't even know if it was if it was
another fish, I would You wouldn't know.
Speaker 2 (32:56):
It's twenty five centimeters and it's a goldfish, so don't.
Speaker 4 (32:59):
You it's I'm just saying, can we think of other options?
Speaker 2 (33:03):
No, it's a lot. I don't like other options.
Speaker 4 (33:07):
But if you're telling me right now that we are
incapable as a national drive show to get a frozen
fish from city to city. I mean that that's very disappointing.
Speaker 3 (33:15):
Yeah, look, look I tend to agree with you, but
I just know we.
Speaker 2 (33:18):
Put a man on the moon.
Speaker 4 (33:19):
We put a man on the moon sixty five years
that we didn't imagine if Neil Armstrong said to NASA, hey, guys,
do you mind if I get a frozen fish up
there dreck? And they would have said we can't do that,
Neil probably, Yeah, right, Okay, what a bad example. That's
a bad example.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
But okay do I have had a chat with the
producers before, and I think they're stretched.
Speaker 3 (33:36):
They've tried all weekend. We worked all weekend.
Speaker 2 (33:39):
Did you Oh you were hungover after a big party
on I was very hungover. I had a tough weekend.
Speaker 3 (33:44):
I was also very hungover.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
That's very tough.
Speaker 4 (33:47):
Maybe a little bit of that impatience is coming through
the radio. I've got a baby coming. I can't leave
the state. That's now, I can't. I saw my ob
this morning. I can't leave.
Speaker 3 (33:56):
I told you, I told you you can't leave.
Speaker 2 (33:59):
Right. I'm going to pay for a courier.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
A courier.
Speaker 2 (34:03):
Yeah, and when I say I pay, will provide.
Speaker 6 (34:08):
It is.
Speaker 2 (34:08):
I'm getting a courier. I'm getting.
Speaker 1 (34:10):
Well, we're just open the phone lines now and see
if anyone else Am I allowed to do that?
Speaker 3 (34:14):
Open the phone lines?
Speaker 2 (34:15):
Yeah? Well, if you're shut up, for sure, I'm not
going to shut up.
Speaker 4 (34:18):
I will continue about it all weak because I can
do this personally in private.
Speaker 1 (34:22):
I would like now, thirty one and six five, are
you driving from city in Melbourne?
Speaker 3 (34:27):
Can you take a frozen fish?
Speaker 2 (34:29):
Perfect?
Speaker 3 (34:30):
Let's do it again.
Speaker 2 (34:31):
Perfect. It does feel like we're in last but that's fine.
Hey's fine. Two steps backwards, one step forwards.
Speaker 3 (34:36):
Let's do it.
Speaker 1 (34:36):
That's what we've done so far. Okay, well no, we're
just on the two steps back bit. But let's technicals.
We haven't done the step forward. We're mid step.
Speaker 2 (34:45):
Again. The dream for me is that you're already planning
on driving from.
Speaker 4 (34:49):
City Melbourne fish in your car.
Speaker 3 (34:52):
Someone incidental, Yes, yes, driving to okay.
Speaker 4 (35:02):
Thirteen six five who's driving from Sydney Melbourne and wants
to bring with them a fish.
Speaker 2 (35:06):
Finally you're on board. Thank you.
Speaker 3 (35:08):
No, no, I'm just doing my job.
Speaker 4 (35:09):
Man.
Speaker 3 (35:09):
Now, I'm just back.
Speaker 2 (35:10):
Now, that is not your job. It is my job.
Speaker 3 (35:13):
That's my job.
Speaker 6 (35:16):
This is the bit.
Speaker 2 (35:17):
You're not going to say it with passion passion.
Speaker 3 (35:20):
I did feel it.
Speaker 2 (35:21):
I didn't feel it well.
Speaker 4 (35:22):
So look, yes, as Bill said that, I do want
to confirm that he is right. We're looking for someone
to pick up a frozen fish in Sydney and then
drive it to Melbourne. You're probably gonna need like an
eskie or so. I've never moved a frozen dead animal
before that. It's not shocking first, that'd be a first.
(35:43):
But look, I am just looking for someone to do
us a huge favor here because we want to get
that fish in this studio and then get it taxidermed.
Speaker 2 (35:53):
Then we'll have a taxidermed fish on.
Speaker 4 (35:56):
The wall here in the studio, and I just think
that will give the studio a certain amount of X factor.
I mean, we'll let me let me ask this question.
How many other drive radio shows in this country right
now have a taxidermed fish.
Speaker 2 (36:09):
On the wall? How many?
Speaker 9 (36:12):
Well?
Speaker 2 (36:12):
None, but I don't you go there.
Speaker 4 (36:14):
That's all the answer. That's our X factor. So you know,
if Lady gard Girls, Lady Gargar's coming at the end
of the year, right and her team's going okay, look,
you've got time for one radio interview.
Speaker 2 (36:25):
You go, okay, Well, tell me a bit about the shows.
No worries x y Z blah blah blah. Actually Will
and Woody the show.
Speaker 4 (36:31):
There, they've got a taxi fish on the wall before
they even finish. Guard goes book it. Let's go to
Bron here. I'm six five. I can't believe everyone knew
where you were going when you started that story.
Speaker 3 (36:46):
And I want I want that good seconds, good.
Speaker 2 (36:49):
Finish, Bron.
Speaker 4 (36:51):
The only hurdle I've got is that I need the
fish delivered from Sydney to Melbourne.
Speaker 2 (36:55):
Can you do it for me?
Speaker 3 (36:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (36:57):
Look boys, we can.
Speaker 9 (36:59):
It's our wedding and three and my mom my husband
surprised me with a trip to the opera at the
Opera House. So we're flying out Thursday night. We're back
Saturday afternoon.
Speaker 10 (37:09):
I can pick up your fish to put him.
Speaker 9 (37:13):
On ice and put him on the carry on and
Bob your uncle.
Speaker 2 (37:16):
So you Bron, so just to confirm you would be
happy to have a frozen fish on ice in your
carry on.
Speaker 9 (37:23):
I'm happy to do anything for you too.
Speaker 2 (37:25):
Ron, Bloody love you. That is absolutely a couple of.
Speaker 1 (37:30):
Questions marks over taking a frozen fish on a plane,
which we.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Do not need to answer that.
Speaker 3 (37:34):
Well, no we do because we can't.
Speaker 1 (37:36):
We can't send bron into it, into a death trap.
Speaker 4 (37:39):
We'll do our due diligence there about it?
Speaker 8 (37:43):
Google?
Speaker 2 (37:44):
Are you Google? You're already good and we're good. We're
good to go.
Speaker 9 (37:47):
Yeah, look, I think it'll be all right.
Speaker 2 (37:50):
I like it. I'm willing to go with I think
it'll be all right.
Speaker 1 (37:55):
Not if we're going to the effort here. Let's just
do our due diligence. I'm sure we'll be able to
speak to she googled.
Speaker 3 (38:01):
Yes, I know, but like we don't work because then
if the fish ends up in an airport loss and found,
you're going to be, oh, how do we get the
fish out of there? You know I'm doing that tomorrow
thirty one and six five? Do you work at the
I mean, Katrina's killed.
Speaker 2 (38:15):
By the journey, not the destination.
Speaker 4 (38:17):
Let's go to Katrina here, Katrina, whoa, here we go.
I mean, I hate to make this a competition, but Katrina,
am I riding saying that you are driving from Sydney
to Melbourne tomorrow?
Speaker 7 (38:28):
Yeah, we can I've been listening and I was so
excited to hear about the other gentleman who was going
to drive for Melbourne.
Speaker 5 (38:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (38:35):
No, I thought, I've got my son in the car
and he loves you, always thinks the Will and the
Will and Woody jingle, and I said, let's oll bring
up he's going no note, he's one of those gen
Z thirteen year olds who think that he's so embarrassed
to do anything you like.
Speaker 11 (38:49):
Let's just do it.
Speaker 4 (38:50):
You can meet Will and Hoody. Yeah, buddy, get a photo,
get a photo with us.
Speaker 2 (38:55):
We'll give you. We'll give you heaps some move Okay.
Speaker 4 (38:58):
So just to confirm though, Katrina, So you and your son,
you and your son are open to picking up a fish, probably.
Speaker 2 (39:04):
Tomorrow tomorrow morning.
Speaker 4 (39:06):
Yeah, if you can, if you can. Obviously, I don't
want to get to push you, but.
Speaker 7 (39:11):
I think dry ice will probably be the best.
Speaker 4 (39:13):
Bet a trader. You're a weapon, yeah, bloody, that is
super cold.
Speaker 6 (39:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (39:18):
And then we get a bit of a smoke show
when you bring the fish into the studio. Nice, Katrina. Look,
I'm going to pass you on to the producers just
to deal with all the details to do. But I've
done my job. I reckon, we might have a fish
will in the studio.
Speaker 1 (39:36):
Okay, tomorrow around, turn around, two steps back, one step forward, maybe.
Speaker 2 (39:43):
Katrina around a thirteen year old boy? Unreal? What a
road trip on dry ice, mother and son unreal.
Speaker 3 (39:49):
I don't know what that's going to do with it.
Speaker 4 (39:51):
But yeah, this is a great bonding moment for the
two of them, which leads to us and the fish tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (39:56):
Yeah, man, that's wild.
Speaker 1 (39:57):
All right, jeez le me, I'm back, as in maybe
I'm enjoying this bit again?
Speaker 2 (40:03):
Are you having to go drive over?
Speaker 3 (40:04):
Swiller? This sounds like we're an academic show.
Speaker 2 (40:09):
We're not.
Speaker 1 (40:10):
But there's this fascinating study from La Trobe University which
you're talking about, which actually concerns sex education for kids.
Speaker 3 (40:15):
So have you got kids who want to listen up?
Or actually, just if you're.
Speaker 1 (40:18):
A dude and you had a really weird sex education,
you also probably want to listen up because the study
found out that there's a huge gap in dad's giving
sex education to their kids and as a result, there
are hugely concerning results for young boys.
Speaker 3 (40:33):
And talk a little bit more about.
Speaker 1 (40:34):
This, doctor Justinson Coolson joins us again on Willem Woody.
Speaker 3 (40:38):
Welcome doctor Justin Win you guys, great to have you
on here.
Speaker 2 (40:41):
Mate.
Speaker 1 (40:42):
So I understand that you are actually in the middle
of writing a book and you've you've just finished writing
a chapter on this.
Speaker 8 (40:48):
Yeah, I'm writing a book about boys, will be out
early next year. You at the publisher at the end
of this week. So I'm under the puth. When I
got the call, I was like, I've got to talk about.
Speaker 1 (40:57):
This all right, Great, well, we appreciate the time, mate.
So I imagine you've probably come across this study in
your research.
Speaker 3 (41:02):
Then what is this?
Speaker 1 (41:04):
How is dad's not affecting not talking to young boys
about sex affecting them?
Speaker 8 (41:12):
This is such a tricky one to answer, guys, but
fundamentally what's happening is the load is falling on mum's
dads are shirking it and especially for our boys. So
here's some status that will blow your mind. Australian child
male treatment study published last year, probably the best study
of it's kind, certainly in Australia, maybe one of the
best in the world, found that twenty eight and a
half percent twenty eight and a half percent, nearly a
(41:34):
third of Australian has experienced childhood sexual abuse. Female thirty
seven point three percent, males eighteen point eight percent. So
girls twice is liking to abuse as boys. But just
pause on that for a sect. That means one in
five boys as well are experiencing sexual assault in the lives.
These are really big numbers, and a lot of this
happens because we're not talking about consent, we're not talking
about sex, we're not talking about sexual violence when we're
(41:55):
actually not having the conversation. There's another really critical thing
to highlight here in research where boys, teenage boys are
interviewed about this. As much as they pretend that they
don't care, they don't want to know, and they know
it all already, they actually consistently say that they want
to hear about it specifically from their dad.
Speaker 2 (42:15):
Yeah, and so why is it important justin for the dads?
Speaker 4 (42:18):
Do you think to be doing this rather than mum?
Speaker 8 (42:22):
I think, as I'm writing this book about boys, one
of the key things that anthropologists, sociologists, psychologist, pretty much
everyone agrees on is masculinity is learnt by watching other men.
Masculinity is not playing that we just become. We actually
have to watch other men do it, and there's probably not.
Probably there's no relationship more important than the sexual relationship,
(42:42):
the intimate relationship, the partner relationship between the mum and dad,
between a husband and wife, between the people who are
biologically creating their offspring. And so when a kid, when
a sixteen year old or a fourteen year old or
an eleven year old boy sits down with his dad
and he's able to talk to his child about that
procreative process and about things like consent, it just changes
(43:05):
the game and time an ambassador for the federal governments
teachers consent can't wait campaign, and we're just we're having
this conversation all wrong, guys, We're having it all wrong.
And that accounts for why so many kids are struggling
with it so much.
Speaker 3 (43:18):
It's real.
Speaker 1 (43:19):
It feels like there's a real lack of soft male
leaders in general, let alone in a sort of micro
climate of a family where it's probably most influential and
most needed.
Speaker 8 (43:36):
I don't even know if softs the right word, Like
the definition that I've settled on to what masculinity is.
Healthy masculinity is good men help the people around them,
especially if it's all weaker they help them feel safer
and stronger. And so what there is acknowledgement that as
a man, the average man is stronger the ninety nine
(43:58):
percent of females. I'm pretty much any any measure of
strength that can come up with, right, So, if you've
got that strength and you're in an intimate situation with
a partner, you've got you've got the you've got the
capacity to physically coerce or emotionally psychologically coerce. But if
you're the kind of person who says no, no, no, my
job here is to help you to feel safer and stronger.
So it's not about softness as much as it's about
(44:19):
tenderness and being willing to be considerate. I think consideration
is just so lacking here.
Speaker 2 (44:27):
Yeah, right, that's really interesting.
Speaker 4 (44:29):
Just to go back on the sexual education ing doctor
justin saying that I'm sure boys might do in their
teen years if their dad isn't having that sex talk
with them, is go online and try and learn about
sex through the internet.
Speaker 2 (44:44):
What would the dangers of that be?
Speaker 8 (44:47):
Pornography is the number one sex educator of our young
people today in our society. And while I'm not a
consumer of it, and I know that many adults works
of the show aren't. There's plenty of people who are
as well, and they will tell you right away that
pornography is not for children. The average exposure we think,
I mean, it varies by culture, it varies by gender,
it varies by a whole lot of other factors, but
on average, we think it's about eleven maybe twelve. So
(45:09):
you think about you think about the content that kids
are being exposed to with online pornography, and they're having
that sexual.
Speaker 3 (45:16):
Scripture written for them.
Speaker 8 (45:18):
Like the average first kiss, average first kiss is fifteen,
So by the time they had that first kiss, that've
had three years of scripting around what it's supposed to be,
what that relationship is supposed to look like. And again,
do you know what, guys, this is my biggest message
of all. A lot of parents don't want to talk
about sex and intimacy with their kids because they're like, oh,
(45:39):
the kids already thinks they know, and it's awkward and
what am I going to say?
Speaker 10 (45:43):
But we're saying the wrong.
Speaker 8 (45:43):
Stuff because we say, oh, you've got to use a
condom and you've got to make sure that you're being
careful and all that sort of stuff. The conversation needs
to be this sex is awesome and I can't wait
for you to have it at the right time, with
the right person, in the right place, for the right reason.
And if you can tick those boxes, it's going to
be great. But if it's not, if you're not ticking
those four boxes, it's not the right time, not the
(46:06):
right place, not the right person, not the right reason,
then don't do it.
Speaker 3 (46:09):
I love that that sex is awesome.
Speaker 2 (46:12):
Don't demonize sex.
Speaker 1 (46:14):
This is a man to remove the fear factor which
is so huge, Doctor Justin Coilson.
Speaker 3 (46:20):
That is really awesome info. I know you're very busy.
What's the book called, mate, when's it out?
Speaker 8 (46:25):
The book? Well, I think it's going to be called
Boys that's the working Table.
Speaker 2 (46:28):
Okay, nice early next year.
Speaker 8 (46:31):
Keep an eye on it. Happy families dot com. Do
you you can sign up for notifications for when it
comes out?
Speaker 2 (46:35):
Awesome?
Speaker 5 (46:36):
Mate?
Speaker 3 (46:36):
All right, mate, thanks so much for coming on the show.
Speaker 1 (46:38):
They're fascinating insights and what's an incredibly difficult issues, so
hopefully that'll be really helpful.
Speaker 8 (46:42):
I love talking to you guys.
Speaker 2 (46:43):
See you mate, mate,
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