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Speaker 1 (00:00):
If you're listening to Will and Woody Woods was on
the Kickpot, which you can get wherever you get your podcast.
Steph clear to me I from Laura Henshaw do a
wonderful job. There wonderful women that is both on the show.
And they're the best, great chicks, aren't they.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Absolutely, And they asked some great questions. I mean, this
is happ't been me as well. They get all our
good gear and all of a sudden, you and I
find ourselves getting sloppy seconds on the radio show. Just
give it to me, bro, just give me the hot gear.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Yeah, well you should have asked the right questions.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Will replaying stuff. But look, if you're just joining us,
we're picking it up at the point where Woods is
talking about the need to play a role, to be
sunshine in people's lives. That's what you feel you need
to do for people, and no one can do that,
No one is that way, And as a result, you're
(00:47):
suppressing your emotions to try and be like that.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Well I could do it when and yeah, when I
was single, pretty much I could because you could.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
But hey, on a sec I've known you and you
a single and when you're saying you could do it,
the suppressing would be like, oh what, he's just vanished
for two days.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
So that's why that's how I got through.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
I would anytime if I'd get I'd just I'd literally disappear,
and then I'd come back and I'd be okay.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
And it's just not it wasn't. I don't know in
what world I thought I could just continue to do that.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
So what's the hard thing about? Because I'm sure there
are lots of other people who suppress emotions. We're going
to talk a little bit more about the cost of
it shortly, But what do you find what's the hardest
part about expressing how you feel at the time? What
do you think you're doing wrong?
Speaker 3 (01:36):
It's it's it's really not knowing how I'm actually feeling.
I feel like I've got so good at suppressing how
I actually feel that it's not like I'm saying to
you right now, oh yeah, like I'm suppressing emotion right now.
I might be, but I have no idea because when
I'm in it, I'm just doing what I've been doing
my entire.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Life, and that's the only way to do it.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
And what happens with me is obviously I'm suppressing because
then something small will happen and it will break me.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Wow, and I'll go and.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Then all of a sudden, because I go from zero
to one hundred very very quickly.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
So that's why I'm not very good in any conversation
which might be emotion inducing, because I'm not good at
delivering a stable emotion. I go from like very light
and bubbly, and then as soon as I feel like
there's confrontation or emotion attached, I go to a billion.
And just because I'm really not good at this point
(02:30):
on a journey, I'm going to get better. I'm just
not good at sitting with emotion that I would deem
as negative. So that could be sadness, anger, frustration.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Yeah, I just like I don't want have anything to
do with it.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Yeah yeah, yeah, but again I don't deliberately bottle it,
just it just happens.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
That's your coviing mechanism. Yeah, and some of those coming
meanism would be getting angry, retaliating, ignoring whatever, consciously ignoring
whatever they're doing. The cost of that, though, is where
we're going to pick this up in this interview. And
again you can listen an interview wherever you get your podcasts,
check out the kickpod. But this is the bit that
(03:08):
I think really hurts you, and that is that you
turn on You're capable of turning on this joyful jesture
around people that you feel you need to have that
face for because you don't want to let them in,
because you don't want to be vulnerable around them. You
don't want to show them the other side of yourself.
And then the one person that you care most about
as you partner, mem and because you have been so
(03:30):
vibrant and buoyant around everybody else, she's the one who
gets to see the real you, and it depleted you
because you've had to be that person for so many
other people throughout the day.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
She's amazing with it, but like, it's just so not
fair that you're the person I care about, like the
absolute most everyone. She sees how much effort that I
make for, you know, make those people feel better, And
then she'd never say this, but it's kind of not
fair that I would make so much effort there for effective.
I appreciate that they're a fan, but I don't know
(04:03):
that person. I don't know them, I don't care about
them as much as I care about mim, but then
Mim is the one who's going to get the person
who who needs to be just nothing.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Just like just flat.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
You told me before that you and Mim listen to
this together.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Yeah, we listened to it together, and we just we
just had to cry together listening to it, which yeah,
it's a yeah, it's something.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Oh yeah, I've just got it. I don't want to yeah,
I just really want to work on it because I see.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Yeah, but it was nice that she just yea, she
had a cry and had her hand on my leg
and she's like, I totally understand, and I love you,
you know. She she'll say, it's it's really nice and
amazing what you do. She loves seeing that as well,
which is really nice. Yeah, she also gets unfortunately the
(05:06):
version which and I even since having this chat, you know,
I'll have mornings or days and I just can't.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Talk to you.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I suppose. I don't know if it's
any consolation. I don't know what goes on behind closed
doors with you and him, but like that's the deal,
Like that's what you buy into, right, yeah, and she
wants to be that person for you. Yeah, yeah, ultimately
right because she loves you, And can I just say
(05:37):
on behalf of everyone largely just in this team or
everyone else that knows you.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Don't say something nice, sorry, but you are like just such.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
You're truly like joy, like you are just bliss in
a bottle, And the fact that that hurts you sometimes
is the last thing that any of us would want
that it's a reflex, and I know you can't control it,
but whenever you feel ready to walk in here and flip.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Some tables, I'm so ready for it.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
I love you, Everyone loves you. You're doing a wonderful job.
You're doing a wonderful job. It's been amazing to watch
recently how much attention and fame and content that you're
a part of, all this stuff you're doing on TV.
And I know how I can't I don't know. I
can't only.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Imagine how taxing that would be.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
So whatever coping neck is you're using right now, it's fine,
Like that's what you're using to get through and you
will get better, of course you will. Everybody will, but
you're just getting through at the moment. And I think
everybody who's in that sort of position is going to
have something that's not going to be perfect, so get
around yourself as well. You're doing a really good job.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Thanks Mane. I appreciate that. Love you love you too.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
It's really what hear.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
More of the boys on the Full Show podcast, all
on the iHeartRadio, w ap oh wherever you get your podcasts.
If you're listening to Will and Woody Woods was on
the Kickpot, which you can get wherever you get your podcast.
Steph clear to me I from Laura Henshaw do a
wonderful job. There wonderful women that is both on the show.
And they're the best, great chicks, aren't they.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Absolutely, And they asked some great questions. I mean, this
is happ't been me as well. They get all our
good gear and all of a sudden, you and I
find ourselves getting sloppy seconds on the radio show. Just
give it to me, bro, just give me the hot gear.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Yeah, well you should have asked the right questions.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Will replaying stuff. But look, if you're just joining us,
we're picking it up at the point where Woods is
talking about the need to play a role, to be
sunshine in people's lives. That's what you feel you need
to do for people, and no one can do that,
No one is that way, And as a result, you're
(00:47):
suppressing your emotions to try and be like that.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Well I could do it when and yeah, when I
was single, pretty much I could because you could.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
But hey, on a sec I've known you and you
a single and when you're saying you could do it,
the suppressing would be like, oh what, he's just vanished
for two days.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
So that's why that's how I got through.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
I would anytime if I'd get I'd just I'd literally disappear,
and then I'd come back and I'd be okay.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
And it's just not it wasn't. I don't know in
what world I thought I could just continue to do that.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
So what's the hard thing about? Because I'm sure there
are lots of other people who suppress emotions. We're going
to talk a little bit more about the cost of
it shortly, But what do you find what's the hardest
part about expressing how you feel at the time? What
do you think you're doing wrong?
Speaker 3 (01:36):
It's it's it's really not knowing how I'm actually feeling.
I feel like I've got so good at suppressing how
I actually feel that it's not like I'm saying to
you right now, oh yeah, like I'm suppressing emotion right now.
I might be, but I have no idea because when
I'm in it, I'm just doing what I've been doing
my entire.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Life, and that's the only way to do it.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
And what happens with me is obviously I'm suppressing because
then something small will happen and it will break me.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Wow, and I'll go and.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Then all of a sudden, because I go from zero
to one hundred very very quickly.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
So that's why I'm not very good in any conversation
which might be emotion inducing, because I'm not good at
delivering a stable emotion. I go from like very light
and bubbly, and then as soon as I feel like
there's confrontation or emotion attached, I go to a billion.
And just because I'm really not good at this point
(02:30):
on a journey, I'm going to get better. I'm just
not good at sitting with emotion that I would deem
as negative. So that could be sadness, anger, frustration.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Yeah, I just like I don't want have anything to
do with it.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Yeah yeah, yeah, but again I don't deliberately bottle it,
just it just happens.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
That's your coviing mechanism. Yeah, and some of those coming
meanism would be getting angry, retaliating, ignoring whatever, consciously ignoring
whatever they're doing. The cost of that, though, is where
we're going to pick this up in this interview. And
again you can listen an interview wherever you get your podcasts,
check out the kickpod. But this is the bit that
(03:08):
I think really hurts you, and that is that you
turn on You're capable of turning on this joyful jesture
around people that you feel you need to have that
face for because you don't want to let them in,
because you don't want to be vulnerable around them. You
don't want to show them the other side of yourself.
And then the one person that you care most about
as you partner, mem and because you have been so
(03:30):
vibrant and buoyant around everybody else, she's the one who
gets to see the real you, and it depleted you
because you've had to be that person for so many
other people throughout the day.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
She's amazing with it, but like, it's just so not
fair that you're the person I care about, like the
absolute most everyone. She sees how much effort that I
make for, you know, make those people feel better, And
then she'd never say this, but it's kind of not
fair that I would make so much effort there for effective.
I appreciate that they're a fan, but I don't know
(04:03):
that person. I don't know them, I don't care about
them as much as I care about mim, but then
Mim is the one who's going to get the person
who who needs to be just nothing.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Just like just flat.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
You told me before that you and Mim listen to
this together.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Yeah, we listened to it together, and we just we
just had to cry together listening to it, which yeah,
it's a yeah, it's something.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Oh yeah, I've just got it. I don't want to yeah,
I just really want to work on it because I see.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Yeah, but it was nice that she just yea, she
had a cry and had her hand on my leg
and she's like, I totally understand, and I love you,
you know. She she'll say, it's it's really nice and
amazing what you do. She loves seeing that as well,
which is really nice. Yeah, she also gets unfortunately the
(05:06):
version which and I even since having this chat, you know,
I'll have mornings or days and I just can't.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Talk to you.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I suppose. I don't know if it's
any consolation. I don't know what goes on behind closed
doors with you and him, but like that's the deal,
Like that's what you buy into, right, yeah, and she
wants to be that person for you. Yeah, yeah, ultimately
right because she loves you, And can I just say
(05:37):
on behalf of everyone largely just in this team or
everyone else that knows you.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Don't say something nice, sorry, but you are like just such.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
You're truly like joy, like you are just bliss in
a bottle, And the fact that that hurts you sometimes
is the last thing that any of us would want
that it's a reflex, and I know you can't control it,
but whenever you feel ready to walk in here and flip.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Some tables, I'm so ready for it.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
I love you, Everyone loves you. You're doing a wonderful job.
You're doing a wonderful job. It's been amazing to watch
recently how much attention and fame and content that you're
a part of, all this stuff you're doing on TV.
And I know how I can't I don't know. I
can't only.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Imagine how taxing that would be.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
So whatever coping neck is you're using right now, it's fine,
Like that's what you're using to get through and you
will get better, of course you will. Everybody will, but
you're just getting through at the moment. And I think
everybody who's in that sort of position is going to
have something that's not going to be perfect, so get
around yourself as well. You're doing a really good job.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Thanks Mane. I appreciate that. Love you love you too.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
It's really what hear.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
More of the boys on the Full Show podcast, all
on the iHeartRadio, w ap oh wherever you get your podcasts.
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