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Speaker 1 (00:00):
If you're listening to Will and Woody the seriously spicy
meatball for you guys right now that I.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Meet the ball, i'd say this is the spiciest meatball
that this show has ever digested.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Wow, you reckoned. Well here's the question. Everyone, you can
make up your mind. Are you currently seeing a married man?
There's a thread that I clicked on Reddit this afternoon,
a subreddit basically asking what they're called side chicks? Is
what they're called, That's what they've called themselves. Why they
did it? A lot of them was about the level
(00:39):
of desire they felt about, some of them saying they
had commitment issues, so it was a great noncommittal relationship.
But we've asked you to call right now if you
are a side chick, or if you have been a
side chick, why you slept with a married man? What
I'm going to say, We're going to go with the
knowledge that you knew, because I think if there's a
sense if you didn't know, then I don't think then
the crime doesn't quite match up. We're going to go
(00:59):
to Diane here. Diane, you're you're currently a side chick,
you're currently dating a married man?
Speaker 4 (01:06):
Yeah, I have been for about four years now since
I left my husband.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
And Diane, can I ask why.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
I guess it's, to be honest, it's just convenient. Like
they're not needy, they're not you know, like they leave
you alone when you want them to leave learn and
you just go about your day. And I feel the
other thing is like I was cheated on in my
marriage and I used to like confront the girls and
like I would turn them photos. Was like, here's my husband,
I'm here with, live together, we have kids, and like
(01:34):
the lack of respect that I got. I would rather
be the girl on this side than the girl on
that side any day.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Wow, hang on, hang on hand, Dane. The reason that
you left your husband or four years ago was because
he was cheating on you. And then how long life
and then as a means to keep yourself safe from that,
you're now the one who's cheating with another guy on
his And.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
How you said that is how I seed in my
head too. Sometimes I valid at myself that all men
are the same because like they're all still out he's
doing it you that's so horrible, But that's how I validated.
And the sex is just great and it's just like
they're convenience. I liked how you said they're willing to
ruin their home life for you, So there is like
(02:22):
the bit of kick of that too, But I think
it's more as well, like they're just not needy like there,
it's just convenience.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
How often are you seeing him.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
In the last four years. I'd say about twelve times,
but in sane but there's been like other people in between.
But yeah, you will literally just mersage me all the
time to be like are you busy and if I'm free,
willing up? If not, it's fun like go about your day.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
When you say other people, are you referring to other
married men? Yes, So you're currently saying how many married men?
Speaker 4 (02:58):
I was saying in the last four years, been with
about six married men.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
Oh my god, wow.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Where do any of these married men, Diane say to you, like, Hey,
I've fallen for you and I'm going to leave my
current wife to be with you.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
No, I wouldn't say they say that. They ask like
why I haven't fallen for them, or why I'm not
like offering further commitments and stuff. But I just make
it clear that's not what I'm after whatsoever. I stay
married so that I don't get in another relationship.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
And where do you where do you find them?
Speaker 4 (03:31):
They find me? That's the weird. I don't that's all
on my No, just Facebook. I'm not even on dating apps.
It's just Facebook.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
So how what do you mean that is that has
message you on on Facebook?
Speaker 4 (03:45):
One hundred These men these days, they have no shame. Wow,
I can't talk. I know, I know, but I'm loyalties
and nobody but myself.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
And and you're in a relationship yourself. No, I'm not.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Now I'm still legally married. But I left my husband.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Yeah, equal because of the fact that he was cheating
on you, Diane, and you've got children. He said, yes, Okay,
do you is there any sense of like not wanting
them to find out and not wanting them to have
cheating in their life or are you kind of like,
you know, the world's cooked and everyone cheats on everyone,
so you know, yeah, I think the party.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Is pretty cooked. And like I just thought my kids
that are way younger morals and just realized, well, don't
realize what these men lif because I've never ever exposed
my kids to any of these men. Like that's like,
what the trash to be in a marriage, and.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
So that gives you the impression that you're just doing
it for sex. Then because like if you if you
don't okay, so you don't rate these people, it keeps
me single. Okay, So you don't like their integ you
don't like them in their like their integrity, you don't
rate them really as people because they're doing the thing
that you had done to you? Is there like a
level of self hate that kind of is punched in
(04:55):
here as well?
Speaker 4 (04:57):
Only to a certain agree because all the men that
I've done it with, they are actually the sort of
people that I would genuinely be in a relationship with,
and like they appear to be great people, like stand
up guys, and then so when I see them doing this,
it's like it just confirms in my head that my
type of guy is a piece of shit.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Did you do you see yourself being in like a
relationship with someone else in the future or is it
just married men from here on out?
Speaker 4 (05:24):
Well, right now, I'm just raising my kids solo, and
I'm doing that pretty successfully happily, and my life is
stable and it's great. So after what I went through
my marriage, I am and I was going to relationship
fifteen years, It's like it's not worth safe the heartache
that came with it. Yeah, it's safe.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Fascinating, Diane. Are you seeing a married man? Are you
seeing one tonight?
Speaker 4 (05:45):
No? No, I've got the kids hunt fair enough.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
I got to draw the line there, don't you. You got
to see the boundaries fair enough, Diane. Thank you so
much for that perspective. That was That was bloody interesting.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Do you consider yourself a bad person, Diane?
Speaker 4 (05:58):
I consider it's a be pretty a disgusting because I
know what it's like to be on the other end.
But at the same time, I just like I welcome
these women to like contact me and be like, are
you talking about men? And I'll be like, hundred percent,
I told them everything, like I have no lud to
his men. I would destroy their relationships in a heartbeat.
But I just have been confronted.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
If let's just say that, like you're you're a villain
in like a comic book series, right your If we
could say that your mo o is like, you hate
men so much that you are willing to destroy their
relationships despite the fact that they're married to women.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
I will allow them to ruin their own relationships and
get benefits from it along the way.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Wow, it's like, in a weird way, you're punishing them
but rewarding them at the same I'm getting a bit
lost in it. Same lost in it, but.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Wow, understand thanks for Yeah, thanks for calling in mate.
I appreciate that I didn't. That's that's absolutely fascinating him.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
More of the boys on the Full Show podcast, all
on the iHeartRadio app. Oh wherever me get your podcast.
If you're listening to Will and Woody the seriously spicy
meatball for you guys right now that I.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Meet the ball, i'd say this is the spiciest meatball
that this show has ever digested.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Wow, you reckoned. Well here's the question. Everyone, you can
make up your mind. Are you currently seeing a married man?
There's a thread that I clicked on Reddit this afternoon,
a subreddit basically asking what they're called side chicks? Is
what they're called, That's what they've called themselves. Why they
did it? A lot of them was about the level
(00:39):
of desire they felt about, some of them saying they
had commitment issues, so it was a great noncommittal relationship.
But we've asked you to call right now if you
are a side chick, or if you have been a
side chick, why you slept with a married man? What
I'm going to say, We're going to go with the
knowledge that you knew, because I think if there's a
sense if you didn't know, then I don't think then
the crime doesn't quite match up. We're going to go
(00:59):
to Diane here. Diane, you're you're currently a side chick,
you're currently dating a married man?
Speaker 4 (01:06):
Yeah, I have been for about four years now since
I left my husband.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
And Diane, can I ask why.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
I guess it's, to be honest, it's just convenient. Like
they're not needy, they're not you know, like they leave
you alone when you want them to leave learn and
you just go about your day. And I feel the
other thing is like I was cheated on in my
marriage and I used to like confront the girls and
like I would turn them photos. Was like, here's my husband,
I'm here with, live together, we have kids, and like
(01:34):
the lack of respect that I got. I would rather
be the girl on this side than the girl on
that side any day.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Wow, hang on, hang on hand, Dane. The reason that
you left your husband or four years ago was because
he was cheating on you. And then how long life
and then as a means to keep yourself safe from that,
you're now the one who's cheating with another guy on
his And.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
How you said that is how I seed in my
head too. Sometimes I valid at myself that all men
are the same because like they're all still out he's
doing it you that's so horrible, But that's how I validated.
And the sex is just great and it's just like
they're convenience. I liked how you said they're willing to
ruin their home life for you, So there is like
(02:22):
the bit of kick of that too, But I think
it's more as well, like they're just not needy like there,
it's just convenience.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
How often are you seeing him.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
In the last four years. I'd say about twelve times,
but in sane but there's been like other people in between.
But yeah, you will literally just mersage me all the
time to be like are you busy and if I'm free,
willing up? If not, it's fun like go about your day.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
When you say other people, are you referring to other
married men? Yes, So you're currently saying how many married men?
Speaker 4 (02:58):
I was saying in the last four years, been with
about six married men.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
Oh my god, wow.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Where do any of these married men, Diane say to you, like, Hey,
I've fallen for you and I'm going to leave my
current wife to be with you.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
No, I wouldn't say they say that. They ask like
why I haven't fallen for them, or why I'm not
like offering further commitments and stuff. But I just make
it clear that's not what I'm after whatsoever. I stay
married so that I don't get in another relationship.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
And where do you where do you find them?
Speaker 4 (03:31):
They find me? That's the weird. I don't that's all
on my No, just Facebook. I'm not even on dating apps.
It's just Facebook.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
So how what do you mean that is that has
message you on on Facebook?
Speaker 4 (03:45):
One hundred These men these days, they have no shame. Wow,
I can't talk. I know, I know, but I'm loyalties
and nobody but myself.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
And and you're in a relationship yourself. No, I'm not.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Now I'm still legally married. But I left my husband.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Yeah, equal because of the fact that he was cheating
on you, Diane, and you've got children. He said, yes, Okay,
do you is there any sense of like not wanting
them to find out and not wanting them to have
cheating in their life or are you kind of like,
you know, the world's cooked and everyone cheats on everyone,
so you know, yeah, I think the party.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Is pretty cooked. And like I just thought my kids
that are way younger morals and just realized, well, don't
realize what these men lif because I've never ever exposed
my kids to any of these men. Like that's like,
what the trash to be in a marriage, and.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
So that gives you the impression that you're just doing
it for sex. Then because like if you if you
don't okay, so you don't rate these people, it keeps
me single. Okay, So you don't like their integ you
don't like them in their like their integrity, you don't
rate them really as people because they're doing the thing
that you had done to you? Is there like a
level of self hate that kind of is punched in
(04:55):
here as well?
Speaker 4 (04:57):
Only to a certain agree because all the men that
I've done it with, they are actually the sort of
people that I would genuinely be in a relationship with,
and like they appear to be great people, like stand
up guys, and then so when I see them doing this,
it's like it just confirms in my head that my
type of guy is a piece of shit.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Did you do you see yourself being in like a
relationship with someone else in the future or is it
just married men from here on out?
Speaker 4 (05:24):
Well, right now, I'm just raising my kids solo, and
I'm doing that pretty successfully happily, and my life is
stable and it's great. So after what I went through
my marriage, I am and I was going to relationship
fifteen years, It's like it's not worth safe the heartache
that came with it. Yeah, it's safe.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Fascinating, Diane. Are you seeing a married man? Are you
seeing one tonight?
Speaker 4 (05:45):
No? No, I've got the kids hunt fair enough.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
I got to draw the line there, don't you. You got
to see the boundaries fair enough, Diane. Thank you so
much for that perspective. That was That was bloody interesting.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Do you consider yourself a bad person, Diane?
Speaker 4 (05:58):
I consider it's a be pretty a disgusting because I
know what it's like to be on the other end.
But at the same time, I just like I welcome
these women to like contact me and be like, are
you talking about men? And I'll be like, hundred percent,
I told them everything, like I have no lud to
his men. I would destroy their relationships in a heartbeat.
But I just have been confronted.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
If let's just say that, like you're you're a villain
in like a comic book series, right your If we
could say that your mo o is like, you hate
men so much that you are willing to destroy their
relationships despite the fact that they're married to women.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
I will allow them to ruin their own relationships and
get benefits from it along the way.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Wow, it's like, in a weird way, you're punishing them
but rewarding them at the same I'm getting a bit
lost in it. Same lost in it, but.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Wow, understand thanks for Yeah, thanks for calling in mate.
I appreciate that I didn't. That's that's absolutely fascinating him.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
More of the boys on the Full Show podcast, all
on the iHeartRadio app. Oh wherever me get your podcast.
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