October 28, 2024 • 8 mins
The morning show discusses how rude people can be on social media. Have you ever encountered a mean comment?
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Hey, so, Gandhi and I send so many dms to
each other. We find all these crazy things on Instagram.
We're like, oh, she's got to see this. I mean,
do you guys have a DM buddy?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (00:16):
Really and usually inappropriate stuff, yes, But the other day
there was a post from some coffee company in Los Angeles.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Do you remember this, Gandhi, And they send they send
out the coffee cart to your office whatever, and the
guy has no shirt on. He's like really buff and
he serves you coffee. It's like it's it's to get
a hot guy serving coffee cart. I don't know sounds
the comments, the comments people make are the funny things
you can actually see, like you could see his happy
(00:50):
trail below his navel. Yeah, as he's serving you coffee.
It's like the first comment is like, there better be
a pube in my coffee.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Like that. I mean, they just getting nasty anyway.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
So I don't know how this ended up on my feed,
but there's, uh, what are you looking at?
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Are you looking at it?
Speaker 5 (01:08):
Well, I'm looking at it, but I'm also laughing at
the I don't know how this ended up on my feet?
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Yeah, I don't know know No, okay, this one is
I know how that ended up on my feet, But
this one is.
Speaker 6 (01:18):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
He's a fashion guy who likes to show what the
latest styles are or whatever. His name is Giovanni, and
so he posts this thing. Look here he is standing there.
He's wearing his you know, a shirt and a jacket
and sunglasses. So you read the comments. He looks good,
he looks very stylish. So you go to read the comments,
(01:42):
and so the meanest things ever White Sox? Really, who
told this man he can dress white Sox?
Speaker 3 (01:54):
What are you doing.
Speaker 7 (01:56):
That?
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Nice color match? But kind of plane, have some flavor?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
I mean, he's he says, trying to show guys in
new ways to dress.
Speaker 8 (02:04):
Whatever.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
You're a grown man, Why are you playing dress up
on the internet.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
With these people?
Speaker 3 (02:11):
Here? Okay, here he is walking.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
He's walking to the airport looking stylish, right with his bag.
He says, nobody wants to see you in your pajamas
at the airport. Put on a decent outfit when flying
for an overall better experience for yourself and others.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
And then here's the comments.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Ready, I know y'all want to hear it, but he's
not wrong. Flying used to be luxury and now people
dress like crap. Okay, that's one now to anyone reading this,
where whatever you want, where what makes you comfortable?
Speaker 3 (02:39):
You don't.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
You do not exist for the preferences of other people,
especially not the people who look down on you. Wear pajamas. Then,
he said, Then someone else says, you're not going to
the theater at church. You're gonna sit in a cramp
plane for five hours. Dress like you want, he said, Dude,
they literally, he says, don't wear pajamas. He said, they
literally give you pajamas in first class.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
They do. They do.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
This other person dress how you want your dress, not
how I wanna be. Influencer states you should dress so
that you go. And remember he said, hear me out,
don't wear pajamas. This person says, hear me out. Nobody
effen cares. It's the airport. Nobody cares about what you wear. Respectfully.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Wow, back in the day, they did.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Like my mom tells me, because she goes, I guess
people don't fly like they used to, and I go,
I mean, she goes. They used to be like you
dressed up when you went on an airplane. I said,
I used to dress up when you went to Broadway too,
and they don't do that anymore either.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
They don't.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
And in Las Vegas people used to wear tuxedos in
the casino. My dad did back in the day. But
my point is, if you're an influencer and you're gonna
I guess he gets paid to like put on outfits
and put them on lines. And if people just sit
there and just slice and dice you until you bleed,
I'm like, oh my god, I could never do that.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
No, it truly is.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
I mean, we said all the time you go online,
you're just gonna get full laid for no reason.
Speaker 8 (04:02):
It's so silly.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
When I posted, you know, hey, which outfit should I wear?
A lot of people were giving their opinion on which outfit.
But then there's a handful of people who have to
slide in and say something incredibly stupid or just mean
for no reason, like is it too late to pick
something else? Are there other color options? No? I didn't
ask you if you like these three. Tell me if
you don't, I said, which one?
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Just pick?
Speaker 2 (04:23):
You were you were very specific. I knew the assignment
when you gave it. To me, Gandhi, and I chose
the purple one. Of course you said he didn't choose Hope,
he didn't choose those others. Those are dogs. I'm kidding.
But yeah, it's like you put yourself out there and
people just want to say mean, mean, mean things. Uh,
but you know, Nate has always said you should always
(04:44):
lower your expectations and always expect the very worst from everyone.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Yeah, that's so sad.
Speaker 7 (04:51):
Like I like to go through life thinking, oh, I
expect the best, give somebody the benefit of the doubt.
You've had to turn that in the last five ten
years with social media. You have to expect the worst
from people. So Gandhi, like you have the best of intentions, Hey,
pick an out fit. You gotta expect these dumb asses
to really pull someone, Yeah, some stuff out of their
back pockets.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
You know.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
All it takes this one Like you're feeling real good,
you pose a picture of yourself, You're like, yeah, this
dress is good, I look nice, and then all of
a sudden, he goes is Danielle pregnant? That's all it takes.
Speaker 7 (05:23):
The hell there, It all goes down the toilet. I
remember I posted a selfie one time and I look good.
I had a suit on, and then there was one comment.
Most of them nine we're like, oh my god, you
look good. Hot blah blah blah. Somebody goes, hey, have
you ever been checked for a lazy eye?
Speaker 3 (05:37):
And I'm like what focus on? And I'm like, wait, know, yeah,
hey mo.
Speaker 5 (05:47):
Time people tell me I need to get checked for
a thyroid cancer a thyroid eye disease, I'm like, are
you serious?
Speaker 3 (05:52):
First of all, so rude.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
Second of all, you think that I haven't been to
a doctor, that my doctor doesn't look at me and think, oh,
if there's a problem, I should tell her you.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Okay, here's my thing.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
So I was I got to thinking about people who say,
like really were aunchy, nasty things to people in this
comment section, and so I was thinking, should I want
to go back to the very beginning of my Instagram
life and see if I ever I don't think I
can see it anymore if I've ever said one nasty
thing to any person. I don't think I've ever ever
posted on anyone's post.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Anything that was negative about that. Never ever, never, I.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Would never, I would just not say anything. You just
don't comment.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
There are many times I've wanted to, but I didn't,
but you didn't. But these people I don't know. So look,
if you're an if you're an influencer and you're trying
to get your influencer business off the ground and stuff
you got, you need things.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Again, we're telling you now, I don't know how they
do it.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
I do not know how they do it.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Yeah, exactly, But lower those expectations of people because people suck.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
What what's scary?
Speaker 6 (06:57):
Do you feel that some people though they actually do
this on purpose, be like, Look, I'm gonna do something
so preposterous and weird that I just want all the
comments section to just bark back at me. Could I
send you guys these a lot of them, and all
of a sudden it freeze frames and then it just
goes right into like comment after comment after comment.
Speaker 8 (07:19):
It's like a kind one of those remixed things, and
it's got that song that goes and freeze frames, and
I sent you you know the ones I'm talking about, right.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
I have no clue what.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
You're talking about comment award pages.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
Yeah, well, these people are out to get you.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
I'm just letting you know.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
And I do think that there's a good percentage of
these negative comments that are placed there in order to
light a fuse.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
I mean, I obviously yeah.
Speaker 7 (07:49):
So Ques.
Speaker 5 (07:52):
What doesn't count if somebody says something crappy to you
and then you clap back at them, because I've definitely
done that, But I've never gone out of my way
to leave a crap be comment for a person.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
Have no think I think no. If you want to
fight back, fight back. But you know, we all we
all kind of agree that you know it's probably not
going to help anything.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
It just makes you feel little better.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Well, I do say, though, we sometimes you don't even
have to You just leave that comment there and a
lot of the listeners will do it for you.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
Yeah,
Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Hey, so, Gandhi and I send so many dms to
each other. We find all these crazy things on Instagram.
We're like, oh, she's got to see this. I mean,
do you guys have a DM buddy?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (00:16):
Really and usually inappropriate stuff, yes, But the other day
there was a post from some coffee company in Los Angeles.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Do you remember this, Gandhi, And they send they send
out the coffee cart to your office whatever, and the
guy has no shirt on. He's like really buff and
he serves you coffee. It's like it's it's to get
a hot guy serving coffee cart. I don't know sounds
the comments, the comments people make are the funny things
you can actually see, like you could see his happy
(00:50):
trail below his navel. Yeah, as he's serving you coffee.
It's like the first comment is like, there better be
a pube in my coffee.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Like that. I mean, they just getting nasty anyway.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
So I don't know how this ended up on my feed,
but there's, uh, what are you looking at?
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Are you looking at it?
Speaker 5 (01:08):
Well, I'm looking at it, but I'm also laughing at
the I don't know how this ended up on my feet?
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Yeah, I don't know know No, okay, this one is
I know how that ended up on my feet, But
this one is.
Speaker 6 (01:18):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
He's a fashion guy who likes to show what the
latest styles are or whatever. His name is Giovanni, and
so he posts this thing. Look here he is standing there.
He's wearing his you know, a shirt and a jacket
and sunglasses. So you read the comments. He looks good,
he looks very stylish. So you go to read the comments,
(01:42):
and so the meanest things ever White Sox? Really, who
told this man he can dress white Sox?
Speaker 3 (01:54):
What are you doing.
Speaker 7 (01:56):
That?
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Nice color match? But kind of plane, have some flavor?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
I mean, he's he says, trying to show guys in
new ways to dress.
Speaker 8 (02:04):
Whatever.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
You're a grown man, Why are you playing dress up
on the internet.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
With these people?
Speaker 3 (02:11):
Here? Okay, here he is walking.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
He's walking to the airport looking stylish, right with his bag.
He says, nobody wants to see you in your pajamas
at the airport. Put on a decent outfit when flying
for an overall better experience for yourself and others.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
And then here's the comments.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Ready, I know y'all want to hear it, but he's
not wrong. Flying used to be luxury and now people
dress like crap. Okay, that's one now to anyone reading this,
where whatever you want, where what makes you comfortable?
Speaker 3 (02:39):
You don't.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
You do not exist for the preferences of other people,
especially not the people who look down on you. Wear pajamas. Then,
he said, Then someone else says, you're not going to
the theater at church. You're gonna sit in a cramp
plane for five hours. Dress like you want, he said, Dude,
they literally, he says, don't wear pajamas. He said, they
literally give you pajamas in first class.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
They do. They do.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
This other person dress how you want your dress, not
how I wanna be. Influencer states you should dress so
that you go. And remember he said, hear me out,
don't wear pajamas. This person says, hear me out. Nobody
effen cares. It's the airport. Nobody cares about what you wear. Respectfully.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Wow, back in the day, they did.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Like my mom tells me, because she goes, I guess
people don't fly like they used to, and I go,
I mean, she goes. They used to be like you
dressed up when you went on an airplane. I said,
I used to dress up when you went to Broadway too,
and they don't do that anymore either.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
They don't.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
And in Las Vegas people used to wear tuxedos in
the casino. My dad did back in the day. But
my point is, if you're an influencer and you're gonna
I guess he gets paid to like put on outfits
and put them on lines. And if people just sit
there and just slice and dice you until you bleed,
I'm like, oh my god, I could never do that.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
No, it truly is.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
I mean, we said all the time you go online,
you're just gonna get full laid for no reason.
Speaker 8 (04:02):
It's so silly.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
When I posted, you know, hey, which outfit should I wear?
A lot of people were giving their opinion on which outfit.
But then there's a handful of people who have to
slide in and say something incredibly stupid or just mean
for no reason, like is it too late to pick
something else? Are there other color options? No? I didn't
ask you if you like these three. Tell me if
you don't, I said, which one?
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Just pick?
Speaker 2 (04:23):
You were you were very specific. I knew the assignment
when you gave it. To me, Gandhi, and I chose
the purple one. Of course you said he didn't choose Hope,
he didn't choose those others. Those are dogs. I'm kidding.
But yeah, it's like you put yourself out there and
people just want to say mean, mean, mean things. Uh,
but you know, Nate has always said you should always
(04:44):
lower your expectations and always expect the very worst from everyone.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Yeah, that's so sad.
Speaker 7 (04:51):
Like I like to go through life thinking, oh, I
expect the best, give somebody the benefit of the doubt.
You've had to turn that in the last five ten
years with social media. You have to expect the worst
from people. So Gandhi, like you have the best of intentions, Hey,
pick an out fit. You gotta expect these dumb asses
to really pull someone, Yeah, some stuff out of their
back pockets.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
You know.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
All it takes this one Like you're feeling real good,
you pose a picture of yourself, You're like, yeah, this
dress is good, I look nice, and then all of
a sudden, he goes is Danielle pregnant? That's all it takes.
Speaker 7 (05:23):
The hell there, It all goes down the toilet. I
remember I posted a selfie one time and I look good.
I had a suit on, and then there was one comment.
Most of them nine we're like, oh my god, you
look good. Hot blah blah blah. Somebody goes, hey, have
you ever been checked for a lazy eye?
Speaker 3 (05:37):
And I'm like what focus on? And I'm like, wait, know, yeah,
hey mo.
Speaker 5 (05:47):
Time people tell me I need to get checked for
a thyroid cancer a thyroid eye disease, I'm like, are
you serious?
Speaker 3 (05:52):
First of all, so rude.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
Second of all, you think that I haven't been to
a doctor, that my doctor doesn't look at me and think, oh,
if there's a problem, I should tell her you.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Okay, here's my thing.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
So I was I got to thinking about people who say,
like really were aunchy, nasty things to people in this
comment section, and so I was thinking, should I want
to go back to the very beginning of my Instagram
life and see if I ever I don't think I
can see it anymore if I've ever said one nasty
thing to any person. I don't think I've ever ever
posted on anyone's post.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Anything that was negative about that. Never ever, never, I.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Would never, I would just not say anything. You just
don't comment.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
There are many times I've wanted to, but I didn't,
but you didn't. But these people I don't know. So look,
if you're an if you're an influencer and you're trying
to get your influencer business off the ground and stuff
you got, you need things.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Again, we're telling you now, I don't know how they
do it.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
I do not know how they do it.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Yeah, exactly, But lower those expectations of people because people suck.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
What what's scary?
Speaker 6 (06:57):
Do you feel that some people though they actually do
this on purpose, be like, Look, I'm gonna do something
so preposterous and weird that I just want all the
comments section to just bark back at me. Could I
send you guys these a lot of them, and all
of a sudden it freeze frames and then it just
goes right into like comment after comment after comment.
Speaker 8 (07:19):
It's like a kind one of those remixed things, and
it's got that song that goes and freeze frames, and
I sent you you know the ones I'm talking about, right.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
I have no clue what.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
You're talking about comment award pages.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
Yeah, well, these people are out to get you.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
I'm just letting you know.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
And I do think that there's a good percentage of
these negative comments that are placed there in order to
light a fuse.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
I mean, I obviously yeah.
Speaker 7 (07:49):
So Ques.
Speaker 5 (07:52):
What doesn't count if somebody says something crappy to you
and then you clap back at them, because I've definitely
done that, But I've never gone out of my way
to leave a crap be comment for a person.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
Have no think I think no. If you want to
fight back, fight back. But you know, we all we
all kind of agree that you know it's probably not
going to help anything.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
It just makes you feel little better.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Well, I do say, though, we sometimes you don't even
have to You just leave that comment there and a
lot of the listeners will do it for you.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
Yeah,
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