August 18, 2024 • 48 mins
In this weekly series, we share highlight clips from the past week of some of the podcasts on The Nashville Podcast Network- Take This Personally with Morgan Huelsman (NEW!!), In The Vet's Office with Dr. Josie (NEW!!), The BobbyCast, 4 Things with Amy Brown, Sore Losers, Movie Mike's Movie Podcast and Get Real with Caroline Hobby. You can listen to new episodes weekly wherever you get your podcasts.
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-4 Things with Amy Brown- @RadioAmy
-Sore Losers- @SoreLosersPodcast
-Movie Mikes Movie Podcast- @MikeDeestro
-Get Real: @GetRealCarolineHobby
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Speaker 1 (00:08):
Hey guys, Sunday Sampler time.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
We're gonna start with In the Vets Office with Doctor Josie,
where she had on a pet psychic and usually I'd
be like, all right, give me a break, but some
of this stuff is crazy, So Doctor Josie, we're gonna
start with.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Also, we did something different on the Bobbycast.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
We had a music panel, Drew Baldridge who's about to
have a number one, Chris Owen who works in publishing,
Eddie and myself. We talked about the charts. It definitely
got a little nerdy, but I liked this episode. So
a lot to happen here. Take this personally with Morgan.
She brought on a couple of guests as well. So
all these on the Sunday Sampler, but we will start
(00:44):
with doctor Josie.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Now enjoy.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Yeah, you're listening to in the Vets Office with Doctor
Josie Horschak.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
So we were talking a little bit before we started recording,
and we're gonna have you do some readings on Siya
and Biggie that are here, which are two of my
little rescue dogs. I do have a third dog at home,
but as I said before, it would be chaos to
have all three of them here. And then I do
have a dog that was really special to me that
passed away a couple of years ago. So we had
(01:25):
talked about maybe doing an angel reading for her as well.
Speaker 6 (01:28):
And all that you need for that is a picture.
Speaker 7 (01:30):
Right, Absolutely, that's all I need.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
Okay, very good. Well which of these two? What are
you thinking? How should we start?
Speaker 7 (01:37):
Let's talk to Siah first. Okay, so she is six
years old, right, but I'm feeling yeah, So before we
started recording, Carrie asked me how old do you think
she is?
Speaker 6 (01:50):
And I said, well, you know, I rescued her.
Speaker 5 (01:51):
I think she's around five and Carrie said I'm getting
six and I said, okay, that makes total sense. And
then you said I think her birthday is May fifth.
Speaker 7 (02:00):
Yeah, she told me Sinco de mile is her birthday.
Speaker 5 (02:02):
Yeah, and that is so crazy because that's what we
have been celebrating at home for since we got her.
Speaker 7 (02:07):
I love it, and she's very excited that you celebrate
her birthday. So that's like one of her favorite memories,
just so you know. Okay, yeah, she does not like water.
Did you know that?
Speaker 6 (02:17):
I did know that. Okay, she hates.
Speaker 7 (02:19):
Water Oh, she's like, tell my mom, I hate water. Okay,
and is there a white swimmy white dog? Is there
a white dog?
Speaker 6 (02:25):
Yes, that's Oakley, our third dog at home.
Speaker 7 (02:28):
Yeah. She's not so sure about Oakley. So she's a
little bit jealous of Oakley. Does that make sense?
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (02:34):
I see that.
Speaker 7 (02:35):
Okay, like warming up to Oakley, but not quite there.
Ok These two though, they love each other and Siah sia,
I'm biggie. They absolutely adore each other, and they're like,
they feel very bondent to me. Somebody just said, rabbits.
Do you have rabbits in your backyard?
Speaker 5 (02:55):
Wow, that's so funny. We have, Yes, we have rap rabbits.
And Saya love squirrels and rabbits.
Speaker 7 (03:02):
Yes, they love to chase them. Okay, Sya, she's so
relaxed right now. So what I did earlier, She came
to me and she was reverse sneezing, and so I
gave her Reiki energy healing moan, I guess brand of
energy healing, and she stopped sneezing, and I kept telling her,
you're safe, You're safe, coach. She does that because she doesn't.
(03:23):
She feels anxious a lot. She has anxiety I'm sure
you know that. But she stopped the reverse sneezing as
soon as I did that, So that's pretty cool.
Speaker 6 (03:31):
That's amazing.
Speaker 7 (03:32):
Yeah, she's very chill right now, obviously.
Speaker 6 (03:36):
Do you need me to get her perked up for you? Hey,
I say them here, hie. She's like, I'm sleeping during
this reading. This is a great She.
Speaker 7 (03:43):
Just showed me horses. Do you what is that? Does
she go around horses? What does that mean?
Speaker 5 (03:47):
Yes, I have an older horse, he's twenty four. Oh wow, yeah,
his name is kay Timmy. So we go out to
the barn and she runs around, Yes, around the horses.
Speaker 6 (03:55):
She loves it.
Speaker 7 (03:56):
Oh yeah she does. That's like her other favorite memory.
And are there chickens there? Or do you give her chicken?
Speaker 6 (04:03):
There are chickens there.
Speaker 7 (04:04):
Yeah, she loves to see the chickens too. She probably
wants to eat them.
Speaker 6 (04:08):
That's cute.
Speaker 7 (04:09):
Loves to see them.
Speaker 6 (04:09):
Yeah, yeah, she likes to chase them.
Speaker 7 (04:11):
Yeah, she's super happy, like she could not be happier
for sure. Yeah. Did she eat a fly or like
chase a fly?
Speaker 6 (04:19):
A fly? Probably not that off the top of my head.
Speaker 7 (04:22):
She's saying. It was like a year ago. She's like, yeah,
there was a fly there, So let me let me
scan the rest of her body and see how she
Tommy's a little bit upset. I would say, like two
out of ten upset. Nothing to worry about. I mean
your vet.
Speaker 6 (04:37):
Yeah that's okay.
Speaker 7 (04:38):
Yeah, you get it more than I do. But yeah,
and then okay, and then she's got a little bit
of pain towards her tailbone on the left side, on
that muscle, if that makes sense, and then it's kind
of shooting down into her left hip. Okay, it makes
sense to you.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
That is Actually I was just telling the listeners this
is crazy because you were not here for this. But
she had a bullet in that and her thigh muscle
and her left Like.
Speaker 6 (05:08):
Yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 7 (05:10):
Wonder she has anxiety. Yeah, you and so many pets
I talked to have severe anxiety, severe generalized anxiety disorder.
As you know, it's an epidemic in our country, just
like cancer. So I would love to know what do
you do to treat her anxiety anything?
Speaker 5 (05:27):
Yeah, I mean she I wouldn't say she has generalized
I think it's more situational in her case. But you're right,
I see a ton of generalized anxiety disorders and our pets.
She's not to the point where it's like, oh gosh,
we need to do medication. But we do a lot
of like positive reinforcement with her and it's helped. Yes,
we do the thunder jacket.
Speaker 6 (05:47):
She's really of work for you.
Speaker 7 (05:49):
Because I have so many people tell me, yes, no,
it doesn't. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (05:52):
It does work for her her A lot of her
anxiety stems around like loud noises, which I guess she
got shot, so that makes sense, makes sense. So I
find that, like with fireworks and thunderstorms, that does make
a big difference.
Speaker 6 (06:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (06:05):
And are you a fan of CBD oil because I
tell everybody about it?
Speaker 6 (06:08):
Yes, yeah, I like CBD for the longest time. As vets.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
We couldn't really give it our blessing, but I have
had a lot of patients respond really well to it.
Speaker 8 (06:18):
Yep.
Speaker 7 (06:18):
I tell everybody about honest pause. Okay, they should pay
me for it, but they don't. But I but my
dog has severe anxiety too, and honest pause, it's the
It's called calm. It's peanut butter and oil in a jar,
and it's fantastic, Like it really helps this anxiety, so
perfect highly recommend.
Speaker 6 (06:34):
This is not an ad.
Speaker 7 (06:35):
This is not an ad.
Speaker 6 (06:36):
All right, Well we'll have to try it.
Speaker 7 (06:38):
Pay me after this, but no, it's not exactly honest. Pause,
give us a call.
Speaker 6 (06:42):
Pause. Yes, that's amazing.
Speaker 7 (06:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (06:45):
One thing I would love to know about her is,
and I know you don't like to know too much,
but she was in Mexico when we found her.
Speaker 6 (06:51):
She was on the streets.
Speaker 5 (06:52):
I just like, does she tell you anything about her
life before we adopted her.
Speaker 7 (06:56):
She's saying a lot of people actually fet her, So
that's good. She was very thirsty, she said, and she
had she had bugs, and so you helped her with
the fleas and the bugs and the means.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Right.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
Yeah, she had a tick born disease when we adopted her,
so that makes sense.
Speaker 7 (07:12):
Oh my gosh. Yeah, she said, I've come a long
way and I'm so grateful that you got me because
I wasn't going to survive.
Speaker 6 (07:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (07:20):
So yeah, I.
Speaker 6 (07:22):
Can't cry on this podcast, but I might.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Drew.
Speaker 8 (07:32):
You have the odd roll.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Of spearheading your entire promotion you as an artist. It's
a multi pronged approach to having a record that's number one,
but you're all the prongs.
Speaker 9 (07:47):
Yeah, and since we talked last week, talked on here
about maybe signing with UTA. I actually got a booking
agent now. I went with UTA, which is super exciting.
So I don't have to book my own shows now,
which I was doing for the last year five years.
Thank you, Bobby.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
He's got himself to a numb rate by himself. But
I take credit for one interview where we're talking. I'm
totally kidding when I said.
Speaker 9 (08:05):
But yeah, it's been you know, super super crazy ride.
And I think, now, what's the hardest thing is enjoying
it because everybody's like, what's next, what's your next single?
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Where are you at with that?
Speaker 9 (08:18):
And I'm just like, dang, dude, I just feel like
I've been fighting goliath this whole time and now like
I'm having trouble enjoying the top ten because I'm stressed
about what the next single is and because this town
moves so fast all the time, and is that next
single gonna be me again by myself? Right now?
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (08:37):
You know, I don't have like a bunch of labels
calling or anything.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
I would still say. I would say, no, it will
not be by yourself. That's what I would guess. Listen,
success draws attention, draws people who want to make money,
and if they say you can make the money, I mean,
this is.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Word in capitalist world.
Speaker 7 (08:55):
Yeah, one hundred percent.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
I think you just got a booking agent far too
late for that to actually have happened. But it's gonna
that stuff's gonna start stumbling in when you're not even
gonna want some of it. Honestly, you're gonna have learned
things where you're going, Oh, I don't even need to
have this type of person because I know how to
do it, or I don't have to have a full
capacity person.
Speaker 9 (09:12):
Yeah, and I think I'm to that point where I
do want somebody, you know, if anybody's listening out there
and want assigning a record deal, come on.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
But but okay, great, great point you do. But I
would say, like a Cody Johnson, for example, signs to Warner,
but still he had created a business, his own path,
owns owns basically everything, had the leverage to make that
deal a little better. I think you'll have either the
leverage to make it a little better or not take one. Yeah,
(09:40):
which is the best place to be? Do you know
about the Cody Johnson situation?
Speaker 7 (09:42):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Yeah, for sure he has.
Speaker 10 (09:44):
He has one of the best record deals in down
He gets I mean full creative control, and he gets
so much of his music back in terms of just
you know, the masters and money and all that, and
I mean he had all the leverage before he signed
with Warner. He could have just like stayed Indye and
still sold out every single show he played, but he
decided to partner with Warner because it was the best
opportunity to help him with mainstream radio, but still keep
(10:06):
all the stuff that.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
He wanted to keep. So it's like, what advice.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
The world would you give Drew here about because he's
gonna he's going to have labels coming at him and
it may not be the biggest or it may not
be the most money, or it might be right, or
maybe people that can provide a certain type of service
that you need. What what advice would you give Drew
about labels when they come calling.
Speaker 10 (10:26):
I would say, definitely, try to explore every single option
in terms of what what does this record deal give
to me that I can't do on my own, and
what do I need help with? What do I not
need help with? And then all of the you know,
all the money that you could be making with a
record deal and how did the masters look and all
this other stuff. You have the factor and so definitely
(10:47):
don't like take the first thing that's offered to you.
And again you you know, I mean, Drew holds all
the leverage right now. And when you have a number
one song like this where you're doing it all yourself, yeah,
so I.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
Think a problem that you could get into as well.
And it's a great problem to have. And I have
a bit of this where I just did everything myself
for so long that it's just expected, even though I
have teams that I'm just gonna do it myself. Yeah,
where they're like, oh, you know that he's already done this.
It's like even the radio show when I started, I
was paying for the whole thing. I was funding the
whole thing, even the syndication. I was buying the equipment.
(11:20):
I was calling the stations, I was hustling station. I
was losing money, broken equipment. It didn't work half the time.
We were syndicating the like two cities and I'm sure
they're real cities, you know. And so but because I
made it work without any sort of budget for promotion,
like oh, we don't have given promotion. He can do
it himself.
Speaker 9 (11:36):
Yeah, And see that's something that I think about all
the time now, is like, you know, if you go
to one of these labels, I know how it works,
you know.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
So they can't really pull the wool over the again.
Speaker 8 (11:47):
There's no wool, you know.
Speaker 9 (11:48):
Like there, I'm gonna know, like, hey, did you call
so and so to about this? Because that's what we
did on this last one. And I think, you know,
I don't know if that's a good thing or a
bad thing in their eyes, but I will say, like
I do have a problem now of a little bit
of like control of my business and what's going on,
(12:08):
because I'm like, I've been doing this alone for a
long time and it's all your money now, Yeah, it's
all my money. I fund it all, you know, and
it's a lot when you start looking back at it,
but obviously it's an investment in us moving forward. But yeah,
just like you said, funding your own show, buying your
own gear, you know, it's like that's what we're doing
right now, funding it, buying it, going on tour, paying
for the guys. And I saw your post just last
(12:30):
week breakdown of artists pay you know, and stuff that's real,
you know, of like artists normally makes about fifteen percent
when after the show's done or whatever. We're very lucky
that the masters don't do that.
Speaker 8 (13:04):
Than personal flds men.
Speaker 11 (13:11):
I am so excited to welcome Nicole on with us
right now. Nicole, how are you today?
Speaker 6 (13:16):
I am great? Thank you very much for having me.
Speaker 11 (13:18):
I'm so excited because you are a neuroscientist, you have
a master's in organizational psychology, and you're a personal coach,
which is so many titles and just totally awesome.
Speaker 12 (13:31):
Thank you, that's really kind. Thank you so much for
having me. I'm so excited for this.
Speaker 11 (13:35):
Is there anything outside of exercise that you're like, make
sure you're doing this for your brain health? Exercise is
really important. What's kind of some other ones there?
Speaker 5 (13:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (13:43):
I think the key to keeping brain health is staying active,
so not just physically but mentally as well. So continue
to learn new things, continue to stay engaged with life.
I know that dubs can get very stressful, and I
think we allso withdrew the lockdown. You know, when we're
in these confined spaces and people having to live in
maybe not such happy homes or maybe just seeing the
same thing every day. It's taxing on the brain and
(14:05):
we do see it in research and especially in mice experiments.
When you put them in an environment that is monotonous
and that is not joyful, they will dispense drugs if
they are available. But the drug is available even if
they are in an environment that is happy, and they
choose not to dispend drugs, So the choice is always there.
The environment as well keeps them happy, so staying engaged
with life, so finding a hobby. And we see this
(14:27):
in all the individuals who maintain volunteering jobs or hobbies
or continue to socialize with friends. They live more prosperous
lives and that is linked to BD and F when
we are learning. When we continue to learn, we continue
to change our brain to sort of it's almost like
not letting it stagnate, if you will, And that is
because of BD and F. When we learn, we increase B,
D and F as well. So I actually get all
(14:49):
my clients to do some ball training games, or I
encourage them to use the opposite hand. So try and
brush your teeth with your left hand if you're right handed,
or the other hand if you're left handed. It's really hard,
and that's actually really challenging. So just taking your mind
and your brain sort of places where it's not comfortable
will mean that it has to drive BDNF and then
in turn keep you know, integrity.
Speaker 11 (15:09):
I mean, I took up adult gymnastics at twenty eight
and I felt really good about that. But now I
want to brush my teeth with my left hand because
that sounds even more.
Speaker 12 (15:18):
People that ask me questions what the best way to
keep my brain health at the cheapest cost is just
hydrating consistently literally hydrating water.
Speaker 6 (15:26):
Because I found it quite crazy.
Speaker 12 (15:28):
But there's a lot of people that don't drink a
lot of water throughout the day, clients that only drink
coffee and the tea in the evening. It's very British,
and I was saying, no, no, no, You've got to
drink water. There's water in my coffee, and I'm thinking, no,
you have to drink water.
Speaker 11 (15:40):
Well, I will say I am one of those people.
For whatever reason, I my taste buds hate water and
I do my best, though to still force myself to
drink water because I do know I feel better when.
Speaker 12 (15:50):
I could you put electrolytes. You can afford electrolynes, pop
them in and then you've got a flavored water.
Speaker 11 (15:55):
So yes, I do meo mio is my like go
to t you guys just squirt it in and it
makes me drink more water.
Speaker 6 (16:01):
So I found the little cure perfect.
Speaker 12 (16:04):
And if it's got electrolytes, and then it's even better
because your signapses communicate through sodium potassium pump, which is
literally sodium potassium communicating through a membrane, and that's how
we generate energy to spike and action potential, which then
sends the information to another sign apps you see. So
something as simple as ingesting electrolytes can help maintain cognition
and brain help.
Speaker 11 (16:24):
I love when we find out that we're doing good things.
It's probly now we're doing bad things. I'm really excited
when I find.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Out I did I'm good.
Speaker 11 (16:30):
It's actually true that different parts of our brain trigger
different things. You know, they talk about the right brain
and the left brain and creativity versus analytical. Is that
something that's actually true or is that something that just
kind of came out into the universe.
Speaker 6 (16:44):
It came out into the universe with good reason, but
we did disprove it if you will.
Speaker 12 (16:48):
So, the left side of the brain and the right
side of brain both work together in language. So they
used to think that the left side was more logical.
I think it's that way around that. I don't even
know anymore because I know that it's not that way.
So I think the left, so they bely, was more
logical because it dealt with language. But actually the right
hand side helps put the sentence together, so it puts
sort of context to the message, whereas a left side
(17:09):
just sort of picks up on the actual words. But no,
we don't have a sort of left brain right brain dominancy.
But with that being said, the left side of the
brain does control the right and the right does control
the left. So if you're right handed and you use
your right hand more, you might be using it a
bit more of your left hand side. But the brain
is always going to maximize itself, and it's always going
to make sure that it's using one hundred percent of
(17:30):
its energy. And the other myth is that we use
ten percent of our brains.
Speaker 6 (17:33):
That's not true.
Speaker 12 (17:34):
We use one hundred percent. So the brain will maximize
itself where it can. So creativity and logical thinking actually
come from two separate networks. One network for creativity is
called the default mode network. It's a network of three
brain areas and actually form a triangle sort of like
here in the frontal lobes and then down to the
side and then sort of back together. Okay, so you
(17:54):
can see it now on both sides, and that's responsible
for mind wandering sometimes rumination as well, but their creativity
and individuals who have a higher connectivity in that system
are able to siphon memories and use them as inspiration,
which someone like me will probably lack a little bit of,
although I'm a little bit creative, but it can be trained.
The brain is classic, so it can be trained. You
can become more creative, you can become more logic. The
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logic network of the brain is also on both sides.
It's called the central executive network. So that's cognitively demanding tasks,
problem solving, and there will be higher connectivity in the
frontal lobes because that's where your conscious sort of decision
making comes from.
Speaker 11 (18:30):
Wow, that is fascinating, especially to learn the myths that
we learn thanks to the internet. But thank you for
debunking some of those for us. It sounds like we
can use all of our brains to unlock some new
potential because it's constantly learning.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
We're going to do it live. We are the one too,
very sore Losers. What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. I
know the most about sports, so I'll give you the
sports facts, my sports opinions, because I'm pretty much Jay
sports genius. Y'all.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male.
I live on the North side of Nashville with bays
Or my wife.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
We do have a farm.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
It's beautiful, a lot of acreage, no animals, a lot
of crops. Hopefully soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe
a little fescue to be determined.
Speaker 1 (19:20):
Over to you, coach, And here's a clip from this
week's episode of The Sore Losers.
Speaker 3 (19:27):
Do you know Riley Duckman has a bar in Midtown
and it's called duck Hunt.
Speaker 2 (19:31):
Or some shit.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
Who Riley Green has a bar? Riley?
Speaker 3 (19:37):
Yeah no, no, there's no one. So Arnold was there
tasting out their whiskey. Yeah, check it out, guys, Arnold's
gonna be off the show for a minute. There was
a lot of rumored affairs. We're gonna start the show.
We're gonna do it live type Riley Green. Midtown bars
supposed to be right next to winters and losers.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
I don't see anything. I'm not making it up. It's
a legit story. Ray, I need two sources before it
says Rithy Green to open Nashville bar. Yeah, jelly Rolls
get open one too.
Speaker 3 (20:14):
Actually, that's not even a joke. You probably will.
Speaker 1 (20:16):
Yeah, I heard actually Cooks opening one. Okay, I'm gonna
have to sit on this for a minute. Yeah, who's
another newcomer, Shaboozies opening one man? Seriously, I mean no,
but everybody that gets a number one song is opening
a bar. At some point, the Alcoholics Anonymous company needs
(20:37):
to come and be founded in Nashville because that's just
too much alcohol. I'm amazed how so many bars just
keep opening up and they're all pat they're all just slammed.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
Hey, you fill them. Hawktua was way south of town.
You got people coming from cities all around Nashville. Lane
where the population is. It's all the silent majority an
hour in each direction. You should come up by me, dude,
seven lanes cars near mirror. My holy shit, I thought
I came to the country, but then you go two
(21:05):
blocks over and it's nothing butt country. But there's main
roads where cars just fly.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
Man. Not just in Nashville, the city. The population of
Austin is in Austin. It's round rock In that metal Puda,
it's Kyle. It's uh Fredericksburg. That's a little far. You
make a watering hole. These cowboys are gonna find it,
and there's Taylor. They're gonna put down a whole yack
of a case of Iraq huddo. Yeah, so if you
(21:32):
drink it, bring it. If you buy it, they'll drink it.
Logo Vista. What's he gonna name? The art isn't saying there.
Speaker 3 (21:37):
I just made up duck Hunt.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
Uh the there was a girl artists who have a
presidence of Mintown neighborhood, Nashville. Green is set to open
a bar called Riley Green's duck Blind Nashville. I almost
came it because his nickname is Duckman. Thumb Blind will
be open on the location of Winning. They're gonna have
duck Hunt. Hey, honey, me a beer. So it's not
(22:02):
gonna be Winners anymore. It's gonna be duck Hunt or
whatever he's calling. Yeah, so winners is no more losers?
Speaker 3 (22:11):
Is there?
Speaker 1 (22:12):
Winners is no more? Oh wow?
Speaker 3 (22:15):
And then there's even one two bars over which used
to be rebar is gonna be a new thing?
Speaker 1 (22:19):
Abby showed me the picture.
Speaker 13 (22:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
And then what's it called the one from Austin kung Fu? No,
the other one kung Fu?
Speaker 8 (22:29):
The ranch not not the ranch?
Speaker 1 (22:31):
Oh yeah, doghouse, dogwood, dogwood? Yeah, what's that gonna be? Oh,
it's closed. I don't know if it closed, but I
know they sold. They sold.
Speaker 3 (22:39):
And did you see dog pound or dog house on Mumbrian. Yeah,
it's closed.
Speaker 1 (22:44):
Really, it's now live oak And McKitty told you guys,
this is in between the weeds. But McKitty told me
that whole Dumumbrian complex it's gonna be a two year development.
They're knocking out all those buildings and it's just gonna
be live oak and tin roof and then the rest
is going to be an apartment or something. No crap,
because no nobody ever those bars never excel and never
succeed in the bank that was there got robbed or
(23:07):
something because it's never reopened. Oh that's not good news, hey, guys,
I'm gonna rub me. Alright, let's do a live man. Yeah,
we're gonna do a live Oh the one dude? Three losers?
What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. I know the most
about sports, so I'll give you the sports facts, my
(23:29):
sports opinions, because I'm pretty much a sports genius, y'all.
It says.
Speaker 3 (23:34):
And I'm from the North. I'm in Alpha male. I
live on the North Side in Nashville. Bazer, she's a
Broadway girl. Meta took her there by her wanting it
wasn't kidnap, and we'd have property two and a half acres.
There's farmers and ranchers that have two hundred acres. They're
not gonna sell. They could probably make about ten million.
We are not gonna sell either. We won't sell. We
won't sell. And here's your newest Nashville bar, Ingrid Andres.
(23:57):
It's called the Anthem.
Speaker 1 (24:01):
Yet, dude, if she opens a bar, I've seen it
all I have and it's a karaoke or something. No,
she Oh man, that's funny, that's free.
Speaker 3 (24:16):
I'm at the risk of sounding old, dude. We were
here when there was not one artist bar. Was there
even one? I mean there was Alan Jackson's. No that
was there. No, wasn't the good time bar's been there.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
No, it's not, it hasn't.
Speaker 11 (24:27):
No.
Speaker 3 (24:28):
Then it opened looking like shit.
Speaker 1 (24:30):
Yeah, it just always looked bad. Yes, because it's that
real skinny one right on the right hand side of
the road. That's new, dude. There was no artist bars
when we moved here.
Speaker 8 (24:39):
None.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
Wow, do we sound old? Not a single one? We
sound old. The first artist bar was Florida Georgia Lyon.
That was the first one.
Speaker 3 (24:50):
And then George Jones was pretty quick in there because
we used to always came and go. Yeah, we went
to did brunch there. It was a museum, but they
had a little brunch spot, great Mimosa Deals. It was
a block from where we used to live. That's the
only reason I know that. And then you had your dirks,
open your Garth, open your Laney, Luke Combs, Morgan Wallen,
bon Jovi's, Open Jovi, Rich, John Rich, Miranda, Lambert, Blake Shelton,
(25:15):
Luke Bryan.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
She's Can I just say I walked by Morgan Wallen's
bar this weekend. I've been in it. I didn't go
in it, but from the outside it doesn't look that
it just looks like an office building, right. And I
had a friend visit town, very trustworthy. It was the
girl Katie from Charleston. She was included in some of
(25:38):
the stories. Yeah, she said it was her favorite bar.
It's just goes straight up. It's one of the smaller interiors.
You're gonna have maybe good live music, but it's very small.
The line was down the street to get into it. Ray,
there wasn't an empty chair.
Speaker 8 (26:00):
Be good, Okay, cast up little food for yourself.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Life.
Speaker 8 (26:14):
Say oh it's pretty bad. It's pretty beautiful, man, beautiful
laughs a little more said he cut. You're kicking it
with full.
Speaker 14 (26:26):
Thing with Amy Brown, Amanda, When did Dennis first say
he loved you? Or did you say it first? And
share whatever details you went to about y'all's situation.
Speaker 4 (26:38):
Okay, I totally blurted it out like it was me
and Dennis and I have an age gap. We will
be married ten years in October, and when we met,
we had a connection.
Speaker 14 (26:51):
And before you tell the rest of the story, I'm
gonna pausital quo because I'm gonna bring up why we're
talking about the OT word.
Speaker 6 (26:56):
Okay, let me start with that, and then finish your story.
But there's this dating coach.
Speaker 14 (27:01):
His name is Jake Maddick, and he was talking about
how if your partner doesn't say very clearly I love
you by twelve weeks, then he's not your ideal partner
and you've wasted your time. He puts dating tips on
TikTok and Instagram. He said, you'll know with your ideal
partner and they'll know too, and that it needs to
(27:22):
unravel in the twelve week time span. So continue your
story and give us the timeline.
Speaker 4 (27:27):
Well, we met, and yes there was an age gap,
but we just had this connection. And what I loved
before I knew I loved Dennis. What I loved about
him is, first of all, just his energy. He was
super grounded, but he was honest. What you saw was
what you got, Like he said what he meant, and
he meant what he said, and he's still like that
(27:47):
to this day. Sometimes he's really cut and dry and literal,
and that can drive me nutso but I also really
appreciate that I get an honest person who shows up
and is consistent.
Speaker 15 (28:00):
So anyway, we had probably been dating.
Speaker 4 (28:02):
I mean, get ready for this, because this is it's
pretty crazy we had been seeing each other, and we
were seeing each other long distance, so we would see
each other every couple of weeks or every three weeks,
but we would talk on the phone. So we had
been cultivating this relationship, you know, over the phone and
over text, and then we'd see each other every couple
of weeks. But we had probably been seeing each other
six weeks two months. I don't know the exact time,
(28:24):
but we were together one weekend and we were going
to hear some live music and we had just had
dinner and we were sitting and talking and he was
making me laugh.
Speaker 15 (28:32):
And I said, oh my gosh, I love you.
Speaker 4 (28:36):
And then as I said it, I went, I love you,
I love and then I remember like cause I was like,
I turned beat red. And he was standing there and
he was smiling, and I said, well, I guess I
may as well just finish what I was saying, I
love you, and he smiled back at me. Because I
couldn't believe myself. I was embarrassed. It just flew out
(28:57):
of my mouth and he smiled back and he goes,
I love you too, And like I said, Dennis says
what he means, and means what he says, so, of
course I was kind of like, but then it was like,
but this is true, this is love, and so it
was spontaneous. So whether you're the man or the woman
or where whatever role you are in your relationship, I
(29:19):
think for me it was the spontaneity of it. And
even though I tried to edit myself, I went ahead
and said, well, I'm putting it out there, and I
was like, whatever he said in the moment, I was
ready for it, but I was so embarrassed.
Speaker 15 (29:32):
But he said I love you, and after that it
was like I do love you.
Speaker 6 (29:35):
Yeah, I love you.
Speaker 14 (29:37):
So it didn't quite turn into I love your shoes. Yeah,
Like yeah, I would edit it to that, just because
like blurting it out or just wanting for him to
say it first. And I don't know where we get
that from. Jake doesn't say here if it matters or not.
But you and Dennis, y'all fall into the dating coach's timeline.
Speaker 4 (29:56):
We do fall into that timeline. And then if you
want to get another layer deep, so I'll just reveal
this to y'all. And Dennis tells us to people all
the time. He says, oh, yeah, she proposed to me.
So I am the one in the relationship that just
blurted things out. And we had been together, I don't know,
not quite a year at that time, and I said
(30:16):
to him one day we were somewhere and I said,
oh my gosh, I could totally be married to you.
I've never been married. I've been married one time to Dennis, like,
this is my marriage, my one and only married and
y'all been married ten years and we've been married ten
years now, and we have a pretty wonderful marriage. We
go through our ups and downs, but it is pretty
consistent and he is my person. But I'm again, I'm like,
(30:38):
I'm the blurder outer, and I'm like, oh my gosh,
I could be married to you. And again I did
the same thing, like, oh my gosh, I just said that,
and he but then again he said, and I could
be married to you, and he proposed to me within
I don't know, six weeks after that.
Speaker 6 (30:54):
Probably yeah, shout out Dennis. Do you think you'll listen?
Speaker 15 (30:58):
No, probably not, but I'll I'll probably recount him. Yeah,
he won't listen.
Speaker 6 (31:01):
Does he listen to soul sessions?
Speaker 15 (31:03):
No, he doesn't. He does not.
Speaker 4 (31:05):
Every now and then if I ask him to listen
to my podcast, he will, but he hears that stuff
for me all the time. He just wants to hang
out with me, so he doesn't want to hear my
pontifications and wisdom or whatever.
Speaker 15 (31:17):
It is not saying that I'm wise.
Speaker 14 (31:18):
But oh, I think you're wise, but also yeah, I
mean Ben and I were married seventeen years. I was
on the radio the entire time. He barely listened to
the show ever, and definitely didn't listen to my podcast.
Speaker 15 (31:29):
I don't think, yeah, and just doesn't listen to mine.
Speaker 14 (31:31):
Like a friend said something to him that lunchbox said
at one point, and then he would go back and
try to hear it, and then he'd be.
Speaker 6 (31:38):
Like, what happened here? Yeah, And I'm like he was
just joking.
Speaker 4 (31:42):
Yeah. I think it's like he gets the intimate version
of me and that's the one that he loves. But
he celebrates all parts of me. And if I were
to request something or if people bring it up to
him all the time and he's like, I didn't hear that,
but it doesn't surprise me, or I'll have to go
listen and he will, but he's he's not that interested.
Speaker 15 (31:58):
He likes to have me, you know, one on one time.
Speaker 14 (32:01):
Well, I'm thankful that you were able to come here
for one on one time with me. And that's what
we'll talk about next, is friendships and what those are
looking like these days compared.
Speaker 15 (32:10):
Let's get to you with the L word and evelo.
Speaker 6 (32:13):
You got to get to the third thing.
Speaker 4 (32:15):
I know, like just for one second, because I know
your listeners are interested in this and because they know
your journey and that you're opening yourself up when it
comes to love and loving someone. You know, have you
been thinking about, gosh, how do I express myself?
Speaker 13 (32:31):
You know?
Speaker 4 (32:31):
I mean, there's this something that you're thinking about because
it's different, You're in a different stage of life and
in a different place. Would you just blurt it out,
like if it came to you like I did, would
you just not edit yourself?
Speaker 15 (32:42):
Maybe yes, we'll have to see. I know we'll have
to see.
Speaker 4 (32:45):
I'm just hey, I'm throwing these things out there for
her on her journey because I want you to just
be you. And I know that for me in that moment,
it was like that was just me, even if it
was embarrassing, it was just me.
Speaker 14 (32:57):
I will say, it's not the L word, but I
blurred out things that I didn't blurt out in previous relationships,
my college boyfriends or in my marriage early on, especially
when we were dating. I don't know if I would
have said stuff to him later like that, but I've
just shared different thoughts that pop into my head, and
I'm like, I don't know if I should be saying
(33:18):
this right now, but I'm just going to tell you
this because this is what I'm thinking, this is where
I am, and this may sound weird, and I have
found myself communicating in that way a little bit more.
Speaker 16 (33:39):
Hey, it's Mike d And this week on Movie Mike's
movie podcast, I shared my traumatic history with R raided movies.
I'm gonna play this clip where I talk about the
first rated R movie I ever saw when I was
way too young for it, plus the most regretful R
rated movie I've ever seen. You gotta check out this
whole episode because I also get into my best, worst,
(33:59):
and the last R rated movies, plus a spoiler free
movie review of d D, which just became one of
my favorite coming of age movies in the last ten years.
But right now, here's just a little bit of movie
Mike's Movie Podcast. The first R rated movie I ever saw.
I was seven years old in nineteen ninety eight. This
movie came out in nineteen eighty eight and is regarded
(34:22):
as the movie that almost traumatized me forever. It was
child's play. The reason I watched this movie at seven
years old. The reason I was really exposed to so
many things so early on is because I have an
older brother and an older sister who are seven and
nine years older than me, so they were probably fifteen
fourteen years old in that age range, and I was
(34:44):
always exposed to things that they were exposed to just
because I was around. I wanted to be with him,
and my parents were okay with it for the most part.
I think the problem my parents had was nudity. They
could do and deal with us watching bloody and violent.
That was okay with them. They were used to that.
We would even watch old school eighties Mexican movies with
(35:06):
people getting shot and cut up, and that was fine
with them. But when it came to anything showing a nipple,
we were not exposed to that. And we'll get into
one of the movies later on this list that was
traumatizing for everybody.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
In that picture.
Speaker 16 (35:19):
But I always wanted to be just like my brother,
just like my sister. What came along with that is
I watched a lot of movies I was not supposed
to watch. And the way we watched Child's Play is
we used to go to Walmart, and there was a
video store connected to our Walmart back in the nineties.
I don't even think it made it to the two thousands.
It wasn't even a name brand video store like Blockbuster
(35:42):
or anything. I really never went to Blockbuster as a kid.
Their prices were astronomical for us. We never had a
membership card, so I don't really get nostalgic for Blockbuster.
The other video store in town and walks of Hatchie,
we had a place I was just called the Video Store,
and you could go rent movies for a dollar. They
would have these little hooks on the wall with a
(36:03):
number written on them. They were like these little coin
medallion things, and you would take it off the wall
on any movie you wanted to rent, and then just
go up to the cashier and give them all these
little coins and they would go get the VHS or
the DVD for you. That was probably our primary source
of video rental after the video store inside of the
(36:24):
Walmart could put But the first time we ever went
and rented a movie from this Walmart video rental place.
I had my cousins in town from Memphis and we
wanted to rent some movies, and that was really the
only way we could convince my mom to allow us
to rent something, because we just never paid for that.
If we were going to get a movie in any capacity,
(36:46):
we would buy it from the flea market. That way
we could keep it forever and watch it for years
to come, which we did with a lot of our vhs.
But convince her to do it. And I don't know
why she let us rent Child's Play. Maybe she didn't
really know what it was. Maybe it's because Chucky is
on the cover and it looks like it could be
a movie for kids. There's a doll on it. And
we also rented one more VHS that night, and it
(37:09):
was a Thundercat's VHS. I think it was just episodes
of ThunderCats from the eighties, and I remember my brother
being a big fan of that show, and it blew
our mind that it was available to watch it home,
back when you had to watch everything on regular TV.
But we rented Child's Play, watched it on a Friday night,
and by late Friday night, I was traumatized. It freaked
(37:31):
me out so bad I thought all of my toys
were going to come to life. The first kill in
this movie is just burned into my head as being
one of the gnarliest things I ever witnessed as a kid,
and I was so freaked out by the end of
this movie that I was so glad that we had
also rented ThunderCats because it was kind of a palate
(37:52):
cleanser and I still need that to this day.
Speaker 1 (37:54):
If I watch a really dark show.
Speaker 16 (37:56):
I was just watching The Boys on Amazon, and not
that show would give you nightmares, but there are some
very graphic and violent images that if I watched that
show right before bed, it could creep into my dreams
and I have nightmares. So sometimes I'll throw in an
episode of Dragon ball Z in between, so I don't
have that as the last thing I watched. But luckily
(38:16):
we had a VHS tape of ThunderCats. I watched that
after Child's Play but still ended up having nightmares. So
that was the first ever R rated movie I watched
back when I was seven years old. In nineteen ninety eight,
last R rated movie I watched in theaters was Deadpool
in Wolverine. Streaming at home, it was probably Late Night
with the Devil Love that horror movie. Still in my
(38:39):
running for the best horror movie of the year. That movie,
in my mind is battling out right now with long
Legs as taking that number one spot. Most regretful R
rated movie I ever watched was also in nineteen ninety eight,
another movie we got from the Walmart video rental store,
and it was Beloved, starring Oprah and Danny Glover. I
(38:59):
don't know what possessed my mom to want to rent
this movie. This was a pick from my mom. And
if you listen to this podcast, you know then my
mom oddly loves horror movies. Really, the genre she leans
into most is horror movies, and it doesn't matter if
it's overle gory, if it's I would say she leans
more towards like a possession type movie, anything related with
(39:24):
any kind of exorcism Laorna. She loves Annabelle in the
Conjuring series. She is all about the horror genre. Second
favorite genre of movie for her is probably animated when
it comes to Pixar movies, Coco being one of her
favorite movies of all time. In that third category, it
would definitely be comedies from the nineties. But for some
(39:46):
reason she wanted to rent Beloved. And maybe it was
because Oprah's talk show was much more popular in the nineties.
Speaker 7 (39:54):
And I don't know if she did an entire.
Speaker 16 (39:56):
Segment promoting this movie or had people on her show
to talk about but for some reason, when this movie
came out on VHS, my mom wanted to rent it.
Speaker 1 (40:04):
And if you've never seen.
Speaker 16 (40:05):
Beloved, it is a very disturbing and weird movie that's
part drama, part fantasy horror, and we were not prepared
for this type of movie. If you've ever went blind
to a film, this is not one to go in
blind on that you watch with your parents, and you
probably have a story like this of hey, let's all
(40:26):
go watch this movie as a family. It's all rated,
but it'll be okay, and then bam, you get a
wiener on the screen, you get people hooking up, you
get something that is going to traumatize your experience that
you were not expected to see with your mom and dad.
Speaker 1 (40:41):
Beloved is one of them.
Speaker 16 (40:43):
Again, if you're not familiar with this movie. It has
full frontal nudity, and my seven year old self was
exposed to that with my mom for the very first time.
I think my mom gasped in sheer terror of what
was happening on this screen. That paired with the fact
that we didn't really understand what was going on in
(41:05):
this movie, it was hard for us to comprehend. Not
a movie we should have watched together as a family,
But that scene came out of nowhere, and I will
never forget it, much like I never forgot the first
time I saw Child's Play. So the one regretful R
rated movie I have is beloved from nineteen eighty eight.
I feel like now, as an adult thirty three years old,
(41:26):
I should revisit that movie to see if I understand
it a little bit more. Now people say you have
to read the book before watching that movie to understand it.
Maybe that would have helped, But still I regret that
R rated movie.
Speaker 8 (41:47):
Carlone, she's a queen of talking.
Speaker 15 (41:51):
It was a son.
Speaker 1 (41:54):
She's getting really not afraid to face it's so so
just let it flow. No one can do with ca.
Speaker 13 (42:06):
Okay, So, so you broke up with boyfriend, toxic boyfriend,
and then all of a sudden, you are just in
the dating scene.
Speaker 15 (42:13):
Yeah, what on earth is that like?
Speaker 13 (42:16):
Because now you have a sexy man in uniform. We
don't call him by name. What's his name? Man in uniform?
Speaker 7 (42:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (42:20):
Uniform?
Speaker 13 (42:21):
I mean love it. We only see his hands in
your Instagram twirling you and things and like bringing you
flowers and like just being so sexy. Yes, I mean
he looks sexy from that hand. Oh, then is a
hot hands. It looks like a strong hand. It is, yeah, yeah, strong,
And she's like notebook kissy, I'll throw up against the walls.
Speaker 11 (42:37):
Yeah, you in that phase?
Speaker 6 (42:38):
Are y'all having that kind of hot romance?
Speaker 8 (42:40):
Oh?
Speaker 11 (42:40):
I mean we are absolutely in honeymoon face. But what
hozy fout with her?
Speaker 6 (42:44):
You get after it?
Speaker 11 (42:45):
Girl, I don't feel like it's like gonna be a
honeymoon thing. I think this is just what it is.
Speaker 13 (42:49):
You're gonna have hot, sexy romance for the rest of
your days with him.
Speaker 11 (42:53):
That's what I'm hoping for, because that's what it feels like.
Speaker 13 (42:55):
Like when you see him. Are you just like running
into his arms?
Speaker 15 (42:57):
Yeah, wait to move.
Speaker 11 (42:58):
I'm so excited sometimes he's like more and I saw
you this morning and I was like, yeah, but it
was so long ago.
Speaker 13 (43:02):
Are all like kissing for hours? I mean no, we're
not like sitting at all the time making out Like
I just don't ever remember these beginning phases because I've
been married now ten years. Love my husband, Michael. You're great,
You're so sexy. I mean, I want you, baby, But
it is not like this. So you know, when you
first meet that person in the beginning, you're like, tell
me what that's like, Like, how is how are these vibes?
Speaker 11 (43:21):
You know, it was it was different with him because
it you are taught like well, I don't know if
you watched a lot of Disney Princess, So yeah, all
of it.
Speaker 13 (43:29):
It's really ruined all my perception of life and what
we got screwed.
Speaker 11 (43:33):
I saw really mean the other day that I was
like the kids, easys get inside and out too, And
here we are dealing with Cinderella having an ugly stepmom
and all the im.
Speaker 13 (43:41):
Like, hey, they didn't get screwed, and now they have
Mawana and they having Conto with these strong women who
is not about finding a man to save you.
Speaker 10 (43:48):
Oh.
Speaker 13 (43:48):
I was always looking for a man to save me.
Speaker 11 (43:51):
I'm pretty sure all of us were. You were a millennial.
You were always looking for a man to save you always.
But we're learning and now. And they said it was
millennial who did Inside and Out too, because we had
to help people go through things that we didn't go
get to go through.
Speaker 13 (44:05):
Those movies are phenomenal. I saw Inside Out too, and
I'm like, this is absolutely phenomenal.
Speaker 15 (44:09):
I haven't seen it yet.
Speaker 13 (44:09):
It's phenomenal, but I do know.
Speaker 11 (44:11):
It's like all about emotions, yes.
Speaker 15 (44:12):
And I love that.
Speaker 8 (44:13):
It's incredible.
Speaker 13 (44:14):
So I forgot what you asked. Okay, so weird that one.
Speaker 11 (44:16):
On a tangent about your insights, planning your form?
Speaker 13 (44:18):
Oh do y'all mug down all the time? Are you
constantly making out? Do you have time to talk because
you're kissing something?
Speaker 8 (44:22):
So does?
Speaker 11 (44:22):
He taught me to think that, you know, these really
intense butterflies and all these feelings were what you should have.
And he was just safe from the beginning. He was
like this place of comfort, and I wanted to see
him more because he was so cool and calm and
just nothing phased him and he stayed that way.
Speaker 15 (44:45):
That wasn't just an act.
Speaker 11 (44:46):
It wasn't just like this is who I am to
make you like me. It's like that's who he is
all the time, and he's like become this very safe
place for me because I am chaos. My life is chaos,
and I am chaos. But he is like steady and
steady and consistent, and so I think that's why. Like
(45:06):
so when it's like the steamy romance stuff, it's we're like, gosh,
like you just want to squeeze you. You're so great,
and not as much like the oh my gosh, I
have butterflies the night, like what's going to happen next?
Speaker 4 (45:18):
Just you know.
Speaker 11 (45:19):
Yeah, it does feel that way, So I hope it
continues to stay that way, and it feels like it's
progressing to that.
Speaker 13 (45:26):
So okay, So does he know that you talk about
him on air and stuff? Oh yeah, And how does
he feel about that? He thinks it's hilarious, Like he
is not impacted in the slightest. Do you think it's
just because he's cool, calm, collected man in uniform that
he can handle pressure?
Speaker 11 (45:38):
Yeah, for sure. I mean it's definitely his personality and.
Speaker 1 (45:41):
How he was raised.
Speaker 11 (45:43):
He just is really like there are not a lot
of things that bother him.
Speaker 15 (45:47):
What would that be like?
Speaker 11 (45:48):
I don't know, I mean, what would that be like?
Speaker 8 (45:51):
Could it be?
Speaker 7 (45:52):
Gosh?
Speaker 6 (45:52):
I wish I could know what that was like?
Speaker 11 (45:55):
Yeah, Like, you know, he has his moments, and he's
so great about talking about his feelings and he's great
at listing and communicating, but he's just not He doesn't
just have this chaos following him, And so we're like,
what is it when you put like, uh, you know,
wind and fire, ice and fire whatever together, it's kind
of like us. We're very polar opposite, but somehow we
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blend very seamlessly together.
Speaker 13 (46:18):
I was loving some of your pre manning uniform reels
because you were talking about dating and mom. You were
sitting down there saying like, I am a great first date.
Like am I the reason I have great first dates
because I'm a great listener. I'm super fun. I bring
the energy you can like carry the conversation. But then
you said this thing like quick to something roast, like
(46:39):
chat to roast or something quick too. No, it's called
I wrote it down because I was like, what is this?
This is called flirt to roast? Oh, flirt to roast?
Speaker 11 (46:48):
Ratio. Yeah, you don't have a flirt to roast ratio
so old and out of the loop.
Speaker 13 (46:52):
I didn't even have a dating app when I was
out there. They weren't even existing and y'all went on
hinge right, Oh yeah he did hints. I mean that's amazing, even.
Speaker 8 (46:59):
On a Yeah, I mean that's just a day and age.
Speaker 11 (47:02):
You have to be right if you're meeting any other way,
you're a unicorn and cool. Love that every love for that. Yeah,
everybody's on the date.
Speaker 13 (47:09):
You got a bigger pool. I mean it makes a
lot of sense.
Speaker 11 (47:11):
Actually, I would have you know, we talk about that, like,
I don't know that him and I would have ever
met if it wasn't for those dating up right.
Speaker 6 (47:17):
How would your paths have crossed?
Speaker 11 (47:19):
And I just don't know that it would have happened. Yeah,
So flirt to roast ratio Caroline, what is where like,
you know, you're on a date and you're you're flirty
and you're you're making them like you, but then you
also like roast.
Speaker 1 (47:32):
Them a little bit at the same time, because.
Speaker 11 (47:35):
No guy really needs his ego aflated so much that
you're like he's on like a hundred you need him
to be like knocked out a little bit, but then
pushed back up. You push him up and down a lot.
Speaker 13 (47:45):
I think if you ask anyone that I dated, they
would say I just roasted. I didn't know how to flirt.
I was like so awkward, and like I thought, my
flirting technique was, let me just be mean to you
and awkward, and then if you can fight through those walls,
then then.
Speaker 15 (47:58):
I can show you.
Speaker 13 (47:59):
My sou said, I can love you, but I'm first
of I'm just gonna give you all my heat.
Speaker 2 (48:11):
Hey, thanks for listening to this week's Sunday Sampler. You
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Speaker 1 (48:24):
We appreciate it.
Speaker 8 (48:25):
How great week.
Hey guys, Sunday Sampler time.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
We're gonna start with In the Vets Office with Doctor Josie,
where she had on a pet psychic and usually I'd
be like, all right, give me a break, but some
of this stuff is crazy, So Doctor Josie, we're gonna
start with.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Also, we did something different on the Bobbycast.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
We had a music panel, Drew Baldridge who's about to
have a number one, Chris Owen who works in publishing,
Eddie and myself. We talked about the charts. It definitely
got a little nerdy, but I liked this episode. So
a lot to happen here. Take this personally with Morgan.
She brought on a couple of guests as well. So
all these on the Sunday Sampler, but we will start
(00:44):
with doctor Josie.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Now enjoy.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Yeah, you're listening to in the Vets Office with Doctor
Josie Horschak.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
So we were talking a little bit before we started recording,
and we're gonna have you do some readings on Siya
and Biggie that are here, which are two of my
little rescue dogs. I do have a third dog at home,
but as I said before, it would be chaos to
have all three of them here. And then I do
have a dog that was really special to me that
passed away a couple of years ago. So we had
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talked about maybe doing an angel reading for her as well.
Speaker 6 (01:28):
And all that you need for that is a picture.
Speaker 7 (01:30):
Right, Absolutely, that's all I need.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
Okay, very good. Well which of these two? What are
you thinking? How should we start?
Speaker 7 (01:37):
Let's talk to Siah first. Okay, so she is six
years old, right, but I'm feeling yeah, So before we
started recording, Carrie asked me how old do you think
she is?
Speaker 6 (01:50):
And I said, well, you know, I rescued her.
Speaker 5 (01:51):
I think she's around five and Carrie said I'm getting
six and I said, okay, that makes total sense. And
then you said I think her birthday is May fifth.
Speaker 7 (02:00):
Yeah, she told me Sinco de mile is her birthday.
Speaker 5 (02:02):
Yeah, and that is so crazy because that's what we
have been celebrating at home for since we got her.
Speaker 7 (02:07):
I love it, and she's very excited that you celebrate
her birthday. So that's like one of her favorite memories,
just so you know. Okay, yeah, she does not like water.
Did you know that?
Speaker 6 (02:17):
I did know that. Okay, she hates.
Speaker 7 (02:19):
Water Oh, she's like, tell my mom, I hate water. Okay,
and is there a white swimmy white dog? Is there
a white dog?
Speaker 6 (02:25):
Yes, that's Oakley, our third dog at home.
Speaker 7 (02:28):
Yeah. She's not so sure about Oakley. So she's a
little bit jealous of Oakley. Does that make sense?
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (02:34):
I see that.
Speaker 7 (02:35):
Okay, like warming up to Oakley, but not quite there.
Ok These two though, they love each other and Siah sia,
I'm biggie. They absolutely adore each other, and they're like,
they feel very bondent to me. Somebody just said, rabbits.
Do you have rabbits in your backyard?
Speaker 5 (02:55):
Wow, that's so funny. We have, Yes, we have rap rabbits.
And Saya love squirrels and rabbits.
Speaker 7 (03:02):
Yes, they love to chase them. Okay, Sya, she's so
relaxed right now. So what I did earlier, She came
to me and she was reverse sneezing, and so I
gave her Reiki energy healing moan, I guess brand of
energy healing, and she stopped sneezing, and I kept telling her,
you're safe, You're safe, coach. She does that because she doesn't.
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She feels anxious a lot. She has anxiety I'm sure
you know that. But she stopped the reverse sneezing as
soon as I did that, So that's pretty cool.
Speaker 6 (03:31):
That's amazing.
Speaker 7 (03:32):
Yeah, she's very chill right now, obviously.
Speaker 6 (03:36):
Do you need me to get her perked up for you? Hey,
I say them here, hie. She's like, I'm sleeping during
this reading. This is a great She.
Speaker 7 (03:43):
Just showed me horses. Do you what is that? Does
she go around horses? What does that mean?
Speaker 5 (03:47):
Yes, I have an older horse, he's twenty four. Oh wow, yeah,
his name is kay Timmy. So we go out to
the barn and she runs around, Yes, around the horses.
Speaker 6 (03:55):
She loves it.
Speaker 7 (03:56):
Oh yeah she does. That's like her other favorite memory.
And are there chickens there? Or do you give her chicken?
Speaker 6 (04:03):
There are chickens there.
Speaker 7 (04:04):
Yeah, she loves to see the chickens too. She probably
wants to eat them.
Speaker 6 (04:08):
That's cute.
Speaker 7 (04:09):
Loves to see them.
Speaker 6 (04:09):
Yeah, yeah, she likes to chase them.
Speaker 7 (04:11):
Yeah, she's super happy, like she could not be happier
for sure. Yeah. Did she eat a fly or like
chase a fly?
Speaker 6 (04:19):
A fly? Probably not that off the top of my head.
Speaker 7 (04:22):
She's saying. It was like a year ago. She's like, yeah,
there was a fly there, So let me let me
scan the rest of her body and see how she
Tommy's a little bit upset. I would say, like two
out of ten upset. Nothing to worry about. I mean
your vet.
Speaker 6 (04:37):
Yeah that's okay.
Speaker 7 (04:38):
Yeah, you get it more than I do. But yeah,
and then okay, and then she's got a little bit
of pain towards her tailbone on the left side, on
that muscle, if that makes sense, and then it's kind
of shooting down into her left hip. Okay, it makes
sense to you.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
That is Actually I was just telling the listeners this
is crazy because you were not here for this. But
she had a bullet in that and her thigh muscle
and her left Like.
Speaker 6 (05:08):
Yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 7 (05:10):
Wonder she has anxiety. Yeah, you and so many pets
I talked to have severe anxiety, severe generalized anxiety disorder.
As you know, it's an epidemic in our country, just
like cancer. So I would love to know what do
you do to treat her anxiety anything?
Speaker 5 (05:27):
Yeah, I mean she I wouldn't say she has generalized
I think it's more situational in her case. But you're right,
I see a ton of generalized anxiety disorders and our pets.
She's not to the point where it's like, oh gosh,
we need to do medication. But we do a lot
of like positive reinforcement with her and it's helped. Yes,
we do the thunder jacket.
Speaker 6 (05:47):
She's really of work for you.
Speaker 7 (05:49):
Because I have so many people tell me, yes, no,
it doesn't. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (05:52):
It does work for her her A lot of her
anxiety stems around like loud noises, which I guess she
got shot, so that makes sense, makes sense. So I
find that, like with fireworks and thunderstorms, that does make
a big difference.
Speaker 6 (06:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (06:05):
And are you a fan of CBD oil because I
tell everybody about it?
Speaker 6 (06:08):
Yes, yeah, I like CBD for the longest time. As vets.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
We couldn't really give it our blessing, but I have
had a lot of patients respond really well to it.
Speaker 8 (06:18):
Yep.
Speaker 7 (06:18):
I tell everybody about honest pause. Okay, they should pay
me for it, but they don't. But I but my
dog has severe anxiety too, and honest pause, it's the
It's called calm. It's peanut butter and oil in a jar,
and it's fantastic, Like it really helps this anxiety, so
perfect highly recommend.
Speaker 6 (06:34):
This is not an ad.
Speaker 7 (06:35):
This is not an ad.
Speaker 6 (06:36):
All right, Well we'll have to try it.
Speaker 7 (06:38):
Pay me after this, but no, it's not exactly honest. Pause,
give us a call.
Speaker 6 (06:42):
Pause. Yes, that's amazing.
Speaker 7 (06:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (06:45):
One thing I would love to know about her is,
and I know you don't like to know too much,
but she was in Mexico when we found her.
Speaker 6 (06:51):
She was on the streets.
Speaker 5 (06:52):
I just like, does she tell you anything about her
life before we adopted her.
Speaker 7 (06:56):
She's saying a lot of people actually fet her, So
that's good. She was very thirsty, she said, and she
had she had bugs, and so you helped her with
the fleas and the bugs and the means.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Right.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
Yeah, she had a tick born disease when we adopted her,
so that makes sense.
Speaker 7 (07:12):
Oh my gosh. Yeah, she said, I've come a long
way and I'm so grateful that you got me because
I wasn't going to survive.
Speaker 6 (07:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (07:20):
So yeah, I.
Speaker 6 (07:22):
Can't cry on this podcast, but I might.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Drew.
Speaker 8 (07:32):
You have the odd roll.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Of spearheading your entire promotion you as an artist. It's
a multi pronged approach to having a record that's number one,
but you're all the prongs.
Speaker 9 (07:47):
Yeah, and since we talked last week, talked on here
about maybe signing with UTA. I actually got a booking
agent now. I went with UTA, which is super exciting.
So I don't have to book my own shows now,
which I was doing for the last year five years.
Thank you, Bobby.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
He's got himself to a numb rate by himself. But
I take credit for one interview where we're talking. I'm
totally kidding when I said.
Speaker 9 (08:05):
But yeah, it's been you know, super super crazy ride.
And I think, now, what's the hardest thing is enjoying
it because everybody's like, what's next, what's your next single?
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Where are you at with that?
Speaker 9 (08:18):
And I'm just like, dang, dude, I just feel like
I've been fighting goliath this whole time and now like
I'm having trouble enjoying the top ten because I'm stressed
about what the next single is and because this town
moves so fast all the time, and is that next
single gonna be me again by myself? Right now?
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (08:37):
You know, I don't have like a bunch of labels
calling or anything.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
I would still say. I would say, no, it will
not be by yourself. That's what I would guess. Listen,
success draws attention, draws people who want to make money,
and if they say you can make the money, I mean,
this is.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Word in capitalist world.
Speaker 7 (08:55):
Yeah, one hundred percent.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
I think you just got a booking agent far too
late for that to actually have happened. But it's gonna
that stuff's gonna start stumbling in when you're not even
gonna want some of it. Honestly, you're gonna have learned
things where you're going, Oh, I don't even need to
have this type of person because I know how to
do it, or I don't have to have a full
capacity person.
Speaker 9 (09:12):
Yeah, and I think I'm to that point where I
do want somebody, you know, if anybody's listening out there
and want assigning a record deal, come on.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
But but okay, great, great point you do. But I
would say, like a Cody Johnson, for example, signs to Warner,
but still he had created a business, his own path,
owns owns basically everything, had the leverage to make that
deal a little better. I think you'll have either the
leverage to make it a little better or not take one. Yeah,
(09:40):
which is the best place to be? Do you know
about the Cody Johnson situation?
Speaker 7 (09:42):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Yeah, for sure he has.
Speaker 10 (09:44):
He has one of the best record deals in down
He gets I mean full creative control, and he gets
so much of his music back in terms of just
you know, the masters and money and all that, and
I mean he had all the leverage before he signed
with Warner. He could have just like stayed Indye and
still sold out every single show he played, but he
decided to partner with Warner because it was the best
opportunity to help him with mainstream radio, but still keep
(10:06):
all the stuff that.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
He wanted to keep. So it's like, what advice.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
The world would you give Drew here about because he's
gonna he's going to have labels coming at him and
it may not be the biggest or it may not
be the most money, or it might be right, or
maybe people that can provide a certain type of service
that you need. What what advice would you give Drew
about labels when they come calling.
Speaker 10 (10:26):
I would say, definitely, try to explore every single option
in terms of what what does this record deal give
to me that I can't do on my own, and
what do I need help with? What do I not
need help with? And then all of the you know,
all the money that you could be making with a
record deal and how did the masters look and all
this other stuff. You have the factor and so definitely
(10:47):
don't like take the first thing that's offered to you.
And again you you know, I mean, Drew holds all
the leverage right now. And when you have a number
one song like this where you're doing it all yourself, yeah,
so I.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
Think a problem that you could get into as well.
And it's a great problem to have. And I have
a bit of this where I just did everything myself
for so long that it's just expected, even though I
have teams that I'm just gonna do it myself. Yeah,
where they're like, oh, you know that he's already done this.
It's like even the radio show when I started, I
was paying for the whole thing. I was funding the
whole thing, even the syndication. I was buying the equipment.
(11:20):
I was calling the stations, I was hustling station. I
was losing money, broken equipment. It didn't work half the time.
We were syndicating the like two cities and I'm sure
they're real cities, you know. And so but because I
made it work without any sort of budget for promotion,
like oh, we don't have given promotion. He can do
it himself.
Speaker 9 (11:36):
Yeah, And see that's something that I think about all
the time now, is like, you know, if you go
to one of these labels, I know how it works,
you know.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
So they can't really pull the wool over the again.
Speaker 8 (11:47):
There's no wool, you know.
Speaker 9 (11:48):
Like there, I'm gonna know, like, hey, did you call
so and so to about this? Because that's what we
did on this last one. And I think, you know,
I don't know if that's a good thing or a
bad thing in their eyes, but I will say, like
I do have a problem now of a little bit
of like control of my business and what's going on,
(12:08):
because I'm like, I've been doing this alone for a
long time and it's all your money now, Yeah, it's
all my money. I fund it all, you know, and
it's a lot when you start looking back at it,
but obviously it's an investment in us moving forward. But yeah,
just like you said, funding your own show, buying your
own gear, you know, it's like that's what we're doing
right now, funding it, buying it, going on tour, paying
for the guys. And I saw your post just last
(12:30):
week breakdown of artists pay you know, and stuff that's real,
you know, of like artists normally makes about fifteen percent
when after the show's done or whatever. We're very lucky
that the masters don't do that.
Speaker 8 (13:04):
Than personal flds men.
Speaker 11 (13:11):
I am so excited to welcome Nicole on with us
right now. Nicole, how are you today?
Speaker 6 (13:16):
I am great? Thank you very much for having me.
Speaker 11 (13:18):
I'm so excited because you are a neuroscientist, you have
a master's in organizational psychology, and you're a personal coach,
which is so many titles and just totally awesome.
Speaker 12 (13:31):
Thank you, that's really kind. Thank you so much for
having me. I'm so excited for this.
Speaker 11 (13:35):
Is there anything outside of exercise that you're like, make
sure you're doing this for your brain health? Exercise is
really important. What's kind of some other ones there?
Speaker 5 (13:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (13:43):
I think the key to keeping brain health is staying active,
so not just physically but mentally as well. So continue
to learn new things, continue to stay engaged with life.
I know that dubs can get very stressful, and I
think we allso withdrew the lockdown. You know, when we're
in these confined spaces and people having to live in
maybe not such happy homes or maybe just seeing the
same thing every day. It's taxing on the brain and
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we do see it in research and especially in mice experiments.
When you put them in an environment that is monotonous
and that is not joyful, they will dispense drugs if
they are available. But the drug is available even if
they are in an environment that is happy, and they
choose not to dispend drugs, So the choice is always there.
The environment as well keeps them happy, so staying engaged
with life, so finding a hobby. And we see this
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in all the individuals who maintain volunteering jobs or hobbies
or continue to socialize with friends. They live more prosperous
lives and that is linked to BD and F when
we are learning. When we continue to learn, we continue
to change our brain to sort of it's almost like
not letting it stagnate, if you will, And that is
because of BD and F. When we learn, we increase B,
D and F as well. So I actually get all
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my clients to do some ball training games, or I
encourage them to use the opposite hand. So try and
brush your teeth with your left hand if you're right handed,
or the other hand if you're left handed. It's really hard,
and that's actually really challenging. So just taking your mind
and your brain sort of places where it's not comfortable
will mean that it has to drive BDNF and then
in turn keep you know, integrity.
Speaker 11 (15:09):
I mean, I took up adult gymnastics at twenty eight
and I felt really good about that. But now I
want to brush my teeth with my left hand because
that sounds even more.
Speaker 12 (15:18):
People that ask me questions what the best way to
keep my brain health at the cheapest cost is just
hydrating consistently literally hydrating water.
Speaker 6 (15:26):
Because I found it quite crazy.
Speaker 12 (15:28):
But there's a lot of people that don't drink a
lot of water throughout the day, clients that only drink
coffee and the tea in the evening. It's very British,
and I was saying, no, no, no, You've got to
drink water. There's water in my coffee, and I'm thinking, no,
you have to drink water.
Speaker 11 (15:40):
Well, I will say I am one of those people.
For whatever reason, I my taste buds hate water and
I do my best, though to still force myself to
drink water because I do know I feel better when.
Speaker 12 (15:50):
I could you put electrolytes. You can afford electrolynes, pop
them in and then you've got a flavored water.
Speaker 11 (15:55):
So yes, I do meo mio is my like go
to t you guys just squirt it in and it
makes me drink more water.
Speaker 6 (16:01):
So I found the little cure perfect.
Speaker 12 (16:04):
And if it's got electrolytes, and then it's even better
because your signapses communicate through sodium potassium pump, which is
literally sodium potassium communicating through a membrane, and that's how
we generate energy to spike and action potential, which then
sends the information to another sign apps you see. So
something as simple as ingesting electrolytes can help maintain cognition
and brain help.
Speaker 11 (16:24):
I love when we find out that we're doing good things.
It's probly now we're doing bad things. I'm really excited
when I find.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Out I did I'm good.
Speaker 11 (16:30):
It's actually true that different parts of our brain trigger
different things. You know, they talk about the right brain
and the left brain and creativity versus analytical. Is that
something that's actually true or is that something that just
kind of came out into the universe.
Speaker 6 (16:44):
It came out into the universe with good reason, but
we did disprove it if you will.
Speaker 12 (16:48):
So, the left side of the brain and the right
side of brain both work together in language. So they
used to think that the left side was more logical.
I think it's that way around that. I don't even
know anymore because I know that it's not that way.
So I think the left, so they bely, was more
logical because it dealt with language. But actually the right
hand side helps put the sentence together, so it puts
sort of context to the message, whereas a left side
(17:09):
just sort of picks up on the actual words. But no,
we don't have a sort of left brain right brain dominancy.
But with that being said, the left side of the
brain does control the right and the right does control
the left. So if you're right handed and you use
your right hand more, you might be using it a
bit more of your left hand side. But the brain
is always going to maximize itself, and it's always going
to make sure that it's using one hundred percent of
(17:30):
its energy. And the other myth is that we use
ten percent of our brains.
Speaker 6 (17:33):
That's not true.
Speaker 12 (17:34):
We use one hundred percent. So the brain will maximize
itself where it can. So creativity and logical thinking actually
come from two separate networks. One network for creativity is
called the default mode network. It's a network of three
brain areas and actually form a triangle sort of like
here in the frontal lobes and then down to the
side and then sort of back together. Okay, so you
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can see it now on both sides, and that's responsible
for mind wandering sometimes rumination as well, but their creativity
and individuals who have a higher connectivity in that system
are able to siphon memories and use them as inspiration,
which someone like me will probably lack a little bit of,
although I'm a little bit creative, but it can be trained.
The brain is classic, so it can be trained. You
can become more creative, you can become more logic. The
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logic network of the brain is also on both sides.
It's called the central executive network. So that's cognitively demanding tasks,
problem solving, and there will be higher connectivity in the
frontal lobes because that's where your conscious sort of decision
making comes from.
Speaker 11 (18:30):
Wow, that is fascinating, especially to learn the myths that
we learn thanks to the internet. But thank you for
debunking some of those for us. It sounds like we
can use all of our brains to unlock some new
potential because it's constantly learning.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
We're going to do it live. We are the one too,
very sore Losers. What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. I
know the most about sports, so I'll give you the
sports facts, my sports opinions, because I'm pretty much Jay
sports genius. Y'all.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male.
I live on the North side of Nashville with bays
Or my wife.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
We do have a farm.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
It's beautiful, a lot of acreage, no animals, a lot
of crops. Hopefully soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe
a little fescue to be determined.
Speaker 1 (19:20):
Over to you, coach, And here's a clip from this
week's episode of The Sore Losers.
Speaker 3 (19:27):
Do you know Riley Duckman has a bar in Midtown
and it's called duck Hunt.
Speaker 2 (19:31):
Or some shit.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
Who Riley Green has a bar? Riley?
Speaker 3 (19:37):
Yeah no, no, there's no one. So Arnold was there
tasting out their whiskey. Yeah, check it out, guys, Arnold's
gonna be off the show for a minute. There was
a lot of rumored affairs. We're gonna start the show.
We're gonna do it live type Riley Green. Midtown bars
supposed to be right next to winters and losers.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
I don't see anything. I'm not making it up. It's
a legit story. Ray, I need two sources before it
says Rithy Green to open Nashville bar. Yeah, jelly Rolls
get open one too.
Speaker 3 (20:14):
Actually, that's not even a joke. You probably will.
Speaker 1 (20:16):
Yeah, I heard actually Cooks opening one. Okay, I'm gonna
have to sit on this for a minute. Yeah, who's
another newcomer, Shaboozies opening one man? Seriously, I mean no,
but everybody that gets a number one song is opening
a bar. At some point, the Alcoholics Anonymous company needs
(20:37):
to come and be founded in Nashville because that's just
too much alcohol. I'm amazed how so many bars just
keep opening up and they're all pat they're all just slammed.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
Hey, you fill them. Hawktua was way south of town.
You got people coming from cities all around Nashville. Lane
where the population is. It's all the silent majority an
hour in each direction. You should come up by me, dude,
seven lanes cars near mirror. My holy shit, I thought
I came to the country, but then you go two
(21:05):
blocks over and it's nothing butt country. But there's main
roads where cars just fly.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
Man. Not just in Nashville, the city. The population of
Austin is in Austin. It's round rock In that metal Puda,
it's Kyle. It's uh Fredericksburg. That's a little far. You
make a watering hole. These cowboys are gonna find it,
and there's Taylor. They're gonna put down a whole yack
of a case of Iraq huddo. Yeah, so if you
(21:32):
drink it, bring it. If you buy it, they'll drink it.
Logo Vista. What's he gonna name? The art isn't saying there.
Speaker 3 (21:37):
I just made up duck Hunt.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
Uh the there was a girl artists who have a
presidence of Mintown neighborhood, Nashville. Green is set to open
a bar called Riley Green's duck Blind Nashville. I almost
came it because his nickname is Duckman. Thumb Blind will
be open on the location of Winning. They're gonna have
duck Hunt. Hey, honey, me a beer. So it's not
(22:02):
gonna be Winners anymore. It's gonna be duck Hunt or
whatever he's calling. Yeah, so winners is no more losers?
Speaker 3 (22:11):
Is there?
Speaker 1 (22:12):
Winners is no more? Oh wow?
Speaker 3 (22:15):
And then there's even one two bars over which used
to be rebar is gonna be a new thing?
Speaker 1 (22:19):
Abby showed me the picture.
Speaker 13 (22:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
And then what's it called the one from Austin kung Fu? No,
the other one kung Fu?
Speaker 8 (22:29):
The ranch not not the ranch?
Speaker 1 (22:31):
Oh yeah, doghouse, dogwood, dogwood? Yeah, what's that gonna be? Oh,
it's closed. I don't know if it closed, but I
know they sold. They sold.
Speaker 3 (22:39):
And did you see dog pound or dog house on Mumbrian. Yeah,
it's closed.
Speaker 1 (22:44):
Really, it's now live oak And McKitty told you guys,
this is in between the weeds. But McKitty told me
that whole Dumumbrian complex it's gonna be a two year development.
They're knocking out all those buildings and it's just gonna
be live oak and tin roof and then the rest
is going to be an apartment or something. No crap,
because no nobody ever those bars never excel and never
succeed in the bank that was there got robbed or
(23:07):
something because it's never reopened. Oh that's not good news, hey, guys,
I'm gonna rub me. Alright, let's do a live man. Yeah,
we're gonna do a live Oh the one dude? Three losers?
What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. I know the most
about sports, so I'll give you the sports facts, my
(23:29):
sports opinions, because I'm pretty much a sports genius, y'all.
It says.
Speaker 3 (23:34):
And I'm from the North. I'm in Alpha male. I
live on the North Side in Nashville. Bazer, she's a
Broadway girl. Meta took her there by her wanting it
wasn't kidnap, and we'd have property two and a half acres.
There's farmers and ranchers that have two hundred acres. They're
not gonna sell. They could probably make about ten million.
We are not gonna sell either. We won't sell. We
won't sell. And here's your newest Nashville bar, Ingrid Andres.
(23:57):
It's called the Anthem.
Speaker 1 (24:01):
Yet, dude, if she opens a bar, I've seen it
all I have and it's a karaoke or something. No,
she Oh man, that's funny, that's free.
Speaker 3 (24:16):
I'm at the risk of sounding old, dude. We were
here when there was not one artist bar. Was there
even one? I mean there was Alan Jackson's. No that
was there. No, wasn't the good time bar's been there.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
No, it's not, it hasn't.
Speaker 11 (24:27):
No.
Speaker 3 (24:28):
Then it opened looking like shit.
Speaker 1 (24:30):
Yeah, it just always looked bad. Yes, because it's that
real skinny one right on the right hand side of
the road. That's new, dude. There was no artist bars
when we moved here.
Speaker 8 (24:39):
None.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
Wow, do we sound old? Not a single one? We
sound old. The first artist bar was Florida Georgia Lyon.
That was the first one.
Speaker 3 (24:50):
And then George Jones was pretty quick in there because
we used to always came and go. Yeah, we went
to did brunch there. It was a museum, but they
had a little brunch spot, great Mimosa Deals. It was
a block from where we used to live. That's the
only reason I know that. And then you had your dirks,
open your Garth, open your Laney, Luke Combs, Morgan Wallen,
bon Jovi's, Open Jovi, Rich, John Rich, Miranda, Lambert, Blake Shelton,
(25:15):
Luke Bryan.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
She's Can I just say I walked by Morgan Wallen's
bar this weekend. I've been in it. I didn't go
in it, but from the outside it doesn't look that
it just looks like an office building, right. And I
had a friend visit town, very trustworthy. It was the
girl Katie from Charleston. She was included in some of
(25:38):
the stories. Yeah, she said it was her favorite bar.
It's just goes straight up. It's one of the smaller interiors.
You're gonna have maybe good live music, but it's very small.
The line was down the street to get into it. Ray,
there wasn't an empty chair.
Speaker 8 (26:00):
Be good, Okay, cast up little food for yourself.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Life.
Speaker 8 (26:14):
Say oh it's pretty bad. It's pretty beautiful, man, beautiful
laughs a little more said he cut. You're kicking it
with full.
Speaker 14 (26:26):
Thing with Amy Brown, Amanda, When did Dennis first say
he loved you? Or did you say it first? And
share whatever details you went to about y'all's situation.
Speaker 4 (26:38):
Okay, I totally blurted it out like it was me
and Dennis and I have an age gap. We will
be married ten years in October, and when we met,
we had a connection.
Speaker 14 (26:51):
And before you tell the rest of the story, I'm
gonna pausital quo because I'm gonna bring up why we're
talking about the OT word.
Speaker 6 (26:56):
Okay, let me start with that, and then finish your story.
But there's this dating coach.
Speaker 14 (27:01):
His name is Jake Maddick, and he was talking about
how if your partner doesn't say very clearly I love
you by twelve weeks, then he's not your ideal partner
and you've wasted your time. He puts dating tips on
TikTok and Instagram. He said, you'll know with your ideal
partner and they'll know too, and that it needs to
(27:22):
unravel in the twelve week time span. So continue your
story and give us the timeline.
Speaker 4 (27:27):
Well, we met, and yes there was an age gap,
but we just had this connection. And what I loved
before I knew I loved Dennis. What I loved about
him is, first of all, just his energy. He was
super grounded, but he was honest. What you saw was
what you got, Like he said what he meant, and
he meant what he said, and he's still like that
(27:47):
to this day. Sometimes he's really cut and dry and literal,
and that can drive me nutso but I also really
appreciate that I get an honest person who shows up
and is consistent.
Speaker 15 (28:00):
So anyway, we had probably been dating.
Speaker 4 (28:02):
I mean, get ready for this, because this is it's
pretty crazy we had been seeing each other, and we
were seeing each other long distance, so we would see
each other every couple of weeks or every three weeks,
but we would talk on the phone. So we had
been cultivating this relationship, you know, over the phone and
over text, and then we'd see each other every couple
of weeks. But we had probably been seeing each other
six weeks two months. I don't know the exact time,
(28:24):
but we were together one weekend and we were going
to hear some live music and we had just had
dinner and we were sitting and talking and he was
making me laugh.
Speaker 15 (28:32):
And I said, oh my gosh, I love you.
Speaker 4 (28:36):
And then as I said it, I went, I love you,
I love and then I remember like cause I was like,
I turned beat red. And he was standing there and
he was smiling, and I said, well, I guess I
may as well just finish what I was saying, I
love you, and he smiled back at me. Because I
couldn't believe myself. I was embarrassed. It just flew out
(28:57):
of my mouth and he smiled back and he goes,
I love you too, And like I said, Dennis says
what he means, and means what he says, so, of
course I was kind of like, but then it was like,
but this is true, this is love, and so it
was spontaneous. So whether you're the man or the woman
or where whatever role you are in your relationship, I
(29:19):
think for me it was the spontaneity of it. And
even though I tried to edit myself, I went ahead
and said, well, I'm putting it out there, and I
was like, whatever he said in the moment, I was
ready for it, but I was so embarrassed.
Speaker 15 (29:32):
But he said I love you, and after that it
was like I do love you.
Speaker 6 (29:35):
Yeah, I love you.
Speaker 14 (29:37):
So it didn't quite turn into I love your shoes. Yeah,
Like yeah, I would edit it to that, just because
like blurting it out or just wanting for him to
say it first. And I don't know where we get
that from. Jake doesn't say here if it matters or not.
But you and Dennis, y'all fall into the dating coach's timeline.
Speaker 4 (29:56):
We do fall into that timeline. And then if you
want to get another layer deep, so I'll just reveal
this to y'all. And Dennis tells us to people all
the time. He says, oh, yeah, she proposed to me.
So I am the one in the relationship that just
blurted things out. And we had been together, I don't know,
not quite a year at that time, and I said
(30:16):
to him one day we were somewhere and I said,
oh my gosh, I could totally be married to you.
I've never been married. I've been married one time to Dennis, like,
this is my marriage, my one and only married and
y'all been married ten years and we've been married ten
years now, and we have a pretty wonderful marriage. We
go through our ups and downs, but it is pretty
consistent and he is my person. But I'm again, I'm like,
(30:38):
I'm the blurder outer, and I'm like, oh my gosh,
I could be married to you. And again I did
the same thing, like, oh my gosh, I just said that,
and he but then again he said, and I could
be married to you, and he proposed to me within
I don't know, six weeks after that.
Speaker 6 (30:54):
Probably yeah, shout out Dennis. Do you think you'll listen?
Speaker 15 (30:58):
No, probably not, but I'll I'll probably recount him. Yeah,
he won't listen.
Speaker 6 (31:01):
Does he listen to soul sessions?
Speaker 15 (31:03):
No, he doesn't. He does not.
Speaker 4 (31:05):
Every now and then if I ask him to listen
to my podcast, he will, but he hears that stuff
for me all the time. He just wants to hang
out with me, so he doesn't want to hear my
pontifications and wisdom or whatever.
Speaker 15 (31:17):
It is not saying that I'm wise.
Speaker 14 (31:18):
But oh, I think you're wise, but also yeah, I
mean Ben and I were married seventeen years. I was
on the radio the entire time. He barely listened to
the show ever, and definitely didn't listen to my podcast.
Speaker 15 (31:29):
I don't think, yeah, and just doesn't listen to mine.
Speaker 14 (31:31):
Like a friend said something to him that lunchbox said
at one point, and then he would go back and
try to hear it, and then he'd be.
Speaker 6 (31:38):
Like, what happened here? Yeah, And I'm like he was
just joking.
Speaker 4 (31:42):
Yeah. I think it's like he gets the intimate version
of me and that's the one that he loves. But
he celebrates all parts of me. And if I were
to request something or if people bring it up to
him all the time and he's like, I didn't hear that,
but it doesn't surprise me, or I'll have to go
listen and he will, but he's he's not that interested.
Speaker 15 (31:58):
He likes to have me, you know, one on one time.
Speaker 14 (32:01):
Well, I'm thankful that you were able to come here
for one on one time with me. And that's what
we'll talk about next, is friendships and what those are
looking like these days compared.
Speaker 15 (32:10):
Let's get to you with the L word and evelo.
Speaker 6 (32:13):
You got to get to the third thing.
Speaker 4 (32:15):
I know, like just for one second, because I know
your listeners are interested in this and because they know
your journey and that you're opening yourself up when it
comes to love and loving someone. You know, have you
been thinking about, gosh, how do I express myself?
Speaker 13 (32:31):
You know?
Speaker 4 (32:31):
I mean, there's this something that you're thinking about because
it's different, You're in a different stage of life and
in a different place. Would you just blurt it out,
like if it came to you like I did, would
you just not edit yourself?
Speaker 15 (32:42):
Maybe yes, we'll have to see. I know we'll have
to see.
Speaker 4 (32:45):
I'm just hey, I'm throwing these things out there for
her on her journey because I want you to just
be you. And I know that for me in that moment,
it was like that was just me, even if it
was embarrassing, it was just me.
Speaker 14 (32:57):
I will say, it's not the L word, but I
blurred out things that I didn't blurt out in previous relationships,
my college boyfriends or in my marriage early on, especially
when we were dating. I don't know if I would
have said stuff to him later like that, but I've
just shared different thoughts that pop into my head, and
I'm like, I don't know if I should be saying
(33:18):
this right now, but I'm just going to tell you
this because this is what I'm thinking, this is where
I am, and this may sound weird, and I have
found myself communicating in that way a little bit more.
Speaker 16 (33:39):
Hey, it's Mike d And this week on Movie Mike's
movie podcast, I shared my traumatic history with R raided movies.
I'm gonna play this clip where I talk about the
first rated R movie I ever saw when I was
way too young for it, plus the most regretful R
rated movie I've ever seen. You gotta check out this
whole episode because I also get into my best, worst,
(33:59):
and the last R rated movies, plus a spoiler free
movie review of d D, which just became one of
my favorite coming of age movies in the last ten years.
But right now, here's just a little bit of movie
Mike's Movie Podcast. The first R rated movie I ever saw.
I was seven years old in nineteen ninety eight. This
movie came out in nineteen eighty eight and is regarded
(34:22):
as the movie that almost traumatized me forever. It was
child's play. The reason I watched this movie at seven
years old. The reason I was really exposed to so
many things so early on is because I have an
older brother and an older sister who are seven and
nine years older than me, so they were probably fifteen
fourteen years old in that age range, and I was
(34:44):
always exposed to things that they were exposed to just
because I was around. I wanted to be with him,
and my parents were okay with it for the most part.
I think the problem my parents had was nudity. They
could do and deal with us watching bloody and violent.
That was okay with them. They were used to that.
We would even watch old school eighties Mexican movies with
(35:06):
people getting shot and cut up, and that was fine
with them. But when it came to anything showing a nipple,
we were not exposed to that. And we'll get into
one of the movies later on this list that was
traumatizing for everybody.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
In that picture.
Speaker 16 (35:19):
But I always wanted to be just like my brother,
just like my sister. What came along with that is
I watched a lot of movies I was not supposed
to watch. And the way we watched Child's Play is
we used to go to Walmart, and there was a
video store connected to our Walmart back in the nineties.
I don't even think it made it to the two thousands.
It wasn't even a name brand video store like Blockbuster
(35:42):
or anything. I really never went to Blockbuster as a kid.
Their prices were astronomical for us. We never had a
membership card, so I don't really get nostalgic for Blockbuster.
The other video store in town and walks of Hatchie,
we had a place I was just called the Video Store,
and you could go rent movies for a dollar. They
would have these little hooks on the wall with a
(36:03):
number written on them. They were like these little coin
medallion things, and you would take it off the wall
on any movie you wanted to rent, and then just
go up to the cashier and give them all these
little coins and they would go get the VHS or
the DVD for you. That was probably our primary source
of video rental after the video store inside of the
(36:24):
Walmart could put But the first time we ever went
and rented a movie from this Walmart video rental place.
I had my cousins in town from Memphis and we
wanted to rent some movies, and that was really the
only way we could convince my mom to allow us
to rent something, because we just never paid for that.
If we were going to get a movie in any capacity,
(36:46):
we would buy it from the flea market. That way
we could keep it forever and watch it for years
to come, which we did with a lot of our vhs.
But convince her to do it. And I don't know
why she let us rent Child's Play. Maybe she didn't
really know what it was. Maybe it's because Chucky is
on the cover and it looks like it could be
a movie for kids. There's a doll on it. And
we also rented one more VHS that night, and it
(37:09):
was a Thundercat's VHS. I think it was just episodes
of ThunderCats from the eighties, and I remember my brother
being a big fan of that show, and it blew
our mind that it was available to watch it home,
back when you had to watch everything on regular TV.
But we rented Child's Play, watched it on a Friday night,
and by late Friday night, I was traumatized. It freaked
(37:31):
me out so bad I thought all of my toys
were going to come to life. The first kill in
this movie is just burned into my head as being
one of the gnarliest things I ever witnessed as a kid,
and I was so freaked out by the end of
this movie that I was so glad that we had
also rented ThunderCats because it was kind of a palate
(37:52):
cleanser and I still need that to this day.
Speaker 1 (37:54):
If I watch a really dark show.
Speaker 16 (37:56):
I was just watching The Boys on Amazon, and not
that show would give you nightmares, but there are some
very graphic and violent images that if I watched that
show right before bed, it could creep into my dreams
and I have nightmares. So sometimes I'll throw in an
episode of Dragon ball Z in between, so I don't
have that as the last thing I watched. But luckily
(38:16):
we had a VHS tape of ThunderCats. I watched that
after Child's Play but still ended up having nightmares. So
that was the first ever R rated movie I watched
back when I was seven years old. In nineteen ninety eight,
last R rated movie I watched in theaters was Deadpool
in Wolverine. Streaming at home, it was probably Late Night
with the Devil Love that horror movie. Still in my
(38:39):
running for the best horror movie of the year. That movie,
in my mind is battling out right now with long
Legs as taking that number one spot. Most regretful R
rated movie I ever watched was also in nineteen ninety eight,
another movie we got from the Walmart video rental store,
and it was Beloved, starring Oprah and Danny Glover. I
(38:59):
don't know what possessed my mom to want to rent
this movie. This was a pick from my mom. And
if you listen to this podcast, you know then my
mom oddly loves horror movies. Really, the genre she leans
into most is horror movies, and it doesn't matter if
it's overle gory, if it's I would say she leans
more towards like a possession type movie, anything related with
(39:24):
any kind of exorcism Laorna. She loves Annabelle in the
Conjuring series. She is all about the horror genre. Second
favorite genre of movie for her is probably animated when
it comes to Pixar movies, Coco being one of her
favorite movies of all time. In that third category, it
would definitely be comedies from the nineties. But for some
(39:46):
reason she wanted to rent Beloved. And maybe it was
because Oprah's talk show was much more popular in the nineties.
Speaker 7 (39:54):
And I don't know if she did an entire.
Speaker 16 (39:56):
Segment promoting this movie or had people on her show
to talk about but for some reason, when this movie
came out on VHS, my mom wanted to rent it.
Speaker 1 (40:04):
And if you've never seen.
Speaker 16 (40:05):
Beloved, it is a very disturbing and weird movie that's
part drama, part fantasy horror, and we were not prepared
for this type of movie. If you've ever went blind
to a film, this is not one to go in
blind on that you watch with your parents, and you
probably have a story like this of hey, let's all
(40:26):
go watch this movie as a family. It's all rated,
but it'll be okay, and then bam, you get a
wiener on the screen, you get people hooking up, you
get something that is going to traumatize your experience that
you were not expected to see with your mom and dad.
Speaker 1 (40:41):
Beloved is one of them.
Speaker 16 (40:43):
Again, if you're not familiar with this movie. It has
full frontal nudity, and my seven year old self was
exposed to that with my mom for the very first time.
I think my mom gasped in sheer terror of what
was happening on this screen. That paired with the fact
that we didn't really understand what was going on in
(41:05):
this movie, it was hard for us to comprehend. Not
a movie we should have watched together as a family,
But that scene came out of nowhere, and I will
never forget it, much like I never forgot the first
time I saw Child's Play. So the one regretful R
rated movie I have is beloved from nineteen eighty eight.
I feel like now, as an adult thirty three years old,
(41:26):
I should revisit that movie to see if I understand
it a little bit more. Now people say you have
to read the book before watching that movie to understand it.
Maybe that would have helped, But still I regret that
R rated movie.
Speaker 8 (41:47):
Carlone, she's a queen of talking.
Speaker 15 (41:51):
It was a son.
Speaker 1 (41:54):
She's getting really not afraid to face it's so so
just let it flow. No one can do with ca.
Speaker 13 (42:06):
Okay, So, so you broke up with boyfriend, toxic boyfriend,
and then all of a sudden, you are just in
the dating scene.
Speaker 15 (42:13):
Yeah, what on earth is that like?
Speaker 13 (42:16):
Because now you have a sexy man in uniform. We
don't call him by name. What's his name? Man in uniform?
Speaker 7 (42:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (42:20):
Uniform?
Speaker 13 (42:21):
I mean love it. We only see his hands in
your Instagram twirling you and things and like bringing you
flowers and like just being so sexy. Yes, I mean
he looks sexy from that hand. Oh, then is a
hot hands. It looks like a strong hand. It is, yeah, yeah, strong,
And she's like notebook kissy, I'll throw up against the walls.
Speaker 11 (42:37):
Yeah, you in that phase?
Speaker 6 (42:38):
Are y'all having that kind of hot romance?
Speaker 8 (42:40):
Oh?
Speaker 11 (42:40):
I mean we are absolutely in honeymoon face. But what
hozy fout with her?
Speaker 6 (42:44):
You get after it?
Speaker 11 (42:45):
Girl, I don't feel like it's like gonna be a
honeymoon thing. I think this is just what it is.
Speaker 13 (42:49):
You're gonna have hot, sexy romance for the rest of
your days with him.
Speaker 11 (42:53):
That's what I'm hoping for, because that's what it feels like.
Speaker 13 (42:55):
Like when you see him. Are you just like running
into his arms?
Speaker 15 (42:57):
Yeah, wait to move.
Speaker 11 (42:58):
I'm so excited sometimes he's like more and I saw
you this morning and I was like, yeah, but it
was so long ago.
Speaker 13 (43:02):
Are all like kissing for hours? I mean no, we're
not like sitting at all the time making out Like
I just don't ever remember these beginning phases because I've
been married now ten years. Love my husband, Michael. You're great,
You're so sexy. I mean, I want you, baby, But
it is not like this. So you know, when you
first meet that person in the beginning, you're like, tell
me what that's like, Like, how is how are these vibes?
Speaker 11 (43:21):
You know, it was it was different with him because
it you are taught like well, I don't know if
you watched a lot of Disney Princess, So yeah, all
of it.
Speaker 13 (43:29):
It's really ruined all my perception of life and what
we got screwed.
Speaker 11 (43:33):
I saw really mean the other day that I was
like the kids, easys get inside and out too, And
here we are dealing with Cinderella having an ugly stepmom
and all the im.
Speaker 13 (43:41):
Like, hey, they didn't get screwed, and now they have
Mawana and they having Conto with these strong women who
is not about finding a man to save you.
Speaker 10 (43:48):
Oh.
Speaker 13 (43:48):
I was always looking for a man to save me.
Speaker 11 (43:51):
I'm pretty sure all of us were. You were a millennial.
You were always looking for a man to save you always.
But we're learning and now. And they said it was
millennial who did Inside and Out too, because we had
to help people go through things that we didn't go
get to go through.
Speaker 13 (44:05):
Those movies are phenomenal. I saw Inside Out too, and
I'm like, this is absolutely phenomenal.
Speaker 15 (44:09):
I haven't seen it yet.
Speaker 13 (44:09):
It's phenomenal, but I do know.
Speaker 11 (44:11):
It's like all about emotions, yes.
Speaker 15 (44:12):
And I love that.
Speaker 8 (44:13):
It's incredible.
Speaker 13 (44:14):
So I forgot what you asked. Okay, so weird that one.
Speaker 11 (44:16):
On a tangent about your insights, planning your form?
Speaker 13 (44:18):
Oh do y'all mug down all the time? Are you
constantly making out? Do you have time to talk because
you're kissing something?
Speaker 8 (44:22):
So does?
Speaker 11 (44:22):
He taught me to think that, you know, these really
intense butterflies and all these feelings were what you should have.
And he was just safe from the beginning. He was
like this place of comfort, and I wanted to see
him more because he was so cool and calm and
just nothing phased him and he stayed that way.
Speaker 15 (44:45):
That wasn't just an act.
Speaker 11 (44:46):
It wasn't just like this is who I am to
make you like me. It's like that's who he is
all the time, and he's like become this very safe
place for me because I am chaos. My life is chaos,
and I am chaos. But he is like steady and
steady and consistent, and so I think that's why. Like
(45:06):
so when it's like the steamy romance stuff, it's we're like, gosh,
like you just want to squeeze you. You're so great,
and not as much like the oh my gosh, I
have butterflies the night, like what's going to happen next?
Speaker 4 (45:18):
Just you know.
Speaker 11 (45:19):
Yeah, it does feel that way, So I hope it
continues to stay that way, and it feels like it's
progressing to that.
Speaker 13 (45:26):
So okay, So does he know that you talk about
him on air and stuff? Oh yeah, And how does
he feel about that? He thinks it's hilarious, Like he
is not impacted in the slightest. Do you think it's
just because he's cool, calm, collected man in uniform that
he can handle pressure?
Speaker 11 (45:38):
Yeah, for sure. I mean it's definitely his personality and.
Speaker 1 (45:41):
How he was raised.
Speaker 11 (45:43):
He just is really like there are not a lot
of things that bother him.
Speaker 15 (45:47):
What would that be like?
Speaker 11 (45:48):
I don't know, I mean, what would that be like?
Speaker 8 (45:51):
Could it be?
Speaker 7 (45:52):
Gosh?
Speaker 6 (45:52):
I wish I could know what that was like?
Speaker 11 (45:55):
Yeah, Like, you know, he has his moments, and he's
so great about talking about his feelings and he's great
at listing and communicating, but he's just not He doesn't
just have this chaos following him, And so we're like,
what is it when you put like, uh, you know,
wind and fire, ice and fire whatever together, it's kind
of like us. We're very polar opposite, but somehow we
(46:16):
blend very seamlessly together.
Speaker 13 (46:18):
I was loving some of your pre manning uniform reels
because you were talking about dating and mom. You were
sitting down there saying like, I am a great first date.
Like am I the reason I have great first dates
because I'm a great listener. I'm super fun. I bring
the energy you can like carry the conversation. But then
you said this thing like quick to something roast, like
(46:39):
chat to roast or something quick too. No, it's called
I wrote it down because I was like, what is this?
This is called flirt to roast? Oh, flirt to roast?
Speaker 11 (46:48):
Ratio. Yeah, you don't have a flirt to roast ratio
so old and out of the loop.
Speaker 13 (46:52):
I didn't even have a dating app when I was
out there. They weren't even existing and y'all went on
hinge right, Oh yeah he did hints. I mean that's amazing, even.
Speaker 8 (46:59):
On a Yeah, I mean that's just a day and age.
Speaker 11 (47:02):
You have to be right if you're meeting any other way,
you're a unicorn and cool. Love that every love for that. Yeah,
everybody's on the date.
Speaker 13 (47:09):
You got a bigger pool. I mean it makes a
lot of sense.
Speaker 11 (47:11):
Actually, I would have you know, we talk about that, like,
I don't know that him and I would have ever
met if it wasn't for those dating up right.
Speaker 6 (47:17):
How would your paths have crossed?
Speaker 11 (47:19):
And I just don't know that it would have happened. Yeah,
So flirt to roast ratio Caroline, what is where like,
you know, you're on a date and you're you're flirty
and you're you're making them like you, but then you
also like roast.
Speaker 1 (47:32):
Them a little bit at the same time, because.
Speaker 11 (47:35):
No guy really needs his ego aflated so much that
you're like he's on like a hundred you need him
to be like knocked out a little bit, but then
pushed back up. You push him up and down a lot.
Speaker 13 (47:45):
I think if you ask anyone that I dated, they
would say I just roasted. I didn't know how to flirt.
I was like so awkward, and like I thought, my
flirting technique was, let me just be mean to you
and awkward, and then if you can fight through those walls,
then then.
Speaker 15 (47:58):
I can show you.
Speaker 13 (47:59):
My sou said, I can love you, but I'm first
of I'm just gonna give you all my heat.
Speaker 2 (48:11):
Hey, thanks for listening to this week's Sunday Sampler. You
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Speaker 1 (48:24):
We appreciate it.
Speaker 8 (48:25):
How great week.
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