Is A Proposal Coming For Abby & Morgan Wants To Go To Red Rocks

Abby talks all about living with her boyfriend and his kids, plus their first ever road trip. Is a proposal coming? Then Abby turns the table and asks Morgan about her boyfriend. They talk about concerts they hope to see at specific venues before they die, and the items they refuse to ever sell. 

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Best Bits of the Week with Mortgage.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Part one behind a scene with a member of the show.

Speaker 3 (00:09):
Welcome to the Best Bits by Now you figured out
that we are on vacation, so this is a little
vaca Best Bits with Abby.

Speaker 2 (00:15):
Thank you for joining me. Abby.

Speaker 1 (00:17):
Oh, I feel like it's always vacation when we when
we talk, you are.

Speaker 2 (00:21):
The vacation girl. Yeah, you and me like to talk
around that time.

Speaker 1 (00:24):
Oh, that's funny.

Speaker 3 (00:25):
We do have some stuff to catch up on. And
not too long ago, there was some drama in the studio.
How are you feeling after this drama.

Speaker 1 (00:33):
I mean, I'm pretty good. I got to say what
I was gonna say, so, so.

Speaker 3 (00:37):
You're not feeling any like lingering effects of that or
you just kind of like it is what it is
and move on with my life.

Speaker 1 (00:43):
And it's been pretty normal, honestly. You know, in my
whole life, I sometimes am like a doormat, you know,
like people walk on me and I don't say anything.
I'm not saying just at work, I'm just saying in
general everywhere. You know, it's just very easy for me
to just kind of tolerate things not speak up. And
I'm trying to work on that. To speak up. And
I've had some people message me and they're like, oh

(01:04):
my gosh, you like inspired me to like speak up
and know what I stand for and stuff, And I'm like, Okay,
that's cool. If I could do that, awesome.

Speaker 3 (01:13):
I think it's as you go through life, too, you
have more lessons and you learn that speaking up is
important and a part of making yourself happy and making
sure you're advocating for yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:26):
I think we've been.

Speaker 3 (01:26):
Told a lot of our lives to, you know, avoid confrontation,
and it's don't do this and be this kind of person,
or be submissive or any number of things. You're just
told to get along and deal with it. And I
think standing up for yourself is a very radicalized, if
you will, belief to like that's a horrible thing, to

(01:47):
stand up for yourself. And I think it's really awesome
to be like, no, this is how I feel and
this is what I'm experiencing, and you know, nothing has
to happen from it, but I get to say my piece.

Speaker 1 (01:56):
Right, Yeah, I mean Friday definitely was that I was.
I was in a type of mood. Let's just put
it that way, Okay, Well.

Speaker 3 (02:04):
I wouldn't do a little mental health to make sure
you're doing Okay, I'm good, yeah, and just good moving
on now, yeah, moving on.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
We said our piece and move on we did. That's
all you need.

Speaker 3 (02:15):
Yeah, Sometimes it's just good to get something out and
then you can really start to move on to the
next thing, because when stuff's all bottled bin, it's like
a volcano.

Speaker 2 (02:23):
Sometimes it's a slow eruption, other times it's like.

Speaker 1 (02:27):
There.

Speaker 2 (02:29):
I think for you that day was up.

Speaker 3 (02:31):
It was, but it had been a slow eruption already,
So then get to the.

Speaker 1 (02:36):
Pure Yes, yeah, we're good.

Speaker 3 (02:39):
All right, Well we also need to hear some updates.
How's life going with the boyfriend, living in the house
or living with kiddos, the whole shebang.

Speaker 1 (02:47):
It's good. Yeah, because we went to Wisconsin, so we drove.
That was like our first like road trip for you know,
with all guys. Guys, Yeah, like traveling because we haven't
been on a plane. But yeah, we traveled. That was
really fun. And stepmom yeah, step mom playing the role.

Speaker 3 (03:05):
Yeah, okay, sorry delaying the role because I guess that
officially doesn't happen until you're married.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
Yeah, because I think they kind of they just look
at me as like their dad's friend, and I'm just
kind of like a friend to them, you know. That's
how they kind of see it. And like like his
daughter is like I forgot what we were saying, and
she's like, but you don't have kids, and I'm like, yeah,
you're right, I don't. And so, you know, it's just
kind of that they're pretty young. I mean, you know,
they're like five and almost four, so they're they're young

(03:31):
in price. It's a lot to take in and understand
the dynamics and all that, but it was like it
was super fun. They're so cute.

Speaker 2 (03:39):
Do you have a desire to have your own kids
with him? Yes?

Speaker 1 (03:43):
So the right way to say that, I'm not sure. Okay, Yeah,
yeah I do. I've always wanted kids. Well actually, I
mean I haven't really known if I have, but I
was like, if I meet the right person and it
feels right, So yeah.

Speaker 2 (03:55):
I'm probably seeing him be a really good dad.

Speaker 1 (03:58):
Is Yes, that helps a lot too, Yeah, because you're
always scared. You're like, I don't you know, because you
see people that have like big tempers or something around kids,
and like that's I've seen that in like my family
and I'm like, uh, I don't. I don't want that.
And so I know he's patient and very good with him,
very you know, caring, and he puts them first. So

(04:18):
does he have a desire to have more kids? Yeah,
he would, he said he would.

Speaker 3 (04:22):
Okay, so more kids are possible in the future. Yeah,
little Blanded family action.

Speaker 2 (04:28):
You're gonna be like Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler movie blended.

Speaker 1 (04:31):
Right, Oh my gosh. Yeah, it's crazy. But I mean,
I'm it's weird because I guess that's what I'm used to. Like,
my parents got a divorce when I was three, so
that's all I know. And that's really weird to me
that that's more normal than having parents that were together.

Speaker 2 (04:48):
Yeah, but that's your normal. That's what you know.

Speaker 3 (04:50):
So yeah, to you, it shouldn't be weird, right because
that is your normal. Everybody has a different normal, and
this is yours.

Speaker 2 (04:56):
So it makes sense.

Speaker 3 (04:57):
And that's why you guys are a good fit together
because that was your normal. That made sense, right, Because
he probably thought getting divorced and having young kids, he
was like, how am I ever going to find somebody
that's going to be okay with all of this. I
think that's a conversation that comes up a lot for
people who get divorced and like how is this going
to work? And what does dating look like? And that
was probably something that went through his mind. So you

(05:17):
being someone who's experienced it before and were okay with
it and know it, it made you guys the perfect
matchup right.

Speaker 1 (05:24):
I mean, yeah, it's hard enough dating. No kids are
any you know? Yeah, so yeah, I can't imagine if
you have kids or I don't know.

Speaker 2 (05:32):
And the road trip overall was really good.

Speaker 3 (05:34):
Yeah, it was awesome, have a lot of lessons in learning, Oh,
this is what it's like to have kids.

Speaker 1 (05:39):
So yeah, yeah, basically cause when it's just him, he's
someone like reaching back and like giving them stuff and
I'm like, can you not do that? It's scary, but
he has it on his front seat. But when I
was with him, it was a lot easier. I could
like hand them stuff because they always want snacks or
they drop something and then like they want to change
shows on their iPad or something like that.

Speaker 2 (05:57):
So he had to do it all the way back
by himself because you.

Speaker 1 (06:00):
Yeah, I flew back.

Speaker 3 (06:01):
But was that Sunday you had been to Wisconsin before. Yeah,
it is so that drive is pretty.

Speaker 1 (06:07):
Oh my gosh, Like there was just like open corn
fields and we saw like a rainbow and it was
like really nice. But I had been there before. It's
so pretty there.

Speaker 2 (06:15):
Did you get cheese curds? This is the big question.

Speaker 1 (06:17):
I didn't. I didn't.

Speaker 2 (06:19):
What is wrong with you?

Speaker 1 (06:21):
I don't know how it is the cheese state?

Speaker 3 (06:23):
How could you possibly enter Wisconsin any I'd be like, no,
no cheese for me.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
Where did you go?

Speaker 2 (06:31):
You went?

Speaker 1 (06:31):
Right?

Speaker 2 (06:31):
We just popped.

Speaker 3 (06:32):
We were literally just driving through Wisconsin and I saw
a cheese chalet on the side of the road.

Speaker 1 (06:37):
I see cheese. I didn't even see that the world. Yeah,
the entirety of Wisconsin that goes drove no, no cheese.
Little chalet had enough? I guess not.

Speaker 2 (06:47):
Yeah, I think my raider goes off. I'm like a rat.
You see cheese, it's like sniffed cheese.

Speaker 1 (06:53):
Like, how you are? I really am? Maybe it's just
not I'm not that big on like the cheese, like the.

Speaker 2 (07:01):
The curd you know, Abby. I can get behind a
lot of your food things, fry butts and the salad obsessions,
and this one I can't. I can't support you in this.

Speaker 1 (07:10):
That's funny because I've had them here. I've had cheese
curds here at different bars, But why haven't I wanted
to the authentic that's where they come from. Yeah, that's weird.

Speaker 3 (07:18):
I don't know any the Wisconsin has cheese curds that
come in just a bag that aren't fried.

Speaker 2 (07:23):
So they're different than cheese curds that are fried.

Speaker 1 (07:25):
Are they squeaky? Yes, okay, I think I've tried those
like a long time ago. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (07:31):
Yeah, that's why I call my little cheese plates because
I still make cheeseplates at home and I call them
my boyfriend.

Speaker 2 (07:37):
I call them my rat plate. I went from girl
dinner to rat plate because I feel like a rat
all the time when I'm eating it. And it's fine.
I'll accept my role in society.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
I think, Yeah, you know, love cheese more than anybody
I know, I think.

Speaker 3 (07:52):
And you know I probably sholl like. I feel like
it's funny rats get a bad rat, But I love
a rat too.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
Whereas you know, I could be like, I'm a little
mouse and I eat cheese. Now I'm a rap.

Speaker 1 (08:00):
I think mountain mouse is cute. You should do it.

Speaker 2 (08:02):
I think all of them are you.

Speaker 3 (08:04):
But I'm just gonna, you know, try and bring a
new face to rats and have she's played and be
a little rat heead for for cheese.

Speaker 1 (08:10):
It's funny. Well, no, I didn't.

Speaker 2 (08:11):
Try that, but I'm so disappointed in you.

Speaker 1 (08:14):
I know. No, but one of them. So he stayed
in his grandparents' house, like they both passed away. But
his uncle bought it and so he was really excited
to do that. But one of his other uncles like
had a live band in their yard. It was like
the coolest thing ever, Like they love it there. This
for just a family weekend. Yes, it's like a tradition.
I guess this every weekend. He's starting to like hire

(08:34):
a b No, sorry, every year, like one weekend. It's
like an annual thing.

Speaker 2 (08:40):
Who's the uncle I know?

Speaker 1 (08:42):
Yeah, Well his daughter just got engaged, so I think
it was part of like an engagement party too. But
I was like, this is awesome.

Speaker 2 (08:47):
Oh that's fun.

Speaker 1 (08:48):
Like everybody just comes from the neighborhood for a live band.

Speaker 2 (08:52):
The one time I was in Wisconsin, we had went
and did.

Speaker 3 (08:55):
One of like the neighbors where we were at put
a skating rink because it's in winter time, and they
did an ice skating rink in their backyard, like created
created this entire rink and so we ice skated in
somebody's backyard.

Speaker 1 (09:08):
That's so fun. Is that like a thing there? I
guess up there, it's just like a yeah.

Speaker 2 (09:12):
I think it gets really cold there and you have
just very creative people. I loved Wisconsin. I thought it
was beautiful.

Speaker 1 (09:17):
People are so nice, like you think they're nice values. Yes,
I mean it's just like Kansas and yeah, just Midwest.

Speaker 2 (09:24):
And because they're cheeseheads are nice, they are not part
of that category. But that's fine. Oh my gosh, I'm
just a little bit bitter.

Speaker 1 (09:33):
I can tell. I can tell it's fine next time
when I go up there next year. He's from them.
I've already been there.

Speaker 2 (09:40):
Boyfriend is a literal cheesehead.

Speaker 1 (09:42):
He is okay. He tries to order him here, and
I'm like, yeah, go ahead and I'll have like a bite.
But you were so lame for this. This is your
only thing that I will call you out on. You know.
It's really funny though. He wore a rock chalk shirt
like a ku one. Somebody said rock chalk and he
didn't know what to say back. I'm like, if you're
gonna wear the suret, you have to know.

Speaker 2 (10:01):
You can't say it's like we wear the bands like
you're wearing a rolling stone, Right, you'd have to know
rolling stones or like identify with them instead of just
wearing the apparel exactly.

Speaker 1 (10:12):
Yeah, I just thought it was funny. I'm like, you
have to say rock chalk back. He's like, what's that mean.
I'm like, doesn't matter, just say it, just know the language. Yes,
It's like me being like, go Pat go. I know
that at least, so if.

Speaker 2 (10:23):
Somebody says that to you, you say it back.

Speaker 1 (10:25):
Yeah, I think so. Yeah, Like i'd be like, go
Pat go. Or if you see somebody with Packers girl
and you're just like, go pack go.

Speaker 3 (10:31):
You know what's funny is this is gonna be my
first time dating somebody who watches a lot of football.

Speaker 2 (10:37):
He's a big Steelers fan, Rellian, and I don't know that.
I'm ready for my life to change.

Speaker 1 (10:41):
Yeah, what are you gonna do when he's watching games?
Are you gonna watch with him?

Speaker 2 (10:43):
Well? I told him. There's two good things about this.

Speaker 3 (10:45):
I always work quite a bit on Sundays, and so
I was like, you know, I already am sitting on
my couch is working, so you can watch whatever.

Speaker 1 (10:51):
It doesn't bother me. But I said, here's my one deal.

Speaker 3 (10:54):
If you're gonna take up the whole day Sunday watching football,
you have to make me one appetizer.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
That our deal.

Speaker 2 (11:01):
He's like, that's actually totally make an appetizer for you.

Speaker 1 (11:03):
That's actually like a really good deal.

Speaker 2 (11:04):
Yeah, I like, you give me an appetizer. I'll be happy.

Speaker 1 (11:07):
I'll be working.

Speaker 3 (11:08):
I can like go about my day and watch sometimes
with you because I'll have my little happy and then.

Speaker 1 (11:12):
You can watch your game. That's funny, yeaheah.

Speaker 3 (11:16):
So he'll have to get creative because he can't be
all the same every single time. It'll be different appetizers each.

Speaker 1 (11:20):
Week, all cheese, to include cheese.

Speaker 2 (11:23):
Hopefully lots of.

Speaker 3 (11:23):
Cheese are part of that, but it will be I'm
gosh'll be a sports girlfriend.

Speaker 1 (11:30):
You never have before. I guess I've dated.

Speaker 2 (11:33):
Some that have, but not one who's genuinely passionate about
one team. And he's very much like gonna he does.

Speaker 3 (11:41):
He's not one of those who like has to watch
the entire day is gonna spin if we had plans
or something. He'd go to something else, but he wants
to watch his team, which is a Steelers. So I
have to now a lot time on Sundays for whenever
the Steelers game.

Speaker 1 (11:54):
Is, Oh yeah, it's either what what's the first game
on noon?

Speaker 3 (11:58):
I think, yeah, I think the first one is are
selling nuon It's gonna be back to my Buffalo Wild
Wings days. And I think this is why I always
had kind of a separation of my life in sports,
because for four and a half years of my life
when I worked at Buffalo Wild Winks, and then even
the other half of that year, so basically five years
in total, I worked at another sports bar brewing company
and there were sports all the time. I can see

(12:20):
that so much time watching sports that after I quit
that job, I was like, I'm good.

Speaker 1 (12:25):
You want to like get away from it. You're like, okay,
that was my whole day, like work.

Speaker 3 (12:28):
All the time, college, NFL and NHL, what are all
the other ones? NBA saw all of it because the
season's never rise all of it, So I think that
was why I had such a But you know, I'm
like fifteen years removed from that, so hopefully.

Speaker 1 (12:43):
I can time to get back on that. Let's go.

Speaker 3 (12:46):
Yeah, I'm a little nervous, so I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (12:51):
All that goes. It's so fun. I love Sundays.

Speaker 2 (12:55):
Well, then you had a year before, right, you were
the Broncos.

Speaker 1 (12:57):
You liked the Broncos, which I still am. I did
not convert to him, No, no, no, no, Yeah, but
you'll watch Broncos team play.

Speaker 2 (13:04):
Yeah. Also, yeah, you guys watch both, so you guys
have two games to watch every Thursday, Sunday or Monday.

Speaker 1 (13:10):
Huh. And then I also like watching the Chiefs just
because it's kind of nostalgia, like reminds me of home.
Because a lot of my friends are cheese fans.

Speaker 3 (13:17):
So yeah, I do not have to watch Chiefs games
because all of my friends will promptly post whatever happened
during the game. I will either get highlights the winning score,
the losing score, Taylor Swift moments, Travis Kelsey things, Patrick Mahomes.
I pretty much every every know after every Chiefs game
what has happened, and I will have not watched a

(13:38):
single part of it.

Speaker 2 (13:38):
Oh yeah, seriously, because of my all my following is
mostly Kansas City Chiefs fans.

Speaker 1 (13:43):
Well, I feel like every time I turned it on,
like the past two years, it's been like Taylor in
the stands. So it's not much football, you know sports. Yeah,
I love it. It's funny.

Speaker 2 (13:54):
Okay, well that's what I'm dealing with right now.

Speaker 1 (13:57):
Yeah, so everything's good for you.

Speaker 2 (14:00):
Oh yeah, everything's great.

Speaker 1 (14:02):
I love it.

Speaker 2 (14:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (14:03):
He's a great guy. I literally have nothing bad. He's
wonderful and ever since the.

Speaker 1 (14:09):
Way, I've only met him one time and it was
at the concert and it was like a briefly like
nice to meet you, and then we don't really get
to talk.

Speaker 2 (14:15):
I know. We need to actually have a full hangout. Yeah,
we do where the boys can hang out.

Speaker 3 (14:20):
And he loves to play games too, So we can
go to a bar that has games. We should do that,
get some he loves playing, Like, uh, how are we
just playing?

Speaker 2 (14:29):
Oh? Thank you?

Speaker 3 (14:30):
I keep won't even called bags because people call it bags. Yeah,
and then it gets stuck in my head and I
can't think of corn hole, which is the real name
for it.

Speaker 2 (14:37):
Anyways, he loves playing cornhole or just bar games, so.

Speaker 1 (14:40):
That'd be fun.

Speaker 3 (14:41):
He's about to build a We went to a place
in Nashville called Ernie's Boon Dock, which is one of
my favorite bars in town because they have his game
called Toad in the Hole.

Speaker 1 (14:48):
Have you been to Ernie's. No, it's my favorite bar.

Speaker 2 (14:51):
It's an East Yeah.

Speaker 1 (14:52):
See, I never go over there.

Speaker 3 (14:53):
I feel like, Well, they have this game called Toad
in the Hole that's like a coin version of coin
that's weird, coin verse of corn holes.

Speaker 1 (15:02):
Say that five times.

Speaker 2 (15:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (15:03):
So you have like this giant coin and you're trying
to land it on this board and get it in
a hole that like pops out and you ideally get
all four coins in there and that's how you win,
or you get them on the board, you get points.
So it's a like tiny version of it. And now
we're trying to build a Toad in the Hole for
the house so we can like have one at the house.

Speaker 1 (15:21):
Oh, that'd be fun. That sounds really cool. I'll want
to try that.

Speaker 3 (15:24):
He's like, I feel like you need to have this
in your backyard so when I come over, I can
just play all the time. And I was like, you
build it, I'll keep it there, but I'm not gonna
go buy one.

Speaker 1 (15:34):
Yeah, I can't picture that. I need to like look
it up. I know, you you.

Speaker 2 (15:38):
Need to go play those fun Yeah, it's a fun game.
If you like any version of yard games, it's in
that same realm. Just a good time. But yeah, that's
that's what's going on in my life.

Speaker 1 (15:47):
I love it. Look at that, I know, all happy vibes,
all the happy vibes.

Speaker 3 (15:53):
Yeah yeah, I mean heck, we've had like disagreements, but yeah,
we haven't had any massive fights. We've had like moments
where we were like, oh, we're different in this aspect.

Speaker 2 (16:03):
I mean great communication. I don't know what that's normally
been like.

Speaker 3 (16:07):
So I'm learning how to be in a safe relationship
where you actually talk to one another communicator.

Speaker 1 (16:12):
We're like, hey, we're are you not gonna talk to me? Yeah?
I like, you're trying to guess what's wrong.

Speaker 2 (16:16):
This is how I feel and this is what's happening.
He's like, cool, I see you. That's awesome and this
is how I feel great.

Speaker 1 (16:22):
Cool.

Speaker 2 (16:23):
He's like, did we just have our first five? I
was like, is that a fight? Is that what this is?
He's like, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (16:28):
So it's been going really well. Yeah that's good. But
no yelling matches. That's a good sign.

Speaker 3 (16:34):
That's a big sign, especially for me in my past experience.
Oh gosh, yeah, Okay, we're gonna take a quick break.

Speaker 2 (16:39):
We'll be right back.

Speaker 3 (16:43):
Before we get into some fun questions, I wanted to
ask you, do you feel like a proposal?

Speaker 1 (16:49):
What's coming?

Speaker 2 (16:50):
Is there a conversation about.

Speaker 1 (16:51):
This, not like in the next few months, maybe this year.
Maybe maybe we're already in August. Shoot, well, then it won't.
But I don't think it'll be this year. Then no, huh,
you said next to you.

Speaker 2 (17:05):
But I mean we're like towards the end of the year,
that's true.

Speaker 1 (17:09):
I don't know. I can't it, okay. The thought just
me being single a lot most of my life, like
not having someone that I'm like, oh, I can actually
see myself with them, like for real, I've never really
had to think about it. And so now that I
am actually thinking about it, like sometimes he brings it
up and I like freak out, and I know this

(17:29):
is just like me putting this wall down, you know,
and I'm like, oh, oh my gosh, let's change the subject.
He's like, Okay, that's not like good that you're acting
like reacting that way, and I'm like, but no, it's
just like it's me, like it's like a personal thing.
Then what makes you react that way?

Speaker 2 (17:46):
Is it the idea that this is a lifelong commitment.

Speaker 1 (17:49):
Is it the idea that.

Speaker 2 (17:52):
You don't know if it's correct, You don't you're kind
of second guessing, You're.

Speaker 1 (17:56):
I think a lot of it is just like the
commitment thing. It's just always like it's hard for me
to commit to anything. It just is. And I don't
know it's I think it's just a reaction that I'm
having because I'm so independent. I think that scares me
a little too. That I just was always like, oh,
I guess I'm just gonna live just me, like do this.

(18:18):
And now I'm like, oh wait, it's not like that anymore.
It's so much more than that. And then like kids
and maybe having kids in the future. It's just it's
like a lot for my brain. Yeah, And so I
mean it's yeah, it's not him, it's I know, it's
like a me thing.

Speaker 3 (18:35):
So you think had you been like, yes, it may
have already happened by now.

Speaker 2 (18:40):
No.

Speaker 1 (18:40):
I think he's like trying to be cautious too, you know,
like take it pretty slow, because I mean he's already
been married before and so he wants to also not
like rush into it or you know, and I think
it's like, why rush? That's kind of where I am.

Speaker 2 (18:56):
Take your time. Will you guys be dating for how
long now?

Speaker 1 (18:59):
So well, it was like official in December that that'd
be two years, and we met like in October, so.

Speaker 3 (19:06):
You're growing up on your two years. Really, yeah, and
that's a good time frame and you're now living together. Yeah,
so it's definitely the next it definitely, yeah, step If
that's what both of you guys want, you can also
not want that, and that's okay.

Speaker 1 (19:20):
No, we definitely do it. Should I don't. I can't
explain it why.

Speaker 3 (19:24):
I'm interesting that commitment is what is holding you back
because you're a committed person in other aspects of your
life with your work, You've committed to your family, like
you show commitment in other ways. You have friends you've
had for years, So it's interesting that that's the hold
up for you.

Speaker 1 (19:43):
No, it is really weird. Yeah, I should weird.

Speaker 3 (19:47):
I think more because you've had experience with guys and
that's created hesitancy and insecurity and a lot of things.
But I don't think it's weird to be hesitant of
a lifelong commitment. That's your goal is to get married
for life. So if you're looking at something for the
rest of your life, that's daunting. That's a big grandiose
But I think if you take some of that pressure

(20:08):
away from yourself, where you're like, I love this person,
I want to be with them, I would love to
get married, and just leave it at that instead of
the big grandiose side of it. I think the grandiose
picture is what makes it so terrifying because I felt that.
I feel that really, yeah, it makes sense completely. I
think a lot of people feel that because when you

(20:29):
think of something life long, just like when people are
like when I think about having kids, I'm like, oh,
that's forever, you know, But I can have a dog
in kind like, that's forever.

Speaker 2 (20:40):
I'm fine. But why is it that when I look
at kids I feel different? You know?

Speaker 3 (20:44):
So you have different insecurious things that have been planted
in your head along the way to believe a certain
way or which about something. So I don't think it's
weird or wrong, but it is interesting that you can
commit in other ways, but this is the one thing
that's holding you back, right.

Speaker 1 (21:01):
It also could be like, since my parents, I know,
they got a divorce, Like, I don't want that. I
don't want that to happen. I don't want to get
a divorce, you know, even though I had the best
childhood despite my parents not being together. But I'm just like,
I don't want something like that to happen. So I'm like,
if we're just not married, that can't happen. SOS. Just yeah,
it's a lot that I'm still trying to process in

(21:24):
my head too, as to why I have this reaction.

Speaker 2 (21:27):
Well, it sounds like that's good for you guys though,
because it doesn't sound like he's like we have to
do this right now or I really want this to happen.
He's on his own slow timeline. You're on a slow timeline.
It'll work out how it's supposed to.

Speaker 1 (21:38):
Yeah, but he's very good at planning, better than me.
That's how I'm like, oh my gosh, why are we
asking Let's just move on, let's just live life.

Speaker 2 (21:47):
Do you even know what kind of ring?

Speaker 1 (21:49):
Oh my gosh, we went once like a like a
while ago, just because I was like, I have no idea.
I've never even looked. I don't even know like what
a halo cut? Any of that means, like do you
have it?

Speaker 2 (22:00):
Looked on Pinterest or like looked at other people's rings
to have an idea.

Speaker 1 (22:04):
No, I've never been that type. I seriously was like,
I'm going to jinx it if I look at anything,
Like I know people that have everything planned out of
their wedding colors and all that. I'm like, I've never
done that. It's really weird. I've just always in my
mind thought like be like you have to be okay
like yourself, like when not meeting somebody, Like my expectations
were so low. Yeah, which I it's just because I

(22:27):
was dating in Nashville and it was so bad for
like so long.

Speaker 3 (22:30):
Well you're you're kind of building back up this brick
foundation of oh I'm now in a loving relationship, this
is a possibility, this is a conversation. You kind of
took a lot of it out of the picture because
you thought it wouldn't happen.

Speaker 1 (22:42):
Right, And Yeah, I was just thinking, like with so
many bad dates, I was like, oh my gosh, like
what if this isn't for me? Like what if I'm
not going to find somebody? And so I think that's
been my mindset for so long, and so now I'm like,
oh wow, it I do have this, this could happen
to me.

Speaker 3 (23:00):
And I'm working to rewire your brain to believe things
that you once stopped believing, which is really sad.

Speaker 1 (23:07):
It is sad, but just like you know, the dating
in Nashville, it is crazy. It's not good.

Speaker 3 (23:13):
No, and it makes sense, like you're you're also just
a slow burn kind of person in general, you're not
besides the guys give your heart dime when you were
like dating and you'd give everything all, but really you're
a slow burn kind of person.

Speaker 2 (23:27):
Things are You're more sloth like.

Speaker 1 (23:30):
Than Even though I was like, I what they were saying,
like that was true.

Speaker 2 (23:35):
Yeah, you would give a lot on dates, but you
weren't giving like oh I'm going to marry you right now.
You were giving here's all my It was like word
vomit right, here's my whole life story. This is who
I am.

Speaker 1 (23:48):
There's no mystery to like, who are you?

Speaker 3 (23:51):
I wasn't playing games, but you as a person, like
your life is a slow burn.

Speaker 1 (23:56):
Uh huh, No, that's true.

Speaker 2 (23:57):
You do everything very like you've thought about it. It's
very logical.

Speaker 3 (24:04):
You're not like an impulse, You're not a super fly
off the seat of your pants. And maybe I'm wrong,
but I feel like that's more of the road you
would take.

Speaker 1 (24:12):
No, I'd say that's right.

Speaker 3 (24:13):
Yeah, and that's probably why this is more of your
personality and you're getting to lean more into your personality
because you've found someone.

Speaker 1 (24:21):
Yes, so that's all that's happening. Yeah, it's very odd.
This is just a feeling. It's odd feeling.

Speaker 3 (24:27):
Well, it's just like with the house that was a
slow burn. You're still slow burning it, but you're starting
to get to your decision making process.

Speaker 1 (24:35):
Yeah, slow burn. This is a slow burn. Oh my god,
just need.

Speaker 2 (24:38):
Lives in a Casey Muscat slowburn on repeat and be like,
this is who I am. I know I feel like you, Casey.

Speaker 1 (24:45):
But really I do. It's a vibe.

Speaker 3 (24:47):
It is a vibe speaking of some other fun stuff
because that's fun. And you know, one day you'll come
on here and you will be.

Speaker 1 (24:55):
Wow, that'll be weird, that'd be crazy.

Speaker 2 (25:00):
It'll be awesome, and you'll be excited.

Speaker 3 (25:02):
Yeah for now, right now, in this moment, you're like,
that's insane, I know, but you'll be excited.

Speaker 2 (25:07):
Okay, so Bobby has had did this like list of
shows he wishes he could have been at, and so
it had me thinking of what artists I hope to
see at a specific venue one day. Have you ever
thought about this?

Speaker 1 (25:20):
Yeah, well, because I keep seeing videos right now. A
current one. Okay, Backstreet Boys at Spear Vegas. Oh my gosh,
are you kidding me?

Speaker 2 (25:28):
Yeah? I think Kenny Chesney looked really cool at Spear too.

Speaker 1 (25:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (25:32):
I think Sphear in general is a cool spot that. Yeah,
that's true.

Speaker 1 (25:36):
I do. I want to go to sphere so bad.
But currently back Street Boys are there, and like people's videos,
I'm like, oh my gosh, it's.

Speaker 2 (25:43):
Just did you love Backtory Boys growing up? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (25:46):
I love them.

Speaker 2 (25:46):
Were you a Backstreet Boys over in SC because I
feel like you were one or the other?

Speaker 1 (25:49):
Yeah, i'd say Backstreet Boys.

Speaker 2 (25:50):
And I was in sync?

Speaker 1 (25:51):
Really yeah that I feel like I listened to them
even sometimes now like it's random, I'm like, Alexa play
Factory Boys, ah way, because I have so many ones
you kind of forgot about, like in sync, I feel
like I don't know, I'm gonna have.

Speaker 3 (26:06):
To go through their their repertoire. Well really mine was
because of JT. I had a crush on JT. With
the rest of the world. Yeah, so that was where
my n SYNC love came from. But let me see
n sync's.

Speaker 1 (26:16):
Catalog really quick.

Speaker 3 (26:17):
They're like top songs you got Bye Bye Bye, It's
gonna be.

Speaker 2 (26:20):
Me, or it's gonna be me my tearing up my
heart this I promised you.

Speaker 1 (26:28):
Oh okay, I want you back.

Speaker 3 (26:31):
I think that's Saxon five that I just sang in
that rhythm, But no, you did it like I did
it right. Oh yeah, it's then besides that, I don't know.
They got better plays from trolls.

Speaker 2 (26:42):
They've got pop.

Speaker 3 (26:43):
I don't remember that song thinking of You, I Drive
Myself Crazy, girlfriend and gone or like their top ten.

Speaker 2 (26:51):
But then let's go Backtree Boys.

Speaker 3 (26:54):
So i'd say I know like six of those off
just the top of my head, off the titles.

Speaker 1 (26:58):
I didn't. Yeah, I didn't know a couple of those.

Speaker 2 (27:01):
Four Backstreet Boys we got. I want it that way.

Speaker 1 (27:04):
I want it that way.

Speaker 3 (27:06):
Yes, you got as long as you love me. Everybody
Backstreets back, all right. Shape of my Heart.

Speaker 1 (27:14):
I don't know that one shape of my heart.

Speaker 2 (27:18):
That one's not ringing any bells sep really mm hmm.
Quit playing games with my heart.

Speaker 1 (27:23):
Quit saying games with that one.

Speaker 2 (27:26):
I know, Show me the meaning of being lonely.

Speaker 1 (27:29):
Show me the meaning of me, and.

Speaker 2 (27:32):
I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (27:33):
Every single one of those sounds the same. I think
that's why I like them. I'm more of like the sad.

Speaker 2 (27:40):
Give me every similar version of one's song.

Speaker 1 (27:43):
Yeah, like pull on my heart strings and I feel
like in sync is a little just more like bye
bye b Yeah, that's my vibe dance.

Speaker 2 (27:50):
This is where our vibes come in.

Speaker 1 (27:51):
It is. Yeah, mine's like I want to cry and.

Speaker 2 (27:54):
I'm like, I want to vibe there crying in a corner.
I'm like, boom boom.

Speaker 1 (28:00):
So this is.

Speaker 2 (28:03):
Why can't I think of it? There is I got
to find that. I think that's what it is, larger
than life.

Speaker 1 (28:12):
That makes you larger than.

Speaker 2 (28:15):
That one I know also sounds zinc drowning.

Speaker 1 (28:19):
That one's so sad. I got to see. All these
are just the incomplete feels in complete.

Speaker 2 (28:25):
They're literally all the same.

Speaker 1 (28:26):
There not, No, they're not.

Speaker 3 (28:30):
I think I only knew three of those backstory boys
has twenty seven point two mentally listeners. I don't, and
I think it's because they made a comeback. Yeah, NCC
has thirteen point one. I think if n zinc also
would have made their full comeback, I think they both
would have.

Speaker 2 (28:41):
Been sky rising to fame again.

Speaker 1 (28:45):
Uh huh.

Speaker 2 (28:45):
They're very sure massive for their time.

Speaker 1 (28:47):
I was like, I want to see Britney Spears again,
like really bad, but.

Speaker 2 (28:51):
She's I don't see her touring again.

Speaker 1 (28:54):
No, you know who I want.

Speaker 3 (28:56):
To see at the Sphere, which would be iconic if
it could ever happen.

Speaker 2 (29:00):
Oh Selene Dion.

Speaker 1 (29:01):
Oh yeah, I was thinking her too. That would be
the most insane.

Speaker 3 (29:05):
I just want to see Celine Dion before, like hopefully
if she ever performs again, I'm gonna try my hardest
to go.

Speaker 2 (29:11):
But it'd be really cool if she does that Sphere.

Speaker 1 (29:14):
I don't know if again she though, I don't know
if she can physically.

Speaker 2 (29:17):
She just talks of her potentially trying to do more
shows again.

Speaker 1 (29:21):
Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (29:21):
And I don't know if that was just people making rumors.
I don't know if that was true. Yeah, but if
she does, and like because she feels good to do so,
I would be there in a heartbeat.

Speaker 1 (29:31):
Oh for sure. Yep.

Speaker 3 (29:32):
I would drop some money, I think to see that
because it would be like the last time he'd probably
ever see her.

Speaker 1 (29:37):
Yeah, that one.

Speaker 2 (29:38):
Or I want to see Keithurbent at Red Rocks.

Speaker 1 (29:40):
Ooh yeah, red Rocks.

Speaker 2 (29:42):
Because I've never been in Red Rocks. M h. I'd
love to go to a concert.

Speaker 3 (29:45):
I could have gone to just see it, but I
only want to go if I'm going to a concert,
and I really want to see Keith her Wing because
he's just good all the time.

Speaker 1 (29:53):
He's always ridiculous. Does he have that much energy? Every time?
He is insane?

Speaker 2 (29:58):
And every concert I go.

Speaker 3 (29:59):
I like, I was listening to his music the other day,
just this catalog, and I just forgot. He just has
so many good freaking hits from for thirty years.

Speaker 2 (30:08):
This man has put out hit after hit. I know how,
I have no idea.

Speaker 1 (30:12):
I do not know.

Speaker 2 (30:13):
And he goes to a.

Speaker 3 (30:14):
Show and he sounds just as good as when he
was back in the nineties. Uh insane or early two thousands,
I guess.

Speaker 2 (30:20):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (30:21):
I feel like he had some coming out in like
nineteen ninety seven, maybe so later nineties. But yeah, anyways,
that was a hot topic. Okay, I got some more
fun things for us to talk about. We're gonna take
a quick break.

Speaker 2 (30:31):
Though'll be our back.

Speaker 3 (30:35):
I was cleaning out one of my closets the other
day and I found this whole booklet.

Speaker 2 (30:41):
Full of DVDs.

Speaker 1 (30:43):
Oh my gosh, this.

Speaker 2 (30:44):
Is from ten twelve years ago. I thought I was
in high school, maybe high school freshman or sophomore. And
I love to collect DVDs.

Speaker 3 (30:53):
I would collect, like some of my favorite movies from
the early two thousands, the popular ones now And I
have this entire booklet of these DVDs. And I was
thinking also about vinyls, because I've been collecting vinyls. That's
been my thing. I gotta hold vinyl record players, my
favorite thing to play these.

Speaker 2 (31:07):
But like, what is.

Speaker 3 (31:08):
The item that you refuse to give away because you
think one day it'll be cool again. Because I feel
like this is gonna happen with DVDs much like it
did happen with vinyl I feel like when you have
a collection of something that was super popular at one time,
in twenty years, it's going to be popular again.

Speaker 1 (31:24):
Well, I still think beanie babies.

Speaker 2 (31:27):
Do you think banie babies will make their comeback?

Speaker 1 (31:30):
Well, I was hoping they'd sell for a lot, but
I don't think they're going to Yeah.

Speaker 3 (31:34):
No, I think that was a definite hype up that
just failed. I know, I think I got excited people
had them.

Speaker 1 (31:42):
M hmm.

Speaker 2 (31:43):
The things that always sell so much are stuff that's rare.
So many people had beanie babies.

Speaker 3 (31:49):
I know that's true that if you didn't sell it
right when they spiked of like the boom of buying them,
you weren't going to make any money because it's people
already bought them.

Speaker 2 (31:56):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (31:57):
I mean I still have all my CDs. Like in
high school, you did like a burn, you burned your
own CDs and stuff like I still have those. I
have like Backstreet Boys and Sink Britney Spears, sleandyon Mariah Carey.
I always listened to her. Did you burn.

Speaker 2 (32:11):
Those or were they mixed? With?

Speaker 1 (32:13):
All of them? All those were actually like the CDs.
But then I had a few that I would like
when I thought it was cool, I'm like, oh, I'm
gonna make my own CD. But no, like most of them,
they were the actual CDs, and I like still have them.
I feel like those can't they that can come back?

Speaker 2 (32:27):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (32:28):
I mean if vinyl records can come back, which came back,
which came before CDs. My time, I might be a
little fuzzy there, but came before CDs, and yeah, I
would say, so, we just haven't hit that spike yet.

Speaker 2 (32:41):
Like Walkman's will Buy Me Come Back?

Speaker 1 (32:43):
That's true with them.

Speaker 2 (32:45):
Yeah, you know Walkman's play CDs?

Speaker 1 (32:47):
Uh huh? Or did they?

Speaker 3 (32:48):
I know, well there was one. There's a version of
Walkman that played CDs. I don't know if it was
the Walkman I think played the the tape to set play. Yeah,
but those like that, is it bad tape in there?
I feel like those can't last forever, like cassette tapes,
because it has like the tape, they start remaking them again,
just like artists are making vinyls again.

Speaker 1 (33:09):
That's true. I'm trying to think what else there is?
What else?

Speaker 2 (33:13):
I don't know. My mom, it's so funny.

Speaker 3 (33:15):
We gave her a really hard time for so many
years because she never got rid of a lot of
her older clothes. Yeah, and now we go into her closet,
we steal them because they're popular now.

Speaker 1 (33:22):
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 2 (33:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (33:23):
See my mom always says that too, But she did
give them away and she's like, oh my, why did
I do that? Like everything that's in style now like
I had, and it would be so.

Speaker 2 (33:30):
Cute yep, and she does.

Speaker 3 (33:33):
I'll literally just be like, hey, mom, dude, did you
ever have this trend or do anything that. She's like,
oh yeah, let me go find it and just pulls
it out. Like the depth of her closet it is,
oh my gosh.

Speaker 1 (33:42):
Yeah. I keep a lot of my clothes too, like
my closet at my mom's house. I still have them.
I still have like my homecoming and prom dresses.

Speaker 2 (33:49):
I do still have those too.

Speaker 3 (33:50):
I have tried to convince my mom to get rid
of them, and then I did a video with him
gosh three or four years ago where I tried them
all again and did like a video and it went viral.

Speaker 1 (34:02):
I remember, yeah yeah, And she was like, see, you
wouldn't have had your viral video if I didn't keep
all my dresses that you had, And I was like,
I know, but I was like, okay, one off.

Speaker 2 (34:11):
Phone, Now what are we gonna do with them?

Speaker 1 (34:13):
I know I can't get rid of them. I don't
know why. I know, And like my basketball shoes all
like every season I had to get different basketball shoes
or every year, and I still have them.

Speaker 2 (34:23):
You still have all of your bath Yes, those have
to smell like they have to smell.

Speaker 1 (34:30):
My feet do not sink. They smell so good.

Speaker 3 (34:33):
Okay, every single person has but owner that is a lie,
that is a human thing.

Speaker 1 (34:38):
Oh my gosh, that's funny. Yeah, they're still in the closet.
It's like a high school time capsule. I don't know
what I'm gonna do with them? What do I What
am I to do with these? Maybe? I don't know. Man.

Speaker 3 (34:50):
I try every time I try and go home, I
try and get rid of just a little bit more
that my parents have. I'm like, if you want to
send it home with me, all all donated, or sell
it or find ways to do so.

Speaker 2 (35:00):
The only thing that I was mad they.

Speaker 3 (35:02):
Did a garage show one year and I used to
be obsessed with polypockets and I had created quite the
collection of pollypockets. Okay, this thing was in this cute
little leffer case and I had it perfectly organized because
I was even organized as a kid. And somehow the
one thing that goes missing during the stupid garage show
that I marked is please do not sell I should

(35:23):
tell everything else, but please do not sell my pollypockets,
because I think they'll be cool to pass down to
my knees or if I ever have kids one day,
polypockets will be still huge.

Speaker 2 (35:32):
And you know a goshold.

Speaker 1 (35:35):
No for what ten back, Probably because for the whole case,
because the case was really cool and it wasn't a
pollpocket case.

Speaker 2 (35:42):
I just like created this case for my pollypocket. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (35:46):
Oh, somebody got the jackpot and they probably just wanted
the case and then they probably threw up myllock probly.

Speaker 1 (35:52):
Oh that's sad.

Speaker 2 (35:53):
And then my niece got into pollypocket. I was like,
you know what, it would been nice. My whole collection.

Speaker 1 (35:59):
Oh my gosh. Did you do you ever have like barbies?

Speaker 2 (36:01):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (36:01):
Yeah, do you still have those?

Speaker 2 (36:03):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (36:03):
I still have barbies because there was like a poster
I remember with like the most iconic barbies from every
year or something, and I tried to collect all of them.
I don't remember. Do you remember that? It was like
every year had its own barbie.

Speaker 2 (36:17):
I'm sure, yeah, I know what you're talking about, but
I don't know that we did it or not. Yeah,
we definitely have weird barbies. You do yeah, m hmm.

Speaker 3 (36:27):
We definitely destroyed some weird Barbies. And then like watching
the Barbie movie and seeing the Weird Barbie cracked me
up even more because we created many of those characters.

Speaker 1 (36:37):
I couldn't make it through that movie. Really, I just
didn't like it. I don't know why I was watching
it on the plane. I don't know what.

Speaker 2 (36:44):
Did you not make it to the monologue? The monologue
was one of my favorite parts.

Speaker 1 (36:47):
And no, because I saw that like at the awards
that that was like one of the best, But I
didn't make it. I should try.

Speaker 2 (36:55):
Mine was more nostalgic with that movie.

Speaker 3 (36:57):
I just loved the Barbie was such a big part
of my childhood that it felt like I was kind
of transported back to being a kid watching that movie
and just like seeing it from a different perspective as
an adult now.

Speaker 1 (37:09):
It was interesting.

Speaker 3 (37:10):
Yeah, and I love Margot Robbie just want her and
Ryan Glossling both.

Speaker 1 (37:14):
Oh they're the best.

Speaker 2 (37:16):
Yeah, that was something I'm thinking about.

Speaker 3 (37:17):
Okay, another thing, we were talking about your weird food things.
I'm gonna admit a weird food thing of mine.

Speaker 1 (37:24):
Oh good, I'm not the only one.

Speaker 2 (37:26):
No, you're still weird for not liking cheese.

Speaker 3 (37:28):
I like cheese, not enough to get it from the
state that it's created.

Speaker 2 (37:34):
I put honey on my scrambled eggs.

Speaker 1 (37:36):
What in the that is weird?

Speaker 2 (37:38):
Have you ever tried it?

Speaker 1 (37:39):
Nahm h why why that?

Speaker 3 (37:42):
Though I didn't knock your fry butts, I supported you
in that weird endeavor.

Speaker 1 (37:49):
I can't help that I have it.

Speaker 2 (37:52):
Okay, I can't help putting honey on my scrabl eggs.

Speaker 1 (37:55):
But what I mean, I guess I could see it
from like the salt and sweet.

Speaker 2 (37:59):
Yeah, it's swine sweet texture, but something about have you
ever had syrup with eggs? Have had? Have you ever
had pancakes?

Speaker 1 (38:05):
I don't want them touching. No, I do not want
the syrup.

Speaker 2 (38:08):
You're not a texture mixture, correct, Yeah?

Speaker 1 (38:11):
Uh uh no, they will not go.

Speaker 2 (38:14):
Yeah. If you don't like texture, and I'm with you
on that, there's some textures I don't like a food.
So if you're really on that, you probably won't like it.

Speaker 3 (38:20):
But it tastes so freaking bomb Like if I get
an egg sandwich, I'll put jelly on it of some kind,
like a jam or jelly, And it's that same type
of mixture, like you get like just this little sweet
or a little like tarty, whichever.

Speaker 2 (38:34):
Your vibe is, depending on the jam or whatever, and
it just.

Speaker 1 (38:37):
Gives you this cute little to it. Wow.

Speaker 2 (38:40):
Really, or if you really like like a little bit
spicier too, you do hot honey.

Speaker 1 (38:44):
Okay, oh that could be good.

Speaker 2 (38:46):
See okay, now you're onng because it's hot honey. It's
their regular honey. It's the literal same thing.

Speaker 1 (38:50):
No, it's not.

Speaker 2 (38:51):
I've definitely had hot honey and honey, and they basically
taste the same to me.

Speaker 1 (38:54):
Oh do they?

Speaker 3 (38:55):
And maybe I just don't have spicy things because I
don't like spicy things. So maybe I'm not having enough
spicy hot honey.

Speaker 2 (39:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (39:01):
I don't have any weird concoctions like that because I'm normal.
I'm just kidding. Oh my go it's one of my roommates.
One time. She I always thought it was so weird.
She was really interesting. She dipped carrots and mustard. I
could see that, you can.

Speaker 2 (39:19):
I could see that carrots go with a lot of things.

Speaker 3 (39:23):
I don't know that I wouldn't eat it, but I
feel like I would try it.

Speaker 1 (39:26):
At least I wasn't in ketchup. It was no, I
don't remember. It was really gross, though I thought it
looked gross.

Speaker 3 (39:32):
Things always look gross, but things that look gross always
taste the best. Honestly, really, I don't like I used
to eat and utello cheese.

Speaker 2 (39:41):
It's when I was in high school. I love a
sweet salty mixture, big fan.

Speaker 1 (39:47):
It's like cheese and chocolate. Yeah, because I get like
chocolate covered pretzels, Like I can see that chet chocolate.

Speaker 3 (39:55):
It's just because somebody didn't put it in a bag
and say, hey, try this that you then it's not normal.
I bet if they made cheese coated and nutella, you'd
be like, that's pretty good.

Speaker 1 (40:05):
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 3 (40:06):
It's just the same concept as the chocolate covered pretzels.

Speaker 1 (40:10):
It's sweet and salty. Really trying to process, like try
to taste this and I can't even imagine it.

Speaker 3 (40:15):
Well, that's my new homework for you. I want you
to try these because I eat frybuts all the time.

Speaker 1 (40:20):
So yeah, I don't actually eat the whole fry, so
you have to do the opposite. You have to leave
the fry butts. Try that, you might like.

Speaker 3 (40:27):
You're just gonna be sad, scene and I'm like, I'm
sorry I couldn't eat you guys because one of my
friends is weird and doesn't like you, so I can't
like you.

Speaker 1 (40:33):
That is so strange. I don't Yeah, I don't know.
I think other people do.

Speaker 3 (40:37):
It, though a few, but I definitely got some people
when I posted it, They're like, what is wrong with you?

Speaker 2 (40:43):
This is my hot take. If you haven't tried it,
you should. Also.

Speaker 3 (40:46):
I like putting cottage cheese in it. I like putting
nutritional YaST. Eddie and I were talking about this, but
this is like my go too lately. You put nutritional
yeast in what on scrambled eggs?

Speaker 2 (40:54):
Too?

Speaker 1 (40:54):
On eggs, everything on eggs. Yeah, well, eggs don't have
much of the flavor, so I guess they're kind of universal.
You can put chocolate on them too.

Speaker 2 (41:03):
I'd probably try that sometimes. I don't know how i'd
do that every morning, but i'd probably try it.

Speaker 1 (41:08):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (41:08):
I just output like ketchup on eggs too, I've seen that.

Speaker 2 (41:13):
I just like adding I like variety to my meals.

Speaker 3 (41:17):
I'm not very good at eating one thing every day,
so I think adding honey or if I choose ketchup
or jam or hot honey. I think it gives me variety,
it makes me not get bored. I think it's where
that comes from.

Speaker 1 (41:30):
Yeah, I can say that because I like turkey sandwiches
that have like jam on them, because it's like a
little sweet something like that.

Speaker 2 (41:38):
So then you would like it, Yeah, you would like
Also an egg sandwich with jim it'd be that same
concept because there's like bacon on them too. Yeah, you
would like it.

Speaker 1 (41:47):
But like if bacon touches syrup, No, I can't do that.

Speaker 3 (41:51):
You know how I meant to go together in a sandwich,
you'd be okay. And just like if eggs you put
hot honey on it, it's meant to be in there together,
versus if they're all on a plate and they're supposed
to be separated, you're not gonna like it, right, I
think you.

Speaker 2 (42:05):
Should try it.

Speaker 1 (42:06):
Okay, now, I'll try it. I'll give it a go.

Speaker 2 (42:07):
It's my hot take right now.

Speaker 1 (42:08):
Food.

Speaker 2 (42:10):
It's a very hot take.

Speaker 1 (42:11):
Yeah, I can see that.

Speaker 3 (42:14):
Anyways, you have anything else that we need to talk
about before we jump out of here.

Speaker 1 (42:18):
I don't think so.

Speaker 2 (42:22):
You thought about it.

Speaker 1 (42:23):
I thought something was coming, But yeah, I thought my
brain was gonna go somewhere, but it didn't. Just said no,
we went nowhere.

Speaker 2 (42:30):
Oh. I even about to.

Speaker 3 (42:30):
Start working on We kind of briefly talked about this
because you might look into it too. I'm about to
start once we get back from vacation, this whole detox
and try and get long COVID out of my body
and reset. It's probably gonna be like this eight week detox,
which is gonna be really tough, but.

Speaker 1 (42:47):
Of what like like what you eat, eating certain things that.

Speaker 2 (42:50):
Are not inflamed foods.

Speaker 3 (42:51):
I'm gonna be doing like red light therapy and saunas
and oh my gosh, I'll have to let me know,
lymphatic drainage, all kinds of stuff. Just trying to reset
my whole body. It's gonna be a journey, and I'm
really nervous, but I'm so excited to feel better and
hopefully the brain fog. I mean, I don't know if
you've noticed, but easy trivia just isn't even you know

(43:14):
how people are like, is this clocking to you? I'm
literally like, nothing is clocking in my brain right now.

Speaker 1 (43:18):
No, I don't notice because I'm the same way I'm
worried about my brain working, So I'm like, oh, cool,
both of us.

Speaker 2 (43:25):
There's some days I'll come in in my brain is
like feels really fresh, it feels really good, and I'm like, okay,
I'm on it today. And there's other days where I'm like,
are you mashed potatoes up there? What is happening?

Speaker 1 (43:37):
It's so frustrating.

Speaker 2 (43:38):
It is frustrating. I can't really say anything.

Speaker 1 (43:40):
Yeah, and you know, you know it, but it's just
like you can't think. I can't remember things, Like I
feel like mine's getting better, like with the brain. Yeah,
I've been doing a neuropathy or yeah, it's like not
a neurofeedback, neuro feedback. Yeah, but I feel like like
mine started with COVID. Like that's when I it's like, wow,

(44:01):
that's the only thing I could think about at that
time that changed with me. It was like, oh my gosh,
it was after COVID. Yeah, that's like the only thing.

Speaker 2 (44:07):
A lot of people have brain fog after COVID.

Speaker 1 (44:10):
That's what she said. I'm like, oh, good, So we're
all just struggling. Yeah, we all are, and that's so frustrating.

Speaker 2 (44:15):
Uh huh. So I'm excited.

Speaker 3 (44:17):
If it works, then I'll definitely share it and stuff
hopefully can help other people.

Speaker 2 (44:22):
It's gonna be a dedication.

Speaker 3 (44:24):
You want to talk about someone who like loves their variety,
I'm gonna have to be on a pretty strict regim to.

Speaker 1 (44:29):
I know, resime, regimen. Thank you, REGI. I thought you're
just abbreviating it.

Speaker 2 (44:34):
Well for some reason, I want to say regime, and
I knew that was all right. It just like stopped.

Speaker 1 (44:40):
I think regimen.

Speaker 3 (44:41):
No, You're one hundred percent right. Regime Again, my brain
doesn't work. But the word thing I can't blame on
any brain fog.

Speaker 2 (44:48):
That's just been my brain.

Speaker 1 (44:48):
My whole life is what oh the word thing?

Speaker 3 (44:51):
Yeah, I say we'd I say words weird my entire life.
A lot of that comes from my father. He also
does the same thing he does. Yes, Oh, that's funny,
So I'm definitely my father's daughter. Just like pronouncing things, yes, yeah,
Like we'll sound things out instead of the actual Like
we'll just sound it out and that's how it comes
out versus like my sister loves to make a joke

(45:13):
like you were really hooked on phonics.

Speaker 1 (45:16):
Okay, that's funny. Is it like dyslexia in the brain.

Speaker 2 (45:19):
I'm sure.

Speaker 1 (45:20):
Maybe it's like how you see things that before you
say them. I don't know.

Speaker 3 (45:24):
Probably I really really sucked at test taking and I
had a lot of problems in school. I managed like
I had a four point zero, but I it cakes
my butt.

Speaker 2 (45:34):
I would all I do would study. All I do,
would study all All I would do is study.

Speaker 1 (45:39):
All you do is study. There you go, girl.

Speaker 2 (45:42):
Yeah, so like test or trivia?

Speaker 3 (45:43):
Oh no, my anxiety just shoots through the roof like
I shake during easy trivia sometimes because it just like
makes me so nervous. That's how I feel during tests.
Like on test days at school, I'd go in and I
just everything would leave my brain.

Speaker 1 (45:57):
Or yeah, yeah, it is this like pressure. No, I'm
there too.

Speaker 3 (46:02):
Yeah, So maybe maybe dyslexi unless that's another form of something.
I don't think I had the backwards spelling, and that's
what I thought. What dyslexia is what, Yeah, like where
you read things backwards, And I don't think I ever
had that, But I do think I had a learning
disability or just.

Speaker 1 (46:18):
Yeah, reading was not my forte. Mine was science and
math those are my subjects. But history, reading those planets,
like now, I kind of get the planets down, but
I forgot. But yeah, anything else like that's why we're
like movies. Yeah, you also stuff like that. I know.
It's like when he's like TV cartoons, movies, I'm like, well,

(46:39):
I'm just gonna miss this pass.

Speaker 3 (46:42):
Mine's like I could do English. I loved literature and
I loved science.

Speaker 2 (46:46):
That was it. Everything else I hated, genuinely, especially math.
It was a horrible math.

Speaker 1 (46:52):
Oh my god, you loved math?

Speaker 2 (46:53):
Horrible stars eight and that's about all I got.

Speaker 1 (46:56):
Genuinely.

Speaker 2 (46:56):
I hated math still to this day, I hate it.

Speaker 1 (47:00):
I love stats that I loved it, like I like
reading analytics and stuff.

Speaker 2 (47:07):
But probability, Oh I love that. What the crap?

Speaker 1 (47:12):
It was so interesting because I like that you could
apply it to your everyday life, like trigonometry. I'm like,
why do I need to know the third side of
that triangle?

Speaker 2 (47:20):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (47:20):
Yeah, every day I'll be like doing some normal math
of like tipping. I'm like, why didn't they teach me
about tipping math? And so it's Pentagrid theorem.

Speaker 2 (47:29):
I don't think I've used once in my entire life.

Speaker 1 (47:31):
A square plus squared engles see squared.

Speaker 2 (47:33):
And tell me where that's got in my entire adult life.

Speaker 1 (47:36):
Yeah, if you're like an engineer or architect or you can. Yeah,
but I don't know, even though sometimes I do have
to find X, like was that it? Like my friend
when I went home to Kansas, we were making like
cookies and they didn't have enough of one ingredient, so

(47:57):
we had to get like the ratio of like it
calls for two cups, but I only have one and
a half. So how do I find out how much
I really need to use of other things? So then
I found X.

Speaker 2 (48:09):
That's where I use Google. You're like, yeah, let me do, Matthew,
and I'm like Google, I felt so smart. I love
that for you.

Speaker 1 (48:20):
It was awesome.

Speaker 3 (48:21):
Was a really good brain exercise and honestly you're probably
better off for it.

Speaker 1 (48:24):
Yeah, And they were like how did you know that?
And then they had to call me the next day
and I just felt so smart, Like finally that was
your one moment.

Speaker 2 (48:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (48:32):
Sometimes I feel not smart at work during easy trivia, so.

Speaker 2 (48:37):
I feel not smart often when we play games.

Speaker 1 (48:39):
It's okay, it's all good.

Speaker 2 (48:41):
I've moved on with my life.

Speaker 1 (48:42):
Yeah, we're good. I'm gonna go.

Speaker 2 (48:45):
Cry now, Okay, tell the people where they can find you.

Speaker 1 (48:47):
Oh gosh on Instagram, Abby, Oh my gosh, what's my
name on there? I changed it because it was one underscore.
Now it's Abby Leads.

Speaker 2 (48:55):
I didn't change for like two years, dude, at least.

Speaker 3 (49:00):
Yeah, I'm glad you can find excellent cookine, but you
can't remember your own Instagram.

Speaker 1 (49:03):
I'm glad you can remember mine.

Speaker 2 (49:04):
Thank you at Abby, Lee Anderson, I got you.

Speaker 3 (49:07):
I'm at web girl Morgan, and please go subscribe to
the show YouTube page at Bobby Bone Show. And oh,
I have a podcast episode up on Take This Person
with Scottie Hasting.

Speaker 2 (49:18):
It was such a cool interview.

Speaker 3 (49:20):
He's a veteran, he was shot ten times in combat
and now he has a song with Lee Brice and
Dolly Parton.

Speaker 2 (49:26):
So pretty cool story.

Speaker 1 (49:27):
And that is so cool. Yeah, yeah, it's really awesome.

Speaker 2 (49:30):
He's a cool guy. So go listen to that and
check that out. Here. We're gonna get out of here
and go learn the Pythagora theorem some more.

Speaker 1 (49:36):
Yes, we are fire, everybody.

Speaker 2 (49:39):
That's the best bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks
for listening.

Speaker 1 (49:43):
Be sure to check out the other two parts this weekend.

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