May 12, 2025 • 53 mins
Happy mon mon hon hons. I'm joined by Karla and Radu to discuss some fun stuff. PLEASE follow them :)
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(0:00) - Banter
(16:42) -AITA for smacking my nephew for spitting on me?
(28:09) - AITA for siding with my mom in the divorce even though dad cheated?
(42:39 - AITA for snapping at my mom after she forced me to learn sign language?
Karla - https://www.instagram.com/fun_kee/
Radu - https://www.instagram.com/radubondar/
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(0:00) - Banter
(16:42) -AITA for smacking my nephew for spitting on me?
(28:09) - AITA for siding with my mom in the divorce even though dad cheated?
(42:39 - AITA for snapping at my mom after she forced me to learn sign language?
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Hello, everybody. I know how to say hello. I'm Danny Vega,
joined by Baboo and Carla. Hey, what's up, cuties? Happy Sunday.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
I don't know why I thought you're gonna say heavy
Eastern so happy Mother's dated.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Happy Mother's Day? Yea when his mother's dad next week?
I love my mom?
Speaker 3 (00:25):
What Easter should be a month? Like rama? Don okay?
Speaker 1 (00:29):
What is what? Ramedan? You fast?
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Why because you're fat?
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Because you're fat? No, that's interesting. I didn't know they
were so fake. They need some body positivity.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
U was to be honest. As someone who dated a
Muslim for five years, I should know more about this,
but it's yeah, you don't shoot fast from sun up
to sundown.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I like ship like that. So Radu,
you were a little fishy boy fishing at the fish
concert jam band for drug users. I don't know what
you're reading on this podcast, but I went.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
I went to Hollywood bol for the first time.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
It was first time.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
I didn't know that first time.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
I lived right by it.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Crazy.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
Every time I see someone that's playing there, it's either
like you're like, oh my god, that would be like
the best show ever or You're like, this is like
the ultimate money laundering scam of all.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
You're like, Chicago's still a band, these guys are still alive.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
What the fuck is going on? But it was really cool.
I've seen fish. This is my fifteenth and sixteenth show.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
I think, Wowesus, God and Heaven get a better personal.
I don't bring it up. I used to hide it.
I don't bring it up.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
I used to hide it from people.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
In fact, one of my one of my employers, this
guy Ran Pamber I produced this podcast. He's like, what
the fuck We've talked about fish so many times. I
never knew you were like a fish head.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
I was like, I know.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
I hide it from because I wasn't just a fishead.
I was a sober fishead who lived in Texas where
jam bands don't come. So I would since I was
like seventeen years old, I would travel to like Colorado,
New Jersey and whatever, sometimes by myself without a ticket.
These things cost hundreds of dollars, the same way Carl
got in just miracles all the time. You show up
four or five hours early to the parking lot. You
(02:10):
just hold your like one finger up in the air
and you go who's got my extra?
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Man, you gotta do the accent on the last they want.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
We will think you're a cup and you're just hanging
out with like losers who sell grilled cheeses for a.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Living until the fish show starts.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
And then right, you know, ten twenty minutes before the
show starts, there's all these tickets floating around and you're like,
oh shit, you get in for sometimes twenty dollars thirty bucks.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Because they're scout, they're a scalper. Yeah, how do you
get even just sco It's.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Just people that like show, like they planned it out
like seven months before and they're like sixty years old
and their friend died, you know what I mean. It's
literally stuff like that all the time, you know. And
you and you see people who traveled from around the
world and you're like, you spent much more money on
the plane ticket.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
You could have.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Easily assured yourself a seat. And you're like, nah, man,
it's part of the thing. You like gotta and and
I've seen people not get in. They're like, no, you
just would listen from the parking lot. You know, it's
like still pretty get acoustics, man.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Or like someone on a lot. That's why I I
hear it the same yeahrom here, yeah yeah yeah, two
point five miles away.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
I knew a guy named Grateful Don who didn't He
lived in Thailand and he would come just to follow
fish around in the summer and sell like merch. And
like merch, he made and uh, grilled cheeses in the
parking lot. He never went inside the shows. He just
sold stuff outside of fish. He'd already been to hundreds
of shows.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
He got what it was, he got entrepreneur.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
So then the fish they play, It doesn't annoy you
to call them the fish.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
I don't care.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Now, everything about them, if you're not into them, is annoying.
So like they play like.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Five hours or some ridiculous and then it's all riffs.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Right, it's about five hours, two and a half hour
on average, two and a half hours.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Yeah yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
So like most shows started like seven thirty, ended at eleven.
No open air, it's just fish.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Oh, no opener. I kind of love them.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
It's fish set break well, this is why, because it's
fish set break and then fish again. So they don't
have time for an opener plan yeah yeats, and they
do covers, they do, I mean they have written songs.
They just if they're really feeling it, if the crowd's
giving them whatever they want, they're gonna go longer and
improvise and do. It's kind of like a Rory Scovell
sort of experience. That's what I would the analog to comedy.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Right, does a lot of improv to make this even.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
More niche for the audience that doesn't care about this stuff.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Hey, you guys obscure. Well they're just like this obscure commedia.
Do you understand the experience at Yeah, so they're they're vibing,
they're feeling it out the concerts along. But you brought
your brought my wife.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
She she was like very hesitant to go because she's like,
one doesn't like to be out past ten o'clock in public?
Was this her first time first time seeing fish and
she'd like, I had a few opportunities.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
She's like, no, you just go do that with your friends.
I'm good, Yeah, I'm good. I'll love you more if
I don't go. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
And honestly, the walk up to because we scootered from
our a mile away, I had kind of like given
up on this part of my life.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
By the way, it's a weird little caveat.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
I've been trying to get out of sports and fish
and like all this things I consider.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Distraction, trying to get out it's like an addiction. I'm
like really trying to do to go a lot.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
And and sports especially used to be really bad because
you could just keep up with it on your phone.
But fish would just like ruin your summer. You're like, dude,
i gotta like listen to all the jams and then
I'm gonna go for three days in Colorado whatever. So
the walk up to the Hollywood Bowl is just a
bunch of people called the Nitrous Mafia selling whippets and balloons.
They're like yelling, they're like ice cold fatties, man, and
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they're like, you know, trying to sell you whipping balloons
for twenty dollars or whatever.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
There's like wlaffing gas, yes.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
And there's no police presence whatsoever. Every like five feet
there's like a guy selling beers for three dollars.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
There's three dollars, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Or like there's like people selling like homemade weeds.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Products or whatever.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
You know.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
It's like a weird flea market that follows the concert around.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Fish is like the only inflation proof experience I've ever
heard of. It's remarked maybe they were five bucks.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
I was a little fucked up.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
But you're not getting like a craft beer, You're getting
like a modello.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Sure. Sure.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
The funny part to me was that, like my wife,
she was was dancing, she was getting into it. She
was like whatever, but she was like, I'm liking this
a lot more than I realized I would like. I
kind of thought this would be like NASCAR or something
where I'm just like putting up with it because I
love you, you know, But.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
It's really fun.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
If you start dancing and suspend your adulthood and the
light show is ridiculous. How much fun everyone is having
around you is really good. It kind of feels like
what Church must have felt like in the fourteen hundreds, like,
you know, everyone here fucking believes dude.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Like, yeah, the witches.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
That's a really good way of describing it.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
And she's into it, and every song is every star,
every set is different. They don't repeat sets ever, They'll
they'll sometimes play a song they haven't played in like
twenty years, so it like gives the crowd this sense
of like this like bust out energy.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
They're like, oh shit, we're getting like this extra ray experience.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
So she's just really vibing off how much the crowd
is like freaking out and people aren't on their phones
at all.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
That's the other part.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
It's like one of the few last experiences where you're
like there's there's three people on their phones and everyone
else because they're all in hallucinogens and the phones are scary.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
I really that they're all dancing.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
I don't endorse drug use, but having anyway such drugs.
I hated looking at man made objects when I was Yeah, yeah,
it was terrible drugs, which I don't endorse anyway, that
I don't endorse.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
My wife fell asleep for about twenty five minutes in
the second set.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
What a turn of event. She just she danced her
way out, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
She was like so tuckered out a lot, and yeah,
just various circumstances led to her being like is it
bad if i I'm like, no, dude, there's plenty of
people that were passed out from the first NG.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Yeah, you had a good run.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
Yeah you're like you made it more than most of
the audience, and and then I went again Sunday without
her so much fish Yeah, and I was on the
whole Then the whole weekend, I was just like, how
do I get out of my Saturday commit And so
I could also go all three days.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
And Fishy Boy, but he's still recorded with us I
Sai Yeah, pulled with us bro.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Also, he came to the prom and like, oh my god,
you're at the problem. He's like, yeah, I had to go, dude,
don't tell comedy And I was like, had.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Dude, you wanted to?
Speaker 3 (08:14):
I had to show and I wanted to meet my
wife up at prom, which, by the way, I hate
that you guys call that prom because it's so every
time I'm telling other people that don't know what, I'm like, yeah,
I'm taking my wife to prom. I'm like, well, we
already suspected you're a pedophile, but now.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
You're now I'm like, no, she's older than me.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
She's old as fuck.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
That's hilarious.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
I was so bummed because I thought I was going
to get to DJ for these high school girls, and
all these fucking mid thirties co workers show up. I'm like, yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Really wish I got so many soundbites of Danny as
the DJ who kept saying shoot your shot.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
To I don't like the night. That's all I wanted
to happen for some reason. Yeah, I guess I wanted it.
I wanted it to be so pitch black that there's
like a couple of people there that I kind of
want to make out with. You know, I don't have a.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
Relationship traumatic Danny. Why because you saying that you wanted
to be pitch black so you can make out with
people feels deceptive.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
But that's finny. I want them to know. I don't
want them to know. I feel like you're mishearing it.
It's more that I wanted to just be like, we're
two people being crazy. They're intimate the lights on, people
are less so intense.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
People are like less insecure in the dark.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
Yeah, it was.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
It was. It was dark enough.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Don't you feel like if you're hooking up with someone
you don't really like them, but you're maybe attract enough
to fuck them. You don't want the light on and
you're like light off, you don't really want to look
at them. It's nothing personal, that's the whole point. My god,
you've never felt that way.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
I can't say that I have.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
No, you've never want to see. You're married, so you're
not going to relate.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
No, it's a totally male feeling and be like, of
course that person's attractive. I feel nothing for them, but it's.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Just like intense to look at someone in their goddamn
eyes and like, sometimes it's just a fun night. It's
it's nothing, it's nothing ugly or bad. Sometimes it's just
a wanner.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Yeah, okay, I get that.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
So, Carla, you were saying you dated at one point
two people at once. Can you imagine that after you
shame me for my in the dark makeout?
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Well, one is consensual, so I feel like it's different.
Speaker 3 (10:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
No. Actually, I was rehearsing somewhere recently, and you know,
these rehearsal spaces for actors are very small, so it
was like people coming out as we were going in,
and one of the guys coming out. I was like,
oh my god, this is a full circle moment because
it's a guy that I was dating at the same
time as another where this whole situation happened. And he
literally looked at me from far away and then like
(10:42):
did like a you yeah, not a wind, but like a, oh,
I didn't see you, like he didn't Yeah, and then
he just like went to his car and left, and I.
Speaker 4 (10:52):
Was like, I love like being like, no, you just
saw me looking, but.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
But you didn't.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
But I get why he might have done that because
long story short, when I first moved to La, I
was fresh out of a breakup of a long term relationship.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Honey.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
Then found out my ex was dating somebody knew like
three months after we broke up, who was a friend
of ours, and I was like, oh, you want to
get over it.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
I'm going to get over it.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
And I joined the apps and I was dating and
it was actually really good for me because for the
first time, I was like, oh my god, like I
can actually like someone again. I met this guy and
he and I instantly clicked, and like for like six weeks,
we were like hanging out all the time. He was
like taking me all these shows like Exploring La that
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great guy.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
You love him?
Speaker 2 (11:47):
And he was like, oh, like do you want to
my girlfriend? I was like, I really can't. I just
got out of a five year relationship. I'm not jumping
into a new relationship like I'm.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
After hanging out with him constantly for six weeks. You're like, oh,
you didn't think we had like a relationship.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
Did from the beginning.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
From the beginning, I was like, I'm dating, I'm going
on dates. And it was a known thing that I
was like, I don't want to be exclusive, I want
a date. I've been in a relationship. I'm not ready
to be in another fucking committed relationship. It is. But
I was being truthful and he agreed to it. And
then the other thing was that he had planned to move.
(12:22):
So he was like, I'm moving in three months, and
I'm like, I'm not to like San Jose, like northern California.
Break So I was like, I'm not doing that whatever,
I'm doing long distance. And so we were having fun,
and I was like, this is great. It's like a
little grease. Some are romance, you know, like some are
loving whatever. But so he would go out of town
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for weekends at a time to do training or whatever,
and that usually would be when I would go on
other dates. And so I went on a date with
this guy who I saw at the actors studio and
we were like at a brewery or something like that,
and he went to the bathroom and my friend texted
me and was like, well, well, hey, what are you doing?
And I texted her back and I was like, oh, hey,
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I'm gonna date smiley face. But I accidentally sent it
to the other guy.
Speaker 4 (13:09):
No no, no, no, no no no, no classic player move.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
This is my nightmare.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
No and instantly, because this is prior to the unsend button,
you couldn't UNSND.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
Yeah, you couldn't, Carla.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
You know what the text goes through. I think the
trick back then was like, if you turn it on,
do not disturb fast enough, like interjects the text. But
I was like airplane mode, yeah, airplane mode, and so
I didn't. But I didn't notice that I did that
because I thought I texted her. And then when I
really realized, I texted him because he texted me back
and said, damn, that's real, and then I responded. I
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responded with a sad face and an asterisks. I meant
to say sorry, I'm on a date sad face instead
of happy face. And then he and I was like, yeah,
my bad, like just wanted to let and then I
doubled down. I was like, just want to let you
know I'm going a date with someone else and he
was like, let's just talk. It's fine when I get back.
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So then this guy comes back from the bathroom and
he's like, are you good, Like you seem like you're
a little out of swords, and I was like, no, no, no,
I'm fine, I'm fine. And then we went to his car.
We like made out like crazy. The whole time. I
was thinking about this in the car. It was daytime.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Time, daytime car make out.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Yeah, what do you mean? We were like having sex
and we were just making out?
Speaker 1 (14:46):
What chool were you in?
Speaker 2 (14:48):
I loved it?
Speaker 1 (14:49):
I okay, what's in the dak?
Speaker 2 (14:54):
I think I think guys should more often be like,
you're just trying to make out, because sometimes it's nice
to just make and then go home like it's fine.
Speaker 3 (15:01):
I do respect that, I do understand.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
Maybe that's my issue. Maybe I should just say that date, like,
what are.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
You trying to make out?
Speaker 3 (15:07):
Daytime?
Speaker 2 (15:09):
I mean we had like three beers. It was like
it was fun.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Maybe my whole darkness thing is also a fear of rejection,
where it's like it's so dark and then they're like, yeah,
I rejected him, and I'm like I couldn't even tell
you from someone else.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Oh, sorry, I thought you were amy.
Speaker 1 (15:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:24):
Anyway, so we were making out and then I got
another text from this guy and I was like, I'm
going to go home this and that, and he was
upset and then I like kind of ghosted him after that.
But I meet out with in the car who I
ran into at the studio, which is why he probably
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was avoiding me. And I wasn't a big ghoster, but
I was so consumed with the other situation that I
clearly cared about more.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (15:52):
And then that was that, and like the rest was
kind of like a toxic situation where the guy like
pretended like he didn't care and then kept leading me on.
And I was like, dude, it's one thing. If you're
bothered by this, say it and break it off. Don't
keep saying we're gonna hang out and you're not. You
have no intention to hang out with me anymore because
your ego was hurt because I told you I was
seeing other people. But that situation was a little brutal.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
It was NGL sounds like it was mutually confidence for sure.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
Yeah, So yeah, all those feelings came back seeing this
guy double down and be like I don't know you.
I was like, okay, Damn almost said his real name.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Wow, folks, thanks for listening. We're giving out the juice,
and we got one juicy app for you today. Our
second story of the day, folks, Ata for siding with
my dad and the divorce even though he cheated on
my mom. But first, folks, I smacked my nephew for
spitting on me. I thirty four M smacked my nephew
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fourteen M today after he spat on me at the
dinner table. Bitch is I was sitting at the dining
table with my family this afternoon. My nephew was squirting
saliva out from underneath his tongue at people gleaking there
we go, but he did it to me. I was
grossed out and jumped up to go and wash myself.
As I was walking past his chair, I clipped him
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over the back of the head with an open hand.
I didn't hurt him, nor did I really think much
of it at the time, but my family are very
upset that I disciplined another person's child. I'm not an
abusive or aggressive person, but I am left feeling bad.
Is it fair to say that I overreacted? My nephew
is about three inches taller than me, and I sometimes
forget that he's still a child. I feel very disrespected
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for being spat.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
On rightfully, so nobody wants to get it spat on.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
I Actually I don't know. Spitting to me is a
little bit worse than gleeking on someone.
Speaker 2 (17:42):
But it sounds like he was gleeking. Was he spitting
or gleeking?
Speaker 1 (17:45):
He used to be able to do it? Yeah, No,
I was gleaking because it's it's when you like you
should tongue up on the roof of your mouth, you
know about gleeking.
Speaker 3 (17:51):
Yeah, it released some sort of like gland.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
It's like pure That's the other thing about it. It's
not spit that's been in your mouth. It's pure saliva.
From my glance, it's a little.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
Yeah, you're not gearing up with a loogie where you're.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
Like, Honestly, if you punch a kid in the face
after they hawked a lougi, that's that. Honestly, I might
be able to let that go. This is a good
one because I when I first read it, I was like,
what a man child? But now I'm like, I mean,
spitting on someone's a salt.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
True, that's true, and Also, where was that kid's parent
to be like, stop doing that, you're at dinner. I'm
not letting my kid gleek around like gleek on your
own time.
Speaker 1 (18:28):
He was my nephew was scorting saliva out from underneath
his tongue at people. Yeah, I mean, I'm kind of
like to be clawted. Well, I think he would.
Speaker 4 (18:35):
I think I think adults should be hitting kids, even
when they're not doing things wrong, just to keep them guessing,
just to.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
Keep them guessing, like reinforcement.
Speaker 4 (18:42):
I don't know, maybe it's just I shouldn't even say this,
but I have such a respect for pedophiles because I'm like,
how do y'all like children?
Speaker 3 (18:48):
This shit sucks?
Speaker 2 (18:50):
I hate you?
Speaker 1 (18:51):
Why did I tell you that? I was bringing this
up recently? That actually one of the cure, one of
the ways they have found that reduces pedophilia and people
is to actually hang out with children. Are you serious? Serious?
Because they don't part it's it is a power thing.
It's a it's a power thing. And so when they
actually connect with a child, they realize what a child is.
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They have empathy. They're not usually like sure, and they
develop that natural empathy and they actually get rid of
that sick attraction, which is usually the result of being
touched themselves. Of course, I.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
Really want to say something that would be really problematic.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
I'll just say it.
Speaker 2 (19:29):
Michael Jackson. The people who headed no what I mean,
he was probably titled maybe, but like the fact that
he was hanging out with kids all the time.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
Oh yeah, I think he was a kid. Yeah. I mean,
I'm not saying in every case, I'm not speaking on
the Michael Jackson, but I mean there's.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
Some pedophiles who are like, I'm physically attracted children, and
then there's the worst kind who are like, I like
a child's personality and you're like, you're a monster.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
You should die.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
Can we get back to hitting kids instead?
Speaker 1 (19:55):
Yeah? That was much better. We're gonna lose some subscribers.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
We do not supply.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
I think, yes, Well, I feel like.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
An open handed palm is like a reaction thing, and honestly,
a kid who is that age and that big of
a person maybe needed that a little bit Like how
hard was it? What did the kid do? I need
more information?
Speaker 1 (20:18):
It sounds like a bonking. If they were an adult,
he bonked them, if they're an adult.
Speaker 3 (20:22):
If he was eighteen years old.
Speaker 4 (20:24):
No, this is no problem, right, No one's even like,
and maybe not even any other adults in the family
are saying anything.
Speaker 1 (20:30):
Yeah. I mean to me, it falls into the category
of like if if somebody slaps you in the face
and you slap them back, I'm kind of like, that's
that's not Yeah, it's not conscious really, it's just like
instant eye for an eye. It's a reflex. This feels
very reflexive to me. Yes, Now, if it was a
five year old, then I would say you need to
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grow the fuck up and realize that's a that's a child.
But a fourteen year old gleeking, it's like, you know,
that's gross, you know.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
Yeah, I just wish that he I just wish he
used his words first, because if someone gleeked on me,
I would instantly, like my reflex would be like, what
the fuck, don't do that, instead of like waiting to
get up walk by him, and then be like, oh,
this is my chance, like to hit him or whatever.
Speaker 3 (21:16):
I guess that is delayed.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
Yeah. I feel like he stood up right away and
walked him and clocked him in the head to go
wash off.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
It was like what he thought, Yeah, yeah, you're right.
I mean I jumped up. He says to go and
wash myself.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
It's easy for me to say, like in a perfect world,
i'd be like, well, you should have used your words.
But like I could even see people because I would,
like an ideal situation, or if I was simply too
far away on the table where it wasn't like logistically
like possible to land a blow, I'd start yelling. And
I think any reasonable person really would yell about this
fucking gross bro and we're eating.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
You know what we do start a food fight.
Speaker 1 (21:55):
Now you're problems. But yeah, I would yell, and then
I could see and be like, yelling isn't okay, And
it's like, well, no, this is like this is sault.
It's disgusting, like it is violence.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
I don't think that gleaking should be considered a sault.
It's a kid is disrespectful for sure, and it's annoying,
but it's not I wouldn't say it's a sault. This
guy's just out here going.
Speaker 1 (22:20):
If a man gleeked on you, you wouldn't say that's assaulted.
Speaker 2 (22:24):
If a man gleaked on let me give.
Speaker 1 (22:26):
You a situation. A man cat calls you, and you say.
Speaker 2 (22:29):
That's different. That's not my nephew at dinner.
Speaker 1 (22:32):
My question is that the act itself can be categorized
as assault. A man gleaks on you. You you, he cat
calls you, he says, what's up, sexy mama? You say
fuck off kindly. Then he gleaks on you. Is that assault?
Speaker 2 (22:45):
I just don't see a world and where he would
gleek on me.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
Well, he spits on you.
Speaker 3 (22:50):
Well, he's a gig that's practicing.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
I mean, I'm kind of joking when I say that.
I don't really think it a court a law. They're
like that degree spit hawking of the new Gee.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
Yeah, like it's disrespectful and it's invasive and it's gross.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
It's a salt. That's what assault is.
Speaker 2 (23:07):
It is such a hard word that really diminishes real assault.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
Well, it's at least being molested assault.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
No mona stars literally that.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
Yeahanish, that's a bit of sir warning on this fucking episode.
Because you were a dooey fucker.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
You gave him the freedom.
Speaker 1 (23:29):
No, but assault, if someone shoves you, that's a salt.
That's what as salt is. Yeah, you know, I don't
make the rules, or maybe it's battery. I get confused
with those two. Bottom line for me. Top comment bag
bag Long eighty ninety three that user name is assaulted.
Oh dear. Firstly, spitting in any capacity is so gross
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unless it's in tissues in the same toilet. You know,
I like this juxtapot. You are right to feel angry
and gross. Here in the UK, it's actually assault bag
Long bag Long tan Man nineteen seventy five coming in
with an e sh real talk father here, you're the adult.
Your nephew is your kid by proxy. You're supposed to
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demonstrate adult behavior in this situation, not teach him that
retaliation smacks are okay. It's okay. I failed at this
too many times. Account. Your next stop is to apologize
to the boy, because that's what adults do. Also, his
parents should have tore him a new one.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
Absolutely don't agree that he should apologize at all.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
No, I think you have to apologize, But I do
think the parents were It seems like the parents were
just like, well, let him do it, he's a boy.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
Yeah, they were wine drunk or something.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
Yeah, yeah, that's clearly that.
Speaker 2 (24:42):
That's what parents do when their the aunts and uncles
are around, They're like, oh, you guys are taking.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Care, got it? I smacked my nephew for spitting on me.
Part of me does want to say, not the asshole
the nephew is, or even maybe it's everyone sucks here.
The if you and the parents are they seem to
they were in the room. I think we agree on that.
Speaker 4 (25:03):
I just think I think depending on what demography the
person you ask, you know what I mean, Like if
the whit a the person, they're like this, you should
never hit the kid, and then the other you go
the other way. They're like, of course you have to
k hit you. Like I can never overcome my romanianness
on that. I'm like, children should be hit.
Speaker 2 (25:19):
Yeah, it's not gentle parenting.
Speaker 3 (25:20):
There's no way.
Speaker 4 (25:21):
I don't even want That's why I don't want kids,
because I'm like, for sure, I would never be able
to restrain myself. The second he's like buzzing around like
drinks two mountain dews, I'm like.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
Shut up, don't ring mountain dew into this. Zach Borrel's
rights nda smack his parents too. That's interesting.
Speaker 3 (25:37):
See that guy is from Cuba.
Speaker 1 (25:40):
Long dropping lab nta. That's disgusting. He's not a child.
He's fourteen, and unless he's been diagnosed with the IQBA,
three year olds headed for trouble.
Speaker 2 (25:49):
No, fourteen year olds are just fucking shit heads. I
was not that, but I feel like fourteen year old
boys just do stupid shit like that. That's why I'm
like this kid is. I don't want to say boys
will be boys because I'm not saying that.
Speaker 1 (26:01):
The thing is, he didn't punch him in the face,
he didn't break his nose, and I kind of feel like.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
I feel like, it's no assholes.
Speaker 1 (26:07):
Can you imagine asking no assholes here? How could be
no assholes here?
Speaker 2 (26:10):
It's just a thing that happened, and that's it.
Speaker 3 (26:12):
And when she's excusing some of the behavior under like children.
Speaker 1 (26:15):
He's fourteen gleaking, you're kind of doing.
Speaker 2 (26:19):
Used to gleek as teenagers on other teenagers.
Speaker 1 (26:22):
Yeah, that's actually a pretty good argument. I definitely gleeked
on people.
Speaker 4 (26:27):
Yeah, here's funny. You can't You shouldn't like even get
a little bit of gleak.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
On my couch. Heye, I smacked my nephews spinning on
an he hit me. I did not. We have cameras,
I say nh or nt God damn it.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
You should never joke about women getting hit. So I'm
sorry about that.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
What's up?
Speaker 2 (26:46):
Nothing?
Speaker 1 (26:46):
Yeah, you're fucking joking about assault. You're trivializing it.
Speaker 2 (26:50):
We've got off the track.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
You deserve a mask leaking Oh my god, what are
like ten people all gleeking you on you at once?
Speaker 2 (26:56):
That sounds like waterboarding.
Speaker 3 (26:58):
God.
Speaker 1 (27:01):
I I'm struggling here, but I actually I think I'm
gonna say. I think I'm gonna say nta nephew is?
Speaker 2 (27:08):
I agree with that?
Speaker 3 (27:08):
Nephew is?
Speaker 1 (27:09):
I mean, I do think, but I do think he
has to apologize to make this blow over. I don't
think so, but the parent Where are the parents? I
think it kind of mostly falls on the parents.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
Yeah, that's why I feel like the uncle should just
be like, bro, like, don't fuck gleek on like. I
don't think you have to say sorry. It's just like,
have a conversation with you.
Speaker 1 (27:27):
I want the nephew to say sorry first. I really do.
And that's that's why I am kind of I want
him to say I'm sorry. And he said, I'm sorry.
I shouldn't have hit you. That wasn't appropriate. But don't
spit on people.
Speaker 4 (27:38):
Bro, Dude, I know I grew up in the kind
of culture you ever here when like a parent would
do this. You'd be out, like at a target or something,
and you're the child. You're freaking out and your mom
or dad is like, you see that person over there,
they're gonna come beat you up. They would like involve
a stranger.
Speaker 1 (27:53):
And yeah, that's way scarier, yeah, because you're like, I
know what my mom can do. I don't know what
that guy exactly. All right, So we're meeting roughly at MPa. Yes,
all right, folks, my jokes. Here's our next sitch AIA
for siding with my dad in the divorce even though
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he cheated on my mom. My dad fifty two M
and my mom forty nine F separated nearly eight months
ago due to dad's affair. I seventeen F understand that
my dad is in the wrong and cheating is never okay,
But recently I found myself resenting my mom due to
her reaction to the divorce. She put voice recorders in
all her vehicles, including mine. There's no way to know
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where else they're hitden. It makes me uncomfortable to talk
out loud in my own home. She also put cameras
all around our house, hoping to catch my Dad since
he's no longer allowed in our home. She even put
one directly in front of my bedroom, which has not
been removed, even though I told her it seemed weird,
especially since I've given her no reason not to trust me.
Dad had to buy a new phone since she could
still log into his Apple idea would go through it
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as well and log into his Facebook and other social
medi Her email was the recovery email for all his passwords.
Seeing as my dad has never been good with technology,
Even after buying a new phone, she somehow still has
access to his location. I'm not sure how, but I
think she put an air tag somewhere. She checks his
location religiously and will leave at all hours of the
day to follow him if she thinks he's going to
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meet another woman. What the reason I'm asking if I'm
the asshole is because me and my mom recently got
into an argument. I've had a strained relationship with her
since she found out I was gay a year ago,
but we are civil and just don't talk about it.
This argument started because she was questioning me about my
relationship with my girlfriend and trying to tell me that
she wasn't good for me. I was annoyed because I'm
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trying to talk about my girlfriend around her to avoid
the conflict. When she brought it up, I responded without
thinking and said I don't think you should be giving
out relationship advice.
Speaker 3 (29:50):
Damn.
Speaker 1 (29:51):
She immediately started crying and saying it wasn't her fault
and I shouldn't hold that over her. I left the room,
but later we were watching TV and she reignited the
issue by venting to me about Dad and kept mentioning
how he would probably marry quote unquote some whore and
just fully shit talking my dad and saying how horrible
he was to her. I know she's upset, but I
wish she wouldn't have vent to me about this situation
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because I still love my dad and would rather not
be involved. I tried to just switch a topic, but
she doubled down, so I said, quote, it doesn't really
matter who he marries. This upset her, and she accused
me of not caring at all that they split, and
then told me I was just like him and didn't
have any emotions.
Speaker 2 (30:28):
She Louise.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
At this point, I was angry with her and said
I would rather be like my dad than her, and
I could understand what Dad would want to be with
someone else. Now she's accusing me of siding with my
dad and excusing his actions. Eighty eight.
Speaker 2 (30:41):
This feels like a really obvious result for me. But
I there's so much fucked up shit in this scenario.
Speaker 1 (30:50):
Sounds like a very normal surveillance home to me, just
a regular America.
Speaker 4 (30:55):
Now, all this stuff we don't know is what's interesting.
I feel like, right, although.
Speaker 3 (31:00):
Like, what was there really? How long they did it
say how long they were married for?
Speaker 2 (31:04):
It does not say it just says they separated nearly
eight months ago.
Speaker 1 (31:08):
Well, and they are her parents, so at least have
a deeen years they were together. They had a run.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Yeah, I guess that's true.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
Probably.
Speaker 2 (31:14):
My thing is like, oh, because they're not divorced yet,
they're separated in the divorce, so it's happening.
Speaker 4 (31:21):
Currently, so she needs all that evidence to be able
to win as much of the money and the stuff
or whatever.
Speaker 1 (31:25):
But that doesn't feel like that's not where this is
coming from.
Speaker 2 (31:28):
Oh yeah, absolutely not.
Speaker 1 (31:30):
And that's a monus that she'll say that's probably true
as well, I don't disagree with that, but this is
an emotional thing.
Speaker 2 (31:36):
I think it's emotional, but I also think that rod
dou has a point where it is emotional also leads
to like catching in the act, like you getting AMMO,
like collecting AMMO to use in your emotional fight, which
is like you continue to do this and you don't
even respect me when you do this, and I have
proof that you said this and did this and blah
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blah blah, and that's like very attack for sure. I
feel like the mom is really hurt that she got
cheated on.
Speaker 1 (32:05):
I think she's the rails.
Speaker 4 (32:07):
I think she's extremely hurt, and but also maybe just
like having to do this the part like when you're
before you're divorce, when you're separated or whatever, and you're
like there's lawyers instructing both of you on what to
do and you're like, I don't even know if I
want to do this, but they're like, this is your
best bet. That's the craziest time you will ever have
a brain.
Speaker 3 (32:26):
I bet.
Speaker 1 (32:26):
Yeah, yeah, I'm not really bound aside with her. I
think I know everything I need to know about mom
from how she's treating her daughter, and I don't love her.
Speaker 4 (32:37):
Odds, Well, the daughter's saying something interesting there where they're like,
at first we got like sort of a no conflict
because she found out I'm gay. But then it doesn't
sound like she's like a homophobic She's just like, I
think you could get a better bitch.
Speaker 2 (32:50):
Yeah, cirlfriend's good for you now in the fact that
she is a girl.
Speaker 1 (32:55):
So I think you're being very generous there. She found
out since I was gay about a year ago, but
we're civil and just don't talk about it. And then
I feel like that's a pretty I feel like you're
splitting hairs in her favor. It's like, I don't like
your partner. It's like, well, is that you don't like
my partner that you don't like I'm gay?
Speaker 3 (33:12):
Yeah, we don't know.
Speaker 1 (33:12):
I don't know. No, so she doesn't like she's gay,
so it's easier to argue.
Speaker 4 (33:17):
Even when she said she's like, she's not saying that
there was any conflict. There's not saying that like her
mom was like, wait, you're gay. She's probably just we.
Speaker 1 (33:24):
Just don't talk about it about being gay.
Speaker 4 (33:26):
Sure, that's but that could be like a generational religious
whatever cultural different you know, what I mean, Like, there's
so many different sounds like.
Speaker 2 (33:32):
Keeping the peace and I hate to say that, but
it's homophobic.
Speaker 1 (33:36):
I don't think I think that that's the very least right.
Speaker 4 (33:39):
Okay, but it's like it's but there's it's like an
overcoming homophobia.
Speaker 1 (33:44):
I guess the best I can give you is there
is a level of measure, which is like, Okay, we
disagree on that, I'm not going to bring it up,
and that does show the mom can respect that one back.
Speaker 3 (33:53):
Potentially, Yeah, I can give her that.
Speaker 4 (33:56):
And I'm saying that there's like maybe a conflating going
on there where she's like, it's not even about necessary.
She's like, we just have conflict. We just don't, don't.
I don't want her to tell me about my relationship.
I don't want her to have opinions on my sexuality.
I don't want you know what I mean. Like, Plus,
this voice recorder stuff now is invasive and whatever that's invasive,
super invasive. So it's you know, I'm not even trying
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to be generous here. I'm just like, having known so
many of these weird family dynamics for a variety of reasons,
I'm like, I'm sure they had conflict way before any
of this between.
Speaker 1 (34:26):
The tat of them all, well, every every teenager as conflict.
But then you know, leaving the voice recorders in the car,
that's destroying her sense of safety, the camera outside her room,
and also it does seem like Dad's out of the house,
he's moving on, We're still tracking his location. I'm not
hearing any legal basis. I mean, these are all good
reasons that you guys are giving to like get Honestly,
I would be like, oh, she's just true.
Speaker 3 (34:48):
In more alimony, you could win.
Speaker 1 (34:50):
None of this reads a shrewd though. This reads is
someone who's emotional and on hinge.
Speaker 2 (34:53):
Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1 (34:55):
But that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (34:57):
Going through a divorce is literally using both of those
minds at the same time, where you're like, I'm losing
my fucking mind. I'm I don't know what's going on.
I'm separating from my partner. My life is falling apart affair,
and the best legal mind that I can afford is
like telling me how to be calculated and prudent and whatever.
It's not a normal way to live, but you won't
do it for longer than two years or.
Speaker 1 (35:17):
A lot of affair during good defense not to.
Speaker 2 (35:20):
Mention that cheating is deception. And I feel like what
hurts the most about cheating is not really ever knowing
the truth. And so it sounds like this is her
trying to control what she can find out and no,
at a obviously extreme level. But like the info that
I want is like did the dad ever apologize? Has
he ever had a conversation with her about what happened?
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Like did he ever make her feel like like I
don't know if somebody cheats and then is like, yeah,
it is what it is, and like I don't have
to tell you who or what we did or anything
like that makes a person spiral. You're just imagining did
you sleep with them in my bed?
Speaker 1 (35:56):
Did you?
Speaker 2 (35:57):
Is it somebody that I know? Is it my sister?
You know?
Speaker 1 (36:00):
So she also has some vitriol here, some whore. Not
a fan of that talk. No, that's terrible, that's terrible. Yeah.
Top comment when E sh your dad for cheating your
mom for unhinged, toxic behavior. I know you're only seventeen,
but you're old enough to know your comments are hurtful.
You'll need to do a lot of work on yourself
if you ever want to break the cycle toxic behavior
you've inherited from both parents. Top descending comment, tiny cryptographer,
(36:25):
I like that, just a little tiny good NTA. Your
mom needs to vent to our friends or a therapist.
She should be putting you in the middle. Yeah, that's true.
Your dad was wrong for cheating and your mom is
wrong for how she's treating you. The whole situation sucks.
Hope it gets better for you.
Speaker 2 (36:38):
Oh that's nice, and I agree. I think that's something
as you get older as a kid or as a child,
your parents do start to treat you like a friend.
But if it's too soon and you're young in sixteen
seventeen and they're like, oh, well your father did that,
it's like, you shouldn't be kidding me against people, and
I'm against that unless it's something crazy.
Speaker 1 (36:59):
My dad was always very clear. He's like, you're not
my friend.
Speaker 2 (37:02):
My mom friend.
Speaker 1 (37:04):
Is that funny to you? Is that funny to you?
Why is that funny?
Speaker 4 (37:08):
I think my dad was like that growing up, and
then it switched into one day he was like, you're
my best friend.
Speaker 3 (37:13):
I don't have.
Speaker 1 (37:17):
Wow, that's better than me.
Speaker 2 (37:19):
I literally told my mom she was my best friend.
And she was like, that's nice. I don't oh, I'm
your best friend. She's like, no, mothers and daughters can't
be best friends. And I'm like, what are you talking about.
Speaker 1 (37:30):
I feel like it's a it's a great grasp of
the role. You know, now there will come a point
where it switches where like he's my parent, but then
there is hopefully as late as possible, where you become
your parents parent, because absolutely.
Speaker 4 (37:43):
No I got I got to watch my dad go
through that with his dad, where like literally it was
like there was one day he was like everything he
said was like advice he would take from his father.
And then the next day he was like, you piss
your pants twelve times a day. You don't know where
you are.
Speaker 3 (37:56):
I'm your dad now, Like.
Speaker 2 (38:00):
Me, that's the only reason we need to have children,
so that we have parents when we seed.
Speaker 1 (38:05):
That, Yeah, isn't it?
Speaker 4 (38:06):
Like And there's a part of me that's like, what's
the cost there that I can avoid, you know, is
ten thousand dollars at the end of my life, you
could just say, better than spending a million dollars or
whatever it cost to raise a kid.
Speaker 1 (38:17):
For you, just make a young friend. I mean I
don't really think it's cost effective. I think the reason
to have kids is so you can have little servants.
That's true. Yeah, I'm totally joking. I mean share the
mysteries and wonders of life with.
Speaker 2 (38:31):
Of course, we're all good people and deserve to have
little clones.
Speaker 3 (38:34):
Do you want for yourself?
Speaker 2 (38:36):
I would like to have a kids. I've always wanted
to adopt, but I would love to have a kid
of my own, just because I'm just such a cool
person and I'm like, imagine more of me weird Listen, fans,
in a world where a lot of stupid people are
breeding real fast, we need to You want just one, No,
I would like to have at least two, or at
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least two childbirths, so.
Speaker 1 (39:00):
Don't seem like a kid one.
Speaker 4 (39:00):
I'm like a child soldier kind of guy. I'll hang
out with the trained ones. But I don't want to.
Speaker 3 (39:05):
I don't want to raise. I want to I don't
want a child rear.
Speaker 1 (39:08):
I want three because I feel like two is too stable.
Are you an only child? No? I have a brother.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
Oh.
Speaker 3 (39:14):
Everyone says, they're like, you should never have just one
doing nothing?
Speaker 1 (39:18):
You need only children tend to be a little bit world.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
It's interesting. And if you have two children, they raise
each other and then it's easier on YouTube.
Speaker 1 (39:25):
So I have no idea if you're joking when you're
saying these things, but you're starting to freak me out.
I don't want you to have kids right now. What
do you mean they don't raise each other? That's crazy.
Speaker 2 (39:33):
Well, they raise each other company you don't. They're not
like like, if you.
Speaker 4 (39:37):
Have just one, you have to be there everything.
Speaker 1 (39:41):
Yeah, then stuff with that much? Yes, too much?
Speaker 2 (39:43):
And then like also your brother who's three years older
starts to talk to you about the sex talk and
you don't have you know, it's like there you go.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
There's a little bit of that. It's good trickle trickle
down upbringing. That's funny. Okay, So my I I do
really think though, here o P is a child and
they're being put in the middle of this, and that
is on mom. I. Even if I go as hard
as I possibly can and say, oh, this is a reaction,
he's gaslighting her, he's toxic and this is all reactions
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to that terrible place, it's still not okay.
Speaker 3 (40:13):
That it's still a terrible place to be for a kid.
Speaker 1 (40:15):
Exactly, And it's not fair for her to do this
to her daughter, and I can't forgive her for that, agreed,
I can say I will. I am backing off. I
think RODUI mounted some pretty good defenses on like, because
this is shrewd. Let's face it, it's all evidence. It's
all fucking evidence. There's really no way around that. I can,
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I can, I can. I was ready to almost call
mom the asshole, but no, it's an e sh In
other words, mom and dad of the asshole, OPI is not.
That's where I'm at.
Speaker 2 (40:45):
So wouldn't that be not the asshole.
Speaker 1 (40:47):
Not the asshole? And they are? Yeah, I.
Speaker 4 (40:52):
Did a lot of that, like amounting and defense for
the mom or whatever, and I'm like, I'm not even
necessarily taking her side. I'm just saying, like, how much
context you necessarily need to really get out to the
bottom of these.
Speaker 3 (41:03):
I think I think. I think the mom might be The.
Speaker 1 (41:08):
Cheating is so hard, especially cheating on someone who's forty nine.
It's like, that's supposed to be that thing's supposed to
be done. Bro Mtai with that family dog and your
NTA for the daughter, and the mom might be the
both parents might be the assholes. Really here.
Speaker 4 (41:23):
Yeah, even if the dad's coming off cooler of like
well whatever, You're like, no, this you started this ship.
Speaker 1 (41:28):
Well he's barely mentioned really you know what I'm saying.
It's either really good or really bad.
Speaker 4 (41:33):
It's one of two things where you're like it she
has a narrative already about this mom, and you're like,
if I add any other stuff about the dad's going
to make it seem like oh, fifty to fifty whatever.
Speaker 3 (41:43):
Or he's done.
Speaker 4 (41:44):
He's like realized how much he done fucked up, and
he's like, I got to just do the right thing
with the child and this and whatever.
Speaker 2 (41:49):
I feel like she would say that though his lack
of information gives to me that this girl lives with
her mom. Is with her mom, popten, that's the thing.
And now it's easy to decide with her dad because
she doesn't.
Speaker 1 (42:01):
He's not there exist and it falls into a trope. Yeah, right,
and she's the absentee father, not the absentee.
Speaker 4 (42:06):
What I want to hear back is two weeks after
she lives with her dad, and she's eating nothing but
like spaghettios and like cinnamentas crunch with no milk, and
she's like I want my crazy mom that DAPs my
fucking conversations and knows how to make.
Speaker 1 (42:19):
Yeah, it's almost like I saw him as being less culpable,
but he's just not around.
Speaker 5 (42:24):
He might choose to be busy. He's fucking each other girl. Yeah,
he's of shit. So I think we're actually our lined
up NTA and they are. Yes, yep, oh right, folks,
thanks for subscribing. I really appreciate it, and we're gonna
wrap up on Ai t A for snapping at my
mom after she tried to force me to learn sign language.
Speaker 1 (42:45):
My thirteen M wow. Young submitter Mom thirty five f wow.
She's my age has been dating her now fiance, thirty
eight M Jeremy for two years. Five months ago he
proposed to her and they got engaged and moved into
get and now they are planning their wedding. I am
cool with this. I really like Jeremy. They were friends
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before they started dating, so I met and got close
to him before he started dating my mom.
Speaker 2 (43:09):
Nice.
Speaker 1 (43:09):
I think he's really cool and I am happy for
my mom. My issue is with his annoying and arrogant son.
He's only two years older than me, so fifteen M
but it acts like he's too cool to hang out
with me. He treats me like a little kid, but
there's only two years between us. I will call him
Dean Dean's death and has to use a device called
cochlear implants to hear, but he can't wear all the
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time because apparently hearing can be exhausting for him. To
be honest, I think it's an excuse to avoid hanging
out with us, but that's what he says anyway. He
and Jeremy both know sign language, but my mom and
I don't. My mom has started learning after she got
engaged with Jeremy, and she's pressuring me to learn too,
But I'm refusing because I don't want to spend time
learning a whole language for him when he clearly doesn't
(43:52):
even like me. Mom says, I'm being disrespectful because we
now basically live together. He comes to stay with Jeremy
on the weekends. I live with mam Fuls, so unfortunately
I have to stay with Dean on weekends. Two days ago,
my mom, in front of Jeremy, started telling me about
this great ASL tutor she found online and how she's
thinking of signing me up for our classes. I lost
my temper, yelled and told her I don't want to
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and just stop pressuring me. I was told to go
to my room for yelling at her, and was grounded
for a day for using that word. I know I
shouldn't have used that word, but aiita, I have.
Speaker 2 (44:24):
Two hard things. One, I am so lucky. I've never
been in a position to be forced to be like
in a relationship, like have a relationship with someone that
sucks like that, like step siblings. Ugh, Like that could
go so wrong. Second, knowledge is power. Bro, you learn
that sign language and you fuck him up with it.
(44:44):
He doesn't want to be around you. You want him
to talk shit about you and sign language and you
don't know what the fuck he's saying. You better learn
sign language.
Speaker 1 (44:51):
This could be I here's the thing.
Speaker 4 (44:52):
This is like, this could be one conversation in front
of everybody with Jeremy be like, do you even want
me to learn sign languagerem I don't care.
Speaker 3 (45:01):
It's over Like they could just be that.
Speaker 1 (45:03):
Yeah, I don't think you would care. And I think
that's actually a great freaking argument.
Speaker 2 (45:09):
Yeah, it's the mom who cares.
Speaker 1 (45:11):
It's the mom who cares, and the mom is trying
to do stuff, and to me, this is just very disrespectful.
It's like this kid's thirteen. Let's face it, sign language
if we're going to go to practical town, which I
feel is like kind of way you're arguing. It's like sorry,
but sign language is not it. If you're into sign
language and you want to learn Si language, that's wonderful,
that's great. I think that's beautiful. But like Mandarin's the answer, folks,
(45:32):
it's the Chinese century, Like, let's fucking go.
Speaker 4 (45:35):
Can you imagine how good your mom's getting her back
blown out? You have to learn a whole new language.
Speaker 1 (45:40):
I know right, she's like she's got it. She can't
even talk after. That's how good it is. Bro.
Speaker 3 (45:47):
Also, this is my one qualm with the death.
Speaker 1 (45:52):
This we're gonna have, we're gonna get canceled this.
Speaker 3 (45:54):
They had the greatest opportunity to make like a universal language,
and instead they all did.
Speaker 1 (46:00):
He's just going to bring that regional version. It's it's
American side.
Speaker 3 (46:03):
Why is that because we're racist and stupid?
Speaker 1 (46:06):
We didn't want to. It's literally that they.
Speaker 3 (46:08):
Didn't want to, like be I don't want Italian? Still understand, Like,
is there.
Speaker 1 (46:11):
Something with syntax or something that it's more intuitive the
potentially got There's no way there was to my joke.
Speaker 4 (46:19):
Couldn't it be funnier if deaf American guys and death
Chinese guys.
Speaker 3 (46:23):
Can just understand each other?
Speaker 1 (46:24):
The Chinese guy, Yeah, I mean, I don't know about that.
There's like a whole metal language thing. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (46:34):
I suspect asl people right now freaking out by the
way and the obviously you can't say horse the same
way or whatever.
Speaker 1 (46:41):
Danny from the edit here had to call us out
on this one. I understand the common sense idea that
sign language should be universal, but it's just as crazy
as saying any language should be universal. The reason it's
not because sign language developed just like every other language locally.
That's how people talk. I don't think we should blame
(47:03):
the death for that. That's what I'm trying to say.
I was never flaming universal communication.
Speaker 2 (47:10):
YEO.
Speaker 1 (47:10):
Imagine aliens come to Earth and they're like, ah, the
deaf people, fuck us, We're not learning twenty languages, y'all
alien right.
Speaker 3 (47:19):
I retract my call with my harbor, no ill will
with the death.
Speaker 1 (47:24):
So yeah, I don't know for me. It's like it
doesn't matter that it's ASL. Could be anything. It could
be English, it could be Spanish, whatever. It's like, this
is a person that I don't want to get close to.
You're trying to You're trying to put this on me
really for no other purposes, because it's like it's convenient
to make that argument. But then it's like, so what
are you really trying to do. So are you trying
to say I should learn a second language, Great, then
(47:46):
let me pick the second language, which I don't think
that's that unreasonable, But for a thirteen year old, I'm
kind of like live and let live, honey.
Speaker 2 (47:52):
Well, I think the mom just wants the two brothers
to bond. They're now in a family together. I think
it's graceful, and I don't think that she should like
be forcing her son to learn signlanguage just for Dean
or whatever his name is. But like I get her
wanting to be like, hey, this is how maybe you
guys could connect more or whatever. But if the guy,
(48:12):
if the kid is being just a straight asshole and
he's like I don't want to hang out with you,
then like I.
Speaker 1 (48:16):
Want to hang out. Yeah, Hey, do a lot of
hard stuff so he can hate you more, Like why we.
Speaker 2 (48:22):
Could just play video games?
Speaker 1 (48:23):
That's universal, that's true. Get a freaking controller in there.
Please don't refer to me crazy user name Yta. It's
not excuse. People who are born deaf, as I assumed
Dean was, can easily get overwhelmed and exhausted while using
cochlear implants. Even some people who are born hearing get
overwhelmed by sounds. I'd recommend doing some research into auditory
fatigue and can help you understand how I suspect Dean
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feels when he uses his cochlear implants for a prolonged
period of time.
Speaker 2 (48:49):
And imagine listening to someone you don't fucking like that.
Speaker 1 (48:52):
I feel like, but I feel like this comment is like, no, bro,
that's not some what he said.
Speaker 2 (48:56):
I think he's just arguing a point to where he said.
I think he just doesn't want to hang out with us.
But I think the cocular implant fatigue is real because
I have a friend.
Speaker 1 (49:04):
Of course, No, I mean I have that with like
contact lenses or like pants that fit shit condoms, you know. No,
I totally get that. I'm not saying it, But the
fact is, like the reason this guy, the reason the
thirteen year old thinks it's an excuse is because it
is because he's not making an effort to hang out otherwise. See,
that would make me think he's an asshole. If Dean
(49:26):
was like, I'm sorry, I don't want to do my
cocular implants, but I still want to spend time with you,
and then it was like they couldn't they couldn't hang
out because they can't communicate, then I'd be like, yeah,
he like, why don't you just try to learn a
little bit? But I'm like, that's clearly not the situation.
Speaker 4 (49:41):
Let's focus on the worst case scenario he does learn
asl just for Dean to be like, you suck.
Speaker 1 (49:46):
Yeah, fuck you. He just said you mom' fuck you.
Speaker 2 (49:53):
If I was the kid, I would want to know.
Speaker 1 (49:55):
I don't know, I want to know.
Speaker 2 (49:57):
I would want to slowly. If I have an enemy,
I'm not going to let you have a whole language,
I don't understand. Sorry.
Speaker 4 (50:03):
Scenario you're at the nail salon. Yeah you want to
know what they're saying about your feet?
Speaker 2 (50:08):
Yeah I have beautiful yet you want to see them.
Speaker 1 (50:12):
Keep your shoes on, keep your socks on. In my house.
This is farkle Gate all over again.
Speaker 3 (50:15):
I don't care how far into Patreon we are.
Speaker 1 (50:20):
Yeah, I just I feel like this is oh wow,
really long dissenting comment. Nta hearing impaired person here. I
have a bone to pick with Radu. He is a
bigot for what he said. I'm just kidding. I started
wearing hearing aids when I was a child. I never
expect anyone to learn any language from me. Hearing loss
is my burden, no one else's. I asked my friend
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group with the same condition. They agree, stand your ground,
not your responsibility. Your mom can ask you and you
compolitely say no. When she breaks it up again, tell
her you've already given your answer multiple times and you
refuse to discuss it. She needs to show you respect
and consideration. Mom's driving you away. Blah blah blah blah blah.
Tell your mom and or BF that if his son
eventually changes his behavior towards you, then you might emphasize
might consider sign language, But right now, with his behavior,
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you have no reason to take the class. I think
that's kind of sure. It's like, if he takes a
step forward, you should meet the step. And I think
learning his language or how he naturally speaks easiest is
very reasonable. But if he's stepping away from you, it's like,
why would I step towards someone who's stepping away from me?
Speaker 2 (51:17):
That's very valid, doesn't make any sense valid.
Speaker 1 (51:20):
As for snapping out my mom and that she tried
to force me to learn sign language, I think it's
nta and she is, Yep, yeah, I honestly don't even
blame him. I'm like, two years actually is a pretty
big gap at fifteen, and I'm like, yeah, he's not
interested in a rando thirteen year old, Like what what
is that? That's a eighth grader compared to a sixth grader?
That was huge back then.
Speaker 2 (51:40):
Y'all right, Oh, I completely.
Speaker 3 (51:42):
Agree, honestly, like the ninth grader with the seventh grader, a.
Speaker 1 (51:45):
Freshman in a seventh grader, that's like, that's honestly like
me dating a twenty year old, Like that's huge in
those eras.
Speaker 2 (51:50):
That's crazy. You know, it's a good thing that this
isn't Mother's Day because all three of these scenarios we've
called the mother the asshole.
Speaker 1 (52:00):
You pick these situations, Carla, Why are you making me
look bad? Mommy? Moms can moms can be assholes. It's
a tough job. It's true, a tough job. That's one
of the toughest parts about it.
Speaker 2 (52:09):
It's very true.
Speaker 3 (52:09):
Ladies be pimps too.
Speaker 1 (52:13):
I didn't say that. I don't quote me on that. Well,
I mean, and I like what you said, Carlo. She
is trying to nurture this relationship. But I think that's
also part of maybe what's hard is like, maybe this
this isn't really a relation. I mean, I wasn't close
to my brother all so it became basically like adults.
Speaker 2 (52:29):
Yeah, well you're far apart. Yeah that's me and my
brother are nine years apart. But he was always like
I see home videos of us, and he was always
like my big brother. I don't really remember those times.
It's kind of sad. But then when I was in
high school, that's when I had a boyfriend who cheated
on me and my brother was like what he And
that was the first time on MySpace. He was like,
(52:51):
tell him, you don't know if I have a gun.
You don't know if I have a knife. And I
was like, bro, you're moving into my top eight.
Speaker 1 (52:58):
Bro, I love it.
Speaker 3 (53:00):
That's great.
Speaker 1 (53:01):
So we do agree, not the asshole and Mama. Sorry guys,
thanks for listening. Sorry, sorry that we were so anti mom.
This episode is Carlo's get working out some ship, but
we love her.
Speaker 2 (53:11):
I love my mom.
Speaker 1 (53:13):
I love my mom too. Moms are good. Pretty good
that moms are good, more comfortable as the episode goes on. Yeah,
he's really slapching. I'm actually we want.
Speaker 2 (53:30):
You to thank you.
Speaker 1 (53:32):
All right, guys, we'll see you next time.
Speaker 2 (53:34):
My mama's
Hello, everybody. I know how to say hello. I'm Danny Vega,
joined by Baboo and Carla. Hey, what's up, cuties? Happy Sunday.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
I don't know why I thought you're gonna say heavy
Eastern so happy Mother's dated.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Happy Mother's Day? Yea when his mother's dad next week?
I love my mom?
Speaker 3 (00:25):
What Easter should be a month? Like rama? Don okay?
Speaker 1 (00:29):
What is what? Ramedan? You fast?
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Why because you're fat?
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Because you're fat? No, that's interesting. I didn't know they
were so fake. They need some body positivity.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
U was to be honest. As someone who dated a
Muslim for five years, I should know more about this,
but it's yeah, you don't shoot fast from sun up
to sundown.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I like ship like that. So Radu,
you were a little fishy boy fishing at the fish
concert jam band for drug users. I don't know what
you're reading on this podcast, but I went.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
I went to Hollywood bol for the first time.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
It was first time.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
I didn't know that first time.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
I lived right by it.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Crazy.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
Every time I see someone that's playing there, it's either
like you're like, oh my god, that would be like
the best show ever or You're like, this is like
the ultimate money laundering scam of all.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
You're like, Chicago's still a band, these guys are still alive.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
What the fuck is going on? But it was really cool.
I've seen fish. This is my fifteenth and sixteenth show.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
I think, Wowesus, God and Heaven get a better personal.
I don't bring it up. I used to hide it.
I don't bring it up.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
I used to hide it from people.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
In fact, one of my one of my employers, this
guy Ran Pamber I produced this podcast. He's like, what
the fuck We've talked about fish so many times. I
never knew you were like a fish head.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
I was like, I know.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
I hide it from because I wasn't just a fishead.
I was a sober fishead who lived in Texas where
jam bands don't come. So I would since I was
like seventeen years old, I would travel to like Colorado,
New Jersey and whatever, sometimes by myself without a ticket.
These things cost hundreds of dollars, the same way Carl
got in just miracles all the time. You show up
four or five hours early to the parking lot. You
(02:10):
just hold your like one finger up in the air
and you go who's got my extra?
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Man, you gotta do the accent on the last they want.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
We will think you're a cup and you're just hanging
out with like losers who sell grilled cheeses for a.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Living until the fish show starts.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
And then right, you know, ten twenty minutes before the
show starts, there's all these tickets floating around and you're like,
oh shit, you get in for sometimes twenty dollars thirty bucks.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Because they're scout, they're a scalper. Yeah, how do you
get even just sco It's.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Just people that like show, like they planned it out
like seven months before and they're like sixty years old
and their friend died, you know what I mean. It's
literally stuff like that all the time, you know. And
you and you see people who traveled from around the
world and you're like, you spent much more money on
the plane ticket.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
You could have.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Easily assured yourself a seat. And you're like, nah, man,
it's part of the thing. You like gotta and and
I've seen people not get in. They're like, no, you
just would listen from the parking lot. You know, it's
like still pretty get acoustics, man.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Or like someone on a lot. That's why I I
hear it the same yeahrom here, yeah yeah yeah, two
point five miles away.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
I knew a guy named Grateful Don who didn't He
lived in Thailand and he would come just to follow
fish around in the summer and sell like merch. And
like merch, he made and uh, grilled cheeses in the
parking lot. He never went inside the shows. He just
sold stuff outside of fish. He'd already been to hundreds
of shows.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
He got what it was, he got entrepreneur.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
So then the fish they play, It doesn't annoy you
to call them the fish.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
I don't care.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Now, everything about them, if you're not into them, is annoying.
So like they play like.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Five hours or some ridiculous and then it's all riffs.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Right, it's about five hours, two and a half hour
on average, two and a half hours.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Yeah yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
So like most shows started like seven thirty, ended at eleven.
No open air, it's just fish.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Oh, no opener. I kind of love them.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
It's fish set break well, this is why, because it's
fish set break and then fish again. So they don't
have time for an opener plan yeah yeats, and they
do covers, they do, I mean they have written songs.
They just if they're really feeling it, if the crowd's
giving them whatever they want, they're gonna go longer and
improvise and do. It's kind of like a Rory Scovell
sort of experience. That's what I would the analog to comedy.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Right, does a lot of improv to make this even.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
More niche for the audience that doesn't care about this stuff.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Hey, you guys obscure. Well they're just like this obscure commedia.
Do you understand the experience at Yeah, so they're they're vibing,
they're feeling it out the concerts along. But you brought
your brought my wife.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
She she was like very hesitant to go because she's like,
one doesn't like to be out past ten o'clock in public?
Was this her first time first time seeing fish and
she'd like, I had a few opportunities.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
She's like, no, you just go do that with your friends.
I'm good, Yeah, I'm good. I'll love you more if
I don't go. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
And honestly, the walk up to because we scootered from
our a mile away, I had kind of like given
up on this part of my life.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
By the way, it's a weird little caveat.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
I've been trying to get out of sports and fish
and like all this things I consider.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Distraction, trying to get out it's like an addiction. I'm
like really trying to do to go a lot.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
And and sports especially used to be really bad because
you could just keep up with it on your phone.
But fish would just like ruin your summer. You're like, dude,
i gotta like listen to all the jams and then
I'm gonna go for three days in Colorado whatever. So
the walk up to the Hollywood Bowl is just a
bunch of people called the Nitrous Mafia selling whippets and balloons.
They're like yelling, they're like ice cold fatties, man, and
(05:36):
they're like, you know, trying to sell you whipping balloons
for twenty dollars or whatever.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
There's like wlaffing gas, yes.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
And there's no police presence whatsoever. Every like five feet
there's like a guy selling beers for three dollars.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
There's three dollars, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Or like there's like people selling like homemade weeds.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Products or whatever.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
You know.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
It's like a weird flea market that follows the concert around.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Fish is like the only inflation proof experience I've ever
heard of. It's remarked maybe they were five bucks.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
I was a little fucked up.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
But you're not getting like a craft beer, You're getting
like a modello.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Sure. Sure.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
The funny part to me was that, like my wife,
she was was dancing, she was getting into it. She
was like whatever, but she was like, I'm liking this
a lot more than I realized I would like. I
kind of thought this would be like NASCAR or something
where I'm just like putting up with it because I
love you, you know, But.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
It's really fun.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
If you start dancing and suspend your adulthood and the
light show is ridiculous. How much fun everyone is having
around you is really good. It kind of feels like
what Church must have felt like in the fourteen hundreds, like,
you know, everyone here fucking believes dude.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Like, yeah, the witches.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
That's a really good way of describing it.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
And she's into it, and every song is every star,
every set is different. They don't repeat sets ever, They'll
they'll sometimes play a song they haven't played in like
twenty years, so it like gives the crowd this sense
of like this like bust out energy.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
They're like, oh shit, we're getting like this extra ray experience.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
So she's just really vibing off how much the crowd
is like freaking out and people aren't on their phones
at all.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
That's the other part.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
It's like one of the few last experiences where you're
like there's there's three people on their phones and everyone
else because they're all in hallucinogens and the phones are scary.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
I really that they're all dancing.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
I don't endorse drug use, but having anyway such drugs.
I hated looking at man made objects when I was Yeah, yeah,
it was terrible drugs, which I don't endorse anyway, that
I don't endorse.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
My wife fell asleep for about twenty five minutes in
the second set.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
What a turn of event. She just she danced her
way out, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
She was like so tuckered out a lot, and yeah,
just various circumstances led to her being like is it
bad if i I'm like, no, dude, there's plenty of
people that were passed out from the first NG.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Yeah, you had a good run.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
Yeah you're like you made it more than most of
the audience, and and then I went again Sunday without
her so much fish Yeah, and I was on the
whole Then the whole weekend, I was just like, how
do I get out of my Saturday commit And so
I could also go all three days.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
And Fishy Boy, but he's still recorded with us I
Sai Yeah, pulled with us bro.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Also, he came to the prom and like, oh my god,
you're at the problem. He's like, yeah, I had to go, dude,
don't tell comedy And I was like, had.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Dude, you wanted to?
Speaker 3 (08:14):
I had to show and I wanted to meet my
wife up at prom, which, by the way, I hate
that you guys call that prom because it's so every
time I'm telling other people that don't know what, I'm like, yeah,
I'm taking my wife to prom. I'm like, well, we
already suspected you're a pedophile, but now.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
You're now I'm like, no, she's older than me.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
She's old as fuck.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
That's hilarious.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
I was so bummed because I thought I was going
to get to DJ for these high school girls, and
all these fucking mid thirties co workers show up. I'm like, yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Really wish I got so many soundbites of Danny as
the DJ who kept saying shoot your shot.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
To I don't like the night. That's all I wanted
to happen for some reason. Yeah, I guess I wanted it.
I wanted it to be so pitch black that there's
like a couple of people there that I kind of
want to make out with. You know, I don't have a.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
Relationship traumatic Danny. Why because you saying that you wanted
to be pitch black so you can make out with
people feels deceptive.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
But that's finny. I want them to know. I don't
want them to know. I feel like you're mishearing it.
It's more that I wanted to just be like, we're
two people being crazy. They're intimate the lights on, people
are less so intense.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
People are like less insecure in the dark.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
Yeah, it was.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
It was. It was dark enough.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Don't you feel like if you're hooking up with someone
you don't really like them, but you're maybe attract enough
to fuck them. You don't want the light on and
you're like light off, you don't really want to look
at them. It's nothing personal, that's the whole point. My god,
you've never felt that way.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
I can't say that I have.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
No, you've never want to see. You're married, so you're
not going to relate.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
No, it's a totally male feeling and be like, of
course that person's attractive. I feel nothing for them, but it's.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Just like intense to look at someone in their goddamn
eyes and like, sometimes it's just a fun night. It's
it's nothing, it's nothing ugly or bad. Sometimes it's just
a wanner.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Yeah, okay, I get that.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
So, Carla, you were saying you dated at one point
two people at once. Can you imagine that after you
shame me for my in the dark makeout?
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Well, one is consensual, so I feel like it's different.
Speaker 3 (10:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
No. Actually, I was rehearsing somewhere recently, and you know,
these rehearsal spaces for actors are very small, so it
was like people coming out as we were going in,
and one of the guys coming out. I was like,
oh my god, this is a full circle moment because
it's a guy that I was dating at the same
time as another where this whole situation happened. And he
literally looked at me from far away and then like
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did like a you yeah, not a wind, but like a, oh,
I didn't see you, like he didn't Yeah, and then
he just like went to his car and left, and I.
Speaker 4 (10:52):
Was like, I love like being like, no, you just
saw me looking, but.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
But you didn't.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
But I get why he might have done that because
long story short, when I first moved to La, I
was fresh out of a breakup of a long term relationship.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Honey.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
Then found out my ex was dating somebody knew like
three months after we broke up, who was a friend
of ours, and I was like, oh, you want to
get over it.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
I'm going to get over it.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
And I joined the apps and I was dating and
it was actually really good for me because for the
first time, I was like, oh my god, like I
can actually like someone again. I met this guy and
he and I instantly clicked, and like for like six weeks,
we were like hanging out all the time. He was
like taking me all these shows like Exploring La that
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great guy.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
You love him?
Speaker 2 (11:47):
And he was like, oh, like do you want to
my girlfriend? I was like, I really can't. I just
got out of a five year relationship. I'm not jumping
into a new relationship like I'm.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
After hanging out with him constantly for six weeks. You're like, oh,
you didn't think we had like a relationship.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
Did from the beginning.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
From the beginning, I was like, I'm dating, I'm going
on dates. And it was a known thing that I
was like, I don't want to be exclusive, I want
a date. I've been in a relationship. I'm not ready
to be in another fucking committed relationship. It is. But
I was being truthful and he agreed to it. And
then the other thing was that he had planned to move.
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So he was like, I'm moving in three months, and
I'm like, I'm not to like San Jose, like northern California.
Break So I was like, I'm not doing that whatever,
I'm doing long distance. And so we were having fun,
and I was like, this is great. It's like a
little grease. Some are romance, you know, like some are
loving whatever. But so he would go out of town
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for weekends at a time to do training or whatever,
and that usually would be when I would go on
other dates. And so I went on a date with
this guy who I saw at the actors studio and
we were like at a brewery or something like that,
and he went to the bathroom and my friend texted
me and was like, well, well, hey, what are you doing?
And I texted her back and I was like, oh, hey,
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I'm gonna date smiley face. But I accidentally sent it
to the other guy.
Speaker 4 (13:09):
No no, no, no, no no no, no classic player move.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
This is my nightmare.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
No and instantly, because this is prior to the unsend button,
you couldn't UNSND.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
Yeah, you couldn't, Carla.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
You know what the text goes through. I think the
trick back then was like, if you turn it on,
do not disturb fast enough, like interjects the text. But
I was like airplane mode, yeah, airplane mode, and so
I didn't. But I didn't notice that I did that
because I thought I texted her. And then when I
really realized, I texted him because he texted me back
and said, damn, that's real, and then I responded. I
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responded with a sad face and an asterisks. I meant
to say sorry, I'm on a date sad face instead
of happy face. And then he and I was like, yeah,
my bad, like just wanted to let and then I
doubled down. I was like, just want to let you
know I'm going a date with someone else and he
was like, let's just talk. It's fine when I get back.
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So then this guy comes back from the bathroom and
he's like, are you good, Like you seem like you're
a little out of swords, and I was like, no, no, no,
I'm fine, I'm fine. And then we went to his car.
We like made out like crazy. The whole time. I
was thinking about this in the car. It was daytime.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Time, daytime car make out.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Yeah, what do you mean? We were like having sex
and we were just making out?
Speaker 1 (14:46):
What chool were you in?
Speaker 2 (14:48):
I loved it?
Speaker 1 (14:49):
I okay, what's in the dak?
Speaker 2 (14:54):
I think I think guys should more often be like,
you're just trying to make out, because sometimes it's nice
to just make and then go home like it's fine.
Speaker 3 (15:01):
I do respect that, I do understand.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
Maybe that's my issue. Maybe I should just say that date, like,
what are.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
You trying to make out?
Speaker 3 (15:07):
Daytime?
Speaker 2 (15:09):
I mean we had like three beers. It was like
it was fun.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Maybe my whole darkness thing is also a fear of rejection,
where it's like it's so dark and then they're like, yeah,
I rejected him, and I'm like I couldn't even tell
you from someone else.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Oh, sorry, I thought you were amy.
Speaker 1 (15:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:24):
Anyway, so we were making out and then I got
another text from this guy and I was like, I'm
going to go home this and that, and he was
upset and then I like kind of ghosted him after that.
But I meet out with in the car who I
ran into at the studio, which is why he probably
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was avoiding me. And I wasn't a big ghoster, but
I was so consumed with the other situation that I
clearly cared about more.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (15:52):
And then that was that, and like the rest was
kind of like a toxic situation where the guy like
pretended like he didn't care and then kept leading me on.
And I was like, dude, it's one thing. If you're
bothered by this, say it and break it off. Don't
keep saying we're gonna hang out and you're not. You
have no intention to hang out with me anymore because
your ego was hurt because I told you I was
seeing other people. But that situation was a little brutal.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
It was NGL sounds like it was mutually confidence for sure.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
Yeah, So yeah, all those feelings came back seeing this
guy double down and be like I don't know you.
I was like, okay, Damn almost said his real name.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Wow, folks, thanks for listening. We're giving out the juice,
and we got one juicy app for you today. Our
second story of the day, folks, Ata for siding with
my dad and the divorce even though he cheated on
my mom. But first, folks, I smacked my nephew for
spitting on me. I thirty four M smacked my nephew
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fourteen M today after he spat on me at the
dinner table. Bitch is I was sitting at the dining
table with my family this afternoon. My nephew was squirting
saliva out from underneath his tongue at people gleaking there
we go, but he did it to me. I was
grossed out and jumped up to go and wash myself.
As I was walking past his chair, I clipped him
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over the back of the head with an open hand.
I didn't hurt him, nor did I really think much
of it at the time, but my family are very
upset that I disciplined another person's child. I'm not an
abusive or aggressive person, but I am left feeling bad.
Is it fair to say that I overreacted? My nephew
is about three inches taller than me, and I sometimes
forget that he's still a child. I feel very disrespected
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for being spat.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
On rightfully, so nobody wants to get it spat on.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
I Actually I don't know. Spitting to me is a
little bit worse than gleeking on someone.
Speaker 2 (17:42):
But it sounds like he was gleeking. Was he spitting
or gleeking?
Speaker 1 (17:45):
He used to be able to do it? Yeah, No,
I was gleaking because it's it's when you like you
should tongue up on the roof of your mouth, you
know about gleeking.
Speaker 3 (17:51):
Yeah, it released some sort of like gland.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
It's like pure That's the other thing about it. It's
not spit that's been in your mouth. It's pure saliva.
From my glance, it's a little.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
Yeah, you're not gearing up with a loogie where you're.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
Like, Honestly, if you punch a kid in the face
after they hawked a lougi, that's that. Honestly, I might
be able to let that go. This is a good
one because I when I first read it, I was like,
what a man child? But now I'm like, I mean,
spitting on someone's a salt.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
True, that's true, and Also, where was that kid's parent
to be like, stop doing that, you're at dinner. I'm
not letting my kid gleek around like gleek on your
own time.
Speaker 1 (18:28):
He was my nephew was scorting saliva out from underneath
his tongue at people. Yeah, I mean, I'm kind of
like to be clawted. Well, I think he would.
Speaker 4 (18:35):
I think I think adults should be hitting kids, even
when they're not doing things wrong, just to keep them guessing,
just to.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
Keep them guessing, like reinforcement.
Speaker 4 (18:42):
I don't know, maybe it's just I shouldn't even say this,
but I have such a respect for pedophiles because I'm like,
how do y'all like children?
Speaker 3 (18:48):
This shit sucks?
Speaker 2 (18:50):
I hate you?
Speaker 1 (18:51):
Why did I tell you that? I was bringing this
up recently? That actually one of the cure, one of
the ways they have found that reduces pedophilia and people
is to actually hang out with children. Are you serious? Serious?
Because they don't part it's it is a power thing.
It's a it's a power thing. And so when they
actually connect with a child, they realize what a child is.
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They have empathy. They're not usually like sure, and they
develop that natural empathy and they actually get rid of
that sick attraction, which is usually the result of being
touched themselves. Of course, I.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
Really want to say something that would be really problematic.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
I'll just say it.
Speaker 2 (19:29):
Michael Jackson. The people who headed no what I mean,
he was probably titled maybe, but like the fact that
he was hanging out with kids all the time.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
Oh yeah, I think he was a kid. Yeah. I mean,
I'm not saying in every case, I'm not speaking on
the Michael Jackson, but I mean there's.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
Some pedophiles who are like, I'm physically attracted children, and
then there's the worst kind who are like, I like
a child's personality and you're like, you're a monster.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
You should die.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
Can we get back to hitting kids instead?
Speaker 1 (19:55):
Yeah? That was much better. We're gonna lose some subscribers.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
We do not supply.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
I think, yes, Well, I feel like.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
An open handed palm is like a reaction thing, and honestly,
a kid who is that age and that big of
a person maybe needed that a little bit Like how
hard was it? What did the kid do? I need
more information?
Speaker 1 (20:18):
It sounds like a bonking. If they were an adult,
he bonked them, if they're an adult.
Speaker 3 (20:22):
If he was eighteen years old.
Speaker 4 (20:24):
No, this is no problem, right, No one's even like,
and maybe not even any other adults in the family
are saying anything.
Speaker 1 (20:30):
Yeah. I mean to me, it falls into the category
of like if if somebody slaps you in the face
and you slap them back, I'm kind of like, that's
that's not Yeah, it's not conscious really, it's just like
instant eye for an eye. It's a reflex. This feels
very reflexive to me. Yes, Now, if it was a
five year old, then I would say you need to
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grow the fuck up and realize that's a that's a child.
But a fourteen year old gleeking, it's like, you know,
that's gross, you know.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
Yeah, I just wish that he I just wish he
used his words first, because if someone gleeked on me,
I would instantly, like my reflex would be like, what
the fuck, don't do that, instead of like waiting to
get up walk by him, and then be like, oh,
this is my chance, like to hit him or whatever.
Speaker 3 (21:16):
I guess that is delayed.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
Yeah. I feel like he stood up right away and
walked him and clocked him in the head to go
wash off.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
It was like what he thought, Yeah, yeah, you're right.
I mean I jumped up. He says to go and
wash myself.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
It's easy for me to say, like in a perfect world,
i'd be like, well, you should have used your words.
But like I could even see people because I would,
like an ideal situation, or if I was simply too
far away on the table where it wasn't like logistically
like possible to land a blow, I'd start yelling. And
I think any reasonable person really would yell about this
fucking gross bro and we're eating.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
You know what we do start a food fight.
Speaker 1 (21:55):
Now you're problems. But yeah, I would yell, and then
I could see and be like, yelling isn't okay, And
it's like, well, no, this is like this is sault.
It's disgusting, like it is violence.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
I don't think that gleaking should be considered a sault.
It's a kid is disrespectful for sure, and it's annoying,
but it's not I wouldn't say it's a sault. This
guy's just out here going.
Speaker 1 (22:20):
If a man gleeked on you, you wouldn't say that's assaulted.
Speaker 2 (22:24):
If a man gleaked on let me give.
Speaker 1 (22:26):
You a situation. A man cat calls you, and you say.
Speaker 2 (22:29):
That's different. That's not my nephew at dinner.
Speaker 1 (22:32):
My question is that the act itself can be categorized
as assault. A man gleaks on you. You you, he cat
calls you, he says, what's up, sexy mama? You say
fuck off kindly. Then he gleaks on you. Is that assault?
Speaker 2 (22:45):
I just don't see a world and where he would
gleek on me.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
Well, he spits on you.
Speaker 3 (22:50):
Well, he's a gig that's practicing.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
I mean, I'm kind of joking when I say that.
I don't really think it a court a law. They're
like that degree spit hawking of the new Gee.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
Yeah, like it's disrespectful and it's invasive and it's gross.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
It's a salt. That's what assault is.
Speaker 2 (23:07):
It is such a hard word that really diminishes real assault.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
Well, it's at least being molested assault.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
No mona stars literally that.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
Yeahanish, that's a bit of sir warning on this fucking episode.
Because you were a dooey fucker.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
You gave him the freedom.
Speaker 1 (23:29):
No, but assault, if someone shoves you, that's a salt.
That's what as salt is. Yeah, you know, I don't
make the rules, or maybe it's battery. I get confused
with those two. Bottom line for me. Top comment bag
bag Long eighty ninety three that user name is assaulted.
Oh dear. Firstly, spitting in any capacity is so gross
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unless it's in tissues in the same toilet. You know,
I like this juxtapot. You are right to feel angry
and gross. Here in the UK, it's actually assault bag
Long bag Long tan Man nineteen seventy five coming in
with an e sh real talk father here, you're the adult.
Your nephew is your kid by proxy. You're supposed to
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demonstrate adult behavior in this situation, not teach him that
retaliation smacks are okay. It's okay. I failed at this
too many times. Account. Your next stop is to apologize
to the boy, because that's what adults do. Also, his
parents should have tore him a new one.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
Absolutely don't agree that he should apologize at all.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
No, I think you have to apologize, But I do
think the parents were It seems like the parents were
just like, well, let him do it, he's a boy.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
Yeah, they were wine drunk or something.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
Yeah, yeah, that's clearly that.
Speaker 2 (24:42):
That's what parents do when their the aunts and uncles
are around, They're like, oh, you guys are taking.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Care, got it? I smacked my nephew for spitting on me.
Part of me does want to say, not the asshole
the nephew is, or even maybe it's everyone sucks here.
The if you and the parents are they seem to
they were in the room. I think we agree on that.
Speaker 4 (25:03):
I just think I think depending on what demography the
person you ask, you know what I mean, Like if
the whit a the person, they're like this, you should
never hit the kid, and then the other you go
the other way. They're like, of course you have to
k hit you. Like I can never overcome my romanianness
on that. I'm like, children should be hit.
Speaker 2 (25:19):
Yeah, it's not gentle parenting.
Speaker 3 (25:20):
There's no way.
Speaker 4 (25:21):
I don't even want That's why I don't want kids,
because I'm like, for sure, I would never be able
to restrain myself. The second he's like buzzing around like
drinks two mountain dews, I'm like.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
Shut up, don't ring mountain dew into this. Zach Borrel's
rights nda smack his parents too. That's interesting.
Speaker 3 (25:37):
See that guy is from Cuba.
Speaker 1 (25:40):
Long dropping lab nta. That's disgusting. He's not a child.
He's fourteen, and unless he's been diagnosed with the IQBA,
three year olds headed for trouble.
Speaker 2 (25:49):
No, fourteen year olds are just fucking shit heads. I
was not that, but I feel like fourteen year old
boys just do stupid shit like that. That's why I'm
like this kid is. I don't want to say boys
will be boys because I'm not saying that.
Speaker 1 (26:01):
The thing is, he didn't punch him in the face,
he didn't break his nose, and I kind of feel like.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
I feel like, it's no assholes.
Speaker 1 (26:07):
Can you imagine asking no assholes here? How could be
no assholes here?
Speaker 2 (26:10):
It's just a thing that happened, and that's it.
Speaker 3 (26:12):
And when she's excusing some of the behavior under like children.
Speaker 1 (26:15):
He's fourteen gleaking, you're kind of doing.
Speaker 2 (26:19):
Used to gleek as teenagers on other teenagers.
Speaker 1 (26:22):
Yeah, that's actually a pretty good argument. I definitely gleeked
on people.
Speaker 4 (26:27):
Yeah, here's funny. You can't You shouldn't like even get
a little bit of gleak.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
On my couch. Heye, I smacked my nephews spinning on
an he hit me. I did not. We have cameras,
I say nh or nt God damn it.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
You should never joke about women getting hit. So I'm
sorry about that.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
What's up?
Speaker 2 (26:46):
Nothing?
Speaker 1 (26:46):
Yeah, you're fucking joking about assault. You're trivializing it.
Speaker 2 (26:50):
We've got off the track.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
You deserve a mask leaking Oh my god, what are
like ten people all gleeking you on you at once?
Speaker 2 (26:56):
That sounds like waterboarding.
Speaker 3 (26:58):
God.
Speaker 1 (27:01):
I I'm struggling here, but I actually I think I'm
gonna say. I think I'm gonna say nta nephew is?
Speaker 2 (27:08):
I agree with that?
Speaker 3 (27:08):
Nephew is?
Speaker 1 (27:09):
I mean, I do think, but I do think he
has to apologize to make this blow over. I don't
think so, but the parent Where are the parents? I
think it kind of mostly falls on the parents.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
Yeah, that's why I feel like the uncle should just
be like, bro, like, don't fuck gleek on like. I
don't think you have to say sorry. It's just like,
have a conversation with you.
Speaker 1 (27:27):
I want the nephew to say sorry first. I really do.
And that's that's why I am kind of I want
him to say I'm sorry. And he said, I'm sorry.
I shouldn't have hit you. That wasn't appropriate. But don't
spit on people.
Speaker 4 (27:38):
Bro, Dude, I know I grew up in the kind
of culture you ever here when like a parent would
do this. You'd be out, like at a target or something,
and you're the child. You're freaking out and your mom
or dad is like, you see that person over there,
they're gonna come beat you up. They would like involve
a stranger.
Speaker 1 (27:53):
And yeah, that's way scarier, yeah, because you're like, I
know what my mom can do. I don't know what
that guy exactly. All right, So we're meeting roughly at MPa. Yes,
all right, folks, my jokes. Here's our next sitch AIA
for siding with my dad in the divorce even though
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he cheated on my mom. My dad fifty two M
and my mom forty nine F separated nearly eight months
ago due to dad's affair. I seventeen F understand that
my dad is in the wrong and cheating is never okay,
But recently I found myself resenting my mom due to
her reaction to the divorce. She put voice recorders in
all her vehicles, including mine. There's no way to know
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where else they're hitden. It makes me uncomfortable to talk
out loud in my own home. She also put cameras
all around our house, hoping to catch my Dad since
he's no longer allowed in our home. She even put
one directly in front of my bedroom, which has not
been removed, even though I told her it seemed weird,
especially since I've given her no reason not to trust me.
Dad had to buy a new phone since she could
still log into his Apple idea would go through it
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as well and log into his Facebook and other social
medi Her email was the recovery email for all his passwords.
Seeing as my dad has never been good with technology,
Even after buying a new phone, she somehow still has
access to his location. I'm not sure how, but I
think she put an air tag somewhere. She checks his
location religiously and will leave at all hours of the
day to follow him if she thinks he's going to
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meet another woman. What the reason I'm asking if I'm
the asshole is because me and my mom recently got
into an argument. I've had a strained relationship with her
since she found out I was gay a year ago,
but we are civil and just don't talk about it.
This argument started because she was questioning me about my
relationship with my girlfriend and trying to tell me that
she wasn't good for me. I was annoyed because I'm
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trying to talk about my girlfriend around her to avoid
the conflict. When she brought it up, I responded without
thinking and said I don't think you should be giving
out relationship advice.
Speaker 3 (29:50):
Damn.
Speaker 1 (29:51):
She immediately started crying and saying it wasn't her fault
and I shouldn't hold that over her. I left the room,
but later we were watching TV and she reignited the
issue by venting to me about Dad and kept mentioning
how he would probably marry quote unquote some whore and
just fully shit talking my dad and saying how horrible
he was to her. I know she's upset, but I
wish she wouldn't have vent to me about this situation
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because I still love my dad and would rather not
be involved. I tried to just switch a topic, but
she doubled down, so I said, quote, it doesn't really
matter who he marries. This upset her, and she accused
me of not caring at all that they split, and
then told me I was just like him and didn't
have any emotions.
Speaker 2 (30:28):
She Louise.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
At this point, I was angry with her and said
I would rather be like my dad than her, and
I could understand what Dad would want to be with
someone else. Now she's accusing me of siding with my
dad and excusing his actions. Eighty eight.
Speaker 2 (30:41):
This feels like a really obvious result for me. But
I there's so much fucked up shit in this scenario.
Speaker 1 (30:50):
Sounds like a very normal surveillance home to me, just
a regular America.
Speaker 4 (30:55):
Now, all this stuff we don't know is what's interesting.
I feel like, right, although.
Speaker 3 (31:00):
Like, what was there really? How long they did it
say how long they were married for?
Speaker 2 (31:04):
It does not say it just says they separated nearly
eight months ago.
Speaker 1 (31:08):
Well, and they are her parents, so at least have
a deeen years they were together. They had a run.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Yeah, I guess that's true.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
Probably.
Speaker 2 (31:14):
My thing is like, oh, because they're not divorced yet,
they're separated in the divorce, so it's happening.
Speaker 4 (31:21):
Currently, so she needs all that evidence to be able
to win as much of the money and the stuff
or whatever.
Speaker 1 (31:25):
But that doesn't feel like that's not where this is
coming from.
Speaker 2 (31:28):
Oh yeah, absolutely not.
Speaker 1 (31:30):
And that's a monus that she'll say that's probably true
as well, I don't disagree with that, but this is
an emotional thing.
Speaker 2 (31:36):
I think it's emotional, but I also think that rod
dou has a point where it is emotional also leads
to like catching in the act, like you getting AMMO,
like collecting AMMO to use in your emotional fight, which
is like you continue to do this and you don't
even respect me when you do this, and I have
proof that you said this and did this and blah
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blah blah, and that's like very attack for sure. I
feel like the mom is really hurt that she got
cheated on.
Speaker 1 (32:05):
I think she's the rails.
Speaker 4 (32:07):
I think she's extremely hurt, and but also maybe just
like having to do this the part like when you're
before you're divorce, when you're separated or whatever, and you're
like there's lawyers instructing both of you on what to
do and you're like, I don't even know if I
want to do this, but they're like, this is your
best bet. That's the craziest time you will ever have
a brain.
Speaker 3 (32:26):
I bet.
Speaker 1 (32:26):
Yeah, yeah, I'm not really bound aside with her. I
think I know everything I need to know about mom
from how she's treating her daughter, and I don't love her.
Speaker 4 (32:37):
Odds, Well, the daughter's saying something interesting there where they're like,
at first we got like sort of a no conflict
because she found out I'm gay. But then it doesn't
sound like she's like a homophobic She's just like, I
think you could get a better bitch.
Speaker 2 (32:50):
Yeah, cirlfriend's good for you now in the fact that
she is a girl.
Speaker 1 (32:55):
So I think you're being very generous there. She found
out since I was gay about a year ago, but
we're civil and just don't talk about it. And then
I feel like that's a pretty I feel like you're
splitting hairs in her favor. It's like, I don't like
your partner. It's like, well, is that you don't like
my partner that you don't like I'm gay?
Speaker 3 (33:12):
Yeah, we don't know.
Speaker 1 (33:12):
I don't know. No, so she doesn't like she's gay,
so it's easier to argue.
Speaker 4 (33:17):
Even when she said she's like, she's not saying that
there was any conflict. There's not saying that like her
mom was like, wait, you're gay. She's probably just we.
Speaker 1 (33:24):
Just don't talk about it about being gay.
Speaker 4 (33:26):
Sure, that's but that could be like a generational religious
whatever cultural different you know, what I mean, Like, there's
so many different sounds like.
Speaker 2 (33:32):
Keeping the peace and I hate to say that, but
it's homophobic.
Speaker 1 (33:36):
I don't think I think that that's the very least right.
Speaker 4 (33:39):
Okay, but it's like it's but there's it's like an
overcoming homophobia.
Speaker 1 (33:44):
I guess the best I can give you is there
is a level of measure, which is like, Okay, we
disagree on that, I'm not going to bring it up,
and that does show the mom can respect that one back.
Speaker 3 (33:53):
Potentially, Yeah, I can give her that.
Speaker 4 (33:56):
And I'm saying that there's like maybe a conflating going
on there where she's like, it's not even about necessary.
She's like, we just have conflict. We just don't, don't.
I don't want her to tell me about my relationship.
I don't want her to have opinions on my sexuality.
I don't want you know what I mean. Like, Plus,
this voice recorder stuff now is invasive and whatever that's invasive,
super invasive. So it's you know, I'm not even trying
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to be generous here. I'm just like, having known so
many of these weird family dynamics for a variety of reasons,
I'm like, I'm sure they had conflict way before any
of this between.
Speaker 1 (34:26):
The tat of them all, well, every every teenager as conflict.
But then you know, leaving the voice recorders in the car,
that's destroying her sense of safety, the camera outside her room,
and also it does seem like Dad's out of the house,
he's moving on, We're still tracking his location. I'm not
hearing any legal basis. I mean, these are all good
reasons that you guys are giving to like get Honestly,
I would be like, oh, she's just true.
Speaker 3 (34:48):
In more alimony, you could win.
Speaker 1 (34:50):
None of this reads a shrewd though. This reads is
someone who's emotional and on hinge.
Speaker 2 (34:53):
Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1 (34:55):
But that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (34:57):
Going through a divorce is literally using both of those
minds at the same time, where you're like, I'm losing
my fucking mind. I'm I don't know what's going on.
I'm separating from my partner. My life is falling apart affair,
and the best legal mind that I can afford is
like telling me how to be calculated and prudent and whatever.
It's not a normal way to live, but you won't
do it for longer than two years or.
Speaker 1 (35:17):
A lot of affair during good defense not to.
Speaker 2 (35:20):
Mention that cheating is deception. And I feel like what
hurts the most about cheating is not really ever knowing
the truth. And so it sounds like this is her
trying to control what she can find out and no,
at a obviously extreme level. But like the info that
I want is like did the dad ever apologize? Has
he ever had a conversation with her about what happened?
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Like did he ever make her feel like like I
don't know if somebody cheats and then is like, yeah,
it is what it is, and like I don't have
to tell you who or what we did or anything
like that makes a person spiral. You're just imagining did
you sleep with them in my bed?
Speaker 1 (35:56):
Did you?
Speaker 2 (35:57):
Is it somebody that I know? Is it my sister?
You know?
Speaker 1 (36:00):
So she also has some vitriol here, some whore. Not
a fan of that talk. No, that's terrible, that's terrible. Yeah.
Top comment when E sh your dad for cheating your
mom for unhinged, toxic behavior. I know you're only seventeen,
but you're old enough to know your comments are hurtful.
You'll need to do a lot of work on yourself
if you ever want to break the cycle toxic behavior
you've inherited from both parents. Top descending comment, tiny cryptographer,
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I like that, just a little tiny good NTA. Your
mom needs to vent to our friends or a therapist.
She should be putting you in the middle. Yeah, that's true.
Your dad was wrong for cheating and your mom is
wrong for how she's treating you. The whole situation sucks.
Hope it gets better for you.
Speaker 2 (36:38):
Oh that's nice, and I agree. I think that's something
as you get older as a kid or as a child,
your parents do start to treat you like a friend.
But if it's too soon and you're young in sixteen
seventeen and they're like, oh, well your father did that,
it's like, you shouldn't be kidding me against people, and
I'm against that unless it's something crazy.
Speaker 1 (36:59):
My dad was always very clear. He's like, you're not
my friend.
Speaker 2 (37:02):
My mom friend.
Speaker 1 (37:04):
Is that funny to you? Is that funny to you?
Why is that funny?
Speaker 4 (37:08):
I think my dad was like that growing up, and
then it switched into one day he was like, you're
my best friend.
Speaker 3 (37:13):
I don't have.
Speaker 1 (37:17):
Wow, that's better than me.
Speaker 2 (37:19):
I literally told my mom she was my best friend.
And she was like, that's nice. I don't oh, I'm
your best friend. She's like, no, mothers and daughters can't
be best friends. And I'm like, what are you talking about.
Speaker 1 (37:30):
I feel like it's a it's a great grasp of
the role. You know, now there will come a point
where it switches where like he's my parent, but then
there is hopefully as late as possible, where you become
your parents parent, because absolutely.
Speaker 4 (37:43):
No I got I got to watch my dad go
through that with his dad, where like literally it was
like there was one day he was like everything he
said was like advice he would take from his father.
And then the next day he was like, you piss
your pants twelve times a day. You don't know where
you are.
Speaker 3 (37:56):
I'm your dad now, Like.
Speaker 2 (38:00):
Me, that's the only reason we need to have children,
so that we have parents when we seed.
Speaker 1 (38:05):
That, Yeah, isn't it?
Speaker 4 (38:06):
Like And there's a part of me that's like, what's
the cost there that I can avoid, you know, is
ten thousand dollars at the end of my life, you
could just say, better than spending a million dollars or
whatever it cost to raise a kid.
Speaker 1 (38:17):
For you, just make a young friend. I mean I
don't really think it's cost effective. I think the reason
to have kids is so you can have little servants.
That's true. Yeah, I'm totally joking. I mean share the
mysteries and wonders of life with.
Speaker 2 (38:31):
Of course, we're all good people and deserve to have
little clones.
Speaker 3 (38:34):
Do you want for yourself?
Speaker 2 (38:36):
I would like to have a kids. I've always wanted
to adopt, but I would love to have a kid
of my own, just because I'm just such a cool
person and I'm like, imagine more of me weird Listen, fans,
in a world where a lot of stupid people are
breeding real fast, we need to You want just one, No,
I would like to have at least two, or at
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least two childbirths, so.
Speaker 1 (39:00):
Don't seem like a kid one.
Speaker 4 (39:00):
I'm like a child soldier kind of guy. I'll hang
out with the trained ones. But I don't want to.
Speaker 3 (39:05):
I don't want to raise. I want to I don't
want a child rear.
Speaker 1 (39:08):
I want three because I feel like two is too stable.
Are you an only child? No? I have a brother.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
Oh.
Speaker 3 (39:14):
Everyone says, they're like, you should never have just one
doing nothing?
Speaker 1 (39:18):
You need only children tend to be a little bit world.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
It's interesting. And if you have two children, they raise
each other and then it's easier on YouTube.
Speaker 1 (39:25):
So I have no idea if you're joking when you're
saying these things, but you're starting to freak me out.
I don't want you to have kids right now. What
do you mean they don't raise each other? That's crazy.
Speaker 2 (39:33):
Well, they raise each other company you don't. They're not
like like, if you.
Speaker 4 (39:37):
Have just one, you have to be there everything.
Speaker 1 (39:41):
Yeah, then stuff with that much? Yes, too much?
Speaker 2 (39:43):
And then like also your brother who's three years older
starts to talk to you about the sex talk and
you don't have you know, it's like there you go.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
There's a little bit of that. It's good trickle trickle
down upbringing. That's funny. Okay, So my I I do
really think though, here o P is a child and
they're being put in the middle of this, and that
is on mom. I. Even if I go as hard
as I possibly can and say, oh, this is a reaction,
he's gaslighting her, he's toxic and this is all reactions
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to that terrible place, it's still not okay.
Speaker 3 (40:13):
That it's still a terrible place to be for a kid.
Speaker 1 (40:15):
Exactly, And it's not fair for her to do this
to her daughter, and I can't forgive her for that, agreed,
I can say I will. I am backing off. I
think RODUI mounted some pretty good defenses on like, because
this is shrewd. Let's face it, it's all evidence. It's
all fucking evidence. There's really no way around that. I can,
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I can, I can. I was ready to almost call
mom the asshole, but no, it's an e sh In
other words, mom and dad of the asshole, OPI is not.
That's where I'm at.
Speaker 2 (40:45):
So wouldn't that be not the asshole.
Speaker 1 (40:47):
Not the asshole? And they are? Yeah, I.
Speaker 4 (40:52):
Did a lot of that, like amounting and defense for
the mom or whatever, and I'm like, I'm not even
necessarily taking her side. I'm just saying, like, how much
context you necessarily need to really get out to the
bottom of these.
Speaker 3 (41:03):
I think I think. I think the mom might be The.
Speaker 1 (41:08):
Cheating is so hard, especially cheating on someone who's forty nine.
It's like, that's supposed to be that thing's supposed to
be done. Bro Mtai with that family dog and your
NTA for the daughter, and the mom might be the
both parents might be the assholes. Really here.
Speaker 4 (41:23):
Yeah, even if the dad's coming off cooler of like
well whatever, You're like, no, this you started this ship.
Speaker 1 (41:28):
Well he's barely mentioned really you know what I'm saying.
It's either really good or really bad.
Speaker 4 (41:33):
It's one of two things where you're like it she
has a narrative already about this mom, and you're like,
if I add any other stuff about the dad's going
to make it seem like oh, fifty to fifty whatever.
Speaker 3 (41:43):
Or he's done.
Speaker 4 (41:44):
He's like realized how much he done fucked up, and
he's like, I got to just do the right thing
with the child and this and whatever.
Speaker 2 (41:49):
I feel like she would say that though his lack
of information gives to me that this girl lives with
her mom. Is with her mom, popten, that's the thing.
And now it's easy to decide with her dad because
she doesn't.
Speaker 1 (42:01):
He's not there exist and it falls into a trope. Yeah, right,
and she's the absentee father, not the absentee.
Speaker 4 (42:06):
What I want to hear back is two weeks after
she lives with her dad, and she's eating nothing but
like spaghettios and like cinnamentas crunch with no milk, and
she's like I want my crazy mom that DAPs my
fucking conversations and knows how to make.
Speaker 1 (42:19):
Yeah, it's almost like I saw him as being less culpable,
but he's just not around.
Speaker 5 (42:24):
He might choose to be busy. He's fucking each other girl. Yeah,
he's of shit. So I think we're actually our lined
up NTA and they are. Yes, yep, oh right, folks,
thanks for subscribing. I really appreciate it, and we're gonna
wrap up on Ai t A for snapping at my
mom after she tried to force me to learn sign language.
Speaker 1 (42:45):
My thirteen M wow. Young submitter Mom thirty five f wow.
She's my age has been dating her now fiance, thirty
eight M Jeremy for two years. Five months ago he
proposed to her and they got engaged and moved into
get and now they are planning their wedding. I am
cool with this. I really like Jeremy. They were friends
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before they started dating, so I met and got close
to him before he started dating my mom.
Speaker 2 (43:09):
Nice.
Speaker 1 (43:09):
I think he's really cool and I am happy for
my mom. My issue is with his annoying and arrogant son.
He's only two years older than me, so fifteen M
but it acts like he's too cool to hang out
with me. He treats me like a little kid, but
there's only two years between us. I will call him
Dean Dean's death and has to use a device called
cochlear implants to hear, but he can't wear all the
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time because apparently hearing can be exhausting for him. To
be honest, I think it's an excuse to avoid hanging
out with us, but that's what he says anyway. He
and Jeremy both know sign language, but my mom and
I don't. My mom has started learning after she got
engaged with Jeremy, and she's pressuring me to learn too,
But I'm refusing because I don't want to spend time
learning a whole language for him when he clearly doesn't
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even like me. Mom says, I'm being disrespectful because we
now basically live together. He comes to stay with Jeremy
on the weekends. I live with mam Fuls, so unfortunately
I have to stay with Dean on weekends. Two days ago,
my mom, in front of Jeremy, started telling me about
this great ASL tutor she found online and how she's
thinking of signing me up for our classes. I lost
my temper, yelled and told her I don't want to
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and just stop pressuring me. I was told to go
to my room for yelling at her, and was grounded
for a day for using that word. I know I
shouldn't have used that word, but aiita, I have.
Speaker 2 (44:24):
Two hard things. One, I am so lucky. I've never
been in a position to be forced to be like
in a relationship, like have a relationship with someone that
sucks like that, like step siblings. Ugh, Like that could
go so wrong. Second, knowledge is power. Bro, you learn
that sign language and you fuck him up with it.
(44:44):
He doesn't want to be around you. You want him
to talk shit about you and sign language and you
don't know what the fuck he's saying. You better learn
sign language.
Speaker 1 (44:51):
This could be I here's the thing.
Speaker 4 (44:52):
This is like, this could be one conversation in front
of everybody with Jeremy be like, do you even want
me to learn sign languagerem I don't care.
Speaker 3 (45:01):
It's over Like they could just be that.
Speaker 1 (45:03):
Yeah, I don't think you would care. And I think
that's actually a great freaking argument.
Speaker 2 (45:09):
Yeah, it's the mom who cares.
Speaker 1 (45:11):
It's the mom who cares, and the mom is trying
to do stuff, and to me, this is just very disrespectful.
It's like this kid's thirteen. Let's face it, sign language
if we're going to go to practical town, which I
feel is like kind of way you're arguing. It's like sorry,
but sign language is not it. If you're into sign
language and you want to learn Si language, that's wonderful,
that's great. I think that's beautiful. But like Mandarin's the answer, folks,
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it's the Chinese century, Like, let's fucking go.
Speaker 4 (45:35):
Can you imagine how good your mom's getting her back
blown out? You have to learn a whole new language.
Speaker 1 (45:40):
I know right, she's like she's got it. She can't
even talk after. That's how good it is. Bro.
Speaker 3 (45:47):
Also, this is my one qualm with the death.
Speaker 1 (45:52):
This we're gonna have, we're gonna get canceled this.
Speaker 3 (45:54):
They had the greatest opportunity to make like a universal language,
and instead they all did.
Speaker 1 (46:00):
He's just going to bring that regional version. It's it's
American side.
Speaker 3 (46:03):
Why is that because we're racist and stupid?
Speaker 1 (46:06):
We didn't want to. It's literally that they.
Speaker 3 (46:08):
Didn't want to, like be I don't want Italian? Still understand, Like,
is there.
Speaker 1 (46:11):
Something with syntax or something that it's more intuitive the
potentially got There's no way there was to my joke.
Speaker 4 (46:19):
Couldn't it be funnier if deaf American guys and death
Chinese guys.
Speaker 3 (46:23):
Can just understand each other?
Speaker 1 (46:24):
The Chinese guy, Yeah, I mean, I don't know about that.
There's like a whole metal language thing. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (46:34):
I suspect asl people right now freaking out by the
way and the obviously you can't say horse the same
way or whatever.
Speaker 1 (46:41):
Danny from the edit here had to call us out
on this one. I understand the common sense idea that
sign language should be universal, but it's just as crazy
as saying any language should be universal. The reason it's
not because sign language developed just like every other language locally.
That's how people talk. I don't think we should blame
(47:03):
the death for that. That's what I'm trying to say.
I was never flaming universal communication.
Speaker 2 (47:10):
YEO.
Speaker 1 (47:10):
Imagine aliens come to Earth and they're like, ah, the
deaf people, fuck us, We're not learning twenty languages, y'all
alien right.
Speaker 3 (47:19):
I retract my call with my harbor, no ill will
with the death.
Speaker 1 (47:24):
So yeah, I don't know for me. It's like it
doesn't matter that it's ASL. Could be anything. It could
be English, it could be Spanish, whatever. It's like, this
is a person that I don't want to get close to.
You're trying to You're trying to put this on me
really for no other purposes, because it's like it's convenient
to make that argument. But then it's like, so what
are you really trying to do. So are you trying
to say I should learn a second language, Great, then
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let me pick the second language, which I don't think
that's that unreasonable, But for a thirteen year old, I'm
kind of like live and let live, honey.
Speaker 2 (47:52):
Well, I think the mom just wants the two brothers
to bond. They're now in a family together. I think
it's graceful, and I don't think that she should like
be forcing her son to learn signlanguage just for Dean
or whatever his name is. But like I get her
wanting to be like, hey, this is how maybe you
guys could connect more or whatever. But if the guy,
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if the kid is being just a straight asshole and
he's like I don't want to hang out with you,
then like I.
Speaker 1 (48:16):
Want to hang out. Yeah, Hey, do a lot of
hard stuff so he can hate you more, Like why we.
Speaker 2 (48:22):
Could just play video games?
Speaker 1 (48:23):
That's universal, that's true. Get a freaking controller in there.
Please don't refer to me crazy user name Yta. It's
not excuse. People who are born deaf, as I assumed
Dean was, can easily get overwhelmed and exhausted while using
cochlear implants. Even some people who are born hearing get
overwhelmed by sounds. I'd recommend doing some research into auditory
fatigue and can help you understand how I suspect Dean
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feels when he uses his cochlear implants for a prolonged
period of time.
Speaker 2 (48:49):
And imagine listening to someone you don't fucking like that.
Speaker 1 (48:52):
I feel like, but I feel like this comment is like, no, bro,
that's not some what he said.
Speaker 2 (48:56):
I think he's just arguing a point to where he said.
I think he just doesn't want to hang out with us.
But I think the cocular implant fatigue is real because
I have a friend.
Speaker 1 (49:04):
Of course, No, I mean I have that with like
contact lenses or like pants that fit shit condoms, you know. No,
I totally get that. I'm not saying it, But the
fact is, like the reason this guy, the reason the
thirteen year old thinks it's an excuse is because it
is because he's not making an effort to hang out otherwise. See,
that would make me think he's an asshole. If Dean
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was like, I'm sorry, I don't want to do my
cocular implants, but I still want to spend time with you,
and then it was like they couldn't they couldn't hang
out because they can't communicate, then I'd be like, yeah,
he like, why don't you just try to learn a
little bit? But I'm like, that's clearly not the situation.
Speaker 4 (49:41):
Let's focus on the worst case scenario he does learn
asl just for Dean to be like, you suck.
Speaker 1 (49:46):
Yeah, fuck you. He just said you mom' fuck you.
Speaker 2 (49:53):
If I was the kid, I would want to know.
Speaker 1 (49:55):
I don't know, I want to know.
Speaker 2 (49:57):
I would want to slowly. If I have an enemy,
I'm not going to let you have a whole language,
I don't understand. Sorry.
Speaker 4 (50:03):
Scenario you're at the nail salon. Yeah you want to
know what they're saying about your feet?
Speaker 2 (50:08):
Yeah I have beautiful yet you want to see them.
Speaker 1 (50:12):
Keep your shoes on, keep your socks on. In my house.
This is farkle Gate all over again.
Speaker 3 (50:15):
I don't care how far into Patreon we are.
Speaker 1 (50:20):
Yeah, I just I feel like this is oh wow,
really long dissenting comment. Nta hearing impaired person here. I
have a bone to pick with Radu. He is a
bigot for what he said. I'm just kidding. I started
wearing hearing aids when I was a child. I never
expect anyone to learn any language from me. Hearing loss
is my burden, no one else's. I asked my friend
(50:40):
group with the same condition. They agree, stand your ground,
not your responsibility. Your mom can ask you and you
compolitely say no. When she breaks it up again, tell
her you've already given your answer multiple times and you
refuse to discuss it. She needs to show you respect
and consideration. Mom's driving you away. Blah blah blah blah blah.
Tell your mom and or BF that if his son
eventually changes his behavior towards you, then you might emphasize
might consider sign language, But right now, with his behavior,
(51:02):
you have no reason to take the class. I think
that's kind of sure. It's like, if he takes a
step forward, you should meet the step. And I think
learning his language or how he naturally speaks easiest is
very reasonable. But if he's stepping away from you, it's like,
why would I step towards someone who's stepping away from me?
Speaker 2 (51:17):
That's very valid, doesn't make any sense valid.
Speaker 1 (51:20):
As for snapping out my mom and that she tried
to force me to learn sign language, I think it's
nta and she is, Yep, yeah, I honestly don't even
blame him. I'm like, two years actually is a pretty
big gap at fifteen, and I'm like, yeah, he's not
interested in a rando thirteen year old, Like what what
is that? That's a eighth grader compared to a sixth grader?
That was huge back then.
Speaker 2 (51:40):
Y'all right, Oh, I completely.
Speaker 3 (51:42):
Agree, honestly, like the ninth grader with the seventh grader, a.
Speaker 1 (51:45):
Freshman in a seventh grader, that's like, that's honestly like
me dating a twenty year old, Like that's huge in
those eras.
Speaker 2 (51:50):
That's crazy. You know, it's a good thing that this
isn't Mother's Day because all three of these scenarios we've
called the mother the asshole.
Speaker 1 (52:00):
You pick these situations, Carla, Why are you making me
look bad? Mommy? Moms can moms can be assholes. It's
a tough job. It's true, a tough job. That's one
of the toughest parts about it.
Speaker 2 (52:09):
It's very true.
Speaker 3 (52:09):
Ladies be pimps too.
Speaker 1 (52:13):
I didn't say that. I don't quote me on that. Well,
I mean, and I like what you said, Carlo. She
is trying to nurture this relationship. But I think that's
also part of maybe what's hard is like, maybe this
this isn't really a relation. I mean, I wasn't close
to my brother all so it became basically like adults.
Speaker 2 (52:29):
Yeah, well you're far apart. Yeah that's me and my
brother are nine years apart. But he was always like
I see home videos of us, and he was always
like my big brother. I don't really remember those times.
It's kind of sad. But then when I was in
high school, that's when I had a boyfriend who cheated
on me and my brother was like what he And
that was the first time on MySpace. He was like,
(52:51):
tell him, you don't know if I have a gun.
You don't know if I have a knife. And I
was like, bro, you're moving into my top eight.
Speaker 1 (52:58):
Bro, I love it.
Speaker 3 (53:00):
That's great.
Speaker 1 (53:01):
So we do agree, not the asshole and Mama. Sorry guys,
thanks for listening. Sorry, sorry that we were so anti mom.
This episode is Carlo's get working out some ship, but
we love her.
Speaker 2 (53:11):
I love my mom.
Speaker 1 (53:13):
I love my mom too. Moms are good. Pretty good
that moms are good, more comfortable as the episode goes on. Yeah,
he's really slapching. I'm actually we want.
Speaker 2 (53:30):
You to thank you.
Speaker 1 (53:32):
All right, guys, we'll see you next time.
Speaker 2 (53:34):
My mama's
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