Can't seem to figure out why you and your spouse argue over that same dumb thing? It's exhausting, isn't it? In today's episode, we're going to talk about why that pattern exists and what we can do to break it. As a licensed marriage and family therapist, I understand that couples often fall into repetitive arguments that seem trivial but are rooted in deeper issues. This episode dives into the dynamics of our nervous systems, how they are shaped, and how they influence our interactions with our spouse.
Chapters:
00:00:00 - Introduction
00:00:48 - Understanding the Problem
00:01:25 - The Role of the Nervous System
00:05:42 - The Clash of Different Nervous Systems in Marriage
00:08:22 - Breaking the Pattern
00:12:10 - Real Life Application
00:16:04 - The Process of Remapping
00:21:27 - The Goal: Intimacy in Key Relationships
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