Ask the Planner with Desirée Adams: A Wedding and Event Planning Podcast

Ask the Planner with Desirée Adams: A Wedding and Event Planning Podcast

With over 225K downloads and over 150 episodes, the Ask the Planner podcast gives sophisticated couples like you expert tips on how to style, plan, and execute a thoughtfully curated wedding. Every week, join your host Desirée Adams as she interviews leading wedding industry experts and discusses the often-overlooked details that take weddings from pretty parties to heirloom occasions. Hear how to manage vendors, avoid surprises, and plan your day with honest advice from a pro. New episodes drop every Monday. If you want to binge on past episodes or learn more about the show, visit http://asktheplannerpodcast.com.You can also send questions or suggestions for future topics or guests via your Apple Podcast review, text us at (585) 210-9485, or email asktheplannerpodcast@gmail.com. Don't forget to follow the show on Instagram and join our broadcast channel @asktheplannerpodcast!

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April 21, 2025 42 mins

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Inclusivity in weddings goes way beyond using the right language on your invitations. It’s about representation, intention, and creating a space where every couple—and every guest—feels seen, celebrated, and respected.

To help us dig into what that really looks like in today’s wedding industry, we’re talking to Brittny Drye, Founder and Editor-in-Chief of Love Inc., a leading equality-minded wedding ...

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Today we’re talking about something that comes up all the time when I’m working with couples—and honestly, it’s one of the biggest sources of confusion when you’re planning a wedding: the difference between a wedding planner and a venue coordinator.


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Wedding insurance isn’t about expecting the worst—it’s about making sure that if something unexpected happens, you’re covered. Because let’s face it—wedding planning is already stressful enough without worrying about losing thousands of dollars over something out of your control.

To help us break it all down, today we’re talking to Dustin Lemick from BriteCo to answer all of our wedding and event ins...

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Engagement rings and bands are something that never go out of style. Yet the styles themselves? They’re always evolving.

Whether you're newly engaged, deep into wedding planning, or helping a client pick the perfect piece, this episode is for anyone who believes that your rings should be just as unique as your relationship. Because yes, it’s about the sparkle—but it’s also about the sentiment be...

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Finding your wedding venue should feel exciting, not stressful—but let’s be honest, not every venue is as perfect as it seems on Instagram. Hidden fees, slow responses, and vague contracts can turn what looks like your dream location into a logistical nightmare.

If you’re in the middle of your venue search, this episode is for you. Today, we’re talking about the red flags you need to watch for when t...

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There’s something magical about saying “I do” in a breathtaking destination—whether it’s a romantic villa on the Amalfi Coast, a sun-soaked beach in the Caribbean, or a charming château in the French countryside. After all, a destination wedding is more than just a celebration; it’s an opportunity to bring your closest friends and family together for an unforgettable experience.

And while planning a ...

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Wedding receptions are evolving, and cocktail-style celebrations are having a major moment. They’re chic, modern, and full of energy—a perfect way to create a social, laid-back atmosphere where guests can mix, mingle, and enjoy an unforgettable evening. But before you trade in the traditional sit-down dinner for passed hors d’oeuvres and lounge seating, there are a few things you need to consider. 

F...

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Have you ever watched a Broadway show and wondered how everything comes together so flawlessly? The perfect lighting, the seamless scene changes, the actors hitting every cue—it all feels effortless. But we all know that behind the curtain, there’s a whole world of planning, rehearsing, and managing moving parts that make that magic happen.

Well, weddings are no different. A beautifully executed wedd...

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Picture this: You walk into your wedding reception, and everything is breathtaking—the tables, the candles, the ambiance—but what truly ties it all together? The flowers.

Florals have the power to transform a space, set the mood, and add that perfect touch of romance and elegance. But with so much to consider, many couples get overwhelmed with the floral selection and design process.

Thanks to one of ...

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When it comes to wedding planning, your invitations are more than just a piece of paper—they’re the first glimpse into the celebration you’re creating. From setting the tone for your big day to ensuring they arrive flawlessly in your guests’ hands, there’s an art to mailing your invitations with confidence.

To help guide us through the process, we sat down with Jaime, a seasoned stationery designer w...

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The Super Bowl may be over, but I’m still thinking about the strategy, teamwork, and high-stakes execution that made it all happen. And honestly? Wedding planning is no different. Just like a championship-winning team, a wedding day comes together with months of preparation, the right players in place, and the ability to handle any last-minute surprises. So today, we’re breaking down what wedding pr...

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Today's episode is all about one of the most personal—and sometimes nerve-wracking—parts of a wedding: the vows and speeches. Writing your own vows can feel overwhelming, and giving a toast in front of a room full of people? Well, let’s just say it’s not everyone’s idea of fun. But don’t worry! Our guest today is here to help you let go of the anxiety and embrace the magic of speaking from the ...

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Choosing the perfect wedding venue is one of the biggest decisions in the planning process, and yet, so many couples make costly mistakes along the way. From overlooking key details to skipping expert advice, these missteps can lead to stress, unexpected expenses, and even regret. But don’t worry—I’m here to help! 

As a luxury wedding planner, I’ve seen it all, and today, I’m breaking down ...

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When planning a wedding, most couples focus on the fun and exciting details—choosing the perfect venue, designing invitations, and curating a playlist for the dance floor. But there’s one important topic that often gets overlooked: prenups.

 We covered:

  • 00:00 Understanding Prenups: A Foundation for Trust
  • 02:51 Demystifying Prenups: Myths and Misconceptions
  • 06:02 The Emotional Aspect of Prenups: More...
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Hey loverves! If you’ve been following along for a while, you might’ve noticed something a little different about us recently. That’s right—we’ve had a rebrand (and have shiny new podcast cover art to prove it).

Now, rebranding is more than just a fresh logo or a new color palette—it’s about redefining who we are, what we stand for, and how we connect with you, our amazing loverves. So today, I wante...

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Today, we’re diving into the fascinating world of wedding photography—but not just any wedding photography. We’re exploring the art and skill it takes to capture stunning images at some of the most beautiful, complex, and high-pressure events imaginable. From celebrity weddings to intimate celebrations, weddings are packed with stories, surprises, and moments you only get one chance to preserve.

 We ...

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Today, we're going to explore that "what's next" feeling you might be having after you've booked your "main" wedding vendors. It's a huge accomplishment to have found and booked those vendors, and as a wedding planner, I know that it can bring a HUGE sigh of relief feeling like "the hard part is over". However, it's important to remember that th...

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In this episode, I’m answering your questions in an Ask Me Anything session. I’ll share how I got started as a wedding planner, some of the most unusual and challenging moments I’ve encountered at weddings, and my thoughts on the industry. Whether you’re planning your own wedding, working as a vendor, or just curious about what goes on behind the scenes, I hope you’ll enjoy these stories and insight...

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Today, we're diving into a topic that's incredibly important, especially for anyone planning a wedding or event: sustainability in catering. Sustainability often feels like one of those buzzwords we hear everywhere, but what does it really mean in the context of weddings and events? What does it actually take to make catering sustainable? Are there trade-offs or limitations we should consi...

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Today, we’re chatting about the magic of winter weddings. They might seem tricky to plan, but with the right approach, they’re unforgettable. From unpredictable weather and transportation to stylish, non-holiday-themed decor, I’ve got tips to help you nail every detail. 

We’ll cover real challenges like road closures and limited florals, plus how to turn them into opportunities. By the end,...

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