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April 22, 2024 37 mins

Many women find themselves trapped in ‘good girl conditioning’ which leaves them people-pleasing, avoiding conflict, playing small and feeling held back in their expression.

For a woman to step into her healthy, mature divine feminine energy, become fully expressed and embody your full power, her inner good girl will need to die.

In this episode, I talk you through how to unravel from good-girl conditioning, heal from people-pleasing at a root cause level and start showing up in new and empowered ways. 

In this episode, I cover:

  • What good girl conditioning is and where it comes from
  • Examples of wounded feminine and masculine energies 
  • Why guilt and fear are signs your inner good girl is playing out 
  • Signs that you’re stuck in good girl conditioning 
  • My personal journey of healing my inner good girl and how I broke free
  • The key tools and practices that helped me find my true, authentic self
  • What people-pleasing is and why we do it
  • People-pleasing is a fawning, trauma response 
  • Working through the fear of no longer pleasing others
  • The keys to healing good girl conditioning & people-pleasing at a root cause level
  • How to take new empowered actions guided by your divine feminine 


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Episode show notes: https://conniechapman.com/good-girl-conditioning-people-pleasing

Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/YLN_ifWsJdU

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Thanks for tuning in! Connie x

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