120. The Covert Grooming Tactics of Human Predators | Ehren Dorsey

Ehren Dorsey discusses the grooming tactics of human predators and how those tactics affect our bodies and minds, especially in relationships.

00:00 In this episode... 03:28 Grooming defined 04:24 Analogies to explain skilled predators 06:17 Manipulators will be your friend or lover 06:53 Storytelling in manipulation 08:31 Why do we assume people are safe? 09:21 Storytelling techniques of predators 17:31 How manipulators rearrange your psyche 23:40 Learning to recover and soothe yourself 25:11 Rebuilding your mind after grooming 29:01 Modeling, stereotypes, and nuance 32:34 The danger of black & white thinking (splitting) 35:59 Nuance is healing 38:52 Neglecting Yourself 41:18 Trusting your opinion 44:17 The risk of secrets and lying to yourself 45:54 Feedback: Ehren's Rule of Three 46:56 Why and How Predators Isolate Us 47:42 Certainty is a vulnerability 48:14 Metaphor and visual thinking 49:25 Why storytelling controls people 52:04 Anger and the need to recover 53:51 Becoming a high fashion model 55:01 Being cased. Accepting a role. 57:31 How roles are used to control us 1:00:24 Predators want to rearrange your psyche 1:01:34 Flying Monkeys fall for splitting 1:03:17 How Ehren tests men on dates 1:04:35 Fame 1:05:18 Dangerous Role: The Royal Couple 1:06:11 Confidence 1:08:18 Lasting effects of grooming 1:10:16 How to rebuild after a narcissist 1:14:10 Superstition and Conspiracy Theories to Control Us 1:17:41 Shared Fantasy and Casing Victims 1:19:50 Facades and Lies 1:21:25 Data Collection and Stalking 1:23:10 Evil and Spirituality in Abuse 1:24:37 How to protect your mind 1:27:34 Ehren's book 1:27:59 find Ehren's Journal online 1:28:19 What makes a healthy relationship? 1:30:32 SHARE this episode. Raise awareness about narcissistic abuse.

DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider.

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RELATED LINKS

Dr. Karen Mitchell on Human Predators: https://youtu.be/KcfuSbHbEoc

Dr. Peter Salerno on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtM

Dr. George Simon on Narcissists and Manipulation: https://youtu.be/rThlIF1Hzp4

Prof. Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/MVulOdCa1YU

Dr. Kerry McAvoy on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/lkxBdZs2VLk

Rick Ross on Narcissists and Mind Control: https://youtu.be/Xjcg9g6xYzs

Ehren Dorsey on YouTube:  @ehrensjournal 

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