Christian Singles Advice | Christian Dating Advice Tips

Dating can be one of the most exhilarating and vulnerable experiences in life, especially when you’re dating with purpose as a Christian single. You’re not just looking for fun or a fleeting connection; you’re pursuing God’s design for love, partnership, and maybe even marriage. But with that intentionality often comes a haunting fear: What if I lose this person? What if this doesn’t work out? Whether it’s due to past heartbr...

When I taught Parent Education classes, single parents dating would routinely ask this question: “When can I introduce my children to the person I am dating?” In a previous article, we discussed how difficult it is being a Christian Single Parent. But it doesn’t matter whether the single parents dating are Christian singles or unbelievers, the issues are still the same. All single parents, custodial or non-custodi...

The Bible offers insights and signs that God may not want you to give up on someone. As Christian singles,  relationships can sometimes feel like walking through a maze, with each step requiring faith and discernment. But when faced with challenges or uncertainties about persevering in a relationship, it’s crucial to seek divine guidance. This article explores ten of these signs, providing scriptural backing to help you discern God...

Christian single women often approach dating with a vision of marriage, mutual faith, and God-honoring love. However, breakups still occur—sometimes suddenly, and other times after long seasons of discernment. This article explores the top reasons why Christian single women break up with their boyfriends, offering insight into faith-driven values, emotional well-being, and relational alignment. 1. Lack of Spiritual Leadership A cor...

Cheating Boyfriends. Do you have a CB, a cheating boyfriend? And while we’re on this uncomfortable topic of cheating boyfriends, just how prevalent do you think cheating is? Well, according to the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago, 22% of girlfriends have cheating boyfriends. Okay, I know at least one sex who’s dying to know this. The good news is that only 12% of boyfriends have a girlfriend...

Is there such a thing as catfishing in Christian online dating?  Online dating has become increasingly popular, offering a convenient way for Christian singles to connect and find potential partners who share their faith and values. However, amidst the sea of genuine profiles, there are individuals with deceptive intentions who engage in catfishing. Catfishing is a term used to describe the act of creating a fake online persona to ...

Dating is exciting—full of possibility, growth, and laughter. But let’s be real: sometimes, relationships feel less like teamwork and more like running a solo marathon. If you’re a Christian single seeking a partnership that glorifies God, the stakes are even higher. So how do you know if you’re walking the dating road alone? Let’s break it down with a little humor, practical wisdom, and biblical truth. Here are 10 signs your relat...

The question of “how long should Christian couples date before getting engaged?” is one that sparks plenty of debate. Some might say, “As long as it takes to learn their favorite pizza topping,” while others might suggest a timeline that feels more like the gestation period of an elephant. Here’s the truth: there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Every relationship is unique, but there are some principles, milestones, and, yes, laugha...

A lot of singles write me wondering how to deal with sadness. I understand. It doesn’t always feel comforting when you’re alone on a Saturday night with nothing but a tub of ice cream and your thoughts. And when the holiday season rolls around? Oh boy, bring on the awkward family gatherings and unsolicited questions about your love life. But here’s the good news: sadness is not your permanent roommate. With a little faith, hu...