He Promised to Never Touch Me Again (What should I do?) – 5.21S

In this episode, we address a difficult question from a viewer about a lack of physical touch in her marriage, even while undergoing chemotherapy. We delve into the possible reasons behind her husband's behavior, including possible emotional retaliation or unresolved trauma. There is also compassionate advice on how to explore personal needs and desires, and questions to ask as you seek the right guidance to make informed decisions about the future, while we also emphasiz the importance of understanding misinterpretations, and the critical nature of aligning actions, personal values and God’s guidance. 00:00 Introduction and Question 00:34 Ouch! (making you pay) 02:20 When he needs a licensed therapist 03:12 Solution: If you DID hurt him… but (one big caveat)* 04:28 Real life examples 05:57 When his bad side comes out (one extreme example) 07:01 Solution: How to decide your next step* 09:06 Look at what he IS doing 09:46 Solution: What is God saying (and if your gut instinct isn’t in alignment)* 11:39 This might be a workable situation (unless he makes you pay elsewhere too) 13:02 He doesn’t know how to take ownership 14:03 Solution: The REAL problem of misunderstandings 15:36 Conclusion and Wrap-Up -- https://thecouplecure.com/contact-me/ - Jay and Lori's website https://pornpainhealed.com/contact-me/ - Lori's site for betrayed partners https://porniskillingme.com/contact-me/ - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery #betrayal #relationships #pornaddiction #marriageadvice