Defining a Complete Person

Part 1:
A complete person is a mature person, able to do all the things that adult life and relationship requires: give and receive love, be independent and self-sufficient, live out values honestly, be responsible, have self-confidence, deal with problems and failures, live out their talents, and have a life

Able to Forgive

Part 2:
The degree that either is less than complete as a person, the oneness will suffer under the strain of that incompleteness.

If you are asking the relationship to complete you, the relationship will break down. 

Don’t marry out of weakness, don't marry someone to make up for what you do not possess on your own, or out of your incompleteness 

Part 3:
Take responsibility for the treasures of our soul 
-feelings, attitudes, behaviors, choices, limits, desires, thoughts, values, talents, love 

Getting the help that you need

Working on yourself for YOU, not for someone else