When Pretty Isn’t Enough: Standards, Stability, And The Weight Of Being “Him”

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SPEAKER_06 (00:28):
I probably shouldn't ask you that, huh?

SPEAKER_04 (00:30):
I don't know what that means.

SPEAKER_06 (00:31):
I think it's what you need.

SPEAKER_04 (00:33):
No, you don't.
I don't know what she wassaying.

SPEAKER_01 (00:37):
Why are you playing?

SPEAKER_04 (00:38):
I still can think of you.
When the world be dreaming, youstay up and think of me.
So I'm gonna ask you now,because again, since you're
gonna start the show off, why inthe fuck?
Excuse me, why in the world wasthat why was that the song you
were playing when I walked intoday?

SPEAKER_06 (00:57):
I was trying to create some blissful energy
before the show.

SPEAKER_04 (01:02):
It's you and the dogs, it's just you and the
dogs, yeah.
That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_06 (01:09):
I'm a RB guy when I get ready to do shows.

SPEAKER_04 (01:12):
I ain't understand that.
That's what I like.
I was trying to put two and twotogether.
It's like, now what he got goingon?
Then I ain't really ever heardnobody just listening to Selena.

SPEAKER_06 (01:22):
I saw the movie the other week, yeah, and then you
know it ended with this song, soit'd been kind of stuck in my
head, and I've just beenlistening to it on and off.
Oh, okay.
I've been thinking aboutlistening to Selena and really
kind of getting into that bag.
I think that's an addeddimension that I could add to my
repertoire when I'm out here inthese streets trying to uh
entertain people.

SPEAKER_04 (01:41):
You know, it's it's a thing behind they say Selena
was that thing back in the day.
Like they said it.
I've I've never really been afan of uh Selena, but they said
she was our uh Nicki Minaj uhMexico, all over taking over the
whole world.
Who said that ignorant shit?
A bunch of folks said a lot ofthem said though.

(02:03):
I hope y'all don't listen tothem.
Well, I mean, was she not asuperstar before what happened
happened?

SPEAKER_06 (02:08):
Uh she was headed that she won a Grammy already,
so that's what I'm saying.
If she not like the Nikki Minaj,I mean she was more like a pop
star.
Isn't I mean I mean, yeah, I getwhat you're saying, but you
know, it's a little bitdifferent, man.
How I would just say she's morelike just even her her her her
journey.

SPEAKER_04 (02:28):
Nobody tell you to move that always gets starting
and it's starting early.
I know it, man.
But uh but now back to what yousaid.
So you saying it, so who wouldyou compare it to then of
today's time?

unknown (02:41):
I don't know, man.

SPEAKER_04 (02:42):
I'm gonna tell you her living it all the way out.
She uh she a swifty, she rightthere beside behind Swift or
right there beside she might shein front of Taylor Swift, but
I'm just saying, like,especially in that time, god
almighty, you had everybody.

SPEAKER_06 (02:59):
I mean, she did, and you can kind of see it like in
in her passing because you knowwe all grew up watching that
movie, and real quick, this isno disrespect to Selena or her
family, a little bit to J Lo.
Hey, that movie is actuallypretty trash.

SPEAKER_04 (03:13):
It's god awful, terrible.
It's god awful, but it's like Isay, it's it's really it's just
them different.
You seen that she's a classic.
Did she J Lo talented though?
She was talented, shit now.
You can't play, she's hot.
I mean, saying and dance sayingand dancing.
That's I mean, dancing, yeah.
Sanging and dancing, dancing.

(03:35):
You can't take nothing from me.
She did, she held a note.
Boy, I give something to herthough.
She held a note, so again, youcan't take nothing from me.
She held a note.
Like I said, I'm not braggingDean.
Bro, I listen, uh, I listened toDean saying his favorite
Tennessee, uh Tennessee whiskeythe other day.

(03:56):
It was terrible.
Oh, god awful.
I wanted to hear that, but no,but no, but seriously, though,
going back to where I was, whodo you compare to?
I don't know, man.
You gotta you just said shewasn't Nikki Minaj.
You didn't think she wasn'tTaylor Swift.

SPEAKER_06 (04:10):
I don't know, man.
MTV RIP.
RIP oh dang, that was messed up.
I wouldn't make it a dead jokeby saying M TV because MTV just
died.
RP.
That's awful.
No, but now I would look at herfrom that, like possibly being
that like uh Taylor Swift type,Beyonce type, like global
superstar, just because if youyou you think about just the

(04:32):
amount of revenue she's drivingout of Mexico, and then you do
the crossover into America, andnow you got all of North America
singing bitty bitty bumba.

SPEAKER_04 (04:42):
For you to say not Nicky Minaj, but then the jump
and say Beyonce in the sweep,like out of yeah, I was saying I
was I'm saying she'd be biggerthan Nicki Minaj.

SPEAKER_06 (04:51):
Even in that time, though, she you know she died
early.
Um I think she would have builtup to being one of those mega
stars.
Sure.
Cause I mean, think about it.
You got like the WhitneyHoustons of the world.
I'm not saying she's as talentedas Whitney, I'm just talking
about we had mega superstarsback there.
Back then.
Michael Jackson, Prince, yeah,Cher Madonna.

(05:13):
Was Cher considered a superstar?
I I think so, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (05:18):
You bang her.
I'm trying to think of what Iwas Cher song.
That that was like that.
Do you believe in love afterlove?
Yeah, that's my shit.
That's the only thing I reallyknow from Cher.
Like, that's it for real.
You banger.
I mean, she's from El Centro.
She back in that time.
Like, if I was in the 80s,talking probably talking about

(05:41):
tomorrow.
I don't know about that.

SPEAKER_06 (05:44):
She old, old, right?
Yeah, she's 79.

SPEAKER_04 (05:47):
Probably not.

SPEAKER_06 (05:48):
Oh, she got you know, Sonny and Cher, you know.
They was they was rhied againstMichael, Michael Jackson,
though.
Never mind, that's the Osmond.
I'm tripping.
Oh, but Sunny and Share ain'tit.
Sunny and share, that was agroup.

SPEAKER_04 (05:59):
No, I don't I think I heard it.

SPEAKER_05 (06:00):
They've felt over a hundred million records.

SPEAKER_04 (06:02):
I think I heard it.
What song they got?
I got you, babe.
I got you, babe.
Okay, I I got you.
I got you.
I got you.
Who was you listening to SonnyShow with your daddy?
I don't know.
I better say I really don't knowwhy even I think I don't know.
I probably done seen it in amovie or something.
You know, I got you, babe.

SPEAKER_06 (06:19):
You know, it's good that we don't have a music
podcast, it would be terrible.

SPEAKER_04 (06:23):
No, uh why?
My shit be rocking.
I know all the I know all music.
I just don't know alternativemusic for real.

SPEAKER_06 (06:32):
Like, oh, like I mean, but you have an
alternative lifestyle, so Ithink you'd be aligned with
alternative music.
I don't really, I'm kind of likeset in stone.

SPEAKER_04 (06:42):
That's just like one way.
Uh nothing alternative.
You don't even have a community.
No, none.
Absolutely not.
Sending like Rooster saying he'scoming in.
But yeah, no, you know, it's thesame link every week.

SPEAKER_06 (07:00):
Yeah, let me change my tone now, because you know
how he gets really when I startDNA, he, you know, he he he uh
no, he'll threaten to log off.

SPEAKER_04 (07:14):
But I know, but no, I'm still I was trying to just I
had seen and I was questioningthough that whole motive of you
listening to Selena when Iwalked in, because it just
didn't make sense to me.

SPEAKER_06 (07:26):
Maybe I was uh thinking of somebody, dreaming
of somebody last night.
Drop a name.

SPEAKER_01 (07:33):
No, maybe tomorrow I'll be hosing her tag because
there's no initials on well,ain't no initials.
You just said I read the B.

SPEAKER_04 (07:45):
You just said it would be somebody.
Drop a name on it.

SPEAKER_06 (07:50):
Ain't no name.
I was just I was just saying asa hypothetical.
This is a podcast.
I gotta like tell lives to thinkpeople make people think I'm
telling the truth, notnecessarily.
Or I could tell the truth andthen say I'm lying about it.
There you go, and that's mywhole point, and then you just
create a bunch of confusion, andthen you look back at your life
and you go, Boy, I've created somuch confusion for so many

(08:12):
people, and that's okay, andthat's okay.

SPEAKER_04 (08:15):
That's all right, yeah.
How was your weekend, man?
Man, it was solid, bro.
Um, which just chill acts thiswhole week.
Um, I end up having I had thelittle one all week.

SPEAKER_06 (08:27):
Um like you co-parenting.

SPEAKER_04 (08:30):
No, no, no, no, no.
BM, she was down bad thisweekend, and she was put up.
She had to get herself together,and so I was more so just locked
in with kids moving around,trying to make sure everything
was together and trying to makesure Candace Clean the service
steel number one in the world atall times.
Do you hear me?
But yeah, no, so it's that'skind of how it went.

(08:52):
And shit, Friday watched thosemighty hurricanes do work.

SPEAKER_06 (08:56):
Oh, who did they play?
Cedartown.
Cedartown, okay.
They won.

SPEAKER_04 (09:00):
Whooped.
Whooped, won when we I think itwas like 52-nother.

SPEAKER_06 (09:05):
Oh Catertown's a bad football operation.

SPEAKER_04 (09:07):
Well, this this season they rebuilding.
They are rebuilding like heavy,but they are they're a solid
program for sure.
And I mean, like the coach, Ithink the coach, this is he this
is his first year back overthere or at Cedar Sound School.
So he rebuilding, they'regetting everything back
together.
You remember they just went tothe uh they went just went to
the dome, I think, either lastyear or the year before.

(09:28):
Um making sure you know I don'tgive a fuck.
Oh, okay.
Well, yeah, they just went tothe dome.
They solid though, good program,solid program.
But Carter's gonna handlebusiness, did our thing, came on
out with a dub.
What about you, man?
Tell me something.
Homecoming weekend, tell mesomething.

SPEAKER_06 (09:44):
Golly, where do we begin?
Homecoming, man.
It was it was a busy weekend.
Yeah, spent Friday runningaround all day, grabbing all the
stuff we needed uh forhomecoming.
Uh, shout out to SpellhouseHomecoming, great time.
Uh, you know, I had to get thefood and stuff.
We started doing some cookingSaturday night, uh, cracked a
couple of beers.

(10:05):
Uh played some the guys playedsome pong.
I you know, I was off the pongtable, I was on the grill.
Uh they went out.
I stayed at the crib.
I don't try and go no clubsalready, like I'm on one.
So you didn't go out?
No.

SPEAKER_08 (10:23):
Fuck now.
It's home.

SPEAKER_06 (10:24):
Well, I had something to do um Saturday
morning that I ended upoversleeping for, but so you
missed it and still didn't goout.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Worst of yeah, yeah, yeah.
Worst of both worlds.

SPEAKER_04 (10:34):
Yeah, so I mean, what was the point?

SPEAKER_06 (10:36):
Well, I know how those club parties are at
homecoming, and it's not a greatclub experience.
Explain, but there's a bunch ofpeople, the party promoters be
on that college bullshit, andyou in there fake dapping,
hugging, and it's not reallylit, you know what I'm saying?
And for me, it was my partner's10-year reunion, it wasn't mine.

(10:58):
Uh, it wasn't my reunion, so itwasn't even like I wouldn't even
I didn't know all the people andstuff that's gonna primarily be
there and stuff.
So I wouldn't have fun eitherway.
You didn't see me say what's upto you.
Oh nah I ain't hear nothing.
I heard you already late here,though.
And log in playing like playingthe game, ain't even looking

(11:19):
into the camera.

SPEAKER_07 (11:20):
He looking at the damn TV.
Man, I'm gambling, man.
I need the rent to score ninepoints in the second half.

SPEAKER_06 (11:26):
So you know it don't change, it don't change what he
does if you check the box scoreversus watching it though.
Hey, don't tell me what to dowhen I'm gambling.

SPEAKER_07 (11:39):
I like to watch.
Do you need to call the hotline?

SPEAKER_06 (11:44):
I don't do this often.
You know, I might have to bringthis segment to the show because
I was talking about this duringhomecoming weekend with Parlay
P.
What bets exist?
Like, what bet did your friendmake when you stink?
Hey, maybe he should call thehotline.

SPEAKER_04 (12:04):
Uh I mean, personally, me no bet is too big
if you feel like you can hit it.
That's just my opinion.
Like, if you if you chase, Imean if you chasing it, again,
that's a whole differentconversation.
If you start chasing the win,that's different.

SPEAKER_06 (12:19):
If you feel like how I felt when Terrence Crawford
fought Spence, see, you'retalking about a dollar figure.
What if I told you I wasgambling on like preseason WNBA
basketball?
Would you be concerned about mehaving a gambling problem?

SPEAKER_04 (12:36):
Yeah, yeah, because again, yeah, I mean, kinda, kind
of, but again, that's that'skind of yeah, for sure.
Hell yeah, I ain't nowhere.

SPEAKER_07 (12:49):
I got a homeboy so deep in it, he'll play keno, and
if he ain't hit on kino, he'llgo straight to the ding machine
and then he'll keep rolling.
Professional gambler.

SPEAKER_04 (13:01):
I know that boy you're talking about.
He probably should call thehotline.

SPEAKER_07 (13:06):
No, this is this what he do.
This this is what he does for uhfor milk and bread, baby.
You know what I mean?

SPEAKER_04 (13:13):
Keep the pole man fed, he just ain't power ain't
eating milk and bread.
He's a bread and meat.
He's a whole hog.

SPEAKER_06 (13:25):
Uh, but no, homecoming was fun.
We had this our first yearhaving our own tent.
It was super dope having our owntent because we, you know, we
had our own vibes, everythingover there.
You know, shout out to mamaboink holding it down.
She really helped out, uh,keeping the keeping the riff
raff away.
Because golly boy, them damnthem damn them damn flies see

(13:46):
some food and they just get toflocking.

SPEAKER_04 (13:49):
That's real.

SPEAKER_06 (13:49):
And you gotta just shoe them away all day, even the
male flies.
You know, a grown man, speech.
Yeah, you know, a grown man cameand asked me for a burger.

SPEAKER_04 (13:58):
Yeah, well, I mean again, AC now.
This black, we black brothers.
We have y'all more house men.
You gotta cut, you gotta startpicking and choosing on that
shit too now.
If y'all brothers and if he amore house man, I don't I don't
know that nigga from a can ofpaint.
Who cares?

SPEAKER_06 (14:13):
He a Morehouse man.
I don't even know if he was aMorehouse man because he may he
may have been working.
Well, he was showing love still,but he's getting paid.
He worked he can go to one ofthem other food stands and buy
some food because I we we neededfood for everybody, bro.
That is I didn't we didn't evenhave no burgers left over at the
end of the day.

SPEAKER_04 (14:34):
Y'all ate it.
I bet y'all ate good though.
Yes, so again, it don't matter.
That's still your brother.
That's that ain't my brother.
I don't know that he could yourmorehouse.
Well, if he at the if he at theMorehouse program, I guarantee
he gotta have something to dowith Morehouse.
He may be working, he may gotsome friends there doing
something.
He he's showing some type oflove toward Morehouse.

(14:55):
You could have gave dog abirthday.
Y'all supposed to be locked in.
Stop, D.
You are dumb as fuck.

SPEAKER_06 (15:06):
You know, you know, you know, you know, them people,
them people didn't dare comerush my campus.
What's that?
You know, them people didn'tdelcome.
Oh, they know about I ain'tnobody paying his ass no money.
They show love, man.
Yeah, we're gonna you know whatwe showed love to a lot of
people.
We shared liquor food, drinks,all that with a bunch of people

(15:27):
who I didn't know, and and and Iand that was nice, but that man
who came and asked me for aburger, he asked the wrong
person.
He should have just askedsomebody else, and he probably
would have got one.

SPEAKER_04 (15:38):
You a serious ass.
I turned women away.
I guarantee you didn't.
Well, no, no, never mind.
I guarantee you.
Yeah, they look too.

SPEAKER_06 (15:49):
Yeah, I yeah, I turned away some some some nice
shit too.

SPEAKER_04 (15:51):
I guarantee you didn't, and I want to see the
nice shit you're talking about.

SPEAKER_06 (15:55):
Well, I didn't know I didn't talk to her because she
came over there and I said, Whodo you know?
And she got mad and went off.

SPEAKER_04 (16:03):
So again, she you didn't kick her off, you just
asked her uh question realaggressive, and she just left.
So again, that's different.
Ram off, that's different.

SPEAKER_09 (16:13):
You didn't tell her she couldn't talk to her like
that.

SPEAKER_04 (16:16):
No, I'm saying she would have stayed in time.

SPEAKER_07 (16:20):
He got he got real player.
No, no, bro.

SPEAKER_06 (16:24):
Nah, nah, nah.
It it was beyond that point inthe day because it it had been
too many uh buzzards over therejust just just eating and shit.
I was pissed off.
It it didn't matter.
It wasn't no little pretty shit,and she was just some little
pretty shit, and she was likestill in school, so like look,
girl, you too young for me.
I hell you ain't gonna be.

SPEAKER_04 (16:44):
But we done talk, we just talked about that same
thing you just said.
Sometimes them bug them buzzersbring uh rabbits and and pretty
butterflies and all the eggs andstuff to come with, you know.
Everything you know how manybutterflies was out there.
I get it, but sometimes theythey they hang with the buzzers,
and you gotta get the buzzerfirst.
The buzzer gonna come everytime.

(17:05):
That's the one that's kickingit.
The buzzer gonna be funny.

SPEAKER_07 (17:08):
You don't know who that little girl knew.

SPEAKER_04 (17:10):
Come on, man, that's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_06 (17:13):
Well, here's the thing her friends told me who
they knew, and I said, Hey,y'all good.

SPEAKER_04 (17:22):
Go ahead and eat, but you need to quit doing
because again, no, hell I don't.
You do, bro, because that's somebullshit.
Now that's some bullshit.

SPEAKER_07 (17:30):
Now you know that is the only one regulating the food
like this.

SPEAKER_06 (17:35):
No, I wasn't the only one regulating the food
like that.
He said them niggas didn't pay.

SPEAKER_04 (17:44):
You didn't cut that shit out, man.
Nasty.
Well, what was I finished up?

SPEAKER_06 (17:48):
I was just I haven't paid yet.
I got you though, boy.

SPEAKER_04 (17:52):
What was your Sunday like?
I was oh Saturday, excuse me.
That was Saturday.

SPEAKER_01 (17:55):
Oh, Saturday.

SPEAKER_06 (17:56):
Yeah, you was wide open.
Man, funny Sam's nice thatmotherfucker.
Uh, but nah, uh then Sunday.
Yeah, we watched football allday at uh Pies Crib.
Uh we went out, watched theFalcons get beat, and then um uh
I came home and now we're here.

SPEAKER_04 (18:11):
Yeah, it is.
Well, two days later.
We're a day late.
I ain't do shit yesterday.
Oh, okay.
Waiting on y'all to do a show.
Nasty, talk about the land ofthe gold and sunshine.

SPEAKER_07 (18:22):
Oh man, we had a blast.
I um I got down there a littlelate, so I missed like the pep
rally, but I called like rally,folks wrong, man.
Bro, everybody go to the peprally on Friday.
Hey man, y'all do it one way, wedo it another.
Okay, y'all do it one way, we doit another.

SPEAKER_06 (18:42):
So I yeah, y'all go to the pep rally with the pom
poms.

SPEAKER_07 (18:46):
Man, Jeezy performed at our pet rally.

SPEAKER_04 (18:51):
I'm just saying, Luci was a child, right?

SPEAKER_06 (18:54):
I don't know.

SPEAKER_04 (18:54):
I think I'm an alum.
I don't care about that child.
Okay, geez.
What's did you make you said youdidn't make it for that?

SPEAKER_07 (19:02):
It's the pep rally, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 (19:03):
Yeah, no, that that's just lit.
Like, I I I just don't the onlyofficial on-campus event I go to
is is tailgate.
I got you.
I walk around speling on Fridayand then go.

SPEAKER_07 (19:13):
We don't tailgate on campus, so we do the pet rally
on campus.

SPEAKER_06 (19:17):
Oh, that's right.

SPEAKER_07 (19:19):
We play the NFL stadium.
Y'all don't pack it.
Well, let me tell you.
I I think that's a lie.
There were so many folks thattailgate.
Goodness gracious.
So Friday, I got uh a littlelate, so I had Mr.
Pet Rally.
I um I went out with some of myboys.

(19:39):
We we hit a little club and thenwe hit a set, a little house
party.
Saturday, I was get I was gonnaget up for the parade.
I was a little hungover.

SPEAKER_04 (19:50):
You are old, but you infamous for who goes to the
parade.
You infamous for going to ahouse party, boy.
You crazy.

SPEAKER_07 (19:57):
Hey look, it it's it's it's for my from my for my
generation though.
Um but yeah, I couldn't make theparade, so I I got drinking.
We all we went to the campus, Ishowed her some stuff, and then
I missed the first part of thetailgate.

(20:18):
The second part was that uh thesound stadium.
The sound is the uh minor leagueteam in Nashville.
Absolutely man, let me tell you,do that shit area.
I think it's some cat namedBlack Rob that that hosted it.
Like, whoa, man, like whoa.

(20:40):
I know you talking about yourclub experience and how it don't
be fun in the club.
Man, this shit was off thechain.
Everybody that was somebody thatwent to state was there, and I'm
talking about the views were offthe meat rack.
I need to shut them.
I can't talk like I want totalk.

(21:01):
Was Anthony though?
Why you can't talk like you wantto, Nasty?
Because I'm because I'm a risk,I'm a respectable uh young man.

SPEAKER_04 (21:10):
He under surveillance.

SPEAKER_06 (21:11):
I get it, I get out with Tommy.
Y'all, y'all be undersurveillance, y'all have to
speak in code and shit.
Y'all just can't come on hereand speak for you was just
talking in code.
What the hell are you talkingabout?

SPEAKER_04 (21:22):
No, I wasn't yes, you was.
No, you just get it because youdidn't open up, you didn't say
exactly what you was trying tosay.
You talking about some thembuzzles and all that, talking
about some flying over.

SPEAKER_06 (21:31):
You shouldn't oh you saying the riff raff, the niggas
and the women who just came overthere trying to eat.

SPEAKER_04 (21:36):
See eating that's what you should have said, but
you didn't say that.
You said the flies and all that.

SPEAKER_06 (21:43):
Everybody knows what I mean.

SPEAKER_04 (21:44):
Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_07 (21:44):
But go ahead, what'd you say in that special?

SPEAKER_04 (21:46):
You know, tell us about I was there.

SPEAKER_07 (21:49):
I was there till probably about 11.
I think that ended about 11, 12,but by far the best event that I
went to this weekend.
Then I went with some of the uhkicked it with some kappa and
some sigmas for a minute.
Some lodge in there.
Some lodge wasn't there, but umit was some other cats, and uh I

(22:09):
seen little Kenny and all themboys.
And what about Big J Big Jwasn't in town, he wasn't in
town.
So um we went to a little lowbar, and then I I said I'm gonna
do something on my own.
I went downtown and I hitPrentice Alley.
So if you know, you know.

SPEAKER_04 (22:29):
So you still move real good through that uh
through that state, like youknow something nasty.

SPEAKER_07 (22:33):
I'm still official.

SPEAKER_04 (22:34):
I thought I lost a little credibility.
But so cat so cash will treatyou good.

SPEAKER_07 (22:42):
Yeah, niggas ain't forgotten, ain't forgot what I
used to do.

SPEAKER_08 (22:46):
That is that is that is nasty.

SPEAKER_07 (22:50):
Hey, you didn't run the streets as hard as I did
when you was in college.
Oh, that's fine.
I'm okay with that.

SPEAKER_06 (23:01):
Uh uh, did you see Ebony homecoming?
Hey, I did not.
Ebony people was there.
Hey man, if you ever see ahomecoming tell I asked about
her.

SPEAKER_07 (23:12):
I'm not doing that.
Why not do because you know whatyou did?
Tell the world, tell the world,badass.

SPEAKER_06 (23:21):
You don't listen, you don't hold nothing back.
Tell the world about that girlwho left all that uh that sand
in my tub.
You know, I know all about thatmonkey shit.

SPEAKER_04 (23:31):
No, but say no, you don't even need to speak to her.
I'm still pissed off about that.
I'm still tight by that.

SPEAKER_07 (23:39):
I didn't know, I didn't treat her like nothing.
Oh, yes, you did.
Yeah, you didn't never been outthere before.

SPEAKER_04 (23:46):
Ain't never been to San Diego.
See, we ain't never been to SanDiego.
She just didn't know what wasgoing on.
Shut up, Ebony Man.
Matter of fact, you the victim,she the victim.
That's it.

SPEAKER_06 (23:56):
That's it.
That's it.
Hey, uh, speaking of victim,real quick, uh, got a question
uh for you to think about, Todd,and for you, VJ, and for all of
you out in the comments.
Hey, leave a comment and answerthis question.
Imagine being judged by yourworst day, and when you think
about that, is the question iswhat did you do on your worst

(24:19):
day, and how would you feel ifpeople judged you by that?

SPEAKER_07 (24:23):
I didn't take uh AK-47 or whatever he took to the
um to the airport, walked aroundwith it while it's in the car to
see how many people was inthere.
And you know, I I just didn't.
I know I I did act act outsidemy body, but you know, I never

(24:46):
thought about getting in the carand driving to Atlanta with a
gun.

SPEAKER_06 (24:50):
You know, I told you to just think about it.
But thank you to thank you forbringing us to our uh our next
topic, I guess.

SPEAKER_07 (24:59):
My bad.

SPEAKER_06 (25:02):
You know, pre-production started eight.

SPEAKER_07 (25:06):
I missed that.

SPEAKER_04 (25:07):
But no, but no, what you go ahead because that's
still hard though.
How you spun that off.

SPEAKER_06 (25:10):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Go, yeah, yeah.
What so what happened?
What you what are you talkingabout, Todd?
I'm I'm lost.

SPEAKER_07 (25:16):
Um uh white guy from Cartersville.
Call his name, Dean.
I'm not gonna call his namebecause I don't I I know his
people, so I ain't gonna callhis name.
Y'all can call his name, but outof respect for them.
No, out of respect for them,because I do got it's a respect

(25:37):
level that I have for them.
I ain't gonna call his name.
And I um from what I understand,he has had many mental episodes
as of late.
Um, I still think his actions,you taking a gun to Atlanta and
trying to shoot up an airport,or I mean, it was in the car, so

(26:00):
he he could have just took it,he could have just took it with
him.
I think he was kind of comingback to his senses a little bit
about the decision that he made,but you know, his family had
already made the car.
Um sound like you're capable forsomebody you know.

SPEAKER_06 (26:15):
I'm not like you wouldn't have this energy if you
didn't know the family.

SPEAKER_04 (26:19):
I wanted to ask a question though, before you even
before you go that far though.
Let me Nas before you before youeven go that far, let me ask
you.
So so with the situation, didthey say because I I've heard
I've read all the littlebackstory, but I mean, did they
say he took the did they did hetake the gun out the car, bring

(26:39):
it in?
So the gun stayed in the car.
Yeah, so did he break the law?
Personally, that's what I'masking.
I mean that's that's one of theonly reasons why I kind of why I
I'll say his name because again,being real, I've heard he had

(27:00):
I've heard he had a bunch oflook oh excuse me, a bunch of
little mental issues that wasgoing on the last couple of you
know, last couple of summers, Iguess, or whatever.
But what he did is thattechnically a crime.

SPEAKER_07 (27:19):
And that's a that's a great question, V.
And I don't know.
I'm I'm thinking they judge itlike kind of how they judge the
school zone, so it's a certainproximity that you can have a
gun, and just a second, just asecond, keep going, but if if
like you can maybe able to havea handgun, but not that type of

(27:41):
gun, right?

SPEAKER_04 (27:42):
So I mean is considered that that is, I think
that's considered like a handpistol, right?
Or I mean oh no, okay.
I was I thought that was the oneif you just get it extended and
all that little extra.
That's when it comes with theextra technicalities or
whatever.
Nah, I'm pretty sure that I'mpretty sure that with whatever

(28:02):
the family told him, it's gonnabe because they did the family
did call in.

SPEAKER_07 (28:09):
The threat of and they say he live streamed it
where he said he was gonna shootup the airport, and then uh the
the assault rifle in the car.

SPEAKER_06 (28:23):
I don't like I don't know what he's gonna be charged
with, and and maybe I don't Idon't know if Bartow news have
reported that yet, but yeah, sothat's kind of where the things
where it's like that's aslippery slope for me because
again, like I said, it's likenah if you go on live and you

(28:44):
say you're gonna and you makethe threat and then you have the
you have the means to fuck carrythrough with that threat, you
can be charged for something.

SPEAKER_04 (28:51):
Who's seen it though?
Who seen that?

SPEAKER_06 (28:53):
But it was on live, nigga.

SPEAKER_04 (28:55):
Who's seen the live stream?
If it was on live, then thatmeans it's still on live.
If it's not on there now, or Imean, excuse me, if it wasn't on
there where people can say theyactually seen it, other than the
family, that's just no, no, no,no.

SPEAKER_06 (29:07):
Like, if if if you are if you are texting us saying
that you are gonna commitsomething like crazy crime and
it gets intercepted before youcommit the crime, you're still
gonna be charged for conspiracy.

SPEAKER_04 (29:18):
No, no, no, because again, I'm not saying that.
I'm saying if he's Dean said itwent, he was on live.
What I'm saying is, did hereally technically go live?
Because they said his familysaid he was on live.
Did he, if he's on live, then hehis video will still be up there
or it wouldn't have been.
So what I'm saying, if it hasn'tbeen confirmed that he went live

(29:40):
with him driving with a with anassault rifle in his car, is
that a crime?

SPEAKER_06 (29:45):
Well, right now we don't know because that's my
point.
We don't have the confirmation,but my my bigger concern has
nothing to do with the legalityof it.
It's this person does not, it'sshowing has shown traits that
they don't need to be aroundsociety right now.
Why?
The mental is speaking to themental episodes, right?

(30:10):
If you're having mental episodesand you drive to the airport
with a high powered rifle.
If you drive to the airport witha high powered rifle and you're
not picking someone up or flyingout of the airport, that's
suspect.
Just period.
Why are you going to theairport?
So that's that's so you throw inthe mental episodes that again

(30:35):
it's come from the family, soI'm comfortable taking it as a
fact.
You tie that to somebody whodrove 45 minutes to an hour to
the airport with a gun and hewasn't catching no flight.
That person probably doesn'tneed to be around people right
now.
They need to be in a place towhere they're secure, where
they're being taken care of.
I'm not saying you need to be ina facility, you might just need

(30:56):
to be at home.
You know what I'm saying?
Like watched by a family member.
But I don't think that's aperson right now who needs I
don't think he needs to be inprison or jail.
I don't think that person, butalso I don't think that that
person needs to be left to theirown devices because somebody who
displays those characteristicsare are showing that they're not
somebody who is best formainstream everyday society

(31:23):
right now.
That person appears to pose athreat.
Right?

SPEAKER_04 (31:28):
Right.
I mean, oh you saying right, butagain, I can't say right or
wrong because again, we're doinga bunch of speculating.
We again, like Dean just said,none nothing has been confirmed.
Everything that we done said,dog, he did drive to the
airport, he did have againagain.
I'm not saying I'm not sayingwhat he said the threat he was

(31:49):
gonna make was you know right orwrong.
What I am saying is if wehaven't got none of this
confirmed that this dude donethis, that he drove down there
purposely to do harm to anybodyin that uh airport, other than
the family saying that he justdrove.

(32:09):
Because again, we don't evenknow if he was taking a flight,
we don't know if he was leakleaving, we don't know if he was
we don't know what he was doing.

SPEAKER_06 (32:17):
It's well if he was taking a flight, well, his
family wouldn't have called, youknow.
I mean, you gotta understand hisfamily called out of concern, so
like they wouldn't have theywouldn't have called it in and
reported it if there was justabsolutely no reason to be
concerned, bro.

SPEAKER_07 (32:31):
We can't say that what'd you say, and he and he
lied.
So even when the cops approachedhim, the cop asked, How did you
get here?
He said somebody dropped himoff, knowing all the while he
had his truck outside, you knowwhat I mean.
And you gotta think aboutHartsville, Atlanta.

(32:54):
Man, if somebody parked likethat, everybody's hot because
normally they don't let youreally get over there for 15 to
20 seconds.
That's like you gotta throw yourshit in the car, and then you
gotta go.

SPEAKER_04 (33:06):
That's a fact.
For a car to be parked in inthat position where the ass was
kind of like catacona, and itwas like nah man, it's that's
that's why I said that's why I'masking, I'm asking general
questions because again, Ididn't hear all that.
I just heard that he went in theairport.
Was they said he had a gun onhim, his wife, his family, or

(33:28):
it's not wife, his family wasthe one who called and said that
he was trying to do harm on uhsomebody in uh or everybody in
Hartsfield.
But again, I didn't I haven'theard no facts on nothing.

SPEAKER_06 (33:40):
I'm hearing a bunch of speculations and until can't
we can't really I'm gonna goahead and tell y'all if y'all
are for some odd reasonapprehender in an airport and
they go to y'all's vehicle andit's parked out front, and you
even if it's in the parking deckand y'all have a high-powered

(34:00):
rifle in your airport, I mean inyour in your car.
I'm having a conversation withthe ladies in your life and your
mama, you know what I'm saying?
Hey, I'm worried about myfriend.
I'm I'm gonna talk to you, butlike you a grown man, and you
you may or may not listen to me.
But like going past you andgoing to people who matter in
your life, like again, damngoing to jail, right?

(34:23):
You even just putting yourselfin that situation, like what
bro, what are you doing?
Right, like that that like thatjust doesn't make sense.
I get it.
Hey, you live in Cartersville.

SPEAKER_04 (34:33):
Definitely get it though.
I definitely get it, but bro,I'm gonna tell you mental health
is real.
So again, it's like you say, youdon't never know what he got
going on, you don't never knowwhat and that's why I'm not just
talking to you or Dean, you knowwhat I'm saying?

SPEAKER_06 (34:48):
I'm talking to your lady, I'm talking to your mama
because you you need more helpthan you can help yourself with.
That's you need people to helphelp out.
So, how do we get you to theplace to where people can help
you?
Because I'd much rather youvolunteer yourself to get help
from people than the governmenttell you where you gotta go and

(35:08):
get help.

SPEAKER_04 (35:09):
So, I mean, but that also feel like do you feel with
him being a man or him beinglike that, do you feel that and
again, I don't even want to sayon him no more because again, we
can't speak to him, but just onthat whole mental health aspect,
do you feel like that'ssomething that me and bottle in
thinking that they can preventit from like they can beat it

(35:30):
themselves, or is that somethingthat just I mean, I think
there's two different thingshere, right?

SPEAKER_06 (35:35):
Like when again, not talking about this specific
person, but like speaking to asituation like that, it it
sounds like something that ismore than just a nigga that's
stressed, depressed, right?
Like you're dealing with realdeal personality type stuff.
Some of the stuff that we'regonna get into in the Gucci Man
conversation about how he'd havehis schizophrenic episodes and
stuff, right?
But again, not putting adiagnosis on somebody that I

(35:59):
don't know who and I'm notqualified to do.
But when you start speakingabout like a mental health thing
that's deeper than some of thebase level stuff that's treated
through like therapy,self-medication, pills, and
stuff like that, you know, it'slike uh that's one thing, but
then when you start talkingabout like men just bottling up
emotions and feelings and stufflike that, yeah, I think that's
a thing we struggle with, but Ithink women struggle with it too

(36:22):
in different ways, you know.
I I think a lot of us strugglebeing uh vulnerable around
people in general because weunderstand the risk of
vulnerability, so you bottlestuff up.
What about you, Dave?

SPEAKER_07 (36:36):
No, I mean, definitely I think it's it's
natural to struggle with yourmental health, right?
Um the the I agree witheverything AC just said.
The key is for you to be able torecognize it and acknowledge it,
and if you need to do somethingabout it, do something about it.

SPEAKER_04 (36:58):
Um but let me ask before you go, let me ask you
something on that.
What you say in that though,what if what if certain people
just feel like there ain'tnothing wrong with them, so they
don't have a issue.
Like, what if people, what ifyou got what if you got friends
in your corner telling you, hey,I know you you got something
going on, you really got anissue, you really gotta, but

(37:20):
then you come back and you cansay, Hey, well, that's not me.
I ain't one of them ones thatgot that.
I don't struggle with thatissue, but he's I mean, what he
said, you gotta acknowledge it,you know what I mean.

SPEAKER_06 (37:28):
Like, that's what I mean.

SPEAKER_07 (37:30):
If you don't acknowledge it, you you bound
the spiral, you know what Imean.
So, I mean, but we all uh youcan't go through this life and
not have a mental healthepisode, you know.
I think oh, I'm clinicallydepressed.

SPEAKER_06 (37:45):
Man, it's okay.
You you you you can say, like, Iknow y'all have done stuff.
Yeah, I don't care about sharingthat with the world, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (37:52):
Me 100.
I've went through it four years,open therapist.
So, yeah, no, I'm with you,buddy.
Hey, yeah, but I'm I'm askingbecause again, I want to ask
from different point of viewswith me saying I'm one of the
guys who I don't, you know, Idon't I don't I done went
through the whole nine yardswith everything trying to work
on myself.
So it's like I say with somebodywho done who who who I guess

(38:13):
outside in the world who ain'twho ain't really voiced their
opinion on mental if I want tosee what I guess the outside
what they trying to say on that.

SPEAKER_07 (38:21):
No, yeah, I'm I'm definitely an advocate for
taking care of yourself.
And um however you choose to dothat, whether you use, you know,
you go to church or you go totherapy, whatever, and it it's a
wide range of things that canhelp us get to that point.

(38:42):
Um therapy ain't for everybody,church ain't for everybody, you
know.
Maybe it's finding an outlet,um, something like playing an
instrument, whatever, whateverthe case may be, you gotta
figure that out for yourself.
But the main part about all thisis we gotta acknowledge that,
yeah, dog, I'm struggling.

(39:04):
I mean, I'm struggling, and youknow, and I ain't just talking
about him as a man, but at 49years old, sometimes you can
feel like, you know, I'm gettingolder.
Uh I I ain't my kids gettingolder, they don't really need me

(39:26):
no more.
And I'm just speaking on stuffthat I've heard other other men
say that's older than me.
My kids don't need me no more,you know, my body change and
things like that can push us.
I'm just being honest.

SPEAKER_01 (39:44):
No, it's not real.
No, I'm I'm with them for real.

SPEAKER_07 (39:47):
I understand some of this.
Can can push some mental illnessin in our way.
So, you know, we just gottaacknowledge it and then confront
it to the to the best of ourability.

SPEAKER_04 (40:00):
Well, one of the biggest things what what folks
don't realize when that dickstops working and you gotta
start taking them little pillsto get back right, that
should've knocked a whole yourwhole courage down for real.
That'll knock all your littlepersonal everything down now.
Tell me more about that, man.
I mean, again, I ain't uh hey,meatball ain't gotta worry about
that.
I'm straight.
Tell me more about how I say no,it's yeah, Bilson ain't gotta

(40:22):
worry about all that.
Yeah, I know it's it's we fixingit right now, nasty.
But yeah, no, Bills, we don'tworry about all that.
But I'm just saying is like forolder men, it could be a lot of
folks who you see me on the butit could be an issue and a
struggle trying to figure thatout.

SPEAKER_07 (40:40):
Oh now, now I say this.
I'm trying to, Dean.

SPEAKER_04 (40:49):
Here it comes, here it come.
It's coming, it's turning red.

SPEAKER_01 (40:54):
My my bad, damn.
Give me a second.
My bad, damn.

SPEAKER_06 (41:02):
Ain't nobody tell I I I turn the AI tracking off.

SPEAKER_04 (41:07):
Okay, I turn it off every week.
We do start moving on our ownout of nowhere.

SPEAKER_01 (41:11):
Every time you see what I remember moving.

SPEAKER_06 (41:16):
If I think on this mental health conversation, the
most important thing is to findlike some level of balance in
your life, you know, it and andall aspects of it.
Because a lot of times I thinkwe focus so much on mental
health in these conversations,and we just don't focus on your
overall life.
We say, What can you do to dealwith your mental health?

(41:36):
Oh, go to therapy or go tochurch or or self-medicate or do
this or you know, takeprescription pills, do it.
Okay, yeah, you can do all ofthat stuff.
Well, what contributes to yourpoor mental health, right?
Do you have a good diet?
Do you have good people aroundyou?
Are you happy in the environmentthat you're in?
Are you happy with the personthat you are?

(41:56):
Like, are you doing things thatyou enjoy doing, or are you just
living a routine life and goingto work, coming home, taking
care of the kids every day?
Like, I it's just anall-encompassing thing.
You have to like look at yourlife and try to build out the
life that you want.

SPEAKER_07 (42:19):
Oh, I was just gonna give a personal example of like,
and it and sometimes it just belike little things.
So, like, for me, one of thethings that like kind of push my
mental health into a bad stateis procrastination.
So, I would procrastinate, dothings, either I would get it
done late or I wouldn't get itdone the way I want it to, and

(42:40):
it would drive me nuts.
So, I just stoppedprocrastinating, you know what I
mean.
Do it when I do what I'msupposed to do when I'm supposed
to do it.
I told my I told myself thatevery day.
As simple as it sounds, itworks.

SPEAKER_04 (42:56):
Big man always say, Wait, broke the wagon, yeah,
wait broke the wagon every timethough.
Thanks, uh your wagon worked.

SPEAKER_06 (43:05):
Oh yeah, you worry about my goddamn wagon.
I wasn't thinking like that.
I know I was you know, becauseyou you heavy you I was I was
making a fat joke and I it up,okay.
Yeah, but Bruno is though uhdamn.

SPEAKER_04 (43:25):
I forgot what I was saying.
Yeah, I asked about your wagon,that's crazy, bro.
That was out of the world.
What was the last one?
What did you say?
Damn that y'all just I didn'tsay nothing.
No, I'm saying what was yousaying because Dean had finished
up and then you had saidsomething.

SPEAKER_06 (43:41):
No, I I talked about balance because then and Dean
spoke after me, and then I wasgonna spin us out.
It's all right.

SPEAKER_04 (43:48):
So, pretty much, I guess my last part on this is um
she really spin us out because Ireally don't even remember.
I was saying when you starttalking about my wagon, you
threw me all uh balls.

SPEAKER_06 (43:58):
Can you just say can we just lock that in a box and
it just never come back?
Put that part out.
Yeah, yeah.
Go ahead, but no, go ahead,nigga.
Take phone calls.
So while we're having thisconversation about mental
health, and I'm happy we kind ofspun here because I had a
conversation that I wanted tohave kind of mocking mental

(44:21):
health, and uh um now we'rehere, and uh, you know, let's
see if Dean's back because Iwant to toss it to him first.
That's crazy.
That's crazy.
But no, so you know, we'rehaving this this I think it's
really important and informed uhconversational mental health,

(44:42):
Dean.
But what about when you beseeing people talk about their
mental health journeys on socialmedia and they talk about
blocking out bad energies andtheir universe and and universes
colliding?
And and it and and to me, itsounds like people who don't
want to coexist with otherpeople, they just want people to

(45:04):
live in their world, and thenwhen you can't live in their
world their way, it's now amental health thing, which it is
a mental health thing, but it'sit's not them protecting their
mental health necessarily, it'sthem having such fragile mental
health that they can't or theyrefuse to accept things in their
world that's different fromthem, yeah.

(45:25):
Um, that's you know what thegirls be putting in their
stories and shit, dog.
That's really what I'm talkingabout, trying to sound it.

SPEAKER_07 (45:33):
I know, and I know, and I and I don't read today
where people had to get cut off,and you know, I've been cut off
from people this year too.
Um, which is fine.
I mean, it's fine, it's fine,but I'm I'm a relationship like
type of guy because I know weall gotta leave this earth.

(45:55):
So me personally, I'm gonna doif if I feel like I'm wrong, I'm
gonna tell you I'm wrong, andthen I'm gonna do my part to
make it right.

SPEAKER_06 (46:04):
Because you're just never wrong, right?
Huh?
You're just never wrong, orrarely wrong.

SPEAKER_07 (46:09):
No, I'm I'm I'm wrong a lot.
I give you that.
I give you that, especially whenI was younger.
Now right now, I'm so solid, I'mI might not be that wrong all
the time.
At least, at least from my pointof view.
But when I was younger, I waswrong a lot.
Um but I I'll be trying to mendand you know make things better

(46:32):
for folks because genuinely,like I care about them.
Um, but they need you in theirlife.
No, not necessarily.
I just want to, if anything, Ijust want it to be like a
peaceful exchange, right?
That way you know that ain't nohard feelings on my end, and I
hope it ain't none on yours.

(46:54):
And if we and if you choose tocarry it forward, well, we don't
have to speak no more.
That's that's on you.
But just know that it's it'sgood over here.
It's good here.
So I say all that to say that Iunderstand like the cutoff
culture, but cutting off family,cutting off parents, I feel like

(47:16):
that can be a bit extreme,especially when they gotta leave
here.
And and then and I don't know,maybe it's just me, but you
know, you lose somebody close,and you didn't they didn't take
the steps to make it right, youdidn't take the steps to make it
right.
It's a whole nother it's a wholenother mental um mental illness

(47:41):
that's gonna affect you eitherthen or at some point later.
Because I look let's not saymental illness, it's uh maybe
like some anguish, a mentalanguish.

unknown (47:55):
Okay.

SPEAKER_07 (47:56):
Where some mental some mental guilt where you
should have took these stepsbecause you ain't no goddamn
child no more.
We all in our 30s, right?
And you can reach out just likethey can, and then now that
person's gone, and you gottadeal with that.

(48:18):
I don't want to go through that.

SPEAKER_06 (48:20):
What if you what if you good though?
What if you you know I mean?
What if it's uh if you good, yougood.
It is what it is.
If I don't speak to that personagain, I ain't gonna speak to
them.

SPEAKER_07 (48:31):
Yeah, if you good, you good.
Some people like that.
I'm just speaking for mepersonally, I'm not like that.
I'm not like that.
I'm not like that.
I'm gonna be sad that you thatyou left here, you know what I
mean?
And I'm gonna remember, and I'mvery nostalgic, so I'm gonna
remember the times we had.

SPEAKER_01 (48:48):
Do you remember the time?

SPEAKER_04 (48:50):
I got a question.

SPEAKER_06 (48:51):
You just say a question for you though, big
whatever though.
Is there somebody in this worldthat exists that you want to say
something to that you haven'tsaid something to?
And if they're if they were gonetomorrow, would fuck with you.
Um camera.

SPEAKER_04 (49:11):
Um, so personally, me trying to think out loud is
it something that no, becausethe only person realistically,
and this I don't want to soundcliche, but it's like the only
person that I ever wanted to saysomething to, he's not here no

(49:32):
more.
So it's like I said, I lost, Ilost dog when around like the
beginning, like around um aboutmiddle part of COVID or
whatever.
So it's like I say, with me notbeing able to tell dolls certain
shit, and now it's like that'sprobably the that's the only
thing that I that I the onlyperson I didn't get to tell who

(49:52):
I wanted to, but that's also whyme being me, I don't hold
nothing in.
If I got something to say, Idon't give a damn who it is,
what it is, what it's about.
I go front street, you know,just being real.
Like I'm a I'm a direct guy, Idon't really do all the waiting
and holding for that particularreason because I went through

(50:15):
the hurt of having somethingbuilt in me and having to go to
the funeral home or going to thegrave site to say what I really
want to say.
Yeah, so that's so me personallyno, but being real, like I say,
it's it's for the reasons of whyof that.

SPEAKER_07 (50:34):
What about you then?
Um, I think I I I've done a goodjob over the years of voicing my
opinion to the folks thatmatter.
Um and I think you know by andlarge, um it's because I lost

(50:56):
somebody early in my life.
So I feel like um the way I takedeath and maybe a little bit
more mature than like some ofour age group.
Um, but yeah, no, I I do itevery day.

(51:18):
I make sure I tell folks how Ifeel, um, and I make sure I tell
them I love them.
And because I know that, youknow, we the only guarantee is
we gotta get up out of here.
Yeah, that's the only guarantee.
So, but but with that, you know.

SPEAKER_06 (51:36):
You know, Todd, if you were a preacher, you would
be the preacher when niggasthought you was about to end the
sermon, you would make two morepoints.

SPEAKER_07 (51:47):
That's a good one.
That's a good one.
I might preach one day.
We don't know.
We don't know, but that's that'sthat's the way I see it, Lee.

SPEAKER_08 (51:55):
I don't know.
When you go to a church, Iwould.
I'm definitely going.

SPEAKER_04 (51:59):
I'm going with nasty in there.
Yeah, I go for nasty though.
If he if he the pastor, I'mgoing.
He's gonna start crying andscreaming and yelling.

SPEAKER_06 (52:10):
Are you gonna are you gonna what you gonna do in
that collection plate coming by?
I'm gonna just because that's mydog.

SPEAKER_04 (52:16):
Now the fact now, now I'm on his ad.
Now I'd say now, yeah, no, but Ihe gonna be A1.

SPEAKER_07 (52:22):
He's gonna be we ain't we ain't gonna be talking
about lock the doors.
This ain't enough.

SPEAKER_04 (52:28):
Yeah, no, hell no, because then I call the law up
there.
I will call the law up there,but no, no, no.
I'm I'm glad you just said that.
Let me ask you a questionbecause they kind of want to
make me jump to the next pointon a uh the topic list.
If you was top being, you know,I guess one of the top men in

(52:49):
the world, you uh you know,pretty so you solidified in your
town.
You you you one of those guys?
Could a woman run yourhousehold?
Now, don't get it twisted.
I ain't changing nothing up.
She you steal the face, but cana woman run your household?

SPEAKER_06 (53:07):
You talking to me.
I'm asking both of y'all.
All right, so what do you meanby run my household?
Are we talking like like I needI need specific?
All right.

SPEAKER_04 (53:14):
When I say head, like more so like the head of
household, can you make nomoney?
Just well, just say it.
Can she make more money thanyou?
Can she run the household?
Like set certain rules, youknow.
Uh, and when I say rules, Idon't necessarily mean like,
hey, you need to make sure youknow you in the house by X, Y, T

(53:34):
time, but you need to make surethis trash taken out, you need
to make sure uh little juniorgot his grades and got need to
make sure baby girl got her uhbooks and everything together.
Is that how it's beingcommunicated to me?

SPEAKER_06 (53:49):
I mean, I don't know if you're telling me to make
sure this shit's getting done,or am I making sure it's getting
done?
She's the head of the household.
She makes well see she wouldn'tlive in my house.

SPEAKER_04 (53:58):
So so what you saying, a woman can't make more
money than me.

SPEAKER_06 (54:01):
No, no, no.
She can make she can make butshe can make as much money as
she wants.
Yeah, she can make as much asshe wants.
Hell, I I support it, but I'msaying so now when it comes to
setting our lifestyle, no,absolutely not.

SPEAKER_04 (54:14):
But y'all can't be like that because okay, no, you
can't, because again, now it nowif you was making the if you was
making all the bread and you shewas coming home and was able to
chill, you would she wouldn'tsay nothing to you if you was
making all the rules and yousaying what you were saying.
Well, I see I wouldn't, I ain'tgonna be at home chilling.
So, what you gonna be doing ifyou if if situations changed and

(54:36):
she working every day, she beatme 12 hours down just to make
sure you got some you got plentyfood, plenty joints, plenty
steaks and and chicken dentals.

SPEAKER_06 (54:47):
She would only be doing that for a uh um for a
period of time while I'm inbetween jobs or professions.
Um I am traditional and I, as aman lead my household.
And um for one, I would notenter into a situation with a

(55:11):
woman, a financial situationthat I can't afford, right?
So she can make more money, butlike that don't necessarily mean
we l we balling off a budget,yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (55:23):
But but what I'm saying is what if and again,
situations change now.
What if you are one of thoseguys who if situate at first you
bringing in the bacon, youkilling them, you and her
together, y'all really eatingtogether, but then shit happen
and you fall on hard times.
I'm still here to household.

SPEAKER_06 (55:41):
I mean, you no, no, I I still I still set the the
the the vision and the culturefor this house.
Now, don't get me wrong, day today.
Hey baby, you got it.
You got it.
I ain't even getting in yourway, but now I'm still a man.
I mean, you can't I'm still theman of my house.
You can still be the man, butyou're not gonna you know just

(56:03):
because you make some more moneythan me, you're not gonna talk
to me crazy.

SPEAKER_04 (56:08):
That's not gonna happen.
Now, still let me ask you ifit's me, I'm the same way.
Same thing, ain't no talking.

SPEAKER_07 (56:15):
Ain't man, look, this is my house.
And I and I don't mean that likewe ain't partners, but Dick dry
this car.
Uh you ain't said none of thatbadass.

SPEAKER_04 (56:32):
None of that badass.
You ain't got OG Drink was gonnabe in the building.
Uh man, listen, I wouldn't hitall that big game.
He ain't now he now.

SPEAKER_06 (56:40):
If he said he won't share it.
I wanna hear it.

SPEAKER_07 (56:49):
That part.
That part.
I I leave I leave my household,you know what I mean?
And it that ain't gonna change,you know.
She gon she gon and she will.
She knows that, you know, shecan she do a lot of things, but

(57:09):
we're gonna make sure that umthat shit is not my way, but the
best way for the family, and sheallows me to uh to lead like
that.

SPEAKER_06 (57:22):
And then that's the important part is being with a
woman who allows you to lead.
Because there are women out herewho when that when that
situation like you put on meflips, they're not gonna allow
you to lead because they onlyallow you to lead because of the
finances, right?
And as a guy who uh when I'mmaking money and comfortable

(57:42):
spending money on women, right?
Like we we we joke about it.
Like, I don't pay for sex, butlike I I don't mind spending
money and doing stuff.

SPEAKER_04 (57:50):
You do though.

SPEAKER_06 (57:52):
No, I'm talking about directly.

SPEAKER_04 (57:54):
I know, but we all do.

SPEAKER_06 (57:55):
Yeah, I'm uh but I when I say I don't pay for sex,
I don't mean I don't direct, I'mnot gonna buy pussy, but yeah,
yeah, I'm not yeah, yeah, yeah,yeah, yeah, yeah.
I got you.
I know.
But I don't I yeah, but I don'twant to put in a in a in a
serious conversation.
I don't want to like put I don'twant to cloud it with like
saying like I don't want peopleto be confused and saying that
niggas are like like you knowwhat I mean.

SPEAKER_04 (58:13):
No, but bro, I really I hate that part though
of a conversation because again,that's false.
We all fucking do.
Yeah, yeah, we however you lookat it and how you ever reword
it, yeah, you don't want to say,yeah, I'm just directly buying
coochie.

SPEAKER_06 (58:27):
No, no, no, no, no, no.
No, the i i i i don't want tosay it specifically in this
conversation because just likeeven getting into that that
conversation, which is a a validconversation, yes, everybody
pays for sex, it's justdistracting from like the bigger
point here.
That that's why I say it's okay,go ahead.
Yeah, like I'm not dismissing itas a belief, I'm just dismissing

(58:49):
it for the purpose of thisconversation.
Yeah, right.
Let me get but like it's aboutbeing with women who who respect
you, and like I don't I try notto involve myself with women who
are only around for for what Iprovide for them financially,
right?
It's no no, you can be aroundfor that can be part of it.

(59:10):
That's fine because it'ssomething that I feel
comfortable doing.
I like to do, but you stillgotta like me.
Hey, if you don't like me, ifyou don't respect me, you can't
I can't spend money on you,right?
Too sure, right?
So yes, I could be in a positionwhere a woman would try to like
re uh flip the uh rolls on mejust because my money ain't
where it where it usually is orwhere it was when we uh entered

(59:33):
into the relationship, but I tryto filter out those types of
women, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (59:39):
And oh go ahead, my fault nasty.
Go ahead.

SPEAKER_07 (59:42):
Nah, and I I was like, you know, and the if if I
lost my job tomorrow, I think Icould still leave my household
because I think my characterkind of speaks to that, and I
think Drinker knows that a lotof us.

SPEAKER_06 (01:00:00):
play the money game first instead of letting our
character speak you got to beable to put your foot down you
know what i mean early and yougotta be able to tell her the
truth that's just that's just itthat's just it but if we well it
depends on what y'all talkingabout sometimes you don't tell
the truth huh sometimes youdon't gotta tell the whole truth

(01:00:20):
you it depends on what y'alltalking about too though that's
part of it that I say that'spart of the integrity is that
but no mean i i think theimportant the big piece that
that you that you talked aboutthere is leading with respect
right like if you if you if ifyou don't lead with respect if

(01:00:43):
you don't lead with characterwhatever you lead with is what
you're gonna fall back on agreedagreed did you see uh the clip
about Ruby Rose uh recently no Imissed it you got it uh she was
she was complaining about beingsingle okay she's a very pretty

(01:01:06):
young lady here I'm I'm gonnaplay it ain't no motherfucking
way I look like this like justchilling in my car like I just
look like this off the wake uplike no makeup just a little

(01:01:27):
lash and lip gloss and a littlefucking and I'm single don't
make that's okay you goddamnright it's okay because I I it
the thing is this it's prettywomen all over the world man and

(01:01:51):
I was at um and I you know wejust came off home coming and I
I I was with some cats and theywas like dang girl you still got
it you finer than ever and shestill single and he and the
niggas they saying what RubyRose just saying about herself I

(01:02:13):
can't believe I'm single lookinglike this or I can't believe
you're single looking like thisbut she 34 she educated and she
been around for a good minutenow all right we all between 33
and 36 it's something that sheain't doing or it's something

(01:02:35):
that she's not giving up a pieceof power that she's not giving
up the reason she ain't got noman at this point.

SPEAKER_04 (01:02:42):
How old Ruby Rose is oh no he's talking about
somebody else but Ruby Rose 28so Ruby wrote you see the post I
said about Ruby Rose she wascomplaining about being single
like looking this good 28 noproblem how is she single gotcha
okay gotcha and i i'm sayingthat for like look quote unrea

(01:03:04):
got one no dreya got one theyoung ones that's how it
happened bro you get e youeither gotta get a young one or
a dunk an old one it don't workit ain't no in between you you
ain't getting no nigga youaround your crew or a corporate
one not even a i mean somebodythat's not in your circle kind
of kind of but not even thatbecause again if they still in
your age bracket they know whoyou are especially if you a set

(01:03:25):
if you a set name you get whatI'm saying like a dreya a
goddamn uh uh jocelin hernandezand I'm not saying it's to bash
nobody I'm just speaking on likebigger names if I know what we
we we we hear the stuff aboutRuby Rose I'm telling y'all as a
single nigga if I meet her andwe catch a vibe and I genuinely

(01:03:47):
like her y'all gonna be seeingme walk around Ruby Rose and
that's cool for you to say thatbut again a nigga that's on that
caliber they not gonna do thatbecause she burnt out no they're
not gonna do that becausethey're in those circles and
they don't want to take itaround no because again burnt
out and that's no but here's thething though because all these a

(01:04:08):
lot of women are burnt out youjust don't know you just don't
know who she's been with so welive in this blissful world of
oh I don't know nobody who shedon't pop so she ain't pop
nobody it's different when it'sa main name for example a name
like Ruby Rose is a differentname from your local
neighborhood buck down you getwhat I'm saying like Ruby Rose

(01:04:29):
is a solidified name all overthe world I'm not talking about
a buck down I'm just talkingabout any girl that you meet and
you don't know what you don'tknow her past and you don't and
you don't know the guys thatshe's that she's touched it's
different when we talk about afamous woman because we see them
out and we we make theseassumptions about what they're
also doing that we don't see butwhat's the difference between

(01:04:50):
them and any other woman I meanit's no different it's she's a
mainstream face and noweverybody that you say and again
I'm not saying this is foreverybody but I'm saying that
with with that being amainstream phase it can be so
many folks coming to you abouther at all times compared to
your local girl ain't ain'tfolks finna hit you up about old

(01:05:10):
girl what she got going on anddon't give a damn because just
because she the popular girl inyour county don't mean she got
nothing going on over here.
See you what I'm saying butyou're missing my point my point
is the the the the bodycollection is the body
collection no and I'm I'm notmissing that at all I but I'm

(01:05:31):
saying when it's broadcast a lotmore for example Kim K that's
the difference like KimKardashian she's somebody we
done seen her so much we see herlife we done seen everybody she
done been with in the last 10-15years we think me personally I
think maybe Kim Kardashian can'tdo everything she says she does

(01:05:52):
maybe she ain't as fine as sheis when she wakes up in the
morning but again that's melooking from the outside in
however compared to somebody inthat local like for example our
neighborhood girl if she getting10 and 15 different dudes we
don't know if she still buckeddown because these same 10 15
girls dudes gonna still hit herup going to still go after her

(01:06:15):
gonna still do the exact samething you get what I'm saying
say go ahead what you say thenwell I think she needs to look
at her look at herself in adifferent light like that's that
don't nobody want to hear that Iunderstand how good you look
that's fine but you not the lookit's it's it's plenty pretty

(01:06:37):
women to go around what else ison the table and I ain't saying
you you can't because I know youwork hard to get your body that
way to me and your genetics arenice.

SPEAKER_06 (01:06:49):
Yeah but like come on give me something else give
me something else talk aboutthat money you got hey but hey
but you know what then you knowthat right then hey but then
here's the thing right a lot ofwomen think that looks is it's
just enough right okay you'repretty so what and also uh what

(01:07:12):
what ruby rose don't realize andit takes me to the conversation
that I had with somebody atyouth explosion you women with
goals and and money and stuffy'all have repent opinions that
have to be respected a youthexplosion what's what's no no no
no it's not a it's not aninappropriate no i know i'm
saying but why that's the churchright yes but why the

(01:07:36):
conversation i was having with awith a single lady who was
wondering why she's single whyy'all talking about that a youth
explosion because we're adultslike that's not a conversation
we have a youth explosion wewere we were both counselors yes
but but let me see but the pointbut but the conversation yo this

(01:07:58):
ah i was trying to get it rightjust like but but the
conversation was was that yowhen you yeah yeah yeah we
fixing it when you got when yougot a when you got a a a career
you got passions you gotopinions and like a dude has to
consider all of that stuff andbuilding a relationship a lot of

(01:08:18):
dudes don't want to deal withthat shit right like I want to
live my life the way I want tolive it and I want you to just
be a compliment to what I gotgoing on and you make your life
fit in in between I'm not sayingit's right I'm not saying it's
wrong I'm saying it's what a lotof people do.
Uh that's my preference honestlyI'm selfish so when you take
these beautiful women who areeducated or got money got this

(01:08:42):
got that well that also comeswith something else that you got
to deal with shout out to tothem but um you got to deal with
that like when you say hey I'mthinking about taking this job
here and she's like well mycompany doesn't have anything
there and my industry's notthere it is not good for me.

(01:09:06):
You actually got to think aboutthat in being a head of
household and part of being agood head of household who's
respected despite what you bringin is that you actually value
your partner's perspective whenmaking decisions you know what I
mean right and some people whomay genuinely want to value
their partner's perspectivedon't want to value that much
perspective Ruby Rose sheprobably wants to go on vacation

(01:09:31):
more than even a man who can'tafford it wants to go on like
hey dog no I go to work and goto the gym every day I have a
routine I don't want to go onvacation right now yep I mean
yeah no I feel that for sureit's your business on vacation
and like man come on like youthink that's gonna that's gonna

(01:09:51):
get me through every day lifeget hard dog no that I and I
don't I can't deal with no withno shallow surface I need you to
have some depth to what we'retalking about what if she got
deep walls huh nothing what isshe at but no so so really

(01:10:18):
though I'm I'm still trying tosay so do y'all think that she
do got a shot and do you thinkshe got to go like younger or
older guys he should have thatshit wasn't real man well he
could have took it to the topthey could have faked it till
they made it yeah no that's itthat is real though that is real
though you just said somethingthough that was a that was a

(01:10:41):
shot you definitely can fake ittill you make because now she
done got she already done gotleft in Mexico with by YG she uh
ended up she played around withbaby for a minute who cares what
you mean who cares when thatshit go public it's different no
no no it's quiet I ain't sayingabout somebody circling back to
but who cares where she ends upeverybody do I don't not really

(01:11:05):
nobody cares she don't end upthat's why I say but again
that's why you crazy I mean I'mjust no I'm just being honest I
I hardly care about what mostwomen do if they're not ending
up in my lap I don't care wellleading uh what's up watching

(01:11:30):
watching this back watching thisball man what it good to be back
what KD look like out there hegot he got 20 i need him
overtime right now did he getthem nine you need in asked he
close we need four more okay howmany more men is left in now we
got about what about three okayokay he's not going to him

(01:11:54):
though Rue what's going onHouston not feeding on the bar
ain't got no point guard on thephone yeah yeah they're gonna I
don't know I don't know whatyou're gonna do because amen
amen they uh amen they uh pointguard right now I guess you

(01:12:15):
could say that but AJinterchangeable you know who I
really like though Shango ShangoShango yeah he tough drying up
well let's finish up this littleoh no I'll say this dried up

(01:12:35):
because they over there havingthis bullshit ass basketball
conversation in the middle ofthe podcast like I'll call each
other if y'all want to do thatwell no they can get together
because you know they don'tstart it goddamn I mean you just
got here you know we wanted tohear you uh Rule imagine imagine

(01:12:59):
your life as a sex symbol saythat again imagine living like a
sex symbol that's how I livenigga what you mean I knew who I
swear to god I knew he was gonnasay that let me see why you
think I am I am a sex icon iswear to god i knew it was gonna
say that so so what what is itlike living like a sex icon

(01:13:22):
because i don't know what it'slike to be a sex icon personally
it's just sometimes you gottafight them off like damn hold on
baby damn i ain't even trying todo that you ain't trying to do
that so like I ain't even tryingto do that baby so like as a sex
icon do you come on fella dothey have high expectations for

(01:13:47):
you you know what i mean like doyou have to deliver or you know
what i mean it just don't matterbecause it's you we're gonna go
with that one what that meanit's just me we're just gonna go
with it all of them have youever thought about what life

(01:14:10):
would be like as a sex symbollike a real like a prince ass
nigga go Michael B.
Joy and that every time yourname comes up that's a prince is
not a sex symbol that's dictatorshit nah you talk about prince
the artist or artist formerlyknown as Prince you was talking
about like a prince no no no sexsymbols they freaks he's talking

(01:14:32):
about purple rain prince terrorsaid butt naked who said that
she said oh she's talking aboutyou rooster i see that man i'm
gonna keep quiet to myself yeahyeah I know root chill him
ruchie for a second i about tosay whoa who root when you said

(01:14:54):
root chill i heard roochie firstbefore you finish that's a
that's a rapper that is hardthough that is root that could
be rude new name that's that's arapper from Englewood I ain't
taking his name yeah you knowyou scared of them bloody niggas
start punching on you thenwhat's a old roochie but no but

(01:15:15):
for real though I don't mepersonally saying that me being
a sex symbol is that shit ain'tit ain't more my flavor i'm more
I'm like I said I'm basic math Isay that all the time I'm more
I'm I'm chill be you work in thefield that's what you say you
see what I'm saying I like allthat look I ain't trying to be

(01:15:37):
front screen I'm I'm back seatlike things like me go get his
nail done and shit like that youtalking about yeah yeah that
ain't old meatball like I I likeI like to get it get hands on
filthy a little bit yeah I'mchill I feel I feel yeah that's
all that's that's how I'mplaying but rooster he you know
whatever it is what it is rightI mean personally I'm just not

(01:16:00):
made to be a sex symbol you knowI I I'm real dirty like hands on
get a lot you know that's it youdon't think you can act that way
as a sex symbol yeah becauseagain you can still be a sex
symbol don't mean who you is andit just who you look like now
don't get it twisted now I cansell it don't get it to now I

(01:16:20):
can sell it sell ass I would notthe not the bunker monsters but
it's like it's just calledmonetization VJ I you see what
I'm saying I ain't giving a shitout I have yeah I would do what
I gotta do if I need to I ain'ttrick dean I like that leather
you sitting on pal appreciatethat roof you know we we do a

(01:16:42):
little bit that shit look manthat shit just look like you
can't can't drop a drink on thatmotherfucker appreciate that's
alpaca that's alpaca you don'tyou don't you don't you go to it
that's alpaca he don't feel themotherfucking time go get the go

(01:17:03):
get the cream soda country goget the cream soda man hey now
that everybody's here how didy'all feel about last week's
show i got a lot of positivefeedback about it honestly i
told rue he was a dick but he hehe was gonna snap out i told him
he was gonna go crazy because hekept saying he started being

(01:17:24):
mean to everybody like alwaysbut then when uh when dean and
goddamn when dean startedpopping it when oak went off
camera girl i got a bunch ofgood behind her they said terror
they was thinking terror wasgonna be more uh wide open and
funny and talking hands on but ithink roots scared her you think

(01:17:46):
root scared terror yeah i thinkhe's scared a little bit we
gotta i was about to say terragotta get back on terror tap in
man we gotta see if you scaredon what was going on when
rooster got on camera but no igot a bunch of i got a bunch of
back what'd you say definitelyneed to bring her back for sure
both of them but off camera washard though off camera was the

(01:18:08):
one that i felt like she reallyshe really had a bunch of to say
and the tick tock went crazywith her comment yeah yeah i
seen that i seen that i seenthat yeah hey you know we can go
live on tick tock on mine nowjust throwing that out though
yeah we can go live what's goingon with tick tock too i know you

(01:18:31):
know you got tick tock tick tockhas a lot of uh has different
rules and stuff and a lot ofwhat we do uh in a live show is
is isn't gonna hit tick tock'scompliance oh yeah that's what
we do it's certain words youcan't use oh yeah it's a lot to
think about and yeah no we justlet ai do tick tock for us and

(01:18:52):
one thing about rooster he'llput a book on camera in a
heartbeat you hear me roosterput a book on camera it's what'd
you say it's legal where I'm atyeah yeah yeah yeah but it don't
but like with the with the ticktock algorithm you know we you
can't you can't do that live ontick tock i don't even know if i

(01:19:13):
can have no i know i know i knowwith whiz cleafer got a but he
he blur shit out now on uh onsocial media yeah man because
they doing all that differentstuff with monetization which i
hate it personally i honestlyhate it personally like dog put
it out there and if people watchit people watch it and if they

(01:19:34):
don't they don't like uh don'tdon't tell me i mean i guess
it's your platform so you cantell me what you want on your
platform huh facts facts thoughthat's how they try to control
us though i mean it is theirthat's how they try to control
us like that conversation thatwe ain't gonna have that we had

(01:19:55):
earlier about jobs telling folkswhat they can do when they get
on from work yeah yeah hey bro Iain't here punching your clock
no more what if I don't like howyou represent me it don't matter
you pay me that's right becausewe all got a price yeah it is we
all got a price well we got twomore we do you want to touch
them last two or you want tojust go one of them no not
really um no uh no I reallydon't want to hear either one of

(01:20:22):
them I want to talk aboutsomething else but I don't have
anything else I just want totalk about like you know I mean
like I because the flow like theflow of that one earlier it
would have worked better a longtime ago which one the bottom
one or the second no never thebottom oh bottom uh thinking

(01:20:44):
that they helped they just gotmessed with girls who got worm
it just we don't got worms thedog got worms maybe it's a good
question I mean you can add Rueand Dean on here so Ruin Dean me
and V was having a question uhbefore uh having a conversation

(01:21:06):
before the show and I don'treally know how we got there but
we started talking about youknow men dealing with women
because you know that's what menlike to talk about when they get
together and we we just startedtalking about how you know
niggas be thinking they himbecause you know they get a lot
of strange and stuff right butdo we ever take a time to
inventory who the women are andwhat their standards are and you

(01:21:30):
may just be hanging around in aslosh pit the whole time and
don't even know it yeah see he'ssleeping no well i got i must
say if he ain't gonna ask thati'm gonna ask because again my
my boy Trev he tapped in with meand me and dean we've been
talking to i ain't got to talkto Ruba we're gonna talk about

(01:21:51):
you real quick and we're gonnaclose it out so y'all talking
about me for we cussing you theout for what why the did you
change you started talkingcountry as hell when you was at
uh homecoming and you know Itold you we was on your ass I
was waiting though trail calledyou pheno but I didn't know what
it meant he sent it to me whatit meant so that's why I said we

(01:22:21):
on your ass now I yeah man youalways you trying in the call
some banks what we're not gonnado what we're not gonna do is
we're not gonna do these fuckingambush topics again if y'all

(01:22:42):
niggas want to talk about someshit and make jokes I'm all
about that but what we're notgonna do is we're not gonna like
team up and then like let's heylet's look let's do a little
funny joke on AC like live onthere like I'm dead ass serious
we're not doing that shit nomore we're not doing we're not
doing that shit i don't give a Idon't give a fuck about what

(01:23:02):
niggas talk about but what we'renot gonna do is we're not gonna
hop on the podcast uh and likeooh let's do a joke and do a
surprise topic we're not gonnabe putting a surprise topic
because me traveling Drake saidhe was gonna be up here and we
was gonna talk to you about howthe fuck you was talking y'all

(01:23:25):
niggas worry about how I'mtalking pay my motherfucking
bills and shut the fuck up whatthe fuck is wrong with you this
show is over cancel over thefuck up you don't cancel the
show like that man I should havecanceled it because we didn't do
it yesterday why didn't youbecause I'm trying to be a
better team player well that'snot being a good team player

(01:23:47):
because you was y'all niggascoming up with surprise topics
and shit ain't no fucking goodteam player shit ain't a team
player when you just be how noI'm saying y'all come up hey let
hey not the end of the showthat's some bullshit you've been
in my house for an hour niggait's a joke everybody was
playing on it like that's notcool who cares about being cool

(01:24:12):
everybody was having a good timeyou always do this when it's not
on you when you make jokes oneverybody else that's not fair
bro because you make jokes oneight you make jokes on Dean you
make jokes on me you make jokeson trip you make that all the
time y'all make jokes on me andI laugh I don't have a problem I
don't have a problem with jokesbut when we like doing sneaky
topics bro that shit ain't funnythat's not though you can't do

(01:24:32):
that bro it's not you can't dothat because again we ain't
making jokes we ain't crashingon you bj I'm not mad for real
but I'm saying that's but butbut but but but you I know but
you think I'm mad right now I'mI'm not mad for real no it's not
about being mad for real or notbecause again bro you gotta be
able we gotta be able to haveconversation it's just a
conversation topic we gotta dothat BJ I faked the temper
tantrum and I actually allowedmyself to get mad so it look

(01:24:55):
real on camera but because youfelt my energy we still love I
know I know I know I know I knowI know but no no no but I'm
speaking but but but I'm tellingyou because I feel your energy
because I'm sitting next to youand you felt get actually upset
but I'm not actually reallyupset but you gotta stop doing
that bro if we're gonna have agood time because now you you
threw it off with everybody nowyou got them niggas on the

(01:25:16):
background all squatting nowthey don't even want to make the
joke no more don't even want tomake the joke with you now my
Uber be here in three minutes Igotta go where you gonna go
where you going to money houseI'm going to money man house why
you taking the Uber because I'vebeen we'll come out there to go
eat so to go eat what they eatwhat they cooking up oh you

(01:25:40):
didn't piglet hey man we onanother episode of Billy Viz man
ain't see done killed it and hedone got my dog dean off the
goddamn show now we out of himbaby what'd you say what'd you
say roo we ain't gonna see deanfor three months I mean yeah he

(01:26:02):
done did back to back show damnyeah yeah dean over with so we
got 115 115 eight seconds leftShay Gillard with the ball
because I really wish I reallyreally wish trail was here stop
with you nah ain't stopped ohgod damn they chill me if I say
something about

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