Want a woman to feel deeply, profoundly, extraordinarily safe with you? Able to surrender fully, relaxing all the way into your arms, allowing her body to open to you in ways you never knew were possible?
Then you need to know about this.
Whether you're dating or in a long-term committed relationship, there's an underlying fear that, according to Violet, who has worked with hundreds of women and heard from thousands, 99% of women have.
It's a fear you may share. And if it's not addressed, it can block intimacy, whether that's in sex or other relationship dynamics. The good news? You can learn to address it skillfully -- and this can profoundly shift a dynamic within a relationship. If you've been looking for the best relationship advice ever, it might just be this. ;)
Memorable quotes from this episode:
- "I’m not going to be THAT girl."
- "I don't care what my fling thinks, but I don't want my partner to think I'm a trashy whore."
- "I’m too needy, bossy, driven. I’m too fat, too slutty, too crazy."
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Also mentioned on this episode:
- Violet's Wild Sensuality retreat
- Dear Men podcast episode 128: Feel like you're always walking on eggshells? Recognizing Borderline Personality Disorder
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