Want to generate sexual heat, and also inspire safety and a sense of belonging in your partner? Learn how to claim her!
We've talked about claiming before on the podcast, especially with respect to building polarity. When a man is on the more passive side, it can feel lackluster and also confusing. As one woman put it, "Do you even want me?" This throws off polarity.
When he knows how to take inspired action and lead by claiming us, we want to see him more! We feel the polarity. And because of that we feel more relaxed, uplifted, and yes, you guessed it: turned on!
Here we delve more into what it means to us to feel claimed in sex, dating, and relationships -- and why we adore it.
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Memorable quotes from the episode:
- "Claiming is NOT controlling."
- "I felt like ‘no’ was not an acceptable answer."
- "You get the Friday 4pm text: ‘What are you up to tonight?’"
- “He came towards me with a smile.”
- “That was really great. I would love to take you to dinner sometime next week. When are you free?”
- “I want you next to me. I don’t want to sleep alone tonight.”
- “This is in service of our relationship and our love and our connection.”
- “You don’t have to carry the burden for every asshole.”
- “The experiences you want to have with women are just a claim away!”
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