382: Erectile dysfunction isn't about what you think. (ft. Dr. Luke Adler)

Did you know that premature ejaculation is the most common form of sexual dysfunction on the planet? In a similar vein, experts estimate that erectile dysfunction impacts a staggering 30-50 million men in the U.S. alone. And some studies suggest that 1 in 10 men experiences delayed ejaculation.

The truth is, sexual dysfunction affects millions and millions of men, but the experience is often one of being alone. Helpless. Feeling stuck or out of control. Common thoughts:

• "Why can't I get hard when I want the sex? I feel like my body's betraying me."
• "I'm so frustrated about cumming so fast -- I want sex to last."
• "What's the point of even going on a date if I know it's eventually gonna end up in the bedroom?"
• "I'm terrified that I won't satisfy her sexually, and then she'll either humiliate me, leave me, or both."
• "What's wrong with me?"

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Here, Luke reveals the one primary and often overlooked yet vitally important commonality that exists between all sexual dysfunction. As he puts it, “Western medicine has reduced it to it being all about blood flow...” and it's about way more than that.

As a doctor of Chinese medicine, Luke brings a unique and potent perspective on the topic. The plain truth is that overcoming sexual dysfunction like erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and delayed ejaculation is simply not about what you think it’s about.

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Memorable quotes:

• “I have to whisper about it in doctor’s offices."
• "Shoutout to the men for whom Viagra or Cialis just don't work."
• “Men are conditioned, programmed, indoctrinated into carrying their pain alone."
• “I went to naturopaths and MDs and nothing touched it.”
• “I get that you can run 100 miles. Let’s talk about your relationships.”
• “I could not RECEIVE help … like it could not get into my body.”
• “Your cock is your compass.”
• “This isn’t about sex; this is about power.”
• “It’s literally a miracle.”

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Mentioned on this episode:

• Luke Adler: https://lukeadlerhealing.com/
• To book a call with me to discuss Sexual Mastery, just email me at dearmenpodcast at gmail dot com