Destroy The Hairdresser

In this New Year’s Day episode, Cyd sits down with Cheri Oteri for a wildly honest, hilarious, and unexpectedly deep conversation about grief, burnout, leadership, and the absolute massacre of language in modern marketing.

They kick things off by questioning why humans invented New Year’s celebrations in the first place, spiral into sickness updates and hospital scares, and then land squarely on the real theme of the episode: we’ve ...

In this New Year’s Day episode, Cyd sits down with Cheri Oteri for a wildly honest, hilarious, and unexpectedly deep conversation about grief, burnout, leadership, and the absolute massacre of language in modern marketing.

They kick things off by questioning why humans invented New Year’s celebrations in the first place, spiral into sickness updates and hospital scares, and then land squarely on the real theme of the episode: we’ve ...

In this solo episode, David steps in without a co-pilot and delivers one of the most honest conversations we’ve had on the podcast in a long time.

This isn’t a hype episode.
This isn’t a “set your goals and grind harder” episode.
And it definitely isn’t about manifesting your way out of burnout.

It’s about what happens after success.

David reflects on the past few years — culturally, politically, personally — and challenges list...

This week, Cyd is lighting up the mic with the conversation the industry still tiptoes around: the retail system is broken, stylists are stuck at the bottom of the food chain, and product companies are out here winning big while hairdressers are left dusting shelves and doing math gymnastics hoping to find the “profit” everyone keeps promising.

We dive into the era when salons ran the show, how ego and toxicity pushed stylists into ...

In this episode, Cyd and David go off (lovingly) on the rise of woo-woo salons—the ones where your haircut somehow turns into an unsolicited aura reading, your schedule is set by the moon cycle, and “vibes” are doing more work than the actual business plan.

They unpack:

• When spirituality and religion in the salon cross a line from “on brand” to “manipulative”

• Why your team and clients did not sign up to be part of your personal aw...

In this reflective solo episode, David gets honest about validation, legacy, and what it really means to be seen in the hair industry. From social media trolls to self-awareness, he breaks down why craving validation isn’t weakness—it’s human. The real issue? Seeking it from the wrong people.

David dives into the evolution of Destroy the Hairdresser, the chaos of social media, and why connection—not perfection—is what sustains c...

In this solo episode, Cyd gets brutally honest about the excuses holding you back—from business growth to social media visibility to your own damn potential. If you’re still hiding behind “I don’t know what to post,” it’s time to admit the truth: you’re not confused, you’re insecure. Cyd breaks down how fear of judgment becomes a trap, how to get unstuck, and how to actually build a system that works for you—not against you.

She sha...

Cyd and David get real about the industry’s favorite lie: “I don’t need help.” They unpack why stylists and owners hide behind busyness, how product culture hijacked salons, and why going all-in on social while skipping real-world connection is costing you money.

Then they lay out the fix: The Hairdresser Business Club—DTH’s coaching community where owners and independents learn modern pricing, marketing that actually books, recruit...

Something magical happened while we were recording — we both yelled “witchcraft!” at the same time, and honestly… it fits.

In this episode, Cyd and David pull back the curtain on why DTH Level One: The New Commission Salon feels like pure magic for salon owners who are tired of running their businesses on chaos.

We talk about what actually changes when you stop guessing, start using systems, and realize leadership doesn’t have to fee...

In this solo episode, David gets real about working and leading when the world feels unsteady.

He reframes the salon as a place of structure and sanctuary, urges stylists to protect their energy (hello, silent appointments), and draws a clear line between performative “giving” and simply providing clients a break. Beyond mindset, he lays out a practical call to action: shrink your focus to what you can control, strengthen routines ...

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Cyd and David turn a chaotic Miami flight (two kids, two blowouts, one traumatized spouse) into a masterclass on Instagram Stories as the real engine of modern salon marketing. They unpack how branding is “friendly brainwashing,” why Stories outperform feeds for conversions, and ...

In this solo episode, Cyd takes a flamethrower to pricing confusion and breaks down the three models most stylists use—à la carte, session pricing, and hourly—without the fluff or guilt. She lays out clear pros and cons for each, then makes the simple, disruptive case: everything you sell is already time-based. If a cut takes 45 minutes and a blonding takes three hours, the price is always tied to time—whether you package it, renam...

Shit Happens (Literally): Salon Horror Stories & Hangover HaircutsIn this completely unhinged episode, Cyd and David take you on a ride through some of their most chaotic, disgusting, and relatable salon (and parenting) stories. From toddler poop smears and salon accidents to 21-year-old hangover horror shows and questionable Blue Martini nights—this episode proves that behind every hairdresser is a wild story no one talks abou...

In this explosive episode, Cyd and David go off about the parasitic nature of big beauty—and why hairdressers keep defending brands that would never return the favor. From industry-standard buy-ins to retail shelves that make more dust than profit, they break down the manipulative dynamics between product companies and salons.They discuss how affiliate links could empower stylists, the myth of being “partnered” with a brand, and wh...

In this unfiltered, unhinged, and unexpectedly tender episode, Cyd and David talk about what it really means to be professional in 2025. From FaceTime parenting and digital nostalgia to the weird, winding journey of social media, the two co-founders of Destroy the Hairdresser reflect on how much the industry—and their own lives—have changed.They explore why curated content no longer sells, why storytelling is the new marketing, and...

In this solo episode, Cyd Charisse comes in hot with a truth bomb the industry won’t say out loud: The industry standard is a scam designed to keep stylists broke, scared, and compliant. From tip culture and fake level systems to retail quotas and 40% commissions, Cyd breaks down why everything you’ve been told is “normal” is actually just outdated—and harmful.

If you’ve ever been guilted for raising your rates, told to “earn your w...

In this chaotically honest episode, Cyd and David reunite after solo pods and dive into what everyone’s thinking but afraid to say: social media isn’t fun anymore—and your feed might be the problem. From performance anxiety to algorithm overwhelm, they break down what’s actually sabotaging your visibility and sanity online. Plus, Cyd spills behind-the-scenes tea from her Social Circus class, including viral wins, strategic content ...

In this raw and reflective solo episode, David shares a deeply personal message for anyone feeling overwhelmed, isolated, or on the edge of burnout. From the emotional toll of world events to the pressure of being a business owner, this episode is a reminder that you're not crazy, you're not alone, and you're definitely not failing.

David shares how DTH’s 1% Charity Model can be a local tool for global change, unpacks th...

In this fiery rapid-fire round of Hairdresser Hotline, Cyd and David channel their inner dragons to tackle your unfiltered, anonymous questions—from resenting clients who text at midnight to bosses who give themselves raises while calling the team “family.” No novella-length submissions here, just straight-up salon truth bombs.

We’re talking boundaries, commission delusions, gratuity confusion, and why your resentment might actually...