This episode is going to ruffle some feathers—and that’s exactly the point. SOMEONE HAS TO SAY IT 👀
After a now-viral Instagram reel by Chris Griffin sent the internet into a frenzy, Monica had a wiiiiild amount of DMs asking for her take. So here it is: unfiltered, research-backed, and FULL of juicy nuggets that will melt shame, rewire your desires, and help you finally feel safe craving masculine leadership. ❤️🔥
She’s unpacking why this clip triggered so many women, what it says about modern relationships, and the double standard that’s keeping women exhausted, emasculating men, and still wondering why dating sucks.
If you’ve ever craved a man who leads, provides, and protects—but have felt shamed for wanting that—this episode will leave you thinking, “Wait—I’m not wrong for craving this?”
INSIDE THE EPISODE:
🫦 Why “If she doesn’t want to work…” isn’t misogyny—it’s healthy masculine leadership
🫦 The double standard: women can want providers, but men can’t say it
🫦 How radical feminism is hurting the very women it claims to protect
🫦 Why craving support isn’t weakness—it’s your biology
🫦 What actual financial abuse is (and why this isn’t it)
🫦 How trauma gets projected onto good men — and ruins polarity
🫦 Feminine receivership vs. control—what’s the real difference?
🫦 How to protect polarity (yes, even if you’re the breadwinner)
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As Mentioned In The Episode —
⇢ Watch the Viral Reel — “I don’t want my woman to work”: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DIzsSj5yFRp/
⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ → 📚 NOTE: The referenced research can be found in the book.
⇢ Watch the FREE Masterclass — How to Have Him Lead You: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/how-to-have-him-lead-you-masterclass?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=lead-you-mc
⇢ Listen to the Episode — What It Actually Takes To Be In Your Feminine: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/429-what-it-actually-takes-to-embody-your-feminine-energy-and-finally-let-him-lead-with-ease?_pos=1&_psq=actually+takes&_ss=e&_v=1.0
⇢ Binge the Program — Empoweredly Submissive: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/empoweredly-submissive?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=evergreen_general
⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth
⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory
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