Finding Fertility

“Control driven by fear doesn’t create safety. It creates vigilance.”

• The subtle ways control hides inside responsibility and maturity

• Why most women do not experience control as force, but as protection

• How subconscious control patterns keep the nervous system tense

• The generational imprint of women holding everything together

• The difference between true safety and low level vigilance

• Why doing all...

“You do not need to control your way into safety. You need to notice where control is running the show.”

Topics Discussed

• Fertility burnout and why over-efforting feels safe but keeps you stuck

• IVF trauma and how control becomes a subconscious coping strategy

• The illusion of control as protection for the nervous system

• Subconscious healing through awareness, not fixing

• Why frequency behind action matters more than the...

“Knowledge didn’t fail you. It just can’t carry you where you’re going next.”

Topics Discussed

• Fertility burnout after years of doing everything right • IVF trauma and how it lingers beyond the procedure • Why knowledge alone stops creating change • Subconscious blocks that show up as overdoing and overwhelm • The role of frequency in emotional healing and integration • Letting go of fixing, chasing, and constant optimizing • Bec...

"It wasn’t until after I got pregnant that I realized my gut health and so many other things had contributed to my miscarriages. My doctor said, 'It just happens.' But I knew there had to be a reason."

Topics Discussed

• Fertility and gut health: How inflammation, processed foods, and nutrient absorption affect conception

• IVF or medical trauma: The frustration of being told “it just happens” after miscarriage

• Emotional and ...

“Information without embodiment keeps you stuck in the same emotional loops that cancel out the physical work you are doing.”

• IVF trauma and fertility burnout • Emotional healing and subconscious patterns • Radical responsibility during the TTC journey • Embodiment vs information overload • Epigenetics and long term cellular health • Victim mindset, inner dialogue, and emotional loops • Stepping into trust, self ...

“What if I stop judging myself and let the pieces fall so something better can be built.”

Topics Discussed

• The messy middle of TTC and IVF recovery • Emotional healing during fertility burnout • Subconscious patterns and self judgment • Frequency shifts and embodied surrender • Radical honesty with yourself during the journey • Letting go of control and rebuilding from a grounded place

“You cannot light switch your body. You cann...

“I think what I've discovered in the last few years is that you can be doing everything right on the energetic side of things.”

• Feeling like it is the end when you have one embryo left or one last IVF transfer • Obsessing over fertility numbers and treating them like destiny • Subconscious gender stories, boy mom identity and beliefs about women • Spirit babies, soul contracts and staying grounded in your own joy • Cellular healt...

"Your fertility is just a reflection of your life. How you’ve lived produced this result. It’s not your fault, but it is your responsibility."

Topics Discussed

• The emotional and energetic cost of modern womanhood and chronic overwork

• How burnout, stress, and disconnection from joy impact fertility and hormones

• The problem with “junk science” fertility myths around age and supplements

• IVF and medical trauma, and how to r...

“You can’t Type A your way into pregnancy. You can push, but your body will push back.”

Hello Beautiful, Monica here supporting you to become the conscious mama you were born to be...

This episode is packed with truth bombs, science-backed insights, and a big dose of real talk with fertility expert Kristen Karchmer. Together we peel back the layers of fertility burnout and talk about why women who “do everything right” are often th...

“What dictates your future is how you continue to move through these things. The more you can up-level, the more you can clear what’s in your way, the easier it is to live in these realities that haven’t manifested yet.”

• The concept of the morphic field and how it relates to fertility

• How personal experience creates new realities of possibility

• The power of meditation to release fear, resentment, and control patterns

• Al...

“The reality you’re in now can literally not be the reality you’re in in six months.”

Topics Discussed:

• Breaking free from infertility negativity and victim mode
• How joy, peace, and surrender impact fertility outcomes
• The role of cellular health, gut healing, and emotional well-being
• Intuition as a superpow...

“You don’t have fertility issues, you have a gut health issue.”

Topics Discussed:

• How parasites and gut health impact fertility
• The emotional toll of trying to conceive while traveling
• Supplements, diet, and the overwhelm of doing “all the things”
• Why surrender is the hardest but most powerful shift

“Grief isn’t just emotional, it’s cellular.”

Topics Discussed: 

• Unacknowledged grief and its impact on fertility
• Miscarriage, IVF failure, and invisible layers of loss
• How grief gets stored in the body and nervous system
• Science-backed effects of unresolved grief on hormones and immunity
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