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August 7, 2025 19 mins

Food for Thought Thoughts with Dark Cancer

Season 2, Episode 7: How Charismatic Are You? (A 6-Point Test)

What is charisma? Is it an innate gift, or a skill that can be learned? In this episode of the Essential Skills series, Dark Cancer demystifies charisma, breaking it down into a set of practical, learnable skills that anyone can develop.

This episode is your guide to understanding the qualities that make a person magnetic and influential. The host explains that charisma is the result of excellent communication and interpersonal skills, a combination of influence (leadership and presence) and affability (being approachable and pleasant).

The centerpiece of the episode is a 6-point self-test from the University of Toronto that allows you to measure your own charisma score. The host also provides a deep dive into the components of influence and affability, covering:

  • The importance of confidence, optimism, and resilience.
  • Why charismatic people are good storytellers.
  • The "swimming swan" analogy for emotional control.
  • How to build rapport by being a genuine and active listener.

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#Charisma #EssentialSkills #InterpersonalSkills #CommunicationSkills #Influence #Leadership #Confidence #SelfImprovement #SocialSkills #EmotionalIntelligence #Likeable #PersonalMagnetism #Podcast #DarkCancerMedia #FoodForThought #BeCharismatic #BodyLanguage #Storytelling

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