One of the seduction community’s most prolific seducers, nightlife pro and admitted sex addict Pablo Garcia discusses his approach to getting lots of hookups with very hot girls. His biggest tools: sexual touch, sexual conversation, and strategic venue changes.
Highlights include:
• How Pablo started to use nonverbal escalation to sleep with lots of girls (6:08)
• What is game? The “Stop Light” paradigm (10:35)
• The key to loving girls (11:54)
• The problem of talking about game with the uninitiated (14:30)
• What kind of venues does Pablo like most for night game? (18:01)
• How to use venue changes to increase comfort with girls you meet at night (18:39)
• The approach in a bar vs. the approach in a club (19:42)
• What Pablo does during his introduction to a new girl (22:21)
• The importance of fundamental (you can’t skip these!) (22:46)
• Guys who are used to seeing women as either pure or whores (26:05)
• How to achieve a genuine “don’t give a fuck” mentality (very attractive to women) (29:30)
• Is it a challenge to start a new conversation with a girl? (32:38)
• Should you make sure a girl sees you looking at her? (33:46)
• How Pablo spots his targets (34:28)
• What makes a girl a good target? (35:21)
• How the approach differs for introverts vs. extraverts (36:40)
• How to attract women with your eyes (37:28)
• Verbal approaches vs. nonverbal approaches (39:07)
• Being a sex addict with a high sex drive, and how this impacts results (40:36)
• The signs a girl is a “freak” who loves to have sex (41:54)
• How Pablo brings out the “freak” in a girl who is a freak (45:12)
• Why talking about sex serves as a freeway to the bedroom (49:16)
• The waist-grab, the neck-feel, and other ways to escalate physically (51:33)
• “The Bold Move” - how to tell her exactly what you want to do with her (54:01)
• Making her feel small, dominated, taken care of, and surrendered (55:06)
• How Pablo makes women feel these emotions (56:36)
• What signs tell you you can sexualize the courtship (57:51)
• What to do if she tries to deny she likes sex (58:55)
• Ways to touch her that sexualize the courtship (60:15)
• When to extract a girl to another venue, or to your or her place (61:49)
• The importance of making sure she’s a “green light” before the invite home (63:30)
• How to get a girl alone in the venue with you to talk to her (65:22)
• How to get a girl’s friends on your side in the group (66:04)
• What Pablo’s end game is to pull girls home (68:39)
Listen online: www.girlschase.com/content/touch-girl-and-take-her-home-podcast-pablo-garcia
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