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July 24, 2025 92 mins

In 2008, Tom Vander Woude died saving the life of his youngest son. But this radical self-gift was really the culmination of a quiet life of daily virtue with a heart of faith.

Chris Vander Woude, the fifth of Tom and Mary Ellen’s seven sons, now carries the story of his father’s life and death across the country, as well as sharing the process towards canonization that began this year with the assignment of a postulator in Rome. Chris joins us today to speak about fatherhood and the extraordinary man who exemplified it for him.

Chris invites you to reach out to him at 5thvwson@gmail.com or info@tvwguild.org.

Chapters:

00:04:50 The life of Tom Vander Woude
00:07:34 His sacrificial death
00:17:17 His character
00:23:23 Physical strength: one’s readiness for action
00:28:52 Faith: one’s trust and mission
00:39:18 Fatherhood and Down syndrome
00:50:52 Father of seven sons: tandem work
01:00:10 Tom’s discipline: priorities and good humor
01:04:39 Hosting and friend culture
01:07:44 Tom as a husband
01:13:03 Balancing family and community
01:17:22 Towards canonization
01:28:44 “Man fully alive”

Links:

Tom Vander Woude Guild, website

A Father’s Sacrifice, video interviews with the Vander Woude family

The Father: 30 Meditations to Draw You into the Heart of God by Fr. Mark-Mary Ames, featuring Tom Vander Woude’s story

Tragedy at Rattlesnake Falls: Opus Dei Mourns the Drowning of Three of Its Members, National Catholic Register, 3 July 2025

Also on the Forum:

Forming Families, Forming Saints featuring Fr. Carter Griffin

To the Glory of God and the Memory of Emil Beer by Mark Grannis

Featured opportunities:

Convivium for Teaching Men at The Heights School (November 13-15, 2025)

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