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May 22, 2025 44 mins

Do you ever worry that your nurturing instincts might be holding your children back from true independence?

Today I'm diving into the strange world of "son-bands" - when a mother attaches to her son in a way that's more appropriate for a partner.

In this episode, I explore how modern parenting culture has blurred the boundaries between healthy attachment and unhealthy dependence.

You'll discover:
- The shocking social media trend normalizing mother-son enmeshment
- Why the "devouring mother" phenomenon prevents children from launching
- How gentle parenting can accidentally create codependence when boundaries disappear
- Six practical strategies to foster healthy attachment without sacrificing independence -

The surprising reason your partner should come before your child in your emotional hierarchy This isn't about making you feel guilty—it's about recognizing the subtle patterns that might be keeping both you and your children from thriving. However, with small adjustments to your approach, you can maintain deep connection while empowering your children to become truly independent. Ready to implement these strategies in your family?

Join us in The Studio (https://hifam.com/studio) for ongoing support and implementation (and so much more!).
And remember - a strong marriage is your child's best protection against unhealthy attachment patterns. Discover how to revitalize your relationship at Married U: https://married-u.com/university 

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