Today's guest is licensed marriage and family therapist Carmella Whitehead. Carmella's hidden story is literally life changing but her everyday work is just as compelling and full of lessons in happiness, marriage, and parenting and how those begin with a confident sense of understanding yourself.
We were not afraid to get into sensitive topics that run through the very heart of her work with couples. Including issues that men face holding onto frustrations and pain, how that affects them and their marriage. It made me realize and appreciate two aspects of my life that perhaps I take for granted. One is how grateful I am that my wife will listen to me vent and she doesn't judge and the time I get with my buddy Scott who occasionally lets me work out with him a few times a week. Having a friend you can share your joys and frustrations with and talk to without the risk of being judged is so vital.
It's just one of many interesting and valuable takeaways from one of the most insightful guests we've ever had.
On today's podcast...
6:40 - How Carmela found her way to marriage therapy
12:21 - How to give advice on marriage when you're not married
18:10 - Common issues in marriage therapy
20:50 - Why do men have trouble expressing emotions?
22:37 - Are women the biggest shamers of men?
25:08 - What everyone craves most out of other people
26:29 - The difference between empathy and fixing
32:40 - A near death experience changes Carmela's life
51:40 - What Carmela's children teach her everyday
More about today's guest...
Carmella is a licensed individual and couples psychotherapist who helps you to simplify your complex situation so that you can move forward with purpose, clarity, and direction. You can find out more about her and her services at http://www.carmellawhitehead.com/
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